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the level of poverty she was in maybe she wanted to gamble with life to see if she could be stable because the first red flag was when the man asked the other guy to get out of the car rudely because both were interested in her
Pole but you are strong wacha kulia Na kubeg,hata sisi tulikua hapo but venye tuliamua kuacha kila kitu tukakuja saudi sai we are providing for our families n the stupid baby dad is crying in my inbox 😢but my focus is me n my kids
Hata wetu tuliacha tu Na like me I have no mom,kuna watu anaweza wachia ama awapeleke children's home aongee nawao, two years akam achape hustle,she need break from all that,akipata capital arudi akiwa ameheal achukue watoi wake Na life isonge
After she said she got pregnant again this annoyed me because I don’t understand why she continued staying there better sell tomatoes or be a housegirl anyway pole sana Maureen for everything that you are passing through
Langu jicho na sikio tu! This is a very sad story. Why are black african women so disempowered? I wish the good lady all the best of success. Be strong. Kama ako na number ya MPESA, tuwekee hapo kwa comment please. Am Joe, from Limuru.
@@EstherWanjeri-pj5syharaka haraka haina baraka/hurry hurry has no blessings why did she rush to get married 2 somebody whom she didn't know very well furthermore unazaa after umepelekwa home umeona bibi? Maureen u failed urself even if the man is irresponsible u saw the red flags very early be careful with luhya men wa kanairo.......
Pole sana dada pelekea yur sister mtoto then go to saudia Yu will be ok . Yur very strong woman and beautiful.ukiwa huko Yu will be able to take care of your kids plus yur sister......
Financial abuse... Unakuwa cornered to get intimate so that you can be provided for Desperation... There's no where to run. Fear of the unknown.etc. If you haven't walked a mile in my shoes...
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My mum always said that someone came from somewhere originally so there should be no excuse to live with an abuser. If you lived in a store, kitchen, latrine, trench etc before getting married to that man then simply go back there
Mmmmmh! I was once told by a luhya man ninyonge mtoto nikitaka. I thank god my child is 10 years now and we are doing well. Donty cry, God will do it for you.
At some point I felt this lady was narrating what she usually watches on Afro cinema, I could just pick one or two truths. As a psychologist, most stories she's narrating haijafanyika kwake. The last part akilia betrayed her, no tears... Ni kama aliambiwa alie ndio ionekane it's True. Hopefully she gets help regardless
I had that feeling at the beginning when she tried to justify her sad sojourn in Nairobi. That story of her boss being a devil worshipper is a pure fake.
Enda Kwa Fida and file a case for your husband to support your children. Be fearless. Huyo ni uoga anakuaeka. Akijua even you you can do anything to get what you want,he will respect you. Tafuta Kazi yeyote hata kama ni ya kuuza mboga ufanye in the meantime,but make sure umempeleka Kwa Fida. Huko utasaidika.
Ndo mana unasema ni heri uolewe na fala bora ikuwe na shamba unalima update chakula kuliko kuenda mtu ako na Gari na pesa mwenye anakuonyesha kila Aina ya upumbavu.
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Hata hao mafala maskini story zao mbaya ndio nyingi hapa Tuko talks
Pelekea sister yako watoi ukuje saudi arabia ama tafuta hata mama tasa kwa village Wa nakuanga mwenye anaishi pekee umuachie watoto ukue unamfanyia shopping ya mwezi na tupesa tudogo tu kama 3k am 4 juu ataa apriciate ushago maisha ni rahisi na pesa ingine unasave
@@Sisterann4699she needs deliverance first,the church could have helped her into salvation... Some things are Spiritual the only way to overcome is to surrender her life to Jesus Christ...her life will change. Ata akienda...a spirit of rejection follows someone everywhere until brocken....
