Everybody express they love in so many ways. Even though he is a very humorous person, which it's nothing wrong with that, you can tell he 100% attracted to her and love her. You can also tell the chemistry between them. I believe they are going to have a very fun marriage despite everybody's opinions.
She’s probably not going to find one, nothing of what she said is in the Bible. Why would sex (God created) that’s so tempting for us be dependent on state recognition & a ring? 😭 God defined marriage clearly this false Roman Catholic doctrine is why so many are burning in passion.
@@daekwonrose3160 marriage is an institution between man and God bringing a woman under himself but its vows between your woman and To God its a holy thing the ring doesn’t matter but why not you know it is still a symbol i hope they’re married
@@ahaaha1411 It’s a man made symbol we need a ring to show we’re married and God does not “bring a woman under him” through marriage. He doesn’t need a man to marry a woman for that, he’s GOD.
@@ahaaha1411 Marriage is actually a display of God’s covenant and Love for his people. If you haven’t paid attention to scripture, Husbands play the role of the redeemer & wives the redeemed hence why husbands are to Love their wives and give their lives for her. Wives are to respect their husbands (assuming he’s a Godly man & not worldly) & obey as they do for the Lord ofc
I love how Ms. Rhonda acted like a beautiful lady she is. Very respectful, caring, and sticking to what she believes. I love it that you didn’t succumb or give into him. I like him as well but he really needs to mature before she decides to move on.
@@shan5445 what are her beliefs exactly. Cause I’m confused. She is having sex outside marriage, but wouldn’t live with the guy because of her religious beliefs🤯
i met a woman once who i thought i would marry she had everything i wanted in a woman but her religious principles came first before our relationship, then one day she thought she caught me with another woman (on the phone) then she termed me as the sinner and was very angry with me and did not want to hear my explanation and gave me the cold shoulder for over six months after which she decided to forgive me but then it was too late, i had already moved on, the next girl was exactly like her with one exception our relationship came first even before her religious principles, and now this is our 10th year of marriage, people are different what makes a relationship work is when the two become one, change what can be changed adapt to those that can't, don't look for flaws in one another, trust each other completely and enjoy the ride of life together.
She knew what he was like not their first time having sex probably wanted a new person no one just acts like this out the blue if you wanted out you could leave she must love it and the way he looks at her you know he loves her just cuz he's weird to ya don't mean shit
She shouldn’t be the bed with the man if she is supposed to be a moral women. He seems to be a little off to me. Marriage don’t seem to be a good idea.
So, she's not sharing herself, but she gotta get cleaned up and shower?? So, clearly she is sharing something. Oral sex is still sex church people. Lol
This woman said she is saving herself for marriage yet she is doing everything except the act of intimacy. You're still SATISFYING him and pleasuring him. #makeitmakesense
on the contrary, i laughed harder listening to her reasons. i didn't see an ounce of what she was saying in terms of compatibility throughout that video. he's dodging a bullet by leaving her be, she comes off super controlling. that's a red flag
They are perfect for each other!! they are attracted to and care for each other. 1. she has values. 2. he's a little kwirky ... 3. They both have a matching personality based on fun, keeping things light and exploration. they can work through their flaws because deep down she respects him and he would give his life to protect her.
His looks says pervert. He is a stranger to the truth and all the little things he is saying in between. She might be looking to settle because she thinks time is running out but he is not the one. He is full of himself and seem highly sexually charged.
Now I'm satisfied after seeing this! I saw the mini clip on instagram n said that I needed to see this full episode! I think they'll make it. They just need to compromise. Personally I wouldn't mind a man like this as long as he is a safe and good man to me❤❤❤
He's emotionally inept but sexually driven and covers it up by comedy. He knows he's punching above his weight hence why he was tracking her because he's afraid a more capable man would take her from him.
YOU NAILED IT‼️🎯 This the 1st time I heard of the "Before Your Vows" version of Dovorce Court. This is proactive and preventative. I observed their responses to the question of why they want to marry the other. Mark's words derived from his root/sacral space. Harriet's, I mean Rhonda, (her voice remind me of the mother from Family Matters), words came from her heart space. Mark's insecurities, stalking and deflection then trying to come off as a nice guy, best thing since slide 🍞 are major 🚩🚩🚩
He is quirky but you can tell he loves her and some men don't really know how to express their love with words and that's okay but I could tell that he really does love her and she really does love him They do need a little bit of counseling here and there but it is nothing beyond communication and his last little son was funny cuz why would you bring it to court but the role play part is not weird he has a food and roleplay fetish they can make it work I hope they do
Some people are okay with it and know the boundary but he’s clearly pointing out he can’t take her serious because “she’ll do this , which is close to that , but she won’t do that , but she’ll still do this”
She shouldn't be doing anything sexual AT ALL if she want to play that morality card before marriage. She's tempting the man by opening the pack but not letting him have some of the treats. Just because you're not doing plug in socket business doesn't mean you're being celibate/not committing fornication.
