Bam Margera Says Estranged Wife Still Keeping Son From Him Amid Legal Battle | TMZ

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  • Bam Margera says his estranged wife Nikki is still blocking him from seeing their son, face-to-face -- even though he says he's committed to lifestyle changes to remain sober.
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ความคิดเห็น • 628

  • @Degausser09
    @Degausser09 ปีที่แล้ว +404

    I’ve never heard Bam ever take responsibility for his own actions.

    • @tristessa1975
      @tristessa1975 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I don’t think we ever will hear it, either.

    • @tristessa1975
      @tristessa1975 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@doves9204 I agree. Lots of signs there.

    • @bostonlatina
      @bostonlatina ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Never has. This is what happens when your parents let you run wild!

    • @KMnnA
      @KMnnA ปีที่แล้ว +5

      As a Bam fan. Neither have I. SMFH.

    • @ravenslittlectgarden7003
      @ravenslittlectgarden7003 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      With a greedy family living off him the way they do, anyone would loose their mind a little

  • @NickCADA
    @NickCADA ปีที่แล้ว +160

    The party ended in 2006 Bam.

    • @sultaa86
      @sultaa86 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Already then? Wasn't he still doing pretty well with Viva La Bam and Jackass 2 back then? Never followed Stuff after Viva La Bam. I knew there was Bams unholy Uninon. Which was basically Viva La Bam but only with Bam being married, right?

    • @sultaa86
      @sultaa86 ปีที่แล้ว

      @ivy_tripper whatever that means.

    • @marcysboxtempel7498
      @marcysboxtempel7498 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      2010 würde ich sagen ...

    • @sultaa86
      @sultaa86 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@marcysboxtempel7498 Ich auch. Während Jackass 3 war er schon recht komisch drauf. Der Klamotten Stil wurde auch immer bekloppter.

    • @marcysboxtempel7498
      @marcysboxtempel7498 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sultaa86 ja da hatte er aber noch eins bzw. 2sachen die ihn in der Bahn gehalten haben ..Ryan Dunn und Erfolg ... der Tod von Ryan war Zuviel und er wird sich wahrscheinlich nie von erholen . Dann kommt noch dazu ,das der in den 2000ern (geilste Jahrzehnt😄👌) machen konnte was er will ...er hatte alle Freiheiten ..er war halt Superstar! Jetzt lebt er quasi von der Vergangenheit und Nostalgie... ganz düster wird es für ihn wenn er kein Geld mehr hat .. scheint aber noch gut was zuhaben ,sonst müsste er keine 15.000 Dollar Unterhalt zahlen . Man kann für ihn nur hoffen ,das seine Eltern sein Geld verwalten...das klingt jetzt hart ,aber ich denke sein Geld ist seine lebensuhr...pleite sein würde er nicht überleben..und zu seinem Stil,er war halt voll der ville valo fanboy ,ich würde schon sagen männlicher Groupie 🤣

  • @NicholasColvard-pm9hb
    @NicholasColvard-pm9hb ปีที่แล้ว +268

    She doesn’t have to make him look bad. He does it all on his own.

    • @ChrisDeVarro
      @ChrisDeVarro ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He's definitely not doing as bad as people keep saying he is. He's definitely not on drugs during this interview

    • @NicholasColvard-pm9hb
      @NicholasColvard-pm9hb ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ChrisDeVarro Have you not seen the things he’s done recently?

    • @ChrisDeVarro
      @ChrisDeVarro ปีที่แล้ว

      @NicholasColvard-pm9hb dude was fat making heartograms and barely coherent, it's some dope youtube videos in a possibility that his image may be intentionally being tarnished to keep him in a conservativship and even falls reports being made against him.

    • @andrewdressler6173
      @andrewdressler6173 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      But he deserves to see his kid!!!

    • @shanec-mont3625
      @shanec-mont3625 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your an a**hole. You have no idea what he's going through Nicholas.

  • @BigtimeAL
    @BigtimeAL ปีที่แล้ว +40

    “I’m bam margera, and this is the the child custody battle!”

    • @ltk20352
      @ltk20352 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      at 19 no man ever thinks he will ever deal with that 😂

    • @jasons_supra
      @jasons_supra ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What will he do next!

    • @ir6237
      @ir6237 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@jasons_suprawhatever the fug he wants

    • @PhilMacrackin-wj7bg
      @PhilMacrackin-wj7bg ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jasons_suprago drink probably lmao

  • @Qwazin
    @Qwazin ปีที่แล้ว +24

    "Sobriety is going great" said the guy who last month posted a video threatening to smoke crack until he died if he didn't get to see his son.

    • @sugoi4983
      @sugoi4983 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      After this video he got a chiropractic readjustment, in the chiropractic vid his shirt he wore to court in this video gets ripped off & you can see a 12 pack of beer, bombay gin, patron & a gatorlyte for the hangover.. hes a liar lol

    • @GrowingDownUnder
      @GrowingDownUnder ปีที่แล้ว

      well for all the haters like yourself, people claiming he was on crack he took a drug test to prove he wasn't on crack and proved he was sober. So stfu go find something else to hate because this ain't it

    • @IrishPablo94
      @IrishPablo94 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@sugoi4983really ?

