If a Man really wants you.....he will NOT come with a bunch of excuses......he will just go get his money up and give you the lifestyle you want to feel safe and secured.....period
Exactly, if a man working minimum wage can work a sh*t ton of hours just to get a girl some gifts, then there really are no excuses, he just doesn't like the girl at all
If a man really understands money, he knows that beauty fades and about diminishing returns.He's investing for a lifetime not in your lifestyle. You sound broke.
literally had a guy bring up sex many many times first date then i asked for money and he said he couldn't do that bc he was looking for something real 😂 these men are comedians
@Belladonas "playing games" is far more prevalent in women than it is in men. Maybe the reason men cheat is because they don't want to play games? Just a thought...
Shera, you have a LOT of other content creators who are jealous of you, the message, and your success. Don’t let them get in your head. Continue to be nice, feminine, and maintain that girlfriend to girlfriend vibe.
@@MAGABaddieTV I used to tell my friends a few years back..they didn’t get it so I been gatekeeping SheRa…I’ll show my nieces though because my “friends” obviously didn’t respect my advice. They out still crying and shit..being surprised by cheating husbands while I’m emotionally detached.
I know someone who was in a 7 year relationship Gave him everything & I do mean EVERYTHING he wanted... He still left her with the bills. She's taking him to court to at least recover because she wants to buy a house & clean up her credit. And now she's with a baller who pays for everything
The guy I was engaged to was put on back child support 75k by his baby momma 40k court fees and she was awarded 2k a month after that ordeal he stated being mean to me and asking what bill I was gna pay. I walked away. It’s not worth it, sprinkle sprinkle
She is right, do not care! When you care more about yourself and be mature about it, they start going crazy. He started crashing out when he realized I stopped caring !
I became so picky when men call me on first date and don't try to impress me with money that guy never see or hear me again. If men offer me money on first date but start talking about s3x on that first date he also never see me again
@@hillsideonly Boy you are broke. I promise that no one is mooching off of you. If we saw you holding a cup we'd put a coin in it before we ask you for money lmaoo 😂😂😂
I met one like that last year. He asked to see me ,I told him we could hangout at the mall and buy stuff. he said he isn't financially buouyant at the moment. I blocked him immediately. Why would I hangout with your teethless mouth and dry pockets
One of the best videos.Women are attracting not chasing .we shouldnt attach to them emotionaliy bc they dont ,the man is the provider we should stop caring ..if I knew all these advices before 😢😢😢😢😢
The fact that one of the girls asked what she should do about her “friends” fiancé is exactly whyyyy I don’t care to have too many female friends… and another example of keeping your girl “friends” away from ur man / relationship 😊
Ty Shera you have helped me wise up. I’m 41 and I’m done with the dusties. Currently single and will be until a man comes correct. I’m too old to be building a grown man up.
I am in my 60's and have learn from Shera. I only wish I had this info earlier. I would have been spared from relationship drama. I am in a relationship with a man around my age but can pass for 45. I told him I'm 54 since they like you never women. I paid to$ 5,000.00 to have my car-and so far is doing it all. Thanks Shera, sprinkle/sprinkle!❤
I'm in my 50s and am just realizing how ignorant I was. I discovered Shera last week and for the first time since my divorce nearly a decade ago, I actually have an interest in dating. She's given me a blueprint to follow in order to find a relationship that benefits ME.
I’d say its probably the majority. Most of us women realize we’re in dead-end user type relationships, but we need Shera’s encouragement to have the confidence and knowledge to make the change. ✨✨✨ Sprinkle sprinkle!
I really needed this video. Thank you, Shera! This guy I went on 7 long dates with stopped asking me out and it has been a month since I saw him. No calls, no texts either. He came on strong. I still care and wonder why he disappeared. He just doesn't care, right? Will just care about myself and my money going forward.
