If you can feel other peoples energy WATCH THIS
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 3 ธ.ค. 2023
- Dive into the world of empaths, healing, and inner child connection in this insightful video.
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hey! here is the free inner child meditation I mention at the end of the video aarondoughty.com/child
Hi Aaron, I clicked on the link for the Inner Child Meditation but it doesn't seem to work once I get to that page. Thank you for all your great info.
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11:11 in...First note...dude you're awesome 👍
2nd.
The narcissist takes what it will always need more of but never will be satisfied...
The Empath: "I give happiness and eventually learn to find happiness in my own Heart's Mind finding Joy in the energy I freely give... without the burden and weakness of the narcissist/enemy being able to steal...
Instead... it's a gift... rather than theft in nativity. 💓😊🫨😇💓
I just happened to pause it at 11:11...Wonders💓
Is this what I have been doing? Hope I do not sound rude by asking this,but let me explain. Remember Jared Foggle the subway guy was arrested? When I saw him on the news it got so bad I felt sick to my stomach yet I did not know why. I only felt better when I turned off the news. I think this ability grew because when Bill Cosby was arrested, I could see what he had done to those women in my mind, then it happened again, when I listened to Travis Walton talk about being abducted by aliens. In many ways it’s like a private movie playing in my head. I swear I am not making this up, even tho people do not believe me or think it’s my imagination at play. I jus wonder how am I doing it? Can I control it?
You have effectively gotten a concept through to me that I have been struggling with for years.
You couldn’t imagine the darkness and horrific loops I’ve been caught in for years.
After doing the meditation once , I woke up today feeling lighter, more playful, craving a sense of fun and adventure, more free, more authentically expressive. Last night I watched a Christmas movie with my inner child something that was impossible for me to do before because of the trauma.
I’m already recognizing the patterns and I’m all open for my inner child to come chat whenever she wants to. No just for the bad things but the good too.
I can’t thank you enough for this. I really truly can’t even begin to use words to express this gratitude.
Best of all now I’ll be able to help my kiddos heal too.
I throughly appreciate you.
I am an empath, I recently cut anyone who was negative out of my life. The negativity was drowning me alive.
Same here. I did the same thing.
Samee I’ve gain boundaries finally but it’s hard since I was so co depended off others it feels lonely at times but patience for what the future holds
Same here
Same!! I cannot be in or around it. It takes me down physically
@@benjifitnessnwellbeingwith your friends and family?
Ive been watching your videos since you first went on TH-cam and I remember you always saying how you always wanted to do events like these where you talk in front of people teaching them. It's nice to see you've manifested that dream 😊
Bro, same ; not to be one of those guys but I do vividly remember this too back in the early days and I am genuinely vicariously happy here. For real 😊
Miracles can happen ...
IKR ITS EXACTLY WHY I HAD TO CLICK. I honestly know alot of this information already but i literally clicked this to support him cause ik he been manifesting this for awhile
It’s been so awesome watching him come full circle, watching him call out what he wants and going for it. Very inspiring!
And his new temple....(body) WOW...INSPIRING
That sad moment when you learn what you thought was an empath and it's actually PTSD. I always felt sensitive to others emotions. If they were angry, sad, nervous etc...the reality is I have ptsd from my childhood and when people are mad, sad, anxious it makes me on edge. Just something to think about
Have you considered looking into "Complex" PTSD? You may find it very interesting.
then use it
It's not something that can be used. It's not what I thought of as being an empath. It's actually getting anxiety from people's body language, their tone of voice, their attitude. Being super in-tune because as a child those subtle changes meant bad stuff was going to happen. So as an adult those small things cause a big reaction in me. Not sure if any of that makes sense. It's actually just being very observant to small changes in others because that was learned behavior from a traumatic childhood. It took almost 40 years to realize I didn't have some empathic super power, it's actually trauma
@@jackiejohnson2666 same here
i think you are doing the "having to explain everything" thing here. you dont have to explain yourself :) i suffer from the same thing so it's easy to spot. even when typing this comment, i feel the urge to start justifying my reasons for typing it! funny this@@jackiejohnson2666
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OMG "..so empaths attracts narcissists to learn something from them, to learn how to be in their own sense of self.." IT'S SO TRUE.
Is it though….
@@is-ness nah just gen z logic
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or was just manipulated into thinking a person was really super extremely the person of your dreams only to realize they were really truly evil because of what happened to them in “their” childhood and etc..
@@xValorxSorax sigh
I’m an Empath & have attracted SEVERAL narcissists. It took many years to “get the lesson” however, after many years of reoccurring themes & experiencing the same or similar events & various types of narcissistic personalities I’m grateful to say I finally GOT IT!👈🏾🙏🏾
It is a cruel symbiosis...
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The narcissist discards...
The empath goes "NO CONTACT"😮
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@@123March22
You summed it up perfectly!
so how did you heall from them break bond and the attachment abandonment i have a whole narcissist family? first i hear no contact is not answer you attract more narcs?
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I’m here to tell you …
NO CONTACT is an absolutely HUGE part of the healing process & journey or should I say it most certainly was for me. However, I must say “no contact” is more than simply “cutting off all forms of communication.” It’s a deep knowing & feeling one should have internally that “continuing to have ANYTHING to do with said person (the narcissist) is beyond annoying, aggravating, sickening & a complete detriment to your entire being.” If you’re not at that point I do not recommend going no contact…you’ll just find yourself back in that same repeated cycle.