They are both extremely incompatible but I feel that’s why they love each other, she could easily get a church man but she doesn’t because they may be boring to her, I think the stuff she complains about she actually likes but she’s conflicted because her religion is pulling her in a different direction, he could find another woman but he won’t because he holds her to a high standard because she respects herself and preserves herself so the challenge strokes his ego, they are polar opposites but are perfect for each other
@@darkpisces8125 perhaps. and i've experienced some things that go directly against the teachings. But for meeting women it is one of the best places a man could look.
This is exactly what I'm saying. She's got to shower and clean up, but claims she is waiting for marriage? I'm confused as hell...you already doing stuff chuck sister. Smh it's funny how you pick and choose what is religiously acceptable and what isn't. 🙄
Honestly I think that was his whole thing fr. We doing it already y u holding back until marriage like im not already inside u. I didn’t get that but some people are like that🤷🏾♂️
@@aestheticxcheese2886 🙄that's so weak. People pick and choose what is acceptable to fit their "beliefs." To each their own but, if you have intimate contact (in any form), it's sexual.🤷🏽♀️
Ladies YOU give the man an expiration date. Do NOT go into a relationship letting a man drag you on for years and dangle a wedding ring over your head. There is no way the plaintiff should have waited 3 years for this man to marry her. 1 year max to date 2nd year engagement (WITH a wedding date set) 3rd year - this is DEFINITELY the year you should have your Wedding. If nothing happened within 3 years ladies- MOVE ON. Trust me. You have to be strong enough and wise enough to NOT waste your time with a man. He knows within that first year if he want to be with you for life or drag you on the rest of your life.
I would add a caveat that if marriage is delayed, there ought to be a legitimate reason. Some people don’t marry in 3 years due to religious differences (waiting on a conversion), job issues (waiting for overseas contracts to expire), relocation (waiting to secure a new home), etc.
This is good advice and will only work if women don't give in to sex until they are married. Men may like for women to be easy but they sure don't respect them. Their behavior towards women change after sex. Hold out and he will love and cherish you! I'm speaking from experience. I had to learn this lesson to.
This lady's voice sounds like Steve Urkel aka Jaleel White, when he did the character Myrtle Urkel lol. Close your eyes and you can hear it minus the accent.
These guys shouldn't devorce, their life is very alive and fun, just look at them, no anger, full laughter, this guy makes her happy and he looks like is in heaven when next to her..
He's weird. She's beautiful. I don't think he gets it. And he wants more loving before marriage and she wants marriage before more loving. This is the issue today. People get together and then figure out their wants, priorities, standards and boundaries after the fact. (Me included) When it needs to be the other way around. Not compatible.
I wish I saw this sooner because it’s very true. Honestly would have saved me a lot of pain. I appreciate your ability to reflect on those experiences. Truly a masterpiece of wisdom right here!
I couldn't be with a man who can't be serious. I'm all for humor; my sense of humor is A-1, but there's a time to be serious. I personally don't think they're compatible.
I’m convinced you’re out of your mind. You have so many comments in this thread all with different opinions. She’s a problem, no he’s a problem, you should be married within 3 years. Bro you have to be single. I couldn’t imagine anyone who would put up with this level of judgemental and demanding behaviour. I think you need to see a therapist and I hope you get better. Best of luck
@ToxicityOverlord the dude is a bit nasty, but the woman has a stick up her butt. How they made it to city hall to get that marriage license and actually consider it is beyond me.. This is so wild, I'm convinced of one thing, we all are getting hoodwinked. This is more show than reality.
I wouldn’t trust that guy as far as I could throw him. He seems controlling, demanding, immature and high maintenance. For me, he’s full of sh**! She on the other hand is a «tad» holier than thou. Leave me alone with religion PLEASE! I found her ‘Amens’ come very easily and it’s annoying. No, they are NOT compatible at all!
Mark is a borderline stalker, I think he have trust issues, I don't understand Rhonda, I respect her for being in the church and having morals, however why would she be in the bed with this man, granted it's possibility it wasn't sexual, yet there's temptation.
From experience I have very strong boundaries and am very very clear however I got into a predicament where I ended up in a hotel with a guy I was dating and I made very clear before he booked it we still won’t be having sex we were to go to bed ended with kissing and then did he or did he try pull it out needless to say he had a bitch fit and we ended it hahaha I’m thankful I didn’t give him the cookies but bottom line although I have restraint I just wouldn’t put either in such situation unless cookies are been given and received !!