Men date multiple women all the time, so you should do the same. Never stay just with only one if you are dating (you are not his wife). Dont worry, he will come back (they always do) but never take him back (if he comes back it is bc nobody wanted him. Date at other people with money, keep on looking for what you want, stay connected with your needs and wishes
@@iaf4454 Thank you for your advice. I have already been dating 3 other men and trying to meet more. I still got attached to the first guy because he seemed sincere and kept showing up 2-3 times a week for a month, unlike the other ones. I got too busy at work in the past month, and found myself wondering why he did not call or ask me out again after he celebrated my birthday with me during our last date in April. Time to move on. Online dating really is not the solution.🥲
@@iaf4454 Thank you for your advice. I have already been dating 3 other men besides this first guy, but still got attached since he seemed sincere and consistent for a month. The other dates fizzled out and my work got busy, so I could not go out meetig new guys this month. It made me fixate on this guy who disappeared. Once I finish my project at work, I will go out and date 5 more guys to move on. Thanks for your kind messages.
She had another video where she explained it well. You should not care. You shouldn’t even think about the reasons why. He must have found something else, so will you . Send you lots of courage 😊
38:55 Reason for not Feel bad to be a bad person 39:37 Being program to accept way less; do the most for the least 39:52 Program = feel bad bc The program that kicking in to discipline you, when no one is there to tell you, you’re asking for too much, when no one is there to call you names; you start to do it to yourself, that’s what you’ve been program with = that’s what we called being programmed
Thank you Shera for being a beautiful light in this world and helping women know their worth and stand up for themselves. You are doing important work 💕
Not caring is THE best thing I have ever done!! Any guy that dares to bring up sex to me on a first , second or even third date is getting a list of my bills. 😅
50:07 it’s not always that we are their last option. I got invited to a wedding last minute and the guy just decided last minute he wanted to go. I told him since it was so last minute I needed help with buying an outfit if he wanted me to go with him. I got the entire new outfit heels included plus underwear from Victoria secret! Ask girls! Don’t be afraid! We deserve it all especially for all we do for these men. And in return I was his prize for the night and he got to show me off! He said he loved it! He took me shopping the next day bc it went so well then we went to dinner
What does It means when your New date whos a farmer with a lot of money And profeet from his parents tells you im a normal Guy a farmer boy im happy with normal things, when we eating at a fancy restaurant. And then hé made and example that people from where i live are direct and people from his country are more polite and told me : if i would think your ugly i wouldn’t say it like that but i”ll be polite 😂😮 Wtf what to do with him?!? Its The second date
“Women are taught to invest emotionally when they should have been taught to receive financially”… Words of Wisdom
They knew we would become unstoppable once we were taught to receive financially 🤣 that’s why they did it teach us that
If a Man really wants you.....he will NOT come with a bunch of excuses......he will just go get his money up and give you the lifestyle you want to feel safe and secured.....period
Simple ❤
Exactly, if a man working minimum wage can work a sh*t ton of hours just to get a girl some gifts, then there really are no excuses, he just doesn't like the girl at all
That part
If a man really understands money, he knows that beauty fades and about diminishing returns.He's investing for a lifetime not in your lifestyle. You sound broke.
@@NonProphet500 i wish that was true but if that makes sleep well at night then OH WELL!!
literally had a guy bring up sex many many times first date then i asked for money and he said he couldn't do that bc he was looking for something real 😂 these men are comedians
😂😂😂
😭😭😭😭😭😭
😂😂😂😂
Women are catching on to the lies😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Glad i found you at my 20's before choosing my future husband
Ughhhhh me too
Same 26 here
@@JeanRoss-js9ysMe too!
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Shera is helping us get out off this stupid games men play on us.
Delusional
Men don't play games, they either like you or they don't 😂
Apparently they don't.
@@alkrueger8269 they play games even with ladies they claim they like, that's why the word "cheating" exist
@Belladonas women cheat just as much if not more than men do, they're just sneakier about it.
