The person she’s speaking of in this is my baby daddy who dumped us when I decided not to get an abortion. He tried running back to a familiar ex situation. I’ve come to realize recently that he is also Nero divergent and it made so much make sense. His inability to cope, have 0 capacity for conflict resolution and his heighten senses. For instance he can’t handle being around the baby when he’s crying. This is soooo heartbreaking and challenging to navigate from lens of compassion and also boundaries. I’ve always been here from him so he can speak up and express what he’s experiencing but up until now he’s shot it down. What has helped you to open up?
This is so sad that so many of us have gone through this similar situation my heart keeps for all of you I pray everyone gets better very soon and can heal from their destructive behavior. It's very hard I know this
he destroyed everything and will never ever be in my life again. i do not hate them, but disgusted by them. i cut the cords and pray for my protection. its all so gross. thank u Jess for ur gifts and sweet heart!❤
I am crying right now. This is exactly what I have been going through for the past several months with someone. How do you channel in such detail? I can’t even explain this to myself or anyone else. You just made it all make sense.
This situation has been very painful. The things said about me publicly were hard to hear but what was said in the background was unspeakable. It was all instigated by a very nefarious character. I was not blameless and am dealing with my mistakes. He sort of apologised online which i have accepted in my heart as i know how hard that would have been for him. Everything has been public/online and i would have liked the opportunity to speak with him but it never came. This has traumatized me (i think a person would have to be made of stone for it not to). I am dealing with other challenging situations besides this and am exhausted, soul tired......i forgive him because ultimately i know he's a good soul but this has been so painful. I will get to the light again but this lesson has been rough. Thank you, Jess. I feel safe here❤
"Soul tired" says it. Healing is hard and Faith is hard when you've never known anything better. I ask the Holy Spirit to run my life so I can let go of how I think things should be. God will turn it all to the good.
@debramalmos I too am now turning to spirit to help guide me. I have found these messages so helpful but have now decided to leave the internet for a while and focus on trying to find my soul tribe/guides in the real world. As intuitives, we are often missunderstood and the internet makes that more likely. The introvert paradox: wanting connection but the desire to stay at home! I trust that I will find my people if I go out more. All quite scary but it's time (gulp😂) thank you for your message and I wish you well 💛
RESONATED DEEPLY. Now i have more answers to my situation, it sums everything up. All the mind games, sneaky behavior, lies, and rumors put on me, just to cover up this woman's own wrong doings towards me. These are my co - workers - A woman (person behind all this) and my fellow male colleagues who were her followers 🤦🤣. Anyway, it's the season... Karma is getting at them. I don't give a shit.
He himself is the narcissist! He's a sadistic narc who played cruel mind games - am so glad I left him in the dust where he belongs and found peace and self love and healing and manifested someone so much better who's actually worthy of me.
This is exactly what I've been going through. I know that he is a great, loving, caring person.. But he has not dealt with childhood abuse & the abuse he's endured from every women that has been in his life until me. He would get triggered by the smallest thing. He might be bi polar. But he would get so nasty so quick. I finally had to detach from the relationship because I couldn't have my heart broken again. Then he finally came to me & confessed that he can't control what he says and needs help. He said I'm the only person he cares about & my opinion is the only one that matters to him. But I'm still scared to open my heart & trust him again. Yet. He painted me the villian to his brother & sister in law. Now he wants me to go to his brother's for holidays and I refused. He couldn't understand why. He always justified his words & actions by blaming me. I told him I can't & won't move forward until he apologizes for what he said & did to me.
Good for you for holding your boundaries and taking care of your heart and self-respect. I know you say he is a great, loving, caring person, but if you are the person he cares about the most and he treats you like this anyway, I'm not sure that qualifies as loving and caring.
@jadecovehealing well I have to say I agree with you. But I also have severe childhood abuse and trauma that I have never properly dealt with. I recently realized how much my past was affecting my present & reached out for professional help. I unfortunately know all too well how you can truly love someone, be a good person and still be triggered to the point of (blackout anger) disassociate & say things that you truly don't mean but at that moment you are thrusted into a past trauma when you are actually saying those things to the person currently in front of you but mean it to the one that abused you from your past. That is why we now have a way of letting each other know that is what is going on. So if & when one of us gets to that point, the other will simply say, "That isn't fair. I don't deserve that kind of reaction. I am not the person you need to be saying that, too." Then ask for an apology & ask if they would like to talk about what happened. It's not the fix all, but it does allow us to learn to be more respectful of each other & stop making the other pay for things, abuse, people, etc, that hurt us in the past.
