Where is Diana Duve? | Full Episode
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 11 พ.ค. 2023
- When a woman disappears with her boyfriend, investigators learn he was entrusted with millions at his bank job, but he also told outlandish lies about who he was. "48 Hours" contributor Michelle Miller reports. Watch more full episodes of "48 Hours" on Pluto TV.
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@@lilliatayla5507 111
Women, don’t believe men who tell you they’re wealthy!! Wealthy people NEVER TELL YOU they’re wealthy!
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When Diana's mom said, " HE LOST HIS RIGHT TO LIVE WHEN HE KILLED DIANA". She was 100% Correct.
absolutely.
To the gallows with him.
I disagree. Death and the luxury of death row would have been an easy way out.
LWP in general population is much harder punishment.
And pay less to taxpayers.
And the family doesn't have to deal with the endless appeals that reminds them about him time after time opening the wounds.
Now they can just let him rot in prison for the rest if his natural life. They don't have to hear of him ever again.
To some people, the topic of life IS actually a black and white issue. Some people view all life as precious or divine or whatever. And it's pretty understandable, imo.
God's law states of you take a life, your life is required.
WE NEED MORE POLICE LIKE HIM AND HIS TEAM!
1.) Took the mom seriously
2.) Actually did his job🎉
Remember that being a ‘police officer or detective’ is a JOB. Some people don’t get the choice to do things their superiors do not allow them to. Some people suck at their ‘job’ too. I’m sure you have had bad service somewhere. I’m tired of people painting cops as bad or good. It’s a mixed bag.
@@annc.3908 Lol u
You are so right. They really took everything seriously and cared about this poor girl and what had happened to her. Great detective work tracking him down, where he travelled, stayed, visited, bought and discovery of vehicles, taxi driver, tracking phone and speaking to everyone that knew victim and murderer. Strange how his family never came forward with any information.
@@annc.3908 I didn't say they were all good or bad, just that I wish more were like this. And if their supervisor says they shouldn't take something seriously maybe they need to get a new supervisor
@@annc.3908LE is on a different level it's not like how efficient a cashier at the store makes a difference on their life! They take a oath that they will sacrifice theirselves for a civilian I.e. these school shootings except for here in Nashville they set the standard of how it's suppose to be....anyways they chose that career path and their decisions in many cases are life and death so there is not room to half as$!
I am a mother. My child is my life, my soul, my beating heart...I don't know how these strong, admirable women survive something like this. They are truly an inspiration. RIP Diana.
The way you are describing you're child as a part of your's you seems to be such a good mom you're child must be so lucky to have you
My auntie just existed when her son was murdered, she didn’t live anymore, if that makes sense
You have no other option 😢
I couldn't agree with you more
@@nikitakumari4600your*
It's amazing how many people trust someone is a good person just because they have a degree.
I agree-that piece of paper holds too much weight for people!
@@ermo5623absolutely!
We see this a lot on these documentaries. 'Successful and a good member of the community'
It means nothing, because nobody truly knows what goes on behind closed doors.
Altemio Sanchez was a huge part of his community, yet he was R%ping and murdering women.
Women shouldn't base a man's qualities on just his job and how he behaves around other people.
Yupppppp
Obama comes to mind.
They thought he had money it's not about a degree
I appreciate the prosecutor saying she was being gaslit. He knew he was dealing with a narcissistic psychopath.
I'm so glad that they are aware of the cycle of abuse. When I was in a similar situation, and went to the police, they told me that "He probably won't carry through with his threats."
Gaslighting and Narcissistic manipulation; words that have finally been mainstreamed and defined! DV was silently ignored for too long, avoided because no one knew what to do or say. They were embarrassed, and brushed it under ground. NO MORE! Thank God, no more! 🙏💜
@zxy78267 thats outrageous - they DO eventually carry out their threats.
I hope you got away safely.
@@anonymoose116 I did, but I wasn't really safe until he moved on to another victim. She got away, too. Then he married a woman who stayed with him for seven years, but then she left him. I have no idea what he's doing now.
So many narcissistic psychopath nowadays according to the news and these segments. People need to educate themselves how to distinguish those people and stay away. Especially extrovert people who always have some fun stories to tell those are the ones usually very shady, suspicious and narcissistic psychopath.
This detective said “we got lucky” (with the fares.) No, you didn’t. You followed your instinct and it paid off. You are a great asset
And Divine Intervention as his colleague mentioned when he worked through his exhaustion for a few more minutes and discovered key phone location data.
100% agree. What a great officer.
There are a couple of different instances of him doing some high quality, dogged police work and crediting luck or God. It's his dedication and focus that got the job done.