@Belladonas "playing games" is far more prevalent in women than it is in men. Maybe the reason men cheat is because they don't want to play games? Just a thought...
“Before you cook, ask him what he wants as his last meal” 😭
She’s hilarious 😂
😂
😭😭
😂💀💀💀
🤣🤣🤣 too funny
I definitely used to do too much. I cringe to think about it.
SAME 😭😩🤦🏻♀️
Nah babe, we live and learn
Absolutely! I know of this cringe. So glad we both are in better self-loving mentalities now!😊
Way too much 17:10
@@Joodz_Zkywalkeryes. I can tell a dusty a mile away. And I know how to stop my old “pick me” habits in its tracks.
Shera, you have a LOT of other content creators who are jealous of you, the message, and your success. Don’t let them get in your head. Continue to be nice, feminine, and maintain that girlfriend to girlfriend vibe.
❤❤❤
Shera is so real ❤
I did notice she was a tad bit short during this live specifically. I hope she’s doing alright mentally I know social media can be a lot
Like who
Lol that’s what so great about her she gives zero F’s about her haters. She talked about it before she’s fab.
I’ve been subscribed to Sherah for 8 years & I tell all of my female friends to watch her. She saved my sanity when it comes to these men
@@MAGABaddieTV I used to tell my friends a few years back..they didn’t get it so I been gatekeeping SheRa…I’ll show my nieces though because my “friends” obviously didn’t respect my advice. They out still crying and shit..being surprised by cheating husbands while I’m emotionally detached.
@@MAGABaddieTV if your trying to save your sanity consider not Chad and Tyrone
Amen
@@MAGABaddieTV she’s a terrible example for young women. If I have a daughter I wouldn’t want her to watch of any of this
I know someone who was in a 7 year relationship Gave him everything & I do mean EVERYTHING he wanted... He still left her with the bills. She's taking him to court to at least recover because she wants to buy a house & clean up her credit. And now she's with a baller who pays for everything
Years of stupidity leaving my body as I listen to Shera 💆♀️
Shera is so right I put on makeup and did my hair lost abit of weight now and honestly I have people serving me like never before! How strange!
😂❤ if you continue to lose weight. Its a whole new game!
Whewww! They’re going to be on you!!!!
💯💯💯
Facts sissy 🥳❤
@@African.Diaspora.InLondonUKyes!!
Shera seven really helped me to Dump my 7years relationship Dusty Bf .I was once Barabara the builder 😂😂
yes girl bye to the dust
Congratulations! ✨✨✨
And you learned 😅 now you are the bad one
Congrats
🙌🏾🙌🏾Happy for you!!!
"Never give a man a makeover because they would attract other girls to spend their money!" 😂😂😂😂😂❤
The guy I was engaged to was put on back child support 75k by his baby momma 40k court fees and she was awarded 2k a month after that ordeal he stated being mean to me and asking what bill I was gna pay. I walked away. It’s not worth it, sprinkle sprinkle
sheeesh girl he tryna get you to finance his mistake. In the binnnnn
Best decision you made!!!
Yes a broke man is an angry man!
@@nanamichelle73 right!!!! 🤣🤣
Guess what, they get so offended when you STOP CARING
“Im not ready to cook or clean for anybody that's threatening me unless they want diarrhea” I'm dead
I was so glad I wasn't eating when I heard that. I would have had a mess to clean.
The French word for dust is...poussiere 🤣🤣🤣 poussies literally 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
Should have been taught this in the old French lesson - would have saved "beaucoup de temps" lol 😂
😂😂😂😂😂
The etymology isn’t etymologying
😂💀💀🥹
She is right, do not care! When you care more about yourself and be mature about it, they start going crazy. He started crashing out when he realized I stopped caring !
