My first Wife looked like Malibu Barbie and was an absolute nightmare to live with. She questioned everything I did during the day when we weren't together. At first it was cute. When things never changed 10 years later, I left. I was exhausted.
Yeah I think I lived with her after your divorce. She looked like Malibu Barbie and the control was …….. unbelievable. It’s weird how I never noticed until after I left.
Did she accuse you of infidelity, have low self esteem, feel empty, push you away then pull you back. Did she idolize you at the start? Was the sex off the hook and accelerate rapidly when you first met?
I bet the sex was great? It usually is with the pretty psychos. Not sure why though. I was in a similar situation. But left after 7 months. She was too nuts.
Olivia is one of those highly intelligent psychopaths who was used to getting everything she wanted and when she wanted. Rather than fearing abandonment, she feared of losing control over her boyfriend, the reason she ended his life.
Poor Ethan was too kind and trusting. Why didn't he go to the police and change his locks right away? Possessiveness, clinginess, and isolating one from family and friends are definitely red flags.
He sounds like recent men killed by BPD girlfriends. We have Travis Alexander, killed by Arias. We have Ryan Postin, killed by Shana Hubers. Both of these poor guys were good natured, trusting guys that ignored red flags. Now they’re dead because of these psycho girlfriends. Something needs to change. I don’t know how but, something
He was still pining for her ass. When she showed up at his job should have alerted his ass. She was in a classroom with students and he wasn’t there. What a safety violation.
This is so scary. My best friend just met a woman who is acting disturbingly like this woman. They have only known each other for a month.. and she has already isolated him from all his friends and family. She has “moved” into his apartment with the excuse she’s visiting and is so in love she can’t stay away. If he goes to work she calls him 42-86 times, so now he’s about to lose his job for almost 30 years. I am so scared and don’t know what to do. I have tried to warn him but he doesn’t want to listen. Every plan trips we had he’s cancelled. So it’s hard to get him alone so we can really talk to him… I feel so helpless and scared
You know that saying "you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make them drink!" You can only speak to him at work during his break when he is away from her and try to reason with him!! Give him all of the reasons and indications as to why his relationship is not healthy. That is all you can do!! It is solely up to him with what he does with that information after you give it to him!! I really hope he turns things around for the better!! Most of all, ensure you love him and are coming from a place of concern and not from a place with bad intentions!! Good luck with your friend!!
Call his employer and meet with them privately and blow the whistle. Work with the employer, a witness, and law enforcement. The more you put down the girlfriend, even if he knows she's wrong, he'll defend her, he's too emotionally involved and is no longer logical, reasonable, and able to protect himself. The proof he's willing to risk a job of 30 years over her to continue a dysfunctional, co dependent, enabling relationship. She wins because she has all the control and power over him. He wins because he has someone in his life and isn't lonely.
When someone shows you who they are, at the beginning of the relationship, believe them. This woman was a walking red flag. If the person in your life needs this much "understanding", they need a therapist, not you, not your family's understanding.
@@najmahabibty7123 Mental health issues. Possibly bipolar disorder or something like that. It's a thing now, with many women being diagnosed. Hasley, Hedy Lamarr, Carrie Fisher and Selena Gomez. So it's definitely a thing. These are all good looking women BTW
I had a fellow American friend named Christian Stewart over here in South Korea. He was a cool kid from Michigan, and everyone hung out with him all the time. After he met his second crazy and possessive Korean girlfriend, I warned him about how she treated other people bc of her jealousy. He listened to her lies and cut people off, then maliciously gossipped about me, saying that I was trying to ruin their relationship….. people should listen to their friends, not their crazy girlfriends.
firstly please excuse my bad english, iam 54 years old and my world has turned upside down the past two years and social media teaching us so much, i had NO IDEA that there are many men out there being abused by their lady partners, doing the same as I heard all my life men do to womenl cohercive control, punishments beatings the list goes on and on everyone may call me ignorant and you are right, i really didnt know the numbers were this high, they say 1 in 6 men is abused by partners but some think the nubers could be higher in different places INCREDIBLE thank you for this story its horrific but it needs to be told be careful out there people please, any signs of abuse LEAVE !!!
She even looks a bit crazy.....I don't find her 1 bit attractive and don't know what Ethan saw in her!! She probably had the personality of a paperclip!! 😅
Ethan was a lamb and she was the wolf. It's so sad that he didn't listen to his sister Amanda. He was too kind for his own good. He had never encountered crazy and didn't know how to handle it. I hope Amanda has let herself off the hook. No matter how much she pressed Ethan he would have done what he wanted to do.