Wanawake wana ujinga juu hii ni ujinga,,unapanulia wazimu kama huyo anakuonyesha madharau,,hampendi,,jeso 🙆 women please know your worth,,no matter what,,hata ikiwa umetoka family haina uwezo usikubali mwanaume akuhangaishe in the name of sina pa kuenda,, naskia kumchapa huyu mmama
Lina nimekuelewa, naomba mumuelewe alivyomaanisha ni kwamba,.....katika kila jamii, kila kabila na kila ukoo, huwa kuna miungu yao wanayoiambudu na kuitolea sadaka, ndizo zinaitwa mizimu. Hakunaga faida za kuwa na mizimu....ni tabu tuu, ukiwa, shida haziishi, umaskini na ufukara, uovu, zinaa, kuuana, na mauti kutokea saa zote. Suluhisho ni watu wakue MOJA NA KUMUABUDU MUNGU MMOJA ALIYEUMBA MBINGU NA NCHI NA SISI SOTE. IMEKUWA
Am sorry for what you went through But usitegemee mwanaume akuoe juu uko na shida Alafu anze kuzalia mtu kama huyo watoto waaze kuteseka How now ware just fine seeing all those women and you continue living with them? Oh my sijui hata nisemeje Praying for your breakthrough and wishing you all the best I bless your children May they never lack or beg on streets for food or accommodation God remember this lady and bless her with what she is lacking start with wisdom and knowledge dear God and lest follows Oh my it’s painful to see someone suffering and she/he is stuck in poverty Kawira I love how you give them space to pour themselves out
Huyo mzee simjui but I'm 100% sure alikuwa Bukusu, mnitusi tu but ladies run to these Bukusu men and be prepared to raise your kids alone or remain a single mother...😢😢😢
Marriage like Good Health is a blessing....its not for Everyone Period.. .be Vigilant..Male or Female not everyone is cutout to be a Husband or Wife...All This Stories coming from the Women....Men are also going through Rough Patch in marriage..The Men are just ashamed to go Public with their Stories...it Should not take you One month to Realize a Person is not for you unless you are also a Stupid or Desperate person....i Once took a girl on a date someone i really like ..She came with a friend and packed food to take home for another Friend i never called her again...Alot of Women are looking to feel the Emptyness in their lives through Marriage... Remember Marriage is not a Refuge from an Empty life or a Solution to poverty.
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Kinangop kazi za shamba ni nyingi na maisha ni cheap ,akuje huku
Be strong always
Aki pole sana
One reason why women should strive to empower themselves.
You should expose his photos because huyo umbwa kasia takaka ya mwanaume should be exposed
Utapata ni kina wafula wakuloba mukwhana etc😂😂😂
@@liz0609wk ni wafula ofcourse
😂😂😂
The day you were introduced as the Driver's wife is the day you should have seen ALL the red flags ! Waaaa 😮😮😢😢
She saw them but POVERTY.
Hospital rules are that patients are not discharged past 6 pm.
Shida ni mbaya coz mtu hafikiriangi sawa. Don't crucify her
the level of poverty she was in maybe she wanted to gamble with life to see if she could be stable because the first red flag was when the man asked the other guy to get out of the car rudely because both were interested in her
She was not even leaving a good life with that man. Why didn't she just leave that Satan? @@nyotamutobo1700
Ata maisha iwe ngumu...siwezi ishi na mke mwingine same room
It's even a shame.
Being introduced as the driver’s wife summoned everything!
Pole but you are strong wacha kulia Na kubeg,hata sisi tulikua hapo but venye tuliamua kuacha kila kitu tukakuja saudi sai we are providing for our families n the stupid baby dad is crying in my inbox 😢but my focus is me n my kids
Kai ataachia nani watoi,mum alipass ,siz wake ni mgonjwa
Hata wetu tuliacha tu Na like me I have no mom,kuna watu anaweza wachia ama awapeleke children's home aongee nawao, two years akam achape hustle,she need break from all that,akipata capital arudi akiwa ameheal achukue watoi wake Na life isonge
Mtumie kitu the story is more than touching
I salute team strong
After she said she got pregnant again this annoyed me because I don’t understand why she continued staying there better sell tomatoes or be a housegirl anyway pole sana Maureen for everything that you are passing through
Uwa pia sielewi,na kuna family planning,but Kwa yote mungu yupo
@@irinemugambi2048yes, I also don’t understand why she got pregnant a second time. I will pray for her and her children.