They did a wonderful job, it's the first time I see police officers so quick to respond.....they are the best
They wouldn't of been able to prosecute or approach him without the Uber driver
I was strangled by a "nice guy". It was the 1st time he yelled, showed anger, behaved cruely or acted aggressive towards me. We had lived together over 6 months. He was gentle, kind and loved by all. I left him the next morning after the neck incident. A few years later, he married a beatiful young women and they had a daughter and a few years later he then strangled his wife to death and shot himself to death. Zero tolerance reminder to young women. It has been decades that night. I don't know how i knew to leave. Leave!
Her only child?! The height of tragedy. The restraint this woman has is nothing shortof divine.
Absolutely.It’s sickening that her beloved child fell into the hands of a monster.Unfortunately,mom will always suffer,because of it,too.
I love how deeply and completely this woman loved her daughter 💗
My Mum should take a lesson in that.
Mothers love like that, those that not, are not really mothers, are just visiting that realm.
Who cares. Of course you love something that hatched from your genitals. It's not altruism.
@@sonofagun3866 ap
The way every mother should love her daughter. I can’t breathe without my daughter
Her mother is right, always listen to your gut feelings. Prayers 🙏
Her mother was just amazing I thought.
Not one feeling comes from your intestines......Every feeling is produced in the brain.
Background check.
Don't leave anything to chance.
@Knowledge Is Contagious Pass It Around you are absolutely right. Alot of things and situations I avoided due to Gut Feelings!
My gut just says more food pls
Gaby petitos family has a clear picture of cops not identifying abuse and not knowing the law .THIS officer is a GOOD example of what we need.
Too little too late for the girl..
@@alicemaritime9138that’s exactly her point
Completely unfair comparison - you need to watch the full video showing interaction between law enforcement and Petino. They worked very hard to get her cooperation but she refused.
@@ktarv6111 the officers need to keep in mind that she was behaving like a typical abused woman,they usually refuse.They needed to notice that they didnt talk to the people who called it in to clarify what they saw,that be was the calm one,they DID act with compassion though
gaby couldn't identify abuse?
This mom demonstrates what love is, what it looks like and how it feels. My heart goes out to her and the family and to Diana’s friends. May they please accept my condolences and that her memory be a blessing.
Anybody that lies that much clearly can’t stand who he really is inside. How disgusting, nobody is entitled to anybody’s life. I hope the mother finds peace some how..
He's a George Santos type of guy.
@Knowledge Is Contagious Pass It Around True that! I think of my kids all the time as well and can't imagine being in her shoes, it actually being one of my worst fears! loosing one of my kids would just loose me! all my best to her.
Narcissist personality.......💔💔
That personality type don't look at things like we do. They feel no remorse . They feel they were justified and that it wasn't his fault ,that somehow she deserved it. He sees himself as a victim. It's mind boggling
@@DvLnDsGyZ Mixed with Trump.
One thing I learned through my work (with victims of crime) is that anyone is capable of anything.
Absolutely.
True. However, nowadays, you don't need to work with crime victims to learn this. You straight up can't trust anyone
@@lovineveryminuetofit1314 True but it's shocking how many people don't want to believe they were deceived and manipulated into trusting someone. It's sad. Cognitive dissonance I guess.
Truth.
@@lovineveryminuetofit1314 how radical, and true.
Killers not showing any remorse and blaming the victims are the ones that I hate most.
YES! And...I hated the lie about his "brain injury."
mom: "I wanted the death penalty, absolutely." me: I dig this lady
I want to acknowledge the neighbor who made the 111 call about their first argument that sounds really bad. It's good that someone or a stranger was initially concerned about her safety, but sadly, the devil still took her away later on 😢
It so often happens that people hear something going on and just "want to stay out of it." I'm so glad they called, too. It's too bad that in the end, he manipulated her and then took her life. I'm so glad he won't ever have the chance to harm another woman. My heart breaks for Diana's mother.
Our upstairs neighbor got evicted after a DV dispute, we had called the police multiple times in the months prior. We didn’t want trouble it was very much like this where it sounded awful and we were concerned, we didn’t know the cops told her who called until she moved out. She knocked on our door and thanked us. She was grateful that someone didn’t mind their business and tried to help. It’s a fine line between being “nosey” and being aware I guess
@@tww_occultyou’re such a good person for calling. I’d rather call and it be nothing, than not calling and someone ends up dead.
The way his male colleagues described him vs his female partners-guys just because a man is your friend, doesn’t mean he isn’t a completely different person around women/in relationships
Such a true comment! Men and women act differently in the presence of the opposite sex. Only the women can attest to his true personality.
Amen
These guys know. I just think it's guy code. Never tell on another guy.
How would they have known? They didn't.
