As someone on the Autism Spectrum, I am appalled at what those parents did. It seems like they just needed an excuse to spoil him since he was their new favorite. If they gave him support, that's one thing since people on the spectrum have a harder time learning social skills, dealing with emotions, or becoming independent . But, if you spoil them, they will become entitled and not understand right from wrong.
hey,can i ask you something? what's having autism like? i suspect i may have _something_ similar but i don't wanna take a test with my mom knowing (because she'd use it as a weapon,i know it so certainly because she already does and neither _she_ knows if i have anything and she still talks about a "pathology")
@@rocketcoke2000 yeah,but what tells you you're autistic? (aside from your doctor,of course) i mean what do _you_ have that Non-Autistic Person "X" does not?
@@ferbiously oh no they did say it was the same kid. Op stated it if you heard him right. Just seems ridiculous how much bs happens. There was a point where few months back we had multi-part updates and countinuation of peoples crudy parenting, etc.
@@ferbiously I think it was the same kid where his parents grounded the OP on his bday, and the spoiled kid threw a cake on someone's bday because he can't blew the candles on some other kids bday.
Feel like the first story already told in a video a while back. I remember hearing about the brother who took off on the brothers bike and basically ruined it.
bro for the last story you just gotta cut out toxic people like that. she gonna harm herself or even commit unalive? that's on her for putting herself in that situation. as a wise man once said play dumb games win dumb prizes
This poor guy should just break off ALL communication from his family. Seriously. For good. Why are these parents asking their son to parent their other son? They can fix their own kid's stupid bike? Jerks.
Story 4: So OP gets with the girl despite her not having a finalized divorce and then is upset when things such as what is described occurs. Come on…you cannot be that blind. If she is willing to effectively cheated *with* you then she *will* cheat on you. The reality is, OP is being a blind simp. He needs to snap out of it, realize he done goofed getting close to this mess of a woman, and move on. She has no interest in a serious public relationship because if she did she would not do these escapades and avoid the talk that OP clearly is saying he needs. Edit: The edit is for additional content. So I admittedly did not take into consideration the abuse. This does justify her not wanting to be with her husband. I do still think it is a major red flag that she kept OP as a hidden BF before starting/finalizing any sort of divorce. As a result, I do not have a changed opinion regarding the story. However, I feel it is disingenuous to not mention this point.
Did you not hear the abuse part, the cheating part is not okay but just because she is separated but still married to an abusive partner does not mean she is cheating.
@@kanowest4834 I will submit to the fact that I did not take the abuse part into consideration. I zero'd in on the cheating. I do think it is still sort of telling she did not wait to finalize a divorce or separation but instead kept OP as a hidden BF. However, that is not the point of this message. The point is I did not take it into full account
Take any claim of "abuse" with a grain of salt from women. False accusations are becoming increasingly common. They have a constantly changing definition of it. Ever notice how EVERY ex of a woman is "abusive" or "toxic" but are always VERY vague when you ask for specifics? That's because they know if they were specific, they'd be backed into a corner and called out. He could have told her "no" to an overly expensive purse or pair of shoes she really didn't need or talked to her in a raised voice about something she did wrong.
Coming from a former college football player here. You pulled a stunt like that in football, that’s when you end up getting an “accidental injury” the next time you face that team. That’s a cardinal sin in football and it’s especially one that no defensive player will forget. Expect a lot of roughing the passer and illegal tackles the next time those two teams face each other.
I’m autistic and I don’t like the entitlement here, because my mom never spoiled me and treated me just like my siblings. I have a job and I know the value of hard work.
@@nc4254 I don't think he's doing a good job of protecting his anonymity, since I'm sure this is only a few years ago and he keeps piling stories leaving more of a fingerprint of who he is.
Genie from Aladdin punching through walls, fighting random NPCs and arm wrestling the Kyle looking dudes at the end makes the stories all the more entertaining.
The last story - stupid for thinking about ending it? No. Stupid for getting into the situation to begin with? YES. Been there done that. It never goes the way you want, she will always go with someone else. You think you love eachother but its only you that loves her. She likes the love and affection because she wasn't getting it from who she's with and eventually says something to the effect of "this is getting too serious we should slow down a bit" because she doesn't know how to handle being treated properly. And then when/if she eventually frees herself from that person she tells you she doesn't want to jump back into anything. And then a little time passes and she goes for someone who's not you anyway. Sometimes you have to go through it to really LEARN the lesson.
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Back when I was in school we played handball in a municipal tournament and we weren't that good, not awful, but we didn't get to practice much as we were from several different grades. We were doing okay in the competition, but we eventually faced a team that did practice and were good, they were the favourites, they destroyed us and we were out. A couple days later we heard that their headmistress had pulled their team out of the competition as a punishment for being rowdy and were making fun of us when they got back to their school. We were so happy afterwards. They didn't get to play anymore and we got put back in the competition, beat the next team and placed 3rd.