My son has a girlfriend like Olivia, she also is smart and very controlling. I always say, if she would just take her psychopathic energy and focus it on something productive, they would be living a lavish lifestyle.
When a narcissist finds you perfect, they create conditions or situations to fault you on and then have a perfect excuse or rationalisation to either begin or perpetuate an abusive cycle . They are always out and about looking for a fight with others to boost their ego and fragile sense of self. You can never understand nor fix them . The only option is to stay far away to secure your sanity.
Well sure, now that you KNOW what you know. You would never have been able to pick her out of a lineup and label her a psychopath so don't flatter yourself.
It sounds like she struggled with pretty severe BPD traits, not to diagnose. Ethan could not have known better, but you should never confront someone alone once they’ve shown this type of unstable behavior. ❤
@@charlesfaure1189I haven’t been able to locate too much literature to speak on that myself. But yeah there is a decent amount of overlap in cluster B personality disorders. Frankly the DSM-5 is woefully outdated, many experts in the field now recognize that BPD has several subtypes including the Narcissistic kind.
Controlling behaviour? I divorced one, more than 25 years, and he is still trying to control me. This freak, has no respect for the law.”I bought you.I paid for you”. Those were his exact words to me, after my divorce. He was referring to my wedding ring, which I got rid off, even before my divorce.
I find all those cameras I'm leaving right away. I can get my emotions together outside the house, and I'm definitely not talking to her alone. I'm going somewhere where there witnesses, cameras or something. Then I'm not going home for at least a week until someone can check and clear my house, i would have also changed the locks as soon as a store opened.
@@veenasurapaneni5166 yeah there is there’s a whole host of different intense therapies , medication , mood stabilizers, continuing life long practices and habits etc her parents saw the early signs and could of immensely helped their daughter by doing any number of these things,but they didn’t . They’re as much to blame for the death and murder of this man as she is
Probably a spoiled child, her parents never disciplined her, so she got everything she wanted and never faced any consequences. Looks like she was an only child who got everything.
That's the problem when you are conditioned to prioritize looks over substance and then you grow up objectifying women so instead of looking at us like human and treating us that way, you look at us like a coffee table, or a vehicle and that's how you treat us.. you can never have a deep connection with someone you objectify.. and for that you deserve a narcissist
A truly terrifying disorder. Narcissism and narcissists have gained common knowledge in recent years but even your average narcissist does not scare me as much as people with Borderline Personality Disorder.
I once saw a reality show about people seeking relationships and this one young lady, who was a model, always wanted love but her relationships always ended with the men running away as fast as they could! She was beautiful and could attrack men but she couldn't keep one! She started dating a guy and during the show and immediately became clingy and wanted too much of his time! At one point she started yelling at him demanding to know where they stood! He was good natured about it but told her flat out, "The way you look makes me want to run to you! But the way you act makes me want to run away from you!" She looked shocked, and she didn't seem to get it! He wouldn't see her anymore and she was hurt but she still didn't understand that her behavior was abnormal! I hope she got the professional help that she needed!
That’s why I’m a loner. I can’t stand going any where with any one. I don’t do or use any social media and barely return phone calls. You’re just at someone’s beck and call where so-called friends are concerned. I don’t have people over to my house and I don’t tolerate drop ins or dropping by unannounced. I don’t go home for holidays, attend graduations, anniversaries or b’days. I don’t even make funerals. It’s a no miss, no fuss life. It’s not for everyone.
RIP Ethan. I dated a person like this, he was a gorgeous looking man, but was trying to isolate me, was controlling, accusing me of things I hadn't done, manipulative, gas lighting all the time- I couldn't handle it and run out of there. Now I know why such a good looking man was single! lol
Learn about BPD women now, and recognize their red flags later. I learned the hard way, after wasting 5 years of my life, but at least i got out alive… at least physically.
Something makes no sense. if she was watching him, then she would’ve seen him finding all of the cameras and dismantling them. She would have also heard his conversation with his sister.
Murder in cold blood. If Olivia couldn't have Ethan to control, manipulate, oppress and destroy, on one else was allowed to have him. She was pathologically jelous of Ethan's family, sister, friends and his popularity. She systematically removed all of them from his life, but even this was not enough for her pathological obsession, so she surveyed and tracked him and his calls, typical of a narcissistic psychopath. This is a devastating loss, you can see by Ethan's photo how bright, handsome and full of life he was, it was a dark day when he met Olivia. My condolences to his loving family. RIP Ethan. 🙏🏽❤❤ xxx
What a shame that Ethan underestimated the danger from a controlling and psycho ex girlfriend. Step number one after he discovered those hidden cameras should have been to change his locks because he KNEW who did it and he knew she had a key to his place. I was relieved to hear she has been given life without parole and I hope that no spineless judge ever reduces that sentence as sometimes happens. She truly belongs locked up because no one she ever meets in the future is safe from her if she is allowed to be free.