She doesn't have the comportment of a househelp. Even ndoa sijui. She found two wives and she left 2 wives....
I want he other side of this story!
Kwani mumesahau it was a problem ata kwenda kufua? Anasema he would come to beat her up!!
@@mwituamweene9850 This is actually an interesting take 🤔
Such a strong lady,your children are a testimony you'll forever be greatful for ,May God comfort you
Pole sana kwa yale yaliokukumba ! Be strong remember there is tomorrow and tomorrow is hope!
Some married men just wasting young girls lives and dreams😢😢😢. May their evil actions never go unrewarded.
😢 pole dada but wueh that man needs to be held accountable 😢
Very touching story,may God interven
Langu jicho na sikio tu! This is a very sad story. Why are black african women so disempowered? I wish the good lady all the best of success. Be strong. Kama ako na number ya MPESA, tuwekee hapo kwa comment please. Am Joe, from Limuru.
It is on the pinned comment
Achana kizungu kiiingi, there is nothing like Black African, African is just enough unless we have white African.
😢some of this case make us youth to fear marriage aki💔💔💔
Don't fear,just don't ignore the redflags😊she saw the redflags bt still stayed@@KarehNduku
Tafuta agent akutafutie job
Some women here mnacomment vibaya as if its easy, if aliishi with that man it wasnt out of will, shida ni kitu mbaya so before muonge fikiria sana
Huyo mwanaume anafaa kufungwa jela. He is a narcissist. How can you ruin someone's life.
Hakuna huyo mwanamke angechukua muda ajue who he is
@@EstherWanjeri-pj5syharaka haraka haina baraka/hurry hurry has no blessings why did she rush to get married 2 somebody whom she didn't know very well furthermore unazaa after umepelekwa home umeona bibi? Maureen u failed urself even if the man is irresponsible u saw the red flags very early be careful with luhya men wa kanairo.......
If you have no goals in this life as a woman, men will use you to achieve their
Pole sana dada pelekea yur sister mtoto then go to saudia Yu will be ok . Yur very strong woman and beautiful.ukiwa huko Yu will be able to take care of your kids plus yur sister......
Kama ile boma ya mama iko afadhali uende tu iko uanze maisha ,life ushago is better than town,
for me better be single forever it's good for me
Pole sana Mungu akufungulie milango
Amina
Watu upitia kweli 😢
Honestly maisha ni ngumu..may the lord locate you to destiny helper
Hata kama ni desperation....pthoo! Women should know their worth!
Yes for sure,,hii tunaiita ufala,,unaendeleaje kuzalia wazimu kama huyo hakupendi,,anakudharau na hakutaki,, women stop forcing issues
Pole..dadangu...these are the last days...where 7women will cling to one man ...God is alive cheer up .
Huyo ni mwanaume ama ni shetani anatesa wanawake, huyo mwanaume anataka tu kuwatumia na kuwatesa
Heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeheeeeeee. Women love yourselves and know God story ya 7 women utateseka Hadi uzikwe. Know God in truth and in spirit
Wueh hizi story za narcissist simekua mob wueh
Aki kuwa na kazi ni jambo la muhimu sana hauwezi teswa hivyo na mtu ukiwa na kazi yako may God remember you Maureen wanaume wengine ni maumbwa tu
you are still young and vibrant. Achia your siz watoi uende gulf country ujape job
Aki mungu ampatie job
Pole sana dada, wanaume n hivyo, Mungu atakusaidia
Sidhani hii niya kivyake
@@graceamadi1096wengi wako Ivo imagine narcissist men wueeh😢
How do you keep getting pregnant and staying in same house despite all the disrespect 😢hata kama ni umaskini nyumbani don't settle for that less
Financial abuse... Unakuwa cornered to get intimate so that you can be provided for Desperation... There's no where to run. Fear of the unknown.etc.
