Brayden: 'I Don't Want to Be Here Right Now' - The Bachelorette
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 16 ก.ค. 2023
- After Bachelorette Charity Lawson walks in on the guys arguing about Brayden's commitment to the process, she pulls Brayden aside for a private chat. The two struggle to find common ground, and Brayden finally says he doesn't want to be there anymore -- and Charity grants his wish. From 'The Bachelorette,' season 20, episode 4, 'Week 4.' Watch 'The Bachelorette' 2023 with Charity Lawson MONDAYS 8/7c on ABC. Stream on Hulu.
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Sorry to be completely off-topic but I love her eyeshadow
Me too. The girl is stunning i... a total covergirl model.. Absolutely ravishing and a beauty inside and out.... yeah, that's pretty eyeshadow except I don't care for the red . It's supposed to match that fabulous red pantsuit.
I think the preface to your comment is finny/cool ......❤
Lol same I love a bold eye
Totally on-topic for the make-up brand being featured this season! Does anyone have any insight as to which company created this high-pigment shadow?
Charity made the right decision concerning Brayden.He knows how this works he never should've signed up to begin with just wanted to be on tv.
She did not really kick him off he kicked his self out because he admitted that he really wasn’t here for her or things she didn’t really want him so she didn’t really kick him off he kicked him self off I don’t know what you’re saying but she didn’t make the decision he made a sound decision to leave and she needs to be honest with her self in the men
He chose to leave. she did not send him home!
Agreed, dump Aaron next.
So if you went skydiving you'd know exactly how you would feel up in the sky before ever going up there? Some people go on the show for the right reasons, but once they're in that environment, reality sets in and it's harder than they expected. You don't know much until you actually go through it.
@@avacadoguacamole7593 Yea because I’m sure he was embarrassed…this lame ass dude packed up 3 times and made comments towards her as if he was the prize…he should’ve left way sooner
Brayden is a young Johnny Depp
The title should be: Child Therapist with her client
For real, "Brayden, what are you feeling right now?" 😂😂🤣
AMEN!!! He is a man child!!
Oh, you mean the man that is being logical and reasonable about having doubts of being engaged to someone just weeks into knowing them?
@@PASH3227he’s 24 💀 And the only one with logical sense in that house
@@AbstractMindsThinkAlikethe logical thing to do is to not even have entered the show in the first place if he knew he wouldnt be ready
How many times is Charity going to have this conversation with Brayden?! Why is she chasing this man on a show where she’s the Bachelorette!?!?
Charity really really liked Brayden; they did have a lot of chemistry together!👍🏾
That’s the issue with some bachelorette. They chase the men more , however , the bachelors are the ones being chased
You'll chase if you value someone... "But, but i'm da bachelor(ette), REEEEE!"
Life doesn't work that way. It's a two-way street.
Because she really liked him. I liked him for her too 😩 I just think it all got overwhelming for him
@@Jess-yp9fo I totally did not like him for her. I think he deserved better than her. She thinks, she's all that!
Appearance wise he just looks like Johnny Depp 😊
He's even Hotter:)
I don't think he looks like Johnny Depp
younger Johnny Depp and Melania Trump
Without the cool
@@Cwgrlup That's probably why he doesn't remind me of Johnny.
Let’s be real she would’ve never let him go if if didn’t dismiss himself first 😂😂😂 not sure why she thought a 24 year old would be ready for marriage.
He was the most attractive on there. She was trying to keep him😂.
@@briantbmoth6472he reminded her of her ex…that’s what is was..the toxicity and adventure..she lowkey was liking it
Honestly, i feel there should be minimum age. The reaso why i cannot watch the bachelor/bachelorette is because some contestants are 23 or 24. I feel this is too young and they should be 28+. Im 27 and still not married lol
Yup, she was into him and any other girl would have been. He was honest and that's refreshing when a bunch of guys are telling you what you want to hear.
He’s 24?! Looks older!
Brayden reminds me of the kind of white boy who shares some slam poetry in a hipster bar about how hard it was to be the only white kid at a predominantly nonwhite school
Um, he is a veteran, not a wimp.
@@avacadoguacamole7593and a nurse
@@AbstractMindsThinkAlikehe’s an embarrassment to all of us real nurses
Classic 24 year old. Bye bye. Miss ya never.
Charity didn’t make the decision to leave lol he did he would still be there if it was her choice. Idk why she walked in saying she made the right decision… he the one who left lol
Bingo.
Why has she been keeping him around? He has shown red flags. He is emotionally manipulating her. Him and his choice of earrings need to go!
She's attracted to him.
Many players this season, as usual.
