Veda, this has been one of the most stressful summers of my life, and your videos have been SUCH a tremendous support! Thank you for all the time and effort that you put in, each new video uploaded is a gift.
These are like exposure therapy me. My goal is to get so used to being around therapists that i can actually get help without it triggering my imposter Syndrome. So far its working alright, i at least can watch Videos like these more than twice a month
I love your therapist videos! Something about answering questions in my mind just makes me very relaxed very easily, and your pace and voice volume are always just perfect. Also those soft keyboard typing sounds are super nice! Thank you for another wonderful video ❤️❤️❤️ Have a great week, Veda.
I know your description says you're not a medical professional, Veda, but after watching this video I think you would make a wonderful therapist. You have a very calming presence and you are one of the kindest people on TH-cam.
Yes! These are my favorite type of videos. Now this answer is a bit premature, but I'm very excited for Futurama🚀 to return in one week! That was one of the formative shows of my childhood.
Ohh yay! I was just re watching your other typing therapist one last night! I'm shocked you don't have more subscribers, always a great relaxing experience 😊✨️
I love the fact that her therapy session videos all seem to be continuous and I really feel like I’m making progress in my therapy 😅❤️ Like I’m really being followed by someone for my anxiety 😇
1. Purple (I have no issues telling anyone that) 2. House of the Dragon (I like it because of Dragons and fantasy battles) 3. Resident Evil 2 4. English and Polish (fluent in English, can communicate in polish but not write it) 5. Body by Megan the Stallion (just that annoying section) 6. I have two pet rabbits (Tater and Pancake) 7. Older Brother 8. I get upset over anything very easily 9. History 10. A little sunburnt but ok 11. Joseph 12. Yes 13. Finding a girlfriend 14. Worked at a railroad 15. Losing my teeth and drowning 16. All the time. ( I generally don't care about people's lives but it makes me seem like a good listener) 17. I'm a insanely dedicated worker 18. No idea 19. It's huge boobs, but I'll settle for someone who smiles a lot 20. Catholic. I'm ok with telling people I'm catholic. I never force my religious beliefs on anyone. 21. Republican. I love telling people I'm Republican because it always shocks them. 22. My one cousin because we are the only two of similar age range. We've always hung out together. 23. 215 LBS I'm comfortable telling people my weight because I've been losing alot over the past few years so I always tell people my progress. 24. Not really. SSDD 25. Life just feels like a monotonous routine. 26. A few drinks a week. My stress is mostly work related, financial issues and trying to have a healthy relationship with someone. 27. I hate lazy coworkers because they don't work to the degree in which I work. 28. 50K. Not in debt but could always use more money as a safety net. 29. No idea but it's really good. 30. Yes. My aunts started this huge fight and we all stopped talking to each other even though the kids had nothing to do with it. 31. I have a slight nut allergy. No meds. 32. Nothing official but people say I have ADHD, plus I feel depressed as shit all the time. 33. Girlfriend cheated on me so I guess that. 34. Yes. 35. No, I've always been a loyal partner. 36. No illegal substances 37. No substance abuse issues but I'm a mild shopaholic 38. I got a parking ticket once. 39. My intentional fought my school bullies in high school. Nope it made me feel very confident in myself to solve any issue I faced. 40. Nope, I'm a straight guy. 41. I punched someone in the throat. That was the high school bully in freshmen year. 42. 20 something 43. I wish I gave my dead a beer before he died. 44. I collect warhammer figures. I like to keep that secret because I don't want people to think I'm a nerd. 45. Sadly I don't have dark secrets.
Oh, number 2's a hard one, as I don't watch a lot of shows in general. If by "airing now" I can stretch it to "not finished or cancelled that I know of and waiting for future seasons if these strikes are resolved" then I'd have to say either Stranger Things or Sex Education on Netflix.
I wonder if you could do a bookstore but the coffee shop? In some ways, bars and coffee shops are places to seek therapy rather than a actual counseling office.