Narcissistic people love-bomb people they want. Make them feel like they are incredibly wonderful, attractive, desirable. It's a capture-and-control technique that comes naturally to them.
So she was born this way? Interesting how she was like that as a child. I wonder if counseling as a child would have helped or medication. I had a senior family member who was a bit like this as far as paranoia, and it caused a lot of anxiety for them. They ended up alone because no one could handle the drama.
What an arrogant comment. Blame being an only child in her behaviour. So many great smart people are single children. Einstein, Natalie Portman, Jack Nicholson, Leo DiCaprio, Christina Applegate I could go on, but small narrow minds only see one side…. 🙄
Rip. His kind soul and desire to help was met with betrayal and violence. He didn't deserve it, specially in a world where people like him r rare these days❤
After finding the cameras all over the apartment he should have gotten rid of her. I guess even if he did she wouldn’t have stopped until she tracked him down and ended him. She is a crazy psychopath.
This is insane . People can be so obsessed by someone and it always leads to murder . It is usually a problem with the hormone cortisol and the female hormones . This behaviour is not normal . She needed psychiatric help and never received it . She had to stay in jail for the rest of her life because she is capable of doing it again . RIP Eithen
RIP Ethan. Poor guy. Thank God she was sentenced to life in prison without the possibility of parole! You Americans do a lot better with your sentencing than us Brits.
We don't need to be with a romantic anybody in life. We need to build healthy and meaningful relationships with family, friends, extended communities, and with ourselves. Romantic relationships are ruining a lot of lives. People are lonely and isolated once they are in these romantic relationships.
These kind of people have no soul. To them you're just a thing to own and control. Refuse to comply and see their unchecked fury! They prey on the nicest, most generous, trusting sorts who could never imagine anyone behaving so badly.
It wouldnt happen if he said yes to her sister invitation to come over probably during that time they reported it to the police. This is insane. I had a friend who had a gf like this..similar. the first encounter l can feel smth off immediately. She was so caring. Sweet talk. And even tried to be a good listener. Its hard or difficult to detect if u re not a good observer or analiser or someone who is authentic to himselves. Last time l heard from him in 2022 texted me by saying.. you re right. She is crazy. This guy cut off our friendship due to what l said about his gf.
Such a heartbreaking story to Ethan's family & friends. He really was a wonderful son, tortured truths to be told at the Courtroom. How on earth such an evil being should do such an evil thing?? Such horror to Ethans family will be in their thoughts always. Thinking of you sincerely. RIP Ethan, such a gentleman with needless suffering. 💔💔💔💔
If somebody is trying to isolate you, it’s a big red flag
Poop
Yep, yep, YEP!!
narcissist in the first degree
sounds like my Ex--thank God i got out
you guys are so gullable
My first Wife looked like Malibu Barbie and was an absolute nightmare to live with.
She questioned everything I did during the day when we weren't together. At first it
was cute. When things never changed 10 years later, I left. I was exhausted.
Thank goodness you got away.
Yeah I think I lived with her after your divorce. She looked like Malibu Barbie and the control was …….. unbelievable. It’s weird how I never noticed until after I left.
Did she accuse you of infidelity, have low self esteem, feel empty, push you away then pull you back. Did she idolize you at the start? Was the sex off the hook and accelerate rapidly when you first met?
@@bbigjohnson069uhm...plz tell us where you're headed, I'm Curious..??
I bet the sex was great? It usually is with the pretty psychos. Not sure why though. I was in a similar situation. But left after 7 months. She was too nuts.
Gentle people are always a target. This lovely young man was no match for this lunatic. So sad for his family. Not everybody knows about red flags.
I went through it with my now Ex--taken me years to get over what she did to me .
@@jamesmcginn8874 try your best buddy!!! Leave the past behind and look towards the future
Always judge a person by their character not by their appearance
And by their appearance..
Bingo.
@@pedrogallegos9545character, I've met people who looked weird, turned out they were great people
To be fair she looks like a psycho too. She looks crazy
If you have great looks you don't need a personality or 'character'.
He didn't even give her a reason not to trust him, she's a special kind of crazy.
Yea. This kind needs no provocation. Even her accusations of cheating vere most likely projection s of her own guilt...
Men who do this don't need provocation either. Their wives/gf's aren't cheating.
I saw men killed their wives or abuse them for cheating while the wives never cheated, they are insecure.
He should have changed the locks when he knew that she already abused his trust by setting up cameras.
