I’ve found out that manifestation is always instant, and the struggle to understand this stuff (or the need to fix, to change, to use a process etc.) comes from the old self concept. And I resonate very much with what you say, regarding EVERY desire. Sometimes you need only to decide that it’s done, and stick to it, even when you have opposing thoughts or external circumstances. Embrace the fact that you can imagine it because you already have it (all)! If you can picture it/decide, you are acknowledging the fact that you already have that relationship, that job, even before the visualization, since creation is finished. As you said, the best thing is to accept everything as neutral, living from your desired end, knowing that it is done (suspending all logic, that’s why Neville said “do not discuss your desire, not even with yourself”). Just decide and remove your attention from ALL the rest. Be the “witness”, as they say in the East.
There’s a TH-camr called Priya Patten who manifested her husband back after he came to her for a divorce and she was in the process of moving out of their house. She affirmed and aligned with the version of him that wanted to be with her. The cool thing is after they got back together he said that he never wanted to divorce her and that she’s the love of his life..which makes perfect sense when you understand exactly how manifesting works. You’re not changing your SP, you’re aligning with the version of him that wants what you want. So it makes sense that this new version of her husband who tell a completely different story. How? bcuz there are limitless versions of everyone and you’ve just aligned with the version of your boyfriend who doesn’t want what you want. It doesn’t help that you’ve put him on the pedestal and believe him to be more powerful than you. Not true. You’re so powerful that you’ve put him in the power position. No one can assert their power over you UNLESS you believe they can and that you’re powerless to control that. You’re the God of your reality! KNOW THAT!!!!🥰
I forgot to add the most relevant part about this story and that is Priya’s husband (who wanted a divorce) also is a conscious creator and understands manifestation. And she still manages to manifest exactly what she wanted from him and completely turned her situation around!! It’s her reality!! Her desires trump all else!!! 🤩🤩🤩
She's not desiring the version of him that doesn't want her. She should have a new reality where his free will matches her free will. Forget this old version of him and herself. Everyone should be made new in the relationship from her imagination. I love that she shared her story!!
@rnbsteenstar by accepting the FACT that you created, that experience to gain a lesson so that you can expand on your journey. Now, you can decide to move to the next level of intentionally creating your ideal self first, KNOW that you deserve love from wherever and whomever you select. It's not about the SP it's a lesson you selected to learn, so only you can shift it. Re-value yourself from within and disregard all past experiences. Therefore, your SP is simply a symbol you decided to identify your love with. Only you can decide to give that symbol new meaning in YOUR reality.
I think many forget we are choosing 'our reality' .. there are many different versions of US.. we choose the version, no one wins outside of us, they are just reflecting something INSIDE US. Choose what you want. It is done. Her SP 'always gets what he wants' because SHE SAID SO.. that is her assumption she is looking at 3D and affirming for. If he is 'manifesting her away' that is coming from her - no shame about it, no betting yourself up about it. It's just about seeing it.. like 'oh.. that was me, ok I choose differently now'. External says what's happening internally. It's not real. The moment we change our minds, and commit to it us done. It's done. Our 'job' is to CHOOSE. Because so much hot and cold is our own issues with really knowing what we want. Stop assigning meaning to 3D. Don't mess with 3D. Let it be, and know what you want is done.
Well said!! And this is exactly why we need to watch what kinds of ego thought chatter we're taking seriously. Because it really IS as simple as whatever we *think* is real, becomes real. And that's exactly what this question writer created! Evidence of what she had already been fearing about her SP. But we really can change our assumptions INSTANTLY. It just takes commitment to have faith in our power despite being faced with the old evidence we've created.
Gosh I don't even know where to start. Just reading all your comments and realising how much effort and work you put in everyday to make someones life an easier way. It's so beautiful! I recently started watching your videos and the thing is, after i first heard you talking about SP stuff and all this topic, i got extra emotional - and I was like "I should avoid her at all costs, because that's the place where my anxiety feels more visible and it just kills me at this point". But here I am. Watching your new videos, listening to every word that comes out of your mouth and just how much of a luck I had, to find you. Thank you. I know I'm just starting my concious manifesting path, hut you help a lot not to fall into the trap of 3D.
Nobody else has their own reality inside your reality. And 'competition' doesn't actually exist; you make it exist because you're forgetting how powerful you actually are. You're giving your power away. When you truly understand that EVERYTHING is created inside of you with your own imagination, the 3D truly doesn't mean crap. Genevieve, your last video was so helpful for me. I took with me your words of Take the 3D completely out of the equation, and ran with it. Decided I was going to truly challenge myself with this the other day, and set an alarm for every hour on the hour in the day. Each hour, I went into my imagination, did an imaginal act, and really truly made sure I believed that 4D is it. That's it. No 3D. Came out, and 4D is it, that's it. By the end of the day, I was just flying high. Nothing in my physical world affected who I was deciding to be. It was like a calm knowing lightness, and my visualizations were so much clearer and easier. I truly was this person who has these things. Yesterday there were SO many instant synchronicities throughout the day, too, with things I was thinking. I FINALLY get it, I FINALLY understand. Thank you so much for your content. ❤️
If your "reality" controls me and I don't have personal power, then why am I laughing at you right now? Do you have any idea how narcissistic, unhealthy, and controlling your comment sounds? I very much exist in this world, with my own power, and im going to manifest how little power you have over that 😂😊
@MrAhuraMazda You obviously don't understand the law of assumption, and how nothing and no one is outside of your own conscious awareness. If you really practice the law on a daily you will see it. I am not taking any control away from you. You have all the control in your own reality as well, we all do. This is where free will gets misunderstood in this community. The fact that you take offense to what I've explained here shows me that you're not quite understanding it fully. "Narcissism" is also a label you've put on me from your own belief system, so now all that's going to feed back to you is that I'm a narcissist. Everything is neutral nothingness until YOU give it a meaning in YOUR own world. If you labeled me differently as such, you would see me acting different. Nothing actually has to necessarily even change on my end, per se, you change your own perception and things can just automatically look different to you in that instant. This is how it works. Its not magic, it's not narcissism. It's all just coming from you and mirroring back, if that makes sense. And for you to right off the bat label me as a narcissist when you have no idea who I am or anything about me, it says quite a bit to me. The fact that I did trigger you like this is a good indication to look inside yourself at the negative meanings you give to things in your world. I am a very kind person, love to help people, and am compassionate. Your interpretation of what I wrote is all just you, friend. I wish you well, and I also choose to see you as a kind and caring person who is successfully manifesting everything you would like in your life. Be well.
That's amazing! Sorry, I'm still pretty new to all this, could you give an example or two of what you did/thought on the hour, and what your experience was as a result?
This is so true! Listen to her, guys! I've got all my SPs (yes, i have a few hihi). And i did it by just not caring so much and not making them the center of my world! Just detach, relax and live your life.
@@rnbsteenstar nope...just playing around because i enjoy being single and not sure who i want to commit to. The four guys i like (and with which i had relationships/situationships in the past few years) are all back and eager to date. I've tried to manifest some of them before but now that they're off the pedestal and i am relaxed, they're all back.
@@rnbsteenstar of course! I have no need to lie to them. My comment was not to start a debate on relationships, it was just to reiterate the fact that when you relax, you can have any SP you want! 😁
This reminds me of a scene from that old sitcom third rock from the sun. Two basketball teams were playing each other. The mascot of one was an alien. His team was huddled in prayer, he notices the other team was praying as well, and he said hey Coach, those guys are praying too! And then he said Oh I get it, our God is stronger than their God. The coach replied, exasperated, it’s the same God! At this, the alien was completely perplexed.
Yall this video popping up at this time was amazing. Not only have I been wanting more clarity on this which I ask and know it will get answered someway somehow. I also just so happened to be listening to my audio book ,”What you think of me is none of my business.” I was listening to the chapter called ,”The Myth of Competition.” Just WOW! 🤩 amaze balls! ❤ love you and thank you Genevieve 🌈
Damn. Spot on. I've discovered that my partner may have hidden and different intentions about me and us, and those clashing intentions might be messing up my life in very big ways. He manifests too and sometimes I feel like he's using that to control me, like he's implying that he's so powerful that he manifested me from the other side of the globe, and he can manifest me back to my hometown as he wishes. These videos have been really helpful for me to get in touch with my power and sense of autonomy back. I'm a bit exhausted from him, but I'm working on getting my spirit back. I've been giving away too much to him. Thanks very much for the video
Anyone working to manifest a partner may benefit from learning more about committed relationships in general, especially within various spiritual traditions. A lot of the current culture, at least in the USA, has very unhealthy misunderstandings about partnership and love which will impact your approach to manifesting or accepting a partner into your life. Especially the focus in Gen Z on being perfect, authentic versions of ourselves who have already "done all the work" on ourselves and are highly successful within the confines of unrealistic and miserable economic or religious standards. A lot of young people believe love isn't as important as other various personal goals, or they are influenced by people who believe this. Don't let manifesting love be another way to beat yourself up about not being good enough for a partner, who you will grow and learn with anyway, if it is a healthy partnership. Your self concept isn't about perfecting yourself, it's about understanding the meaning you give your thoughts and beliefs about yourself and the world around you.
The main issue is that she doesn’t believe this to be possible. If she continues focusing on manifesting him, but still holds on to the belief that she cannot do it, she will probably struggle a lot!
Guys listen to her... She is saying everything right... I have been following her teachings in and trust me my sp has is now obsessed with me.... But before listening to genevive... He was always ready to breakup... But now He can't be happy without me. He confessed that he is dependent on me.
It's like a wizard fight! I don't say that mockingly because I empathize with the client feeling rejected, but the description of the manifesting power struggle definitely had me thinking 'wizard fight!' 🧙♀️⚡️🧙♂️
@@Muchness11 yes I get it, anymore just thinking we have to “manifest” anyone or something seems egoic in general. We are all far greater than that in our ability to have what is already within us. Once we desire it, it’s possible and will happen if we would just stay out of our own way and not fall into the fear of never obtaining it. Life is way more fun and peaceful too in that energy. When I feel myself falling into a thought pattern like that. I say to myself wait one cotton picking minute I already have what I want and I already am what I seek, it snaps me back out of that oncoming egoic spiral 🌀
What a well thought out answer 🙂 I really like the changing the dynamic idea when it comes to relationships and general ‘people stuff’ It’s a really healthy ‘win win’ way looking at it and also I feel it’s the wish fulfilled with the ego removed. It works for me.
You look tan and beautiful!!! Also, as always, amazing and clarifying video. I love to tune in with the easy light waves of your teachings. Fran from Chile ❤
Genevieve, what's your perspective on healing the inner child/ childhood trauma/doing shadow work/dissolving patterns/working on self concept etc. ? Do we need to do it to manifest our desires ? It would be great if you make a video on this topic. Thank you!
