3 UPDATES: Brother Took Away ALL of my Savings After I Trusted Him & Parents Told me They'll NEVER
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- 3 UPDATES: Brother Took Away ALL of my Savings After I Trusted Him & Parents Told me They'll NEVER Talk to Me Again if I Take Him to The Court...I Did it Anyway & I Found Out Not Only My Brother is a Scum But…
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I (28F) have a younger brother (24M) and I let him move in with me a couple of months back. He used to be a party animal back in high school and through college and wasted all his years there so naturally, his grades were bad and he didn't have any work experience either so he couldn't land a decent job. He refuses to take up low-paying jobs because he feels that he is "destined for bigger things". Those are his words, not mine. My parents requested I let him move in with me for a while so that he could watch me and learn to be independent because while he was living with my parents, all he would do was play video games in his room and if my parents brought up the job situation with him, he'd get mad and rant about how everyone was constantly pressuring him. I loved my brother and used to dote on him even up until a few weeks back so I agreed to let him move in with me and he was happy to do so.
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Wow knowing his history, she still gave him access to your bank account, play silly games and she won stupid prizes!
So stoopid on her part.
That is what I thought. Dumb as a box of rocks
yeah.... she painted a real lazy image of her bro and then said I trusted him... like why? he was pawned off on you from mom and dad and you were like, here are the keys to my money!
OP kind lot herself on fire.
Can't argue that. Gotta love FAMILY.
"He's at the age where he makes mistakes and learns from them". And you learn from mistakes by accepting the consequences of them.
When they say “He’s family!”, I can’t help but notice they didn’t hold the brother to the same standards when he ripped off OP. It’s okay to misappropriate borrowed money from a family member, but not okay for that family member to pursue litigation for taking the money and not paying it back? 🤦🏼♀️
Good thing OP listened to their lawyer friend.
My brother borrowed money from me at one point but because of family. I went to the bank and made him get a loan against my savings account so he owed the money to the bank the bank just kept my savings locked down while he was paying it back.
@@cyndifrazier9724 very clever!
Bet they'd sing a different tune if he'd gambled away THEIR savings.
Who crazy enough to hand someone their savings card almost deserves it. Duh!
If I could roll my eyes harder than I just did, you would have been able to hear it wherever u are.
OP better be VERY thankful for the lawyer friend.
It is pretty damned easy to be "forgiving" when its SOMEONE ELSE who has been screwed over but um... would the parents have been so "lenient" with their son if THEY had lost so much money because of him????
Of course they would! Because “he’s young….. the baby….learning….can’t help i…”
ad nauseam
& they’d probably try to scam Op out of the money. After all, she
“… owes them for all they’ve done for her…”
OP why did you give him access to your account knowing that he has never had a job at all? Why not write him a check for half and make him sign the contract?
"Gaming and electronics store" Red Flag.
She should have opened a new account, transferred the half she was willing to let him spend, this would have prevented him from stealing it all..
Yep.
Imagine she trusted him. Not smart but I get it now
@@dcg590 I agree. Trust needs to be earned, not given freely, and idiot brother had never earned anything in his entire mooching life.
My oldest Son decided when he was 16 that he was not going to go to school anymore. I could not convince him otherwise. SO, I told him that since he was not going to school anymore, he needed to get a job and pay room and board. That pissed him off, and he moved 800 miles away to my Mother's house. That did not last long either, so he got married and started his own family. I still, to this day, get along with him.
Several years later, I asked him why he decided to quit school. He said that he was just bored with school. I asked him if it was better on his own at 16, he said, "not really." Hind-sight is always 20/20!
There’s a really big difference between making mistakes that screw one’s self over and making mistakes that screw OTHERS over.
You’re not family to them when they treat you like dirt. But you’re “family” when you don’t treat them to a high standard. Sounds more like a predator to me than anything else
It sounds like OP should never ever see or hear from them for the rest of her life. There will be a time when they will pay the ultimate price for their choices.
This woman was made to be the scapegoat her entire life. She learned to cater to her brother in order to keep peace and please her parents. Shes blaming herself for the fall out of the family but hes the one who caused this, yet she takes blame and feels guilt when she shouldn't. I hope she cuts contact with them and finds healing
Well,when the family talking crap about OP. OP should returning the favor by sharing all those recording *PUBLICLY.*
That was stolen money that he gambled away. He's a criminal. People make m8stakes but not stealing 25K.
WOW! Who would fall for this nonsense? She just gave him free rein. Why would you trust someone who didn’t even want to work. Why?