@Jim Werther We don't know that they didn't. It's not like it's uncommon for friends to cover for their friend's bad behavior. Somehow this man's neighbors knew he was abusive but not his friends lol
It's always heartbreaking to hear about a young life taken away senselessly , and a nurse caring for cancer patients as well. I'm so very sorry to the family losing such a bright star. May this sick man stay behind bars for the rest of his life !!!
Evil. Not sick.
He was sick and evil...BOTH.@@hillarybillary21
Loved these 2 detectives. They were determined. Great prosecutors.
Those police are two in a million. Most would just tell the parents their daughter ran away. They call it "luck", but it's really about hard work and caring about the parents and their daughter.
Those cops are very good at what they do. ❤ Bless them
In her case at 26 other PD wouldn't even look into it Vero Beach is low crime the detectives had time on their hands
You can't tell a narcissist you are leaving them. You have to just ghost them. Just disappear with no explanation or trail. Otherwise this is what happens.
Most dangerous time for a woman. When you want out and leaving.....💔💔💔
It doesn't always work out that easy. If you've never known someone in this situation or have experience yourself, statements like these just add to the abuse making the victims responsible.
@@trinleywangmo My statement isn’t meant to cast blame but to make people aware of the only way out. I know this not from a romantic relationship but a work relationship. And yes I realize there is a difference. I’m trying to help. I’m not pointing fingers.
William Earnhardt - It sounds as if you are perhaps speaking from experience. If you are it certainly would would of prompted me to take heed and and initiate evasive measures so as to avoid risk as much as possible.
Agree 100%. It's true also if you are a man and u leave a narcissist woman.
He was a compulsive liar and a psychopath, my heart dropped when her mom described the moment they told her they found her💔💔
These officers are the best. Great work.
why
It is so scary that these monsters are out there walking around w/easy access to an unlimited number of potential victims.
Background check.
Don't leave anything to chance.
That is why the prey has to wisen up!
@@jamesb.hallmd9899 stop victim blaming these ppl will attack even ppl with special needs that probably cant read the situation why does the victim has to be a genius to prevent being k like wth
@fulla fulla I will never blame the victim, but I hunt a lot and the fastest, wisest deer seems to never get shot. It IS the perpetrator's fault 100%, but even God gives us gut feelings designed to keep us OUT of danger. Be humble as a dove but wise as a serpent, says the Bible. Hope I clarified my remarks from earlier.
@@jamesb.hallmd9899 Luck Favors the Prepared!
This case is so sad. Diana deserved so much better. My heart goes out to her family. ❤
You don't need your heart to pump oxygenated blood throughout your body???
@@thomasjensen6243 there’s always someone in the comments trying to be funny.
@@ksharpe8137 what's funny is saying you're giving your heart to another person....that is impossible without sudden death.
@@thomasjensen6243 I didn’t find it funny. It just tells me that she is hurting for that family.
@@thomasjensen6243
*Figure of speech*
Definition: a word or phrase used in a non-literal sense for rhetorical or vivid effect
Sometimes you have no idea just how diabolical and evil someone is or can be! Can’t judge a book by the cover! Once you have a bad interaction with someone, don’t look back!
Beware of narcissists. Thats the main lesson here.
My heart goes out to Diana’s mother, family, and loved ones. Rest in peace Diana. 💗
This is heartbreaking. We can feel that mother’s pain in our heart. 😔❤
Maybe you... but not everyone!
@@mikeypiros6647 what a strange thing to say maybe a sociopath wouldn’t ?
The most dangerous time for a victim of domestic violence is when she makes the final move to leave. I'm sorry it all went so wrong for her.
That is why it is critical to press charges, leave the relationship, go no contact, get a restraining order, and don't go back.
@@karimanning9232 Absolutely!!!
I agree with Diana's mom; if you see any indicators of domestic violence, please, please get out! There are so many websites, local places, and hotline numbers to call. That other person is not worth risking your life for. ❤
more importantly indicators of a narcissist.
Don't tell somebody you are leaving...JUST GET OUT OF THERE.
@@ValerieGriner move in the shadows and then go no contact
My heart breaks for her mother!
When people will realise that cause they dress smart nice and speak eloquently IT DOES NOT MEAN they are a good person! Most thieves wear SUITS !
Exactly..and u never know a person just who they present to u!
Exactly! and a cheap toupee! Lol
Exactly! And wealthy people do not tell people they are wealthy if they are smart!!
泥棒のくせに、スーツなんて着ていて腹立たしいですよね…😡💢
Amen. The man who kidnapped me and held me at gunpoint was wearing a three piece suit the night it happened.