@@Kneeyahwhy would you lay up with him and kiss him😭you’re performing foreplay atp , don’t do it half way. Bc if you say we’re not doing sex but start to do what is the beginning of something that leads to sex literally 9times out of 10 at a HOTEL why would he not get upset? By you going that far, it looks as if you changed your mind and was willing to come to the conclusion that it was okay to serve him when he was in heat..only for you to go halfway and then stop. Then, he’s the bad guy. You can change your mind at any point, yes. However, if when y’all are in the now and you start doing things that’s having you lean towards being okay with it only to snatch it back the final second…why would he not get upset. It’s like if your parent at first made it clear that they weren’t going to pay you for doing something they asked of you after you asked to get some money for it bc maybe it was a hefty job than any other job you’ve ever done. You sit there and understand why they’d say no, but then while you’re doing it, they begin to take money out, the amount of money you requested it and stood by the door with the money waiting for you to get finished. Only for you to go to them and when you go and grab the money and say thank you, they get upset that you got upset that after flaunting the money they said they wouldn’t give you, they ended up putting it back up the moment you went to reach for it. You’re not entitled to the money but the concept of holding it close to your face like that before putting it away is what’s upsetting . In both of these situations, it could be a coincidence to where doing this ≠ that but it’s also a situation to where the person doing it isn’t being aware of what their implications could mean and why. So instead of firmly not dancing around the topic, they intentionally or unintentionally tease the outcome of the person getting what they REALLY wanted.
Modestly and morally speaking she shouldn't be showering and getting in the same bed with him anyway if she wants to live in a Godly way but that aside what is going on with these grown people??? 🤭🤣
🙄 that is not in the Bible at all … in fact Ruth was washing boaz feet in his chambers- which is equivalent walking in a man shower to assist him - sooo? David watched besheba bath… Sarah told her husband to sleep with the servant… Have you read the songs of Solomon… very risqué stuff Where is this modest /moral Bible you speak of? Cause I think Joseph still confused about Mary 😂
@@rosey23607 huh? Modesty and morality isn't in the Bible?? The Bible itself is a moral guidebook. And maybe dig a little deeper into the story of Ruth and Boaz. It's completely different from the situation these ppl have put themselves in.
@@_stlouisLady_ Ive read it and I speak within the scope of this- not the scope of the entire Bible as Gods guidance to His followers. My point which you eloquently missed is that even those held high in Gods eye did some questionable things. Therefore show me this moral and modest Bible you speak of! Cause the one I have shows perfection and the imperfection / forgiveness for the sin/ etc…. Maybe you can study Jesus proverbs on throwing stones …. I find it humbles those that like to judge others- if not.. not my soul not my problem 🤪
You are 100% correct. Look they bringing up old testament to condone this women tempting this man and not expecting him to respond the way he is. She is outta order. People that compromise believe this is ok.
This hurts me cause women back then and now still shows how they will never enjoy life even in marriage he ain’t weird he’s adventurous and the judge was one sided
I agree with the Judge, this guy was a weirdo and he couldn't hide it for long. The longer he talked the more lame and narcissistic he sounded and ik y'all saw that look back and crazy eyes after the judge called him out!!! She still can't see though it all the way but I hope she saw soon after this cuz this man was not a good pick.
Omg I was wondering if I was the only one who saw it 🙈 after dealing with a narc for YEARS this is how it STARTS and it will get worse the longer they are together. Had no reason why he like her, not appreciative of what she does do, wanting her to give up all her boundaries instead of finding someone who doesn’t have them. Or I mean dang if you want it SO BAD from her after 3 years if you know her that well you could marry her. But he doesn’t want to cuz he wants it his way. (Also he is probably cheating which is why he accuses her of it) typical narc stuff. I hope she runs 😔
I like Mark for her. He seems very much into his girlfriend and to stay together for 3 years with this high sex drive and no sex! I can tell he really loves her.
He really could just ask if Rhonda was OK with that kinky stuff. You can't just do what you want and assume she'll automatically be into that. All he had to do was have a actual conversation. I see why she was very reluctant to marry him
This is the first couple to actually continue to live separately..thanks for actually sticking to your beliefs Edit: Absolutely no. If he wants more of your body and sexual intimacy before marriage…he needs another woman who wants that too. Simple.
My husband and I waited until we got married because of our religious belief. We were once outside there in our past relationships. For 2 years we waited kissed only on forehead. The day of our wedding last month, I've never felt this was about a man in my life because we waited and it has been great.
Oh no he does NOT love her. Are you kidding?? He wants to marry her because she’s good enough to be a wife but also vulnerable enough to keep up with bullshit he’s planning to do in the future. He values stability but wants to play and she’s the only woman with just ENOUGH beauty to handle his crap
Who came here because hey saw a clip on instagram 😂
Meeeeeeee
Lol I did no cap
😂 ong
Guilty 😂🤣
Hahahaha lol 😂
He looking at her like she’s a whole snack and meal😂
I read this and saw it exactly then 😭
All due respect she is 🤷🏿♂️😂🤣😂🤣. Mark better quit playing & grow up though
And the plate 🤣
😂😂😂😂
And shes legit skimping, this leads me to believe women really confused
They belong together. The love is REAL as real can get 😂
Every time he mentions he respects her, he jumps to her being beautiful. It's not love, it's lust.