@@yakyssim Wow that's actually a really insightful tool so to speak. I may try to use that with my mother who disassociates and rages at me every 2-3 months. Most of the time she's fine, but the rage is abusive and comes out of nowhere from her. I know it's complex-PTSD but that doesn't make it any easier. Thank you and I'm glad you've reached out for help.
@jadecovehealing i wish you all the best with your mom. I hope that this helps you improve your relationship with her. I never got that chance before my mom passed away last year. So I really do hope this helps you both. I'm glad I shared with you.
Also, I shouldn't be the goal. Them healing from their dark and demonic energy should be the end goal. I have every Right to refuse to allow someone back into my life based on how they've treated me, regardless how much they grow or change. Sometimes you're just not the partner for the person you wish to partner with. There is nothing you can do about that. We must all learn how to handle rejection.
Jess you are a gem. You are a rockstar. You are a gifted tarot reader and you have given me so much clarity. I was feeling what was going on in this connection. I don't know whom to ask. It's all eating me up. But thank you so much. Gratitude 🙏🥰
omg. for the longest time I could not understand why they acted so terribly to me. I had blamed myself like I was inadequate for them, but you explained it perfectly it's like you really personally know this person bc I knew they had some sort of mental issue going on when we met, from their backstory they gave me, they were depressed about their previous relationships, they were always remorseful, I wanted to snap them out of it bc I knew I would never hurt them but he ended up hurting me first. I didn't get it back then but now I do cause you explained it so well. this person does act like a victim, they do act indecisive & impulsively, it was all ego shit. I'm happy that they are finally taking steps to heal from all this and see the truth. it's just bittersweet bc the way I waited for so many years for it. I thought it would never happen & that maybe I was just crazy to think I had a chance with them when clearly they made their decision to be with someone else. no ur right. I see the time I spent alone away from kind of as a blessing now bc I know my standards in relationships & I honor them by not begging for ppl to treat me right or take me back. I hope they do contact me when they have healed tho, bc I want to hear it from the horses mouth lol. it'd mean so much to me. I have forgiven this person many many times if only they knew.
While I don't know the person you are talking about, you have described exactly a covert narcissist. They appear very vulnerable, especially in the beginning of the relationship, telling you how hurt they've been in the past. So you put your guard down and give them extra care and love because of it. But they are always the ones to turn around and hurt you first, as you described. If this person lines up with a lot of the signs of covert narcissism I would be careful if they do come back to talk to you. All that being said, time will tell if they have healed, but please move cautiously if they contact you again. And my apologies if you already know about the covert narc! I learned the hard way.
@@jadecovehealing thank you for looking out for me. I've had my fair share of narcissist, cover and overt. I know what you mean. Yes this person went down a wrong path, very ego & status driven, and at the expense of me. I've gone non contact for years bc of it. I'm already guarded. They will not have it easy if and when they contact me because lord knows I've been thru enough already. I'm not even sure if they came correct I'd want anything to do with them long term. They've broken the trust already. But the explanation would be nice that's all.
Not kinda anything. He was inhumane and definitely definitely emotionally stunted. And NO, there was NOTHING excusable for this. He is STRATEGIC, and ABUSIVE! PERIOD!! He never thought I was unfazed. He knew how much he kept hurting me.
Sadness, sorrow and grief for 3 yrs now. I’m not an angry person; but when I learned there was an entire group of people coming at me that are his friends and coworkers, the sense of betrayal was thorough. I’m not angry but gobsmacked.
As you posted this video, I was talking to him because he sent me a message. He basically told me that nothing was his fault and I just misunderstood everything. I didn’t misunderstand anything. He just lied. And he’s still lying. But he has hope that we’ll meet again someday. And I said I hope I never see him again in this lifetime. He also said he’s sorry he hurt me but it isn’t his fault. He isn’t understanding a damn thing about me. He never ever will. This video is for someone else because he has no feelings at all about anything. He plays the victim like no one I’ve ever known. Good luck everyone. Because now I just feel bad all over again.
