Sakamata ran away from home when she was a kid【Komainu / Clip / Hololive】
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 2 พ.ย. 2022
- Sakamata Chloe wasn’t able to have a free time and couldn’t hang out with her friends when she was a kid because of taking many kinds of lessons.
So, one day, she skipped her lesson without telling her mom, but her mom noticed it and asked her to leave, and Chloe ran away from her house.
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P.S. This is kinda sad story, but we wanted to animate this.
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Chloe's mom: "Don't come back home anymore!"
Chloe: "Don't threaten with a good time"
Chad orca
Chloe : bet
Chloe: Understandable, have a good day
Tsundere mom
You've threaten me with a good time, now suffer the consequence, MOTHER
Chloe actually did what kids will often say.
this is what my dog would do. i treat my dog very well and he loves me, but if he had the opportunity to run outside on streets freely then he ALWAYS WOULD
Parents don’t realize you can’t treat any say things like that to kids, cuz they’ll just believe it at face value. Gotta be patient with the little munchkins
@@ptl770 Reminds me of myself when I was a kid. My mum left me standing in a parking lot once, because I really tested the limits on that day. She thought she would just drive around the block and pick me up again. But, by the time she returned, I was long gone. I remember thinking to myself: "So, fine, now that you left me standing here, I'm gonna move to my grandparents instead.". I was maybe 8 or 9 years old back then. I walked through half of the city until I found one of those public coin phones, begged some stranger for a few cents and proceeded to call my grandpa, who came to pick me up. By that time my mother had already alerted all of the staff of the supermarket that I'm missing, called basically every available family member and was on her way to the police. The one getting taught a lesson that day wasn't me. ;-)
Based orca. Commit to the bit.
@@ptl770
Chloe did nothing wrong, she just did what she was told
Chloe wa warakunai yo ne
giri giri wakurunai chloe wwwwwwwww
Of course she did nothing wrong, what would she have done wrong in this situation?
Seams like Chloe's childhood wasn't easy but don't tell your kids to not come home again that can just end badly.
*Check another box in what my dad did and shouldn't have*
I love him, like all my family, I only have one of them, there only one of "him", same with my sister and mother, they each of them maked terrible mistake, not the worst but a lot.
Most elementary kid don't dare to stay outdoor by him/herself until dark, but the Orca was built different
Got told that when i was a kid, I went to school even thought it was closed lol.
@@worldslargestnerd there's nothing wrong with correcting someone. It just depends on you how you will take it. I don't think he meant any harm by his comment. Please people, dont get offended by being corrected by someone else, there's nothing wrong with it unless you were ridiculed in the process.
@Jose Romero Imagine thinking being an annoying asshole to strangers on the internet is OK. It's a comment on a TH-cam post, not a college dissertation.
Gotta be careful what you tell your kids.. they'll take you 100% at your word 🤣
Definitely
Chloe was not at fault. She obeyed her mother’s words when she was locked out after all. 😅
Giri Giri Warukunai Chloe-chan. 😂
When I was a kid, I did the same thing with more angrier and hanged around in front of house, since I had no idea where to go.
I remember back in middle school in like 2nd or 3rd grade one of the boys who were not really good at mostly any subjects got a bad grade and he broke down crying saying his mother said he won't be allowed to go home if he brought another bad grade. The poor guy definitely took what they said 100%.
Maybe just don't threaten to kick your children out. Maybe don't threaten them at all. Maybe, just maybe, you should treat your kids like actual human beings.
Mom: Get out and never come back!
Most kids: *emotional damage*
Mom: Get out and never come back!
Chloe: OKAY!!
No, most kids would also just leave.
Go away, don't come home
Sakamata: fair enough have a nice day
"don't mind me if i do"
"Wait, that's illegal."
As a teenager, my family kicked me out of the house, almost the same way, to much pressure because i was a "smart kid". They told me "If you don't like it, get the f out and don't bother coming back" several times, so one day I did it. I started living wherever i could, streets, friend's houses, until i got a job and manage to rent a place, i haven´t talk to them since then. Looking back, it was a harsh, some will say stupid, decision of my part, but you know, i was free. I graduated from uni, got a better career and now i live fully watching vtubers. BAD ENDING?