While it may be triggering for you it’s important to vividly recall the details of how the narcissist treated you at various times & situations. It’s NEVER them with an issue or the cause of ANY problem. It’s always not so much you but more so YOUR REACTIONS that’s always the problem. (According to the narcissist) Recall how you felt/feel. Ask yourself the real yet very tough questions like…
“Why & for what reason(s) are you staying with this person &/or around these people & exactly how does it serve you?” 🤔…💭…✍🏾
Get yourself a journal dedicated to writing down “your experiences & feelings.” Be sure to date every entry of your journal. Start writing every instance of all your feelings about occurrences, issues, situations & YOUR RESPONSES TO THEM. Also include when & how you take accountability for your actions including but not limited to speaking your mind, leaving the relationship or cutting ties with certain people, etc.
Over time what I believe you’ll learn in dealing with the various types of narcissist(s) & their methods of abuse is that the absolute best way to deal with them is to be SILENT.
Do NOT engage with them.
Do NOT attempt to fix them &/or their problems, issues & drama.
Do NOT respond to their insults.
Do NOT respond to or accept ANY form of criticism, hatefulness & harassment from them.
*Your only response to their rhetoric & foolishness is SILENCE &/or TO WALK AWAY. It’s always best to leave them with their own words, opinions & decisions.
My apologies for such a long response to your question but I wanted to share some of what worked for me coupled with prayer, meditation & what I’ve learned via studying the various types & forms of narcissism. While I don’t recall any of them by name there are some really great resource channels here on TH-cam.
*I’m willing to bet within 30-90 days of you seriously journaling & going back to see what you wrote you’ll find yourself growing, changing & healing from the inside out.
If you need me please feel free to reach out to me anytime. I’m happy to help you. Wishing you love light & the highest level of peace the universe has to offer you!🙏🏾♥️💐
you angel x@@msohsosolo
I’m an empath, but if I do help someone it’s always from the heart. The world doesn’t own me anything. Life was painful and full of disappointment, but I am happy and content. I am my best advocate. It’s important to have self love and self-care.
I love this thanks
Wow, I feel as if I wrote this!😊
he didn't get everything right.... he knows empaths, but he's not one..
Exactly. I have been an Empath since birth I'd gather. My two sons are as well. This man knows some of the characteristics of an Empath, although I'd have to agree with AAlex-cm9qg. I don't think he's an Empath.
Exactly girl, couldn't of said it better 👍
Two emapths meeting each other gotta be golden
We just see past everyones bullshit and laugh together
Yes, especially if we are from the same soul tribe.
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😢 I guess I'm the student and just now got that😢
I love this! "When the student is ready, the teacher will appear." Amazing.
I’m an empath and always been a people pleaser. Thinking it was good to be this way. I’m now 55 and after going through an extremely painful divorce and seeing who is and isn’t there for you. Opening my eyes to what I’ve always attracted and was still attracting I shut the show down completely. I made a decision to start self care and healing. At that moment one by one all the toxic people started falling away. Some I’d had for over 30 years. It was time. Over the past two years my life has changed. I’m joyfully happy inside and out. I have a sense of peace I’ve never had before. Setting boundaries which is huge!!! I’d never done that before. Boundaries are extremely important. My mother is toxic and learning to deal with this has been tricky. My time with her is limited. She is giving but with conditions. I love her but I now love myself so learning to not feel guilt is hard still. I’ll continue this work till this life ends. I wish this peace for all people. It’s wonderful. ❤
How do you know if your mother is toxic?
I can relate.
You sound refreshed.😊
I relate to this. Except I'm 37 and I lost a child 2 weeks before her due date due to a work related incident. Sadly I learned in an excruciating way who my friends were.... and let's just say I have myself as a friend and can so easily cut ppl off now. I don't regret all I gave to each of them which was 199% of myself as you probably know. We are blessed and we did what was right. “When people show you who they are, believe them the first time.” nice to meet you, thank you for sharing your testimony ❤
Steel energy😢
I'm empathic, intuitive..I can read people immediately and I know if they're good or not and whether I can vibe with them or know to avoid them, people with low energy I have to stay away from cause I can feel that heaviness, people with high adhd kind of energy i also avoid if possible cause it makes me feel like I drank a triple expresso and I hate that antsy feeling, it really is a gift and a curse but it kind of gives me an advantage being able to predict certain people and situations
Can u also feel people’s energy trying to take yours . Just walking by or behind them?
Often they attention seekers or frail. One dude literally wouldn’t leave me alone.
I have a friendly thoughtful nature. Plus I enjoy a friendly chat. His energy was very dense. I walked around him to get away. He demanded I have a conversation. Even though he noticed, I wasn’t interested in one. I walked away keeping to myself, remaining silent.
@@carolcote1596 tha def. Sounds a bit scary. I never really thought that someone could steal another's energy, I think I've matured enough over the years to know who to avoid at all costs and stand firm on it, and on the other hand I'm sure I've had people to that to me at some point
@@shawnavelli9537 Sweetheart these energy vampires walk amongst us. Narcissists is a well known term for them.