Green, yes, blue’s clues and you, because I have the mind of a child and I’m autistic. It’s one of my obsessions., animal crossing I don’t care which game another one of my obsessions, only English, poops, theme song from my favorite kids app, section, dog Ethan , one older brother, I know brail, since I was two years old, science, ok, Glaphre, no, nothing, working in my schools coffee shop. I am still in school it’s my last year., dreams of me being my imaginary characters, my autism, and all so I’m being tested for ADHD soon, when I love the topic in a class like in history or science, then I really get into it and concentrate, all of my special needs, visual impairment, seizures, autism, and soon being tested for ADHD, my fairy childish interest in that I only get intertained by certain toys and certain shows, well, I am never going to be able to get married, but are usually get attracted to thinner guys that don’t have facial hair, but I don’t really care as much about what type of hair they have as long as it’s not long hair don’t want them to look like my brother, my family is Christian Nazarene and we are very very strong Christians. My brother was the first one to change his religion but he’s even tried being Jewish and he changes his religion a lot but everyone else is very strong and there is a lot of pastors in our family including my dad., I care more about the person what they are planning to do about the state or country and really next year will be my first time folding for the president because I was born on a folding year, so I’ll go by what trust worthy people tell me about the options, and I will need help folding, I would be very fine with telling a random person that my family is fairy Christian and told them all of the people in my family that are pastors, really I’m kind of known for telling even random people every single thing about me, so wouldn’t be surprised if you get the answer yes to all of those questions and of course they’re my friends, everyone in my family already knows all of that, because everyone in my family is the same religion, 6, 5, 5, I can’t decide between my daddy and my granddad, well, they’re the ones that I spend the most time with, and I have the most in common with, I went to Disneyland with my daddy for my 18th birthday, 130pounds, moving for the first time in my life almost just one year ago being diagnosed with autism almost a year ago, and they completely changed how the school year is going to work and I just have to get through my last school year and I would be finally done with school , I love our new house. I was love being right the whole entire time about being autistic for two years. I am really nervous about how the schedule and then concentrating on cooking and other life skills that have to do with that I go to school for the blind that’s why they’re concentrating on us burning all this independence., well, as you can tell with autism mixed with all this change, it’s kind of stressing me out, I would feel pretty OK telling them about this, but I don’t want them to worry about my personal problems, I would probably told them all about it because they tell me about their problems and I’ll told them about mine, I am not old enough to drink alcohol I am 19, changes going back to school and food because they say we’ll have to eat what we cook but me and my dad he planned that outfit. If I still need to eat we cook I bring my own bunch every day., a student graduated last year one student who also has autism and ADHD but I won’t have any classes with him this year because he’s not a senior or if you have to have an extra year they call us super senior that’s what I am, I’ve been held back twice in my life and also the vice principal who is kind of a jerk, I don’t have a job, and I never will, nope, because I just rely on my parents until I finally get that money from the government that they owe me that stupid government, 5, 5, 5, I don’t have a credit card, yes, one of the a lot of times when I was younger with my brother one time with my daddy when I made him angry and all so with that girl who graduated last year her name is Macy and she was just so annoying that I started actually replying the way I wanted to and not faking being nice and faking being her friend actually reacting the way I felt inside so for real while I just was a jerk to her I am so happy she’s gone., i’ve always been officially impaired. I’ve had seizures since I was six years old and I was recently diagnosed with autism level two and I am going to be soon tested for ADHD so I have a crap ton of them., I just take a ton of medicines that only my mom knows them name of I take one or two vitamins, and a bunch of meds for my seizures, i’ve had depression two times, and I have a lot of anxiety all the time both from my conditions and my mom’s genes, and I have been given meds for depression and anxiety, but that was before they knew that I had autism, when I was depressed and the times that I was suicidal