EDIT: Thank you for the grammatical corrections, as some of you guessed, english is not my first language, but i did want to share my experience since it was within the lines of Sakamata´s story.
Hey do you take your pills today?
Vtuber are the good ending
I can tell your first language isn't English, that's for sure.
My man lose in figth but won in war, i like it
A dub is a dub.
This exam life of kids in Asia really hit home... I got a mental breakdown back in Highschool and really, it's not a fun thing to remember these kinda stuffs. I'm glad Chloe is happy now and thing didn't really escalate from that.
Bruh i remember being bad at biology in highschool and failing tests, and the make up test was even harder for whatever reason. I came home and just cried a lot in front of my mom.
I learnt from an early age to let go,I was bad at math so I'm a regular in math make up test and remedials,and whenever I got bad grades I just let it go,but some of my high achiever friends actually cried when they just barely did not get the passing mark.
That's the first time that i realize how heavy the burden is on kids to keep up their grade,not only pressure from parents and teachers,bit also from the student who have lived in that environment themselves.
And that's also the first time I realize how nonchalant I am.
Dude I remember when I had a mental breakdown.
Was extremely indecisive in school so I just followed what my brother took for electives later on, which was infinitely harder and went from straight A student to a D-C average.
Dropped out one day because of a mental breakdown from not meeting my own expectations and parents berating me for it. Refused to go to school, ate little to nothing and just cried for days in bed, refusing to even move, before my parents decided to let me be. Took me like a couple years and a private school to get my life back on track.
They took my heart
I remember the time where my mom restricted me from playing games just to get good at math so yeah i really feel what chloe been through when she was young.
As a father
This shit hit hard
You have to balance your parenting attitude. Be strict but not too strict. Spoil your children but don’t spoil too much.
How much is a balance for that? You have to be your own judge for that. You know your children best after all.
don't do this to your daughter
@@user-fg9oy3uo3h How about, and I know this is crazy, don't lie to your children? Maybe don't hit them? If it's not okay to do it to an adult, why is it okay to do it to a child? Because the child is entirely dependent on you and too weak to actually stand up for themselves? That somehow makes it alright? Parenting culture is baffling to me.
This isn't directed at you btw, just a general point.
@@OperatorError0919 yeah I was forced to study too hard with no playtime as a kid + archery lessons and the forced folk dancing that for some reason I am obligated to do because of my parents doing it with a known dance troupe. When I don't want to do it my mother always keeps nagging and sometimes is acting like a total bitch like telling her sisters then the sisters will do a comment on me yeah.
I ain't gonna be a father with that type of parenting style
@@OperatorError0919 Lying? Hitting? All the things you mentioned didn't even cross my mind when I read the post your replying to. lmao
So uhhh, sounds like you have gone through some shit dude. Got some free time, wanna talk about it? lol
Chloe Mom: Don't come back to this house!
Chloe: *actually goes somewhere
Chloe Mom: Why did you ran away like that!?
Chloe: Hold up, this whole operation was YOUR idea!?
I had similar experience where I didn't came home for 2 days 1 night, after my dad Basically told me to leave for coming home 14 minutes late, and when he found me he asked why did I left and I said " cause you told me to 👁👄👁" (I got foods and place to sleep from my friends btw) I was about 9 or 10 at that time lol
Imagine if "Don't come back home anymore" were the last words you ever said to your child.
That is something I don't ever want to imagine.
Sadly...that has happened to some tho...they must feel a pain that can't be compared to anything else. Don't know anyone that this have happened to but there must've happened to some poor families somewhere, the regret they should feel...I'm gonna stop here before I get to emotional
I know someone, her parents told her they never wanted to see her again 2 hours later they found out she had been hit by a car on the way home from her grandmother she was 8 years old
@@davebernstein5788 ouch, that's really really sad...
Yeah... my past neighbor did this once(I overheard it when I was resting on my solo Berkas Raid Dungeon) and and it rained like hell after an hour, they saw their kid lifelessly floating in the next city~
I think they learned their lesson since they become nicer~
Punishment as a kid : Go to sleep , don't go out , eat healthy foods
Blessing as an adult : Got to sleep , doesn't need to go out , can afford to eat healthy foods
You guys were forced to eat healthy? I was forced to eat UN-healthy lol...
