I feel like I found the one but she has a lot of problems including some childhood trauma bpd and she doesn't know how to express her feelings very well, but ever since I met her she's the only one I've been looking at and we fell out like 3 times but she happened to come back into my life Everytime, I was waiting for her and I got rejected three times but somehow she's still here, God told me while I was playing Roblox with her to let her go, so I told her I'll talk to her again when I become become happier and become less sinful and most importantly become closer with God and I feel that I achieved all of it but I don't know yet and I wanna ask what should I do? Sorry to just dump like that I just need help tbh
@@xotticsantana3112 Nothing is impossible with Christ. And remeber true love never fails. If yes, it wasnt true love. And I would also say that love isnt a feeling. Emotions are fleeting. But love is a choice. A decision you make. That you will be with the person in good or bad for eternity. That is all I can say.
1000+ Christian videos say the exact same thing. In order to find a godly woman you need to get out of your comfort zone and start approaching and socializing with woman or with your friends more often but above all else always seek God first just like it said in Matthew 6:33
I used to actually just believe that God would magically bring a girl into my life. I realized in my walk with God that it isn't how it works. Whether you're a man or woman it's good to approach someone that you find attractive. Everytime i go out in public i don't really approach girls mainly for 2 reasons 1. Where i'm still focusing on God and not currently seeking a relationship and 2. Where i was stuck in lust for 3 1/2 years it makes me a bit nervous to approach girls. But it's definitely easier for me now.
Yes, best chances at church though. Mennonite, amish, pentecostals, spanish catholics, phillippine catholics, deep south girls, texas gals, saw some new york gals all good real christians still
I know I should start to approach them but what is holding me back along with the comfortable area is the fact that even tho if the girl would agree to go on date I have no idea how I would hold conversation with someone for hours😓
Just pray about it and tell her upfront that you don't know what to talk about. One of girls asked me to pray for food at restaurant back then I did not know much on cost of love. Like for example I liked mountain biking but my father had to fix my bike Everytime I ride one. But I never thanked my father when he was alive I even thought that he did not love me. Selfish. Wanted more for my self then for benefit of another person . Back to that girl she did not like me. Later I understood how bad I was. But one thing that I would say I am happy that I go out with some. Oh I you guys go out take with you your church friends. I did not married but should have married ones who liked me when I was 18. There was a girl that had problem with her body but that is erelavant looking back. She give her life to Jesus at early age, I did not. Now I have done so but through age of porn dependency in my early age it hard to get married. So pray about her, stay avail l away from this world, music, movies, games, everything that does not glorifies God and Jesus and perhaps you might find somebody from God
That fear is irrational. I thought the same thing back in the day, but what I found out was actually very obvious: real Christian women have Christian traits. They are kind, they show grace, they are less judgmental. Literally, you have SO much room to mess up without totally ruining your chances. Your mistake is that you’re applying worldly values to Christian women. That’s illogical. Just get out of your head; you got this.
There's nothing wrong with walking up to random women as long as you're not creepy. But I personally would never walk up to a random woman, mainly because I would find it really weird (maybe it is because I'm Swedish I don't know). I think that if you wanna find a godly woman, first of all you need to pray to God for her, second of all, be outgoing, don't just sit at home, join a community, (preferably a Christian community), start talking with new people. And then if you see a woman that you find beautiful in that new community you join or whatever, then you can go up to her. I don't think that it is effective to walk up to a random woman on the street (maybe I'm just completely wrong but this is how I see it now).
I’ve already become celibate SR for 2 years now, but I agree that I have to put myself out there more; my biggest thing is when start off convos hookup culture makes the guy to be a villain
Start your convos off about godly things. If she’s Christian, she’ll likely respond with grace and kindness; if she’s not a Christian, you’ll know pretty quick, and that’s not a person you want in your life. Her rejection is a welcome blessing.
Im waiting until marriage and looking for someone that is doing the same Meaning, I can’t find that, only God can provide me that when I deserve it, currently I don’t. Not even joking no matter how good or good looking I instantly detach when I figure out she isn’t doing the same or already broke that boundary It’s a good and bad thing, but I mean if I can do it, so could’ve all of us right?