The second story is literally when the whole team spams gg ez in a game, and then pretend to be nice by saying gg well played when they won. Like hell no, I wouldn't shake their hands.
I’m the op from the second story but I wanted to reply to this.. I don’t think the refs could’ve physically removed her because the game was over when she came running to the field
@@hugefootballfan2914 that team was completely out of line. Hell I do BM(Bad manner which is what happened) when I play online games(Mainly Clash Royale and Pokémon Showdown) but only if the opposing player was BMing me and I completely stomp afterwards as it is 100% justified in that case.-Cyanide YT
Story 3: typically when cops answer a call, (at least in the US) they check the IDs of all parties involved so I understand OPs nervousness about the situation.
If someone had set up a stunt like this in my country Norway, they would have received a hefty fine from the association. This is not fair play and would never have been accepted in my country. The only thing that needs to be done is to refuse the players to play more matches until they come up with an apology
If that was me Parents: We can't get him one, he's not ready for one Me: Oh but you had no problem with him stealing mine and you thought he was ready then. Simple Holden after all the shit you've had to endure with your parents and brother, go NC with them, refuse to ever deal with them again, no matter how hard they pout, for you to fix his bmx or other tasks just ignore them.
Every time I hear another story from the same OP about his spoiled autistic brother, I am more disgusted at the parents. I too am on the Autism Spectrum AND in the High Functioning category as well. High Functioning Autism means you, in a sense, are as close to “normal people” as you can get while still being autistic. There are some things that we struggle with but we can also do things others that are “more obvious” on the spectrum could never do, like learn to drive. One of these days the spoiled brother is gonna do something that’ll either REALLY bite his parents in butt or something that the parents will have absolutely no way of bailing him out of if they don’t put a stop to this behavior NOW. And when that day comes I would not be surprised to hear that it got REALLY REALLY ugly!
I was a high school football official for 14 years. I started doing playoffs the 2nd year, which is unheard of. I knew the rules as well as any official in the state, and when I retired was begged to come back for over 3 years. My body had given out and I couldn't do it. I've now had 26 surgeries, most of which are from the times I overdid activities. Not to the sportsmanship shown by the winning team. They are out of line, and the national rules prohibit that kind of behavior. I blame the officiating crew for not stopping it during the game because I've never had an occasion where one team beat another team, then put it in their face after the game, where it hadn't started during the game. I had to eject players in a game to get their attention. There was no boasting arrogance after that game. Yes, they were angry with me, but I'd rather have them angry with me than get in the losing team's faces. No, they shouldn't have shaken hands. That's my feeling, but, yes, they should have, then filed a complaint to the league offices. In one game I did, I had a coach lie to me. I filed a complaint with the state association, and then later found out that I was the first of many. At the end of that season, the coaching staff were all fired. A school can't take the chance they will be banned from playing. Football is the single most profitable sport in the U.S.A. A good football program can bring in enough money to finance every other sport.
On the sports one I don’t think is that deep I had similar experiences as what they had but instead of being mad at the other team our coach was mad at us for not using the fact we were mad as fuel to win ever since that Day I always think of different ways bad situations can motivate me
that first story would've been avoided easily if the op had gotten a tire clamp for his mini bike, so that his bother won't even get 5 feet of distance when driving it.
I have never played American Football, yeah if I was on that team which I really wouldn’t, I would’ve lined up and gone towards the Cowboys, but instead of giving them a handshake I would slap them.
Bro for the first story when your brother took your mini bike just take his bmw and go for a joy ride till it runs out of gas and do nothing about it lol
When I heard the title of the second story I thought first. Probably yes, shakehand after a match belong to sport like tires to a car. But this action of the cowboys is just below anything. I completely side with the OP. I play floorball in a amateur league in Switzerland, and some games get really intense. Especially against direct neighbouring villages. But no matter how many „shout your f*** mouth“ get thrown in during the game, the shakehands end all hostility and the shakehands come before celebrating the victory with the fans (mostly familliy of players). If there is some kind of feastivity in the Area I live in, all the surroundig villages come, and it is no rare occasion to be drinking beer together in the evening with guys you did some namecalling DURING the match in the afternoon. But dare someone to drop more insults after the matchclock run out. Saw this happen once, that guy got imediatly put in his place by his own team, but he didn‘t stop, so they threw him out of the team right on spot
As someone with a mild case of autism, grew up spoiled and coddled, it took me until 23 to finally decide to move out and get a job to do shit myself and then the first story gets slapped in my face and I've never been pissed
Man, first story, I know all the updates to it and, yeah, it all comes crashing down hard, to the point the mom hurts herself and ends up in isolation, she also hit the brother and the dad yelled. OP apparently looked after him while the dad and mom were gone and it basically gave the kid a reality check.