(Not to the point where it was easy for others to know something was up but my point still stands).
i feel so bad...I can't believe they unleashed a stinky orca, letting her roam around with that miasma is a possible world ending catastrophe.
SCP-10236-JP
(Keter Class)
SCP-10236-JP is a female humanoid orca who lives in the [Redacted] prefecture in the city of [Redacted] near the cost. SCP-10236-JP exudes a miasma like particles off her skin that is a Harriman Class 10+ in the odor scale as the scale doesn't go higher than 10 due to the abnormal number of carbon bonds that chemically make up the odor does not exist naturally.
The particles (Henceforth referred to as SCP-10236-JP-A) have the abnormal property of summoning aberrations (henceforth referred to as SCP-10236-JP-B) when an attempt to clean them is made (refer to incident SCP-10236-JP-1).
Containment of SCP-10236-JP is made in cooperation with [redacted] productions in which SCP-10236-JP is given an online platform to stream video games, it has been noted that this activity dramatically decreases the number of particles exhuded from SCP-10236-JP's skin and thus dramatically reducing the incidents of aberration formation which might lead to a Class-3 End of The World scenario (refer to Incident SCP-10236-JP-2) for which the reclassification from safe to Keter Class was made.
Under no circumstances should SCP-10236-JP be washed or cleaned, in the event of an SCP-10236-JP-B infestation, SCP agents should be dispatched to the locations and SCP-10236-JP be relocated to a new location immediately.
This really highlights how overly harsh punishments and miserable conditions only make bad things worse, especially for kids
it wasnt harsh
hmm? but then again i dont see anything wrong with this. sometime they need this kind of situation to happen so that they can bond.
@@phantomhearts5577 or just make a child realize their parents don't keep track of what they say and cause mistrust or even hatred. But yeah. Bonding.
@@reggielacey2235
If being kicked out of the house as an 8 year old isn't harsh I'm scared of what your definition is
@@phantomhearts5577 HUH?! Sorry, WHAT?!
If your kids becomes so happy they play around into far into the night when you are trying to make an example due to them not following your unfair expectations, I am pretty sure we know who were the unreasonable parties here.
A kid should be allowed to be a kid. The fact she wasn't getting almost any time with her friends due to studying is a bit too far into the helicopter parenting.
it because her parent fear causing the outburst
Making connections through spending some time with friends is more important than having to study like more than 10 hours a day.
@@aldyzero6676 friends are useless, if you want to be successful in life you just have to think about being better than the rest.
@@aldyzero6676 definitely, I wasn't even restricted like that but I still didn't do all I could to make friends. Now I can still learn stuff at the drop of a hat but I still think I should be making more friends on a daily basis. It doesn't seem like much in school since you're surrounded by a ton of people and often fall into a group, but when you're an adult and the only people you have contact with is a handful of people from work with no common interests and you've fallen out of contact with my of your friends from school it can get really lonely
@@aldyzero6676 exactly. Honestly studying isn't even that useful unless you're going into a a career that requires a lot of school and knowledge. Even then the most important thing is connections. An average person with good social skills and connections is more likely to succeed than someone who's smart but has no connections or social skills
Chloe's Mom: Don't come back home anymore!
Chloe: Woooo yeah baby that's what I've been waiting for that's what it's all about WOOOOOOo!
She and her mother is quite lucky. Other kids in her situation disappeared without a trace, never to be found.
Yeah Organs Traders are Quite a lot here in Egypt
This is Japan, kids don’t usually just up and disappear.
@@kabob21 you didn't see much in life didn't you ??
@@ahmedtag3904
They said usually. And they aren't wrong.
For fuck sakes, they are so willing to have children just walk themselves home from schools. Ever see those little routes kids take in elementary school lines holding hands in Japan?
Most people would call you crazy to just allow that much not even in Western countries. Just Asia in general.
It happens but not as much as say California, Wyoming and the like.
@@RavenCloak13 we are not talking about kids returning from school dude, im talking about a child being kicked out of their home
My dad had an absolute panic attack when he couldn't find me to pick me up at the end of grade school and was absolutely mad with worry when he found out I was at the little teacher break room just reading story books and not knowing that time passed by.
Granted, this is Asian parent levels of worried anger so I took that as a traumatic lesson by never reading another book that wasn't a textbook again.