If you haven't walked a mile in my shoes...
My mum always said that someone came from somewhere originally so there should be no excuse to live with an abuser. If you lived in a store, kitchen, latrine, trench etc before getting married to that man then simply go back there
Mmmmmh! I was once told by a luhya man ninyonge mtoto nikitaka. I thank god my child is 10 years now and we are doing well. Donty cry, God will do it for you.
Same to me thank God 13 years old Saudi imenisaidia
Pole sana dada, i thought nimeona yote kumbe hakuna kitu nimeona.
Same kumbe kuna watu zaidi yangu
We some story u fear marriage aki😢
I love how lughas narrate stories 😂...may God give you strength to move on sis
Wacha tu mwana😂😅
😂😂😂
At some point I felt this lady was narrating what she usually watches on Afro cinema, I could just pick one or two truths. As a psychologist, most stories she's narrating haijafanyika kwake. The last part akilia betrayed her, no tears... Ni kama aliambiwa alie ndio ionekane it's True. Hopefully she gets help regardless
Aaaiiii hapana,,,,alilia hadi machozi yakaisha,,,,me I believe her
Lol go back to school , pick up the slack it seems like you're the one watching too much Afro cinema
Huyu Ile uchungu amepitia I wish you meet a narcissist man ndio utajua this are real stories
I had that feeling at the beginning when she tried to justify her sad sojourn in Nairobi. That story of her boss being a devil worshipper is a pure fake.
How did she get a job as a guard in Kenyatta national hospital? That part was rushed
I like how we luhya s guves a story with actions za mkono kichwa .luhya is avibe🥰sorry moureen for what you went through😭🙏🙏🙏
Enda Kwa Fida and file a case for your husband to support your children. Be fearless. Huyo ni uoga anakuaeka. Akijua even you you can do anything to get what you want,he will respect you. Tafuta Kazi yeyote hata kama ni ya kuuza mboga ufanye in the meantime,but make sure umempeleka Kwa Fida. Huko utasaidika.
Huko ni bure asithubutu u ATA coparate hii narcissist hawezi skia MTU
Some African men why all this nonsense!! women let's empower ourselves
No CC for us who want English version? We can't understand anythg.
Pole dear hope they read this
Karongo unaelewa acha siasa mob
@@kevvohkashif5109the name betrays him😅😅😅
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣anaitwa karongo😅@@kevvohkashif5109
Wooi may God see you through I pray for your blessings
Job ya nyumba unaeza fanya ndio iku boost
Please kindly provide English CC . Thank you
It's there. Go to settings and turn on cc
Mungu akufungulie mbingu akumwagie baraka tele na maisha yako Mungu akubadilishie kutoka kwa shida in Jesus mighty name amen.
Weee! Fear luhya men! I have been married for 24 years with a luhya man, ogopa.
Bado uko huko?
Damu ya Yesu iko na nguvu ❤
So sad...take heart mama..
Please lets all gather and help her as much as we can😢.
Hiyo gaidi ya mwanaume ianikwe huku .....pole sana dada
Stive this couple didn't cheat wapee haki yao
The way he was talking to his mom is a red flag. Someone who doesn't respect parents won't respect anyone
Sure,am am a victim of a man who doesn't respect his mum😭how can he respect me
@@monicahwambugu765 sorry. It's hard 😢
I knew it must be a luhya man😏😏
Watu wabaya nimeolewa nao
Woi 😢😮😅
Mashetani 😅
Luhya Men are heartless 😢
Ndo mana unasema ni heri uolewe na fala bora ikuwe na shamba unalima update chakula kuliko kuenda mtu ako na Gari na pesa mwenye anakuonyesha kila Aina ya upumbavu.