    • @bh2861
      @bh2861 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@IrishPablo94nope he is sober

  • @marlonacas1874
    @marlonacas1874 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    The guy who never grew up

    • @mrstifler8987
      @mrstifler8987 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      To be fair, he seems to be sober and he’s really not doing anything wrong as of rn

    • @brianparrish4649
      @brianparrish4649 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He raised himself.

  • @wesleybohannon1
    @wesleybohannon1 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Hes scratching his neck nervously every time hes asked about sobriety.. i truly hope bam gets it right soon. Much love to anyone struggling with addiction

    • @FoTwentyVlogs
      @FoTwentyVlogs ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry but that shits down your toilet bro

  • @SeanDaRyan
    @SeanDaRyan ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Bams fucking nuts, he sounds nuts even when hes sober.

    • @k-bar93
      @k-bar93 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      He’s not sober that’s why lol

    • @SeanDaRyan
      @SeanDaRyan ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@k-bar93 I think in that video at that exact moment he’s probably sober. But his brain is just completely fried

    • @Yo-ve4pm
      @Yo-ve4pm ปีที่แล้ว

      He probably isn't lol

    • @Very-old-man
      @Very-old-man ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He is clearly sober. He’s like this all the time.

    • @Sandra-oh4qp
      @Sandra-oh4qp ปีที่แล้ว

      I doubt he is sober

  • @Stevawn33
    @Stevawn33 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    As an ex alcoholic no one is going to do it for you. It’s the most selfish thing you can do as a human. You have to be tired of being tired.

    • @aledesperado
      @aledesperado ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You’re right, need to do it all alone and i can tell you brother it’s a long and lonely road…

    • @aledesperado
      @aledesperado ปีที่แล้ว

      @DarthDingleberry every single day my friend, just positive thoughts and the constant reminder that if i do it, the day after will be nothing but bad.. So find something you love and don´t let Alc get in way of it!! All the best guys!

    • @SuperHawkVTR
      @SuperHawkVTR 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Alcoholism is gross

    • @Stevawn33
      @Stevawn33 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@SuperHawkVTR yes it is. Be careful out there.

  • @Anzner1993
    @Anzner1993 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Never Bams fault. Ever....

    • @jamesmccool503
      @jamesmccool503 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Exactly. Guy shoots himself in the foot (figuratively speaking) so he can complain about how bad it hurts and acts like it's not his fault.

    • @johnko4555
      @johnko4555 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Probably our faults 😂

  • @ericreynolds1747
    @ericreynolds1747 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    Always the victim no matter the circumstances. So sad

    • @jeepernj99
      @jeepernj99 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      His extreme victim mentality is killing him.

  • @TheSnoozeFox
    @TheSnoozeFox ปีที่แล้ว +96

    Bam is what happens when your parents let you do whatever you want growing up

    • @michaelmay4448
      @michaelmay4448 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Bam did not have a drink until he was 21. This is not his parents fault

    • @Krymsyn_Rydyr
      @Krymsyn_Rydyr ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Bam is the spicy little squiggly turd, you get after taco Tuesday

    • @citypopFM
      @citypopFM ปีที่แล้ว +11

      ​@@BeckettsDisciple-mh2euSo why is Bam's brother not a drunken mess like him?

    • @sl4074
      @sl4074 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It's personality not parents

    • @cautionTosser
      @cautionTosser ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@BeckettsDisciple-mh2eu and at what age does he put on his big boy pants and live his own life and take responsibility for his own actions? You can't blame your parents forever or where does it stop? His parents blame their parents, who in turn blame their parents... You see where I'm going with this. He is now a parent himself. So by your logic, everything bad that happens to his child is completely his fault. Life and people are more complicated than that.

  • @janetpatterson7915
    @janetpatterson7915 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    And she’s right to keep Phoenix away until Bam can prove he can be sober, which he has not done. He’s a danger to himself and others.

  • @adamdam
    @adamdam ปีที่แล้ว +89

    When I was a kid he was one of my heroes, as an adult looking at how low he has gone, how time after time he's thrown all help and care back in the faces of everyone....he's way too far gone and a broken man behaving disgracefully.

    • @dandycliff2
      @dandycliff2 ปีที่แล้ว

      why was he your hero? He was a spoiled, rude piece of shit already then.

    • @Anonymous-lq2bs
      @Anonymous-lq2bs ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Addiction is the real monster here.

    • @teddyjackson1902
      @teddyjackson1902 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Anonymous-lq2bsI have a dead cousin who was a heroin junkie. He only resented people who loved him. Attempting to help him only resulted in him abusing you. Watching Bam do the same thing to people who clearly care about him is too predictable and sad. I don’t feel bad for Bam. I feel bad for the waste of his life and for the people who love him.