I've got a similar story. back in middle school my dad wanted me to go wait at my grandma's house after school (or something along those lines) which was close by and i did go do that only it took much longer than expected because i took the path i already knew which was to go the opposite way basically past my own house and around the long way to my grandma's house instead of the much shorter direct route. suffice it to say my dad was not enthused when i was later found just still innocently walking to my destination.
Oh my god i just realized i was just acting exactly like a pikmin that day O_o
I’m actually glad that this was a lesson for her mother and not so much Chloe herself. There’s no excuse for kicking your own child out of the house. Overseas, child services would be on their way indefinitely.
I like that Sakamata told this story in a way that was lighthearted, I can imagine how this could be much more harsh in reality
This reminds me of a comment I saw on one of those Tumblr videos it went like " when you tell what you think is a funny story to your coworkers and they just look at you like 'oh I'm so sorry '
If you are a parent, or thinking of becoming one in the future:
I am a 30 year old man, half Japanese, half British. As expected, my Japanese mother pushed me to do well in my studies, but my dad came from a long line of teachers and had been to university so he expected me to go as well. I can't remember a time in my life when I *didn't* feel immense pressure on me to do well at school and be the perfect kid so my parents would be proud of me.
As you can probably guess, I was miserable. I was very shy and terrible at making friends. It didn't help that my family moved around a lot, so as soon as I made friends I lost them again. After a while, I just stopped trying. I became arrogant and self-absorbed as a way to protect myself: as I saw it, I didn't NEED anyone else.
The one thing I had was pride in was my schoolwork. I eventually *did* end up going to uni and, because I finally got some help and counselling there, I did well and got the top grade. Because academic work was the only thing I really knew how to do.
That was about ten years ago. I still don't have a stable job. The only friends I have are online. I have a chronic, painful disease that started back in uni and only got worse from there until I had to have emergency surgery. My parents don't live together anymore. They probably see me as nothing more than a burden.
Here's why I'm writing all this. If you ever have children, LET THEM BE CHILDREN. Let them play around, do stupid things and have fun. Let them hurt themselves and teach them how to get over it. Don't coddle them, don't pigeonhole them, and for the love of whatever god you believe in don't force them to study every single damn day. Study skills are nice to have, but they are no guarantee of success. There are other, more important life skills that they need to learn, and they won't learn those from any textbook in any school.
You can send your kids to all the lessons you want, but ultimately the most important lesson you can ever teach them is how to be happy being who they are. If you're constantly telling them that what they're doing is a mistake, eventually they will come to believe that THEY are a mistake. I definitely did. I've wished so many times that I'd never been born.
Don't worry about their future success; they'll become responsible adults when they're ready. The most tragic thing you can do to a kid is to steal their childhood from them. Please, if you care about your kids, don't do to them what my parents did to me. Otherwise they might end up like me. That is not a fate I would wish on anyone, no matter how much I hated them.
Thank you so much sir. You really showed us how to have good parents, as long as we learn from our parents in a friendly manner, we will adapt to being good parents such as your parents. Thanks for explaining, bye!
Godamn.... Hope things go well for you
God bless you. You'll always have a chance to make a better life for yourself. Don't give up!
Bro, hope you be happy... dont worry even if your best frends are online but the feeling are real... i can be one of them if you want
So you're saying... your mother is single?
Chloe's mom: Get out and don't return!
Chloe: That's all you had to say!
*proceeds to disappear with a huge Tasmanian Devil styled cloud of dust besides her*
Also Chloe's Mom once realization kicks in: OH NO
Sakamata's mother wanted Chloe to study hard and stay inside the house when she was younger, then later wanted her to get out of the house and sent her to New Zeeland because she wouldn't leave it.
Sounds like cause and effect. Parenting is hard.
More than Chloe running away from home, it sounded more like Chloe's mom got taught a lesson about parenting the hard way
Oof, I'm more surprised Chloe was comfortable talking about this.
Good work with the art as always.
"Don't come back home anymore!"
"Okay"
*Surprised pikachu face*
Man this entire story hits me right in the kokoro😭....
Part of the reason why you don't tell them about genders or indoctrinate them into thinking they are something they are not.
And yes I know I did a dick move by going political in a fun video. But it's a serious problem.