Oh hell naw the second story with the football game are you kidding? I play water polo I have had plenty of games like that but no one on the opposing team said or did anything disrespectful to us where we could see or hear if they did it in private that’s their choice but that is so unsportsmanlike and completely disrespectful
If I play against an asshole, I'm more likely to flip them off than shake hands with them. A handshake is a sign of friendly respect, and if they don't give it they don't deserve it.
I can imagine the younger brother ended up being hospitalized in critical condition if he wasn’t that fortunate. I believe that the he’s the parents responsibility even if he has some developmental disability.
I have a brother from the same mold, except my mother never punished him. In fact, I had to apologize to him after he snuck into my room and smashed my trophies.
Tbh that last story, the distancing whoch has hit neglect and could be considered emotional abuse when you do that to some your keeping as a back up while you fuck with other people, using mental health as an excuse to string him along and justify being distant, and the fact she lied to cover up having another guy over a lot living there is grounds enough to not trust her enough to be with her. "I love them" is not an excuse to keep yourself from pulling out of a toxic persons life.
2nd story screw that team they wanna be jerks they get treated like jerks, and if I was the quarterback son I wouldn't forgive my mom for forcing me to bow to their egos.
In the first Story with the bike sounds like me. Only with fixing the bike because I'm not sure how to fix a bike apart from pumping up the tires. Example: I was 16 and riding my bike the two miles to town since I live in the country and the nearest town where I go to school was not to far. I was only 1 mile from town when the chain on my bike came off. I didn't know where the chain went so I walked my bike the rest of the way to town. I found a bike repair shop (it's not really a bike repair shop. I thought it was because the antique store had bikes for sale outside) where they told me the chain came off and they fixed it for me.
At this point any toxic people or family cut them out of your life and for the toxic family call them out in front of the entire family and let them have it if some of your family isn't siding with you it a sign that they with the toxicity and if you find a lover ur wanna marry cut out that part of the family from seeing your kids or kid if you have them and don't invite them and start your own family reunion that doesn't include them at all. For toxic people don't be petty be petty your choice but just don't do anything that would sink to there level And if I did any sports and the other time would be disrespectful and rude and mean it be that point where I throw the first punch and say "You don't belong on any sport field if you just gonna be a jerk" sports is for others to have fun and be a good sport and not huge jerks
Story 2:[I'm sorry for the rant- ] Ah yes the entitled I'll raised brats are now playing Lil league and the parents whom are irresponsible are likely running the league, many places are being ran by entitled irresponsible lazy people whom think their better because they have money in reality their making up for something they lack which is painfully obvious I seriously hate when people don't do their jobs and there should be a consistency clause to allow the people to prove that they aren't doing their jobs because not dealing with problem people is not doing their jobs I swear assholes and entitlement are running the world now and all humble folk with a head and can see are at the bottom of the pile at this point
I'm have high functioning autism and my parents would have killed me if I acted like that. If I broke my own stuff then I didn't have that thing anymore. If I broke things that didn't Belong to me I was grounded. When I was little I got away with things but as soon as my parents knew I was capable of understanding my actions they would hold me accountable. My parents raised me right
In GAA we have a saying which used to be on the sleeve of the jerseys for a long time “give respect get respect” so the other team who were being prat’s absolute did not deserve the ops teams respect
Story 1: this is the millionth terrible story I have heard about this same awful little brother! Can the parents finally do their jobs and parent this kid?!
In the minor working story OP wouldn't have just gotten fired, but the owner FINED/ARRESTED for hiring a minor. Idk where they are from but assuming that they would have to show an ID, OP's ID would tell on them that OP is a minor. Then what??? OP did the right thing because then OP's age would/could have lead to a whole lot more problems.
You can work as a minor, but a "hardship license" is needed. And a parent has to sign off as well as very stringent rules to follow. Such as the number of hours worked to prevent employers from taking advantage. This is for the US, though. Don't know about other countries.
*Story 1:* What kind of parents just let their child just take what they want? That doesn't seem right. Generally if one wants something, they have to ask first. If they get a *"Yes",* then they can play with it with proper supervision. If they get a *"No",* then they'll have to find something else to play with. Instead of throwing a temper tantrum, they should find something else to do. Autism or no, it is possible to do. OP should've damn well called the police on his brother, as well as their parents. That kind of behaviour is so *not* okay.
wait a minute,isn't the lad from the first story the same one from a story in which someone with an autistic brother almost had his,coincidentally14th birthday cancelled?