The short is no! We don’t need to “heal” anything to manifest. The assumption you put on yourself that something is wrong with you and you “need to heal it” is the only problem. Often personal healing can turn into a hamster wheel where we just keep finding more and more things about ourselves to heal. Manifestation is really about turning all those old ideas over to God, just releasing them. Letting them go. And ironically, we become “healed” when we let go of the burden of feeling like we need healing haha!
@@ManifestwithGenevieveExactly! When we think there is something we “need to heal from”, we are accidentally placing ourselves on a hamster wheel feeling. They are just as any triggering thoughts or 3D we place on a pedestal. It is fear of self care and self concept neglect. Logic mixed with unnecessary duty. They are common mistake we make on this journey. We need those “digging deep” insightful reminders every once in a while. Infinite thanks! ❤
Hi Genevieve! I wanted to thank you for this video. But also, I've been watching a lot of your older videos and they've been so so helpful. Thank you for all that you do ❤ your messages are valuable. The notification of your upload brings a smile on my face 💕🐱
This is the truth. I thought I was manifesting whilst I fed my ego but it wasn’t until I genuinely started letting go (and it’s not linear I’m still back and forth with that) and I started to feel some relaxed disconnection … you’ll see the shift.
@@rnbsteenstar ❤️❤️❤️ Yep, I totally believe we can only ever struggle with accepting something when we equal it to claiming it, like it will be forever there now to be experienced. Whereas it’s more like “I hate parsnips and can see them, even smell them at the buffet, but still, I don’t have to eat them. I can just let them sit there on that plate and leave them alone, not gonna try to argue with the chef to remove them outta my sight.” 🧑🍳That sort of vibe. P.S. personally like parsnips though 😆
Awesome video you said a lot of things that many others have not spoken on. Great advice for acceptance. Side note the whole video I was thinking you looked familiar and at the very end I realized where, you look like the actress that played Jewels on Psych. XD
Our egos are essential parts of our human experience. It's literally just a part of our mental construct that allows us to have individual personalities and boundaries with other people and things. We are never not our egos if we are human. But what influences our egos and what we take on as our identity is important to pay attention to.
I really really appreciate this. It’s true that the videos we really need pop out. Like you always know. I feel like this video is going to be the final thing I need, because I struggle the most with doubts and fears, manifestation not being true or working and therefore not even „trying“ really, definitely a wounded ego.
Genevieve, I have a friend who actually did spell work on their SP to try to ‘bind’ their relationship & now she says he is running in the opposite direction ie running completely cold & disinterested in her & the relationship so everything you’re saying in this video is so true 💖✨💖
That kind of thing usually has two outcomes- the person repels/sabotages the very thing they want, OR, they get what they want and then realize it’s not exactly what they thought it was and no longer want it anymore 👀
I wish I had seen this video 8 months ago. I am only just really understanding this, and working with this idea of preference and surrender. It's so hard not to get accidentally obsessed when coaches keep telling you to "persist, no matter what". Persistence in the old story - which is what you end up doing - totally sucks. I'd love a video on your step-by-step process for manifesting ❤
Thank you for this ❤ I have also been wondering something, which you can probably explain really well... I understand the principle of what you assume to be true becomes true. The thing I keep getting stuck on though, is what about things that you don't expect? Lots of things happen that I just didn't see coming, so I couldn't have assumed them, sometimes I may even assume the opposite (someone is well, who becomes unexpectedly sick, for example). So, not all of my reality can be down to my expectations and therefore controlled. Or am I misunderstanding? Maybe others wonder this too?
So I thought about her question - the way to reconcile this is through Quantum physics and the existence of the multiverse, alternate realities/dimensions. The one in which she manifests the guy, her SP is already a different reality (a different version of her boyfriend SP that *already* wants her) and a separate reality altogether to the one where her SP boyfriend *wants* to manifest her away. So i.e that boyfriend that doesn't want her is a different version of him in the separate reality.
Hey Genevieve! New subscriber here! I’ve been binge watching your channel for a week and I absolutely adore you! Your content is amazing and so helpful for someone who is new and really wants to practice this consciously bc I’ve realized I’ve manifested a lot of my personal and professional goals in life unconsciously. This time though I’m trying to manifest an SP for the first time. However, he doesn’t even know I exist, we never met. I have a huge crush on him after noticing him one day. I’m getting better with self concept and acknowledging any doubts to quickly let them go and neutralize myself to get myself back into a confident and positive position. However, I’ll admit I’m very head-y and logical. I’m always trying to quiet down my ego. But I can’t help but have this nagging doubt about the circumstance that me and my SP never crossed paths, never met, and he doesn’t know I exist. I feel like there has to be some sort of miracle for us to magically even cross paths before we could actually at least date, let alone be together. Like, could manifesting still work? Should I orchestrate a way for us to cross paths just to strike up a conversation and go from there? -(I’m such a go-getter and it’s hard for me to just sit on my hands, not force it and just trust the process. I always put in a lot of effort and work towards getting what I want so this is new for me)- But, From what I get from your content, I should just accept this circumstance, don’t let it trigger or threaten me, persist in my self concept and unwavering belief that us being together is already done, trust the process, detach and focus on improving myself everyday. Make myself someone my sp would want to be with one day and just stay loyal to that thought of a better version of myself to attract the best person for me, sp or not. If he’s meant for me, he will come somehow - despite the circumstance. Right?
The key is completely letting go of alllll this ego noise and evaluations of the past and stepping into an energy/state of HAVING the relationship you want. A completely internal acknowledge that everything is perfect and done now. It really is as simple as that and sometimes we forget this simplicity with all the overthinking and trying to make things logical. I get it! Keep your focus solely on YOU embodying the version of you that is so content in your chosen relationship. And become completely non resistant and accepting of the 3D. That’s how it finally moves/shifts - when you stop fighting with it and engaging with it.
My issue with the concept of (shifting realities) is that, though it appears to be the case that if your mind is in a good state you tend to give off a good vibe thats attractive to others, but detaching from your current reality is just strait up delusionalism, because there is in fact objective reality. There are crazy people out there who 100% believe that their in fact other people, or their rich and famous but objectively its false, like a tree that still falls in the woods even if its not physically observed by anyone.
I feel like there’s some stuff that needs to be added in here. I completely get where this person is at because I once had a difficult time accepting that someone I loved, who I knew still loved me, Wasn’t willing to keep trying to make things work between us. It was painful and confusing, but the truth is at some point I had to let go out of respect for us both. I feel like it should’ve been said that loving someone means respecting their wants and free will as well as your own. I also love the phrase “this or something better”, which allows for the possibility that you will find your way back to one another, but also that somebody else out there might suit you even better… whichever is for the highest good of everyone involved.
Most importantly, we can do all this without any coercion. Instead, in my case through open communication and trust building! Yes, you can absolutely go specific healthily. One of mine (SP) and I are in that "who wins," stage. I'm choosing my end. At the same time, I'm trying to figure out how to stay in my end while conceding to the reset. I hope I haven't conceded too late! ❤😡😭 Update: the who wins stage came to an end on my birthday. I am truly done with that version of my SP because that version of him does not align with my desire. In fact, one day, he will regret a couple of the things he said, I won't go into details for privacy sake, he will see despite it all, the prize I really am. I choose my end, with my preferred version of SP.
I don't know if this could be helpful for someone, but I have taken to looking at the 3D like a documentary. If it's circumstances that aren't what I'm focused on for what I want, then it's someone else's documentary, therefore not about me. Sure, it exists, I'm even aware of it, but it's not about me, so there's no point in getting upset about it. And I keep most of my focus on the wonderful things I'm manifesting for myself.
"room to grow to a different level of relating to each other". this is a very eloquent way of putting it but shouldn't it be: why would you want to manifest someone who doesn't want you anyways? in my case i don't even want them anymore because of the mistreatment but i'm in such a karmic matrix with interfamilial shit at play and can't get away from it. they noticed that i did withdraw my vibe (all the while very angry at the mistreatment) and that led them to taunt me indirectly.
So the question in the email is similar to the question or manifesting rain vs sunny weather scenario I presented below: The mirror universe/law of attraction is based on the belief that only one sentient being exists within his own bubble reality. If this is a universal mental truth then it isn't contingent upon my belief for it to work. Paradox so in other words whether or not I believe the law of attraction would work, it would STILL work regardless. If you share your reality with other sentient beings with a consciousness there is more than one consciousness. Say for example there could be one person manifesting rain and another manifesting sunny weather, the resistant thought isn't coming from yourself but from another being. If the person wanting to manifest rainy weather was more dominant or had the more powerful mind then it would supersede or trump the other person manifesting sunny weather. Thus it would be rainy weather. In that sense it's not solipsism. Therefore the outer manifestation of what you are experiencing is the sum total as a collective whole from all individuals or a reflection of their own perceptions/beliefs/thought manifestation including your own. Collective consciousness. Would I be right in the above statements?
I don't think this question has anything to do with ego " harry potter thing". I think it's a common sense question for a person that wants to understand how the law works. What's the science? What's the rules of the game? What's the facts on a broader scale? This was a very deep question however not a deep answer scientifically. It was an answer mainly focusing on social psychology and the 3D. Her question is 4D based.
I’m f your SP we’re a better manifester than you, your desire would disappear. Unconsciously, your SP is manifesting you and is pleased to be manifested in return 😁 In the same way you are manifesting other people in your life. Let it go, every manifestation comes. Have fun and don’t take conscious manifestations too seriously. Your SP will come back when they won’t feel chased. No action required. I gave up months ago on scripting or whatever. When I desire something or someone, I know it is on the way.
I went on a trip last week, a trip for my old city that I miss so much and I was terrified with the idea of miss any video of Genevieve hahahahah, but she didn't post during this period so I'm ok gahahahahahahah
Hi Genevieve, I’ve been watching your videos now for a few months and get a lot of inspiration from them (you), and things are going well for me although I rarely dream when I sleep at night, but when I DO (dream) I seem to only have these disturbing nightmares is there a wierd subconscious correlation to this or is it just “what it is”?
Again an amazing explanation! I’ve recently read the “Untethered Soul” and all of this makes so much sense. But what I struggle with is that it’s my ego mind which is absorbing that knowledge. Do you have any book recommendations for understanding the ego mind?
Great video, I just cant believe my husband left me after 18 years, he just left me.he doesnt even want to talk to me anymore. Ive tried everything possible to get him back, but nothing seems to work and I cant stop thinking about him Im frustrated I dont see my life with anyone else. Ive done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I cant I dont know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just cant stop thinking about him
I'm really sorry to hear that. I went through something similar not too long ago. My boyfriend and I broke up and I felt completely lost. I tried everything, but it just seemed hopeless. Well I ended up reaching out to this incredible spiritual adviser. He helped me in ways I never thought possible. After working with him my husband came back to me and now we are happier than ever really.?
Thank you so much! I just searched his name, and I found him, the reviews look amazing, and I m feeling hopeful now. I really believe I can get him back. I’m so happy to have found this.