He should had moved far away from that environment but how was he sopost to know how crazy she was?
@@jovitarich7078
The Evidence she gave him
@@jovitarich7078 "sopost?" 😂
...oh ohh, "supposed."
Or simple ask for her key back when she was first caught.
Key back and change the locks as she cldve made spares..@@jmanfresh247
Olivia is one of those highly intelligent psychopaths who was used to getting everything she wanted and when she wanted. Rather than fearing abandonment, she feared of losing control over her boyfriend, the reason she ended his life.
check out Wendi Adelson... The Dan Markel murder...
Parents Lil princess.... NOT!!😂
i don't blame her
she never existed. you guys are so gullable.
@@HansGuru-fe9dk Do you have any evidence for your comment?
What a beautiful young man. His face radiates goodness.
Yes, thats why She hated Him !
yes agree
She was even better looking than him ~
But so does hers!
It really does. This lovely young man did not deserve such a fate. Women can have dark hearts too, I wish he had never set eyes on her.
Poor Ethan was too kind and trusting. Why didn't he go to the police and change his locks right away? Possessiveness, clinginess, and isolating one from family and friends are definitely red flags.
He was a trusting soul.
He sounds like recent men killed by BPD girlfriends. We have Travis Alexander, killed by Arias. We have Ryan Postin, killed by Shana Hubers. Both of these poor guys were good natured, trusting guys that ignored red flags. Now they’re dead because of these psycho girlfriends. Something needs to change. I don’t know how but, something
Love is blind
He was still pining for her ass. When she showed up at his job should have alerted his ass. She was in a classroom with students and he wasn’t there. What a safety violation.
Go to the police? To get made fun of. That's normally what happens
This is so scary. My best friend just met a woman who is acting disturbingly like this woman. They have only known each other for a month.. and she has already isolated him from all his friends and family. She has “moved” into his apartment with the excuse she’s visiting and is so in love she can’t stay away. If he goes to work she calls him 42-86 times, so now he’s about to lose his job for almost 30 years. I am so scared and don’t know what to do. I have tried to warn him but he doesn’t want to listen. Every plan trips we had he’s cancelled. So it’s hard to get him alone so we can really talk to him… I feel so helpless and scared
Bro.. act up!! Before it’s too late. He’s your best friend. Sounds scary tho I understand your predicament. All the best dude
Should catch up with him while his on a lunch break at work. That way u r alone with him n show him this. Goodluck
Can you attempt to communicate with his family about your concerns if you can’t together with him?
You know that saying "you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make them drink!" You can only speak to him at work during his break when he is away from her and try to reason with him!! Give him all of the reasons and indications as to why his relationship is not healthy. That is all you can do!! It is solely up to him with what he does with that information after you give it to him!! I really hope he turns things around for the better!! Most of all, ensure you love him and are coming from a place of concern and not from a place with bad intentions!! Good luck with your friend!!
Call his employer and meet with them privately and blow the whistle. Work with the employer, a witness, and law enforcement. The more you put down the girlfriend, even if he knows she's wrong, he'll defend her, he's too emotionally involved and is no longer logical, reasonable, and able to protect himself.
The proof he's willing to risk a job of 30 years over her to continue a dysfunctional, co dependent, enabling relationship.
She wins because she has all the control and power over him.
He wins because he has someone in his life and isn't lonely.
Poor guy fell into the grip of a malignant narcissist.
Oh yes , it was obvious to those who know a narcissist.
That's what I was thinking as they described the girl. Stra8 up narc.
I survived a malignant narcissist , Thank God truly .
@@deew7014me too. My dad. My mom. My ex husband.
@@jeanniecatton9168 I just discarded my x-narc gf, no more second chances. No contact.
She grabbed a knife before he got home, how is that not premeditated? It’s scary how controlling some people can be.
It was found to be premeditated.
Narcissistic personality disorder.
That's why she got life in prison without the possibility of parole.
@@clarissa8477as it should’ve, but the defense tried to say it wasn’t premeditated.
She’s Lez chow now
When someone shows you who they are, at the beginning of the relationship, believe them. This woman was a walking red flag. If the person in your life needs this much "understanding", they need a therapist, not you, not your family's understanding.
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She's a different kind of crazy.🤦🏼♀️ Rest in peace Ethan.
@@najmahabibty7123 Mental health issues. Possibly bipolar disorder or something like that. It's a thing now, with many women being diagnosed. Hasley, Hedy Lamarr, Carrie Fisher and Selena Gomez. So it's definitely a thing. These are all good looking women BTW
@@mcentepede this isn't bipolar this is straight up psychopathic narcissism. And there has been an uptick of it in both genders.