I had to block all communication after every conversation was justification in defense of their resentment of me. God knows the Truth - the witness to everything. It grieves our Spirit to engage with people who have nothing kind to say... who believes we deserve to be treated less than human. I won't invite that into my life. It's a game they intend to win so they don't have to be accountable for what they know is wrong. They CHOOSE NOT to understand what makes Common Sense - that's why it can drive you crazy. The less you say, the more the Truth will speak for itself, in time - we can be healed when WE CLAIM the truth for our self.
@ I had blocked him on Facebook. I thought he didn’t have IG so I didn’t worry about it there. That’s where the message came from, a place I didn’t know existed. And now I’ve deleted both apps. Maybe it’s time to focus my energy and attention elsewhere. I think quitting my job and moving might be appropriate too, because we work for the same company in different states. I have to burn the bridge all the way down.
I'm Sick of the trickster energy it's not a Me problem, and it's time for some pple to wake up!! And realise im not playing checkers & what does he really think he deserves in life? Instead of suffering because i sure know my worth! And who deserves my energy ♥️🙌♥️
Thank you for this msg & validation 🙏 He’s been in 110% denial that he’s bipolar & he sabotages/abuses everything he deserves & loves in his life. He CAN get help. But he must choose.
Woooow this is SPOT ON.. all of the channeling you have done in the past like two weeks I PRAYED for these messages and asked specifically that youd be the one to bring the answers to me and here you are yet again ...thank you SO much for answering my prayers ❤❤ he was talking to heuxs online and he wouldnt stop, and he keeps sweeping it under the rug, but he's starting to listen..... thank you ❤❤❤
Leviathan, for sure! My connection to my ancestors, spirit team, star fam and Spirit saved my life. Not to sound dramatic. But I remember the exact day when I called spiritual 911, you know what I mean?? I was trying to help him see what was going on in his life. I just couldn't fight it all anymore to save my friend. As soon as I called out to God, I was rushed away and protected. Just been in hiding and focused on healing. I had hoped from that one pure place left, in my heart, that he would go to God for help. I feel relieved and no longer scared. Thank you, beautiful soul. You helped more than you know ❤❤❤
1 of my many purposes, to teach. If someone is learning I am so grateful for the privilege. I pray you continue to grow and find the real you. I wish you the very best in life and love.
Gosh, you are describing my former mentor whom I've tried to have a friendship with, but her lack of accountability and apology just doesn't sit well with me. We've talked about some of the things that happened, but she's made excuses and made it my fault. I'd be really happy if this was truly about her. Thank you! 💖
100% my storyline. he really did fuck me up mentally and have felt stuck on this hamster wheel cycle for years it’s been 6 yrs!!!🤦🏼♀️🤯😰 I’ve apologized and owned my part in all of it but not once has he ever been able to acknowledge or take accountability for his part in this Fuckery. He was so cruel to me and he should be ashamed mortified really us a better word for his cold mean scary behavior towards me! Hurt people hurt people and I had to learn my own harsh lessons of self worth and self love! It’s def a catch 22 but I see it from all angles now and that’s the growth in itself. To see it from a higher perspective while knowing I will never allow such shit in my life again!! Thank you for this message it’s the clarity I really needed at this point in my life with this man child! 🫶🏼🙌🏼
I went through 1668 seizures with this person. We have been together 10 years. I was aware that at some point, they would snap. They need real medical attention. The day they started packing, I knew something was mentally wrong. They had not been on drugs in those 10 years. I could offer much more to this story but they require protection. They walked away from their protection. I did not stop them. I never blamed myself. I am also spiritually connected and watched the development. They really need professional help.
Refusing therapy/psychiatric treatment is precisely why I will never be interested in revisiting this situation. The first step is actually being willing to admit you have a problem and seeking help for that problem. If you can't do that, nothing you attempt will work.
Good to know, thanks Jess! I hope they are optimistic and take on some direct things and are happier by result. He is a good person. He was very depressed last time I talked to him, but I believe in him. You are completely right. I detached to love myself. I needed to heal.
Man! You were so rt. I thought wth is wrong with me to attract someone obviously so deeply wounded, wounding and defensive. I've done so much healing within myself, so why did he come into my life. Understand that he's a soulmate, but SO WHAT! Give me one that is healed enough and can upgrade me, not the same ole lil boy in a man's body ish, that I've encountered. Def had to give myself a forgiveness affirmation. I deserve honorable love. I remember telling him that he thinks SO blk and white and that the world is so many shades of gray. Whew! I pray he heals, for himself and whomever will be in his life. Very toxic. Thx Jess.
