I think this is from his perspective. I snapped and called him out on all the betrayals he's dishing out to his family and karmic friends. After a year and a half, I went off on him about his emotional manipulation and double standards and how he makes agreements with people and can act trustworthy to get what he wants but the moment he gets his needs met he doesnt do his part, I called him selfish, entitled, a con artist, the perpetual victim and hero at the same time, and a sugar baby, and all kinds of things, and cried for days after. I haven't felt anger like this since I was child. He convinced me to put my needs to the side and push boundaries, promising it would be better for me. I believed him over and over. The rage I felt from being taken advantage of again this time financially, felt like deep deep grief. It crushed me. My soul knew him as my best friend and the love of my life. Friends don't repetitively disrespect eachother.
This reading made me sad because it had so much truth to it. The toxic group. The dependency of the other on this group. Me understanding but having to navigate this alone. 💔
Um, yes. I have struggled with this exact situation. My daughter is currently going through a similar breakup and is strong in her resolve because she sees how I am navigating my situation. She doesn't know that I am just barely hanging on and longing for someone who has admitted they are longing for me, but they messed things up so badly that I can't in good conscience bring them back into my home even though I wish things could be different. We almost had it all as they say. Sucks to have another lonely holiday season but ultimately, this is the way it has to be - and I want my daughter to see how a real woman handles heartbreak that she didn't cause.
This relationship was so much deeper than even You, MyDear, can recognize. Surrounded in lust , love, and cruelty from others, so much more. It changed both our lives.
The lesson he’s going through i went through 6 years ago and it was so painful and man it made me cry a river for years and it was about selling yourself short and not having values based on self knowledge and just escaping being alone.ever since then i have sat through most of my heartbreaks and most of my heart wrenching lonely moments in the toxic house i live with people who have never accepted me but life goes on and i hope this chapter of being in this chapter ends soon and well
AAAAH!!! I recieved that Bible verse as a download while meditating on this situation on November 3, 2024 at 3:27 AM!!!!! 1 Corinthians 13: 4-8 I even wrote it down in my journal! This is scarily accurate. It’s like you live in my mind….😳🤨🧐👀 Edit: I don’t really resonate with the cheating stuff though. I hope that I didn’t harm him. He did cause harm to me but I wonder if I harmed him too. I am a fearful avoidant and was going through a lot at that time and probably overloaded his already overloaded senses. Oh I just realized that I am “this person” in this reading.
This is his perspective towards me. If he learnt his selfishness is not nice and love is the only answer we both won. Love is not easy and so beautiful! He just had to think about the other person… that’s it! If he has learnt that It’s beautiful.
I loved this man deeply and he did everything in his power to destroy it. He wants to patch things up but that's not possible! He hurt me too deeply. He venerated his third party and degraded me. He's taken all he could from me and gave abuse in return. My heart has shut down to him. He has to go. May he get the type of Karma to help him realize what he has done. However, he was not out of my league and I was not out of his. Perhaps this message is not for me, but it does strongly resonate on many levels.
Good grief it isn’t win or lose, It is love. Who can ever really understand love. The highest of highs and the lowest of lows But when you can come out of the chaos it is wonderful for a true friendship to remain.
If I knew he was in a relationship/marriage I never would have slept with this person. Then to find out that we are Twin Flame energy. I'm glad this has lite his path to become a better person. He's an adult to make his own decisions. I desire to be with him, but he can do as he wants. I'm also free to do as I wish. I have been involved with his group nor do I care to. If he wants to be with the Karmic, go do it. I do not want to be in it. I'm tired, I've been very patient with this situation. I put in God's hands.
All of this... Him, Me the child the entire process. God is truly working it all together for our good. Humility and love helps it work out faster for the good
You could probably add jealousy and hatred in there, from one direction, but me it was never less than love. True ,deep love.❤️ Broke every damn branch.😂
I have no idea which person I am, because we're mirroring each other. My TF was a supervisor who didn't deal with somebody who was bullying/stalking me. I'm working on trying to forgive him and the betrayal. I offered a hand to talk to me when he wanted to. And I encouraged him to do what he felt was right. I've been working on myself. It's really hard. I got stalked/gossiped about/emotionally abused/gaslit and I had to quit a job that I really loved. But he didn't believe me when I told him. So it's a bigger betrayal than it seems like.