The prosecutor didn’t not hold back when describing Jones and I love it. Huge thanks to the cops who started working on this case right away. Jone’s defence claims he has issues with his brain due to an accident but somehow he was able to balance account working with wealth management company? BS. He deserves DP in my opinion.
Way to basically reiterate exactly what the show stated! Great job! 🤦🏿🤦🏿♀️
@Knowledge Is Contagious Pass It Around No it doesn't mean that
Wr saw that
Jones's* defence
@@stfuplsok *Jones’s defense
Only a six month relationship? Oh man, that’s sad.
Sometimes those go-getters are the scary ones. They don’t like losing or looking bad.
May he drops many soaps 🙏
R.I.P Diana ❤
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huh lol
Diana’s mother is a really strong woman! May God bless her soul 🙏🏽
Do not send your children out into this open air asylum without educating them on psychopaths and sociopaths. Knowledge is survival!
Even with knowledge it's so hard to see the unexpected...💕
Not so easy…they use to show a totally different behavior before you find out the truth
The best prevention: a solid self-esteem and awareness of psychopathy/ personality disorders.
Potential partners can be secretly checked for any past behavior or arrests.
@@kosmosbjm Practice makes perfect. Hanging on for the ride is everyone’s best interest.
This case resonated with me hard. My abuser got arrested twice for choking me and assaulting me and all the Connecticut justice system did was give him a slap on the wrist of 1 year probation, restraining order that they refused to renew, and 1 year of anger management classes. Despite the fact that he fully confessed to abusing other women since he was 17 and also straight up lied in court about his behavior at the workplace, he paid bail twice and the justice system didn't do ANYTHING else to stop him from harassing me at the workplace and the workplace of course favored him and didn't do anything to stop the harassment at work, even though it was all on their cameras. I hate that abusers get treated like THEY are the victims and the victims get treated like they are the criminal 😡😡
Over 3 years later today, I have been married to the most gentle, patient, loving, supportive, kind hearted, loyal husband I could ever ask for and does everything in his power to make sure I am safe for the last 3 years. Life had blessed me with my husband 🙏🏼💜
I'm so sorry you went through that. I am so glad that you are living your happily ever after.
I live a couple cities away from where this happened and it was a really disturbing case to hear about. Luckily the police were GREAT in this case. Diana deserved so much better...
Just another tragedy that goes to show that no matter how well put together a person and their life can appear, you just NEVER know what goes on behind closes doors 😮
There are almost signs in some form or another. The trouble is being informed enough to know what they are, and trusting yourself enough to see past the bs.
How was he put together? His parents can't be any better than he is. He learned or inherited this behavior from one parent or both.
I'm sorry to Ms. Lena and her husband on the great loss of their daughter Diana. The world has lost a good person, a daughter, a friend and probably an awesome nurse. michael is a cold blooded killer and I'm glad that madness of him having a cognitive deficit didn't stick because I'd be livid. Kudos to Diana's team! 🕊
I guess you didn’t understand the video… It did stick because he didn’t get the death penalty.
@@anti-ethniccleansing465 why
@@dianaveronicakambanis9690
Why _WHAT?!_ I merely reported the facts.
Бедная мамочка, жить теперь всегда с такой болью... Очень сочувствую. Девочка по незнанию, по неопытности попала в руки перверзного психопата / социопата, очень жаль что нас еще со школьных скамеек нигде не учат тому, что из себя представляют эти бракованные мозгом люди и как их распознавать, они действительно не чувствуют ни эмпатии ни совести ни раскаяния, опасные и манипулятивные, и поймут это только те, кто имел несчастье сталкиваться с такими в жизни. Девочка такая симпатичная была, с хорошей профессией, очень жаль ее.
45 minutes to reach a guilty verdict.
Great fkin job from the cops and the DA's. They absolutely crushed that case.
Slowly becoming addicted to this channel 👽
Me too.
Commercial free on paramount
Me too @ Quinton...Tokia CT
The algorithm brought me here now i can't stop
Me too
This poor mother. What a deep love. Prayers for her for the rest of her life
Prayers LMAO 😅.
Sending my love to Ms. Lena. It’s a good lesson, someone who is dressed well with “stories” and who is charming doesn’t mean they are a good person. The person who kidnapped me at gunpoint was wearing a beautiful suit and was very charming. It can be anyone anywhere at anytime. And if I didn’t escape that situation my poor dad would be just like Ms Lena. The Latvian version.
So sorry that happened to you. I thank God you survived! Unfortunately there are so many crazy people in this world.
Yes, never trust anyone who ticks all the traditional boxes. Nice clothes, possessions, and polite manners don't mean a thing.
@@TheNinnyfee I agree. We are humans and everyone has flaws...
@@TheNinnyfee true!!