@@mcentepede Ya, but they all haven't been known to kill people. She's demented. Possibly born that way.
@@mcentepedeIt is classic Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Textbook from soup to nuts.
@@mcentepedeNot Bipolar. It is a classic Narcissistic Personality Disorder pattern of behavior. Textbook progression of events.
The nicest person always meets the pigs. What a gorgeous young man he is.
Meh..
@@sabrinasjourney what are you mehing about? He IS gorgeous. And I"m a guy (hehe)
A simp - they love dominant females - I have two simpy brothers they have both placed gold-plated turds on pedestals and dance around worshipping them
I had a fellow American friend named Christian Stewart over here in South Korea. He was a cool kid from Michigan, and everyone hung out with him all the time. After he met his second crazy and possessive Korean girlfriend, I warned him about how she treated other people bc of her jealousy. He listened to her lies and cut people off, then maliciously gossipped about me, saying that I was trying to ruin their relationship….. people should listen to their friends, not their crazy girlfriends.
Hence the expression, "Love is blind..."
"Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned."
Same exact situation happened to me!
You can’t help people who don’t want it.
U ever want some citizenship let me know
So sad. These creatures are flawed beyond help. They cannot be "fixed"
Creatures is a good description.
assuming that beautiful ones are the angels. But remember, the devil was also an angel once.
YES!!! 💯💯💯💯💯💯
LOL I say: The devil always appears as an angel of light
the biblically accurate angels actually look creepy and monstrous
Grow up. Looks dont dictate a person's inside
In fact, Devil is the most beautiful, most charming. His job demands it.
What in the actual f*ck??? The one nice guy out there and this crazy woman tragically took his life… prayers for the family.
Just FYI.... There are a lot of nice guys out there.
There are all kinds of nice guys out there... most of them are single
He didn’t trust his instincts. Remember when he said he felt like he was being watched?
@@smorgdonkey No woman wants a man no woman wants.
Um, there are other nice guys, mate!
You can see a broken arm but you can't see a broken mind such a great young man taken by evil
Ethan needed to be a MANNNN A DARN MAN
My god 🙏🏻🥲that poor young man, my heart breaks for his family. This full blown psychopath needs to be locked away for ever.
she's beyond crazy! its sad he chose to ignore all the red flags and even the warnings of people who truly cared for him
Sex is a powerful addiction
@@CG-kp5ojFact
Have been stalked by two slits like this.
Skanks
@@brettmajors69karaoke 😂🤣😂
I hate controlling behavior
Narcissists are obsessed with controlling other people.Anyway they can
DID I SAY YOU COULD WRITE THAT!?! 🤬💨
@@Kell4088😂
@@Kell4088😂😂😂
It’s the worst.
I have had experience with Borderline personality in a co-worker. It was by far the worst experience of my life
firstly please excuse my bad english,
iam 54 years old and my world has turned upside down the past two years and social media teaching us so much, i had NO IDEA that there are many men out there being abused by their lady partners, doing the same as I heard all my life men do to womenl cohercive control, punishments beatings the list goes on and on
everyone may call me ignorant and you are right, i really didnt know the numbers were this high, they say 1 in 6 men is abused by partners but some think the nubers could be higher in different places
INCREDIBLE
thank you for this story its horrific but it needs to be told
be careful out there people please, any signs of abuse LEAVE !!!
I too. I was a hold off on Smart phones when I couldn't get analog phones. I had no idea of this stuff
Those intense crazy eyes are a dead giveaway...
She even looks a bit crazy.....I don't find her 1 bit attractive and don't know what Ethan saw in her!! She probably had the personality of a paperclip!! 😅
I bet in JAIL she will hook-up with a guard who will spoil her with affection and do anything she wants!! Olivia always finds her way to happiness!!
Until she gets older and less attractive.
When someone shows you who they are, believe them.
AND CHANGED YOUR LOCK OR YOUR RESIDENCE.
Another DV victim ignored by police who ends up dead .
Yes, I agree!
Did he go to the police?
Ignored by police?????!!!
He never reported her, no one ever did! What are you talking about ?
@@clarissa8477I don’t think so he only told his sister is what happened
@@reginagilby1101 that’s what I thought, so he wasn’t ignored by the police lol
Ethan was a lamb and she was the wolf. It's so sad that he didn't listen to his sister Amanda. He was too kind for his own good. He had never encountered crazy and didn't know how to handle it. I hope Amanda has let herself off the hook. No matter how much she pressed Ethan he would have done what he wanted to do.
Poor Ethan. What a lovely young man, gaslit and abused by that horrible murderer.
She didn’t even look like she was in his ballpark. He was dating above his station.
