Mistakes I Made in My 20s That I Regret | 5 Mistakes of My Life | Mistakes To Avoid In Your 20s

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  • @SaloniSrivastava
    @SaloniSrivastava  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    There's someone who's made a profile with my photo and is replying to comments with an opportunity to win free gifts! That is not me. I'll never ask you to message me on Telegram or Whatsapp. Please be careful! :)

  • @Freelancergirl1831
    @Freelancergirl1831 2 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    I can’t believe we are so similar!! I definitely agree not to choose career based on their hype. I chose to be a doctor, but now I earned more being a freelancer & online tutoring, and the best part is I love what I’m doing!

    • @rocknur
      @rocknur 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Slli🤗

    • @rocknur
      @rocknur ปีที่แล้ว

      🐧🐧🐧🐧

  • @puja.karmakar
    @puja.karmakar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    At 7:01 , kota factory ka ek dialogue yaad ageya.. 'Maa baap ke decisions sayad galat ho sakte hain, par unki neeyat kabhi galat nehi hota' ❤

  • @Shreddhaa
    @Shreddhaa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    As someone in their 20s, I really appreciated this! I especially resonate with being a people pleaser and having to un-learn caring too much about what other people think.

  • @richa30aug
    @richa30aug 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    That's so relatable,being in a corporate job , totally understand where you are coming from , but then there is always a journey to maturity 😄

  • @kunikanadkarni6006
    @kunikanadkarni6006 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    that rat race part just was wat i needed to hear right now..i"m in my 3rd year cs and it"s hell lotta competition here and it's taking a toll on me so hearing your advice really means alot , infact writing this comment as soon as i heard this thank you so much for sharing your experiences.❤

  • @sowmyav6641
    @sowmyav6641 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Not being able to negotiate is a common problem, especially among women! Our self confidence is low and imposter syndrome is much higher. Great advice for young professionals to be aware of it! :)

  • @Sera_Vaz
    @Sera_Vaz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Saloni, this is exactly what makes you a good content creator! You are honest, raw, and relatable. I especially love the fact that you don't wear make up to look perfect and speak perfect things that are not achievable in the day to day life by regular people. Thank you for being this good. We all really appreciate your work.

  • @bhavikashah7065
    @bhavikashah7065 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I'll turn 30 in January and even I've been looking back on some of my decisions. Even though my 20s have been tough and filled with a lot of decisions that others don't agree with, I'm so happy about all of them :)

  • @vnaykmar7
    @vnaykmar7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Giving honest feedback is probably one of the most important things you can do in order to make a person introspect who they are or what they are doing. Thanks it is a life changing habit.

  • @bsp8911
    @bsp8911 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Guilty of these mistakes too! I truly agree that it’s crucial to do the right thing instead of the nice thing in order to prevent future drama! Another solid upload Saloni. Thank you! 😊

  • @chitras3238
    @chitras3238 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm in my mid twenties, Your talk was just like my older self advising me!!
    Much appreciate for you being yourself on the social media platform.
    Thank you 💟

  • @drawingacademy9160
    @drawingacademy9160 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    After dropping 3 years and not getting a mbbs seat my parents still forcing me to drop one more year and I've lost all interest in medical field and taking my parents advice turned my life into horror. When we look back we think we could've made right decisions by listening to our parents but that's not the always case. According to my parents advice except a doctor no one else can or will get successful in their life.

    • @60.padmini9
      @60.padmini9 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lots of strength to you!

    • @jananis9414
      @jananis9414 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      such a strong queen ❤️you are!more power to you🤎🤎..take a field which you desire and make the world you desire.💜💜💜.good luck!!🧡🧡🧡

    • @preetikhan4528
      @preetikhan4528 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So what are your plans for now?

    • @Youwishh12
      @Youwishh12 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same condition so what career u choosee

    • @drawingacademy9160
      @drawingacademy9160 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Youwishh12 i have joined bsc nursing.