I mean theres various reasons that aren’t sexual but your rhetorical question is a good one that can be interpreted wrong in the wrong comment section (Instagram)
@@WitnessToTheEnd do you mean that it’s rhetorical because it’s obvious that it’s for sexual reasons? Well, he never said they were fornicating so I don’t think this is what you meant And if it’s not for sexual reasons, is it because of sexual temptation? There is no sin or law prescribed in the Bible that keeps to unmarried people from entering the same room. If there is a verse on that, please tell me. But this goes under the category of personal conviction, and if they are not personally convicted about it you cannot force your conscience on this issue of liberty.
I think you might want to create a video about idolism because even having a supermodel cam be idolism please do not quote me on that and also some words in this are still somewhat tied to sin
I just found oneee. Lets GOOOOOOO guys. Hope you all find her too. Blessed is the LORD. God has a plan for all of us.
I feel like I found the one but she has a lot of problems including some childhood trauma bpd and she doesn't know how to express her feelings very well, but ever since I met her she's the only one I've been looking at and we fell out like 3 times but she happened to come back into my life Everytime, I was waiting for her and I got rejected three times but somehow she's still here, God told me while I was playing Roblox with her to let her go, so I told her I'll talk to her again when I become become happier and become less sinful and most importantly become closer with God and I feel that I achieved all of it but I don't know yet and I wanna ask what should I do? Sorry to just dump like that I just need help tbh
@@xotticsantana3112pray for discernment and remember it’s meant to be god will make it happen. Love is patient and kind and forgiving my brother.
@xotticsantana3112 Just ask God and he will direct your paths. Hope this helped brother
@@Vincent-yp1gj guess that's the only really thing I can do honestly thank you brother
@@xotticsantana3112 Nothing is impossible with Christ. And remeber true love never fails. If yes, it wasnt true love. And I would also say that love isnt a feeling. Emotions are fleeting. But love is a choice. A decision you make. That you will be with the person in good or bad for eternity. That is all I can say.
Godly men: It’s so hard to find godly women.
Godly women: it’s so hard to find godly men.
Christian men don't go up randomly to women and date them if he finds her beautiful. Christian men pray to God to be lead to the right one.
Right she knows what you want
He knows all of our thoughts and more as well as our hearts even while we were all sinners He loves us and takes care of us.
1000+ Christian videos say the exact same thing. In order to find a godly woman you need to get out of your comfort zone and start approaching and socializing with woman or with your friends more often but above all else always seek God first just like it said in Matthew 6:33
I used to actually just believe that God would magically bring a girl into my life. I realized in my walk with God that it isn't how it works. Whether you're a man or woman it's good to approach someone that you find attractive. Everytime i go out in public i don't really approach girls mainly for 2 reasons 1. Where i'm still focusing on God and not currently seeking a relationship and 2. Where i was stuck in lust for 3 1/2 years it makes me a bit nervous to approach girls. But it's definitely easier for me now.
Atta boy
Ain’t no way we need to approach them😂 idk what to say to her
@@nico-xi6ux 😂
Meanwhile me just being scared of going to girls in public:
@@nico-xi6ux If we can't even approach a woman how can we expect to lead our family and our wives?
Let’s go my brother
God provides when it’s needed, good word
Man this spoke to me, there is this one woman I see here and there and I feel like ima ask her out.
While I, a Godly woman, can't even find a Godly man who is available :)
I NEEDED THIS BRO THANK YOUUUUU
Amen Thank You I needed this
im trying too be that woman for God and someone else I hope I will be with the right guy one day 🙏🙏
it's me! 🎉🎉 (jkjk😂)
You should tell your girl friends about it. Tell them about how to be a woman of God.
we need way more Christian women role models
This is really good man! Great vid, I think I’m a bit young to be working on that, but definitely gonna keep this is mind. ✝️
Amen bro.