This guy has posted about his brother 3 TIMES. as someone with an autistic cousin, i am shocked that your brother does these things. he is a strong, godly young man, and a good cousin. he is NOT entitled, and furthermore, NOT a pain!!! i am super surprised that people like this exist.
for story 1 my cousin has the exact same problem. He begged his dad for a dirt bike(he's eight years old) and his dad somehow allowed it. Even crazier, his dad let him drive around while he was in the back. To "teach him how to drive". yeah, cool, until my cousin drove into a pole and crush his dad's leg. Doctor said he would be practically unable to walk normally for the rest of his life. what a joke p.s. mother language isn't english so spare the grammar mistakes pls
Story 1 - My youngest brother's on the Autism Spectrum, and sure he's given more chances because of his disability he still gets reprimanded for bad behavior in the form of time outs. Enabling bad behavior is already a bad thing, and makes it very hard for that person to learn and grow later on in life, but it makes it even worse with kids who have autism. and Story 3 - I've heard this one before and this one makes my blood boil. The OP's mother in this story is just awful.
As someone who is on the Autism Spectrum, I am very appaled that the parents did nothing and just watched as the little brother took that mini bike out for a joyride. I can tell that he's spoiled AF and if he keeps this behavior up, he won't learn how to be independent or control his emotions when he's told "NO."
First story. The brother is luckier than my grandfather. My grandfather had got hit by a car when he was driving he's bike and he was 70 years old when it happened and he broke 2 legs , 2 arms and the worst was that he hit his elbow
Last story: she 👏 is 👏 full 👏 of 👏 dookie. I believe her when she says she can't mentally handle the situation because she's embarassed that she got caught in her lie. There is NO reason to do what she did and NO excuse whatsoever. She does not love you the way you love her. Sure, she may have feelings for you, but she does not and will never respect you enough to stay faithful.
Every time I hear one of these like the stolen properties If that were me I feel like I would either punch someone in the face if I were there or just put them on the ground
Story 2: honestly instead of shaking their hands I'd flip them off and walk away like its like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like
Isint the brat from the first story the same brat who’s parents made the op share his stuff with the brat and the same kid who pushed a cake to the birthday boy
As someone on the Autism Spectrum, I am appalled at what those parents did. It seems like they just needed an excuse to spoil him since he was their new favorite. If they gave him support, that's one thing since people on the spectrum have a harder time learning social skills, dealing with emotions, or becoming independent . But, if you spoil them, they will become entitled and not understand right from wrong.
I agree
this is one of the reasons why people with Autism like me and you are put down by most people
hey,can i ask you something?
what's having autism like? i suspect i may have _something_ similar but i don't wanna take a test with my mom knowing
(because she'd use it as a weapon,i know it so certainly because she already does and neither _she_ knows if i have anything and she still talks about a "pathology")
@@isabelle2670 for me, it hard but I manage to get by
@@rocketcoke2000 yeah,but what tells you you're autistic? (aside from your doctor,of course) i mean what do _you_ have that Non-Autistic Person "X" does not?
Thought this brother had done enough damage at the birthday, but here he is again. And those parents are such assholes to their other son.
yea this is like extra as heck. i was like oh god another? dang.
IT WAS THE SAME KID?! HOLY
@@ubcsboomdaddy5181 I think this is a different kid not from the last two familiar stories
@@ferbiously oh no they did say it was the same kid. Op stated it if you heard him right. Just seems ridiculous how much bs happens. There was a point where few months back we had multi-part updates and countinuation of peoples crudy parenting, etc.
@@ferbiously I think it was the same kid where his parents grounded the OP on his bday, and the spoiled kid threw a cake on someone's bday because he can't blew the candles on some other kids bday.
Feel like the first story already told in a video a while back. I remember hearing about the brother who took off on the brothers bike and basically ruined it.
I remember that OP.
His parents are just insane
It's the same people but different story
It’s the same poster
bro for the last story you just gotta cut out toxic people like that. she gonna harm herself or even commit unalive? that's on her for putting herself in that situation. as a wise man once said play dumb games win dumb prizes
at first I was like "why does this sound familiar" then I realized u/Holden-Position-4 has alot to give about their little brother
Yeah I think I heard his story from Mr Reddit about his 14th birthday being canceled
I thought the same thing
Same I also watched the one where he went to a birthday party and the was a huge mess
This poor guy should just break off ALL communication from his family. Seriously. For good. Why are these parents asking their son to parent their other son? They can fix their own kid's stupid bike? Jerks.
The Mini bike was fast, and OP was furious
Story 4: So OP gets with the girl despite her not having a finalized divorce and then is upset when things such as what is described occurs. Come on…you cannot be that blind. If she is willing to effectively cheated *with* you then she *will* cheat on you. The reality is, OP is being a blind simp. He needs to snap out of it, realize he done goofed getting close to this mess of a woman, and move on. She has no interest in a serious public relationship because if she did she would not do these escapades and avoid the talk that OP clearly is saying he needs.