I became so picky when men call me on first date and don't try to impress me with money that guy never see or hear me again. If men offer me money on first date but start talking about s3x on that first date he also never see me again
Oh guys, what we do with our lives without aurora mooching off on us 😂😂
@@hillsideonly Boy you are broke. I promise that no one is mooching off of you. If we saw you holding a cup we'd put a coin in it before we ask you for money lmaoo 😂😂😂
@@hillsideonly baby you are broke. No one is mooching off of you. You spend all day here instead of investing in things that benefit you.
@@yk-who-it-is brokie, stop projecting your neediness and greed on me.
@@hillsideonly struck a nerve did I? 😏
Shera saved countless lives from sui^ide dealin with these men thinking women were the problem.
So TRUE.
FACTS
Women are only the problem because they have no money
girl you kill me, you have the perfect solution to every problem 💕😂😂
Already reached a point of not caring a few years ago & it's very liberating!
The peace that comes with not caring is absolutely wonderful!
“Dusty’s can’t afford it because they’re on child support with one stream of income “ so true 😂
“We don’t take loans, we take gifts.”🔥🔥🔥
At 36:45 that 65 years old man thinking a 22 yrs old girl will date him for anything else other than money🤣🤣🤣
He probably thinks he’s hot
😂😂😂😂😂
I met one like that last year. He asked to see me ,I told him we could hangout at the mall and buy stuff. he said he isn't financially buouyant at the moment. I blocked him immediately. Why would I hangout with your teethless mouth and dry pockets
same I'm 28 and a 60 Yr old making excuses on government, economy & inflation rates when i ask for expensive stuff even though he got money 😂
@@mameemunza1247😂😂
In Shera we trust! Hollering..... Telling truths!
“Go out in the real world and see what you can really pull” 💯
That fact the she would even ask about entertaining a friend’s fiancé says it all.
🤮
We got to be selective with who we call “friends”
I thought the same thing.
Supreme pickme leftover scavenger shit 😂 embarrassing
Um he isn't a fiance obviously 😂he's up for grabs 🙄
I'm watching this as a goodnight story, manifesting 😂
Yes I play her videos as bedtime stories and during the day 😂
Meeee too
One of the best videos.Women are attracting not chasing .we shouldnt attach
to them emotionaliy bc they dont ,the man is the provider we should stop caring ..if I knew all these advices before 😢😢😢😢😢
Never too late ❤
"Tell him to shop on Temu and he got a $10 limit" this woman is the great philosopher of our time lmfao
From time to time I come back for a refresher course
Me too girl❤ we gotta stay on point
Dumped my dusty of 10 years thanks to you!❤
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🎉🎉
Facts. Just decide not to GAF.
Thank YOU SO MUCH for your messages. We got to think more like men do and STOP caring too much. PERIOD.
@@LunaGatuna888 nah act like a woman not like a man. No man want your masculine energy
SheRa always gets me right together…gets my head out of the clouds. 🚫☁️
She is so amazing. We need to protect this woman ❤
I AM SCREAMING @ "tell him to go on Temu"😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
The fact that one of the girls asked what she should do about her “friends” fiancé is exactly whyyyy I don’t care to have too many female friends… and another example of keeping your girl “friends” away from ur man / relationship 😊
This whole video is the best comedy that I’ve watch all year long.😂 This woman is the Goat!
I’m with you on that one. Lately I watch Sheera as a mood pick up too. 😂
Ty Shera you have helped me wise up. I’m 41 and I’m done with the dusties. Currently single and will be until a man comes correct. I’m too old to be building a grown man up.
Im 23 and she is telling the truth im getting into my bag of degree and own business . Young women need to stop wastingnour time on useless
Those English novels on Pride and Prejudice........Those men were sought upon to be able to care for all the Women, in her family! Ijs
I am in my 60's and have learn from Shera. I only wish I had this info earlier. I would have been spared from relationship drama. I am in a relationship with a man around my age but can pass for 45. I told him I'm 54 since they like you never women. I paid to$ 5,000.00 to have my car-and so far is doing it all. Thanks Shera, sprinkle/sprinkle!❤
I'm in my 50s and am just realizing how ignorant I was. I discovered Shera last week and for the first time since my divorce nearly a decade ago, I actually have an interest in dating.