Long term for sure. It was the money she had. After she dumped him now he wants to get it from my work. Never will be ok. Bad person surrounded by other bad people. It was heinous and involved many many people and those in my work and neighbours where I live. I cannot feel safe here anymore. They are such a toxic group and involves my own relatives.
Gosh yeah when I was thick into this all the self blame was so strong I don’t know if it was me feeling his energy or something I can’t quite put my finger on about me. Anyway it’s gone from that much of a heavy degree. I try find balance in all situations now and just try see the equal faults of situations. It’s interesting though I wonder if the blame was something of me or just of him cos I swear it wasn’t a thing before him. I tend to take on other peoples emotions and blockages and have to work through them as though they are my own. It’s strange
I never gave off a feeling that it was ok! I could tell he just justified because he had an “anyone but, me” attitude because I’m older - therefore taboo, or his family & friends, religion having something to say based on what he told them about me that was a big fat lie- they judged inappropriately. I’m sure I was the scapegoat to blame so he could deflect blame from himself!
He keeps jumping into one thing and and gets back into another at someone else's hurt and pain. I do care for him. He has to learn to take accountability. He does have a good heart. I can't keep getting hurt. I went away with my sister to just get away for a few days.I need to clear my mind. He can't keep blaming everyone.
Thank you. He brought in a narcissist 3rd party and tried to make me jealous. I don't get jealous I just leave if I'm not wanted. He doesn't like to take accountability. Yes he was my Emporer, I left and I don't want to reconcile. I think I have to stay with him since he's my divine counterpart right? I walked away anyway.
This seem so true With my new match, the best match ever. But I think he is sick, like psychotic. But I do not know. He blockes me all the time. Will he come back? My boundaries.. can not stop thinking about him. Thank you Jess! ♥️🙏🏻
Wow! This is my partner. It's so crazy! Yet I know he loves me. Such a weird feeling. He is really trying now though. He just couldn't see how his words affected me
Gosh, I wonder if it was the wonderful reading that you gave a while back from the Devine Feminines perspective too the D Masculine that I sent too him!🌙
For starters if they want to start healing things. They need to bring me my kids and great niece jazmea, that they took from me with the help of the Court officials
I had the COURAGE to speak up. I am Neuro divergent, and dealing with bullies, accusations, defamation of character.
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The person she’s speaking of in this is my baby daddy who dumped us when I decided not to get an abortion. He tried running back to a familiar ex situation. I’ve come to realize recently that he is also Nero divergent and it made so much make sense. His inability to cope, have 0 capacity for conflict resolution and his heighten senses. For instance he can’t handle being around the baby when he’s crying. This is soooo heartbreaking and challenging to navigate from lens of compassion and also boundaries. I’ve always been here from him so he can speak up and express what he’s experiencing but up until now he’s shot it down. What has helped you to open up?
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My heart goes out to u
Amen!❤🎉
This is so sad that so many of us have gone through this similar situation my heart keeps for all of you I pray everyone gets better very soon and can heal from their destructive behavior. It's very hard I know this
😢 My thought too. Very awful. Hoping all heals for the harmed.
he destroyed everything and will never ever be in my life again. i do not hate them, but disgusted by them. i cut the cords and pray for my protection. its all so gross. thank u Jess for ur gifts and sweet heart!❤
I am crying right now. This is exactly what I have been going through for the past several months with someone. How do you channel in such detail? I can’t even explain this to myself or anyone else. You just made it all make sense.
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This situation has been very painful. The things said about me publicly were hard to hear but what was said in the background was unspeakable. It was all instigated by a very nefarious character. I was not blameless and am dealing with my mistakes. He sort of apologised online which i have accepted in my heart as i know how hard that would have been for him. Everything has been public/online and i would have liked the opportunity to speak with him but it never came. This has traumatized me (i think a person would have to be made of stone for it not to). I am dealing with other challenging situations besides this and am exhausted, soul tired......i forgive him because ultimately i know he's a good soul but this has been so painful. I will get to the light again but this lesson has been rough. Thank you, Jess. I feel safe here❤
"Soul tired" says it. Healing is hard and Faith is hard when you've never known anything better. I ask the Holy Spirit to run my life so I can let go of how I think things should be. God will turn it all to the good.