Edit: The edit is for additional content.
So I admittedly did not take into consideration the abuse. This does justify her not wanting to be with her husband. I do still think it is a major red flag that she kept OP as a hidden BF before starting/finalizing any sort of divorce. As a result, I do not have a changed opinion regarding the story. However, I feel it is disingenuous to not mention this point.
Did you not hear the abuse part, the cheating part is not okay but just because she is separated but still married to an abusive partner does not mean she is cheating.
@@kanowest4834 I will submit to the fact that I did not take the abuse part into consideration. I zero'd in on the cheating.
I do think it is still sort of telling she did not wait to finalize a divorce or separation but instead kept OP as a hidden BF. However, that is not the point of this message.
The point is I did not take it into full account
Take any claim of "abuse" with a grain of salt from women. False accusations are becoming increasingly common. They have a constantly changing definition of it. Ever notice how EVERY ex of a woman is "abusive" or "toxic" but are always VERY vague when you ask for specifics? That's because they know if they were specific, they'd be backed into a corner and called out. He could have told her "no" to an overly expensive purse or pair of shoes she really didn't need or talked to her in a raised voice about something she did wrong.
Legally separated is just that. It's not cheating because they're not together
Cancelling a 14th birthday?
“Sorry champ, guess you’ll be 13 for another year.”
Coming from a former college football player here. You pulled a stunt like that in football, that’s when you end up getting an “accidental injury” the next time you face that team. That’s a cardinal sin in football and it’s especially one that no defensive player will forget. Expect a lot of roughing the passer and illegal tackles the next time those two teams face each other.
Geez, this is like the third video about the OP’s monster of a brother from the first story.
Imagine a _married_ woman cheating on her significant other and they're "sad/hurt". You signed up for that mess before the divorce was completed. 😑🤣
I’m autistic and I don’t like the entitlement here, because my mom never spoiled me and treated me just like my siblings. I have a job and I know the value of hard work.
DAMN more with this Brother from hell huh? How much is in this saga? (And I assume you're gonna compile this all eventually right?)
I know right damn this is insane how many stories he has
Sometimes they use stories from years ago to protect the writers
This should definitely have a whole video when this whole saga is over.
@@nc4254 This is from last week tho ;;; it's an ongoing story
@@nc4254 I don't think he's doing a good job of protecting his anonymity, since I'm sure this is only a few years ago and he keeps piling stories leaving more of a fingerprint of who he is.
Last story: there's a saying that comes to mind "If they're willing to cheat with you, They'll cheat on you."
Genie from Aladdin punching through walls, fighting random NPCs and arm wrestling the Kyle looking dudes at the end makes the stories all the more entertaining.
Lmao my lil bro knew better than to touch my stuff he has a scar on his head to remind him I don't play when it comes to my stuff😂
The last story - stupid for thinking about ending it? No. Stupid for getting into the situation to begin with? YES. Been there done that. It never goes the way you want, she will always go with someone else. You think you love eachother but its only you that loves her. She likes the love and affection because she wasn't getting it from who she's with and eventually says something to the effect of "this is getting too serious we should slow down a bit" because she doesn't know how to handle being treated properly. And then when/if she eventually frees herself from that person she tells you she doesn't want to jump back into anything. And then a little time passes and she goes for someone who's not you anyway.
Sometimes you have to go through it to really LEARN the lesson.
Oh I heard of this story on tiktok. Glad u post this so I can understand more clearly
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I been here every day for over a month
@@hourlongrelaxingvibes3820 their content is TOP NOTCH!! So many great videos to watch, I'm sad I may be running out though...
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@@raerose2278 I saw a few mins of it when it was live and decided to save that baby for a raining day! 😜
Back when I was in school we played handball in a municipal tournament and we weren't that good, not awful, but we didn't get to practice much as we were from several different grades. We were doing okay in the competition, but we eventually faced a team that did practice and were good, they were the favourites, they destroyed us and we were out.
A couple days later we heard that their headmistress had pulled their team out of the competition as a punishment for being rowdy and were making fun of us when they got back to their school.
We were so happy afterwards. They didn't get to play anymore and we got put back in the competition, beat the next team and placed 3rd.
Story 2 is my fav! (5:07) I love this channel, gives some funny, crazy and entertaining stories!
The second story is literally when the whole team spams gg ez in a game, and then pretend to be nice by saying gg well played when they won. Like hell no, I wouldn't shake their hands.
The Karen mom and the oblivious parents just didn't get. In fact, the coach and refs should have physically removed her from the field.