Hearing how he was isolating her and doing all these things is so sad. I truly wish she had got to live. Just devastating. My condolences to her parents.
Note to self, never trust a man who says he was adopted by Ronald Reagan's son😂
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I’m sure his story to Diana was something else. It seems he had a different tale for each person he met.
That indeed was a bizarre claim 😅
😂
Sounds like she told him she was breaking up with him one last time, so he killed her.
That's the most dangerous time for domestic violence victims. That's why getting a safety plan in place with an organization that works with victims is so important. I'm sure she never thought he'd actually go this far.
@@McPierogiPazza I was going to make the same comment!
Why she didn't leave earlier is a mystery to me... Probably because she was relying on him for financial support
@@jmtolerico That quickly? 🤔after just a few months? 💰💸
What I find puzzling (although probably _no one else_ here in the comments will) is why her father was apparently okay with them shacking up. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ He thought Diana was "happy".
If you read the frame of the police report (and not just the narrative), it states that Diana gave the same explanation ("rough sex") to the police as the reason for the disturbance to the neighbor(s).... Was it the truth, or not? Or if it wasn't, maybe it still played a role in the past; therefore seemed feasible enough at the time.
Anyone can rationalize, "well, she was a 26 year-old adult and can make her own decisions," blah-blah... But they'd be correct, from a _legal_ standpoint only--not a relational one. But a father who is tuned in to his children and paying attention to what is going on, they're going to have a 'check' in their spirit about all that. Even if they're being hypocritical about it... I guess society's conscience has just gone dead. 😞
To the mother... I am so sorry. Thank you for sharing this. It took courage! And strength!
I used to work with this guy in Atlanta. We became good “friends” and I attended his wedding and thought he was a stand up guy. When he moved to Florida, he called me one day and told me he had terminal cancer. I was so upset that my wife and I flew down to Miami to see him and pray for him. We kept in some contact between 2011-2014 but after he didn’t return my emails, I finally googled his name in 2016 and my jaw dropped. I assumed he was guarded with personal info given his traumatic past he told me about but looking back now, that should’ve been a major red flag…
There’s SO much more the episode could’ve covered. The web of lies and manipulation is nuts
Wow you used to work with this same guy from the video?! 😮
@@Chewedgum108 Sadly, yes. He married in 2007 and lived in Missouri and I visited him there before he moved to Florida. He told me his wife cheated on him and that’s why they divorced. I’m sure she’s thankful to have her life. This dude had such a web. He was such a manipulator but very good - fun, funny, seemingly caring, etc. Still hard for me to believe
It's too bad that we live in a society where these violent offenders can't be branded (like with an O on the forehead for Offender) so that everyone around them can be warned. What a monster! How tragic for Diana and how heartbreaking for her family and friends.
I can see why eastern countries are strict with women dating. Men need to step in and really get on top of who their daughters are dating. No way she should have gotten close to that man.
@@theempireofjudah9315 Or maybe men should teach their sons to respect women and not abuse them. Sure, women should be careful who they choose to date but men have no business controlling who their adult female relatives are dating.
Or maybe we need to remember that with freedom comes responsibilities. I don't mean this specific case, which is tragic beyond belief, but in America we don't presume to govern people's private lives.
@@theempireofjudah9315 Yes I agree . There will always be evil lurking . It is the responsibility of men to protect women to the best of their ability and for women to not give themselves away to anyone especially abusive men . If there was someone to investigate this psychopath before she was murdered perhaps Diana would still be alive.
@@oldcremona thank you.
And if a man makes a mistake when he is young and dumb should it follow them around for the rest of their lives? Or when they are falsely accused? You can’t in anyway predict who will end up a psycho. Some of these things happen with time when the narcissist keeps failing. Most people learn from their experiences and grow. You’re not god. Branding a person with an o? Really?
He's a monster! God forbid if he will be released from prison. Diana, may you rest in peace. Lena, you made your daughter proud. The way you fought for her showed how much you loved her and you are a very good mother.
Unfortunately life sentences doesn't mean for the whole life
Did they find her?
刑務所の中で、被害者が受けた恐怖や痛みの何倍も苦しんでいると良いです…🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
@@carolv8450didn’t you watch this video? Yes, they found her. He murdered her.
@@maanmohammad8459 in America it does.
I wish we'd stop believing people like Jones from being able to use childhood trauma for his adult actions. He knew what he was doing.
Never go back to your abuser to quote on quote “break it off” 🤦🏽♀️
these episodes are always very well made and so clean/detailed. well put together. another sad story of a young woman losing her life. most of these cases are done by men ,to a women, its sad how women are still treated in this sociaty.