    • @curtiss6128
      @curtiss6128 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Straight up, one of the most depressing part about all of this is that as a kid, this man was one of your heroes 😂 💀

    • @dandycliff2
      @dandycliff2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Anonymous-lq2bs i think it's narcissism first and foremost.
      Then the drugs on top of that fucks him up.
      I was raised by a borderline narcissist so I can relate

  • @rodbelding9523
    @rodbelding9523 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    According to him it's still everyone's fault but his, he is just literally never going to grow up.

    • @michaelangelodiglio6678
      @michaelangelodiglio6678 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Agreed. He will hit rock bottom when he's out of money, sitting in jail, and no one left.

    • @AverageJoe1006
      @AverageJoe1006 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It pisses me the most of that os that there are nice looking ladies going with trainwrecks just because the money, while there are many single men that are decent and sober and responsible and they end up with nothing but loneliness

    • @user-tq4rd7nr2m
      @user-tq4rd7nr2m ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Did you watch the same video? How is it Bams fault she won't even allow him a once a week FaceTime? Do you have any idea how many dads across the country drink and smoke pot all day? Seeing your kid is a basic human right regardless of weather or not you use alcohol etc. His kids not in any danger evident by the FACT he's already taking care of an 8year old girl he LIVES with.

    • @ubjuu
      @ubjuu ปีที่แล้ว

      and who are you?

    • @ltk20352
      @ltk20352 ปีที่แล้ว

      Stevo is fine now but let's see how he acts when he loses his younger hot girlfriend and takes a few new Ls in life . He will be hitting up Bam again 😂

  • @lakid9749
    @lakid9749 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    He just doesn’t get it!
    He needs to want to be sober.
    Excuses excuses all the time

  • @lilwaffles714
    @lilwaffles714 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Dang bam, me my brother and friends wanted to be you when we were 15, now we have jobs and kids. Looks like the generation that wanted to be you grew up and you still stayed the same

    • @misterpresidented2152
      @misterpresidented2152 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He didn't just stay the same... He got worse

    • @bh2861
      @bh2861 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Bro, having kids and a Job doesn't mean anything and it sure as hell doesn't mean you're more successful than anyone else in the world

    • @gerardbyrnes7529
      @gerardbyrnes7529 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@bh2861 Exactly. That oddly proud "look at me, I'm adulting!" mindset is super weird.

    • @PhilMacrackin-wj7bg
      @PhilMacrackin-wj7bg ปีที่แล้ว

      ⁠@@gerardbyrnes7529seems like the idiots keep reproducing

  • @jamesmccool503
    @jamesmccool503 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    You can't help someone who doesn't want to get better. He takes 0 responsibility for his actions. Listen to him talk about needing multiple sobriety coaches. Don't get me wrong, support is a good and often necessary thing, but if you put the responsibility for your sobriety on others, you won't get any better.

    • @GrowingDownUnder
      @GrowingDownUnder ปีที่แล้ว

      he doesn't want to get better? ok gaslighter he literally said in this video he wants help and was getting help. Wtf is wrong with you!

    • @mrstifler8987
      @mrstifler8987 ปีที่แล้ว

      But he actually seems sober though

    • @jamesmccool503
      @jamesmccool503 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@mrstifler8987 He is a relapse waiting for an excuse at this point.

    • @MrIgottap
      @MrIgottap ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@mrstifler8987he hasn’t been totally clean for more than a handful of days.

  • @zoohandler504
    @zoohandler504 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My girlfriend that’s a fitness trainer is keeping me from alcohol….instead of getting true treatment 🙄🙄🙄

  • @breeze2dope
    @breeze2dope ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Maybe Bam could try staying sober, so he could see his kid again. Easier said than Dunn...

    • @NickCADA
      @NickCADA ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah right. Last I heard he's in the recording studio making rap music.

    • @DemonKingFinnBalor1916
      @DemonKingFinnBalor1916 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What does it really matter? You bandwagoners are going to talk smack regardless. Once he sobers up y'all are just going to find another flaw to complain about. It comes with the perks of having no life of your very own so y'all think you got the right to ridicule everybody else's instead of focusing on your own imperfections but please do continue on with the deflections 👍

    • @Hotmaildotcomz
      @Hotmaildotcomz ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ​@@DemonKingFinnBalor1916lel okay 😂

    • @DemonKingFinnBalor1916
      @DemonKingFinnBalor1916 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Hotmaildotcomz Struck a nerve of gold there did I not Mr. Pink Floyd? 😂 and who spells "lol" wrong "lel" 👀😏🤭 especially when the e&o are nowhere near each other on the keyboard, guessing you were so conflicted by my comment at the fact the boot fitted so perfectly that you were texting like I angry woman on the white stuff 🤣 perfect example of what kind of trash talkers and bandwagoners Bam Margera has in the shadows and yet you expect him to take people like y'all seriously 🤦‍♂️ major L 🤣🤣🤣

    • @KatharinaK117
      @KatharinaK117 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The man wants to see his SON n has all the right! Contact must be guided with his ppl/lawyer, not hers! Until he's sober n clean! Tht woman is nuts...so many "fathers" don't even want contact! It's a crime from tht woman to withdraw a father s rights!