Hata hao mafala maskini story zao mbaya ndio nyingi hapa Tuko talks
Share her no nimtumie kidogo niko nayo😢😢😢
Pelekea sister yako watoi ukuje saudi arabia ama tafuta hata mama tasa kwa village Wa nakuanga mwenye anaishi pekee umuachie watoto ukue unamfanyia shopping ya mwezi na tupesa tudogo tu kama 3k am 4 juu ataa apriciate ushago maisha ni rahisi na pesa ingine unasave
yeah true
Uko na advice poa sana. Mimi siku zote hu respect bidii ya team strong
Wueh. Hii stori Wacha. Hao wamathy si wazuri.
@@Sisterann4699 sio wote
@@Sisterann4699she needs deliverance first,the church could have helped her into salvation...
Some things are Spiritual the only way to overcome is to surrender her life to Jesus Christ...her life will change.
Ata akienda...a spirit of rejection follows someone everywhere until brocken....
You should give English translation /subtitles.
May God protect, provide for your family
Sasa na nini ilikua inafanya unaendelea kukaa hapo..
Situational and not knowing about narcissistic men, she is a good woman 🙏
Kutotaka kufanya kazi
Aki adi niliboeka tu
Wondering too hhmm
Narcissist men are demons themselves you can be seeing red flags but you can't move
How can you get pregnant again with such a beast😢😢
😢
Wanawake wana ujinga juu hii ni ujinga,,unapanulia wazimu kama huyo anakuonyesha madharau,,hampendi,,jeso 🙆 women please know your worth,,no matter what,,hata ikiwa umetoka family haina uwezo usikubali mwanaume akuhangaishe in the name of sina pa kuenda,, naskia kumchapa huyu mmama
@@charitykawirambaabu9747 true haki. Inauma sana
Waah,so sorry my sister,,may God see you through
Pole mama tafuta kazi ufanye mammie
No subtitles.
Kulingana na hi hadithi huyu mwanaume ni devil worshiper Ile demon ilikukujia anaijuwa huko uliolewa Mimi ni muluya tunajuwa ni watu wa miungu
Kwani waluyha wote ni devil worshiper
Wewe kama ni devil worshiper sema tu,si kutuwekelea waluhya
Lina nimekuelewa, naomba mumuelewe alivyomaanisha ni kwamba,.....katika kila jamii, kila kabila na kila ukoo, huwa kuna miungu yao wanayoiambudu na kuitolea sadaka, ndizo zinaitwa mizimu. Hakunaga faida za kuwa na mizimu....ni tabu tuu, ukiwa, shida haziishi, umaskini na ufukara, uovu, zinaa, kuuana, na mauti kutokea saa zote. Suluhisho ni watu wakue MOJA NA KUMUABUDU MUNGU MMOJA ALIYEUMBA MBINGU NA NCHI NA SISI SOTE. IMEKUWA
Acha zako ungesema huyo mwanaume ni wale wa kutesa wanawake
This might b true na inakaa mashetani zake zilikataa damu yako ndo maana alikuwa anakutesa
Mungu anipee uwezo nileee watoto wangu ....wanaume 😢😢😢😢😢😢..
Am sorry for what you went through
But usitegemee mwanaume akuoe juu uko na shida
Alafu anze kuzalia mtu kama huyo watoto waaze kuteseka
How now ware just fine seeing all those women and you continue living with them?
Oh my sijui hata nisemeje
Praying for your breakthrough and wishing you all the best
I bless your children May they never lack or beg on streets for food or accommodation God remember this lady and bless her with what she is lacking start with wisdom and knowledge dear God and lest follows
Oh my it’s painful to see someone suffering and she/he is stuck in poverty
Kawira I love how you give them space to pour themselves out
Mungu toa njia weee huyo c mwanaume. N pepo ju a normal human being can't behave like that 😢😢😢😢😢
Pole sana mama peleka mtoto home kwa sister yako alafu urudi Nairobi kufanya job ya kuishi how hiyo 2 dio itakusaidi a
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That man is a devil...We need to see the photo of the man...