若い女性の事件は、わざわざレイプまでされていたりしてとても可哀想ですよね…💧涙
社会で暖かく守ってくれる社会だと嬉しいです…🌹🌹🌹
被害者の方のご冥福とご家族の方々のケアがしっかりされ、笑顔が戻られる事を願っております…🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
@@user-uq3qv7pi8t Sweet comment. 🕊
I feel so awful for her parents. Her mother’s grief breaks my heart. Diana is so adorable. Such a tragedy. RIP sweet girl.
His behaviour was an example of narcissistic personality disorder, disturbed psyche, two personalities: public (eloquent, friendly, well-mannered, him posing as a communal narcissist) and private (hidden, shameful, doing in secret what he was combating in public), stalking, misogyny (each narcissistic is a misogynist), narcissistic rage, manipulation, machiavellianism, need to control, lack of remorse, no empathy, lovebombing and then abuse.
He is a bad object in his mind and he needs to project that burden onto someone else. Narcissist has a shameful core.
Poor beautiful young woman 😢 I'm sorry for her mom 🌹
I hope the juror that allowed him to live never knows a moment of peace in their life for as long as they live. I hope they lose someone they love to a monster like this man and I hope that their jury does to them what they have done to Diana's sweet mother. I hope their choice torments them forever.
Losing someone they love won't register in his mind/heart as it would a "normal" person and would be another life lost. Let him rot.
That's a very hateful comment. Maybe they weren't cutting him a break, but actually thought a psychopath like him would be tortured by a life sentence. Wishing harm on someone's family members for a decision they made as a Juror is actually pretty sick !!
This happened about 25 minutes from me, but I had never heard about it. Such a sad story. What great police work.
Same I’ve noticed a lot of cases in Florida especially east cost don’t get much news coverage in detail which is sad because these are the story’s that people need to hear. Rip to Diana what a pos of a husband.
@@jordangamble3515thankfully he wasn't her husband
He took a beautiful young lady away from this world. My deepest condolences 🙏 to her family her mother Lina
My heart breaks for this mother, I lost my sister violently to domestic violence
I worked at PNC, and I am seriously surprised he was given that position. You have to pass an extensive background check, and fingerprinted.
It's called white privilege..that's why. Surprised that he didn't get away with it...ugly reality...
Someone there must have known,and let him in.
That’s why they refused to give a statement. They know they messed up.
I know. Somebody dropped the ball on his felony charge.
I've been a widow for 3,5 years and not ready to date, but if I were, I'd do a background check.. I've seen enough of these and I'm a nervous and sceptical person as is.. RIP Diana ❤️
Sorry for your loss! 💔
@@NilyakEtap Thank You ♥️
It's so freakin scary
If you can't judge a person by yourself , nobody can help you
Years ago. Prior to internet frenzy. Men were victimizing women by dating them then stealing all their money. It then was recommended for women, even men. To do background checks on anyone one wanted to bring into their lives. Now with the ease of the internet. This can be achieved sitting at home. YET! No one utilizes this feature to protect themselves and their familes.... 🤷
Good thinking.... Please do. Always stay safe and diligent...
My sincere condolences.
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He sounds like a sociopath. They're usually smart and likeable in the community. They're habitual liars, use gaslighting often, and abuse for control. I survived someone like this man. Like her, I was only with him 6 months. I had to fight to survive. It is not easy to break free from someone like this. I am lucky I didn't get taken out then. I could of been this young woman so it just hits so close to home. I only wish when she broke free that one night that she never looked back.
Poor Diana…NEVER give abusers any leeway, ALWAYS press charges, ALWAYS get that restraining order and enforce it, DO NOT make excuses for the abuser! Not victim blaming because she did make an effort to get away from him, but I just want other people to know that these disgusting people will never back down
what a beautiful young woman. my heart BREAKS for her parents. her mother is incredibly strong 😢❤
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This episode hit me hard. I dated a narcissist and I believe I was able to escape his grips by having my family. He was the same type of Liar as this guy and Gaslighting me all the time, he would say and do the most horrible things and he broke me down so bad that I reacted by hitting him one day while he recorded me and later posted online to call me crazy (reactive abuse) .. but People around me saw the REAL story and knew better... I believe he would have done this to me eventually. .. A mothers love is a Mothers love.... So sorry for your loss 😞 🙏🏽
I'm so sorry, that's horrible. The whole recording thing is so evil 😢 I'm glad you had your family there for you
@@Mataylor17 I agree, once you learn what type of people Narcissists portray themselves to be, it's easily identifiable.. but it took me being very naive to find out. I'm glad I know now...🤍
# me too won't save u forever
I did also. Found out I was pregnant right after I left him.
I didn't have family, but I had grit. I have 4 more years until he's out of our lives for good.
@MrsMayhem17 yes, they do.