@@BrotherHood-xh9sg Big difference between saying "This is a thing which exists" and "you are this"
I feel this is one reason why Chloe act like slob today. Too much discipline at home make her way too relaxed when living alone
@@BrotherHood-xh9sg Ah yes, such a serious imaginary problem invented to make people angry so they'll vote a certain way, indeed.
@@NightKev mate, you can't claim it's imaginary when an entire video collection on youtube exists on teachers from a certain group bragging about indoctrinating their students in that ideology. When parents speak out in community centers vs. Schoolboards about this stuff. Like how 1 parent read a homosexual novel about how to suck cock, that the thirdgraders had to read.
"Well, well, well. If it isn't the consequences of my own actions."
-- Sakamama
As dangerous as this is. This will either teach the parents the hard way on what to not say to their kids or show the kids what a terrible parent they are
Chloe’s parents: raises a shut in.
Also Chloe’s parents: sends Chloe to New Zealand because she’s a shut in and wants her to go outside lol.
You think they are adults so they will know better, but no... So many adults should NEVER be parents. You have to have a stupid driving license to drive, but having kids is for everyone - that's bullshit.
Hanging out with other kids is an essential part of a kid's development as a person. Its not just playing, they learn social skills, how to interact, how to talk with others. If your kids does nothing but study all day and never plays with other kids, then you'll end up with a social shut in that will fail every single job interview because he has no idea how to properly greet his or her potential employer.
Mom: "Don't come back home!"
Chloe: "Understandable, have a nice day."
That happened to me one time, and I just walked away (I regret not running to this day), and my mom just pulled me back angrily and whipped me with her hand asking what was I thinking
In my head I was like;
"What do you think?"
I will always regret not running
I can relate to Chloe. I mean when I was 8 my mother said I don't have to go back home anymore. So that's what I did. Found me in another province later.
Don't come back home!
Chloe: Let's build a sand castle
Chloe is a genius.
Those kids like her always got great potential, but they needs time to discover or develop them.
As a professional Asian, been there, done all that. Everyone else think guys like Steven He and Uncle Roger are joking but they are actually spitting truth.
Chloe actually calling up her mother's bluff. I can't tell if she's smart or dumb for actually pulling it off.
That said, thanks for animating this clip. ^w^)
POV: Your mom kicks you from the house
Other kids: *Cries*
Chloe: Yay! I can play with my friends!
"i became a good kid" she was already a good kid!
Rushia has an almost identical story but she only got about 50 feet away from the house at most lol.
So about 20 footsteps.
Yes, we can convert that now.
Is there a clip? I googled subaru run away hololive and didn't get results.
Can you point us to the clip?
Like many things in the internet, source or didn't happen
Wasn't it rushia?
OMG I loled when Chloe's mom said she shouldn't come home anymore, and her reaction was WHOO HOO!!!!! XD
Also, Lui x Lui-nii-nii cameo XD
Oh you found them😏😏
This sounds like something straight out of a comedy sketch xD
Ngl she had the same childhood as me … 😅 all those random lessons
My mom did the same to me when I was in elementary school. Me and my brother made so much chaos, my mom had her nerves destroyed, she needed a break. We really thought she kicked us out. Then a few secs later after we were crying she opened the door and was like "GET IN! AND STOP MESSING AROUND!".
We stopped being such reckless bad kids. xD
I mean that's the desired response the parent want when they do this, to scare the kid. But then you do have kids like Chole
I think the reason why Chloe just went along is because she didn’t do anything « bad ». If she, I dunno, broke something and her mom put her outside she would’ve froze up bc she knows she’s in the wrong, but in this situation she was punished for wanting to play and yes her parents probably paid for her lessons n stuff, but it was still unfair and unjustified. So she didn’t have the notion that it was a punition, and she took it as the chance to play as long as she wanted.
Well that's honestly you and you brother's fault lol. Chloe here didn't do anything wrong, she just wanted to spend time with her friends.
There's some moral lesson from this video even though the story was from Chloe. The last part was hit me so much like how does parents taking care of their child even after they mad with the child. Safety of very important.
Chloe's Mom: Don't come back home anymore!
Chloe: Okay! **Runs away**
Chloe's Mom: **Surprised Pikachu face**
lmao, nice reference
"Don't come back home!"