I am seeking information from others that are as sensitive. If they’ve experienced this and what if anything. They’ve learned to protect their energy.
@@carolcote1596 does it prevent you from being competitive against someone who cares so much about about winning that you would rather just let them win? or... have you ever seen someone getting made fun of (for example) and said something silly to get that negative attention off of them and shifted towards you instead? also, is it normal for someone else's tension to make your muscles physically sort of cramp? thanks for discussing this stuff. oh ya , iv always wondered how its possible to feel someone staring even from far away and make eye contact because of it. it seems unexplainable aside from being spiritual
@@carolcote1596I have an energy vampire as a husband. Earlier in our relationship I noticed that he would fight with me right before he left to go to work. He wouldn’t stop until I cried. I obliged him when I noticed and it worked! He was satiated by my tears. Also, if he’s bored, he’ll try to zap me. It’s fascinating living an aware life. His behavior has changed dramatically since I started identifying his tactics in the moment. Definitely a useful tool when in a relationship with a sociopathic narcissist.
Being an empath is great because we can really see and understand people on a deep level but it's also a nightmare because we feel so much pain in humanity. It's wonderful being able to help society but we're also very susceptible to being abused by people with ulterior motives like narcissists. It's a blessing and a curse for us. Learning how to protect ourselves is a must.
agree i find your explaniation aligning with my pov more then this video. he thinks that empath are looking for things which is not the case we dont want to please people we want to treat people how we would treat ourselves
You are not an empath
Last year I finalized a divorce with a covert narcissist, as an empath.
The one thing I look as a silver lining outcome is that in the end I really fell in love with “myself” , and that was a bit of a liberating feeling to know that… I do love me.
You are describing my last relationship to an absolute T! Took me 8 years, but one day I packed a bag, changed the tire he slashed the night before so I wouldn't leave, and left. I've NEVER looked back. I spent 18 months focused on falling in love with myself and getting comfortable putting myself first. When I put myself back out there I attracted the most supportive, loving, kind partner. I learned and grew from my ex and now I'm living the life of my dreams. I'm extremely grateful to my ex for the opportunity to finally learn how to choose me. My boyfriend had narcissistic girlfriends, so we are a couple givers who are learning how to receive and give in a balanced way. It's BEAUTIFUL 😁
That sounds great and like you have a beautiful mindset. Much love to you ❤
This gives me hope.. I left 6 months ago, but have been feeling better than ever, he made me believe I'd never be happy without him. I know it's not true
@@Jar0Jess My mantra became "nothing changes if nothing changes." You are stronger than you know. Sending you so much love, light and 🔥. 🙏🏻
I needed to see this. Thank you 🙏🏾
I had a still face moment. It’s crazy because it stuck with me through the years and I was immediately taken back there when listening to you. My mom and I used to go to movies when I was a child. When we would go to the movies, during a funny moment, we would both look at each other and laugh.
When I started becoming a teenager my mom and I would get into fights. After those fights started she stopped looking back at me and meeting my eyes to laugh during movies. This is just a small example and symbolizes the decline of our relationship. It definitely hurts. I promise I will always meet my daughter’s eyes and share a laugh.
I HATE it. I see so many people that are oblivious to people and things around them or careless but I can feel and see things.
This is so good Aaron! Omgosh my mum was the still face, angry, narcissist and my dad wasn't there. It was a very scary, unstable, tbh frightening childhood in so many ways and I grew up with no sense of self, a complete empath, people pleaser, insecure, looking for love from emotionally unavailable guys who treated me like shit, with absolutely no trust in life, myself, God, and a deep rooted fear. I'm working through all of this but it has and is a journey. I love your videos. Thanks for the resources, I appreciate you very much 🙏❤️
Omg, I grew up the same way, but my both parents were good and terrible, because they divorced when I was at the age of 6. And from my mother and grandmother I learned how to dominate and rule men, but they treated me like shit too. Even two ot them were the worst and had destroyed me. It took me 4 years even to partialy heal myself. Now I just want to be with my current guy the love of my life and to be fine. To don't let him down. And the problem is that I am a people pleaser too, but sometimes when I'm hurt I only please myself and do things for myself. It's very drastic sometimes.
Congratulations to both of you on this level in your self healing
My story exactly.
This is stuff we already know.People like him are funny. He only does this for money, like most people, money motivates everything they do. Y'all still don't get what real authenticity is.
@@michellepetros8491 And what if I tell you that only a few still know it? Most of them are soooo stuck in the matrix that you cannot imagine. And telling that someone who is way smarter and advanced than you is funny is like telling that is good to be stupid. Watch your tongue!!!!
As a life coach and inner child facilitator, you nailed it. The mother lives in us, as does our father, but the mother is stronger. We need to bring in the light mother to replace the dark mother with the unconditional loving light mother and self-regulate our inner child with unconditional love for ourselves as we learn to forgive ourselves. We forgive our dark mother as she did not know what she had done, and when we can do that we can be free from her grip and control on us
Both the mother and the father lives in each one of us. Each of those aspects has a dark and light side to them. One shouldn't be stronger than the other. They should equally be strong and compliment each other in balance.