Thank you so much for this masterpiece. There's something making noise in my head and it's the "stop it for now". I totally understand it and I've done it intuitively in the past, but I need to vent about it (my ego is writing this comment right now, I can hear already what you would say about it but I really need to let it go). I have struggle a lot by "keep pushing" to manifest my SP so I naturally decided to stop "trying" to manifest him because I understood that it is a sign it is not working that way. You're the only one coach who I have heard saying such wise words, btw. But the WHEN is the thing. I know I know, manifestation is instant and I should not care about the time because once I get it I won't be thinking about the when (but I surely will be thinking "why did it take so fucking long?"). I have been trying to manifest this person and others SP and I've failed with everyone, manifesting an SP has been hard for me. It turns out that I have some kind of family karma, I supposedly took a vow of solitude and that does not allow me to manifest any SP. I went with some tarot readers, and they all said the same thing: "not now". I know that I have to let it go in order to manifest it, and actually I think I'm doing it well this time (but still it is a matter of time to see the result) since I am feeling well, I have accepted everything and I'm actually fine with never getting it, It's kind of 'I don't care anymore'. But WHEN am I gonna get it. It hurts when you perceive a strongest force keeping you from getting what you want (for now). I know i'm going to get it, or I'll still get something, but it hurts seeing the time passing by, and I must just accept that 'NO' for now. I'm not saying I gave these tarot readers all my power by accepting their words, I already felt that way during MY WHOLE LIFE and already FAILED a lot to finally contact them to help me see what's going on. They possibly gave me an answer for 'why' it is happening, but I'm still hoping for the best (even tho it was many months ago now, and how can I contradict them if I'm still not able to manifest him anyway?) I have tried to fight that force, accept it, be stronger. But, what can I do? It says 'No for now' and all I can do or say is 'Ok, no for now'. That doesn't fix anything, because it is already telling me to wait, and what I wanted to avoid was the waiting. It hurts. It hurts in my heart, it hurts in my chest, it hurts me. 'Why did it take that long' won't let me live for the rest of my life. I am really grateful for everything I have, I'm grateful for who I am, for what I've manifested, for what I've learned. I am financially free, I have friends and family who love me, I love my appearance, I love my job and have a successful career. I enjoy myself more than anything else. I'm not asking for companionship just to not be alone or something. I genuinly love myself. But that 'No for now' hurts so bad. I even realized that I'm not fighting againts any SP by trying to manifest them , it's the waiting what's killing me. There are other things I've manifested and I'm really like 'Why did it take that long'. And I know i'm going to suffer the rest of my life even if I manifest the PERFECT SP. Why did it take that long. All I can say is waiting sucks.
Yet, waiting is exactly what we need, sometimes, so that we can appreciate our specific people more than we might have done before. Some of the SP stories come about because we might have taken them for granted somehow.
her email is my exact predicament and i daydreamed about taking my own life (because they are gaslighting me in the name of god, not cuz i'm dying for him at all (twin flame, i know you don't agree but it is what it is)! i know it sounds insane but it's exactly the situation. and even when i affirm that i'll get my way, they know that so they fight back. i don't agree that i can just think "he's mine" despite his kids pushing me away. as the alchemist says, 'petty tyrants'. and every time i try to stand in my power god makes me sicker (physically i mean).
Hey genevieve💕💕 off topic, but do you have anyone from your clients who was able to manifest a physical appearance change? Because I’ve been looking everywhere for someone who actually did accomplish such changes, but I never once saw someone. What I am talking about is losing weight without being on a diet ( I have literal trauma from counting calories). And you are the only person i would consider buying a membership from, but I know that it wouldn’t help me if I didn’t know at least one person who was able to manifest what I want to manifest. If you could reply, it would help me so much and I would then definitely be sure if I want to book a membership or not. Anyways, thank you for everything you do and have a blessed day 🙏🏻💕
This was a great video but the “maybe” part at the end worried me. So if I manifest from the “above the ego, higher power self”, then MAYBE my SP would want me? Isn’t that contradicting the fact they say they dont have free will in my world?
Hi Genevieve. :) I love your content, and your 'apology' video has really snapped me out of anger and resentment towards my SP, whether I like it or not he couldn't have done anything to me that my state of being didn't invite. But I still struggle with needing for him to take accountability that some of his behaviours weren't ok instead of making excuses, lying or sweeping things under the rug. Even if I am no longer mad at him, I just do not know how to mentally get myself into a state where I trust him and expect the best of him if he doesn't see what he did was wrong. Some of that behaviour wasn't towards me, so I wouldn't even know how to revise it. Do you have any advice or videos on this? I want to move forward with a fresh start, but him not taking accountability or not even thinking he did something wrong still eats at me. I know in some way I created it, but if I have a future with this man, I have to believe we have similar morals.
He is only playing the role he was assigned by your beliefs about him, yourself & relationships. “Forgive them for they know not what they do” He may not even realize … truly. I’ve heard so many stories that upon reconciliation, the SP would say, “idk why I like did those things, etc. I’m so sorry.” People only confirm & conform to who we believe them to be. Forgive yourself first. Become the version of you that is in that loving, fulfilling, committed relationship with your perfect version of him (which requires you to release the old/other version story that you created) and an apology or acknowledgement may flow organically even though we are the sole proprietor of our experiences. ❤
@@LisaT_ hi. Thank you for your response. In the very beginning of knowing him, before I had any interest in him or before even talking to him I observed certain behaviors which were how he was introduced in my reality to begin with, I can't assign a role to a complete stranger because I had no assumption and opinion of him at all at that time. AFTER he came to my awareness, of course I take accountability for my negative assumptions and how they impacted him, but I know for a fact he's been a certain way most of his adult life before we even met, so I couldn't have possibly influenced him. Yes I can change how he is now by making new assumptions, but I struggle with the need for him to realise past actions were wrong. I need for him and me to be on the same page on what we consider as right or wrong, and I don't know how to fully get there if he never admits his past actions were not ok.
@@Robertiena you attract into your awareness based on your beliefs about yourself, love, relations, etc. so yes…he came into your life based on that. The story you created of him was based in your beliefs, not his actions or behavior. That’s how it works. It’s always a reflection of us. The whole world is yourself pushed out. Whether it not he was a “certain way” his whole life is if no consequence. How he is with you is how you perceive him to be and even more likely how you perceive prior to him even showing up. For example, you see some say every SP cheats on me. SP’s cheat. Even if they meet someone new who’s great at first, that underlying belief is providing the experience. Regardless. It isn’t just you assigning a role to a stranger because you didn’t know them, it’s assigning roles to anyone based on your underlying beliefs. Period.
@@LisaT_ again, I know peoples behavior towards me are a result of my own beliefs and assumptions. But you are misunderstanding my issue, I am not interested in the root cause, I want a solution. What he did and said was not even to me, we never spoke or knew of eachother before this so I had 0 assumptions about him. But none of this matters, it is not news to me that everything I see and experience isa somehow rooted in me, whenever a malicious act is committed, people in relationships still have to acknowledge, take accountability for their actions and apologise in order to move on. Past doesn't magically go away even if I realise I in some way created it, it still needs to be sorted out in order to proceed, some kind of communication needs to happen. He does not know or practice the law, he's just a logical human being, and that's why it's important that he doesn't pretend something was okay when it wasn't. Tomorrow he could visit me and then tell me some horrible insult. Would this be a creation of my assumptions and beliefs? Yes absolutely. And in order for him to act better towards me I would need to improve what I assume about him. BUT in order for us to move forward in physical reality there would still need to be some kind of gesture and acknowledgement from his side in order to make up and move on. Because if he is a good person who owns up to his behavior, he can't possibly act like it never happened or pretend it was ok
@@Robertiena Im not misunderstanding anything. You want me to say yes, you are justified for holding on to resentment and are waiting for some sort of acknowledgement for past sins of your SP. That’s a hole you are digging for yourself. You want him to see what he did was wrong, BUT you are not seeing HIM as someone who made poor choices & feels regretful. You are still seeing him as someone who does not. You are believing in the 3D and holding on to “the past” That is a problem. You still are believing everything happens outside of you. It does not. It does not matter what he did 1 min ago, 1 year ago, or before you met. He is, in your reality, who you believe he is. You are holding on to logic and reason that someone’s past or present needs explained and “owned” up to your satisfaction. It does if that’s what you believe, but that’s a slippery slope to reconciliation. There’s a limiting view here about him until that he provides a gesture to prove to your satisfaction that he is a good person by acknowledging some perceived error in judgement. But you aren’t seeing him that way, so why would he? “Do not try to change people, they are only messengers telling you who you are. Revalue yourself and they will confirm the change…Neville” You say you don’t want the root cause. You want the solution. 🤷🏻♀️That is not the law. You are the cause. It’s all causation. You are the cause AND you are the solution. It’s all you. If you believe anything happens outside of you and that’s the hill you want to die on then there will be struggle. Who are you being? Are you being the version of self who has the desired relationship with the version of him who shares your values and character or are you the person who is holding on to resentment and waiting for someone to own up to something you feel doesn’t align with your morals?? You need to decide and see him the way you desire now. This starts with you. The past, present & future are all now. You are forcing a version of him from the past to rectify something so you can accept him in the now. That isn’t how this goes. Forgiveness goes a long way toward viewing someone how you desire them to show up.
My case is slightly different. I found Neville when I was desperate because my ex had left me. For over a year I therefore used the Law to get my ex back. Now the roles have completely reversed. I feel like I have to get her back not because I can’t live without her but because I want to have proof the Law works for me. I can actually manifest consciously. Makes sense?
Same here! Except, mine is more on someone who I always had an impression of not wanting him, then slowly falling in and out of him, but for some reason he's constantly in my mind. And despite everything that has happened, including me realizing that I like him. It's like punching a hologram or opening a stubborn box- I was chill until he rejected me. I thought Twin Flames would resolve it, and it did resonate with me at times! Considering, he rejected me and sympathize with reality (at least so I am not seen as a manipulator or a mischievous person), I am trying to remember "everyone is me (and my assumptions) pushed out". However, we just need to shift our perspective beyond a "challenge accepted" and embody the feeling of being wanted.
But what happens when I know there's a lot of ppl who I can have a relationship with, but I still feel that I don't see me with anyone else? And not in an obsessive way, but really in a genuine feeling. I have accepted when my SP told me he moved on, and I have to do it too. Obviously it hurt me, but I accepted, even I said ok in 3D. I didn't chase him. But of course I still choosing my end with him.
When the ego says "this is not working, you'll never get what you want" and I say ok and fully accept this as a possibility and then ego says "lets give up trying to manifest" . Then what do I say to myself and how do I proceed from there? Do I then tell myself that its ok let the ego keep telling me things are not working out or do I at some point say to myself that this thought is meaningless to focus on what I desire.