So interesting. I finally moved on, hooked up w someone else. And the next time I spoke to him it was easy. I held resentment because he dated someone we worked with instead of me. Almost like I was holding tension and being spoiled about the fact that he wouldn't give in and ask me out... We work together so obviously it's not easy to date @ work. The people at work i don't really associate with. And now I've been navigating being alone more and happy in my own space. I did a meditation last night and visited the akashik records. I saw one word in the book they showed me. LOVE. It was interesting. And I do feel a lot better and like I just put a lot of presurre on myself.
Lesser of two Evils if your arm is cut off? Choose one of two bad choices? No. Take care of yourself...Try to enjoy the journey? No. It sucks, every part of it. Trying to leave it.
Very accurate reading for me Jess...I had no choice but to walk away..he broke my heart I gave so much , I was so loyal and the only real true friend he ever had ...it took me ages to heal from this betrayal..I have forgiven him...but I cannot look at the 3 Rd party and this group that came between us ..I have accepted where he is at and he should have told these people to fuck off...Still have a heavy heart and the trust is gone but wow so accurate Jess ...love Wayne Dwyer ❤💯🎯🔥⚖️
If you Wronged someone, you should be Making it Right With Them. Period. You can retrieve into your hermit mode Later with more stuff shown to you to work through. Not Acting is what Keeps the Bleeding going!!! You don't know what's Right for them. The Right thing to do is Taking the Risk and Letting THEM Decide for themselves! Not this Avoidant "I don't wanna tell you cuz what if you're happy" Bullshit! Cowardness is what got you into this mess in the 1st place!
Wow craaaaazy you picked up on the cheating thing... he was abusing me verbally, emotionally and physically and he was making me feel so bad about myself i wanted to d!e.. I had to find someone who could accurately reflect my reality because I felt like i was losing my mind, im not a cheater, never cheated in any relationship prior to this because I wasnt being treated this horrendously... and he was talking to women behind my back so I felt as if it was fair because I don't do double standards, if youre gonna go behind my back, im gonna go behind yours because I value fairness and equality and I asked him to stop what he was doing for a long time and he wouldnt but he also wouldn't leave me alone when I tried to walk away... so.. what's a good person to do who is stuck in this predicament? Except for move on anyway? He put me in an impossible position. Hes the one who did the most wrong here, i wasnt selfish, i was fair to myself, there's a difference. Thanks Jess....
What does this even mean? Sorry😮 I do not understand any of it. Teaching you self love through disharmony? Wrong. You are asking her to put him first before herself which goes against all reader's teachings. That means accepting his actions if they go against her. Not happening. She knows the dynamics of his situation but that is not within her control.
This is reversed it’s the man who is now waking up to all the harm he caused a very long relationship we had and the betrayal he put on me for years and I let him go finally after giving him multiple chances to redeem the situation he lied about me to his controlling weirdo sister had other women and treated me horribly and to much stuff I found out I lost it finally and have told him to leave me the hell slone don’t call don’t stop by my home don’t have friends contact me unless I say ok and I say no go fix your issues ! Stop drinking stop screwing strangers stop lying . I’m healing I’m starting over I’m going to be happy !!!! Leaving the circus ! He underestimated my inner strength !!!!
The home thing is about i just wanna show up at his door often but i just cant after all the disrespect and man i have had to fight that urge for soooo long😣
I think this is from his perspective. I snapped and called him out on all the betrayals he's dishing out to his family and karmic friends. After a year and a half, I went off on him about his emotional manipulation and double standards and how he makes agreements with people and can act trustworthy to get what he wants but the moment he gets his needs met he doesnt do his part, I called him selfish, entitled, a con artist, the perpetual victim and hero at the same time, and a sugar baby, and all kinds of things, and cried for days after. I haven't felt anger like this since I was child. He convinced me to put my needs to the side and push boundaries, promising it would be better for me. I believed him over and over. The rage I felt from being taken advantage of again this time financially, felt like deep deep grief. It crushed me. My soul knew him as my best friend and the love of my life. Friends don't repetitively disrespect eachother.
This reading made me sad because it had so much truth to it. The toxic group. The dependency of the other on this group. Me understanding but having to navigate this alone. 💔
Um, yes. I have struggled with this exact situation. My daughter is currently going through a similar breakup and is strong in her resolve because she sees how I am navigating my situation. She doesn't know that I am just barely hanging on and longing for someone who has admitted they are longing for me, but they messed things up so badly that I can't in good conscience bring them back into my home even though I wish things could be different. We almost had it all as they say. Sucks to have another lonely holiday season but ultimately, this is the way it has to be - and I want my daughter to see how a real woman handles heartbreak that she didn't cause.
This relationship was so much deeper than even You, MyDear, can recognize. Surrounded in lust , love, and cruelty from others, so much more. It changed both our lives.