@@JaxLittlesif you don’t lust over the one you love then that ain’t lasting long
Potato salad on the back TOOK ME THE F! OUT!😂😂😂😂😂
Everybody express they love in so many ways. Even though he is a very humorous person, which it's nothing wrong with that, you can tell he 100% attracted to her and love her. You can also tell the chemistry between them. I believe they are going to have a very fun marriage despite everybody's opinions.
I agree!
Shit fake
@@tdm6621 awesome
True that & she’ll never be sad !! Them babies gone come out smiling lol
The look on his face was like...AND I'LL DO IT AGAIN!
Mark be staring thinking “imma lick some candy yams off that after this shit done”
Who else goes to the comments to see how good the episode is
She was looking for a husband, he was looking for a buffet and/or buffet table 😮
She’s probably not going to find one, nothing of what she said is in the Bible. Why would sex (God created) that’s so tempting for us be dependent on state recognition & a ring? 😭 God defined marriage clearly this false Roman Catholic doctrine is why so many are burning in passion.
Nah, he was lookin for his other half. Notice that she’s in her 40s and still single. He just knew what he wanted.
@@daekwonrose3160 marriage is an institution between man and God bringing a woman under himself but its vows between your woman and To God its a holy thing the ring doesn’t matter but why not you know it is still a symbol i hope they’re married
@@ahaaha1411 It’s a man made symbol we need a ring to show we’re married and God does not “bring a woman under him” through marriage. He doesn’t need a man to marry a woman for that, he’s GOD.
@@ahaaha1411 Marriage is actually a display of God’s covenant and Love for his people. If you haven’t paid attention to scripture, Husbands play the role of the redeemer & wives the redeemed hence why husbands are to Love their wives and give their lives for her. Wives are to respect their husbands (assuming he’s a Godly man & not worldly) & obey as they do for the Lord ofc
I love how Ms. Rhonda acted like a beautiful lady she is. Very respectful, caring, and sticking to what she believes. I love it that you didn’t succumb or give into him. I like him as well but he really needs to mature before she decides to move on.
She doesn't give in she is sticking to her believes with Yam Yam being eaten of her body.
Yet she was having sex outside of marriage have a seat plz they both immature
@@shan5445 what are her beliefs exactly. Cause I’m confused. She is having sex outside marriage, but wouldn’t live with the guy because of her religious beliefs🤯
i met a woman once who i thought i would marry she had everything i wanted in a woman but her religious principles came first before our relationship, then one day she thought she caught me with another woman (on the phone) then she termed me as the sinner and was very angry with me and did not want to hear my explanation and gave me the cold shoulder for over six months after which she decided to forgive me but then it was too late, i had already moved on, the next girl was exactly like her with one exception our relationship came first even before her religious principles, and now this is our 10th year of marriage, people are different what makes a relationship work is when the two become one, change what can be changed adapt to those that can't, don't look for flaws in one another, trust each other completely and enjoy the ride of life together.
She knew what he was like not their first time having sex probably wanted a new person no one just acts like this out the blue if you wanted out you could leave she must love it and the way he looks at her you know he loves her just cuz he's weird to ya don't mean shit
This show makes me feel better about my life
Mines too! I’m single and happy!!! Thank you God 🙏🏾
Yes!
You and me both! lol.
Lol
🤣🤣 Agreed
The way the judge looked at em after she was talkin bout them yams 😅🤣
I feel they gonn have better chemistry 😂
I’m so glad the judge called him weird at the end bc that’s exactly what he is lol
They both weird.
Lol if she gave him the kitty he probably change they weirdness 😂
@@kchatman80able nahh both weirdos
Don't kink shame smh LOL
Which makes me think she's weird too or she's not that into him.
This man is funny 😂 he gonna throw your ph balance off but definitely funny
I laughed & choked at this comment🤣🤣
Lmfaooo
He gone ruin that PH 🤣
🤣🤣🤣 I am done!!!
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She shouldn’t be the bed with the man if she is supposed to be a moral women. He seems to be a little off to me. Marriage don’t seem to be a good idea.
This Is Best & Most Truthful Comment On Here, PERIODT!!! AMEN AMEN AMEN 🙏 🙌 👏 ❤️
Ok cause I’m tryna figure out exactly what they doin in bed that he bringing yams and potatoe salad!!!
Exactly. They are like 2 zerre zerre
So, she's not sharing herself, but she gotta get cleaned up and shower?? So, clearly she is sharing something. Oral sex is still sex church people. Lol
@@thebarbieinvestor5428 😂😂😂😂😂😂
This woman said she is saving herself for marriage yet she is doing everything except the act of intimacy. You're still SATISFYING him and pleasuring him.
#makeitmakesense
It won’t make sense because she’s a hypocrite.