Your “agreement” to your ego is about being neutral to whatever noise it’s trying to sell you! You’re just simply saying “ok” to whatever it says without taking it so seriously. Imagine it like a young child that’s trying to tell you what to do. You’re not gonna argue with the child, you’re not gonna become fearful of the child, you’re just gonna accept what the child is saying by saying “okay” - you’re neutral to it while knowing you’re in control from a higher place of trust/power. You’re not taking the child (your ego) that seriously. But you’re not threatened by it either. You’re compassionate! Hope that makes sense!
@@ManifestwithGenevieve thank you. It makes sense. I was struggling a bit with my ego for a while and I was always getting confused about accepting egos chatter to detach but instead of feeling detachment and my own power, I actually started to feel some pessimism. So its more about coming from a place of knowing that I get my desire because I AM the creator and let the ego say its two cents without putting any meaning to it and not be bothered by what it is saying.
Hey so I have a question about what you said... an ik you didn't mea it this way but the idea an thought makes me think it this way automatically so there for I wanna ask this... Do I have to think that there's better than my SP an that there's alot fish in the sea? Personally I don't think that or wanna think that bc the idea just disgust me bc I know for sure and believe there's no one better than my SP an bc I hate the idea of thinking to be with someone else other than him an when you said to think an say that it just makes me sick and disgusted... to me my SP is the best an he's the perfect type an person for me... in personality and all... I'm okay with your thoughts an idea of letting go and believing he would eventually come back but this one didn't make me feel good or happy at all... I don't even wanna think it... I'm detached anyway and that's your point right? Isn't that all what matters? Or do I still have to think that in order to make him obsessed about me or can I just use another way or thinking? The only thing i wanna change is the version of him that express himself an shows so much love towards me an never emotionally dry... i love him the way he is but i just want him to be juicy in his words with me an more romantic an sweet an loving.
First, you've gotta address the kinks! You got to look at your role in what's causing them to actively manifest you away in the first place (i.e. distrustful of you due to prior trauma before you walked in, your prior treatment of them, or both). You're going to need open communication in order to build the trust that's lacking from their end from the ground up, then you can affirm for them to manifest you and them to get closer together organically.
Priorities and purpose is a big deal. If your sp is manifesting you away, then are you sure they are the one not ready (purpose, goals, and the reality of the internet deception). Seems like most I see are thinking that the other is the one not ready. The other thing I see is claiming this great spiritual connection, but always exploring others. Still, they just keep believing the other isn't ready, but none of us want the one who flip flops to others. It's like a mass insanity. We so want someone who stays on course, they think they do, but it doesn't last 5 minutes. I believe in the promise from God, or the universe, or whatever you want to call it, That I will find my partner in creating Into a purpose That is very important. But I also really don't care anymore. Even I feel like I should just resort to plan b, and just work with men, and male children, and completely forgo females from every aspect. My gift is special needs children, nonverbal people, what I want to do cannot be done buy just a man or a woman. I care nothing about ego, denominations, that's not the way unconditional love, and especially children, work. I understand the theory of quantum physics and the point here. I'm starting to really believe that I should 100% give up on anything having to do with females, and only single dads with male children. I've spent my whole life working towards this, and had many visions. Of course I made bad choices, but I'm starting to really believe this lifetime of Visions, it's not going to happen because of the internet being control of anything female. As even a truly spiritual martial artist from birth, I have seen things and experience things that most people don't even believe in. It's hard because I despise Sigmund freud, and definitely the word ego. I do believe my partner will come, but I'm starting to not be sure anymore. If I don't build soon, there's not going to be anything left of me for me or my son. Once I build, there will be no one who has an attachment to anything on the internet that I will ever let in again. Recognizing that the internet has a very evil agenda, it is not a control to desire someone else who recognizes that. I don't even have a desire to convince anyone. Children, and special needs, they don't care about anything like race, religion, they don't care about any of that. But if one word comes from you that does not match your actions and what they feel from your heart, then you have no place for them. Ever wondered how an autistic kid decides who they speak to, while some they won't even look their direction? I do love your line of logic and the way you explain things, but life is not about customers and viewers. When the truly pure hearted, and actually unconditionally loving people, figure out how to find and get with each other, awesome things are going to happen. Beware of the ego doctrine. Freud's purpose was he was working for someone else, along with Jung, and they sought a socialism type of world. The mechanics same idea, but the alterior view is everyone know all the truth. Still, I do love the way you explain, sometimes I'm not sure you even believe the stuff you're saying yourself, or at least you knew you didn't before. More and more it's about women trying to manifest a man but after a few sentences you can see that they have really come to this point where they just want eunuchs, followers, for their internet mission, not a man. Can we manifest in evil? Of course, but this is where things get complicated. It can't be both ways.
Omg, I love this! Thinking of manifestation in terms of "stages" is super super helpful. I'm definitely at this stage where I've thought to myself: I obviously need to take a step back and focus on all of my other manifestations for a time, completely ignoring my SP. I haven't regretted it for a second. I've been able to detach (probably, 50% there hahaha) to the point where even yesterday, for the first time EVER, I had a thought along the lines of: "Wait, is THAT it?" Like... us ending up together doesn't even seem that interesting anymore. It's just what I've been making it out to be in my mind, based on logic and past experience. And it feels so so powerful to be at this place, I can't wait to see how I feel in a couple or more months.
I don't understand the specific SP stuff. I guess I do if this person really checks off all the stuff that is important to you, but I think that there's generally going to be a connection felt between the two people there when that happens and there's nothing to really manifest. But an ex, or someone who obviously doesn't feel any kind of way about you, and especially one who is actively trying to push you away, why would you subject yourself to that? Let it go and manifest someone who actually wants to be with you and let go of the rest.
Hello you’ve talked regarding the SP you are not in contact with and limerence…what if they pop in your head during the day out of the blue…is that limerence? Does that mean they are thinking of you at that exact moment?
I did my manifestation and then immediately when I thought I had reached the end result, I partially stopped reciting the affirmation to attract my SP but I used to visualize and have a habit of acting out the end result as well. But a completely opposite result has shown up right now and I'm blocked everywhere, I tried fixing it on call but it won't work. Looks like it has all fallen apart completely and I don't know how to keep trusting the process anymore. Though I'm still trying hard to persist. But I'm confused if it is the Universe giving me a sign to stop. Some tips and guidance will help.
If our ego can’t handle the 3D, is it okay to cut off contact with that version of them? Him breadcrumbing me is pissing off my ego. I feel like I need space to focus on myself. I want to tell him to just let me go until he’s willing to show up fully. Then focus fully on myself and become the woman that he DOES want to show up for.
Why would she want him? Why want a person who doesn't want you when there are so many who would, and would "obviously" be a better match. We need more videos on manifesting less drama.
Most importantly about love, it has to be chosen in free will. There is no force in the universe that will make someone love you, even if it could. We can only decide who we love, not who loves us. I know a few people that I really love and like, but I can never support what they support, and they would never support my goals. This goes way deeper than these few words. I'm a very loving person. And as much as I Wish I Could Have Been Loved back by a couple people, that part wasn't my choice. It's so important to realize, whether it's god, the universe, there is no one that will change someone to love you. People even say God is in control, no, he knows what's going to happen but he is not controlling it. He won't even change someone to love him. He might know what would change someone and who would actually follow afterwards, but he did not make it happen. I have to say this in past tense, because there is a great misunderstanding about time and dimensional energy. No one is controlling the future, to them it is the past. I don't mean to digress. The most important aspect of the concept of manifesting is to seeing yourself, actual visualization, on the other side of that perceived obstacle. Can someone punch through a solid concrete block? Or have they visualized their hand on the other side of it, but also with much much practice on focus and the ever famous words, the the hand is free when the mind is free of the concept of self. I love her videos, so this is not meant as a disagreement. I actually agree what's most and her line of logic. She's not wrong about the mindset of how to make sure your energy is in line with the goals you want.
I’ve found out that manifestation is always instant, and the struggle to understand this stuff (or the need to fix, to change, to use a process etc.) comes from the old self concept. And I resonate very much with what you say, regarding EVERY desire. Sometimes you need only to decide that it’s done, and stick to it, even when you have opposing thoughts or external circumstances. Embrace the fact that you can imagine it because you already have it (all)! If you can picture it/decide, you are acknowledging the fact that you already have that relationship, that job, even before the visualization, since creation is finished. As you said, the best thing is to accept everything as neutral, living from your desired end, knowing that it is done (suspending all logic, that’s why Neville said “do not discuss your desire, not even with yourself”). Just decide and remove your attention from ALL the rest. Be the “witness”, as they say in the East.
One of THE best, synoptical comments on manifesting I have ever read. Thank you. I screenshotted this. Brilliant! Bravo!
Best advice ever!!
Easier said than done. Especially when it comes to someone you were involved with for a long time. But I get what you are saying
There’s a TH-camr called Priya Patten who manifested her husband back after he came to her for a divorce and she was in the process of moving out of their house. She affirmed and aligned with the version of him that wanted to be with her. The cool thing is after they got back together he said that he never wanted to divorce her and that she’s the love of his life..which makes perfect sense when you understand exactly how manifesting works. You’re not changing your SP, you’re aligning with the version of him that wants what you want. So it makes sense that this new version of her husband who tell a completely different story. How? bcuz there are limitless versions of everyone and you’ve just aligned with the version of your boyfriend who doesn’t want what you want.
It doesn’t help that you’ve put him on the pedestal and believe him to be more powerful than you. Not true. You’re so powerful that you’ve put him in the power position. No one can assert their power over you UNLESS you believe they can and that you’re powerless to control that. You’re the God of your reality! KNOW THAT!!!!🥰
This is so so true we are realigning ourselves truly ❤
I forgot to add the most relevant part about this story and that is Priya’s husband (who wanted a divorce) also is a conscious creator and understands manifestation. And she still manages to manifest exactly what she wanted from him and completely turned her situation around!! It’s her reality!! Her desires trump all else!!! 🤩🤩🤩
@@dynamicpisces🥺 😯 😃 👏 ♥️!
@@dynamicpiscesI follow her, yes she got her desire in her reality. That was so inspiring🥳💜
She's not desiring the version of him that doesn't want her. She should have a new reality where his free will matches her free will. Forget this old version of him and herself. Everyone should be made new in the relationship from her imagination. I love that she shared her story!!
How do we get there? Creating a new reality where both of your free wills match, organically of course!
@rnbsteenstar by accepting the FACT that you created, that experience to gain a lesson so that you can expand on your journey. Now, you can decide to move to the next level of intentionally creating your ideal self first, KNOW that you deserve love from wherever and whomever you select. It's not about the SP it's a lesson you selected to learn, so only you can shift it. Re-value yourself from within and disregard all past experiences. Therefore, your SP is simply a symbol you decided to identify your love with. Only you can decide to give that symbol new meaning in YOUR reality.