yes, 1,2, back then I probably would wish that I got the death penalty, no, no, no, no, yes, not really, one time when I was having side effects from one kind of medicine I was taking my twisted a students arm and I even put a pin in the teachers finger when we were using pins to show things in math class because I go to a School faire, The Blind it’s tactile I even almost tried to push a smother student under water and drown them and even now when I get upset sometimes I hit my parents or myself but my parents are with counsel I know, yes, pass, probably the worst thing that I ever did to another person was me trying to kill myself and it was terrible to my parents because I can’t remember anything before two years ago because of brain surgery, yes, 14, no, what’s a proclivity, no, no,
i decided to put my answers in the comments because i need to share them. please don’t feel like you have to read this! also major tw for rape self harm and abuse. color: red, yes show: riverdale, netflix, plot video game: sims 4 languages: english, fluent, german, beginner song: party in the USA, just a section pets: 2 pets, lucy and ellis mcmarbles siblings: nope, 0 skill/talent: nothing? fav subject: math, yes feeling today: annoyed, bored, restless, very anxious middle name: nicole narrate actions in head: i don’t notice something i’ve been putting off: cleaning my room/bathroom worst job: being a student recurring dreams: zombie apocalypses how often do i zone out: almost every conversation, i get bored, easier when interested different: i move a lot, i lived with my mom for 14 years and then im living with my dad until im 18 because she abused me physical attractions: tattoos, tall, athletic, brown hair blue eyes, jack champion religious: i believe in god, 3, 5, 5, 1 political: leaning right, 2, 5, 1 closest family, none, i don’t know them that much weight: 160 lbs, 1 changes/challenges: serving in volleyball, i get worried that i won’t be good enough overall emotional well-being: not great 4/10, 4, 5 alcohol: sometimes, like once or twice a month, nope main sources of stress: school, family/home life, my mom, the way i look, spiders in my house people i don’t like: arie is a lying bitch who only cares about herself, malee is an attention seeker and she’s obsessed with her toxic boyfriend, that one kid who forced me to have sex with him because he kept begging me to the point i just did it annual income: $0 in debt: not me but idk abt my parents, 5, 5, 4 credit score: i’m a child, not yet major falling out: yes i have, she kinda just decided to start any drama she could between me and my friends, i feel like it was both of our faults, friendship works both ways, no i mostly feel like it’s her fault medical conditions: none to my knowledge meds: nothing history of mental health stuff: yes experienced breach of trust: yes, telling everyone but family death penalty: depends on crime cheated: i don’t know if i have because i don’t know if any relationships count illegal substances: once or twice a year addiction or substance abuse: no charged w a crime: nope intentionally hurt someone: yeah fs, i only feel guilt because they get mad at me, i feel like what i do to people they deserve questioned sexuality: yes worst thing i’ve ever done: lied about them sexually assaulting me or lied about them being sexually involved with me, i was 14, yea all the time how old first intimate relationship: never had one deeply guilt: i feel really bad about the whole lying about being sexually involved with someone. i regret ruining their reputation and hurting his girlfriends trust. i regret lying to all of my friends. i regret ruining my relationships with my classmates, i regret all of it are there any personal secrets: i’m a virgin. i’m scared to have sex, i’m still in high school and i’ve done so much shit and i know i’m a problem but idk if i’ve always been a problem or if i’ve caused myself to be a problem.
🖐😔 Hi Veda! Its been awhile since youve uploaded, hope all is well! I have a question for you, How does one find a good therapist to help get over grief, sadness. I lost my brother a month ago, he was battling cancer for over 8 years. I somehow felt entitled thinking that he would be a cancer survivor, and that we would be hanging out till we became old together🥺. Is yelp a good indicator to find a good therapist, or how would i be able to gauge their experience. Or do i need to just man up 💪😤 anyhow i like the hairstyle!
I would say, just check those near you, check some reviews, but mostly, you have to try them. After a few session, you will now if this the person for you or not. Therapy is deeply personal, and a therapist that isn't a fit for somebody can be for you, and vice versa. But in any case, you don't need to "man up", if you feel like you need help, go and get it, it's normal.
@@Paehrin Hey Paehrin I really appreciate the advice, Thanks! I'm not sure if I really want to go through many therapists before I find "The One" I will stay with for awhile.