@debramalmos I too am now turning to spirit to help guide me. I have found these messages so helpful but have now decided to leave the internet for a while and focus on trying to find my soul tribe/guides in the real world. As intuitives, we are often missunderstood and the internet makes that more likely. The introvert paradox: wanting connection but the desire to stay at home! I trust that I will find my people if I go out more. All quite scary but it's time (gulp😂) thank you for your message and I wish you well 💛
RESONATED DEEPLY. Now i have more answers to my situation, it sums everything up. All the mind games, sneaky behavior, lies, and rumors put on me, just to cover up this woman's own wrong doings towards me. These are my co - workers - A woman (person behind all this) and my fellow male colleagues who were her followers 🤦🤣. Anyway, it's the season... Karma is getting at them. I don't give a shit.
He himself is the narcissist! He's a sadistic narc who played cruel mind games - am so glad I left him in the dust where he belongs and found peace and self love and healing and manifested someone so much better who's actually worthy of me.
Thanks!
I actually felt my heart ripped out my chest but I have forgiven them. Trying to move on, one step at a time.
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“Darling, time’s changed
Time leaves, time fades
Please see through my eyes
Save your tears for the next who dies”
-PJ Harvey
This is exactly what I've been going through. I know that he is a great, loving, caring person.. But he has not dealt with childhood abuse & the abuse he's endured from every women that has been in his life until me. He would get triggered by the smallest thing. He might be bi polar. But he would get so nasty so quick. I finally had to detach from the relationship because I couldn't have my heart broken again. Then he finally came to me & confessed that he can't control what he says and needs help. He said I'm the only person he cares about & my opinion is the only one that matters to him. But I'm still scared to open my heart & trust him again. Yet. He painted me the villian to his brother & sister in law. Now he wants me to go to his brother's for holidays and I refused. He couldn't understand why. He always justified his words & actions by blaming me. I told him I can't & won't move forward until he apologizes for what he said & did to me.
Good for you for holding your boundaries and taking care of your heart and self-respect. I know you say he is a great, loving, caring person, but if you are the person he cares about the most and he treats you like this anyway, I'm not sure that qualifies as loving and caring.
@jadecovehealing well I have to say I agree with you. But I also have severe childhood abuse and trauma that I have never properly dealt with. I recently realized how much my past was affecting my present & reached out for professional help. I unfortunately know all too well how you can truly love someone, be a good person and still be triggered to the point of (blackout anger) disassociate & say things that you truly don't mean but at that moment you are thrusted into a past trauma when you are actually saying those things to the person currently in front of you but mean it to the one that abused you from your past. That is why we now have a way of letting each other know that is what is going on. So if & when one of us gets to that point, the other will simply say, "That isn't fair. I don't deserve that kind of reaction. I am not the person you need to be saying that, too." Then ask for an apology & ask if they would like to talk about what happened. It's not the fix all, but it does allow us to learn to be more respectful of each other & stop making the other pay for things, abuse, people, etc, that hurt us in the past.
@@yakyssim Wow that's actually a really insightful tool so to speak. I may try to use that with my mother who disassociates and rages at me every 2-3 months. Most of the time she's fine, but the rage is abusive and comes out of nowhere from her. I know it's complex-PTSD but that doesn't make it any easier. Thank you and I'm glad you've reached out for help.
@jadecovehealing i wish you all the best with your mom. I hope that this helps you improve your relationship with her. I never got that chance before my mom passed away last year. So I really do hope this helps you both. I'm glad I shared with you.
He IS the narcissist. What’s that movie? “The call is coming from inside the house. Get out of the house.” That’s this situation.
Also, I shouldn't be the goal.
Them healing from their dark and demonic energy should be the end goal.
I have every Right to refuse to allow someone back into my life based on how they've treated me, regardless how much they grow or change.
Sometimes you're just not the partner for the person you wish to partner with.
There is nothing you can do about that.
We must all learn how to handle rejection.