Chloe: "A'ight, bet."
this is funny
also at the same time
this is deep and depressing
From a Chinese family and that shit about extra lessons is so true. I got signed up for tuition every year until I was 17.
I didn't have many friends because of that. Everything was study, study, study.
Now my job doesn't need any of what I learned.
New parents, please let your kids have fun and go out with friends. Smart people who are anti social almost always don't do as well compared to average people with great social skills.
This. Working in software dev in a megacorp right now after college, and I'm _almost_ at the point where I'd _almost_ call academia a scam.
Almost none of what I learned in college is applicable, and I know plenty of lateral hires who got in without a degree after internships and freelancing.
Honestly, if you're getting into higher ed, unless you plan to stay in academia forever, or it's a traditional engineering degree like Chem/Petro/Mech/Electric or Mecha, it just isn't worth it compared to trade schools, boot camps, apprenticeships, internships, etc.
Job experience and connections dominate unless it's one of those math-heavy degrees (software isn't quite one of them honestly), where it actually matters. Or you go into med or law school or something.
So many parents don't have a damn clue what they want out of their kid.
Unless they want the kid to follow in the footsteps of one of their parents (leveraging their parent's capital or connections), assuming you just want them to be as rich as possible with a healthy work/life balance, get them into a proper trade first, from which they can grow their skills.
There are massive advantages to starting early.
Biggest regret I have career-wise is refusing a writing gig for a local newspaper when I was a kid (dad knew the owner, but my mom stonewalled me into college).
The guy who grabbed that offer in my place is now making more than I make in tech… and he had _worse_ writing skills at the start and was sure I'd get the job when he thought we were both applying.
Asian parents man…
@@DefinitelyNotAMachineCultist True... So very true..
I consider myself lucky to have a job where the boss just says "just finish your work" rather than working overtime and shit like that.
Used that income to pay for therapy and life coaching. Never regretted that decision. Life feels more hopeful now.
But it sucks too knowing not everyone's so lucky
@@CB66941 Preach. Ended up using TH-cam for therapy as a kid because my parents (or at least mom) had that wonderful Asian habit of stigmatizing and forbidding actual therapy for me as a kid, and I can't really afford it now anyway (too many investments needed in other things).
Probably have multiple undiagnosed screwups in my head lol
I'm one of the lucky ones too though.
Live in a nice apartment, mostly working from home with Netflix & chill, in a 3rd world country where people starving seems to be getting more common.
My current employer is swell with low workloads, but doesn't pay much and is very bureaucratic.
I managed to hold on to a friend in Europe who ended up getting into a senior tech lead position.
Gave me tips to practice on LeetCode & Codeforces to ace their technical interviews.
He said that combined with a good word from him would basically guarantee I could work for them at 4x my current salary once my current yearly contract ends.
I can choose to part on good terms if there's no chance for promotion by then.
Feel pretty damn guilty about the other poor shmucks with useless degrees or none at all.
Was kinda surprised that a guy I know (with better grades than I ever had) who worked at a bank had to buy his own machine for work instead of the employer giving it to him at no expense like mine did.
Makes less for more work too…
Puts things into perspective…
I probably shouldn't whine as much about my parents gimping me even if it's true lol
This same thing happened to me when I was a child, my mom told me to not come home again and I went to the park to play without any concern, hours later she came after me to take dinner XD.
Thanks for the animation and for bringing back memories.
Chloe's mom: DON'T COME BACK HOME ANYMORE!
*Chloe wanders off*
Chloe's mom: wait that's not how this work
Wait that’s illegal
Communication is the most important. It's hard, but a parent need to explain to their kids why they're scolded. When I was a kid, 90% of the times I didn't know why my mom scold me. I just assumed that I was a bad kid. In school I had good grades and my friends told me that I was an honour student, but I didn't believe them one bit. It was ingrained in my mind that I'm bad and inferior to others. I didn't dare to have any dreams. I missed so many chances in life because I didn't dare to take it, I assumed it was only for "normal" people, not me.
I only realised that when I became an adult. I'm fine now, but I wasted a lot of years. Please communicate with your kids. No silent treatment, no passive aggressive, be frank, clear, and full of love.
man this is why communication between parent and child is so important! yeah kid chloe did something wrong, but seems like her mother simply scolded her w/o finding out WHY she didn't attend her lesson. hence cumulating in her mom kicking her from the house! mental health and happiness before grades, always!