  • @ondemandlearning1555
    @ondemandlearning1555 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Few of the mistakes I made it too like yours.. so much relatable.. And m sure it gonna help lots of youngsters..

  • @vasantha6252
    @vasantha6252 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Being not so nice to my parents is a mistake i did in my early 20s now i am in my late 20s. I am experiment with a lot of things and still figuring out what i really want.

  • @HRMaah
    @HRMaah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Relatable to your point on - Salary negotiable. I am highly underpaid now.

  • @sreelakshmisetturu9172
    @sreelakshmisetturu9172 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am almost 30 and I just realised I made some of the same mistakes in my 20s. Especially condensending parent. I also realized that I do not want to be in rat race in my 9 to 5 job and focus on learning and getting joy out of it.

  • @sheelpatel8932
    @sheelpatel8932 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Could you make a video on how you figured out what exactly you want in life? I am sure it is not something that one can learn in a day but if you can share the habits/daily routines you follow that enable you to reach this point. Loved the video. You are such an honest person to share this on TH-cam. Thank you so much for all the content you create. It makes a huge difference in people's lives. Atleast it has made in mine. ♡

  • @neethunandan7209
    @neethunandan7209 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your mistakes are so relatable with mine. That salary thing was so true in my case. I have really gone crazy with my personal relationship mistakes, please create a content on how to deal with personal relationships. Thanks

  • @sayleeraut
    @sayleeraut 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much for all the amazing videos that you make❣

  • @SonaliS
    @SonaliS 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It’s takes guts to reject such big investors Saloni. This shows how much of true you are to your principles and how much of a clarity you have in your life ❤️ Kudos to you Saloni 🔥

  • @anithasingh8764
    @anithasingh8764 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I liked that you shared that you were also condescending to your parents and it is a big mistake to not listen to your parents and not take their advice. Recently even I felt that way because how much information we have access to so easily by just a click makes us feel a certain way but nothing can beat the wisdom, experience, and love of our parents ❤
    Thank you for making this video, I will turn 23 tomorrow and was feeling like I have not done anything worthwhile but this video made me feel hopeful and positive.
    💕

  • @kpsk1627
    @kpsk1627 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for an insightful video. You have earned a subscriber. I wish you all the best for your future endeavours.

  • @chaoticlue
    @chaoticlue 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    As a person in my early 20s, I related the most to not knowing what I want to do with my life... I seem to have many interests but none that I can call... 'Yes this is what I want to become in life'. Any thoughts on this?

  • @anushagorthi4121
    @anushagorthi4121 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Negotiating is a great struggle for all women I believe. WOMEN have this constant struggle due to low self-esteem. Thank for sharing this openly.

  • @user-rw4do9po5n
    @user-rw4do9po5n 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    True about advice from parents,it's best for you but you realise it later specially girls realise only after marriage because most of the time in-laws advise is for their benefit not yours realised it hard way....best part of the video was the win and I totally agree it's not worth running around chasing big targets at the cost of your health and peace of mind...👍😊

  • @salinikanoi874
    @salinikanoi874 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is the thing. You are so relatable. I think I have ran behind money, fame and all the gliterry things for quite a long time and now I have realised that a few things might excite but you really don't want/need and that's when you get aligned to your life.

  • @aishbhatt
    @aishbhatt 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    In my 40s now and I have been there where I wouldn’t give feedbacks too . But I realised when your feedbacks are objective and the intention is for betterment everybody takes the feedback well. Just driving back the point is it has to be objective not personal, it has to have thing on what you should do and not what you shouldn’t do

  • @sudhavinillam-allaboutlife9599
    @sudhavinillam-allaboutlife9599 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just love the one about kids not valuing their parents' opinions. So true and relatable

  • @jinimuzic
    @jinimuzic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Really like how with all honesty you share. I’m entering second half of my 30s and I can resonate with your mistakes and learning. For me my 30s have helped me to be on a path in life which I enjoy and I know exactly what I want my life to be like. After my MBA I had the same notion which you spoke about and I used to think that I’m an IITian plus MBA then investment banking is for me cause I love numbers..how naive that thought was. I’m happy that my career path lead me to a field in finance where I truly enjoy being around numbers. Probably written too much already. Kudos to u n love ur content ❤️.