He hasn’t being doing anything to her but being truthful he has his own opinion I hate how everyone is attacking him like the whole house said they would murder him that’s why he was uncomfortable. Like bro really y’all weird she’s human she not perfect he can have his own opinion. It’s two people in a marriage she has to have something to bring to the table too.
Yeah, really don't get the earrings.....not necessary to prove your macho individualiity/straight maleness in this way, if thats what its about. Just weird.
But do love his iron will , strength , true- to- himself integrity---
Sad but he's hot for TV not for charity . Charity will find someone that wants to be there at all times and not who's in and out .
Don't agree one little bit....thinks he's totally real , honest and NOT in it to show himself off.. There are some fantastic guys this time around.....elegant, principled and several would make wonderful m a t e s for beautiful Charity.
He is hot??? I am judging your choice.
@@rayblox4859yes? He’s very handsome
This will be unpopular but I feel like Brayden wasn’t wrong for what he said and he didn’t lie in the front of her. He was on the wrong show yes but he didn’t group up with a bunch of other men and formed a coup
I'm with you and fully agree... He stuck to his honest truth... The others tell her what she wants to hear. I'm calling him BRAVE Brayden. I really like him. He's 24, so he's way too young and at least he is REALISTIC..... Others that spend less than a full hour with her - are saying they will get down on 1 knee - PLEASE.... Glad we agree on this:) Cheers:)
@@AvisWrentmoreThe whole point of the show is to end with a proposal…if that is not your intentions…why are you on the show
He's logical and shelling out truth instead of telling her what she wants to hear. I give him respect for that.
@@AbstractMindsThinkAlike 😂the truth…he literally came back and said he wish he had things going on and he wish he could’ve told her more…obviously he’s hiding this..and he wasn’t ready to be on a show like this…this is for grown emotionally/mentally mature people who know what they want…he wanted to be on tv…be real
@@mamajoycewig3041 just wait another week or two where the “grown men” and “mature men” who say they want marriage at the end start also expressing doubts. You just wait. Brayden will be sitting back in his chair like “told ya so”.
Man I liked him idc y’all trippin. He was the only realistic one in the house and silly. He made the house fun + I love how he always coincidentally matched with her outfits
I hate that he came on here like The Bachelorette and Bachelor franchise has not been this format for over 10 year. He’s a manipulator. So disappointing. I want her to check out John.
He’s 24!! Probably never even seen the bachelor before.
surprised there isn't a
Twitter handle yet
specifically for
Brayden's earrings.
Your hilarious 😂
I hate how she made it seem like she let him go. Hes the one who decided to leave. I think what he said was so real. Interestingly enuff, the same thing he was concerned about (and being called out for) is the same thing they are all gonna tell her next week 😂😂
Oh cell charity needs to tell the guys the truth that she didn’t really kick him off that he left on his own if she wants to be married she needs to be truthful and marriage you need to be totally honest so she’s looking for a husband she needs to tell the guys the truth.
I agree with the boys he needs to go home
im srry but this scene made me crack up cs like that was so aries of himmmmm
Oh This is it. Chandelier from the ears.
Sounds like he wasted his time on the show. It's sad that he came back after she walked him out for more drama too.
The producers had to slide him some money for him to come back just for drama. They had way too much setup for it to be random
Oh PLEASE the producers called him back obviously
I would lose him on day one based on his earrings.
I don't want a guy who wears more jewellry than I do...
I didn't even hear what he was saying. All my focus was on the feminine earrings in his ears.
Okay all them earrings
Reminds me of Johnny Depp
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Finally!
ditch the earrings!
Please 😂
@@janehardy4651 I STRONGLY AGREE...GLAD HE IS GONE AND TOOK HIS EAR GEAR WITH HIM.
😂😂😂😂😂
@@ariainman6691I like the way you called them "ear gear!" 😂😂
His earrings are DARLING! 😍
Really?? I think they're distracting.
@@jenniferhansen3622 Well, get over them, then.
@@exnihilonihilfit6316 🤣🤣🤣
Yes, love his originality. Reminds me of a guy I met last year.
I’m watching on Hulu and was FURIOUS WHEN HE LEFT!!!!!! JUST WHY?!? The other guys were hating HARD and making him out to be a bad guy and ion like that!!! I liked Brayden a lot
What’s with the earrings, all the drama and why did he even comeback?
His earrings just drive me nuts😂😂😂
I feel the same way. It's hard to take him seriously. I find them so distracting.😊
@@jenniferhansen3622 it's bizzare he needs to probably go on the bachelor instead😂 he is hansome with body can't deny that
Yes and the twinkling noise they were making! 😂
@@alstroemeria227again4 🤣🤣🤣💯
The earrings are So Distracting! I can't focus. 🙄
Maybe he wants to
stand out so he will
be noticed.