@@tonytostada You're welcome and I'm sorry, I may not have expressed my ideas correctly. My point was mostly that you need to feel safe and understood with your therapist, so try one, but don't hesitate to change if you don't feel that way after a few sessions. Depending on your personality, it can take more or less time to reach that point. You can also communicate your worries on the subject to your therapist, they can help you with it, or maybe even refer you to a colleague that they might feel more suited to your case. But more than any thing, don't worry to sound weird, or ridicule, or anything... they've seen a lot, and you most probably won't be the worst ! I know it's a bit scary because we're not used to do that but see it that way, : If your leg is in pain and you can't walk normally, you go to your doctor... well, if your mental is in pain and you have trouble functioning normally or dealing with it, you go to a therapist. It's as normal as that, there's a lot of stigma around it, but it's just.... normal. The first step is to try. Hang in there, you can do it ! :)
Hello Tony! I’m so sorry I’m just seeing this now. First off, I’m incredibly sorry for your loss. I can only imagine what you’re going through right now. You seem like such a caring and wonderful person, and I grieve for what you’re going through. I have a hard time finding doctors in general, and the search for a therapist has been no different. I like to go through my insurance website and look for local providers that accept my insurance. Then I google them and look for reviews, and that seems to be pretty helpful. There are probably even therapists near you that specialize in grief and loss, but most should be able to help with those things. I’ll be thinking about you and your brother, and I really hope you’ve been able to rely on the support of people you love during this time. 💕
@@VedaASMR Hi Veda! I will try your method to find a good therapist to help me through this tsunami of feelings I'm experiencing. I didn't mean to put you on the spot, but I really do appreciate that you responded to my comment about Therapists. I apologize if my comment was out of line. Asmr has gotten me through many a sleepless nights. Hopefully you understand your asmr is helpful to many! 🫡 I was wondering if you have time in the next bookclub would it be possible at the end of the live if you could mention any future asmr vids you might be doing, I have been waiting for a Nurse Veda upload, or a Halloween theme. I won't be able to make it, my schedule keeps me busy during the moonlight , and sleeping during sun light.🧛♂️🐺
I actually had a therapist once ask me who I voted for in the 2016 presidential election and then she went on and on about how my political belief was wrong 🙃
I guarantee that therapist you had was a trump supporter, because trump supporters always go on phycho tangents about how according to them “Hilary’s a criminal, all democrats suck and trump is the greatest president ever, and if your not kissing up to him you’re wrong!” I am so sick of trump and these republican scumbags trying to abolish democratic rights, these bastards must be stopped!
Not sure if it’s meant to be or a coincidence but yesterday, when this video came out, was the same day I scheduled my first ever therapy appointment. Hmmmmm
Well done on taking the step to schedule a therapy appointment. I know it can be hard but well done for taking that step towards healing:). God bless you
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I’m fine with answering personal questions as long as it’s someone I trust, and I humbly trust therapist Veda.
@@maxjhawkins Bro you are NOT making anybody laugh.
Right on.
@@penultimateh766 thank you for sticking up for me. What he’s saying is not what I meant at all.
Bro nobody cares
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Veda is the most soothing and comforting ASMRtist out there! We're lucky to have her.
Veda, this has been one of the most stressful summers of my life, and your videos have been SUCH a tremendous support! Thank you for all the time and effort that you put in, each new video uploaded is a gift.
Hope things get less stressful for you ❤. God bless you. If you want to talk i’m here :)
These are like exposure therapy me. My goal is to get so used to being around therapists that i can actually get help without it triggering my imposter Syndrome. So far its working alright, i at least can watch Videos like these more than twice a month
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Hope you get better and can feel right around therapists and get all the help you need. God bless you ❤
ah that's a great strategy!! I did the same thing to calm my anxiety about going to therapy for the first time
I hope everything works out :)
Proud of you!!
I love your therapist videos! Something about answering questions in my mind just makes me very relaxed very easily, and your pace and voice volume are always just perfect. Also those soft keyboard typing sounds are super nice!
Thank you for another wonderful video ❤️❤️❤️ Have a great week, Veda.
Yes, this ✨
Once again I'm about to head to work but in my mind IT'S NAPTIME!!!! Love Veda so much, she needs way more attention in the ASMR world!
I know your description says you're not a medical professional, Veda, but after watching this video I think you would make a wonderful therapist. You have a very calming presence and you are one of the kindest people on TH-cam.
I looove your ASMR role-plays.. 10/10 all the time
Yes! These are my favorite type of videos. Now this answer is a bit premature, but I'm very excited for Futurama🚀 to return in one week! That was one of the formative shows of my childhood.
same here! i was like, it’s certainly my favorite show, and technically it’s airing again soon 😂
your hair looks so pretty!!
your voice is so relaxing thank you for this video Veda ❤
Every time you upload a new video I go “It’s time for my break” 😂❤
love the therapist videos
I’m really liking The Crowded Room right now!! 😊 Thank you for a new video Veda!! ❤️✨
I was waiting 🥺 will fall asleep to this today. Thankyouu
Hi! I don't know how I subscribed here but happy to be here! ❤
Yay! Another therapy session.