Make it make sense
Makes it worse for the individual … has to be NO giving in.
@@lalaavid1674 💯💯💯
@@Jacksonvilleplanespotting2 💯💯💯
Not potatoe salad and yams full course sides 😭😭 that man HUNGRYY💀
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
still skinny
@@lamontejh that metabolism strong lol
Girly that man couldn’t even genuinely express why he likes/love you. RUN!! He takes you as a joke
Really..there should not be a reason to love cos if it does exists then there is no love .cos when the reason vanishes ,there won't be love anymore
on the contrary, i laughed harder listening to her reasons. i didn't see an ounce of what she was saying in terms of compatibility throughout that video. he's dodging a bullet by leaving her be, she comes off super controlling. that's a red flag
@@firstname6584 Facts
Or he has a hard time expressing emotions verbally… men are not the same as women
@@greatpyrenees559 boy bye
They are perfect for each other!! they are attracted to and care for each other.
1. she has values. 2. he's a little kwirky ... 3. They both have a matching personality based on fun, keeping things light and exploration.
they can work through their flaws because deep down she respects him and he would give his life to protect her.
All I’m getting is that man is a real freak 🤣😂 but she can’t handle that
These two look like characters out of a Madea movie.
Yes 😂
Her voice too😅😅😅
He’s the real reason judge toler left cause idk what he has going on 😂 I was uncomfortable watching this . Hopefully she run fast asf
Facts creep alert
He just loves to have fun.
His looks says pervert. He is a stranger to the truth and all the little things he is saying in between. She might be looking to settle because she thinks time is running out but he is not the one. He is full of himself and seem highly sexually charged.
She want the cow. But she doesn't wanna do the milk 😂
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🤣🤣🤣🤣 right! I'm like "that's not how any of this works" sir!
😂😂😂
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Judge had that look like she about to risk it all..LOL..LMAOOOO
Nah he gaslighted her this whole show. Run girl this man ain’t serious and he can’t acknowledge his faults. He was lying so much 😂
He’s too silly for me and plays too much!
What do a Fahg know about marriage or a relationship?
This why everyone aint for everybody
He's a Narcissist....RUN
Now I'm satisfied after seeing this! I saw the mini clip on instagram n said that I needed to see this full episode! I think they'll make it. They just need to compromise. Personally I wouldn't mind a man like this as long as he is a safe and good man to me❤❤❤
Rest in peace to your husband Big E judge Toler my heart goes out to you💐 🕊️ 🤴🏾
O wow 🙏🏾 sorry to hear that
🥺 .....💔 for her
I love the way she speaks and tells her stories
He's emotionally inept but sexually driven and covers it up by comedy. He knows he's punching above his weight hence why he was tracking her because he's afraid a more capable man would take her from him.
Now that’s a great synopsis
Wow that’s deep but probable
YOU NAILED IT‼️🎯
This the 1st time I heard of the "Before Your Vows" version of Dovorce Court. This is proactive and preventative.
I observed their responses to the question of why they want to marry the other. Mark's words derived from his root/sacral space. Harriet's, I mean Rhonda, (her voice remind me of the mother from Family Matters), words came from her heart space.
Mark's insecurities, stalking and deflection then trying to come off as a nice guy, best thing since slide 🍞 are major 🚩🚩🚩
Love tends to do that to a person but i think she also tracks him, she mentions several times
@Ben Son love does not do this. Insecure, abandonment issues, and unhealed trauma do this. This is not healthy behavior, it's toxic.
He is quirky but you can tell he loves her and some men don't really know how to express their love with words and that's okay but I could tell that he really does love her and she really does love him They do need a little bit of counseling here and there but it is nothing beyond communication and his last little son was funny cuz why would you bring it to court but the role play part is not weird he has a food and roleplay fetish they can make it work I hope they do
And he hanging in there with her
He's the type to try to break her will instead of dating a woman willing to live out his fantasy simple
“I love him I love sharing “
Rhonda dont mind getting that box ate.. talking bout not tell we married
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She should be dating someone from the church instead that would understand her more
have you seen the ratios of men to women in church? the numbers don't favor the ladies
@@XTRABIG yep and the men that are there tend to be older...
Yes fr
They are both over 50... three years of waiting...i think is too long...i thought she was much younger
She should have found a man who share her same values regarding pre marital sex
“I thought you were funny, now I just think you’re weird”
This man … no words 😂
But you still laying up with him. It's what you call straddling the fence.
Some people are okay with it and know the boundary but he’s clearly pointing out he can’t take her serious because “she’ll do this , which is close to that , but she won’t do that , but she’ll still do this”
She not going nowhere he got some money he taking care of her
@@Kneeyahis she unintentionally teasing him?