@@ManifestingMorewithMoe my case? Trust, for his sake, absolutely must be built from the ground up.
I think many forget we are choosing 'our reality' .. there are many different versions of US.. we choose the version, no one wins outside of us, they are just reflecting something INSIDE US. Choose what you want. It is done.
Her SP 'always gets what he wants' because SHE SAID SO.. that is her assumption she is looking at 3D and affirming for.
If he is 'manifesting her away' that is coming from her - no shame about it, no betting yourself up about it.
It's just about seeing it.. like 'oh.. that was me, ok I choose differently now'.
External says what's happening internally. It's not real. The moment we change our minds, and commit to it us done. It's done.
Our 'job' is to CHOOSE. Because so much hot and cold is our own issues with really knowing what we want.
Stop assigning meaning to 3D. Don't mess with 3D. Let it be, and know what you want is done.
Well said!! And this is exactly why we need to watch what kinds of ego thought chatter we're taking seriously. Because it really IS as simple as whatever we *think* is real, becomes real. And that's exactly what this question writer created! Evidence of what she had already been fearing about her SP. But we really can change our assumptions INSTANTLY. It just takes commitment to have faith in our power despite being faced with the old evidence we've created.
I 💯% agree! Everything she sees in her 3D reality are HER assumptions
Gosh I don't even know where to start. Just reading all your comments and realising how much effort and work you put in everyday to make someones life an easier way. It's so beautiful! I recently started watching your videos and the thing is, after i first heard you talking about SP stuff and all this topic, i got extra emotional - and I was like "I should avoid her at all costs, because that's the place where my anxiety feels more visible and it just kills me at this point". But here I am. Watching your new videos, listening to every word that comes out of your mouth and just how much of a luck I had, to find you.
Thank you. I know I'm just starting my concious manifesting path, hut you help a lot not to fall into the trap of 3D.
Nobody else has their own reality inside your reality. And 'competition' doesn't actually exist; you make it exist because you're forgetting how powerful you actually are. You're giving your power away. When you truly understand that EVERYTHING is created inside of you with your own imagination, the 3D truly doesn't mean crap.
Genevieve, your last video was so helpful for me. I took with me your words of Take the 3D completely out of the equation, and ran with it. Decided I was going to truly challenge myself with this the other day, and set an alarm for every hour on the hour in the day. Each hour, I went into my imagination, did an imaginal act, and really truly made sure I believed that 4D is it. That's it. No 3D. Came out, and 4D is it, that's it. By the end of the day, I was just flying high. Nothing in my physical world affected who I was deciding to be. It was like a calm knowing lightness, and my visualizations were so much clearer and easier. I truly was this person who has these things. Yesterday there were SO many instant synchronicities throughout the day, too, with things I was thinking. I FINALLY get it, I FINALLY understand. Thank you so much for your content. ❤️
Was it the self sabotage video?
Amazing that that’s working for you. I think I’ll try that. 😊
If your "reality" controls me and I don't have personal power, then why am I laughing at you right now? Do you have any idea how narcissistic, unhealthy, and controlling your comment sounds? I very much exist in this world, with my own power, and im going to manifest how little power you have over that 😂😊
@MrAhuraMazda You obviously don't understand the law of assumption, and how nothing and no one is outside of your own conscious awareness. If you really practice the law on a daily you will see it. I am not taking any control away from you. You have all the control in your own reality as well, we all do. This is where free will gets misunderstood in this community. The fact that you take offense to what I've explained here shows me that you're not quite understanding it fully. "Narcissism" is also a label you've put on me from your own belief system, so now all that's going to feed back to you is that I'm a narcissist. Everything is neutral nothingness until YOU give it a meaning in YOUR own world. If you labeled me differently as such, you would see me acting different. Nothing actually has to necessarily even change on my end, per se, you change your own perception and things can just automatically look different to you in that instant. This is how it works. Its not magic, it's not narcissism. It's all just coming from you and mirroring back, if that makes sense. And for you to right off the bat label me as a narcissist when you have no idea who I am or anything about me, it says quite a bit to me. The fact that I did trigger you like this is a good indication to look inside yourself at the negative meanings you give to things in your world. I am a very kind person, love to help people, and am compassionate. Your interpretation of what I wrote is all just you, friend. I wish you well, and I also choose to see you as a kind and caring person who is successfully manifesting everything you would like in your life. Be well.
@@Loveformakeup100 Yes, it was like another Aha moment. Very enlightening 😊
That's amazing! Sorry, I'm still pretty new to all this, could you give an example or two of what you did/thought on the hour, and what your experience was as a result?
This is so true! Listen to her, guys! I've got all my SPs (yes, i have a few hihi). And i did it by just not caring so much and not making them the center of my world! Just detach, relax and live your life.
Are you non-monogamous or are you poly? Are they all with you today?
@@rnbsteenstar nope...just playing around because i enjoy being single and not sure who i want to commit to. The four guys i like (and with which i had relationships/situationships in the past few years) are all back and eager to date. I've tried to manifest some of them before but now that they're off the pedestal and i am relaxed, they're all back.
@@ilpoteredellamente3029 that's valid! Are you being honest with them and upfront? Please be upfront! I'm actually poly.
@@rnbsteenstar of course! I have no need to lie to them. My comment was not to start a debate on relationships, it was just to reiterate the fact that when you relax, you can have any SP you want! 😁
@@ilpoteredellamente3029 😂 I know, I wasn't trying to debate you. I'm sorry I made you think that.
This reminds me of a scene from that old sitcom third rock from the sun. Two basketball teams were playing each other. The mascot of one was an alien. His team was huddled in prayer, he notices the other team was praying as well, and he said hey Coach, those guys are praying too! And then he said Oh I get it, our God is stronger than their God. The coach replied, exasperated, it’s the same God! At this, the alien was completely perplexed.
Yall this video popping up at this time was amazing. Not only have I been wanting more clarity on this which I ask and know it will get answered someway somehow. I also just so happened to be listening to my audio book ,”What you think of me is none of my business.” I was listening to the chapter called ,”The Myth of Competition.” Just WOW! 🤩 amaze balls! ❤ love you and thank you Genevieve 🌈
Off topic but you look gorgeous! Your skin is glowing 😍
Damn. Spot on. I've discovered that my partner may have hidden and different intentions about me and us, and those clashing intentions might be messing up my life in very big ways. He manifests too and sometimes I feel like he's using that to control me, like he's implying that he's so powerful that he manifested me from the other side of the globe, and he can manifest me back to my hometown as he wishes. These videos have been really helpful for me to get in touch with my power and sense of autonomy back. I'm a bit exhausted from him, but I'm working on getting my spirit back. I've been giving away too much to him. Thanks very much for the video
You are my favorite manifestation creator. I love how real you are!
Anyone working to manifest a partner may benefit from learning more about committed relationships in general, especially within various spiritual traditions. A lot of the current culture, at least in the USA, has very unhealthy misunderstandings about partnership and love which will impact your approach to manifesting or accepting a partner into your life.
Especially the focus in Gen Z on being perfect, authentic versions of ourselves who have already "done all the work" on ourselves and are highly successful within the confines of unrealistic and miserable economic or religious standards. A lot of young people believe love isn't as important as other various personal goals, or they are influenced by people who believe this.
Don't let manifesting love be another way to beat yourself up about not being good enough for a partner, who you will grow and learn with anyway, if it is a healthy partnership.
Your self concept isn't about perfecting yourself, it's about understanding the meaning you give your thoughts and beliefs about yourself and the world around you.
Gen!!! I took your course and I feel sooo good loving myself ❤ thank you for all you do
Wonderful! I'm so, so glad! ❤️🔥❤️🔥
The main issue is that she doesn’t believe this to be possible. If she continues focusing on manifesting him, but still holds on to the belief that she cannot do it, she will probably struggle a lot!
0:59 True ❤ I will soon buy your course
Guys listen to her... She is saying everything right... I have been following her teachings in and trust me my sp has is now obsessed with me.... But before listening to genevive... He was always ready to breakup... But now He can't be happy without me. He confessed that he is dependent on me.
What you do and how long until you saw a change
@@MrsAnaelimont I stopped obsessing over him and focused on my self concept
I like this so much Genevieve. Thank you. ❤
Omg when you read that letter I was laughing this is so funny 😂
It's like a wizard fight! I don't say that mockingly because I empathize with the client feeling rejected, but the description of the manifesting power struggle definitely had me thinking 'wizard fight!' 🧙♀️⚡️🧙♂️
@@Muchness11 yes I get it, anymore just thinking we have to “manifest” anyone or something seems egoic in general. We are all far greater than that in our ability to have what is already within us. Once we desire it, it’s possible and will happen if we would just stay out of our own way and not fall into the fear of never obtaining it. Life is way more fun and peaceful too in that energy. When I feel myself falling into a thought pattern like that. I say to myself wait one cotton picking minute I already have what I want and I already am what I seek, it snaps me back out of that oncoming egoic spiral 🌀
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. You’re an amazing coach. Thank you 🙏🏼 ❤
What a well thought out answer 🙂
I really like the changing the dynamic idea when it comes to relationships and general ‘people stuff’ It’s a really healthy ‘win win’ way looking at it and also I feel it’s the wish fulfilled with the ego removed. It works for me.
Hi Genevieve, great video, we need more of these please 🙂
You look tan and beautiful!!! Also, as always, amazing and clarifying video. I love to tune in with the easy light waves of your teachings. Fran from Chile ❤
Genevieve, what's your perspective on healing the inner child/ childhood trauma/doing shadow work/dissolving patterns/working on self concept etc. ? Do we need to do it to manifest our desires ? It would be great if you make a video on this topic.
Thank you!
The short is no! We don’t need to “heal” anything to manifest. The assumption you put on yourself that something is wrong with you and you “need to heal it” is the only problem. Often personal healing can turn into a hamster wheel where we just keep finding more and more things about ourselves to heal. Manifestation is really about turning all those old ideas over to God, just releasing them. Letting them go. And ironically, we become “healed” when we let go of the burden of feeling like we need healing haha!
@@ManifestwithGenevieve Thank you so so much for clarifying. I love watching your videos and always look forward to them ❤️
@@ManifestwithGenevieveExactly! When we think there is something we “need to heal from”, we are accidentally placing ourselves on a hamster wheel feeling. They are just as any triggering thoughts or 3D we place on a pedestal. It is fear of self care and self concept neglect. Logic mixed with unnecessary duty. They are common mistake we make on this journey. We need those “digging deep” insightful reminders every once in a while. Infinite thanks! ❤
You’re on fire girl 💅🔥
Great topic
Hi Genevieve!
I wanted to thank you for this video. But also, I've been watching a lot of your older videos and they've been so so helpful. Thank you for all that you do ❤ your messages are valuable. The notification of your upload brings a smile on my face 💕🐱
This is the truth. I thought I was manifesting whilst I fed my ego but it wasn’t until I genuinely started letting go (and it’s not linear I’m still back and forth with that) and I started to feel some relaxed disconnection … you’ll see the shift.