Unfortunately for my ex, my major was forensic psych 😂
All his games got turned against him over the years (I left him before I found out inwas pregnant). He's 36, still lives with his mom, no education, no career, still single. Karma is the real justice. He has no life, and I'm happy. He was never able to turn my son against me like he hoped.
Thankyou to the neighbour ❤ That call was needed and no one gets involved anymore its not nosey its morals and humane ❤
💯% I would rather call and it ends up being nothing, instead of not calling and someone ends up dead or permanently disabled
This mother’s love is so incredibly deep, she touched my heart. I have a daughter that is about to be 29 and Omgosh 😢I just couldn’t imagine life without her. Your an absolutely amazing woman, Diana is proud!!!🥹
My heart literally hurts for her parents. 💔
It’s always sad when an innocent person loses their life. But when the person is compassionate and has so much love to give, it’s just heartbreaking.
So VERY sorry for the mom and dad and the suffering this has caused them.
Diana was such a wonderful person, caring for the sickest of patients. Her family shows the most unwavering love too. I’m so so very sorry for the loss of your all’s beautiful daughter.
The detectives and prosecutors on this case were absolutely outstanding.
I can’t imagine how this mother felt. I have a married daughter who is 35 and we communicate every single day too. This is a very sad story. What is with these insecure guys who just can’t deal with a breakup? How are these mama’s (and daddy’s) raising these guys?
I agree with you. I’m a widowed mom with two boys and I am trying to teach them if a girl or woman tells them no, you respect it and move on. I mean the word no goes for everyone but you know what I’m saying..
@@lindsaynash3653,you need to teach them also of the abusive relationship that women do to men as well.. Bless.🙏🏾💞
Why are there so many of them?? Following true crime, it seems there are so many women being killed by their boyfriends, partners, or husbands.
Blame mothers why don't you. Doesn't it take two parents? Girls need the love of a father to recognise coercive control.
@@ivydickson7596 I’m widowed so personally, I would be blamed because I am solely in charge of raising my boys. I know you didn’t specifically call me out but I’m just clarifying..
I don’t see how everyone is surprised he looks terrifying
Narcissists can be very charming and deceive people all the time. They are masters of manipulation. I don't see what she saw in him from a physical point of view, though. He's not attractive at all.
@@zxy78267 What you see as beautiful, others can see as normal or ugly. Beauty is relative
A life for a life!
Amazing she was even there at HIS place to breakup with him. She should have just broken up with him through a phone call. There's nothing wrong with a phone call/text breakup if you know someone is not right in the head and/or is abusive. THE ONLY PEOPLE THAT DESERVE AN 'IN-PERSON' BREAKUP IS A PERSON THAT YOU 'KNOW' IS SANE, STABLE AND WILL LIKELY BE A 'FRIEND' THAT YOU ACTUALLY 'WANT' TO REMAIN FRIENDS WITH. If she intended to end it in person at HIS place....then her fatal mistake was giving someone underserved respect and good faith.
Wish my mother loved me the way Diana's mother loves her. ❤️
Me too
NEVER EVER EVER move in with someone after 2months. It takes 18months to learn the basics and a lifetime to really get to know someone. Teach your kids how to date.
Sounds like Jeff Dahmer
Teach your kids to work hard gets As in school go to college get a career and don’t get involved! 😅
10:18 That neighbor was very intuitive and insightful. It's too bad Diana did not cooperate with the police that night.
A father's pain. You can hear it in his voice. 😢 may God send him strength. 🙏🏽
You mean the mother?
Mike lived in a superb alternate reality in his imagination where he's so great so that he could cope with his reality of nothingness 😭.
"reality of nothingness"...WOW...I love it!!! Do you mind if I borrow that??? There are quite a few people I know who took up residency there 😂😂😂
Malignant narcissist often do. It seems as though Mike has NPD. Clearly a sociopath.
R.I.P. Diana 🌹⚘💐
@@nisie112 suree HWHAAHAH (I've been there,, had to cope, and in order to live well, i had to pretend i was doing. "well" I'm getting better and im surrounded with loving people now!!) ♡
People who have NPD often live in a seemingly alternate delusional reality of themselves, where they have such an inherent low self-esteem that the only way for them to feel good about themself is to control, manipulate, demean, and verbally and physically attack someone else who is weaker and less likely to put up a fight. Often, other people associated with the narcissist are afraid to speak up or hold the narcissist accountable for his actions. Two prime examples of narcissist are Donald Trump and George Santos.
In Donald Trump's case, he is the personification and epitome of a sociopath with nearly every category of narcissism; malignant, grandiose, and vulnerable, etc.
In George Santo's case, he is also a sociopath and narcissist, yet we don't see the extremes quite like we do with Trump.