How can someone be yhis ruthless 😡...
May God intervene in your life Maureen
Bravo madam God lives
Waluhya ndo maana hamtoki patanisho,see how mnadhalilisha wanawake.
Truest
Uyo mwanaume amekorogewa😂
That's very bad akii & Sad story
Can't be that desperate for a marriage, that can't be me
😂wacha mbwembwe hatujakuuliza ya kwako bana
It is me today tomorrow it is you you never know usiongeee ujinga hapa jinga hii umeona nani mwiingine na comment kama yako
@@samweloreu6106 hata usiniulize coz siwezi waambia
@@samweloreu6106 i suspect you are the man the lady is talking about
You are wrong, the act that said husband did is barbaric.
You deserve such a man for you to sing birikicho mbantuleee 😂😂😂
😢😢😢 Soo sawa
Huwa mtu unaadhani wewe Ndio uko na shida but ukiskiza ya wengine unaona tu afadhali wewe 😢😢 dada pole sana
Aki
Weuh leo sina say,Mungu ingilia kati,this life
Aki pole Maureen,I know this lady
Marafiki wazuri mungu awabariki❤
😢😢😢shida ni mbaya
First we thank God she is alive. She needs counseling and spiritual help otherwise those spirits won't let her move forward
Kama ni mluhya i am not surprised. They don't give a damn
Very sad 😢
So sad,God will heal u
Wanawake tujipende no matter the situations.....Kuna Mungu wa second chance
God bless you
I have never known why some women continue staying where there is problems😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Aki mungu amfugulie njia maisha saa zingine hukua unfair how i wish ningekua na uwezo jamani
Wueeh what a life but God will help her
Huyo mzee simjui but I'm 100% sure alikuwa Bukusu, mnitusi tu but ladies run to these Bukusu men and be prepared to raise your kids alone or remain a single mother...😢😢😢
Kabisa, moto ya kuotea mbali
That man ooh😂😂....Bado anaishi??
May God see you through my sister
Pole sana
Ati nyumbani hatuna maisha 😮😮
Waluhya tunakuanga vavei vavacha vambea I mean tunakuanga waongo
This is the literal definition of poverty is the root of all evil
You are strong dear......woooi this is sad
May God remember you.
Another resion for me to work hard
Marriage like Good Health is a blessing....its not for Everyone Period.. .be Vigilant..Male or Female not everyone is cutout to be a Husband or Wife...All This Stories coming from the Women....Men are also going through Rough Patch in marriage..The Men are just ashamed to go Public with their Stories...it Should not take you One month to Realize a Person is not for you unless you are also a Stupid or Desperate person....i Once took a girl on a date someone i really like ..She came with a friend and packed food to take home for another Friend i never called her again...Alot of Women are looking to feel the Emptyness in their lives through Marriage... Remember Marriage is not a Refuge from an Empty life or a Solution to poverty.
This is a very sad story. May the Lord remember her😮
Mungu too painful for one person may God see this woman
Wee nimutu unaweza jifanyia kazi tafuta agent akutafutie kazi ata sisi tunalea watoto pekee yetu namaisha inaedelea👍
Ni mimi wa pili leo mnipee likes
Roho yako ikoje? Mama hapa anaangaika na mtoto 4 years, hana kazi wala pa kuenda.
Na wee uko hapa ukituitisha likes.
Shame on you, na utubu.
@@VeronicaDunbar😂😂
Kwani wanawake hamjipendi? All that torture u call marriage 😢
Aki pole sana
Stories related to men makes me shed tears..... noliogopa hata mtu akuje genuine aje.....not me..wacha nistruggle na watoto
Mko sure n ukwel 😢😢