  • @kentvikman1086
    @kentvikman1086 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    16 years ago I broke out of a 20+ year addition and I have to say this: I don't think that Bam is done yet. The rhetoric seems oddly familiar and at this point I question his will power. I wish him the best and I sincerely hope that I am wrong. Good luck Bam.

  • @Ashbash-kf5xd
    @Ashbash-kf5xd ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I use to think he was so strung out because of her,…. When in actuality, she’s being the responsible after putting up with so much hurt for so long.

  • @HenriettaHudson-we4wv
    @HenriettaHudson-we4wv ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I don't believe anything Bam says anymore!! TALK IS CHEAP!!!

    • @sidewindersid4180
      @sidewindersid4180 ปีที่แล้ว

      You couldn't believe the lords prayer out of his mouth because all he does, these days is talk complete and utter incomprehensible horse shit. I never fucking liked him.

    • @Vertical-sandwiches
      @Vertical-sandwiches ปีที่แล้ว

      He's a loser.

  • @abyss5883
    @abyss5883 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Bam looks so much different. I know he's older but still. Knoxville, Steve O, Ville etc all aged better

    • @Dead2you
      @Dead2you ปีที่แล้ว

      he's been on a literal meth and alcohol bender.

    • @rphntw1n
      @rphntw1n ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s what drugs do to you.

    • @Heaveaway23
      @Heaveaway23 ปีที่แล้ว

      .Knoxville has white hair ??

  • @mdishuge
    @mdishuge ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I came to terms with my addiction to alcohol today. I’m done living this way anymore.

    • @SuperHawkVTR
      @SuperHawkVTR 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Alcoholism is gross and they’re always in denial falling on their face & crashing cars but it’s never their fault

  • @ashleyataxia8919
    @ashleyataxia8919 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I would never let my child be around this person for any amount of time for any reason. His ex is in the right.

    • @LaborHours
      @LaborHours ปีที่แล้ว

      Though your intentions are good, there is value in a boy having a relationship with his father and in depriving him of this the son will resent the mother, a resentment that may never heal. In fact, he may even choose to leave her and live with the father once he is of proper age if there is enough resentment.

    • @ihavewaited90daystochangem51
      @ihavewaited90daystochangem51 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@LaborHours that does not work when the child has literally thousands of photos and videos of his dad being a dangerous addict, and trying to grow a child with an addict is just going to make another. Don't talk about family things, it's clear you know nothing.

    • @LaborHours
      @LaborHours ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ihavewaited90daystochangem51 Seems I've upset you by taking the feelings of the child into account and considering that children do grow up to have personal agency. If someone like you told me I was not allowed to see my father whom I loved regardless of his flaws, I would definitely be even more inclined to want to see my father and would be increasingly less interested in anything you have to say.
      Have you spoken to Phoenix to ask him how he feels about this situation? Have you asked him how it makes him feel that his own mother is the reason he can't see his father? Of course not, why would that matter. You say I know nothing, but the person that completely disregards the feelings of the children as if they mean nothing is likely to damage a developing human being and their relationship with them in untold ways.
      I do hope you understand this because you sound exactly like the type of parent that will absolutely crush a vulnerable child and tell them to shut up when their broken heart cries out in agony.

    • @ihavewaited90daystochangem51
      @ihavewaited90daystochangem51 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@LaborHours I ain't reading all that, glad to know i got under your skin.

    • @LaborHours
      @LaborHours ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ihavewaited90daystochangem51 I was writing out of concern for the child. As for your concerns, it's clear they're elsewhere.

  • @thesoberempire
    @thesoberempire ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Bam, please stop fighting everything and trying to control everything. Nothing external is going to solve your problem....not sober coaches, not a fitness model.... its all inside of you Bam, the solution is inside. Follow the path of Novak and Steve-o. Rooting for you Bam.

  • @user-ml4ux4cu3r
    @user-ml4ux4cu3r ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This guy needs serious help. He is SPRINTING to his death!

  • @javiernarvaez5297
    @javiernarvaez5297 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I used to watch Bam on TV while Viva La Bam was on the air. The party ended for him a long time ago, but he never accepted it. How the mighty have fallen.

  • @katherinequesada7382
    @katherinequesada7382 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What about dad's who don't have the means to fight

  • @carlin2235
    @carlin2235 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Keep fighting Bam, depression is a shit..

