Thank you so much Dominica, I experience multiple punishers in my life. Just got victory over one. So good to listen to this teaching! It means God is pleased with me the way I handled it! So strengthening! I think I need to close doors for any punisher to come in.
Thank you, thank you, thank you for saying that you need to separate from physically abusive partners. So many want to suffer in silence, thinking that is the “suffering” the Bible means. No. The Bible says both ihre about masochism. God decides our trials, not us. And gaslighting. Gaslighting is emotional abuse. I remember when I thought I was going insane, and was going insane to an extent, because I didn’t understand what my partner was doing to me. “That never happened.” How do you argue with that? Thank you for bringing these things to light. The work you’re doing is fantastic. Thank you.
Thank You, I needed to hear this years ago...I thought I was strong enough to handle the rage that live in him, I got in Gods way, did not stay away, and yes that rage does get worse, Thanks again for this video.....
Yup.. me too. I thought i was strong enough too. I left 9 months ago. The week I was leaving..and he was there while I was packing. He threatened me.. that I better watch my back. Since I've been gone..21 hrs away... from people who have seen him and or just talked to him.. he's gotten worse. People are seeing the side of him that I was seeing. He's gotten worse..I had to quit taking to him on the phone.. God is convicting him... that's the demons in him. But.. God is restoring this marriage.. God is healing my husband. He is being saved and delivered
What if the punishment is seperation? I'm praying for my ex girlfriend for her to be healed and any bitterness and anger and fear to be broken. I've made mistakes and so has she. And she became hopeless the enemy took her hope. I pray she can get it back and be happy again with or without me being closer to God. Working on my relationship with God and Jesus and discovering myself in them has been an amazing journey over the last two months and it's only getting better. God bless you all.
😊Thank you so very much. Confirming with God's word that i did the right thing..I separated from my spouse. I miss him so much.. But God has given me peaec, joy and more blessings than I could've imagined in the 9 months I've been away. I heard so loudly...LEAVE. I kept praying to make sure that it was God telling me..and it kept getting worse..So I listened. I declare: My h is saved and delivered. My h love Jesus more than me😊
My x from 2-1/2 yrs used another persons social media account to accuse me of something this morning. We were on staff in a ministry together. The impeccable timing of this.... I left the ministry to escape the abusive relationship.
This is so hard, I've been so scared even when I know the Lord has fought for me. I scare myself for being so crazy to be loyal to someone who has been abusing me even when I know its wrong and I've went along with it and I feel so ashamed and guilty, not only bc I disobeyed God but I'm enabling that sin in the person I loved that I started out praying for then became apathetic to their sin and started going along with it and I KNOW BETTER and the shame of that is overwhelming. I learned I can't stand between anyone and their sin only God can and I've been so heartbroken and never wanted to leave him in hopes of God delivering him. I ended up close to death spiritually and God stopped me in my path and showed me his mercy and I nearly slipped back into the grip of this person and at the same time I want to move but I keep thinking I'm going to miss it when the Lord saves him. I'm a mess rn
Sorry for the double comment, but a word i just absolutely love that keeps popping up here is “restoration.” I need restoration for sure. And I trust that God will do a good work in my spouse until then. TW abuse My now-husband used to verbally/emotionally abuse me for dressing wrong, and it escalated; he began to verbally and emotionally abuse me for being a Christian. For going to church. For doing anything he didn’t like. If I called him out or try to talk to him about his issues, he would punish me by forcing me into bed to take a nap. A nap! He used to force me to sleep, didn’t matter the time of day, if I got upset or if I tried to even have a discussion. He’d gaslight me and say I’m making a big deal and force me into bed where I had to stay. And then, it escalated again, he would force me into bed and r*pe me. He had already been abusing me sexually, but he had never used it as punishment…until he did.
😢🙏💚😔 Wish i also not reacting badly or also being the one who is lashing out or as the evil one... And wish none of us were... And with the true light Loving God source Spirit Creator and Christ was already winning within all our hearts and minds 😢 help us all where we are weak mentally Spiritually physically about these issues and knowing that's we are also in the wrong programmed as becoming the bad one too 😢
Wish none of us enemies or having issues with receiving the true good loving God source Spirit Creator Christ Christos saviour truth and being saved... Wish none of us as enemies or belonging to evil and we are all with the true loving God source Spirit Creator most high and the true light Christos saviour
Dominic, I was hoping you could give me the right words to answer my adult son, when he asks, "If there is a God, then why are so many people in poverty"? I'm asking God for an answer too. I'm also praying you have some words and/or scripture verses you could give. He's waiting on my reply. Please help me.
You might check out Ligonier Ministries Q&A sessions and Grace to You Q&A sessions. Both are on TH-cam. They biblically answer lots of questions and I know this question is often asked.
The Walking Through Calvary Prodigal Spouse course would be best. Please visit www.restoringrelationships.org/offers/FCTDYvpo/checkout for more information!
You are one the only counselors who speak from truth and not from human arrogance.
Thank you so much Dominica, I experience multiple punishers in my life. Just got victory over one. So good to listen to this teaching! It means God is pleased with me the way I handled it! So strengthening! I think I need to close doors for any punisher to come in.
Thank you, thank you, thank you for saying that you need to separate from physically abusive partners. So many want to suffer in silence, thinking that is the “suffering” the Bible means. No. The Bible says both ihre about masochism. God decides our trials, not us.