Lol. This guy is strangest person I've come across, my kids had more seriousness in life than him . He seems a little off in his head
Think so too
Why does he have to be so serious in life lol
She shouldn't be doing anything sexual AT ALL if she want to play that morality card before marriage. She's tempting the man by opening the pack but not letting him have some of the treats. Just because you're not doing plug in socket business doesn't mean you're being celibate/not committing fornication.
She's being courted your just uncultured
This is deep
I completely agree. The kiss on the lips is off limits if we want to keep it as holy as she pretended
They are both extremely incompatible but I feel that’s why they love each other, she could easily get a church man but she doesn’t because they may be boring to her, I think the stuff she complains about she actually likes but she’s conflicted because her religion is pulling her in a different direction, he could find another woman but he won’t because he holds her to a high standard because she respects herself and preserves herself so the challenge strokes his ego, they are polar opposites but are perfect for each other
Wow that's a good observation
Best comment on here
I see that too
My man has a food fetish, and loves role play. He needs to find someone who enjoys the same or at least open to exploring kink.
His first mistake was dating someone from church.
@@darkpisces8125 actually... the church is the best place. it's just she needs the peace of mind of marriage before she lets her other side vibe out
@@XTRABIG churches are scams.
@@darkpisces8125 perhaps. and i've experienced some things that go directly against the teachings. But for meeting women it is one of the best places a man could look.
Opposites attract , other women like him may not have the morals she does
3:30 he's like "damn girl, I hadn't thought about all of that"
😂 on god
Besides the arguing about him, you can see on her face she loves him 😂
3:30 damn it this man's already plotting the next candied yam moment in his head 🤣
The way he is looking at herrr😂😂 oh my goddd😂😂
When I heard her say a yam on her leg in the opener I thought that was code for peen. I had no clue we were talking about actual root vegetables.
Umm judge must’ve missed the fact that she is still being sexual with him. If you are waiting wait for everything
This is exactly what I'm saying. She's got to shower and clean up, but claims she is waiting for marriage? I'm confused as hell...you already doing stuff chuck sister. Smh it's funny how you pick and choose what is religiously acceptable and what isn't. 🙄
Honestly I think that was his whole thing fr. We doing it already y u holding back until marriage like im not already inside u. I didn’t get that but some people are like that🤷🏾♂️
@@MsBizzyRaethe bible says penetration before marriage is a sin I think she might just participate in foreplay.
@@aestheticxcheese2886 🙄that's so weak. People pick and choose what is acceptable to fit their "beliefs." To each their own but, if you have intimate contact (in any form), it's sexual.🤷🏽♀️
What I took is she’s trying. She’s human and bound to fall short.
She sounds like the Queen of Soul🥰… especially when she say “okay”…
The way they are before the judge is a glimpse of what their marriage will be like. No, he's not weird. He is strange! LOL Run girl run!
This can’t be real😂 😂😂😂😂😂 Yams as an aphrodisiac?? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂
I’m here for the yams girl 😂
not strawberries, cherries… but yams.
No, he's just an actor/ comedian from Ohio. Look him up, Mark E. Ridley
He seems a little off and she does too for dealing with him.
Ladies YOU give the man an expiration date. Do NOT go into a relationship letting a man drag you on for years and dangle a wedding ring over your head. There is no way the plaintiff should have waited 3 years for this man to marry her. 1 year max to date
2nd year engagement (WITH a wedding date set)
3rd year - this is DEFINITELY the year you should have your Wedding.
If nothing happened within 3 years ladies- MOVE ON. Trust me. You have to be strong enough and wise enough to NOT waste your time with a man. He knows within that first year if he want to be with you for life or drag you on the rest of your life.
I would add a caveat that if marriage is delayed, there ought to be a legitimate reason. Some people don’t marry in 3 years due to religious differences (waiting on a conversion), job issues (waiting for overseas contracts to expire), relocation (waiting to secure a new home), etc.
@@TeresaJeanna Or simply she just hasn't shown she was wife material
This is good advice and will only work if women don't give in to sex until they are married. Men may like for women to be easy but they sure don't respect them. Their behavior towards women change after sex. Hold out and he will love and cherish you! I'm speaking from experience. I had to learn this lesson to.
@@newhorizonsintuitiveguidance exactly
This is serious bad advice and a recipe for marrying the wrong person.
This lady's voice sounds like Steve Urkel aka Jaleel White, when he did the character Myrtle Urkel lol. Close your eyes and you can hear it minus the accent.
🤣
😭😭😭😭
These guys shouldn't devorce, their life is very alive and fun, just look at them, no anger, full laughter, this guy makes her happy and he looks like is in heaven when next to her..
He's weird. She's beautiful. I don't think he gets it. And he wants more loving before marriage and she wants marriage before more loving. This is the issue today. People get together and then figure out their wants, priorities, standards and boundaries after the fact. (Me included) When it needs to be the other way around. Not compatible.
Yup you’re on point these are thing that need to happen before hand
I wish I saw this sooner because it’s very true. Honestly would have saved me a lot of pain. I appreciate your ability to reflect on those experiences. Truly a masterpiece of wisdom right here!