Jess you are a gem. You are a rockstar. You are a gifted tarot reader and you have given me so much clarity. I was feeling what was going on in this connection. I don't know whom to ask. It's all eating me up. But thank you so much. Gratitude 🙏🥰
omg. for the longest time I could not understand why they acted so terribly to me. I had blamed myself like I was inadequate for them, but you explained it perfectly it's like you really personally know this person bc I knew they had some sort of mental issue going on when we met, from their backstory they gave me, they were depressed about their previous relationships, they were always remorseful, I wanted to snap them out of it bc I knew I would never hurt them but he ended up hurting me first. I didn't get it back then but now I do cause you explained it so well. this person does act like a victim, they do act indecisive & impulsively, it was all ego shit. I'm happy that they are finally taking steps to heal from all this and see the truth. it's just bittersweet bc the way I waited for so many years for it. I thought it would never happen & that maybe I was just crazy to think I had a chance with them when clearly they made their decision to be with someone else. no ur right. I see the time I spent alone away from kind of as a blessing now bc I know my standards in relationships & I honor them by not begging for ppl to treat me right or take me back. I hope they do contact me when they have healed tho, bc I want to hear it from the horses mouth lol. it'd mean so much to me. I have forgiven this person many many times if only they knew.
While I don't know the person you are talking about, you have described exactly a covert narcissist. They appear very vulnerable, especially in the beginning of the relationship, telling you how hurt they've been in the past. So you put your guard down and give them extra care and love because of it. But they are always the ones to turn around and hurt you first, as you described. If this person lines up with a lot of the signs of covert narcissism I would be careful if they do come back to talk to you. All that being said, time will tell if they have healed, but please move cautiously if they contact you again. And my apologies if you already know about the covert narc! I learned the hard way.
@@jadecovehealing thank you for looking out for me. I've had my fair share of narcissist, cover and overt. I know what you mean. Yes this person went down a wrong path, very ego & status driven, and at the expense of me. I've gone non contact for years bc of it. I'm already guarded. They will not have it easy if and when they contact me because lord knows I've been thru enough already. I'm not even sure if they came correct I'd want anything to do with them long term. They've broken the trust already. But the explanation would be nice that's all.
@@ashhcatchemall True, the explanation would be nice from these people who hurt us, even if we never plan to get back with them. 💜
Not kinda anything. He was inhumane and definitely definitely emotionally stunted.
And NO, there was NOTHING excusable for this. He is STRATEGIC, and ABUSIVE! PERIOD!! He never thought I was unfazed. He knew how much he kept hurting me.
Sadness, sorrow and grief for 3 yrs now. I’m not an angry person; but when I learned there was an entire group of people coming at me that are his friends and coworkers, the sense of betrayal was thorough. I’m not angry but gobsmacked.
Spot F'n On! 🎯
Never, not even if he was the last man on Earth, would I get back with him. The depths of betrayal have had long lasting consequences in my life.
Same . He had no integrity. Was a covert narc with cruel mind games
Yes I had to go to protect myself and heal, of course I cared and was worried definitely not unfazed. But for my healing.
It was the ego mind over thinking it instead of "thru the heart" therefore he could only see it thru the lenses of his ego mind
As you posted this video, I was talking to him because he sent me a message. He basically told me that nothing was his fault and I just misunderstood everything. I didn’t misunderstand anything. He just lied. And he’s still lying. But he has hope that we’ll meet again someday. And I said I hope I never see him again in this lifetime. He also said he’s sorry he hurt me but it isn’t his fault. He isn’t understanding a damn thing about me. He never ever will.
This video is for someone else because he has no feelings at all about anything. He plays the victim like no one I’ve ever known.
Good luck everyone. Because now I just feel bad all over again.
I had to block all communication after every conversation was justification in defense of their resentment of me. God knows the Truth - the witness to everything. It grieves our Spirit to engage with people who have nothing kind to say... who believes we deserve to be treated less than human. I won't invite that into my life. It's a game they intend to win so they don't have to be accountable for what they know is wrong. They CHOOSE NOT to understand what makes Common Sense - that's why it can drive you crazy. The less you say, the more the Truth will speak for itself, in time - we can be healed when WE CLAIM the truth for our self.
@ I had blocked him on Facebook. I thought he didn’t have IG so I didn’t worry about it there. That’s where the message came from, a place I didn’t know existed. And now I’ve deleted both apps. Maybe it’s time to focus my energy and attention elsewhere. I think quitting my job and moving might be appropriate too, because we work for the same company in different states. I have to burn the bridge all the way down.
I'm Sick of the trickster energy it's not a Me problem, and it's time for some pple to wake up!! And realise im not playing checkers & what does he really think he deserves in life? Instead of suffering because i sure know my worth! And who deserves my energy ♥️🙌♥️
Thank you for this msg & validation 🙏 He’s been in 110% denial that he’s bipolar & he sabotages/abuses everything he deserves & loves in his life. He CAN get help. But he must choose.