She's given me a blueprint to follow in order to find a relationship that benefits ME.
Sprinkle sprinkle
drizzle drizzle
Her giggles are priceless :)
"Yall on your break from the drive thru?" 😂😂
I'm so glad I was working from home cause I spit out my drink !!😅😅😅😅
😂😂😂 usually the dusties at the drive thru
I was with a dusty for 8 years. Shera really opened my eyes.
Literally going through a heartbreak 💔 man who don't care...thanks Shera
Same
Men’s taste change when they bank account change 😂
I am stopping from now on my Barabara the builder activities. Thank you so much!
Dusty roommate pet had me right there😭😂😭😂😭
I wonder how many ladies are in dusty and hobosmexual and Barbara the builder relationships while also regularly listening to Shera 🤔
I’d say its probably the majority. Most of us women realize we’re in dead-end user type relationships, but we need Shera’s encouragement to have the confidence and knowledge to make the change. ✨✨✨ Sprinkle sprinkle!
@@flattery1111facts. Same boat
😂😂😂 many, rich men are few, minus gays of those rich men.
@@flattery1111nah I think most women who watch Shera are single looking for a provider than in a dead end relationship.
Meee😂🎉
All this lady does is speak facts !! ❤❤
I really needed this video. Thank you, Shera! This guy I went on 7 long dates with stopped asking me out and it has been a month since I saw him. No calls, no texts either. He came on strong. I still care and wonder why he disappeared. He just doesn't care, right? Will just care about myself and my money going forward.
Men date multiple women all the time, so you should do the same. Never stay just with only one if you are dating (you are not his wife). Dont worry, he will come back (they always do) but never take him back (if he comes back it is bc nobody wanted him.
Date at other people with money, keep on looking for what you want, stay connected with your needs and wishes
@@iaf4454 Thank you for your advice. I have already been dating 3 other men and trying to meet more. I still got attached to the first guy because he seemed sincere and kept showing up 2-3 times a week for a month, unlike the other ones. I got too busy at work in the past month, and found myself wondering why he did not call or ask me out again after he celebrated my birthday with me during our last date in April. Time to move on. Online dating really is not the solution.🥲
@@iaf4454 Thank you for your advice. I have already been dating 3 other men besides this first guy, but still got attached since he seemed sincere and consistent for a month. The other dates fizzled out and my work got busy, so I could not go out meetig new guys this month. It made me fixate on this guy who disappeared. Once I finish my project at work, I will go out and date 5 more guys to move on. Thanks for your kind messages.
@@iaf4454period!
She had another video where she explained it well. You should not care. You shouldn’t even think about the reasons why. He must have found something else, so will you . Send you lots of courage 😊
Your videos give me SO much strength. Thank you SO much!!!
Thanks!
Yesss do it in person! You weed out weirdos and know what you really need to improve! Theres no filters, angles, etc
You go girl give me some money or get out my face I'm laughing so hard I'm crying!!🤣🤣🤣🥰
38:55 Reason for not Feel bad to be a bad person
39:37 Being program to accept way less; do the most for the least
39:52 Program = feel bad bc The program that kicking in to discipline you, when no one is there to tell you, you’re asking for too much, when no one is there to call you names; you start to do it to yourself, that’s what you’ve been program with = that’s what we called being programmed
After 5 years…this knowledge is so embedded in my soul. So thankful ❤
I just got on here! Girl........Sprinkle Sprinkle!❤
Thank you Shera for being a beautiful light in this world and helping women know their worth and stand up for themselves. You are doing important work 💕
Stopping by for a reality check. ✨
“Why does he swindle me” ?