16:12 loving this - AND accepting does not have to mean claiming, which we often lump in together
You nailed it right on the head! That acceptance does not need to mean claiming.
@@rnbsteenstar ❤️❤️❤️
Yep, I totally believe we can only ever struggle with accepting something when we equal it to claiming it, like it will be forever there now to be experienced. Whereas it’s more like “I hate parsnips and can see them, even smell them at the buffet, but still, I don’t have to eat them. I can just let them sit there on that plate and leave them alone, not gonna try to argue with the chef to remove them outta my sight.” 🧑🍳That sort of vibe.
P.S. personally like parsnips though 😆
Awesome video you said a lot of things that many others have not spoken on. Great advice for acceptance. Side note the whole video I was thinking you looked familiar and at the very end I realized where, you look like the actress that played Jewels on Psych. XD
Great points. I've been thinking about the same thing when it comes to an ailment we're trying to push away.. Thank you for this 🙏
I'm not manifesting him to change. I'm manifesting the version of him that is changed.
Can you please do a more in-depth reading about the Ego & how to be rid of it ( or at least how to ignore it)?! 😔
Good question! I'll add this to my list 😘
@@ManifestwithGenevieve Omg thank you so much, Genevieve🥲!
You shouldn't ignore it, however, you do got to keep it in balance. Bypassing ain't the way to go!
@@rnbsteenstar Agree. Definitely not bypassing it
Our egos are essential parts of our human experience. It's literally just a part of our mental construct that allows us to have individual personalities and boundaries with other people and things. We are never not our egos if we are human. But what influences our egos and what we take on as our identity is important to pay attention to.
You are choosing an alternate reality where he does not oppose you. It's all about how YOU imagine the scene to go, not how he does.
Genevieve ! Great amazing video. I love the straight talk.
❤ - Serf
I really really appreciate this. It’s true that the videos we really need pop out. Like you always know. I feel like this video is going to be the final thing I need, because I struggle the most with doubts and fears, manifestation not being true or working and therefore not even „trying“ really, definitely a wounded ego.
Genevieve, I have a friend who actually did spell work on their SP to try to ‘bind’ their relationship & now she says he is running in the opposite direction ie running completely cold & disinterested in her & the relationship so everything you’re saying in this video is so true 💖✨💖
That kind of thing usually has two outcomes- the person repels/sabotages the very thing they want, OR, they get what they want and then realize it’s not exactly what they thought it was and no longer want it anymore 👀
@@mollyshealingcornerspell work. Especially black magic.
I wish I had seen this video 8 months ago. I am only just really understanding this, and working with this idea of preference and surrender. It's so hard not to get accidentally obsessed when coaches keep telling you to "persist, no matter what". Persistence in the old story - which is what you end up doing - totally sucks. I'd love a video on your step-by-step process for manifesting ❤
Omg Thanks for answer this person Genevieve ❤❤
Logic doesn’t belong in manifestation
Great content, thank you ❤
Thank you for this ❤
I have also been wondering something, which you can probably explain really well... I understand the principle of what you assume to be true becomes true. The thing I keep getting stuck on though, is what about things that you don't expect? Lots of things happen that I just didn't see coming, so I couldn't have assumed them, sometimes I may even assume the opposite (someone is well, who becomes unexpectedly sick, for example). So, not all of my reality can be down to my expectations and therefore controlled. Or am I misunderstanding?
Maybe others wonder this too?
AMAZING! Thank you, goddess
Incredible perfect explanation. This helped me so much.
Thank You Genevieve 😊
Honestly, this breaks my heart.
So I thought about her question - the way to reconcile this is through Quantum physics and the existence of the multiverse, alternate realities/dimensions.
The one in which she manifests the guy, her SP is already a different reality (a different version of her boyfriend SP that *already* wants her) and a separate reality altogether to the one where her SP boyfriend *wants* to manifest her away.
So i.e that boyfriend that doesn't want her is a different version of him in the separate reality.
Wonderful wonderful wonderful coaching thank you so much
I love the way you explain things ❤
Hey Genevieve! New subscriber here! I’ve been binge watching your channel for a week and I absolutely adore you! Your content is amazing and so helpful for someone who is new and really wants to practice this consciously bc I’ve realized I’ve manifested a lot of my personal and professional goals in life unconsciously. This time though I’m trying to manifest an SP for the first time. However, he doesn’t even know I exist, we never met. I have a huge crush on him after noticing him one day. I’m getting better with self concept and acknowledging any doubts to quickly let them go and neutralize myself to get myself back into a confident and positive position.
However, I’ll admit I’m very head-y and logical. I’m always trying to quiet down my ego. But I can’t help but have this nagging doubt about the circumstance that me and my SP never crossed paths, never met, and he doesn’t know I exist. I feel like there has to be some sort of miracle for us to magically even cross paths before we could actually at least date, let alone be together. Like, could manifesting still work? Should I orchestrate a way for us to cross paths just to strike up a conversation and go from there? -(I’m such a go-getter and it’s hard for me to just sit on my hands, not force it and just trust the process. I always put in a lot of effort and work towards getting what I want so this is new for me)-
But, From what I get from your content, I should just accept this circumstance, don’t let it trigger or threaten me, persist in my self concept and unwavering belief that us being together is already done, trust the process, detach and focus on improving myself everyday. Make myself someone my sp would want to be with one day and just stay loyal to that thought of a better version of myself to attract the best person for me, sp or not. If he’s meant for me, he will come somehow - despite the circumstance.
Right?
The key is completely letting go of alllll this ego noise and evaluations of the past and stepping into an energy/state of HAVING the relationship you want. A completely internal acknowledge that everything is perfect and done now. It really is as simple as that and sometimes we forget this simplicity with all the overthinking and trying to make things logical. I get it! Keep your focus solely on YOU embodying the version of you that is so content in your chosen relationship. And become completely non resistant and accepting of the 3D. That’s how it finally moves/shifts - when you stop fighting with it and engaging with it.
@@ManifestwithGenevieve You’re the best Genevieve! Thank you so much! 💖
So… in the end, we all get what we want because we live in multiple realities right? It feels like this is what’s implied but not explicitly stated.
D😅tThe Guy
My issue with the concept of (shifting realities) is that, though it appears to be the case that if your mind is in a good state you tend to give off a good vibe thats attractive to others, but detaching from your current reality is just strait up delusionalism, because there is in fact objective reality.
There are crazy people out there who 100% believe that their in fact other people, or their rich and famous but objectively its false, like a tree that still falls in the woods even if its not physically observed by anyone.
This was great! Thank you ..
I’m not gonna lie, if somebody is actively “manifest you away” leave them ALONE!
You’re the only one in the room honey….its just you on your reality. There are infinite yous..infinite thems
I feel like there’s some stuff that needs to be added in here. I completely get where this person is at because I once had a difficult time accepting that someone I loved, who I knew still loved me, Wasn’t willing to keep trying to make things work between us. It was painful and confusing, but the truth is at some point I had to let go out of respect for us both. I feel like it should’ve been said that loving someone means respecting their wants and free will as well as your own. I also love the phrase “this or something better”, which allows for the possibility that you will find your way back to one another, but also that somebody else out there might suit you even better… whichever is for the highest good of everyone involved.
Thank you. See my comment.
Most importantly, we can do all this without any coercion. Instead, in my case through open communication and trust building! Yes, you can absolutely go specific healthily.
One of mine (SP) and I are in that "who wins," stage. I'm choosing my end. At the same time, I'm trying to figure out how to stay in my end while conceding to the reset.
I hope I haven't conceded too late!
❤😡😭
Update: the who wins stage came to an end on my birthday. I am truly done with that version of my SP because that version of him does not align with my desire. In fact, one day, he will regret a couple of the things he said, I won't go into details for privacy sake, he will see despite it all, the prize I really am. I choose my end, with my preferred version of SP.
Need this so much
I don't know if this could be helpful for someone, but I have taken to looking at the 3D like a documentary. If it's circumstances that aren't what I'm focused on for what I want, then it's someone else's documentary, therefore not about me. Sure, it exists, I'm even aware of it, but it's not about me, so there's no point in getting upset about it. And I keep most of my focus on the wonderful things I'm manifesting for myself.
"room to grow to a different level of relating to each other". this is a very eloquent way of putting it but shouldn't it be: why would you want to manifest someone who doesn't want you anyways? in my case i don't even want them anymore because of the mistreatment but i'm in such a karmic matrix with interfamilial shit at play and can't get away from it. they noticed that i did withdraw my vibe (all the while very angry at the mistreatment) and that led them to taunt me indirectly.
So the question in the email is similar to the question or manifesting rain vs sunny weather scenario I presented below:
The mirror universe/law of attraction is based on the belief that only one sentient being exists within his own bubble reality.
If this is a universal mental truth then it isn't contingent upon my belief for it to work.
Paradox so in other words whether or not I believe the law of attraction would work, it would STILL work regardless.
If you share your reality with other sentient beings with a consciousness there is more than one consciousness.
Say for example there could be one person manifesting rain and another manifesting sunny weather, the resistant thought isn't coming from yourself but from another being.
If the person wanting to manifest rainy weather was more dominant or had the more powerful mind then it would supersede or trump the other person manifesting sunny weather.
Thus it would be rainy weather.
In that sense it's not solipsism.
Therefore the outer manifestation of what you are experiencing is the sum total as a collective whole from all individuals or a reflection of their own perceptions/beliefs/thought manifestation including your own. Collective consciousness.
Would I be right in the above statements?
I don't think this question has anything to do with ego " harry potter thing". I think it's a common sense question for a person that wants to understand how the law works. What's the science? What's the rules of the game? What's the facts on a broader scale? This was a very deep question however not a deep answer scientifically. It was an answer mainly focusing on social psychology and the 3D. Her question is 4D based.
I’m f your SP we’re a better manifester than you, your desire would disappear. Unconsciously, your SP is manifesting you and is pleased to be manifested in return 😁
In the same way you are manifesting other people in your life.
Let it go, every manifestation comes. Have fun and don’t take conscious manifestations too seriously. Your SP will come back when they won’t feel chased. No action required.
I gave up months ago on scripting or whatever. When I desire something or someone, I know it is on the way.
I went on a trip last week, a trip for my old city that I miss so much and I was terrified with the idea of miss any video of Genevieve hahahahah, but she didn't post during this period so I'm ok gahahahahahahah
Hi Genevieve, I’ve been watching your videos now for a few months and get a lot of inspiration from them (you), and things are going well for me although I rarely dream when I sleep at night, but when I DO (dream) I seem to only have these disturbing nightmares is there a wierd subconscious correlation to this or is it just “what it is”?
Again an amazing explanation! I’ve recently read the “Untethered Soul” and all of this makes so much sense. But what I struggle with is that it’s my ego mind which is absorbing that knowledge. Do you have any book recommendations for understanding the ego mind?