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Yes, best chances at church though. Mennonite, amish, pentecostals, spanish catholics, phillippine catholics, deep south girls, texas gals, saw some new york gals all good real christians still
Ppreciate ya
I know I should start to approach them but what is holding me back along with the comfortable area is the fact that even tho if the girl would agree to go on date I have no idea how I would hold conversation with someone for hours😓
Just pray about it and tell her upfront that you don't know what to talk about. One of girls asked me to pray for food at restaurant back then I did not know much on cost of love. Like for example I liked mountain biking but my father had to fix my bike Everytime I ride one. But I never thanked my father when he was alive I even thought that he did not love me. Selfish. Wanted more for my self then for benefit of another person .
Back to that girl she did not like me. Later I understood how bad I was. But one thing that I would say I am happy that I go out with some. Oh I you guys go out take with you your church friends.
I did not married but should have married ones who liked me when I was 18. There was a girl that had problem with her body but that is erelavant looking back. She give her life to Jesus at early age, I did not. Now I have done so but through age of porn dependency in my early age it hard to get married. So pray about her, stay avail l away from this world, music, movies, games, everything that does not glorifies God and Jesus and perhaps you might find somebody from God
dont let the fear of fear kill your goals, do it and say whatever you feel like, you are just as confused as everyone else.
That fear is irrational. I thought the same thing back in the day, but what I found out was actually very obvious: real Christian women have Christian traits. They are kind, they show grace, they are less judgmental. Literally, you have SO much room to mess up without totally ruining your chances. Your mistake is that you’re applying worldly values to Christian women. That’s illogical. Just get out of your head; you got this.
There's nothing wrong with walking up to random women as long as you're not creepy. But I personally would never walk up to a random woman, mainly because I would find it really weird (maybe it is because I'm Swedish I don't know). I think that if you wanna find a godly woman, first of all you need to pray to God for her, second of all, be outgoing, don't just sit at home, join a community, (preferably a Christian community), start talking with new people. And then if you see a woman that you find beautiful in that new community you join or whatever, then you can go up to her. I don't think that it is effective to walk up to a random woman on the street (maybe I'm just completely wrong but this is how I see it now).
I’ve already become celibate SR for 2 years now, but I agree that I have to put myself out there more; my biggest thing is when start off convos hookup culture makes the guy to be a villain
Start your convos off about godly things. If she’s Christian, she’ll likely respond with grace and kindness; if she’s not a Christian, you’ll know pretty quick, and that’s not a person you want in your life. Her rejection is a welcome blessing.
Good video! I guess a question that I have is how can godly christian women also find godly men?
Wondering this too.. other than church or people online in other countries. I’m in Canada.
My siblings found their partners at missionary camps.
Im waiting until marriage and looking for someone that is doing the same
Meaning, I can’t find that, only God can provide me that when I deserve it, currently I don’t. Not even joking no matter how good or good looking I instantly detach when I figure out she isn’t doing the same or already broke that boundary
It’s a good and bad thing, but I mean if I can do it, so could’ve all of us right?
the Minecraft music at the end
I really hope you're right.
That's how you get a girlfriend brother I call it concubines
where is the discord invite?
Why would you enter the bedroom of a woman you are not married to?
He said so in the video, to hang out and watch a movie
@breesty4229 I believe you are misunderstanding the point of the rhetorical question.
I mean theres various reasons that aren’t sexual but your rhetorical question is a good one that can be interpreted wrong in the wrong comment section (Instagram)
No save it for marriage
@@WitnessToTheEnd do you mean that it’s rhetorical because it’s obvious that it’s for sexual reasons?
Well, he never said they were fornicating so I don’t think this is what you meant
And if it’s not for sexual reasons, is it because of sexual temptation?
There is no sin or law prescribed in the Bible that keeps to unmarried people from entering the same room. If there is a verse on that, please tell me. But this goes under the category of personal conviction, and if they are not personally convicted about it you cannot force your conscience on this issue of liberty.
I think you might want to create a video about idolism because even having a supermodel cam be idolism please do not quote me on that and also some words in this are still somewhat tied to sin
Does your church have youth gatherings? And outings
sounds like a lot of work