I sure do see him clearly!!!!
Because of that I don't want anything to do with her
Hope he heals.
Wish him the best.
🎯🎯🎯thank you. 🕊️We're in no contact Ty for this❤
Yeah, I haven’t been shown any human kindness or decency.
Woooow this is SPOT ON.. all of the channeling you have done in the past like two weeks I PRAYED for these messages and asked specifically that youd be the one to bring the answers to me and here you are yet again ...thank you SO much for answering my prayers ❤❤ he was talking to heuxs online and he wouldnt stop, and he keeps sweeping it under the rug, but he's starting to listen..... thank you ❤❤❤
Thanks so much. I trust your channeled message. It is so spot on.
Ego, Pride!!!!
I Pray it's someone I actually accept back into my energy who deserves me.
Leviathan, for sure! My connection to my ancestors, spirit team, star fam and Spirit saved my life. Not to sound dramatic. But I remember the exact day when I called spiritual 911, you know what I mean?? I was trying to help him see what was going on in his life. I just couldn't fight it all anymore to save my friend. As soon as I called out to God, I was rushed away and protected. Just been in hiding and focused on healing. I had hoped from that one pure place left, in my heart, that he would go to God for help. I feel relieved and no longer scared.
Thank you, beautiful soul. You helped more than you know ❤❤❤
Not going to let him do it again I've heard his story and right now I dont except this
Wow. That was amazing and spot on with what I feel is going on. Thank you for that clarity! ❤🙏🏻
Thats right get to my frequency and my vibration.
1 of my many purposes, to teach. If someone is learning I am so grateful for the privilege. I pray you continue to grow and find the real you. I wish you the very best in life and love.
Gosh, you are describing my former mentor whom I've tried to have a friendship with, but her lack of accountability and apology just doesn't sit well with me. We've talked about some of the things that happened, but she's made excuses and made it my fault. I'd be really happy if this was truly about her. Thank you! 💖
100% my storyline. he really did fuck me up mentally and have felt stuck on this hamster wheel cycle for years it’s been 6 yrs!!!🤦🏼♀️🤯😰 I’ve apologized and owned my part in all of it but not once has he ever been able to acknowledge or take accountability for his part in this Fuckery. He was so cruel to me and he should be ashamed mortified really us a better word for his cold mean scary behavior towards me! Hurt people hurt people and I had to learn my own harsh lessons of self worth and self love! It’s def a catch 22 but I see it from all angles now and that’s the growth in itself. To see it from a higher perspective while knowing I will never allow such shit in my life again!! Thank you for this message it’s the clarity I really needed at this point in my life with this man child! 🫶🏼🙌🏼
Detach with love to clearly see the truth ❤
Regardless of the truth, some abusive behaviour is never acceptable
So much resonance! Thank you
This is my story. Thanks Jess ❤❤❤
If that’s true then the healing process can begin
It's been almost four months of no contact. I still think about him but it hurts less and less
I went through 1668 seizures with this person. We have been together 10 years. I was aware that at some point, they would snap. They need real medical attention.
The day they started packing, I knew something was mentally wrong. They had not been on drugs in those 10 years. I could offer much more to this story but they require protection. They walked away from their protection. I did not stop them. I never blamed myself. I am also spiritually connected and watched the development. They really need professional help.
Thanks so much Jess.🙏🏼You are so tuned in. I don’t know how you do it, but it helps a lot.
Refusing therapy/psychiatric treatment is precisely why I will never be interested in revisiting this situation.
The first step is actually being willing to admit you have a problem and seeking help for that problem.
If you can't do that, nothing you attempt will work.
This would be a miracle❤️
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Good to know, thanks Jess! I hope they are optimistic and take on some direct things and are happier by result. He is a good person. He was very depressed last time I talked to him, but I believe in him. You are completely right. I detached to love myself. I needed to heal.
Very on point! Thank you 😊
Wow. Beautiful how you were able to deliver this message that is my situation. I’m a new subscriber, thank you!💜✨🕊️
Thank you Jess - This would be a miracle, though I do believe in miracles. It hurts this morning. This helps.
Amazing. I appreciate you.
Man! You were so rt. I thought wth is wrong with me to attract someone obviously so deeply wounded, wounding and defensive.
I've done so much healing within myself, so why did he come into my life. Understand that he's a soulmate, but SO WHAT! Give me one that is healed enough and can upgrade me, not the same ole lil boy in a man's body ish, that I've encountered.