    • @kevinconboy7387
      @kevinconboy7387 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s drug addiction and Alcoholism

  • @fixingnfishing2044
    @fixingnfishing2044 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Looks like an evil version of Phil now. Bam was always the one who’s pranks seemed like bullying and he seemed to enjoy them. Nothing funny about him. He’s getting what was always coming. Whang Kerr of a guy!

    • @larrymarshall8900
      @larrymarshall8900 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah he did a lot of assholish stuff on Jackass now he's actually a jackass for not being sober to take care of his son. I hope he gets his shit together before he loses his life like the other guy from Jackass did.

  • @chasecharron4546
    @chasecharron4546 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    im only an uncle...but Id do anything possible to keep my nephew away from this man even if it was his dad... the mans gone insane

  • @justsome90skid
    @justsome90skid ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Is it just me or is Bam looking slimmer. Healthier. Seemed quite coherent. Slight moments of over talking or certain things said that didn't need to be... but change is a foot here. Its good to see. Please take care of yorself and get better Bam. We all want you well, healthy and able to see phoenix. If you got yorself straight. I know I would love to see a major comeback. Rooting for you fella. Much love. Stay with the right people

    • @USA2283
      @USA2283 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ahhhh ur a good dude thinking things will change. The majority of people don’t change. Fat dude in highschool fat dude when your 50. Act like a man child for 43 years and then wake up and change. Nah.

    • @LordDirus007
      @LordDirus007 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah he does look better here

    • @citypopFM
      @citypopFM ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He's had periods of seeming sobriety and taking care of himself but he has repeatedly slid back to the partying, drinking, and drug use a million times by now. Even here, he's not being honest and taking responsibility which is a morbid sign that he's not ready to do better and be better.

    • @1954telecaster
      @1954telecaster ปีที่แล้ว

      He’s on meth

  • @alexlc1989
    @alexlc1989 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    He refuses to do the work. If he really cared, he would make every effort possible to set up visitations, using court appointed mediators, to see his son. If he wants to drink well then let him. But Nikki doesn't want their son to be around him when he's intoxicated. Bam himself admitted he lashed out at her and punched a wall in front of Phoenix. She's not perfect herself but at least she knew to finally separate herself from that environment.

    • @user-tq4rd7nr2m
      @user-tq4rd7nr2m ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You didn't even watch the video. The lawyer litterally said HE HAS DONE EVERY POSSIBLE THING TO LEGALLY SEE HIM. Watch it again and listen to the words lmao

    • @alexlc1989
      @alexlc1989 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@user-tq4rd7nr2m Actions speak louder than words. Him leaving rehab early after threatening to do crack til he's dead shows otherwise. You watched that video? Don't be so naive

    • @alexlc1989
      @alexlc1989 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @ivy_tripper I believe he cares it's just he has a problem he's refusing to admit, like most addicts.

    • @sugoi4983
      @sugoi4983 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@user-tq4rd7nr2m everything but quit boozing, after this interview hes in a chiropractic vid where his shirt he wore to court in this video gets ripped off & you can see a 12 pack of beer, bombay gin, patron & a gatorlyte for the hangover..

    • @user-tq4rd7nr2m
      @user-tq4rd7nr2m ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@sugoi4983 You know how many dads across America drink at the bar and smoke pot all day long....

  • @pb.pb.pb.pb.
    @pb.pb.pb.pb. ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The problem is he has always had SUCH A GIANT EGO.. hard to have acceptance and to let it go … i know. 8 yrs clean now grateful 🙏

  • @marselobear2322
    @marselobear2322 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Dude has no accountability.

  • @johnwalls234
    @johnwalls234 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    He needs to own his mistakes and come to the understanding of why his ex wife is doing what she is. She is protecting her son from a loose cannon. Always been a fan of Bam but he burnt all his bridges with everyone that actually cared. Come back man, time to grow up.

  • @KaelaBriana
    @KaelaBriana ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hell no. If I was bam and phoenix was my child I would be in COURT. Why isn’t bam going to court to get him back??? I know he’s addicted right now but phoenix should be a wake up call and he should be doing everything he can to see him. I know I would.

    • @dewilew2137
      @dewilew2137 ปีที่แล้ว

      @ivy_tripper THANK YOU

  • @ugsisr
    @ugsisr ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This man has Struggled for a long time. I hope and pray he does do well and get sober , he has so much to live for...

    • @cbrock420
      @cbrock420 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bad shit happens. None of us are exempt. He chose to be a dope head piece of shit.

    • @JayRamahi3810
      @JayRamahi3810 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well…he brought it on himself. I’m not saying I don’t want this guy to get better, but it’s hard to pity a man who’s “self-inflicted” struggles come from a result of his own narcissism.

    • @cbrock420
      @cbrock420 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JayRamahi3810 not to mention completely shitting on all of his friends that loved and cared for him even after he went off the rails, then goes on to make an island boys style dis track about them. Yeah, fuck that dude.

  • @goldstandardentertainment1364
    @goldstandardentertainment1364 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Anyone who watched Bam until now know this; he’s a good person at heart, but he flies off the rails and acts out when things don’t go his way.
    It’s how he’s always been.