He's so handsome 😢
Happens more than we know😢
My son has a girlfriend like Olivia, she also is smart and very controlling. I always say, if she would just take her psychopathic energy and focus it on something productive, they would be living a lavish lifestyle.
Ditto! we have an Olivia and I our family. It is my brother‘s wife. He is completely brainwashed. There is no worse feeling of helplessness .
@@martinescincotti5385 I know what you mean. Good luck and GOD bless.
This is just another form of stalking
When a narcissist finds you perfect, they create conditions or situations to fault you on and then have a perfect excuse or rationalisation to either begin or perpetuate an abusive cycle .
They are always out and about looking for a fight with others to boost their ego and fragile sense of self.
You can never understand nor fix them . The only option is to stay far away to secure your sanity.
Borderlines lack that planning step that narcissists have. It seems like their behavior in that way is intentional but they say it's not.
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When a narcissist meets an empath, it rarely ends well.
Truth. Anyone that grew up with narcissistic parents knows this all to well
Another jodi arias
I could fix Jodi. LOL!
The look is always in the eyes. There’s something about her eyes and those of a lot of toxic people I knew that screams psychopath.
Not really, you can't always tell
Well sure, now that you KNOW what you know. You would never have been able to pick her out of a lineup and label her a psychopath so don't flatter yourself.
Her eyes are empty
The misuse of terms here is incredible smh.🙄
It sounds like she struggled with pretty severe BPD traits, not to diagnose.
Ethan could not have known better, but you should never confront someone alone once they’ve shown this type of unstable behavior. ❤
Sounds more like a narcissist
I said that less than 5 mins. in.
@@elmira6500 Borderlines have some traits of narcissists.
Narcissistic personality disorder and BPD often occur together.
@@charlesfaure1189I haven’t been able to locate too much literature to speak on that myself. But yeah there is a decent amount of overlap in cluster B personality disorders. Frankly the DSM-5 is woefully outdated, many experts in the field now recognize that BPD has several subtypes including the Narcissistic kind.
Sneaking into your boyfriend's home and placing a bunch of hidden cameras, is anything but trusting someone! Lol.
Projection or grossly controlling!
They say love is blind
In this relationship, he was blind
Lust is blind!
Betrayal of your privacy is soul crushing.
Never allow yourself to be in the presence of a delusional psychopath, no matter how much they beg. You cannot reason with them.
Chilling.... He WASNT doing a thing! But being a nice guy. Who unfortunately, came across the WRONG person
Controlling behaviour? I divorced one, more than 25 years, and he is still trying to control me. This freak, has no respect for the law.”I bought you.I paid for you”. Those were his exact words to me, after my divorce. He was referring to my wedding ring, which I got rid off, even before my divorce.
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Glad you got away. What a monster!
She has crazy eyes. Scary woman
How on earth does this narrator know what they were thinking?
Was wondering the same. Some artistic freedom, albeit inappropriate, I think.
He told his sister
@jademcqueen5474 Olivia's thoughts too?
@CobiewithaK well she's alive and can speak so....
Isn't it obvious?
I find all those cameras I'm leaving right away. I can get my emotions together outside the house, and I'm definitely not talking to her alone. I'm going somewhere where there witnesses, cameras or something. Then I'm not going home for at least a week until someone can check and clear my house, i would have also changed the locks as soon as a store opened.
Her parents knew she should have gotten professional help but they let it slide .
There is no any treatment for personality disorders
@@veenasurapaneni5166 yeah there is there’s a whole host of different intense therapies , medication , mood stabilizers, continuing life long practices and habits etc her parents saw the early signs and could of immensely helped their daughter by doing any number of these things,but they didn’t . They’re as much to blame for the death and murder of this man as she is
@@veenasurapaneni5166 There's therapy but no cure.
Unfortunately, at the farmer’s market, Ethan met a lemon. RIP, young man.
She is so pretty, and absolutely insane. RIP Ethan!
Her eyes are insane
You ever hear of : The Hot Crazy Matrix
Look it up
She looked crazy
Evil
It's usually the pretty ones that are psycho. They are so use to getting what they want and when they don't get it.....they lose control.
Theres a good girlfriend for Kohberger...
I laughed out loud. Dark humor for a dark subject.
Not guilty
She’s the kind of girl that only a Koehburger could love!
There would be a love at a distance
Your humour is insulting. Eew😢
What a nutcase?!? Who acts like that :(
Olivia 😢
A narcissist, she has all the traits.
Probably a spoiled child, her parents never disciplined her, so she got everything she wanted and never faced any consequences. Looks like she was an only child who got everything.
@@DonnieDarko9104 BPD Trust me.