@@Notyourslave69 Should, perhaps - but not true if one is the main caregiver. In most situations this ends up being the mother.
They are both caregivers but with different wounds and experiences. They cannot be equal because one is feminine, and the other is masculine. Some have more nurturing from their mothers, while others have more from their fathers.
It's good to be careful with who you have kids by
My dark mother destroyed me and I can not forgive my heart is black
This is SO true than anytime you have all your energy set on the other person (specially partnerwise) then the other person stops finding you attractive...and whenever you set back the energy to you, then the other person feels attracted to you again... I've noticed this so much and I can understand why it's always important we never lose the focus on ourselves, what we like to do..out goals what we are passionate about... spending time alone, etc.
Thats bc your own thoughts and assumptions create your outter world. A person wont stop being attracted to u cause youre focused on them you created that belief in your subconcious so thats what youll experience
@@ChrisM-oy5ju no, haven't you watch this video? If you lack of love to yourself, then you're not longer attractive to the other person..even if you believe they're gonna love you
Yes this is exactly it.
I can remember the moment of disconnect with my mother when I was standing in a crib and didn't smile back at her when she smiled at me for no reason - I just didn't feel good about it. Her face dropped and I remember she said I probably need to rest and then went away. But I didn't need to rest, I just needed to be seen and held and accepted as I was without having to smile all the time.
So I was left there alone in the crib anxious and afraid and when she came back I smiled at her like I never smiled before. Her face was not receptive anymore, but I felt I had no other choice but to keep smiling so that she would not leave me again. She eventually took me up and held me hesitantly and didn't became "normal" until 2-3 days.
That was the time when I started to believe I wasn't good enough as I was, I wasn't safe in my environment and I had to do stuff or be different than I am in order to be loved and safe.
I'm a pure Pisces with crazy empathic abilities. I was 18 when I realized the thoughts I was hearing were not mine. It took me years to learn to tune out others thoughts.
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Any advice?
Smart people think I’m smart stupid people think I’m stupid .
First time I EVER heard "Tension is not a bad thing" 🤯 🤯🤯
Empath/ narcissist two sides of the same coin!! Being intuitive and being aware is great!! I love separating energy.. every night I call all my energies back to me and am becoming more and more in the self in a healthy way 🙏
Not so. Narcissists are vengeful, disagree or yell them no and they will secretly plot your destruction. Empathy can respectfully agree to disagree, no grudges here 🙏🏻🕊
How do you call your energies back to you at night? I'd like to try that. I pray often and at night. How can I do this in prayer?
Brother,15 days in a month I sleep leaving one of your playlists playing! And today I am going to do it ... .
It feels so much good to have you in our lives and your voice has become a home bro.
best wishes from me, my mother and my sister.
Superpower and a curse is the TRUTH and yes it seems I do attract narcissist and I just broke off a serious 3 year relationship with one this morning that I loved so much that it drained the life from me. They are energy vampires. I am glad I came across this video this morning. I needed this message.
Oh my. I admire your strength and ability to do what's best for yourself and your inner child!
I'm actually trying, with every fiber of my being, to do the same right now. To just WALK AWAY from a situation with my long-term significant other, that has become so negative and one-sided and emotionally draining. To the point of feeling like I'm being abused in some strange way. Even though saying that makes me feel weak & ashamed, honestly...
I'm not eating. Not sleeping. Not taking care of myself in general. I've lost 20 healthy pounds of muscle, already. In just 2 short months.
I can feel my heart pounding really hard from inside my head & body at all hours of the day and night. I'm overly emotional and on edge constantly. Just stuck in fight or flight mode! Etc...
But I just don't feel like I have the strength to do it, for some stupid reason. Idk? I know that sounds contrary, considering the state I'm currently in. But it's different than cutting it off completely and walking away into a separate life without her in it at all.
I feel like I'm restrained. By something. Fear mostly, I guess? Because of how much I invest, or have invested, in this particular bond, I'm guessing. But also because even though I've had a lot of "girlfriends" in my life, I've never really felt connected or safe or committed to any of them, like I was with her. To the point that I stuck it out, faithfully, for a really long time! Which I'd never thought I was even capable of before.
Even though, now that I think back, I realize there have been little glimpses of this treatment or selfishness along the way.
That for some reason, my mind makes excuses for, or just simply brushed off. Because I'm terrified of letting this go. Of going without her in my life. Of having to move on and start over. Of letting go of all the important parts of my life that she is a living connection to. Of all the special little things that I love and adore about her...
Of all of it!
But it is weakening me. Physically, emotionally, and mentally. I can actually feel my health, my strength, my youthfulness, my vibrant energy draining away, hour by hour. I feel terrible about myself. I can't stop picking myself apart. Thinking if only this were fixed, or if this were different, or if I wasn't like this or that. Anything I can think of!
Not being able to stop it, even though I know it's likely killing me, has been the most unempowering, empty and lonely feeling of my life!
I just can't believe how weak I actually turned out to be.
I always thought all the struggle & hardship I've faced throughout my life (which has been considerable) would prepare or condition me for just this type of test...
However, I'm failing spectacularly!
On top of everything, I'm actually embarrassed that I'm feeling this way.