I was thinking "stoopid".
Probably because she’s been groomed, manipulated & gaslit, since birth, or at least since brother’s birth to roll over & give in.
If you wanted to that, why not just give him the money rather than giving the bank card? OP is a dipshit
Well she paid her Stupid Tax 😂😂😂
I love that saying….stealing it from you.😎🤪
I actually got thrown off of Reddit for posting that 😂🤣😂🤣 Snowflake Central.
Op should have told her parents no about letting her brother to move in with her if she had did so then op wouldn’t be in this mess and op needs to think about moving away
She did that on her own. I mean parents asked but she was ok with it. She doted on him and ignored his habits and even let him have access to her own bank account and savings. That backfired.
Swordly Lordy, OP is just on her hands and knees begging to be conned! Glad she grew a brain and a spine. But she should also sue her parents and brother for laywers' fees, plus punitive damages. And out them to the rest of the family and friends. The uncle also sucks for not coming clean much sooner.
OP brought it on herself as far as her savings. Good part of this tale is a lot got exposed.
Paying the uncle back is also taking advantage of OP. They should be the one paying him back.
Not gonna lie. I let out an exhale and a small "nooooo." When op made the incredibly stupid decision to give her freeloader moocher brother access to her money. "Forgetting" about this until the bank told op "hey. Someone wiped out all of your savings". (🤦) If op hadn't taken things to court and filed for a restraining order I would have branded op a doormat and an dumb*ssh*le to herself for letting this happen. The only good that came out of this was op's loser brothers getting ditched by his friends. They sound smart.
$25,000 is a big mistake. It’s a felony mistake. He needs to go to jail. Your parents need to be quiet and hold him accountable for his actions and his stupidity.
They ruin ur lives not the other way round. All frauds come to light eventually
Funny thing. If you check court cases most are family versus family. Just tell your mom she should take another loan from your uncle
A thief is a thief, no matter if he's your family or not. And stupid to give access to your bank account
Family will screw you over faster than a stranger. Then they will use the excuse we are family. Why would you give him access to the whole savings if you would only allow him half.
Why is she paying back the uncle when the majority of that loan went to pay for her brother's private high school not for her college?
Wow, the nerve of the brother to gamble ALL of her money (savings) vs. investing in the business. 😮 The parents defending him makes it worse. The brother intentionally duped her out of her savings. Filing the lawsuit holds the brother accountable for his actions. He had no intention of paying her back. The parents are horrible to back up the brothers crap by pretending they were more than garbage.
The parents probably know what he’s like… that’s why they manipulated Op into taking him in.
@@Standinthegap4ever They should know, they are the ones that created this MONSTER!!!
@@BuilderofRat
But but but he’s the baaaby a male
& the golden child!!!!!
🙄🤯.
@@Standinthegap4ever Do you suppose that prison will teach him anything? Now the awful parents have lost their golden child, AND, the only responsible Daughter. They will end up with nobody caring wether they live or die.
@@BuilderofRat
I don’t know…. Probably?
One way or the other…..
if he ended up in one with good programs, maybe. I watched something the other day about a program where hardcore prisoners were able to foster cats & dogs from a k*ll shelter-- if they qualified. Cats & dogs were brought in to the prison, the prisoners took care of the animals & prepared them for adoption. The shelter went from something like a 98% k*ll rate to almost 0. The prisoners calmed down & became model prisoners. Some of them had never experienced unconditional love. One of the men interviewed said he’d never get out because of what he’d done but the program made such a difference in his life. There are programs in some prisons where service dogs are trained by the inmates.
If they don't have savings or can get loans that is usually a sign that the business won't work out, because ya know... They need to be good with money to run one...
Op said thank goodness her friend the lawyer suggested a contract….like bish I would have had that already in my mind before even thinking about it investing. I wonder did he SAY his plan or did he PROPOSE it in a manner of name of business, location, what he’ll needs as in employees, permits etc. , how much he’ll need and how did he come up with that exact number $$$ for the company.
I think OP was just too ignorant to think that far...
Honestly were I OP I'd have my final words to these "parents" and waste of space brother be: how despite all the advantages he was given at my handicap you still came out to be a complete failure
It's ironic the actual rich people were the not entitled ones, in fact they seem to be well balanced individuals but the not rich people the parents and bro were entitled, insane, snobby, immoral and perhaps classiest by the looks of it.