@@FloraDubya Learn something about personality disorders.
crazy only gets worse, NEVER better
Actually BPDers do get better as they age.
The first red flag means run the other way! And I mean run don't walk!
So scary. I would be smitten by a woman with her looks and would be difficult for me to pull away. This could have been any guy.
Sadly you are right
That's the problem when you are conditioned to prioritize looks over substance and then you grow up objectifying women so instead of looking at us like human and treating us that way, you look at us like a coffee table, or a vehicle and that's how you treat us.. you can never have a deep connection with someone you objectify.. and for that you deserve a narcissist
Blonde haired, blue eyed devilish looks is all it takes huh 😈
Blond & blue eyed 😈
Beauty is only skin deep...
This proves again, look doesn't mean a whole lot. Most men would fall for her beauty, but most men would run away as fast as they could.
I don't know if you know what most means
@@jamesharris184lol
@@jamesharris184 Clearly doesn't include you then. 🤷🏻♂️
Most..., some...
You clearly have never had sex with a borderline. It is said that they are incredibly good at sex and that can keep many men trapped and confused.
He never should have confronted her. He should have called the cops and gone straight to his sister's house.
Why do we NOT LEARN at school to NEVER EVER stay with s.o. that controlling alone in a place "to talk"? Why did he not leave immediately?
Psycho !!!😢
Classic narcissist control freak she should be kept in confinement , justice well served
Some smiles hide demons within.
Once again you never know what someone is going through check on your friends
Borderline Personality Disorder is scary bigtime. I know a young woman with this. Absolutely horrifying and not diagnosed enough.
A truly terrifying disorder. Narcissism and narcissists have gained common knowledge in recent years but even your average narcissist does not scare me as much as people with Borderline Personality Disorder.
@@rosieposie9564 Amen. The girl I know can turn abusive and dangerous on a DIME. truly horrifying
Gauranteed she was physically abusive also.
Guaranteed
it is never a good idea to meet agein after break up
That only applies to race car drivers who retire. Stay retired.
I once saw a reality show about people seeking relationships and this one young lady, who was a model, always wanted love but her relationships always ended with the men running away as fast as they could! She was beautiful and could attrack men but she couldn't keep one! She started dating a guy and during the show and immediately became clingy and wanted too much of his time! At one point she started yelling at him demanding to know where they stood! He was good natured about it but told her flat out, "The way you look makes me want to run to you! But the way you act makes me want to run away from you!" She looked shocked, and she didn't seem to get it! He wouldn't see her anymore and she was hurt but she still didn't understand that her behavior was abnormal! I hope she got the professional help that she needed!
I’m surprised she didn’t clone his phone.
This can result from an emotionally or physically unavailable father. That fear of abandonment plays out tragically. So very sad.
Welp, she’ll get constant attention now
Yeah, until her 15 minutes of fame is over- then she will be forgotten in prison.
Exactly, be careful what you wish for. Senseless insecurities 😪
The women in the prison will give her lots of attention.
That’s why I’m a loner. I can’t stand going any where with any one. I don’t do or use any social media and barely return phone calls. You’re just at someone’s beck and call where so-called friends are concerned. I don’t have people over to my house and I don’t tolerate drop ins or dropping by unannounced. I don’t go home for holidays, attend graduations, anniversaries or b’days. I don’t even make funerals. It’s a no miss, no fuss life. It’s not for everyone.
@@Reviloj I truly get it
I wish he had called the cops as soon as he found those cameras & went to his sisters 😢
I wonder how her controlling behaviour is 'working' in prison?
RIP Ethan. I dated a person like this, he was a gorgeous looking man, but was trying to isolate me, was controlling, accusing me of things I hadn't done, manipulative, gas lighting all the time- I couldn't handle it and run out of there. Now I know why such a good looking man was single! lol
This isn't about you
@user-pu4bk7bf1g
She’s allowed to share her experiences too…why are you policing the comment section?…
Learn about BPD women now, and recognize their red flags later. I learned the hard way, after wasting 5 years of my life, but at least i got out alive… at least physically.
I hate controlling people too theres a lot of them out there!!
The camera in the showerhead was just above and beyond gross
As a mother of a girl and a boy, who are now young adults, my biggest fear is that they meet good looking devils.
Well remind them to love character and not looks.
If only he had re-keyed his apartment immediately might have helped too.
Something makes no sense. if she was watching him, then she would’ve seen him finding all of the cameras and dismantling them. She would have also heard his conversation with his sister.
I am sure she took breaks from her obsession.
It was close to midnight.