    • @ltk20352
      @ltk20352 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Mtv normalizes degenerate behavior and we don't think a current day Bam isn't a result of that. He was just a skater that got caught up in that Jackass stuff that was beyond stupid and not funny. Should have just skated and smoked pot. He would have still been with his first wife probably.

    • @dick8997
      @dick8997 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dude's a trash heap

    • @st7728
      @st7728 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So he's a spoiled brat.

    • @MyVideos-fm7ug
      @MyVideos-fm7ug ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I don’t think he’s even a “good” person in any way and never has been. Him being “cool” seems manipulative to me. A tactic he uses to reel others in for his own use, then later discards then
      Good people don’t do that, drunk or sober

    • @JShadow6661
      @JShadow6661 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol fuck no. He’s made enemies with everyone whose tried helping him. Even his childhood friends like Novak.

  • @sloedwn7509
    @sloedwn7509 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’ve been a massive fan of Bam’s since around 99, but I don’t get how people comment shit like they know him or his actions are actually affecting your life in any way. The dudes an addict, there’s millions of us in the world that fight addictions to drugs and alcohol. But my actions don’t affect anyone but my family and friends, just like his. No one knows him but his actually life circle, not Joe or Betty Shmoe from middle America… Just let the fucking dude get over his shit, stop acting like it’s breaking any of your hearts.

    • @ltk20352
      @ltk20352 ปีที่แล้ว

      He deep down wants to see his son. It's hard on anybody when ur as famous as he was with whatever women you want and it all goes away. Also not dealing with Dunn's death in a healthy way and being around addicts . I actually prayed for him today as deep down his son needs him and he isn't a bad dude deep down. Whatever weird stuff he said was the drugs.

  • @donaldfeger91
    @donaldfeger91 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Until he takes responsibility for the things in his life itll get worse!

  • @Dennis_Frey
    @Dennis_Frey ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This gives Trailer Park Boys vibes 😂

  • @adamf34
    @adamf34 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just like addicts always do, except no responsibility and shift the blame to someone else.

  • @knock4banquetmeals
    @knock4banquetmeals ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Bam is so coherent in this video has not been this clear headed this is really good to see

  • @francismotionless393
    @francismotionless393 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Get clean bam. Plain and simple. Stop blaming your wife and others for why you use.

  • @hellac6
    @hellac6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I wouldn’t be taking advice from Lamar Odom bud 😂😂😂😂

  • @Greg-rv5vm
    @Greg-rv5vm ปีที่แล้ว +1

    By the way what kind of lawyer gives an interview to TMZ? 🤷‍♂️

  • @siahleon7499
    @siahleon7499 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    NICE ACT! Sobered up for a half day?

  • @tiffanyandy
    @tiffanyandy ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Stop using your son as an excuse of for everything you can have other children you can explain to him when he gets older what happened in stop making it public maybe then you can follow something higher than to keep you sober maybe then things would change but stop whining and stop complaining about get better

  • @emv8869
    @emv8869 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nikki has every right to keep Phoenix away from Bam if he is drunk/high. It’s called being a good parent, something Bam should try to do

  • @italocarvalho1030
    @italocarvalho1030 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bam it’s not able to deal with his responsibilities, it’s his own fault, why having a family if he even can’t stay sober.

  • @rentrann
    @rentrann ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Opiate addict here, Clean 14 years, it’s very clear to me that Bam is high in this video. From rubbing his face, small pupils, to that nasely sound in his voice. But I’m sure most people, addict or not, can see that. I hope he finds the help he so desperately needs. We don’t all make it out alive.

    • @redskyatnight123
      @redskyatnight123 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I don't know I'm an addict also , but I wouldn't want to make a predictions whatsoever. You can't honestly say that he is high😊

    • @Mary-p6m
      @Mary-p6m ปีที่แล้ว +2

      how d'you know ?? As an Addict...

    • @zippymufo9765
      @zippymufo9765 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@redskyatnight123 He's definitely high

    • @sleevelessace
      @sleevelessace ปีที่แล้ว +4

      im a "ex" addict aswell and honestly u know as well as we do you cant take 1 or 2 movements on a 2 minute video to declare someone high... theres alot of factors, getting out of a court room, having a camera in his face talking about difficult subjects causing nervousness.. theres a alot of variables and such a small fragment of video to go off of to tell if hes high or not lol

    • @redskyatnight123
      @redskyatnight123 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sleevelessace definitely agree 👍

  • @GabrielGarcia-pq9wj
    @GabrielGarcia-pq9wj ปีที่แล้ว +6

    He looks healthier here glad to see him clearer

    • @alexandrelobo8524
      @alexandrelobo8524 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree looks like the first time in a while that he looks really sobre

  • @1eph
    @1eph ปีที่แล้ว

    Bam looking like Michael from GTAV.