  • @ravneetkour8191
    @ravneetkour8191 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are the best mentor! Thank you so much for sharing your experience and giving us valuable lessons.

  • @likhithanathani8702
    @likhithanathani8702 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You really have great clarity Saloni!- A simple happy fun life.Good decision saying no to investors. Never regret on this thing too. In case you would want people to invest in your business, you will always have, It's not rare opportunity once missed hard to get again. Don't worry about subscribers, you are unique in your space. Your videos resonate with the peacefulness and positivity you have in your life. Keep up the good work!
    PS - I was your subscriber since the near start of your journey in TH-cam space.

  • @sailakshmikv3073
    @sailakshmikv3073 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Saloni, this video is pure gold. I can't even think that they're mistakes. You've failed fast and grown fast, especially with people management. They wanted to invest because you had the guts to fail and learn. When that's there, probably an investment isn't required. You realising this comes with a great support system is what I feel. It's amazing.

  • @SatarupaDas2302
    @SatarupaDas2302 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mistake 2 kind of reminded of a book I read called Know Your Value by Mika Brzezinski, it's something a lot of women do without even realizing.

  • @tanmaysingh6614
    @tanmaysingh6614 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hey Saloni , your mistakes are exactly xeros copies of mine 😂😂 specially the fifth one , it took me 5 years and multiple failures to figure out what i like doing .. i am 27 (just had birthday 2 weeks back) and on my way to do which i love doing .. have fun!! you are the best

  • @neeharikap5846
    @neeharikap5846 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Beautifully spoken Saloni. I could relate to most of them :) And knowing what I exactly want from my life is something, I am still grappling with. Keep shining ❤

  • @neetaloungani3634
    @neetaloungani3634 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really liked this video..this is your very first video that i am watching, thanks to youtube!

  • @poojadewangrajpal
    @poojadewangrajpal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "Even if it is negative... it can be kind" 🦋😎

  • @anujayadav6448
    @anujayadav6448 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is the first vedio of yours that I am watching, the title is just so genuine as we all go through this phase but lot of people don’t accept that they were dumb at one point of time. And, you have such a positive smile 😊

  • @sayanbiswas_sports
    @sayanbiswas_sports 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can relate so much. Throughout the video I was thinking it me speaking there. BTW I'm now 19.
    This is one of the best(for me)and practical video I have seen on TH-cam. ♥️

  • @Moderncindrella
    @Moderncindrella 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I liked the rat race point too much !!

  • @shatakshisonker6881
    @shatakshisonker6881 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved this video. Especially your win, it resonated so much!

  • @laveena...
    @laveena... 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Now that's inspiring, women being in businesses, Loving it 😍

  • @priyadarshiniravi6147
    @priyadarshiniravi6147 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This video just arrived at the right time! All points were very much relatable, Saloni! You have inspired me so much that i started journalling! It's really helping me in many aspects and above all, it gives me a sense of satisfaction! :) Thanks much for sharing such valuable life changing lessons!

  • @adityajha3611
    @adityajha3611 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Subscribing. Very nice content!

  • @gellijayalakshmiharika2937
    @gellijayalakshmiharika2937 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    loved your video diiii, Thank you for letting us know

  • @PrathibaLeo
    @PrathibaLeo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    These are some amazing lessons to inculcate right away !! Also, it’s never too late to realise your mistake and then to come out of it ❤️

  • @meditationmantra6658
    @meditationmantra6658 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey saloni thanks for the video.
    I too had realised that making money is not everything in this rat race which has formed by society years ago.We need to work,enjoy and embrace our lives with whatever we have.
    To everyone I would suggest slowing is growing we need to hold on,watch,learn and take things in slower pace rather a rat race.
    All that we need is a life which is fulfilled with small happiness and peace.