@@IntrepidHolmesI would think he'd rather be noticed in a positive way than a negative way though.
Agreed 😬
@@jenniferhansen3622I see no negativity in him
making a fashion statement. Everyone of
us hv our own vibe! That
must be his. I believe
in living and let live.
@@IntrepidHolmesTo me it just seems like he's seeking attention and wanting to be the center of attention. Not just because of the earrings.
Quick season on the TV. It went from 25 to 6 in a few weeks. Agree that this Brayden dude needed to go. Bring on BIP please. The 2023 seasons of the bachelor/ette are boring. A better cast than in 2021 (the Katie casts were brutal) but at least the 2021 version were entertaining/funny and some carried it to the BIP.
Time now for a recap on The Bachelorette when I wrote to the team all about Brayden. "I don't want to be here right now" he said and when he did not, he'd been on their vacations and their places and the stadium, the dinner table and the cocktail that ended with the rose ceremony. But after Charity walks in on the guys about him, his commitment to the process was pulled by The Bachelorette whose aside this to keep us watching all over again. But two are struggling and to find common ground, He finally says about not wanting him to return there anymore and she grants his wish. Brayden and Charity was on the same page......next.......
I love brayden , yall don't hate on him. I feel like i understand where he is coming from but he is still young so he has more growing up to do he just not ready to be on the level with charity as yet. But also take in to consideration that being on a reality tv show dating the same woman and being in an environment with all kinds of personalities it's not an easy thing . Plus brayden is a person who is goofy , fun and don't take life seriously kind of person so the others will find him to be immature and childish and he not really there for charity but from my pov i found that he really did care about her but again it's his personality and environment that really got the better of him , that got him going home so early . He will always be my favourite tho.
I understand what he is saying, he is not wrong. But he is on the wrong show. 😅
I´m gonna miss him, I really like him and don´t understand the hate coming his way either. Everytime he spoke he was either excited about just ... living, being, nothing more, nothing less, just a cheerful character, or very real and open with his feelings. I like that he did not BS-ed Charity with any kind of "I am falling for you" or "I am here for you", "Ready to get down on one knee" and instead he was real by saying "I have no idea, this is really hard for me here and I don´t think I will get there in this environment". He could have milked it until the end, he could have BS-ed her just to get more TV time but he decided to tell her the truth about how he felt. I rarely see this kind of honesty on the show, everyone usually just repeats the same old, Brayden was different.
@@IntrepidHolmes Most likely true, first impression rose on top of that ... shame, he made this particular season interesting for me, precisely for the reasons you have listed - cute, different and exciting. 😀
THANK YOU!!!!!ive always said i kind of understand where Brayden coming from and im younger than him.I feel like Brayden is now seeing how the show is playing out and realizing its not enough time to really CONNECT with charity in the midst of how long he’s been there and i think all the other men were like”at the end i gotta get down on one knee”and heres my thoughts personally,i feel that most of the guys arent ready for marriage either.I think their just saying it for the show sake bc they KNOW their pressured to get down on one knee at the end so they may be FORCING the connection because think abt it,the amount of time they film this show is NOT enough time to really bond with someone in order to purpose and I understand you know thats the purpose of the show and i know some people have a certain like instant connection/bond where they could say”oh im gonna marry this girl in a short amount of time”but lets keep it real,that is NOT the truth for most of them.like i said they may be feeling infatuation with charity cuz it may be like their “fairytale”love.But brayden wasnt there for that at first he was there for connections before marriage and i dont think the others could grasp that and would tell him they were “wasting her time”
@@angeljohnson1768i fully get your opinion , plus on these kind of shows alot of personalities clashing it's never going to end well , im sad he gone tho cause i was really rooting for them to be together at the end but everything happens for a reason tho . Even tho you could have seen how devastated charity was when he said he don't want to be there anymore and he want to go home . He definitely was one of her top picks so it was really sad for him to go and for all the men to gang up on him at the end of episode 4 .
Ew don’t cast him for paradise. He doesn’t even deserve that.
too late. He already went
Oh NO! This seriously is nauseating. Anyone can come on the show simply to stand out w/a stup!d personality + clown face jewelry…… not for love… simply for TV ratings only.
@@BitterSweetCoffee3is it airing?
@@surelyashley5726 Not yet but soon after the Bachelorette finale.
Agree. Plenty of other candidates on this bunch. Send some of the Gabby rejects to try and hook up with Rachel. I hear she is there this summer.