Sounds funny and sad at the same time.
And people wonder why Chloe likes her grandma and doesn't bathe regularly. Childhood trauma sucks.
I remember threatening my parents with running away from home as a kid, and they'd just be like "alright, go ahead" which would of course make me very frustrated.
This animation is cute and all but it's also really sad to see how chloe's childhood went. I'm not making assumptions about chloe's mother but if Chloe was so desperate to play outside that she took "don't come back home" as permission to run off for the day, then that really says something.
My mom used to be like that. Strict, discline-oriented, and so serious that I literally didn't have a childhood.
Glad that it ended in the recent years, when I got my ADHD+Autism diagnosis, went to therapy and stuff. Now, my mom's like the best mother now. She's kinda making up for the early years of my life. She was pretty much unaware of the damage she gave me since she had the same experience in her first twenty five years of life through her parents.
Generational trauma is terrible, honestly. Especially when it's Asian parenting culture.
Her mother learned the lesson that she should let her daughter have fun at times, because otherwise, like all kids, she'll find a way and then it can end in disaster. LOTS, and I mean LOTS of weirdos kidnapping kids here in Japan, compared to other places. Mostly because judges can't commit you to a mental hospital against your will, so they're let free with zero monitoring even if they're known of.
maybe don't actually tell them not to come home HAHAHAHA
no it because japan is run by corrupt people
WHAT?!?!!
So basically, u let your lawyer said that u have mental issues, and they must let u free?!?!
if that's the case, then it safer to ground her in her room right? I mean there's no guarantee that no one will snatch her while she's playing with her friends
Please don't make stuff up.
Komainu's :3 drawing is so cute.
Sakamata Chloe Malicious Compliance moment
most parents treats their children as pets or living dolls
and aren't they that? After all, we have to take care of them, feed them, give them a bath, educate them, etc.
0:46 , she took it too literally wwww.. so cute
parents: I know what's best for you!
also parents:
Chloe was cheeky as a kid huh.
Tbh i wish that i could've done that from the beggining but i didn't. My mom was doing it too often for soo long even until 6th grade and everytime it actually hurts me. i finally decided to just hide somewhere and let her eat her own words and she stopped doing it lmao
Tho it was just too late for her self reflection that i find it hard to be a good kid for my mom anymore but i still love her of course
I feel like this was probably more of a lesson for Chloe's mom than Chloe herself, lol. Her mom probably felt Chloe was being ungrateful for her attempts to mold her as best she could, not really understanding how much Chloe was suffering from it (A lot of parents can be this way. They want what's best but don't always know what's best). So when she told Chloe to not come back, she likely expected her to cry and beg to be let back inside, and instead got the lesson of "Oh god, my child was actually more than happy to leave."
I'm sure if Chloe was to stay outside longer than a single day, she would have been really scared and wanted to go back home. I'm glad though that her mom realized her mistake, and I hope that her life was a little less cooped up from then on.
I think it's a lesson to Chloe if she's willing to learn it: don't crunch your children and starve them of friendships.
But I say if she's capable of learning it because: never doubt the ability to children to blindly replicate the bad habits of their parents that made them miserable without questioning.
I also had the same exprience, especially if your living in asia martial discipline was almost like a norm to my parents especially my dad always got beaten up from doing anything that was fun and not focusing on my studies any mistake or doing anything different could get me into different things.
Until 1 day i was hanging out in my cousins house playing games that my dad got so mad at me i spent my time there other than focusing on studies i came back home to only get told to never go home, it was a small breaking point for me to realize im tired already of what im being told to the point i dont get merits of what i do and i was still young and it was bad enough to have this kind of mind set for me, but long story short i didnt get that far yet my mom found me and told me to come home.
Chloe is the cutest rebel I;ve ever seen.
To all parents: kids are stupid and they take things literally. Don't ever tell your kid to never come home again because they will really do it.
Same experience:
When I was a kid my mom was angry because I played with friends and came home late, told me not to come inside and don't come home ever. But like a stupid kid I was, I was happy when being told that. Mom thought I will cry outside the door but when she opened the door an hour later I wasn't there.