Murder in cold blood. If Olivia couldn't have Ethan to control, manipulate, oppress and destroy, on one else was allowed to have him. She was pathologically jelous of Ethan's family, sister, friends and his popularity. She systematically removed all of them from his life, but even this was not enough for her pathological obsession, so she surveyed and tracked him and his calls, typical of a narcissistic psychopath. This is a devastating loss, you can see by Ethan's photo how bright, handsome and full of life he was, it was a dark day when he met Olivia. My condolences to his loving family. RIP Ethan. 🙏🏽❤❤ xxx
What a shame that Ethan underestimated the danger from a controlling and psycho ex girlfriend. Step number one after he discovered those hidden cameras should have been to change his locks because he KNEW who did it and he knew she had a key to his place. I was relieved to hear she has been given life without parole and I hope that no spineless judge ever reduces that sentence as sometimes happens. She truly belongs locked up because no one she ever meets in the future is safe from her if she is allowed to be free.
Oh how I know how he felt!
How incredibly sad. He was so happy to meet her...just to die at her hands. 😢
You've been stabbed before?
Narcissistic people love-bomb people they want. Make them feel like they are incredibly wonderful, attractive, desirable. It's a capture-and-control technique that comes naturally to them.
What an incredibly sad ending to a life, that could have become so productive, for many more years. It’s wicked and evil. She is so sick.
So she was born this way? Interesting how she was like that as a child. I wonder if counseling as a child would have helped or medication. I had a senior family member who was a bit like this as far as paranoia, and it caused a lot of anxiety for them. They ended up alone because no one could handle the drama.
This is why you never have just one child. They become too spoiled.
What an arrogant comment. Blame being an only child in her behaviour. So many great smart people are single children. Einstein, Natalie Portman, Jack Nicholson, Leo DiCaprio, Christina Applegate I could go on, but small narrow minds only see one side…. 🙄
Should be even numbers not odd. So no one is left out
@@VeeVeeLL3Gemini does NOT mean a thing!!!!!
Never ignore red flag..😮
There is a fine line between genius and madness. There was obviously an undiagnosed mental issue at play.
"A Beautiful Mind."
If your in a close family then pay very close attention and don't lose that closeness . Male or female family members can get caught up in this.
Who said that women don't do this stuff Have you ever seen fatal attraction
Rip. His kind soul and desire to help was met with betrayal and violence. He didn't deserve it, specially in a world where people like him r rare these days❤
Remember guys, never let your woman wear the pants and run the show.
Intimate partner violence. More scrutiny needs to be on women as the aggressor.
After finding the cameras all over the apartment he should have gotten rid of her. I guess even if he did she wouldn’t have stopped until she tracked him down and ended him. She is a crazy psychopath.
Yeah, the cameras are kind of creepy and tracking his every move.😮
@@L99Kyh3r3kind of?
He did call her and say we need to talk he broke it off remember ?his siste and him where going too tht police the nextmornig .dont you listen?
And yes I do know how to use spacing LOL
Ethan Reed deserved a good woman 😢
Very scary! He seemed like a good guy. She should have trusted him.
This is insane . People can be so obsessed by someone and it always leads to murder . It is usually a problem with the hormone cortisol and the female hormones . This behaviour is not normal . She needed psychiatric help and never received it . She had to stay in jail for the rest of her life because she is capable of doing it again . RIP Eithen
RIP Ethan. Poor guy. Thank God she was sentenced to life in prison without the possibility of parole! You Americans do a lot better with your sentencing than us Brits.
Truth
We don't need to be with a romantic anybody in life. We need to build healthy and meaningful relationships with family, friends, extended communities, and with ourselves. Romantic relationships are ruining a lot of lives. People are lonely and isolated once they are in these romantic relationships.
These kind of people have no soul. To them you're just a thing to own and control. Refuse to comply and see their unchecked fury! They prey on the nicest, most generous, trusting sorts who could never imagine anyone behaving so badly.
He could not see the red flags
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@@brokens1097 merci
It wouldnt happen if he said yes to her sister invitation to come over probably during that time they reported it to the police. This is insane. I had a friend who had a gf like this..similar. the first encounter l can feel smth off immediately. She was so caring. Sweet talk. And even tried to be a good listener. Its hard or difficult to detect if u re not a good observer or analiser or someone who is authentic to himselves. Last time l heard from him in 2022 texted me by saying.. you re right. She is crazy. This guy cut off our friendship due to what l said about his gf.
IF
These "people" are not human.
Such a heartbreaking story to Ethan's family & friends. He really was a wonderful son, tortured truths to be told at the Courtroom. How on earth such an evil being should do such an evil thing?? Such horror to Ethans family will be in their thoughts always. Thinking of you sincerely. RIP Ethan, such a gentleman with needless suffering. 💔💔💔💔