I’m the op from the second story but I wanted to reply to this.. I don’t think the refs could’ve physically removed her because the game was over when she came running to the field
@@hugefootballfan2914 that team was completely out of line. Hell I do BM(Bad manner which is what happened) when I play online games(Mainly Clash Royale and Pokémon Showdown) but only if the opposing player was BMing me and I completely stomp afterwards as it is 100% justified in that case.-Cyanide YT
Story 3: typically when cops answer a call, (at least in the US) they check the IDs of all parties involved so I understand OPs nervousness about the situation.
As having high functioning austism, the first story hurts me to the core!
If someone had set up a stunt like this in my country Norway, they would have received a hefty fine from the association. This is not fair play and would never have been accepted in my country.
The only thing that needs to be done is to refuse the players to play more matches until they come up with an apology
Story 1: Well, I've been driving bikes for maybe 6 years, and maybe I might be able to drive a mini-bike
The saga of the guy whose 14th birthday was ruined continues... i'm shocked. But it looks like progress is being made.
I'd pay money to see the saga animated
Second story: sounds like something my alma mater would do haha. The shit talking, that is
If that was me
Parents: We can't get him one, he's not ready for one
Me: Oh but you had no problem with him stealing mine and you thought he was ready then.
Simple Holden after all the shit you've had to endure with your parents and brother, go NC with them, refuse to ever deal with them again, no matter how hard they pout, for you to fix his bmx or other tasks just ignore them.
I did not expected the sequel for another story told on this channel.
Every time I hear another story from the same OP about his spoiled autistic brother, I am more disgusted at the parents. I too am on the Autism Spectrum AND in the High Functioning category as well. High Functioning Autism means you, in a sense, are as close to “normal people” as you can get while still being autistic. There are some things that we struggle with but we can also do things others that are “more obvious” on the spectrum could never do, like learn to drive. One of these days the spoiled brother is gonna do something that’ll either REALLY bite his parents in butt or something that the parents will have absolutely no way of bailing him out of if they don’t put a stop to this behavior NOW. And when that day comes I would not be surprised to hear that it got REALLY REALLY ugly!
As a High-Functioning Autistic person, I absolutely agree
I was a high school football official for 14 years. I started doing playoffs the 2nd year, which is unheard of. I knew the rules as well as any official in the state, and when I retired was begged to come back for over 3 years. My body had given out and I couldn't do it. I've now had 26 surgeries, most of which are from the times I overdid activities.
Not to the sportsmanship shown by the winning team. They are out of line, and the national rules prohibit that kind of behavior. I blame the officiating crew for not stopping it during the game because I've never had an occasion where one team beat another team, then put it in their face after the game, where it hadn't started during the game. I had to eject players in a game to get their attention. There was no boasting arrogance after that game. Yes, they were angry with me, but I'd rather have them angry with me than get in the losing team's faces.
No, they shouldn't have shaken hands. That's my feeling, but, yes, they should have, then filed a complaint to the league offices. In one game I did, I had a coach lie to me. I filed a complaint with the state association, and then later found out that I was the first of many. At the end of that season, the coaching staff were all fired. A school can't take the chance they will be banned from playing. Football is the single most profitable sport in the U.S.A. A good football program can bring in enough money to finance every other sport.
On the sports one I don’t think is that deep I had similar experiences as what they had but instead of being mad at the other team our coach was mad at us for not using the fact we were mad as fuel to win ever since that Day I always think of different ways bad situations can motivate me
that first story would've been avoided easily if the op had gotten a tire clamp for his mini bike, so that his bother won't even get 5 feet of distance when driving it.
I have never played American Football, yeah if I was on that team which I really wouldn’t, I would’ve lined up and gone towards the Cowboys, but instead of giving them a handshake I would slap them.
recognize the op at 0:34 and said to myself : "oh no not him again poor guy"
I feel That OP is a big memebr of this channel for how much stories he posted
Bro for the first story when your brother took your mini bike just take his bmw and go for a joy ride till it runs out of gas and do nothing about it lol
When I heard the title of the second story I thought first. Probably yes, shakehand after a match belong to sport like tires to a car.
But this action of the cowboys is just below anything. I completely side with the OP.
I play floorball in a amateur league in Switzerland, and some games get really intense. Especially against direct neighbouring villages.
But no matter how many „shout your f*** mouth“ get thrown in during the game, the shakehands end all hostility and the shakehands come before celebrating the victory with the fans (mostly familliy of players).
If there is some kind of feastivity in the Area I live in, all the surroundig villages come, and it is no rare occasion to be drinking beer together in the evening with guys you did some namecalling DURING the match in the afternoon.
But dare someone to drop more insults after the matchclock run out.
Saw this happen once, that guy got imediatly put in his place by his own team, but he didn‘t stop, so they threw him out of the team right on spot
As a high functioning disabled, our community does not claim this monster, the parents can keep him for the rest of their life.