And gaslighting. Gaslighting is emotional abuse. I remember when I thought I was going insane, and was going insane to an extent, because I didn’t understand what my partner was doing to me. “That never happened.” How do you argue with that? Thank you for bringing these things to light.
The work you’re doing is fantastic. Thank you.
Thank You, I needed to hear this years ago...I thought I was strong enough to handle the rage that live in him, I got in Gods way, did not stay away, and yes that rage does get worse,
Thanks again for this video.....
Yup.. me too. I thought i was strong enough too. I left 9 months ago. The week I was leaving..and he was there while I was packing. He threatened me.. that I better watch my back.
Since I've been gone..21 hrs away... from people who have seen him and or just talked to him.. he's gotten worse. People are seeing the side of him that I was seeing.
He's gotten worse..I had to quit taking to him on the phone..
God is convicting him... that's the demons in him.
But.. God is restoring this marriage.. God is healing my husband. He is being saved and delivered
What a great video. You are teaching deliverance. Churches don’t hardly teach this. Thanks for sharing
So good to learn how depression developes und punishing relationships!!
What if the punishment is seperation?
I'm praying for my ex girlfriend for her to be healed and any bitterness and anger and fear to be broken. I've made mistakes and so has she. And she became hopeless the enemy took her hope. I pray she can get it back and be happy again with or without me being closer to God. Working on my relationship with God and Jesus and discovering myself in them has been an amazing journey over the last two months and it's only getting better. God bless you all.
😊Thank you so very much. Confirming with God's word that i did the right thing..I separated from my spouse. I miss him so much.. But God has given me peaec, joy and more blessings than I could've imagined in the 9 months I've been away. I heard so loudly...LEAVE. I kept praying to make sure that it was God telling me..and it kept getting worse..So I listened.
I declare:
My h is saved and delivered.
My h love Jesus more than me😊
Thank you for this message. I receive this video full of wisdom. I'm seeking the Lord's wisdom, In Jesus Name Amen.
"I don't think I have the faith, obey it anyway" thats been my downfall. Reasoning in the flesh
My x from 2-1/2 yrs used another persons social media account to accuse me of something this morning. We were on staff in a ministry together. The impeccable timing of this.... I left the ministry to escape the abusive relationship.
Once broken, game over, never take them back
Thank you so much, I'm learning a lot .
Thanks for teaching spiritual warfare
This is so hard, I've been so scared even when I know the Lord has fought for me. I scare myself for being so crazy to be loyal to someone who has been abusing me even when I know its wrong and I've went along with it and I feel so ashamed and guilty, not only bc I disobeyed God but I'm enabling that sin in the person I loved that I started out praying for then became apathetic to their sin and started going along with it and I KNOW BETTER and the shame of that is overwhelming. I learned I can't stand between anyone and their sin only God can and I've been so heartbroken and never wanted to leave him in hopes of God delivering him. I ended up close to death spiritually and God stopped me in my path and showed me his mercy and I nearly slipped back into the grip of this person and at the same time I want to move but I keep thinking I'm going to miss it when the Lord saves him. I'm a mess rn
Sorry for the double comment, but a word i just absolutely love that keeps popping up here is “restoration.” I need restoration for sure. And I trust that God will do a good work in my spouse until then.
TW abuse
My now-husband used to verbally/emotionally abuse me for dressing wrong, and it escalated; he began to verbally and emotionally abuse me for being a Christian. For going to church. For doing anything he didn’t like.
If I called him out or try to talk to him about his issues, he would punish me by forcing me into bed to take a nap. A nap! He used to force me to sleep, didn’t matter the time of day, if I got upset or if I tried to even have a discussion. He’d gaslight me and say I’m making a big deal and force me into bed where I had to stay.
And then, it escalated again, he would force me into bed and r*pe me. He had already been abusing me sexually, but he had never used it as punishment…until he did.
Thank you for this. 🙏🏽
Thank for brendon, im not punshing him others in the bueness are punish him
😢🙏💚😔
Wish i also not reacting badly or also being the one who is lashing out or as the evil one... And wish none of us were... And with the true light Loving God source Spirit Creator and Christ was already winning within all our hearts and minds 😢 help us all where we are weak mentally Spiritually physically about these issues and knowing that's we are also in the wrong programmed as becoming the bad one too 😢
Wish none of us enemies or having issues with receiving the true good loving God source Spirit Creator Christ Christos saviour truth and being saved...
Wish none of us as enemies or belonging to evil and we are all with the true loving God source Spirit Creator most high and the true light Christos saviour
Please pray for my marriage
Dominic, I was hoping you could give me the right words to answer my adult son, when he asks, "If there is a God, then why are so many people in poverty"? I'm asking God for an answer too. I'm also praying you have some words and/or scripture verses you could give. He's waiting on my reply. Please help me.
The world has free will since disobedient took place! But we live by faith and not by sight!
You might check out Ligonier Ministries Q&A sessions and Grace to You Q&A sessions. Both are on TH-cam. They biblically answer lots of questions and I know this question is often asked.
Then Peter said, “Silver or gold I do not have, but what I do have I give you. In the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, walk.” ACTS 3:6
Which course is best if you want your spouse to be healed? Online Journey?
The Walking Through Calvary Prodigal Spouse course would be best. Please visit www.restoringrelationships.org/offers/FCTDYvpo/checkout for more information!