I'm confused as to what exactly she is saving for marriage? It sounds like they Re already intimate.
I hope she don't married him. We may see him on the news one day
the judges face said "im trynna fuck around and find out"😝😂😭
I couldn't be with a man who can't be serious. I'm all for humor; my sense of humor is A-1, but there's a time to be serious.
I personally don't think they're compatible.
This woman is an example of what NOT to do when pursuing marriage.
I’m convinced you’re out of your mind. You have so many comments in this thread all with different opinions. She’s a problem, no he’s a problem, you should be married within 3 years. Bro you have to be single. I couldn’t imagine anyone who would put up with this level of judgemental and demanding behaviour. I think you need to see a therapist and I hope you get better. Best of luck
@@ToxicAnusPunch you sound like a female kmsl like for real
She needs to stay Single.
@ToxicityOverlord the dude is a bit nasty, but the woman has a stick up her butt. How they made it to city hall to get that marriage license and actually consider it is beyond me..
This is so wild, I'm convinced of one thing, we all are getting hoodwinked. This is more show than reality.
Exactly he’s spicing up the relationship trying to make it fun for both parties she’s to serious a relationship isn’t a business it’s a team thing
I wouldn’t trust that guy as far as I could throw him. He seems controlling, demanding, immature and high maintenance. For me, he’s full of sh**! She on the other hand is a «tad» holier than thou. Leave me alone with religion PLEASE! I found her ‘Amens’ come very easily and it’s annoying. No, they are NOT compatible at all!
what video were you watching, she's the controlling one.
Mark is a borderline stalker, I think he have trust issues, I don't understand Rhonda, I respect her for being in the church and having morals, however why would she be in the bed with this man, granted it's possibility it wasn't sexual, yet there's temptation.
From experience I have very strong boundaries and am very very clear however I got into a predicament where I ended up in a hotel with a guy I was dating and I made very clear before he booked it we still won’t be having sex we were to go to bed ended with kissing and then did he or did he try pull it out needless to say he had a bitch fit and we ended it hahaha I’m thankful I didn’t give him the cookies but bottom line although I have restraint I just wouldn’t put either in such situation unless cookies are been given and received !!
No, he's just an actor/ comedian from Ohio. Look him up, Mark E. Ridley
@@Kneeyahwhy would you lay up with him and kiss him😭you’re performing foreplay atp , don’t do it half way. Bc if you say we’re not doing sex but start to do what is the beginning of something that leads to sex literally 9times out of 10 at a HOTEL why would he not get upset? By you going that far, it looks as if you changed your mind and was willing to come to the conclusion that it was okay to serve him when he was in heat..only for you to go halfway and then stop. Then, he’s the bad guy. You can change your mind at any point, yes. However, if when y’all are in the now and you start doing things that’s having you lean towards being okay with it only to snatch it back the final second…why would he not get upset.
It’s like if your parent at first made it clear that they weren’t going to pay you for doing something they asked of you after you asked to get some money for it bc maybe it was a hefty job than any other job you’ve ever done. You sit there and understand why they’d say no, but then while you’re doing it, they begin to take money out, the amount of money you requested it and stood by the door with the money waiting for you to get finished. Only for you to go to them and when you go and grab the money and say thank you, they get upset that you got upset that after flaunting the money they said they wouldn’t give you, they ended up putting it back up the moment you went to reach for it. You’re not entitled to the money but the concept of holding it close to your face like that before putting it away is what’s upsetting . In both of these situations, it could be a coincidence to where doing this ≠ that but it’s also a situation to where the person doing it isn’t being aware of what their implications could mean and why. So instead of firmly not dancing around the topic, they intentionally or unintentionally tease the outcome of the person getting what they REALLY wanted.
Basically. He cheating. And neither of them give each other any reassurance.
He’s a stalker. I would be scared of him
Modestly and morally speaking she shouldn't be showering and getting in the same bed with him anyway if she wants to live in a Godly way but that aside what is going on with these grown people??? 🤭🤣
🙄 that is not in the Bible at all … in fact Ruth was washing boaz feet in his chambers- which is equivalent walking in a man shower to assist him - sooo?
David watched besheba bath…
Sarah told her husband to sleep with the servant…
Have you read the songs of Solomon… very risqué stuff
Where is this modest /moral Bible you speak of? Cause I think Joseph still confused about Mary 😂
@@rosey23607 huh? Modesty and morality isn't in the Bible?? The Bible itself is a moral guidebook. And maybe dig a little deeper into the story of Ruth and Boaz. It's completely different from the situation these ppl have put themselves in.
@@_stlouisLady_ Ive read it and I speak within the scope of this- not the scope of the entire Bible as Gods guidance to His followers.