Brandon looks hot with is shirt off
It's "Brayden", Babes---
No 😬
Amen....
One thing I dislike about the Bachelor in particular is the constant need for the lead to always take his shirt off. It bugs me so much!! Then on The Bachelorette there's even more of a chance of it happening because there's more guys with the possibility of doing it.😬😬 I think the guys look really nice when they're dressed up for the rose ceremony.
Anda máquina nomás, nadie te detiene
i haven’t watched this season but Brayden is hotttttttt
he's not mature enough to be here and he's wasting her time. Go home and get some years and experience behind you. And loose the earrings.
I'm gonna miss the variety of earrings. 😅
almost as distracting as her lip manipulations
😂
@@IntrepidHolmes................Hell no !
He looks like he's related to Johnny Depp to me. It would be funny to see them photographed together, hehe.
He needed to go a few shows back. He's a grown CHILD. He was playing Charity and she deserves better. He knew there would be other men there. GLAD HE'S GONE!
Many players on this season, including him. He knew who were the players (takes one to know one) and called them out on it. The six that are left with still a few players on the group that are still there. Charity will send them home eventually.
He’s 24 💀 Vibrant and silly as he should be. Y’all want everyone to sticks up their behinds so bad! She liked him because he was so open and fun/funny. A grown man child who had more logic than majority of the men In the house?
He does not UNDERSTAND...fine....go home. Charity made the right decision. Good Girl.
HE left on his own. If it was up to her he would’ve stayed
I am so disappointed at her keeping him. He left.
Thank you for being smart and letting him go.He was so hard to watch .
He was my fav 💀 y’all trippin. and HE left on his own
@@Jess-yp9fo My favorite too!💙...He deserves better!
I can’t believe she is entertaining a man who wears dangling earrings bigger than hers as a potential husband. He would of been eliminated day one.
Ikr
Oof you are ignorant af
I kinda like it lol it’s giving Jason Mamoa
I'm not begging no man to stay wearing a blouse....🌹🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣and earrings i"m laughing so harddddd!!
Honestly I don't even know how he made it past the first rose
Because he’s handsome
He was pretty much the only one starting DRAMA on the show, so producers needed him to stay a while for ratings.
@@nicoleyulan3790 for sure, she was legit feeling him tho...
@@nicoleyulan3790 The fact y'all think it was just the producers and not charity herself head over heels for him is comical
The squirrel scouts the one with the long brown hair she did look scary her eyes look pretty and scary I don’t know what was going on with there but she didn’t look like she even really wanted to be there so that was not a good thing at all and I’m sure Brando will end up going on bachelor in paradise just like a lot of them
That little girl is a little beauty. The deadpan was directed.....
Adorable little girl with deadpan expression, no doubt directed .....
Finally he got eliminated I wanted him to be gone sooner
Brayden was not eliminated, he chose
to leave on his own
accord.
I hate how everyone is attacking him like the whole house said they would murder him that’s why he was uncomfortable. Like bro really y’all weird she’s human she not perfect he can have his own opinion. It’s two people in a marriage she has to have something to bring to the table too.
They have Officially "Jumped The Shark", absolutely unwatchable :-(
why is he wearing earings lol lame
So is ur comment: lame I
mean!
Whats up with those earrings 🙈
She should have been got rid of him
I agree
I can see having a girls sleepovers with Braydon... painting nail polishes. Trying on jewelleries, talking about cute boys, wearing pink pjs, brading eachothers hair, face mask and showing off new makeups that our mother bought for us.
He is f girl. What is wrong with this charity. What the h she sees.
hes not a nice person why should he be on this show the tv version comes out
He's very rude to her...
They should do a lgbtq bachelor!!...woohoo...party!!
I hope it NEVER comes
2 fruition we hv enough
problems with the media
showing soiled "time of
month" pads on commercials
nowadays. I just think that's
the gist of all american needs
2 see in there homes during
prime time television!
Brayden served our country in the US Army. What have you all done for your country?
That's nice.😊
We watched the bachelorette 2023
season, isn't that
enough? lol😂😅lol
@@IntrepidHolmes🤣
First, it's your jewelry box, then it'll be your panty drawer. Um, no.
He has native american roots
Oh my God, I’m watching this still, and he just ditch this beautiful black girl and he gets into a car with those earrings that are down to his shoulders… Dude… You’re killing everybody!!!!!!
Brayden is a top G.
What's a "G"?
@@user-mz5yi1vw8y beta comment🗿
I love Brave Brayden:)
Not going to go with this long earring wearing dude
Sup with lil homies chandelier ear rings , these women are looking for Men !
Can’t get pass them earbobs on a whole good looking dude! Just Y?🫤