The lesson he’s going through i went through 6 years ago and it was so painful and man it made me cry a river for years and it was about selling yourself short and not having values based on self knowledge and just escaping being alone.ever since then i have sat through most of my heartbreaks and most of my heart wrenching lonely moments in the toxic house i live with people who have never accepted me but life goes on and i hope this chapter of being in this chapter ends soon and well
💜💜💜💜💜
AAAAH!!! I recieved that Bible verse as a download while meditating on this situation on November 3, 2024 at 3:27 AM!!!!! 1 Corinthians 13: 4-8 I even wrote it down in my journal! This is scarily accurate. It’s like you live in my mind….😳🤨🧐👀
Edit: I don’t really resonate with the cheating stuff though. I hope that I didn’t harm him. He did cause harm to me but I wonder if I harmed him too. I am a fearful avoidant and was going through a lot at that time and probably overloaded his already overloaded senses. Oh I just realized that I am “this person” in this reading.
This is his perspective towards me. If he learnt his selfishness is not nice and love is the only answer we both won. Love is not easy and so beautiful! He just had to think about the other person… that’s it! If he has learnt that It’s beautiful.
I loved this man deeply and he did everything in his power to destroy it. He wants to patch things up but that's not possible! He hurt me too deeply. He venerated his third party and degraded me. He's taken all he could from me and gave abuse in return. My heart has shut down to him. He has to go. May he get the type of Karma to help him realize what he has done. However, he was not out of my league and I was not out of his. Perhaps this message is not for me, but it does strongly resonate on many levels.
Good grief it isn’t win or lose, It is love. Who can ever really understand love. The highest of highs and the lowest of lows But when you can come out of the chaos it is wonderful for a true friendship to remain.
He's not out of my league. He just put me down enough to make me think he was at a crucial developmental stage
Much much love ❤️ to you for everything you bring for the collectives here…Thank you 🪷🙏🏼🙏🏼🪷
I am an Earth Angel, the sweethearts do not need me,only those that need a little sweetness in their 😂❤lives.
It is just the last remnants of a special love clearing the air waves.
Never been in denial . Acceptance of what is gone.
If I knew he was in a relationship/marriage I never would have slept
with this person. Then to find out
that we are Twin Flame energy.
I'm glad this has lite his path to
become a better person. He's an
adult to make his own decisions.
I desire to be with him, but he can
do as he wants. I'm also free to do
as I wish. I have been involved with
his group nor do I care to. If he wants
to be with the Karmic, go do it. I do
not want to be in it. I'm tired, I've been
very patient with this situation. I put
in God's hands.
I love alone. It is good for me, now there are others who do not.
All of this... Him, Me the child the entire process. God is truly working it all together for our good. Humility and love helps it work out faster for the good
You are right on it Jess❤❤❤
Wow Jess. This was such a spot on channeling and also gave me so much perspective shift. On behalf of my baby boy and I. Thank you 🤍
Youre so good, it goes both ways actually
You could probably add jealousy and hatred in there, from one direction, but me it was never less than love. True ,deep love.❤️ Broke every damn branch.😂
God actually puts me in front of those who really need me. Sometimes It goes well. Other times,not so well. But God directs me
I wished he learnt autonomy and got away from a group that brought his fall.
I have no idea which person I am, because we're mirroring each other. My TF was a supervisor who didn't deal with somebody who was bullying/stalking me. I'm working on trying to forgive him and the betrayal. I offered a hand to talk to me when he wanted to. And I encouraged him to do what he felt was right.
I've been working on myself. It's really hard. I got stalked/gossiped about/emotionally abused/gaslit and I had to quit a job that I really loved. But he didn't believe me when I told him. So it's a bigger betrayal than it seems like.
I wish I knew how to fix this. I’m so sad
So interesting. I finally moved on, hooked up w someone else. And the next time I spoke to him it was easy. I held resentment because he dated someone we worked with instead of me. Almost like I was holding tension and being spoiled about the fact that he wouldn't give in and ask me out... We work together so obviously it's not easy to date @ work. The people at work i don't really associate with. And now I've been navigating being alone more and happy in my own space. I did a meditation last night and visited the akashik records. I saw one word in the book they showed me. LOVE. It was interesting. And I do feel a lot better and like I just put a lot of presurre on myself.
Came close but he knows why !!!!!