So the deep shame has added another entire layer to this horrible life-cake that I'm eating! Hahaa
*But hey. I figure it's only my life, my health, my sense of pride, my peace of mind, and my sense of well-being that I'm losing, right.
So, overall, I guess it could be worse, huh? Lol 🤦🏻♂️
Oh boy. This is not good.
~Sorry for ranting. Just had to get it out. It's seriously eating me alive!
I hope you're doing well now, several months later. That it turned out to be a positive decision.
Just the fact that you were able to is enough of a positive in my book.
So I guess I'm envious as well?! 😄
I used to be a people pleaser. But when I got into a relationship with a narcissist I realized what I was doing when I'd give and give and he'd only take. It was exhausting. I couldn't keep up. That's when I realized what I was doing. I'm slowly healing from all this now.
Exactly the same here
You talked about why Empaths are attracted to Narcissts . Im a strong Empath and thought maaany years about that issue. Finally i got what it was . An Empath cannot FEEL the Narcisst. They feel like a kind of "safe harbor".. a person we dont get "signals " from . First we think : Oh yes ..thats a person i can calm down with.. But thats basicly a trap . And when their mask is falling , its basicly to late. We get stuck in shitty relationships .
So ..i learned now : If i cannot FEEL a person - RUN...
During last years i met more and more REAL Empaths. I learned , my safe harbor will NEVER be a person i cannot feel. Maybe at beginning another Empath around you can feel overwhelming. But .... with personal space for each to "reset" , it will be "magic " ..like never before . They are our safe harbors ..
Dont step into next trap. You cannot feel them, stay on distance.
And NEVER ever think you could "fix " them. Thats a biiig mistake. They will never understand what is going on in you.
In friendships its ok , as long you protect yourself and you are able to say "no " if you have to.
But in relationships , they turn into "Energy pirates " , They soak out your energy until almost nothing is left of you .
Take care all ..
Youre making your self crazier thinking too much about it man, ask god for guidance i promise you wont have to go through that. Listening to gurus like these sometimes make it worse n often say things which sound similar to what your going through n you wind up overthinking, just relax , i hope god heels you and u forget your trauma, there are real people who will love n care about you, it took me 3 years to heal from bad ptsd. But Im not gonna make myself paranoid if i dont feel a persons energy or if theyre out to harm you thats just thinking to much youre just stressing yourself out ,for me personally i just detatched from past trauma n act like it never happened, took care myself joined martial arts its hard to explain but im in a way better place than to sit dwell n be worried about getting hurt on it even though i have my bad days ik its easier said than done but the last thing id want is to be reminded of trauma and being able to move foward knowing God is changing things for the good and things are getting better each day plus ive met some new people abd an amazing woman ever since just moving foward n not living in fear
Thank you or this advice as I am an Empath. So, if I cannot feel someone's energy, I understand. But, I also feel negative vibes and feelings from people who ultimately turn out to be toxic and narcissistic. Before I even know they are toxic or narcissistic. I can read them and feel a lot coming from them. I also feel good feelings and emotions from good, honest, empathic people. So, you're saying if you can't feel a person, be careful and leave. I'll try to rmr this.
Yes @simplemeTanja, so insightful. I totally get what you are saying!! There is nothing there almost with the N, so you almost feel like you can relax. They are completely self involved. It feels like they aren’t bothered about getting anything much from you. However the longer you are with them, the more you realise there is something they want from you in the “narcissist“ sense and the draining and hurtful impact of this becomes clear.
Learning boundaries was key in my life as an empath. I’m still working on them. I’m finally in a place where I’m looking for No validation or approval and people feel that too.
I am so telepathic is can see what others think, in a image ,, just a new abilty from the Lord ❤🙏🏼
Very Cool...!!! Do you feel their feelings/energy, as well? Going to ask God for that Incredible gift. Maybe I will be blessed with it, too. Merry Christmas...🎄 🎁🎄
Yeahh absolutely, But also the verry Evil Entitie,s that are floating everywhere,, thats not always fun or cool i can tell you… and its verry hard to master the difference,,,because we got all different thoughts the whole day on
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So cool! I have aphantasia and can’t even comprehend what you’re saying. Do you see the image in your mind? I’m a super empath that can physically feel emotions and get a download of their pain.
Oh wow
What about me?
I just got out of a 15 year narcissistic relationship after something so traumatic that happened to me. I didn’t know anything about spiritual awakening anything. It’s like someone spoke to me said get up i then told myself I choose my life. I went silent started studying him everything he has ever done said to me his actions. I had to dig deep down within myself reframe my whole mindset it was painful and long process but it was all so worth it like huge weight lifted. I DID THAT. 🙌🏽
We were living in New Zealand and had to leave when our visa expired. We had a green screen studio and had to tear down the green screen at the end of our lease, before we moved back to Canada. Our contractor quit on us without notice (he got a higher paying project), and he left us in the lurch without even telling us. I was so angry, I was seething mad. And I was ranting to my husband about it at our studio. Our son, who lived about 15 miles away, texted me when I was ranting and said "Are you okay?" He knew, he felt it, and he responded to it.
More recently, I coughed (due to it being allergy season) and my husband said he felt my cough in his own throat. I believe him. That super ability is your ability to join your energy field with another's energy field...and feel their feelings.