Ohh yay! I was just re watching your other typing therapist one last night! I'm shocked you don't have more subscribers, always a great relaxing experience 😊✨️
Perfect timing i love your videos 💜 🛏️
I love the fact that her therapy session videos all seem to be continuous and I really feel like I’m making progress in my therapy 😅❤️ Like I’m really being followed by someone for my anxiety 😇
Beautiful soothing voice, thankyou
I’m fine with answering personal questions so long as it’s a really nice asmr TH-camr who doesn’t actually hear my answers. Great vid
Can you do more videos typing on this keyboard? It’s sooo tingly.
I love your voice and I love that you don't pause for an unrealistic amount of time between questions like other asmrtists do!! 😅
Thank you for the new video Veda, I hope you have a great afternoon and a great week!🐧🤗💐💞
Very tingly and relaxing. Thanks for this :)
1. Purple (I have no issues telling anyone that)
2. House of the Dragon (I like it because of Dragons and fantasy battles)
3. Resident Evil 2
4. English and Polish (fluent in English, can communicate in polish but not write it)
5. Body by Megan the Stallion (just that annoying section)
6. I have two pet rabbits (Tater and Pancake)
7. Older Brother
8. I get upset over anything very easily
9. History
10. A little sunburnt but ok
11. Joseph
12. Yes
13. Finding a girlfriend
14. Worked at a railroad
15. Losing my teeth and drowning
16. All the time. ( I generally don't care about people's lives but it makes me seem like a good listener)
17. I'm a insanely dedicated worker
18. No idea
19. It's huge boobs, but I'll settle for someone who smiles a lot
20. Catholic. I'm ok with telling people I'm catholic. I never force my religious beliefs on anyone.
21. Republican. I love telling people I'm Republican because it always shocks them.
22. My one cousin because we are the only two of similar age range. We've always hung out together.
23. 215 LBS I'm comfortable telling people my weight because I've been losing alot over the past few years so I always tell people my progress.
24. Not really. SSDD
25. Life just feels like a monotonous routine.
26. A few drinks a week. My stress is mostly work related, financial issues and trying to have a healthy relationship with someone.
27. I hate lazy coworkers because they don't work to the degree in which I work.
28. 50K. Not in debt but could always use more money as a safety net.
29. No idea but it's really good.
30. Yes. My aunts started this huge fight and we all stopped talking to each other even though the kids had nothing to do with it.
31. I have a slight nut allergy. No meds.
32. Nothing official but people say I have ADHD, plus I feel depressed as shit all the time.
33. Girlfriend cheated on me so I guess that.
34. Yes.
35. No, I've always been a loyal partner.
36. No illegal substances
37. No substance abuse issues but I'm a mild shopaholic
38. I got a parking ticket once.
39. My intentional fought my school bullies in high school. Nope it made me feel very confident in myself to solve any issue I faced.
40. Nope, I'm a straight guy.
41. I punched someone in the throat. That was the high school bully in freshmen year.
42. 20 something
43. I wish I gave my dead a beer before he died.
44. I collect warhammer figures. I like to keep that secret because I don't want people to think I'm a nerd.
45. Sadly I don't have dark secrets.
Depression won’t last forever. You can heal from anything that has hurt you in the past. Im here if you want to talk :) God bless you ❤
Veda, you are so beautiful, and your voice and manner are very soothing. Thank you for this video!
I'm rewatching What We Do in the Shadows as the new episodes air. Love the macabre, nihilistic humor and the actors are fantastic.
Hey Veda, thx for the new video! I’d love for you to make a video with the color wheel only. That would be so great. Greetings from Germany ☺️
You should do a kate winslet video, you look so much like her
Oh, number 2's a hard one, as I don't watch a lot of shows in general. If by "airing now" I can stretch it to "not finished or cancelled that I know of and waiting for future seasons if these strikes are resolved" then I'd have to say either Stranger Things or Sex Education on Netflix.
I’m sure we have years before another season of Stranger Things. So sad! :(
Just found you. Perfect voice for asmr
"I have the entire show Hadestown stuck in my head"
My current favorite show is Shrinking, which ties in nicely to a therapy video!
hey, i love your sound quality; what microphones do you use?