Def had to give myself a forgiveness affirmation. I deserve honorable love. I remember telling him that he thinks SO blk and white and that the world is so many shades of gray.
Whew! I pray he heals, for himself and whomever will be in his life. Very toxic. Thx Jess.
Thank you..❤
Thank you Jess ❤
You’re so welcome!! 🩷💜
Oh, his victim role is intact.
This sounds just like a dude I publicly exposed for being a psycho last summer, right down to the narcissistic energy he lives with.
Because they are a cheater and liar
I am unfazed and unbothered...lol he thought right. 😂i dont care how he's feeling, to be honest...
Thank you Jess for this message❤
Thank you. I needed to hear this today. ❤
He probably did paint me the villain…
I LOOOOVVVEEE that you quoted Padhmasambhava 🙏🏻
Thank you! I needed to hear this
Come on! The ex-narc knew darn well he was destroying me, my daughter, and our lives!
he stole my inheritances...that part
Long term for sure. It was the money she had. After she dumped him now he wants to get it from my work. Never will be ok. Bad person surrounded by other bad people. It was heinous and involved many many people and those in my work and neighbours where I live. I cannot feel safe here anymore. They are such a toxic group and involves my own relatives.
Gosh yeah when I was thick into this all the self blame was so strong I don’t know if it was me feeling his energy or something I can’t quite put my finger on about me. Anyway it’s gone from that much of a heavy degree. I try find balance in all situations now and just try see the equal faults of situations. It’s interesting though I wonder if the blame was something of me or just of him cos I swear it wasn’t a thing before him. I tend to take on other peoples emotions and blockages and have to work through them as though they are my own. It’s strange
This SO resonates - thank you! 🥰🙏
Amazing reading. Thank you.
Indecisive because he couldn’t get past my age…so I just didn’t count - anyone but me!
"Dissatisfied" Jess☺️
Love yr readings❤
Definitely resonates, thanks Jess ❤
He knows right from wrong Now someone likes me ME NOW LEAVE ME ALONE
Thank you. On spot
Compassion, Kindness and Peace… We are All Connected… One Divine Love - Unity Consciousness. 💕🙌💜
You’re awesome! 🙏🏼💗💗💗🏹🔥
I never gave off a feeling that it was ok! I could tell he just justified because he had an “anyone but, me” attitude because I’m older - therefore taboo, or his family & friends, religion having something to say based on what he told them about me that was a big fat lie- they judged inappropriately. I’m sure I was the scapegoat to blame so he could deflect blame from himself!
Thank you!!!
So helpful!
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Thank you.
They are a victim of their own actions
Thank you for this wonderful reading. God bless you 🙏 😊 ❤
He keeps jumping into one thing and
and gets back into another at someone
else's hurt and pain. I do care for him.
He has to learn to take accountability.
He does have a good heart. I can't keep
getting hurt. I went away with my sister
to just get away for a few days.I need
to clear my mind. He can't keep blaming everyone.
Spot on for me, thank you 🙏🌸
It took me til just now to realize you pick the background colors so that it looks like a rainbow when you scroll through your videos
He didn't tell me his third party is another man, shame on them.
No dragon. No gold.
Yes spot on!!!! 👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾 I think the same!
spot on! ☺️
Definitely made no sense!!!
Thank you. He brought in a narcissist 3rd party and tried to make me jealous. I don't get jealous I just leave if I'm not wanted. He doesn't like to take accountability. Yes he was my Emporer, I left and I don't want to reconcile. I think I have to stay with him since he's my divine counterpart right? I walked away anyway.
This seem so true With my new match, the best match ever. But I think he is sick, like psychotic. But I do not know. He blockes me all the time. Will he come back? My boundaries.. can not stop thinking about him. Thank you Jess! ♥️🙏🏻
He is very immature insicure he said he was seeing if i can take it
September 25.2024 he hurt me more than he knows
Wow! This is my partner. It's so crazy! Yet I know he loves me. Such a weird feeling. He is really trying now though. He just couldn't see how his words affected me
Very accurate!
Omg that’s all I can say!
Gosh, I wonder if it was the wonderful reading that you gave a while back from the Devine Feminines perspective too the D Masculine that I sent too him!🌙
For starters if they want to start healing things. They need to bring me my kids and great niece jazmea, that they took from me with the help of the Court officials