Today, I had to tell my brother and his girlfriend that the distribution from our inheritance would be delayed from late May this year to July 4 this year. I could feel the cold and darkness when they read my email. I had to get a blanket it was so cold. And I felt sick and weak. This lasted about an hour. Then it subsided. Those energetic flows that come from others are like energy packets that you play within your own energy field. And you experience that other person's feelings. It's quite amazing. Thanks for this video, it helps me understand all of this more.
You are so insightful. I'm 35 and still trying to heal my feelings from being neglected. My mood can go from 100 to 0 in a matter of seconds. I go from happy, to mad to sad and can easily get discouraged and down on myself.
35 here too and I am saving this video to watch later since it's 4:20 a.m. (which made me realize my timing is unintentionally perfect & I'm awake about to hit this 🌿 to ease my chronic painsomnia 🦋🎶🦉)
I hope to learn to love myself again after all the DV/R/SA, A 2 year straight obsessed stalker, followed up with not 1, but 2 narcissist exes.
I have been a people pleasing, invisible, empathetic filled optimist since my youth.
That mixed with the endured abuse, I have struggled with PTSD as well ... I am now hyper aware of body language, the energy I feel, moods and behavioral changes..... I am in a dark place since my breakup a week before Christmas (my son's dad).. I'm drowning in emotional dysregulation like you stated as well as the negative mindset that has long ago overruled my optimism.
I am trying and will keep trying bc I believe in self love.
I don't really have a support system anymore, and so it's been challenging; plus, achingly lonely.
This man has helped me so much with my curse/gift. It really can be a gift if you can control your own emotions, learn your own self worth and value and create a space for yourself to get away.
Identifying how I became an empath was eye opening. I think I was born with so much compassion and sensitivity but my childhood made it so I could read people instantly for my protection and self defense. It saved us I believe being an empath was a necessary super power that is a survival skill and am grateful for it.
I personally do not give to get and do not spread kindness with expectations of getting something back in return.
I have learned rather recently ... You cannot always expect what you give to be returned to you... Just because you are kind and patient with others, does not mean they will reciprocate the same respect back to you. Healing is real and I agree is very important for the sake of our own health and also for the sake of the relationships on our lives.
Don't be walked all over. Say No when you need to, stand up for yourself when you need to and people pleasing is not a healthy way to live.
Thank you for sharing all your videos!!
Aaron always knocks it right outta the park!! Been following him for going on 7 years now!! Great videos and SO helpful!! Love him!!
My mom did physically leave when I was 14 and moved to another state after divorcing my stepdad and remarrying 3 months later. The abandonment issues I've had are high-level, and I am now 40 years old; divorced from a controlling narcissist and alcoholic. Luckily I was able to get out of that relationship, however, I have no trust now. I can read people quite easily and almost see a color around them, and their energy can easily change mine from 0-100 in less than a second. I also trust my gut, that has gotten me out of a few possibly dangerous situations.
I learned from a life of narcissists.
I have been tested so much until I get sick to my stomach literally. I get dizzy and nauseated. I start to sweat until it feels like Mourning sickness. My Spirit will not allow me in their energy for long.
It took a lot for me not to train myself not to care, but my best friend, who is an empath, taught me to do it. It is so peaceful, and it allows me to really use my gift where it’s needed, rather than on being a people-pleaser. I’ve come such a long way, but I’m thankful for every bit of it, because I can possibly help others, including my children if any of them are empaths.
This is soooo true. The description of how that empathic ability impacts your own feelings is accurate.
I was abandoned by my mother at age 2. This makes a lot of sense to me and how I have developed over the last 50 years.
Thank you so much. I’m a very sensitive empath and am very aware of my wounds but this really opened up my eyes to be even more aware of how I respond to others’ energy.
My father in law has a lot of anger, so he huffs and puffs at everything, and it really affects me. Its hard to spend a lot of time near him.
God is the one that is great and take care of all. 🙏🏾
I'm literally bawling right now. I was meant to hear this. EVERY THING ur saying is EXACTLY me. Omg. I have hope again. Thank you thank you. ❤
I'm an empath and this video really explained, right on point, my life so far and all the challenges I've faced. I've tried to heal my inner child for 4 years now, and I think my biggest challenge is that I don't quite know if I'm really REALLY living my 'true self' due to that low sense of 'self'...... sometimes I wished I could just stop connecting and sensing all the vibes out there so I can be like ' oh so this is how my own vibe feels like' 😂
Yay! You're doing it, the live events you were talking about! I'm so happy for you and your team ❤
it isnt a need for validation or approval as an adult, its not wanting to get beat up! has anyone noticed when your throat gets tight and your anxious around someone, they are going through something and see you as something they can ACTUALLY step on and destroy? the awareness is real. people are actually evil and cannot cope- AKA. my bosses or older women in experience, but also men.
Fantastic Aaron, this found me at a time I needed it. Everything is always working out for me, because I've learned so much from people like you. Thank you and much love!
This hit it on the head of the nail for me! Wow! Thank you Aaron!
I am so happy and happy that I am no longer crazy lost person because I am well educated for what happened against them. I felt more confident . I got myself back together in one place. Before I was out of the place being a "lost" person. I know myself , love myself, forgave myself, and focus what I love to do.