I bet He is laughing with me right now. 😂
Lesser of two Evils if your arm is cut off? Choose one of two bad choices? No. Take care of yourself...Try to enjoy the journey? No. It sucks, every part of it. Trying to leave it.
often shocked at your timeliness and accuracy!
flipped but so interesting to hear from a cross pov the day after accepting they arent ready to lead
I getting by on my own and love it
Very accurate reading for me Jess...I had no choice but to walk away..he broke my heart I gave so much , I was so loyal and the only real true friend he ever had ...it took me ages to heal from this betrayal..I have forgiven him...but I cannot look at the 3 Rd party and this group that came between us ..I have accepted where he is at and he should have told these people to fuck off...Still have a heavy heart and the trust is gone but wow so accurate Jess ...love Wayne Dwyer ❤💯🎯🔥⚖️
If you Wronged someone, you should be Making it Right With Them. Period.
You can retrieve into your hermit mode Later with more stuff shown to you to work through.
Not Acting is what Keeps the Bleeding going!!! You don't know what's Right for them.
The Right thing to do is Taking the Risk and Letting THEM Decide for themselves! Not this Avoidant "I don't wanna tell you cuz what if you're happy" Bullshit! Cowardness is what got you into this mess in the 1st place!
Thank you so much 🫂❤️🥹
Thank you.❤
Thank you so much! ❤❤❤
The Chaos Witch. Of course😅
I literally said that to him. Help me navigate
❤ thanks Jess!!!
Truly, thank you so very much..my dm
Made that up😊
There is no wall. Be good or be good at it
This was a bit confusing as to whose perspective it is. Seems like his, but at times I wasn’t sure. X thank you 🙏
I can forgive but i WONT LET HIM BACK
Lol we are out of each other’s leagues. Aw.
Neither is my ex-best friend
Im not looking back im going forward no i wasnt selfish i never cheated
Wow craaaaazy you picked up on the cheating thing... he was abusing me verbally, emotionally and physically and he was making me feel so bad about myself i wanted to d!e.. I had to find someone who could accurately reflect my reality because I felt like i was losing my mind, im not a cheater, never cheated in any relationship prior to this because I wasnt being treated this horrendously... and he was talking to women behind my back so I felt as if it was fair because I don't do double standards, if youre gonna go behind my back, im gonna go behind yours because I value fairness and equality and I asked him to stop what he was doing for a long time and he wouldnt but he also wouldn't leave me alone when I tried to walk away... so.. what's a good person to do who is stuck in this predicament? Except for move on anyway? He put me in an impossible position. Hes the one who did the most wrong here, i wasnt selfish, i was fair to myself, there's a difference. Thanks Jess....
111 ❤
True
DM energy perhaps
What does this even mean? Sorry😮 I do not understand any of it. Teaching you self love through disharmony? Wrong. You are asking her to put him first before herself which goes against all reader's teachings. That means accepting his actions if they go against her. Not happening.
She knows the dynamics of his situation but that is not within her control.
Ive moved on from everyone from my past
No I dnt mind being rejected at all
This is reversed it’s the man who is now waking up to all the harm he caused a very long relationship we had and the betrayal he put on me for years and I let him go finally after giving him multiple chances to redeem the situation he lied about me to his controlling weirdo sister had other women and treated me horribly and to much stuff I found out I lost it finally and have told him to leave me the hell slone don’t call don’t stop by my home don’t have friends contact me unless I say ok and I say no go fix your issues ! Stop drinking stop screwing strangers stop lying . I’m healing I’m starting over I’m going to be happy !!!! Leaving the circus ! He underestimated my inner strength !!!!
This is a corrupt file. Be discerning people
What do you mean about corrupt file? Genuinely interested in learning what you know.❤❓
wow!
Why cant people just be honest? Why cant they stop having an affair and just be real? Why continue to torture the other person? That alone is evil.
Wow This is a lot of either/ or . Chaos?❤
❤❤Wayne Dyer
His wife and He have children Most important of all. Actually He may not be married anymore.
I dont care for him anymore
I know i wouldnt be excepted like before So no skin off my nose Bye
This sounds like my ex-partner not me.
This reading seams flip flop, confusing & weird… not necessarily resonating 🤔
I have 0 tolerance policy against Toxicity !!!
☹️😔😞🥺
He is not welcome
❤❤❤❤
Who , me or the other one?
Now You are talking without all the facts I think He would agree with that statement..
Dwayne Dyer
Its not true love
The home thing is about i just wanna show up at his door often but i just cant after all the disrespect and man i have had to fight that urge for soooo long😣
this is my person. yesterday i felt a shift after i prayed about the situation. 🤍
Thank you so much.♥♥♥