  • @arundhatisharma880
    @arundhatisharma880 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your videos are very soothing and helpful 😊😊😊✨✨✨

  • @ssharma1412
    @ssharma1412 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Am guilty of being a people pleaser...and really wish to find out what I dont want from the life...

  • @zunaira_Iqbal00
    @zunaira_Iqbal00 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi saloni....am from Pakistan...u r such good motivation and inspiring for me ....I really appreciate the way u speak and really wanna meet u bcz I think u r pure , loyal and as simple the way we all are from inside 💠 juts love ur vibes
    May u progress more and more

  • @happyharini4174
    @happyharini4174 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're amazing Saloni. I took notes from this video and even reflected on what I want and don't want in my life. My heart is full. Thanks for just existing!! I thought you would share many wins at the end. But yes, this is the biggest and best win one can have in their 20s. Love how you spoke in this video. Sending so much love to you! ♥

  • @tapasyamahanta6210
    @tapasyamahanta6210 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing video Saloni. Thanks for sharing. Have always looked upto you for inspiration

  • @mamatamathkar3264
    @mamatamathkar3264 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing this video. I could relate with many of them. This was very inspiring and honest video. 🙏🏼

  • @navyakamarsu6523
    @navyakamarsu6523 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful video as usual 💗💗 I would looove to watch a video on what kind of life you want and don't want ! :)) Cheers!

  • @ahanamanjunath9550
    @ahanamanjunath9550 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    As i am in my mid 20`S this video is so very relatable. Thank u for sharing this by letting us know where to focus and what is completely baseless.

  • @paakashaasthra3403
    @paakashaasthra3403 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh, This is so relatable.. Much needed.. I should be making some changes. Thank you!

  • @shamimashabnam8444
    @shamimashabnam8444 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's lovely learnt a lot thank you so much

  • @madhurivadrevu5059
    @madhurivadrevu5059 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was a very helpful video, and the content was not generic but very elaborate and practical. Quite different from other videos out there. Thank you for this

  • @Leisuretimelifestyleshorts
    @Leisuretimelifestyleshorts 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    1st tym in your channel. Absolutely loved it and subscribed too 👍

  • @vaishnavik4450
    @vaishnavik4450 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I will turn 29 in november. I can totally relate to every single point you made in the video. Even I have started thinking a lot about my life and how can I work on my mistakes. Its always a new day to start fresh and grow. I guess👍.

  • @sakshiwadhwa8868
    @sakshiwadhwa8868 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    From this particular video, I felt you are directly speaking to me. Your mistakes resonated with me. Thank you for making this video.

  • @gaurisathish8932
    @gaurisathish8932 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I genuinely need help to know for myself what exactly i want & what exactly i don't

  • @shifa3991
    @shifa3991 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very helpful! Please make more videos like this

  • @luckyoptimus705
    @luckyoptimus705 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ur biggest win is my best lesson ever heard😍😍
    Ur such a humble and great inspirable soul lots of love😍 , u have given me alot of positivity to mine especially.. i was also working on my entrepreneur journey... Thq so much

  • @namitarout6209
    @namitarout6209 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You should also speak about love life and all those things peoples are really suffering nowadays with this kind of things with really affect their mental health

  • @suhani9163
    @suhani9163 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much , you have no idea how much you helped me with this video. Thank you ❤️

  • @TheSindhusharma1
    @TheSindhusharma1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So so on point...
    Thank you for this video ❤️❤️

  • @savitagyanchandani
    @savitagyanchandani 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Saloni for sharing your real scenarios and you don't know how much precious these advices are for me. Really adore the person you are ❤️❤️

  • @jayanair4237
    @jayanair4237 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brave girl. The best part is your expression of words and thanks for sharing. Lovely video.

  • @johhnyaanand
    @johhnyaanand 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    omg...true..salary increase has been common issue.