Cause they actually have parents who raised them right
I've seen this dynamic time and time again between 2 of my uncles. both are well off with one being REALLY well off.
there is a saying:
*new money screams, old money whispers.*
@@pezchef7577
I like that adage!
Once a gambler, always a gambler!
This is immediately a bad idea. Why add him to the card, just give him the amount you are willing to give.
Take them to court. You were trained to be the scape goat... They screwed you over for All your Life ..I would get the restraining Order to Keep them out if your Life. Never speak or think of these toxic people Out of your Life ..Your Brother needs to go to Jail so he can learn a Lesson. They are Not your Family Now...😡
Yeah. Two mistakes. 1. Not even consider getting a bank loan. 2. Moving that money to its own account.
Who gives access to their bank account to someone no matter how responsible they are. OP knew the type of person her brother is. Why not create a second account and give him access to the card
What a ridiculous story. Who would give someone access to their savings account? Why not just give him a check for what you're willing to donate?
but we're family is a HUGE RED FLAG. the rest of yall need to learn from our mistake for trusting them words
Money for Nothing.
The sad thing is that you want to trust family members. It doesn't often work out.😢
And even more so, sometimes the family member sincerely wants to pay you back, but they lose the funds because of bad incompetent business planning .
OP and parents ask for a business plan? Is this how families support businesses within their clan? Crazy.
In the real world, a bank will let you know about withdrawals from your account over a certain amount. Heck, I get notice when a $50 check clears.
Why wasnt a criminal case for theft by fraud not made against him? If you won a civill case for the money he wouldnt have the money to pay the Judgement.
Great video. Good ending.
Glad you enjoyed it
I would’ve just written him a check if I was in OP place
Did it occur to her to open a new account, not linked to hers?
Obviously not.
Nope. Atleast u had a document signed and u werent a complete fool
If you're dumb enough to give him access to your account, you can't be surprised when your money disappears
S2. Who would give full access to their savings account? Bohooooo.
What is the Court going to do 😂😂😂 He doesn't have anything to get😂😂😂
Bring their lives OP didn’t steal a whole bunch of money for gambling
The minute I heard her say, she gave him access to her bank account. I was done with the story. The girl is a fool, and obviously he's going to clean her out. She deserves it for being stupid.
Duh, that out of date business sounds like a good idea, here's all my money, duhhhhhh
Tell your parents your brother is the one that sinned. He stole money.
The only sin would be allowing the guilty go free.
Show your parents Proverbs 24:-24-25.
You need to learn to say No.
Matthew 5:37.
An early problem is she didn't protect her money, if he only could access half that is all he should have been able to get. Set up a separate account
This is hard to believe that anyone would give someone access to their bank account. It would be like wanting to help out a homeless person and giving them your credit card along with the pin #. Not sure which word is better "Naive or Stupid ".
Why is this fool paying her uncle?
That’s what I thought. Let the mom who took the money pay him back
It's a loan for her education either way and she took it knowing she would have to pay back. Just the person she should thank for the loan were not parents but uncle. No point in screwing over her uncle.
@@thehawkseye3412 she never got the money and he never told her the parents were taking the money
@@JB-bj3fl@time stamp in the video 11:50
She says parents paid her tuition fee for a medocre college and made a big deal of it. They told her to pay it back after college. So she was paying it back to them.
Parents didn't tell her that it was uncle paying for it. They gave the money to her as a loan and expected it back and also wanted her to feel indebted to them for providing it in time of need.
She stopped paying it back to her mother and started giving the money directly to her uncle. Basically she cut the middleman off.
On the other hand parent paid for a fancy expensive private school and college for brother and he didn't need to return anything.
It was really stupid of her to give her brother access to her money without proof that he was going to start a business, especially when he didn't had money to begin. The only thing that saved her was that contract he signed. The brother and parents are trash as shown to what they did to OP. They deserve to be shamed and arrested.
i wonder if we (humans) will ever learn. spoiling kids make rotten adults
Judge should laugh in OP's face😂😂😂
Why should the judge laugh at Op?
For being gaslit & manipulated her whole life by horrible mommydearest, daddydearest & brotherpoo?
At least her eyes were opened & she came to her senses.
Funny thing, police aren't actually required to do anything if restraining order is violated, and can ignore such violations if the want to. Just look at Supreme Court of US ruling on "Castle Rock v. Gonzales".
S1. Step sister: Here's a photo of the man I'm dating.
OP: Ummm
Me: Holy shit! You've got to be kidding me. That's my dad!