Thank you! I use Rode NT1 microphones (4th gen I think)
@@VedaASMR thank you so much veda
2:37 question 1
Love your hair
You have lovely relaxing voice.
I wonder if you could do a bookstore but the coffee shop? In some ways, bars and coffee shops are places to seek therapy rather than a actual counseling office.
I need therapy from my childhood for the first 12 years of my life
The Summer I turned Pretty is my favorite airing right now on prime video!
Im leaving a five star review
Green, yes, blue’s clues and you, because I have the mind of a child and I’m autistic. It’s one of my obsessions., animal crossing I don’t care which game another one of my obsessions, only English, poops, theme song from my favorite kids app, section, dog Ethan , one older brother, I know brail, since I was two years old, science, ok, Glaphre, no, nothing, working in my schools coffee shop. I am still in school it’s my last year., dreams of me being my imaginary characters, my autism, and all so I’m being tested for ADHD soon, when I love the topic in a class like in history or science, then I really get into it and concentrate, all of my special needs, visual impairment, seizures, autism, and soon being tested for ADHD, my fairy childish interest in that I only get intertained by certain toys and certain shows, well, I am never going to be able to get married, but are usually get attracted to thinner guys that don’t have facial hair, but I don’t really care as much about what type of hair they have as long as it’s not long hair don’t want them to look like my brother, my family is Christian Nazarene and we are very very strong Christians. My brother was the first one to change his religion but he’s even tried being Jewish and he changes his religion a lot but everyone else is very strong and there is a lot of pastors in our family including my dad., I care more about the person what they are planning to do about the state or country and really next year will be my first time folding for the president because I was born on a folding year, so I’ll go by what trust worthy people tell me about the options, and I will need help folding, I would be very fine with telling a random person that my family is fairy Christian and told them all of the people in my family that are pastors, really I’m kind of known for telling even random people every single thing about me, so wouldn’t be surprised if you get the answer yes to all of those questions and of course they’re my friends, everyone in my family already knows all of that, because everyone in my family is the same religion, 6, 5, 5, I can’t decide between my daddy and my granddad, well, they’re the ones that I spend the most time with, and I have the most in common with, I went to Disneyland with my daddy for my 18th birthday, 130pounds, moving for the first time in my life almost just one year ago being diagnosed with autism almost a year ago, and they completely changed how the school year is going to work and I just have to get through my last school year and I would be finally done with school , I love our new house. I was love being right the whole entire time about being autistic for two years. I am really nervous about how the schedule and then concentrating on cooking and other life skills that have to do with that I go to school for the blind that’s why they’re concentrating on us burning all this independence., well, as you can tell with autism mixed with all this change, it’s kind of stressing me out, I would feel pretty OK telling them about this, but I don’t want them to worry about my personal problems, I would probably told them all about it because they tell me about their problems and I’ll told them about mine, I am not old enough to drink alcohol I am 19, changes going back to school and food because they say we’ll have to eat what we cook but me and my dad he planned that outfit. If I still need to eat we cook I bring my own bunch every day., a student graduated last year one student who also has autism and ADHD but I won’t have any classes with him this year because he’s not a senior or if you have to have an extra year they call us super senior that’s what I am, I’ve been held back twice in my life and also the vice principal who is kind of a jerk, I don’t have a job, and I never will, nope, because I just rely on my parents until I finally get that money from the government that they owe me that stupid government, 5, 5, 5, I don’t have a credit card, yes, one of the a lot of times when I was younger with my brother one time with my daddy when I made him angry and all so with that girl who graduated last year her name is Macy and she was just so annoying that I started actually replying the way I wanted to and not faking being nice and faking being her friend actually reacting the way I felt inside so for real while I just was a jerk to her I am so happy she’s gone., i’ve always been officially impaired. I’ve had seizures since I was six years old and I was recently diagnosed with autism level two and I am going to be soon tested for ADHD so I have a crap ton of them., I just take a ton of medicines that only my mom knows them name of I take one or two vitamins, and a bunch of meds for my seizures, i’ve had depression two times, and I have a lot of anxiety all the time both from my conditions and my mom’s genes, and I have been given meds for depression and anxiety, but that was before they knew that I had autism, when I was depressed and the times that I was suicidal yes, 1,2, back then I probably would wish that I got the death penalty, no, no, no, no, yes, not really, one time when I was having side effects from one kind of medicine I was taking my twisted a students arm and I even put a pin in the teachers finger when we were using pins to show things in math class because I go to a School faire, The Blind it’s tactile I even almost tried to push a smother student under water and drown them and even now when I get upset sometimes I hit my parents or myself but my parents are with counsel I know, yes, pass, probably the worst thing that I ever did to another person was me trying to kill myself and it was terrible to my parents because I can’t remember anything before two years ago because of brain surgery, yes, 14, no, what’s a proclivity, no, no,
Hey Veda, you haven't uploaded in a while. I hope you're okay. Lots of love and good vibes from me to you
Has she posted anything on her instagram?