Neither individual takes responsibility or blame for anything, yet they are often quick to take credit for anything. This is a classic display of narcissism.
This crazy man reminds of my ex. We never know who we end up with! God Bless!
This kind of person doesn't show you who they are right away (unless you are very aware of the red flags and listen to your gut instincts).
They are charming at first. And they often do a thing called "lovebombing" early on, where they try to overwhelm you with positive and romantic attention.
The emotional abuse often comes only slowly and later, over the course of weeks or months. It's so important to know the red flags of an abusive person.
Usually, it is control and emotionally abusive behavior that comes first, well before threats or physical abuse.
If someone reading this sees their own situation in this, get help right away.
Call a hotline like RAINN.
Leave as soon as you safely can,
And whether you leave or can't leave right away, or just feel confused about whether this is abuse,
seek out a Therapist who focuses on abuse, and DO NOT tell your abusive partner or anyone who might remotely tell him or someone who could tell him.
@@melissasaint3283
That's why I can't stand charmers. Im grown, I don't need excessive compliments. It makes me feel uneasy.
Yeah well maybe that's on you
Reminds me of my ex too
@@jmtolericoshut up
My heart weeps for Diana's Mom, Lena 😢💙 And of course her precious, beautiful daughter. So tragic 😥. Bravo to the hard working, persistent, and caring law enforcement investigators. These men are what we all hope for when law enforcement is needed. 👏 🌟
I can only imagine how horrible it is.
I personally think life without parole is worse. Let him suffer his entire life than an "easy" exit. Let the inmates make his life miserable for the rest of his life.
No as it's surprising what a person can get used to especially people with certain types of personality disorders,as there like chameleons PERIOD 😔 so sad R.I.P beautiful Diana 🙏☮️❤️🖤💙💜🤎💛🧡💚🤍⭐
They usually wait years for the day they gonna die when they're convicted to DP. So it is much more stressful than just live.
I agree,let him be miserable in prison.
My heart goes out to her parents.
The ripple effect from 1 person's death goes far greater than what people may think..
Every life should be respected, period.
It is not just the victim -- but their family & friends & anyone within their community.
Then there are family & friends of the perp... Especially if they're innocent in these tragedies/zero knowledge or involvement.
There will always be choices in life (whether you like it or not)...
The consequences of taking someone's life will always be greater than ANYTHING else in life. 💯
My deepest condolences..... 😔
If she was not smitten at first but she came around to it ( him ) that sounds like he wore her down so much that she agreed to be with him. That's terrible, my ex-husband would do that with something he wanted. He would keep bugging me so much that I finally gave in but sometimes he would just buy whatever he wanted without saying anything to me probably because he was the only one working so it was his money but I guess he forgot that he didn't want me to work. It took some very long years to finally leave. I am so broke ALL of the time but I am happy all of the time. He did give me something that made me so very happy!!! Her name is Samantha.💖💘💝
I'm proud that you got away..and you have Samantha..😁
I'm so glad you got out of the relationship. I needed help from my dad to escape.
@@zxy78267 I am glad you got out and you are alright.
@@Eric-qu3qi me too
Love the mom! Praying for her. 😢
It's nice to see a case where the officers actually take it seriously from the jump and have empathy for the victim
I know this is a serious matter but when they said “Mike Jones,” I yelled who?! #IYKYK
If you meet someone and right away they have these grandiose stories, walk away. Ronald Reagan's son? Yeah ok 👌
Yep my ex was like this but not while we were dating but he would tell little lies like he graduated college when he never finished high school. Very controlling & jealous. I think he was a narcissist. But I never heard the term before. I was young in my early 20s, but I did a lot of research about it & read a book called The Sociopath next door. If anyone has a daughter tell them to read that book.
Oh he became abusive at the end, of course I tried hitting back, but I let it happened maybe 3 times & had to leave because I didn't have respect for him, hated him, & couldn't have sex with him. My body would literally tense up. After we broke up, he would tell those bug lies that he was a music producer & knew fanous people. 🤣🤣🤣
Thank you for all the full episodes lately!!
Diana's mother is awesome! Her advice about listening to your gut is spot on.
Love this mother’s love for her daughter ❤️ love from romania
Crazy how PNC let a felon like this work for them because of his “look”. We know other groups with criminal histories wouldnt be able to even get an interview
💯 No background check? Strange.
I am puzzled how he passed THEIR background check. I am sure banks run them on all employees.
Making an assumption.
Stalking charges and probation. However he got charges probably didn't end up as a felony. Some misdemeanor.
And I don't think it was his "look" i believe it was probably his credentials and education that they liked.
But the bank didn't do anything wrong..
He did.
Facts 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