  • @tylersadventures3372
    @tylersadventures3372 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Get sober man and keep bettering yourself, if you continue and prove yourself for long enough you will eventually be trusted to see your child 💪🏼❤️

  • @hammeredandsauteed4644
    @hammeredandsauteed4644 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dude, do yourself a favor. Let your lawyer do the talking.

  • @chantellegattrell7073
    @chantellegattrell7073 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    He's such a fake sorry loved him but he made his bed..... The other day he was ripping up making a music video playing with his feet..... Not seeing phoenix is the best thing for both of him and bam until he's at least six months sober straight

  • @quintonwinslow9354
    @quintonwinslow9354 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yeah, she’s being a good mother.

    • @kevinconboy7387
      @kevinconboy7387 ปีที่แล้ว

      He should be able to see his son. Without Bam their son wouldn’t have existed.

    • @shawnpahl
      @shawnpahl ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kevinconboy7387 no judge in the right mind would ever give visitation rights to a drug addict alcoholic out of his mind

  • @adamturner1563
    @adamturner1563 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Been there. Its not a nice place. Pull through Bam Bam. Hurts like nothing else. Never stops either. Forever hurt. (Even when you are in thier lives)

  • @jamillellis3021
    @jamillellis3021 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bro Bam looks just like Phil now

  • @hi_is_this_clorox_bleach
    @hi_is_this_clorox_bleach ปีที่แล้ว +1

    bam looks like ricky from trailer park boys

  • @marielbysrosen3982
    @marielbysrosen3982 ปีที่แล้ว

    “I’m doing really well” lol

  • @CarlyMorgan38
    @CarlyMorgan38 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My heart always breaks for Bam. I just want to see him do better for himself and his son, as much as it sucks for Bam, she has every right to keep their son away from him. I would love to see Bam sober and healthy, I’m always wanting good things for him, I just wish he could get out of this victim mentality that he’s been stuck in. He needs to take accountability for the things he did, not point the finger at everyone around him. I really hope he gets better soon.

  • @sugarpie9492
    @sugarpie9492 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Stay clean and sober for a year and things will start to improve. Time will tell. He takes zero responsibility for any of his problems.

  • @Høbøbiłłz
    @Høbøbiłłz ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I do feel like him not being able to see his son is making him worse. And I agree with what he said about the rehabs... they aren't that helpful. Being cooped up in a room all day while they milk your bank account isn't helpful... I just hope things somehow work out for bam in the long run but I feel that his ex is very manipulative and way worse than we all know and she's adding to the crazy that is bam lately. There's always more behind the scenes that you don't see.

    • @cautionTosser
      @cautionTosser ปีที่แล้ว +2

      well he totally nailed it about the rehab circle trying to milk every penny out of insurance. It's not the first time I've heard about that. I think I saw it on Soft White Underbelly. I was shocked. But it all makes perfect sense. I've heard even worse things about how some even sabotage recovery by bringing addicts drugs just so they can start the program all over because they relapsed. Money is the worst drug out there.

  • @ograwdeal
    @ograwdeal ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Its pretty obvious homie got anger issues imagine how he gets wen lawyers n cameras arent around. I hope he gets better. He reminds me of my bro I can see it in his eyes he might be too deep to return.

  • @fatu1738
    @fatu1738 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Phoenix is suffering. Bam, I pray you stay alive and will get to be there for your son. Sober. You still got it in you to resist alcohol all together. You got this.

  • @shannonography
    @shannonography ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Grow up, Bam. Phoenix deserves a responsible, loving, stable parent. You weren't ina shuffle. You were and are in denial about your own toxic behavior.

  • @WalkingDesecration
    @WalkingDesecration ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He actually looks and sounds more sober here than I've seen in years

    • @MrIgottap
      @MrIgottap ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah, a whole two days

  • @Skatearmada4
    @Skatearmada4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dude always has excuses and blames every person for his toxic ness . wake up bam , you’ll only change yourself when , YOU , yourself wants the change . Not for anybody else , sober coaches , treatment centers etc . They do help , but self change will always come from within .

  • @jeramoore4045
    @jeramoore4045 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great job guys. Yes live life but you have to deal with world so yes get out stay sober and it gets great. 5 years clean here

  • @masterzombie161
    @masterzombie161 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Bam remarrying was the dumbest thing he’s ever done. Now that he’s taking care of someone else’s kid shows he doesn’t even really care about his son.
    For god sakes he’s even making another stupid Rap music video to show how “cool” he is when in reality it’s making the case for his ex wife against him that Bam is immature and unstable to be in his sons life.

  • @jameyalford4760
    @jameyalford4760 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She’s trying to take your money man. They all do. They could work but there job is to manipulate men and the system allows it.