I'm obvs not Genevieve, but I highly recommend RJ Spina's 'Change Your Mind' for overcoming the ego's stranglehold on your life.
I also really like The Power of Now!
@@ManifestwithGenevieveexcellent book!
Great video, I just cant believe my husband left me after 18 years, he just left me.he doesnt even want to talk to me anymore. Ive tried everything possible to get him back, but nothing seems to work and I cant stop thinking about him Im frustrated I dont see my life with anyone else. Ive done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I cant I dont know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just cant stop thinking about him
I'm really sorry to hear that. I went through something similar not too long ago. My boyfriend and I broke up and I felt completely lost. I tried everything, but it just seemed hopeless. Well I ended up reaching out to this incredible spiritual adviser. He helped me in ways I never thought possible. After working with him my husband came back to me and now we are happier than ever really.?
A spiritual adviser, that sounds interesting. What did you do? How can I get in contact with him.?
His name is Owen Abiola,and He's a great spiritual adviser who can bring back your ex.
Thank you so much! I just searched his name, and I found him, the reviews look amazing, and I m feeling hopeful now. I really believe I can get him back. I’m so happy to have found this.
Awwwwwww the necklace ❤❤❤❤
Thank you so much for this masterpiece.
There's something making noise in my head and it's the "stop it for now". I totally understand it and I've done it intuitively in the past, but I need to vent about it (my ego is writing this comment right now, I can hear already what you would say about it but I really need to let it go).
I have struggle a lot by "keep pushing" to manifest my SP so I naturally decided to stop "trying" to manifest him because I understood that it is a sign it is not working that way. You're the only one coach who I have heard saying such wise words, btw.
But the WHEN is the thing.
I know I know, manifestation is instant and I should not care about the time because once I get it I won't be thinking about the when (but I surely will be thinking "why did it take so fucking long?").
I have been trying to manifest this person and others SP and I've failed with everyone, manifesting an SP has been hard for me. It turns out that I have some kind of family karma, I supposedly took a vow of solitude and that does not allow me to manifest any SP.
I went with some tarot readers, and they all said the same thing: "not now". I know that I have to let it go in order to manifest it, and actually I think I'm doing it well this time (but still it is a matter of time to see the result) since I am feeling well, I have accepted everything and I'm actually fine with never getting it, It's kind of 'I don't care anymore'.
But WHEN am I gonna get it.
It hurts when you perceive a strongest force keeping you from getting what you want (for now). I know i'm going to get it, or I'll still get something, but it hurts seeing the time passing by, and I must just accept that 'NO' for now.
I'm not saying I gave these tarot readers all my power by accepting their words, I already felt that way during MY WHOLE LIFE and already FAILED a lot to finally contact them to help me see what's going on. They possibly gave me an answer for 'why' it is happening, but I'm still hoping for the best (even tho it was many months ago now, and how can I contradict them if I'm still not able to manifest him anyway?)
I have tried to fight that force, accept it, be stronger. But, what can I do? It says 'No for now' and all I can do or say is 'Ok, no for now'. That doesn't fix anything, because it is already telling me to wait, and what I wanted to avoid was the waiting.
It hurts. It hurts in my heart, it hurts in my chest, it hurts me. 'Why did it take that long' won't let me live for the rest of my life. I am really grateful for everything I have, I'm grateful for who I am, for what I've manifested, for what I've learned. I am financially free, I have friends and family who love me, I love my appearance, I love my job and have a successful career. I enjoy myself more than anything else. I'm not asking for companionship just to not be alone or something. I genuinly love myself. But that 'No for now' hurts so bad.
I even realized that I'm not fighting againts any SP by trying to manifest them , it's the waiting what's killing me.
There are other things I've manifested and I'm really like 'Why did it take that long'. And I know i'm going to suffer the rest of my life even if I manifest the PERFECT SP.
Why did it take that long.
All I can say is waiting sucks.
Yet, waiting is exactly what we need, sometimes, so that we can appreciate our specific people more than we might have done before. Some of the SP stories come about because we might have taken them for granted somehow.
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her email is my exact predicament and i daydreamed about taking my own life (because they are gaslighting me in the name of god, not cuz i'm dying for him at all (twin flame, i know you don't agree but it is what it is)! i know it sounds insane but it's exactly the situation. and even when i affirm that i'll get my way, they know that so they fight back. i don't agree that i can just think "he's mine" despite his kids pushing me away. as the alchemist says, 'petty tyrants'. and every time i try to stand in my power god makes me sicker (physically i mean).
This exact email is also on a video with Amanda on Create Your Future several days ago. Exact.
It is a live .11 days ago so did this person email multiple coaches?
Woahhhh really?? She must have emailed multiple coaches with the same inquiry! And changed the parts that were personal to me. 😂 Fascinating.
@@ManifestwithGenevieve I found your video from the algorithm. It showed up as a suggestion!
Haha, Harry Potter spells 😂. Great video, Genevieve! ❤
10:48 KAKAKAKAAKAKAKAKAKAKAKAKAAKAKAKAKAK 😂😂😂😂😂😂😅😅😅😅 can't stand it
Hey genevieve💕💕 off topic, but do you have anyone from your clients who was able to manifest a physical appearance change? Because I’ve been looking everywhere for someone who actually did accomplish such changes, but I never once saw someone. What I am talking about is losing weight without being on a diet ( I have literal trauma from counting calories). And you are the only person i would consider buying a membership from, but I know that it wouldn’t help me if I didn’t know at least one person who was able to manifest what I want to manifest. If you could reply, it would help me so much and I would then definitely be sure if I want to book a membership or not. Anyways, thank you for everything you do and have a blessed day 🙏🏻💕
This was a great video but the “maybe” part at the end worried me. So if I manifest from the “above the ego, higher power self”, then MAYBE my SP would want me? Isn’t that contradicting the fact they say they dont have free will in my world?
Hi Genevieve. :) I love your content, and your 'apology' video has really snapped me out of anger and resentment towards my SP, whether I like it or not he couldn't have done anything to me that my state of being didn't invite. But I still struggle with needing for him to take accountability that some of his behaviours weren't ok instead of making excuses, lying or sweeping things under the rug. Even if I am no longer mad at him, I just do not know how to mentally get myself into a state where I trust him and expect the best of him if he doesn't see what he did was wrong. Some of that behaviour wasn't towards me, so I wouldn't even know how to revise it. Do you have any advice or videos on this? I want to move forward with a fresh start, but him not taking accountability or not even thinking he did something wrong still eats at me. I know in some way I created it, but if I have a future with this man, I have to believe we have similar morals.
He is only playing the role he was assigned by your beliefs about him, yourself & relationships. “Forgive them for they know not what they do” He may not even realize … truly. I’ve heard so many stories that upon reconciliation, the SP would say, “idk why I like did those things, etc. I’m so sorry.”
People only confirm & conform to who we believe them to be. Forgive yourself first. Become the version of you that is in that loving, fulfilling, committed relationship with your perfect version of him (which requires you to release the old/other version story that you created) and an apology or acknowledgement may flow organically even though we are the sole proprietor of our experiences. ❤
@@LisaT_ hi. Thank you for your response. In the very beginning of knowing him, before I had any interest in him or before even talking to him I observed certain behaviors which were how he was introduced in my reality to begin with, I can't assign a role to a complete stranger because I had no assumption and opinion of him at all at that time. AFTER he came to my awareness, of course I take accountability for my negative assumptions and how they impacted him, but I know for a fact he's been a certain way most of his adult life before we even met, so I couldn't have possibly influenced him. Yes I can change how he is now by making new assumptions, but I struggle with the need for him to realise past actions were wrong. I need for him and me to be on the same page on what we consider as right or wrong, and I don't know how to fully get there if he never admits his past actions were not ok.
@@Robertiena you attract into your awareness based on your beliefs about yourself, love, relations, etc. so yes…he came into your life based on that. The story you created of him was based in your beliefs, not his actions or behavior. That’s how it works. It’s always a reflection of us. The whole world is yourself pushed out.
Whether it not he was a “certain way” his whole life is if no consequence. How he is with you is how you perceive him to be and even more likely how you perceive prior to him even showing up.
For example, you see some say every SP cheats on me. SP’s cheat. Even if they meet someone new who’s great at first, that underlying belief is providing the experience. Regardless.
It isn’t just you assigning a role to a stranger because you didn’t know them, it’s assigning roles to anyone based on your underlying beliefs. Period.
@@LisaT_ again, I know peoples behavior towards me are a result of my own beliefs and assumptions. But you are misunderstanding my issue, I am not interested in the root cause, I want a solution. What he did and said was not even to me, we never spoke or knew of eachother before this so I had 0 assumptions about him. But none of this matters, it is not news to me that everything I see and experience isa somehow rooted in me, whenever a malicious act is committed, people in relationships still have to acknowledge, take accountability for their actions and apologise in order to move on. Past doesn't magically go away even if I realise I in some way created it, it still needs to be sorted out in order to proceed, some kind of communication needs to happen. He does not know or practice the law, he's just a logical human being, and that's why it's important that he doesn't pretend something was okay when it wasn't. Tomorrow he could visit me and then tell me some horrible insult. Would this be a creation of my assumptions and beliefs? Yes absolutely. And in order for him to act better towards me I would need to improve what I assume about him. BUT in order for us to move forward in physical reality there would still need to be some kind of gesture and acknowledgement from his side in order to make up and move on. Because if he is a good person who owns up to his behavior, he can't possibly act like it never happened or pretend it was ok
@@Robertiena Im not misunderstanding anything. You want me to say yes, you are justified for holding on to resentment and are waiting for some sort of acknowledgement for past sins of your SP. That’s a hole you are digging for yourself.
You want him to see what he did was wrong, BUT you are not seeing HIM as someone who made poor choices & feels regretful. You are still seeing him as someone who does not. You are believing in the 3D and holding on to “the past” That is a problem.
You still are believing everything happens outside of you. It does not. It does not matter what he did 1 min ago, 1 year ago, or before you met. He is, in your reality, who you believe he is. You are holding on to logic and reason that someone’s past or present needs explained and “owned” up to your satisfaction. It does if that’s what you believe, but that’s a slippery slope to reconciliation.
There’s a limiting view here about him until that he provides a gesture to prove to your satisfaction that he is a good person by acknowledging some perceived error in judgement. But you aren’t seeing him that way, so why would he? “Do not try to change people, they are only messengers telling you who you are. Revalue yourself and they will confirm the change…Neville”
You say you don’t want the root cause. You want the solution. 🤷🏻♀️That is not the law. You are the cause. It’s all causation. You are the cause AND you are the solution. It’s all you. If you believe anything happens outside of you and that’s the hill you want to die on then there will be struggle.