@@tonyatthebeach I don't follow her on Instagram
You are beautiful 😍 ❤❤
This was deep do more of this
2:36 Veda the Therapist, what’s your favorite color 📞 *buddy the elf voice*
Let me tell you that you have a perfect face and you are very beautiful.
OKAY Fine. You Can Be My Therapist
My favorite show was "Empire."
i decided to put my answers in the comments because i need to share them. please don’t feel like you have to read this! also major tw for rape self harm and abuse.
color: red, yes
show: riverdale, netflix, plot
video game: sims 4
languages: english, fluent, german, beginner
song: party in the USA, just a section
pets: 2 pets, lucy and ellis mcmarbles
siblings: nope, 0
skill/talent: nothing?
fav subject: math, yes
feeling today: annoyed, bored, restless, very anxious
middle name: nicole
narrate actions in head: i don’t notice
something i’ve been putting off: cleaning my room/bathroom
worst job: being a student
recurring dreams: zombie apocalypses
how often do i zone out: almost every conversation, i get bored, easier when interested
different: i move a lot, i lived with my mom for 14 years and then im living with my dad until im 18 because she abused me
physical attractions: tattoos, tall, athletic, brown hair blue eyes, jack champion
religious: i believe in god, 3, 5, 5, 1
political: leaning right, 2, 5, 1
closest family, none, i don’t know them that much
weight: 160 lbs, 1
changes/challenges: serving in volleyball, i get worried that i won’t be good enough
overall emotional well-being: not great 4/10, 4, 5
alcohol: sometimes, like once or twice a month, nope
main sources of stress: school, family/home life, my mom, the way i look, spiders in my house
people i don’t like: arie is a lying bitch who only cares about herself, malee is an attention seeker and she’s obsessed with her toxic boyfriend, that one kid who forced me to have sex with him because he kept begging me to the point i just did it
annual income: $0
in debt: not me but idk abt my parents, 5, 5, 4
credit score: i’m a child, not yet
major falling out: yes i have, she kinda just decided to start any drama she could between me and my friends, i feel like it was both of our faults, friendship works both ways, no i mostly feel like it’s her fault
medical conditions: none to my knowledge
meds: nothing
history of mental health stuff: yes
experienced breach of trust: yes, telling everyone but family
death penalty: depends on crime
cheated: i don’t know if i have because i don’t know if any relationships count
illegal substances: once or twice a year
addiction or substance abuse: no
charged w a crime: nope
intentionally hurt someone: yeah fs, i only feel guilt because they get mad at me, i feel like what i do to people they deserve
questioned sexuality: yes
worst thing i’ve ever done: lied about them sexually assaulting me or lied about them being sexually involved with me, i was 14, yea all the time
how old first intimate relationship: never had one
deeply guilt: i feel really bad about the whole lying about being sexually involved with someone. i regret ruining their reputation and hurting his girlfriends trust. i regret lying to all of my friends. i regret ruining my relationships with my classmates, i regret all of it
are there any personal secrets: i’m a virgin. i’m scared to have sex, i’m still in high school and i’ve done so much shit and i know i’m a problem but idk if i’ve always been a problem or if i’ve caused myself to be a problem.
i love you veda
Pov: me trynna figure out the wifi password
Hi Veda ❤ will you film qna video for 40k subs?
Hi Veda
Hello Veda hope you’re doing well, may i ask when the new videos are dropping?. Got them on replay but could really use some new ones. ✌️
🖐😔 Hi Veda! Its been awhile since youve uploaded, hope all is well! I have a question for you, How does one find a good therapist to help get over grief, sadness. I lost my brother a month ago, he was battling cancer for over 8 years. I somehow felt entitled thinking that he would be a cancer survivor, and that we would be hanging out till we became old together🥺. Is yelp a good indicator to find a good therapist, or how would i be able to gauge their experience. Or do i need to just man up 💪😤 anyhow i like the hairstyle!