  • @preethasunil249
    @preethasunil249 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Point about negotiation is relatable. Even I'm suffering because of that

  • @bettercallvivek
    @bettercallvivek 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That dialogue of Sidwell in suits "We are Investment bankers not lawyers.. we went to Stanford and not Oxford" 🔥 i just remembered it 😂

  • @srijitadatta7786
    @srijitadatta7786 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful vlog so far.... wishing happiness health and peace for you in abundance 💜🧿

  • @Eshapanditbornfree
    @Eshapanditbornfree 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I will turn 30 next year 😍🥰. And this video has inspired me to just look back, acknowledge my mistakes and move on in the right path

  • @coolcheetful
    @coolcheetful 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very candid video as always.
    Many of us have made same mistakes in our 20s. I can literally feel so so relatable now 😅

  • @NehaSharma-tp9xt
    @NehaSharma-tp9xt 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel so motivated and confident listening to you. You are such a calm inclusive person ❤️❤️

  • @saiprarthana8121
    @saiprarthana8121 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Saloni. Just love watching your videos ❤️

  • @sweathashanmugan9360
    @sweathashanmugan9360 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really loved this video..🧡

  • @HariPrasad-jw5jv
    @HariPrasad-jw5jv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing video... you need lots of courage to admit one 's mistakes... your experience is definitely useful for all...I particularly like " I don't want to become multimillionaire ...I want to keep my life simple and chill... Thanks for sharing

  • @abduljouhar01
    @abduljouhar01 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing your experience ♥️🔥

  • @jas1532
    @jas1532 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such an honest and enlightening video 👍

  • @vasudhak6741
    @vasudhak6741 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very honest video. I think you were very right not to compare with other youtubers. You are very authentic and unique.

  • @AnonymousRK14
    @AnonymousRK14 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your content is always genuine and that's what I like. 👍

  • @sheetalverma1781
    @sheetalverma1781 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for all the amazing videos that you make. You literally are that elder sister that I never had!❣

  • @chitras3238
    @chitras3238 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Please make a video on how to know what we really want in life, how to analysis.
    And about the rat race, you are all right!!

  • @sonuprasad8425
    @sonuprasad8425 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well- thought and honest.

  • @swetapatnaik8504
    @swetapatnaik8504 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice one.

  • @g.v.9261
    @g.v.9261 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thankyou for this ❤️

  • @bhavnagupta9025
    @bhavnagupta9025 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really liked you talking about your biggest win of realization

  • @muneerafaiz
    @muneerafaiz 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gem of a person.. Looking forward to take up your course

  • @discoverlife1376
    @discoverlife1376 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You sounded like an angel to me .Thank u so much for the Video..more power to you❣️

  • @jkk4666
    @jkk4666 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank u mam
    Evn I did graduation in economics.still don't know which career path to choose but I'm just doing Job and will find out ideas....im. just going with the flow.. N don't wanna take mush stress
    .

  • @venieaswar2845
    @venieaswar2845 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very excellent explanation and informative video saloni

  • @artigite3136
    @artigite3136 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Superb, ur awesome 💝

  • @ambicadeshpande6377
    @ambicadeshpande6377 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like you so so much that I didn’t like the title I was so dumb. I admire you a little too much. Much love ❤️

  • @niyatishah9531
    @niyatishah9531 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Would love to know how did you break that into steps & from where did you get the clarity of the things about what exactly you want & you don't want from your life. I think that would be the great advice to have in our 20's.

  • @iakashx
    @iakashx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "Feedback and Opinion" should always be honest and never be sugar coated. We can sugar coat if really necessary.
    But intention of giving feedback should be pure.
    Pure intension feedback should be listened or maybe appriciated. (:

  • @harshavardhan40011
    @harshavardhan40011 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Most genuine person I seen in TH-cam

  • @monasantani7885
    @monasantani7885 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kudos .............wat an honest vlog .......😘😘