Hello, I’m the OP for story #2. I should’ve mentioned in the story that this was a kids league (11-12 year olds)
As someone with a mild case of autism, grew up spoiled and coddled, it took me until 23 to finally decide to move out and get a job to do shit myself and then the first story gets slapped in my face and I've never been pissed
Man, first story, I know all the updates to it and, yeah, it all comes crashing down hard, to the point the mom hurts herself and ends up in isolation, she also hit the brother and the dad yelled. OP apparently looked after him while the dad and mom were gone and it basically gave the kid a reality check.
Oh hell naw the second story with the football game are you kidding? I play water polo I have had plenty of games like that but no one on the opposing team said or did anything disrespectful to us where we could see or hear if they did it in private that’s their choice but that is so unsportsmanlike and completely disrespectful
As someone with high functioning Autism, this younger brother is a disgrace. I’ve grown up just fine without being coddled 24/7
huh, that sounds like my mother, shes also entitled but not this much
“It’s a miracle that he didn’t bust his head”
*is it, is it really a miracle?*
If I play against an asshole, I'm more likely to flip them off than shake hands with them. A handshake is a sign of friendly respect, and if they don't give it they don't deserve it.
I can imagine the younger brother ended up being hospitalized in critical condition if he wasn’t that fortunate. I believe that the he’s the parents responsibility even if he has some developmental disability.
Cool another part of that 14 birthday story
Wait is the kid from the first story the same kid who wanted to blow out the brother’s candles
1st story: Dude this kid has gonna stop doing things for his brother/parents.
I have a brother from the same mold, except my mother never punished him. In fact, I had to apologize to him after he snuck into my room and smashed my trophies.
Tbh that last story, the distancing whoch has hit neglect and could be considered emotional abuse when you do that to some your keeping as a back up while you fuck with other people, using mental health as an excuse to string him along and justify being distant, and the fact she lied to cover up having another guy over a lot living there is grounds enough to not trust her enough to be with her. "I love them" is not an excuse to keep yourself from pulling out of a toxic persons life.
2nd story screw that team they wanna be jerks they get treated like jerks, and if I was the quarterback son I wouldn't forgive my mom for forcing me to bow to their egos.
In the first Story with the bike sounds like me. Only with fixing the bike because I'm not sure how to fix a bike apart from pumping up the tires. Example: I was 16 and riding my bike the two miles to town since I live in the country and the nearest town where I go to school was not to far. I was only 1 mile from town when the chain on my bike came off. I didn't know where the chain went so I walked my bike the rest of the way to town. I found a bike repair shop (it's not really a bike repair shop. I thought it was because the antique store had bikes for sale outside) where they told me the chain came off and they fixed it for me.
Second story: hmmm, what kind of football. American or normal?
I am the op from the story, it was American Footbal
Football
At this point any toxic people or family cut them out of your life and for the toxic family call them out in front of the entire family and let them have it if some of your family isn't siding with you it a sign that they with the toxicity and if you find a lover ur wanna marry cut out that part of the family from seeing your kids or kid if you have them and don't invite them and start your own family reunion that doesn't include them at all.
For toxic people don't be petty be petty your choice but just don't do anything that would sink to there level
And if I did any sports and the other time would be disrespectful and rude and mean it be that point where I throw the first punch and say "You don't belong on any sport field if you just gonna be a jerk" sports is for others to have fun and be a good sport and not huge jerks
Story 2:[I'm sorry for the rant- ]
Ah yes the entitled I'll raised brats are now playing Lil league and the parents whom are irresponsible are likely running the league, many places are being ran by entitled irresponsible lazy people whom think their better because they have money in reality their making up for something they lack which is painfully obvious I seriously hate when people don't do their jobs and there should be a consistency clause to allow the people to prove that they aren't doing their jobs because not dealing with problem people is not doing their jobs I swear assholes and entitlement are running the world now and all humble folk with a head and can see are at the bottom of the pile at this point
The mom did the right thing her kids come first and her mom needs to grow up.
I'm have high functioning autism and my parents would have killed me if I acted like that. If I broke my own stuff then I didn't have that thing anymore. If I broke things that didn't Belong to me I was grounded. When I was little I got away with things but as soon as my parents knew I was capable of understanding my actions they would hold me accountable. My parents raised me right
To the Op with the minibike what you should is get the turn the key to lock up the engine and keep the key with you at all times!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
First story I blame the parents for spoilting that kid
In the last story, the girlfriend sure 'handles' a lot going on in her life for someone who can't 'handle' anything the OP does.
In GAA we have a saying which used to be on the sleeve of the jerseys for a long time “give respect get respect” so the other team who were being prat’s absolute did not deserve the ops teams respect
The first story is continuing from the parents cancelling the 14th birthday story
Story 1: this is the millionth terrible story I have heard about this same awful little brother! Can the parents finally do their jobs and parent this kid?!