Who are you being? Are you being the version of self who has the desired relationship with the version of him who shares your values and character or are you the person who is holding on to resentment and waiting for someone to own up to something you feel doesn’t align with your morals?? You need to decide and see him the way you desire now. This starts with you.
The past, present & future are all now. You are forcing a version of him from the past to rectify something so you can accept him in the now. That isn’t how this goes. Forgiveness goes a long way toward viewing someone how you desire them to show up.
My case is slightly different. I found Neville when I was desperate because my ex had left me. For over a year I therefore used the Law to get my ex back. Now the roles have completely reversed. I feel like I have to get her back not because I can’t live without her but because I want to have proof the Law works for me. I can actually manifest consciously. Makes sense?
Same here! Except, mine is more on someone who I always had an impression of not wanting him, then slowly falling in and out of him, but for some reason he's constantly in my mind. And despite everything that has happened, including me realizing that I like him. It's like punching a hologram or opening a stubborn box- I was chill until he rejected me. I thought Twin Flames would resolve it, and it did resonate with me at times! Considering, he rejected me and sympathize with reality (at least so I am not seen as a manipulator or a mischievous person), I am trying to remember "everyone is me (and my assumptions) pushed out". However, we just need to shift our perspective beyond a "challenge accepted" and embody the feeling of being wanted.
Thank you ❤
But what happens when I know there's a lot of ppl who I can have a relationship with, but I still feel that I don't see me with anyone else? And not in an obsessive way, but really in a genuine feeling. I have accepted when my SP told me he moved on, and I have to do it too. Obviously it hurt me, but I accepted, even I said ok in 3D. I didn't chase him. But of course I still choosing my end with him.
All you can do is choose your end with him. Did you tell him that that's what you want when all is said and done?
When the ego says "this is not working, you'll never get what you want" and I say ok and fully accept this as a possibility and then ego says "lets give up trying to manifest" . Then what do I say to myself and how do I proceed from there? Do I then tell myself that its ok let the ego keep telling me things are not working out or do I at some point say to myself that this thought is meaningless to focus on what I desire.
Your “agreement” to your ego is about being neutral to whatever noise it’s trying to sell you! You’re just simply saying “ok” to whatever it says without taking it so seriously. Imagine it like a young child that’s trying to tell you what to do. You’re not gonna argue with the child, you’re not gonna become fearful of the child, you’re just gonna accept what the child is saying by saying “okay” - you’re neutral to it while knowing you’re in control from a higher place of trust/power. You’re not taking the child (your ego) that seriously. But you’re not threatened by it either. You’re compassionate! Hope that makes sense!
@@ManifestwithGenevieve thank you. It makes sense. I was struggling a bit with my ego for a while and I was always getting confused about accepting egos chatter to detach but instead of feeling detachment and my own power, I actually started to feel some pessimism. So its more about coming from a place of knowing that I get my desire because I AM the creator and let the ego say its two cents without putting any meaning to it and not be bothered by what it is saying.
Hey so I have a question about what you said... an ik you didn't mea it this way but the idea an thought makes me think it this way automatically so there for I wanna ask this...
Do I have to think that there's better than my SP an that there's alot fish in the sea? Personally I don't think that or wanna think that bc the idea just disgust me bc I know for sure and believe there's no one better than my SP an bc I hate the idea of thinking to be with someone else other than him an when you said to think an say that it just makes me sick and disgusted... to me my SP is the best an he's the perfect type an person for me... in personality and all... I'm okay with your thoughts an idea of letting go and believing he would eventually come back but this one didn't make me feel good or happy at all... I don't even wanna think it...
I'm detached anyway and that's your point right?
Isn't that all what matters? Or do I still have to think that in order to make him obsessed about me or can I just use another way or thinking? The only thing i wanna change is the version of him that express himself an shows so much love towards me an never emotionally dry... i love him the way he is but i just want him to be juicy in his words with me an more romantic an sweet an loving.
The story is he is actively manifesting her away. She can affirm he is actively manifesting us to get closer together.
First, you've gotta address the kinks! You got to look at your role in what's causing them to actively manifest you away in the first place (i.e. distrustful of you due to prior trauma before you walked in, your prior treatment of them, or both). You're going to need open communication in order to build the trust that's lacking from their end from the ground up, then you can affirm for them to manifest you and them to get closer together organically.
Priorities and purpose is a big deal. If your sp is manifesting you away, then are you sure they are the one not ready (purpose, goals, and the reality of the internet deception). Seems like most I see are thinking that the other is the one not ready. The other thing I see is claiming this great spiritual connection, but always exploring others. Still, they just keep believing the other isn't ready, but none of us want the one who flip flops to others. It's like a mass insanity. We so want someone who stays on course, they think they do, but it doesn't last 5 minutes. I believe in the promise from God, or the universe, or whatever you want to call it, That I will find my partner in creating Into a purpose That is very important. But I also really don't care anymore. Even I feel like I should just resort to plan b, and just work with men, and male children, and completely forgo females from every aspect. My gift is special needs children, nonverbal people, what I want to do cannot be done buy just a man or a woman. I care nothing about ego, denominations, that's not the way unconditional love, and especially children, work. I understand the theory of quantum physics and the point here. I'm starting to really believe that I should 100% give up on anything having to do with females, and only single dads with male children. I've spent my whole life working towards this, and had many visions. Of course I made bad choices, but I'm starting to really believe this lifetime of Visions, it's not going to happen because of the internet being control of anything female. As even a truly spiritual martial artist from birth, I have seen things and experience things that most people don't even believe in. It's hard because I despise Sigmund freud, and definitely the word ego. I do believe my partner will come, but I'm starting to not be sure anymore. If I don't build soon, there's not going to be anything left of me for me or my son. Once I build, there will be no one who has an attachment to anything on the internet that I will ever let in again. Recognizing that the internet has a very evil agenda, it is not a control to desire someone else who recognizes that. I don't even have a desire to convince anyone. Children, and special needs, they don't care about anything like race, religion, they don't care about any of that. But if one word comes from you that does not match your actions and what they feel from your heart, then you have no place for them. Ever wondered how an autistic kid decides who they speak to, while some they won't even look their direction? I do love your line of logic and the way you explain things, but life is not about customers and viewers. When the truly pure hearted, and actually unconditionally loving people, figure out how to find and get with each other, awesome things are going to happen. Beware of the ego doctrine. Freud's purpose was he was working for someone else, along with Jung, and they sought a socialism type of world. The mechanics same idea, but the alterior view is everyone know all the truth. Still, I do love the way you explain, sometimes I'm not sure you even believe the stuff you're saying yourself, or at least you knew you didn't before. More and more it's about women trying to manifest a man but after a few sentences you can see that they have really come to this point where they just want eunuchs, followers, for their internet mission, not a man. Can we manifest in evil? Of course, but this is where things get complicated. It can't be both ways.
Omg, I love this! Thinking of manifestation in terms of "stages" is super super helpful.
I'm definitely at this stage where I've thought to myself: I obviously need to take a step back and focus on all of my other manifestations for a time, completely ignoring my SP.
I haven't regretted it for a second. I've been able to detach (probably, 50% there hahaha) to the point where even yesterday, for the first time EVER, I had a thought along the lines of: "Wait, is THAT it?"
Like... us ending up together doesn't even seem that interesting anymore. It's just what I've been making it out to be in my mind, based on logic and past experience. And it feels so so powerful to be at this place, I can't wait to see how I feel in a couple or more months.
I don't understand the specific SP stuff. I guess I do if this person really checks off all the stuff that is important to you, but I think that there's generally going to be a connection felt between the two people there when that happens and there's nothing to really manifest. But an ex, or someone who obviously doesn't feel any kind of way about you, and especially one who is actively trying to push you away, why would you subject yourself to that? Let it go and manifest someone who actually wants to be with you and let go of the rest.
Do you talk much about mediation? It can help with a lot of the over thinking/living in this divide mind type situation
Hello you’ve talked regarding the SP you are not in contact with and limerence…what if they pop in your head during the day out of the blue…is that limerence? Does that mean they are thinking of you at that exact moment?
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I did my manifestation and then immediately when I thought I had reached the end result, I partially stopped reciting the affirmation to attract my SP but I used to visualize and have a habit of acting out the end result as well. But a completely opposite result has shown up right now and I'm blocked everywhere, I tried fixing it on call but it won't work. Looks like it has all fallen apart completely and I don't know how to keep trusting the process anymore. Though I'm still trying hard to persist. But I'm confused if it is the Universe giving me a sign to stop.
Some tips and guidance will help.
If you persist through this , you will get your desire...its said universe tests sometimes before giving
@@g.nagasireesha3830 thanks❤
Jousty thing is a lance. 😁
If our ego can’t handle the 3D, is it okay to cut off contact with that version of them? Him breadcrumbing me is pissing off my ego. I feel like I need space to focus on myself. I want to tell him to just let me go until he’s willing to show up fully. Then focus fully on myself and become the woman that he DOES want to show up for.
Basically asking if asking for 3D separation is part of the “pulling back” you referred to about 2/3 of the way through the video.
How do you manifest bullies out of your life?
Why would she want him? Why want a person who doesn't want you when there are so many who would, and would "obviously" be a better match. We need more videos on manifesting less drama.
Super random, but you have a very pretty side profile 🙈❤
I’ve personally always had that assumption too!! 😂
I dunno… If he’s saying NO… then he’s going to have to change before it would EVER work….
You can’t change him. He has to change himself. You change how you react to him. … Just don’t react. That’s YOU WINNING.
Have we learned anything? 4:14
Most importantly about love, it has to be chosen in free will. There is no force in the universe that will make someone love you, even if it could. We can only decide who we love, not who loves us. I know a few people that I really love and like, but I can never support what they support, and they would never support my goals. This goes way deeper than these few words. I'm a very loving person. And as much as I Wish I Could Have Been Loved back by a couple people, that part wasn't my choice. It's so important to realize, whether it's god, the universe, there is no one that will change someone to love you. People even say God is in control, no, he knows what's going to happen but he is not controlling it. He won't even change someone to love him. He might know what would change someone and who would actually follow afterwards, but he did not make it happen. I have to say this in past tense, because there is a great misunderstanding about time and dimensional energy. No one is controlling the future, to them it is the past. I don't mean to digress. The most important aspect of the concept of manifesting is to seeing yourself, actual visualization, on the other side of that perceived obstacle. Can someone punch through a solid concrete block? Or have they visualized their hand on the other side of it, but also with much much practice on focus and the ever famous words, the the hand is free when the mind is free of the concept of self. I love her videos, so this is not meant as a disagreement. I actually agree what's most and her line of logic. She's not wrong about the mindset of how to make sure your energy is in line with the goals you want.
I don't understand why some people chase after people who have made ot clear that they DON'T WANT them. Sheeshh have some self respect.😮
Please get straight into the point
Well this explanation feels incomplete 🤔 What about everything is you pushed out?
14:30 -18:00 she addresses her battling with the “him” she created