My point which you eloquently missed is that even those held high in Gods eye did some questionable things. Therefore show me this moral and modest Bible you speak of! Cause the one I have shows perfection and the imperfection / forgiveness for the sin/ etc….
Maybe you can study Jesus proverbs on throwing stones …. I find it humbles those that like to judge others- if not.. not my soul not my problem 🤪
@@rosey23607this!! Thank you! There were imperfections! God still forgave them and loved them anyway. That’s the point!
You are 100% correct. Look they bringing up old testament to condone this women tempting this man and not expecting him to respond the way he is. She is outta order. People that compromise believe this is ok.
Dude is a freak, she needs a more conservative man.
She said oh mark, I was with you til then 😂
Saw this on Facebook had to look it up
She blessed freaky unc 😭😭😭 he never the same anymore
This man remind me of Jim Carey in The Mask loooool
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When she said he’s wierd he’s not he just a funny With a God heart character😂
They need a show! Somebody has to contact TLC or MTV come on now!
He definitely got a new girl after this🤣
When the clip from Instagram got me looking this up to here the rest of this piping hawt tea…
He nasty and weirds for her and she just needed to understand that ❤😂
I saw this on instagram and only typed "divorce court too freaky" and this was the first video to pop 😂😂😂😂
This is one of the most hilarious shows, I have watched.
Who else is here because of the small clip-on Tictoc?🤣😊😊
This hurts me cause women back then and now still shows how they will never enjoy life even in marriage he ain’t weird he’s adventurous and the judge was one sided
3:53 the way she looking him up and down 😭😭😭
She's trying to justifty reasonings for playing in the bed. Either you fornicating or you're not.
She using her religion all wrong why guy in your bed if you using religion sister
Because like most of the women she is a hypocriet she want hem to eat her box but she don’t let him hit
Uhn they are too cute to be real lol I need this sitcom. The way she says “Mark” is so cute.
Y’all going up the leg is crazy 😂
I agree with the Judge, this guy was a weirdo and he couldn't hide it for long. The longer he talked the more lame and narcissistic he sounded and ik y'all saw that look back and crazy eyes after the judge called him out!!! She still can't see though it all the way but I hope she saw soon after this cuz this man was not a good pick.
Y’all love to use that word narcissist but I bet u don’t even know the meaning lol
Y’all love to use that word narcissist but I bet u don’t even know the meaning lol
Omg I was wondering if I was the only one who saw it 🙈 after dealing with a narc for YEARS this is how it STARTS and it will get worse the longer they are together. Had no reason why he like her, not appreciative of what she does do, wanting her to give up all her boundaries instead of finding someone who doesn’t have them. Or I mean dang if you want it SO BAD from her after 3 years if you know her that well you could marry her. But he doesn’t want to cuz he wants it his way. (Also he is probably cheating which is why he accuses her of it) typical narc stuff. I hope she runs 😔
@@mikito. & theres always someone with your reply. "Yall love to use that word". Freedom of speech, don't like it, move onto the next comment!
I like Mark for her. He seems very much into his girlfriend and to stay together for 3 years with this high sex drive and no sex! I can tell he really loves her.
He has been getting sex you ain’t listening. He just over does it with the kinks
8:28 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 This will forever be in my mind 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Weirdo...Run!🏃🏿♀️🏃🏿♀️
I hope she doesn't marry him
Oh please get out becky
This is what you need in a 10-30 year marriage. Hope they married.
4 play with candied yams?? ☠️☠️🤣🤣
Who came here coz they saw a clip on Facebook 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.. this guy. I wanna be like him..❤️❤️
He really could just ask if Rhonda was OK with that kinky stuff. You can't just do what you want and assume she'll automatically be into that. All he had to do was have a actual conversation. I see why she was very reluctant to marry him
No, he's just an actor/ comedian from Ohio. Look him up, Mark E. Ridley
He’s looking at the judge like mmm what id do with some candied yams and all that skin
“drugs is a dangerous thing” he’s funny asf, they both dead wrong tho. They don’t need each other they need therapists
They love each other it’s so fire.
Mark seem like he's crazy asf 😂
Yup
😂😂😂😂😂
This is the first couple to actually continue to live separately..thanks for actually sticking to your beliefs
Edit: Absolutely no. If he wants more of your body and sexual intimacy before marriage…he needs another woman who wants that too. Simple.
My husband and I waited until we got married because of our religious belief. We were once outside there in our past relationships. For 2 years we waited kissed only on forehead. The day of our wedding last month, I've never felt this was about a man in my life because we waited and it has been great.
@@susang.pacheco1011 awww I absolutely love that
Mehn i literally just saw this on IG I came here to look for it and this the first one i stumbled upon .wow
Me too
Oh no he does NOT love her. Are you kidding?? He wants to marry her because she’s good enough to be a wife but also vulnerable enough to keep up with bullshit he’s planning to do in the future. He values stability but wants to play and she’s the only woman with just ENOUGH beauty to handle his crap