Red flags: never worked, plays games all day, needs a lot of money to open a store for games and electronics at a time when many of those are closing down. All pointers to him being a serious gambler, i.e. loser.
Too bad OP didn't have dirt or hidden secrets on her parents to spread to their friends.
Some lessons are expensive to learn.
Also only pay back your tuition to your uncle. The rest that was borrowed and used for your brother's tuition is for your parents to repay not you. Get together with your Uncle to make that happen.
There’s a sucker born every minute!
He may have been Opie’s brother but he’s in a hole up his parents need to talk to him and make him apologize to his sister for taking all her money for gambling, even if she was dumb enough to let to let him and her account
Were his friends “shallow and pathetic” or did they realize that if OP’s brother was willing to do that to his own sister to get access to them… that he’d just as easily do that to his friends.
That was my thinking too.
Unless someone is your spouse you do not add them to an account I would not trust a single one of my siblings to have a joint account with
Obviously, the first OP hadn't worked very hard for his money and sacrificed so much otherwise he wouldn't have given it to his irresponsible, unemployed-by-choice and lazy brother.
his? the story says 28F
@@jamie151-d9j Sorry, she, you're right, this makes all the difference.
I would go no contact with your parents and brother after this op. They obviously have a favorite child and it’s not you sadly.
Why pay uncle? Its the parent agreement right? Moreover they sabotaged her college choice as well
WOW! 2 mins in and I can tell he is a freeloader. Ya'll thought seeing you do the adulting would make him change his tune. Try this... Dinnertime. No learn this here. You don't work... You DON'T EAT! Same in here as out there. Hey worked for me at 13 ys old! I am now 70. I have worked with very few days off.
Your mother is a narc, that’s why she freaked out because she has never been held accountable and she won’t have it. Don’t give your parents another dime and go nc
Op was just incredibly stupid. She brought this on herself.
How dumb do you have to be to give someone with no work experience access to all your money to fund a business venture.
1story, she's so stupid to add her brother to her account. Nobody ever do that even to your own child. Nobody. Maybe you do that to credit card extension but not on savings
You gave acces to so much money to a young man who had refused to work on the past? Oh my...I am sorry, I am not victim blaming but I just have to point out that was extremly naive and certainly no way to do bussines, more so when the young man of doubious character was your brother.
+ interest
Wait. Why is she paying her uncle for money that went to her brother's schooling?
Because she’s chronically stupid.
Wow some people are born suckers
Stop repaying the uncle danmit. He was one of the people who never bothered to help you even though he knew the truth. Let the mother repay the money she stole.
Why are alot of OP's sorry and super kind? If you had a spine a lot less people would be willing to attempt to fool you.
Sorry OP, but you were so very foolish. Even if it is family you don't give them access to your total savings. Knowing what I know now, I wouldn't even do that with a spouse because nothing spends quite so fast as someone elses money. Don't forgive him. File charges and go NC with your parents if they have a problem with it. He is a theif.
OP is fetching stupid. Lock down your savings account.
TYA OP. Ooooh, spot the Golden Child, which you must have known even before you found out about your educational funding. You were staggeringly naive to let your wastrel of a brother have access to your full savings based on that sorry excuse for an imaginary business plan and looking at his behavioural history, so you must accept some censure for being an idiot with your hard earned money. What basis did you have for trusting him with something so important to you in the first place? Thank God for your lawyer friend who, at least, made sure you had some basis for a legal case against your sheister of a brother. Otherwise, you would have had no come back at all and would have had to forget your money as a very expensive lesson not to trust anyone with your money without some form of legal redress. Your parents' behaviour shows them not to be good people, and their absence from your life would not make it worse.
I think op never realized how misogynistic her family was. They didn't want her to go to a good school and make the brother look bad. I also wonder if he has autism based on his actions.
Also op is a little at falt here. If she only wanted her brother to use half. She sould have moved half into a new account then gave brother control of that account.
I bet brother had a big vages trip planned with the friends. Which is why the parents planned on tricking op out of her money. Because they knew their golden child would lose it all.
I bet they didn't know how op made him sign legal documents. Op should stop paying uncle back. Since it was the parents who took the loan. They can pay it back themselves. But maybe op did it to prove something to the family. Or maybe the parents refused to pay the uncle back after they lost the case. So op is helping him.
Why not just give him the $12000 instead of giving him access to everything I’m sorry but you’re the AH to yourself
Please, PLEASE get a different reader for these. This voice sounds like she just isn't sure what she's reading, as if she isn't understanding what she's saying.