Police wasn't involved but my entire big family rushed to search for me all night. Funny thing is I only play on nearby park 5 minutes away from home. They found me around 11 PM. My mom got chewed up by grandma after that and I didn't understand what happened but it was a good day.
Now that I think about it, it was pretty dangerous and I could've kidnapped anytime, but it was really fun.
Man being a kid is hard, you're unaware of how much danger is nearby until you start to wise up with age.
Well I too was kicked out by my mom, but it was 9 or 10 at night and didn't know what to do, plus I was scared of the dogs, got angry and partially destroyed almost all her favourite plants, all those plants involved didn't bear a flower for quite a few years-did feel bad about it though
I ran away from home once.
I got to the end of my street...then got hungry and went home.
Hmm locking my kid outside and she disappeared..... who would have thought 😂
Not her casually reveling a sad childhood where she couldn't do much
Man the face of her mom
Artist did pretty damn good
It hits to the heart
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Damn, Chloe is really lucky that they found her. In worst case scenarios, it really wouldn't end well for her at all... Though it might be her miasma being the sole defense mechanism at protecting her from wild strangers lmao
the irony here is, she play at the beach even thought she lazy to took a shower
As long as she dont touch the water its fine i guess?
I guess Asian parents are like that, at least a lot of them. Though I think the worst part of it is not just on their harsh treatment on their kids, but the flaws of their parents that's going to be witnessed by the kids as they grow up. Like for example, some parents would "pressure" their kids to study 24/7 when they're still very young, but at the same time when they see other kids they'd say "oh yeah kids should definitely play more". These kinds of inconsistencies seem to confuse kids, and of course they'd feel envious of the difference in how their own parents treat them and how they treat other kids.
I think on Sakamata's case, she seem to be the type that doesn't or couldn't show her tantrums to her parents, so she just kept her frustrations to herself. Some parents thought that kids would always need them, but apparently Sakamata's desire to play outside was greater than her need of her mother, so she just think of it as a chance to go out and play. There's probably no thought about food and money, she was just a kid that just wanted to play.
I remember vividly as a kid when my mom told me the same thing but I just didn't go back into the house till it got dark.
She said she was locking the door but she didn't.
I just played in the dirt in our driveway and just went back inside.
This was around the same time she realized she couldn't use stuff like give us chilli peppers or wash our mouth out when we swore because we just ate the chilli peppers and my brothers started eating the soap cause he liked the taste or stuff like that.
We just broke stuff to get out, broke stuff to get back in and so on.
Me and my brothers are like 3; 4 and 5 at this point with me being the oldest.
I can feel the situation.
Chloe: *Does what she is told*
Chloe's mom: "Wait, that's illegal"
Her mom probably didn’t think she’d go off.
she think she cry lol
Her parents also even make her study abroad cuz they were worried about her , I guess this was one of the reasons😂
She thought she would bang on the door and beg to come back in but nope, she just left, what a power move
Chloe just followed orders like a good kid that she is
These animations are always spot on and cute. Really makes me appreciate the stories on another level 🤌🏼
Adults used to be kids...but kids don't...they don't understand and just do what they're told
Do you think she realized how concerning this sounded?
She really hit her with the "Bet".
Years later: she got send to New Zealand because she stay at home for too long
0:42 LMAOO
I I'm more shock when he locked the door and his reaction yay I don't have to go home LOL😂😂😂
Sakamom: don't come home
Chloe: and I took that personally
0:46
FREEEEDDDDDOOOOOMMMMM!!!
I was an adventurous kid, I climbed over the fence in my yard and was playing in the street but since we had high walls my mom thought I dissapeared so she scrambled the cops to find me running around with a paper plane just out by the street. She cried big tears and idk why but I did so as well.
This is a good lesson for the parents, including us in the future
Wholesome...
When i was a kid, i fought in the car with my sisters and my mom threatened us that she would stop car and leave us beside the road.
We stopped for awhile and fought again. My mom then stopped and told us to step out of the car. We did and we obediently waited outside confused, while she attempted to scare us by driving away. It backfired every time.
She stopped and found that fear of physical pain works on us more than fear of abandonment. I don’t know we siblings were dumb kids or unaware of abandonment at that age.
I love how everyone in the comment section bond over our shared childhood trauma caused by Asian parents
Oh no