I would say, just check those near you, check some reviews, but mostly, you have to try them. After a few session, you will now if this the person for you or not. Therapy is deeply personal, and a therapist that isn't a fit for somebody can be for you, and vice versa. But in any case, you don't need to "man up", if you feel like you need help, go and get it, it's normal.
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Hey Paehrin I really appreciate the advice, Thanks! I'm not sure if I really want to go through many therapists before I find "The One" I will stay with for awhile.
@@tonytostada You're welcome and I'm sorry, I may not have expressed my ideas correctly. My point was mostly that you need to feel safe and understood with your therapist, so try one, but don't hesitate to change if you don't feel that way after a few sessions. Depending on your personality, it can take more or less time to reach that point. You can also communicate your worries on the subject to your therapist, they can help you with it, or maybe even refer you to a colleague that they might feel more suited to your case. But more than any thing, don't worry to sound weird, or ridicule, or anything... they've seen a lot, and you most probably won't be the worst ! I know it's a bit scary because we're not used to do that but see it that way, : If your leg is in pain and you can't walk normally, you go to your doctor... well, if your mental is in pain and you have trouble functioning normally or dealing with it, you go to a therapist. It's as normal as that, there's a lot of stigma around it, but it's just.... normal. The first step is to try. Hang in there, you can do it ! :)
Hello Tony! I’m so sorry I’m just seeing this now. First off, I’m incredibly sorry for your loss. I can only imagine what you’re going through right now. You seem like such a caring and wonderful person, and I grieve for what you’re going through.
I have a hard time finding doctors in general, and the search for a therapist has been no different. I like to go through my insurance website and look for local providers that accept my insurance. Then I google them and look for reviews, and that seems to be pretty helpful. There are probably even therapists near you that specialize in grief and loss, but most should be able to help with those things.
I’ll be thinking about you and your brother, and I really hope you’ve been able to rely on the support of people you love during this time. 💕
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Hi Veda! I will try your method to find a good therapist to help me through this tsunami of feelings I'm experiencing. I didn't mean to put you on the spot, but I really do appreciate that you responded to my comment about Therapists. I apologize if my comment was out of line. Asmr has gotten me through many a sleepless nights. Hopefully you understand your asmr is helpful to many! 🫡
I was wondering if you have time in the next bookclub would it be possible at the end of the live if you could mention any future asmr vids you might be doing, I have been waiting for a Nurse Veda upload, or a Halloween theme. I won't be able to make it, my schedule keeps me busy during the moonlight , and sleeping during sun light.🧛♂️🐺
I actually had a therapist once ask me who I voted for in the 2016 presidential election and then she went on and on about how my political belief was wrong 🙃
Sorry to hear that, hope you got the right therapist for you
I guarantee that therapist you had was a trump supporter, because trump supporters always go on phycho tangents about how according to them “Hilary’s a criminal, all democrats suck and trump is the greatest president ever, and if your not kissing up to him you’re wrong!” I am so sick of trump and these republican scumbags trying to abolish democratic rights, these bastards must be stopped!
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Can i schedule an actual follow up appointment? We were really getting somewhere lol
You know there's less beard trim vids than cuts. Could you have a barber & a therapist world into one?
Not sure if it’s meant to be or a coincidence but yesterday, when this video came out, was the same day I scheduled my first ever therapy appointment. Hmmmmm
Well done on taking the step to schedule a therapy appointment. I know it can be hard but well done for taking that step towards healing:). God bless you
Hey Hii hope you are doing good,
You kinda look like Rose 🌹 from Titanic !!
I don’t know if it’s only me seeing that way
Weird question, I watch this old video of yours and you had a nose ring. What happened to it?
Promo-SM 🤘
Why isn't veda uploading 😭😭😭
No offense, Veda, you are very relaxing and positive and respectful. However, I find it difficult to open a therapist. If I'm being honest.
How the hell are these therapist questions? Maybe the video gets better but u got a lot to work on in general. Good luck
Not even the KGB would get my favorite color out of me