I feel like I resonate with this! Large crowds are hard on me too! I am almost 6 years single because I also attract narcissists. I’m also very intuitive and the world is scary. Since I started my journey almost 6 years ago I use to shut myself in like a hermit crab at first, I am learning to feel more comfortable as myself in this world. Anyhow, I hate being a people pleaser but love helping people. Sorry my comment is everywhere…
Yes, just fantastic and inspirational to watch you continue to grow into you. Fully embodying all you stand for. Bravo Aaron!
I'm struggling with blocking everyone's else's energy. No one leaves me alone. I feel like i have to move way and it just really sucks i have to go to that extreme...
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do it
Let me guess u drive slow?
I also feel like no one leaves me alone. I wonder if thats empathy related.
@azn9886 I guess you don't have a heart...Do you ever feel empathy... Have a talk with Our father before you judge...AMEN
I love how grungy and real you are.
You left my track when you drew the conclusion that people pleasers give to get. Sure, sometimes. But that's not always the case. Sometimes they give to soley appease. Sometimes they give for no other reason than to avoid the negative energy that saying no gives them. Sometimes there is no expected return. Sometimes you simply oblige and endure.
spot on he missed the mark with that one
Yeah gotta agree
All those other reasons you listed still yield a 'return' to the giver. Think about it 😉 you might not do things to get a physical object in return (money, favors, etc), but you still get something out of it. Good feelings, a sense of safety, appreciation, etc. I have found that when I'm in a bad mental state the easiest way to pull myself out of it is to do something random to help a stranger. I get nothing from that stranger other than maybe a smile or a thank you or some other genuine sign of gratitude, but knowing I was able to help somebody else hurt less makes me hurt less. So to his point, I also get something out of it 🤷
I just try to be nice, when I was young I would describe myself more as a people please. I'm not anymore. I'm nice to people until they're not nice to me, when people mess with me, I mess with them back. I try to keep people at a distance now.
My mom and I have been talking about this stuff because we are people pleasers. I’m learning to stand up for myself and teaching the same to my young people pleasing daughter.
Amen Aaron.. Thank you for sharing this with everyone.. something I have been trying to explain to people around me.
Damn. This hit HARDCORE!! I was aware of these things, but the way you put it into words gave me an even deeper clarity than I've ever had before! You brought on the waterworks for sure... Thank you~ Liked, Shared, Saved, & Subscribed.
Wow! Just Wow!
Hi Aaron. Came across this video out of the many and thought I’d watch it. Really glad I did.
I am an empath. To the point I see shadows & hear whispers around certain people. It can make me feel sick at times but I’m learning to ground and dig deeper to why I feel it this way. Not easy, confronting, but I’m feeling more in myself.
I grew up being a people pleaser and came from a rough and broken home. I was often alone and always craving that motherly warmth.
Generational trauma etc.
Still digging but feeling more ME than I’ve ever felt.
I realised if I didn’t look back and find, face what was at the root, I’d never feel free…. This video just re-affirmed that.
Thank you!
I can watch other channels with (some) the same information, but only you and Dolores have such a way to get the information across to us that my soul feels like it knows you. Odd for me but im rolling with it:) Thank you for never giving up on YT
So happy for you Aaron to manifest what you wanted to do 💙🌻✨
Wow there you are !! Ive been watching you since you first started on TH-cam, with your short hair just starting out on this YT journey to share your knowledge with thr world! You disappeared from my YT for a little while and now your back! I believe there is a reason you're back on my feed again and it would make sense with the changes I'm currently going through! Congratulations on your success and nice to see your face again ! 🙏🏻
i truly believe Aaron is the wisest living person right now
I am 100% empath and it’s exhausting. I’m so glad I found your video tonight, everything you say I completely agree with. I can’t wait to watch more and hope to get to know you better. You have a genuine heart ,and beautiful energy ❤
I feel you
Thank you Aaron. I've needed this. Quite the Blessing. 🙏
I really appreciate you and your videos. They put into words for me of how I grew up and still do now at 57. I’ve always felt like I never really grew up. I work 7 days a week and when I’m tired I just stop working and I’m not hard on myself. I have been treating myself kindly lately. Self care and treat myself to massages and nice meals etc. I do enjoy my own company.
This breakdown was amazing, thank you! 🙏🏼
Yes we definitely leave an “imprint”
On our children bc they are closely watching us to learn and interact and bond and sometimes we learn the wrong way to get our love. Once we are aware of that I think it’s half the battle .. the awareness is where it’s an opening to learn and grow out of that habitual behavior
🙏🏾❤️ I was looking for confirmation and was blessed by running into your video thank you
I LOVE it how you’re in your divine masculine power, not afraid to vocalise show your boundaries. Being in your divine masculine power and vocalising it, it’s to be respected and admired. It’s good that you’re not a push over and that you will stand up to that kind of energy.