In the minor working story OP wouldn't have just gotten fired, but the owner FINED/ARRESTED for hiring a minor. Idk where they are from but assuming that they would have to show an ID, OP's ID would tell on them that OP is a minor. Then what??? OP did the right thing because then OP's age would/could have lead to a whole lot more problems.
You can work as a minor, but a "hardship license" is needed. And a parent has to sign off as well as very stringent rules to follow. Such as the number of hours worked to prevent employers from taking advantage. This is for the US, though. Don't know about other countries.
Sweet update on a old story
*Story 1:* What kind of parents just let their child just take what they want? That doesn't seem right. Generally if one wants something, they have to ask first. If they get a *"Yes",* then they can play with it with proper supervision. If they get a *"No",* then they'll have to find something else to play with. Instead of throwing a temper tantrum, they should find something else to do. Autism or no, it is possible to do. OP should've damn well called the police on his brother, as well as their parents. That kind of behaviour is so *not* okay.
wait a minute,isn't the lad from the first story the same one from a story in which someone with an autistic brother almost had his,coincidentally14th birthday cancelled?
I understand the story with the mom being hurt my dad had chosen his family then us
This guy has posted about his brother 3 TIMES. as someone with an autistic cousin, i am shocked that your brother does these things. he is a strong, godly young man, and a good cousin. he is NOT entitled, and furthermore, NOT a pain!!! i am super surprised that people like this exist.
It might be a petty move but definitely tell your relatives
for story 1 my cousin has the exact same problem. He begged his dad for a dirt bike(he's eight years old) and his dad somehow allowed it. Even crazier, his dad let him drive around while he was in the back. To "teach him how to drive". yeah, cool, until my cousin drove into a pole and crush his dad's leg. Doctor said he would be practically unable to walk normally for the rest of his life. what a joke
p.s. mother language isn't english so spare the grammar mistakes pls
I had a feeling that this was this OP's 3rd video
Story 1 - My youngest brother's on the Autism Spectrum, and sure he's given more chances because of his disability he still gets reprimanded for bad behavior in the form of time outs. Enabling bad behavior is already a bad thing, and makes it very hard for that person to learn and grow later on in life, but it makes it even worse with kids who have autism.
and Story 3 - I've heard this one before and this one makes my blood boil. The OP's mother in this story is just awful.
Screw closure cut ties
I'm autistic and I'm disgusted by this behaviour.
As someone who is on the Autism Spectrum, I am very appaled that the parents did nothing and just watched as the little brother took that mini bike out for a joyride. I can tell that he's spoiled AF and if he keeps this behavior up, he won't learn how to be independent or control his emotions when he's told "NO."
I autistic too and even I'm disgusted by that behaviour.
My dad has a mini bike.we don't use it anymore because it is broken, but it goes fast. Like, really fast. Not fast, FAST.
First story. The brother is luckier than my grandfather. My grandfather had got hit by a car when he was driving he's bike and he was 70 years old when it happened and he broke 2 legs , 2 arms and the worst was that he hit his elbow
Last story: she 👏 is 👏 full 👏 of 👏 dookie. I believe her when she says she can't mentally handle the situation because she's embarassed that she got caught in her lie. There is NO reason to do what she did and NO excuse whatsoever. She does not love you the way you love her. Sure, she may have feelings for you, but she does not and will never respect you enough to stay faithful.
Every time I hear one of these like the stolen properties If that were me I feel like I would either punch someone in the face if I were there or just put them on the ground
Who else was only watching the game play 👀
First story you should have also said that after the cops arrive you will be pressing charges
Oh hey it's the same guy who got his 14th birthday cancelled because siblings and his parents were talked down to by the public and his aunt
"it's another thing to win the game and talk trash to the other team
Online games players:uhm...
on the first one I would have made the parents pay for a tank of gas since the brother emptied it
First Karen story I've heard where she demanded altruism from her kid.
Story 2 - You have an obnoxiously high opinion of police
If they will do it for you they will do it to you.
Those parents are likely gonna have NC from the OP
Trust me if that was me there would be a huge fight
This is why my products I own are not for sharing because most of my stuff is expensive or retro old
im sorry what ? TEN KIDS ?!
Story 2: honestly instead of shaking their hands I'd flip them off and walk away like its like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like
Isint the brat from the first story the same brat who’s parents made the op share his stuff with the brat and the same kid who pushed a cake to the birthday boy
yes! its the same.
Win or lose I’ll always shake the opponents hands but if they’re going to talk trash and act like complete and utter @$$hats then I’m walking off too!
When you visit someone you’re there to visit them not stay at the hotel for most of the visit