Because he doesn’t care!!
Remind yourself who you are! 😍
This whole part right here! Stop caring. I need this
Not caring is THE best thing I have ever done!! Any guy that dares to bring up sex to me on a first , second or even third date is getting a list of my bills. 😅
The first 15 minutes of this live is what I needed to hear thank you
"Brush your teeth, wash your face 😂😂😂
50:07 it’s not always that we are their last option. I got invited to a wedding last minute and the guy just decided last minute he wanted to go. I told him since it was so last minute I needed help with buying an outfit if he wanted me to go with him. I got the entire new outfit heels included plus underwear from Victoria secret! Ask girls! Don’t be afraid! We deserve it all especially for all we do for these men. And in return I was his prize for the night and he got to show me off! He said he loved it! He took me shopping the next day bc it went so well then we went to dinner
You never fail me Shera
A loan? That's a dusty lol. Bye dust. I never got offered a loan.
I don’t even know what a loan is
Not bye dust 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Manifesting Russell energy ✨
Less than two minutes in and I'm hooked! I definitely subscribed.❤
I hope that you and the family are safe from the stormy weather in Houston. ✨🌹❤️
Shera is literally the goat
Shera I always come back when I need a ruthless telling off 🥰
As a fellow Pisces I’m so happy I found you man ❤
This lady so real and funny 😂❤
Shera should make decoy book covers so we can read her book at the bar and he'll never know 🤭🤫
GREAT IDEA
@Delight422 thanks 🥰
😂
I only care about my dad, siblings and my money. Idgaf about nothing else😂
This one right here is easy I ain’t gave a shit since shit was given 🤣🤣 not going get me paid
I’ve noticed making them spend does make them stay in a way but it’s sad you’ll never find a friend a man fr
Just came on to see if you’re ok. Those storms passing through Houston yesterday looked pretty nasty.
Hope all is well.
💖💖
Thank you for a refresh on my favourite topic
Shera!!!! That Judge Judy comment was the unadulterated truth, I'm with you when ya right, sprinkle sprinkle
What does It means when your New date whos a farmer with a lot of money And profeet from his parents tells you im a normal Guy a farmer boy im happy with normal things, when we eating at a fancy restaurant.
And then hé made and example that people from where i live are direct and people from his country are more polite and told me : if i would think your ugly i wouldn’t say it like that but i”ll be polite 😂😮
Wtf what to do with him?!? Its The second date
Use the alcohol for what it's for 😅😂 I just hollered 😂😂😂
Listening to u its one of my fave things to do❤
« Take me to coffee cause I am ugly and broke » app 😂😂😂😂😂 1:41:02
A man investing on his women with his money is FACTS 💯
back to basics!
In that order! You got money ✅ you a decent person ✅ don’t really care what you look like 😂
Dusties On their lunch break from their drive throughs 😂😂😂😂
Thank you for tangible solutions Shera! You’re the best!!
1:41:03 coffee date 😂😂😂😂😂😂 ooooh no I wasnt expecting that Kind of savagerie ❤❤❤
You are so funny. You always have me laughing when I watch your videos 😂😂😂😂😂💀💀
Sprinkle sprinkle ✨🩷
Can you do a live on how to set men up from the first conversation/interaction (beginning stages) to keep them coming back? Step by step.
You have to be there dream girl
Make them spend & keep up your looks
He don’t care ???? 🤣 well they could just say that couldn’t they. Save me the trouble
Why you expecting a dusty to tell the truth?!
Never expect them to tell you the truth about anything. They are in survival mode. You have to be discerning.
The truth of a man, people for that matter, is in their actions. They should be asking you why you didn't catch the hint, dear😅
if they say the truth you won't sleep with them/entertain them/spend your energy on them, so just assume everything they say is a lie!
Men never care, that's why you shouldn't care about them either and don't trust anything that comes out they mouth
the way u looked up then on yt camera at first😂💗