  • @Duluth_urbex
    @Duluth_urbex ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Pray for him

  • @DummyYEEEAAHHHHH
    @DummyYEEEAAHHHHH ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wanna see your kid ? Stop drinkin and bein a complete mess publicly....this dude was camped out in the woods like a month ago in West Chester...then he was in a bar in my town tryna talk people into buyin him drinks...my sons mom kept me away from him til i got my ass straight and quit drinking and druggin.

  • @0331D3vil
    @0331D3vil ปีที่แล้ว

    These lawyers are disgusting

  • @BobZombie
    @BobZombie ปีที่แล้ว

    660,000 dollars to be locked up in a "rehab" for 18 months, sounds like they scammed him pretty bad there. Disgusting.

  • @aliciabethnova
    @aliciabethnova ปีที่แล้ว

    "I'm doing really well".... Right.

  • @jonvon2044
    @jonvon2044 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It’s interesting to see how many people are so quick to judge and cast insults. There’s a reason for sayings like “don’t kick a man while he’s down”. Be humble and also grateful that your dirty laundry isn’t in the publics eye.

    • @starbuck4774
      @starbuck4774 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Once the director of Jackass had to get a restraining order because Bam threatened his kids I lost all respect for Bam

  • @36045023
    @36045023 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    No man is perfect but a trying man is everything and I know Bam will find his way back to sobriety for the sake of having his son back in his life.

    • @yulnikita
      @yulnikita ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He's not sober now

    • @ct6852
      @ct6852 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just making an honest effort makes all the difference.

  • @laonna300
    @laonna300 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    So happy to see Bam doing well with his sobriety and I hope he gets to see his son soon

    • @RandyyLaheyy
      @RandyyLaheyy ปีที่แล้ว

      you’ve got room temperature IQ

    • @gorgo6569
      @gorgo6569 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      You sure about that?

    • @YuzoKoshiroSan
      @YuzoKoshiroSan ปีที่แล้ว +3

      lol

    • @Ozfreerider2504
      @Ozfreerider2504 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Are you serious. Gets sober for about 3 days and he’s back getting loaded .

    • @zaymclovin4178
      @zaymclovin4178 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sober? Haha

  • @violent_world
    @violent_world ปีที่แล้ว +1

    with the money Bam has, he could live anywhere in the world... Why does he stay in America

  • @taylor1522
    @taylor1522 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He looks like his father Phill

  • @MR.SKANDAL0121
    @MR.SKANDAL0121 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    No one deserves not to see their own child fair enough it would probably have to be under his mum & dads eye or something, but the guy isn't that bad he's more of a danger to himself than anyone else

  • @luisrendon5932
    @luisrendon5932 ปีที่แล้ว

    Slowly turning into Ricky from trailer park boys

  • @damianedwards8827
    @damianedwards8827 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You have to clean up Bam. And realize.
    It’s not all about you.
    There are consequences for your actions.
    And there’s no way around that.
    It’s time to Be an Adult
    Not a child

  • @nativemafiainc9963
    @nativemafiainc9963 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This guy needs to take several seats..the victim game is shameful.. it was only a couple months ago u were on the run..he gotta remember social media is forever...i I wouldn't let u anywhere near my child..he's king of the gaslighters...the leader of the blame everyone else pack

  • @ericswires8534
    @ericswires8534 ปีที่แล้ว

    This guy is like Alex from a Clockwork Orange. Same mentality

  • @LovelyJedi
    @LovelyJedi ปีที่แล้ว

    When you sober up and I mean actually sober up. You can have the kid back

  • @Mahatheyew
    @Mahatheyew ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing the damage alcohol abuse does to ones mind.

  • @juliagoolia5604
    @juliagoolia5604 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bam IS a loose cannon! Wake up BAM!! Wake up!!

  • @adriennefegan2962
    @adriennefegan2962 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think she is protecting the child. When someone is not sober and has erratic behavior. This is not a safe place for a child. The trauma that inflicts on that child us not okay. Hopefully he can get some sober time and be in his son's life.

  • @Goldgorilla_
    @Goldgorilla_ ปีที่แล้ว

    Bro got a balled Ben Affleck as his lawyer.

  • @carloslozada470
    @carloslozada470 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If your so good why jackass fire you

  • @dustintodd7713
    @dustintodd7713 ปีที่แล้ว

    The real question is “what will he do next?”

  • @Arizona_rider
    @Arizona_rider ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bam… stop Bullcraping everyone. Ryan dunns death destroyed you. Understandable. You’re never ever ever going to get over losing your best friend.. never! You need to stop trying to live a normal life and just enjoy what life you have. You wanted the fame, fortune and everything else that goes with it. You never ever bowed your head to give thanks, you just took. Try to live normal and roadblocks will materialize around you

  • @sakan92
    @sakan92 ปีที่แล้ว

    I hope he starts doing some new projects. Would love to see this man winning again.

  • @KingMark33
    @KingMark33 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    “Lamar Odom said I don’t need to be there…what a joke. They know my insurance will pay so they keep me there”….a lot of people would love to be in his position. He’s obviously not ready to be done.