Also when you said
“JUST LET IT BE BABY”
My heart and soul melted, my nervous system completely blissed out like heaven when you spoke like that! Haha. That’s an extremely rare effect on me. That was powerful too haha! 😄♾️🚀🚀🌌💞🙌🏻
It also inspired me too because you’re right! I do get uptight and impatient sometimes so I do need to let it be, trust the process, the universe, so I thank your soul for saying that ❤
I give to relieve others of their own discomfort.... because if they're more balanced I'm happier in their company. I learned how to protect myself over the years and not take on nor do it for personal gain, other than feeling better myself because the person is not in discomfort.
I even feel animals’ energies which gets really tough at times with strays as you can imagine.
That's an amazing gift ...
@@Betulaaah not absurd! I’m with you- it’s why I can’t even kill an ant!- the expression “wouldn’t hurt a fly” truly fits!
I feel only animals. Not people at all
Yep 💯 I know the truth behind their sentences too.. just learning to separate what is mine and what isn't mine ❤
What makes me happy? Seeing others happy :)
Arron! I just had you come up in my you tube feed. I saw the one where you were still transitioning to a you tuber. How your family made fun of you. I hope they see your light now 🙏🏼 I usually search for answers or a teaching. You are one of the most real energy I have felt through a video. I am so glad you stuck with your want in life. You make me proud as a mother. You are a dynamic human being and I look forward to learning more from you. Thank you for all you are doing. You are making a difference. I am on my way! ❤ keep up the good energy because I know it’s not work anymore, you are in flow. 😊😊😊
That honestly makes a lot of sense, also explains why it feels good to give to give rather than when you feel insecure/unsafe so you're giving because you've been conditioned that that's how to receive love. That's the missing connection though, so thank you for leading me to it
I only felt someone else’s energy clearly once. My dog will panic if there is thunder and she runs to me so I hold her. One time I was holding her close to my chest. I felt all this anxiety and fear come through my chest. I could feel it like it was my own but also I knew in my mind I wasn’t afraid of anything since we’ve done this countless times. I could only feel those emotions in my chest. I didn’t believe in being empathic until that happened to me. Now I think emotions, the human brain, chakras and so on is much more complex than we’ve been lead to believe and even animals must have some kind of chakra system.
It’s easy to ignore if you’ve never felt it
Thank you for shining light on the comparison of the empath and narcissist. That is huge for accountability and acceptance.
I’ve learned a great deal from Aaron’s videos. Including Gateway, energy healing etc.
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Damn, that was really good.
You are absolutely exceptional at your work, and I am so grateful for your presence on this planet
Dame Aaron this was fire 🔥 🔥🔥 so good brother. So much truth that the world needs to hear this is how we heal the world 🌎 ❤️ 🙏 ♥️
your "self versus other" candle technique helped me sooo much!!
Yesssss I keep attracting female narcissists (thanks abusive alcoholic abusive Mom for the download of my lack of self worth lol) and I am finally working as an assistant to one and I've recognized her attributes are for her sense of "power" so I choose to treat her differently than others I've encountered... keeping my energetic boundaries with her and she doesn't respond the way she usually does to others. it's awesome!
I was guided to this by grace and it’s definitely useful and confirmation ❤
I can feel my lover energy when he hug me it's strong an I can feel it flowing to me
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Absolutely, when the answer is “no”, that is all you need to say, none of us have to explain our position at all.
Those who love us and acceptance is for who we are, will take “no” as an answer, those who try to push the envelope, who try to bully you or manipulate you do not have your best interest at heart
Another hard lesson learned for me, but a joyous and victorious lesson, I have my power back!
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The best comment iv read so far or maybe not the best but definitely made the most since of all the ones I have read
Thank you Aaron. This is brilliant 🎯
I love this. I’m going to learn to say no more often❤
Thank you for never failing with your videos you’ve changed my life in many ways
Thank you for creating this and posting it. You are helping many people. Bless you
Woooow! You just blew my mind!!! …the part about empath vs narcissist manipulating in their own ways… 🤯
Thank you for LA it was the best 3 days of my life
loved this 🙏thank you
Aaron, you helped me through some rough Awakenings. Things that used to take me years to heal from.
I am now getting to a higher frequency within 1 week now. I still am working, not in 💯 but I am getting there. I notice the more I heal, myself surroundings change for the better. My children seem to have raised their frequencies as well.
So true, I used to be able to walk past people, when I was about 10 years old, I can hear thoughts that weren't even in my head.
The lessons keep repeated until we become aware of them to heal within ...
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Bravo!!
Learning to say “no” was one of the hardest things I’ve had to learn.
One of the things that I have learned in the process is that we actually give others opportunity for growth when we have healthy boundaries
For me, if something is asked of me, and it is not a good idea I will feel nauseous in my stomach, that’s how I know the answer is “no”
It applies to something I may do or say or think
I just found you on TH-cam and I think I’m really digging you !
Thank you for your work!
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Both people pleasers (oral type) and narcissist ( anal type) are unconsciously trying to repair their unmet needs. This is biological. Like a wound try’s to heal so doesn’t an unmet need. Both are driven by repressed pain ( anxiety). In another way of looking at it both are trying to get the love ( unconditional ) that their caregivers didn’t give. Both will be using self talk as a soothing mechanism. This will never work. The oral type has great capacity to change but the narcissist has tremendous trouble changing.
Both carry the shadow part of the other.Orals have disowned their anger and anals their empathy. Both are wearing survival fake masks and many don’t realise it.