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I came to NZ 30 odd years ago and 8 years in, went back “home” for a visit. It seemed everyone was so negative and complaining, I breathed a sigh of relief when I touched back down in Auckland......and was happy to be back home in NZ. NZ is definitely the best country in the world for me ❤
I came to New@Zealand in 1974. Walked out of my office in Washington DC , left everything and everyone behind and boarded an Air NZ jet. Never looked back Realised every dream i ever had in the States but couldnt break down the doors. Still living the dream and so content and happy in this amazing country ....
@@Kiwiamericans hi again..yes, my degree in usa was in fashion but i longed to break into the world of childrens books..writing and illustrating. Every door i knocked on said oh you have to get a degree in childrens book illustration. I arrived in nz... 3 months later met an author who i began working with and together we published over 150 books worldwide ...and im still publishing.
@@paulg3336 hi Paul, on one of my many trips to South India to see Sathya Sai Baba, the most revered holy man there (Indian government honored him recently with a first day edition stamp n envelope) , he said the following about NZ in 1998. "In future NZ will be a point of stability in an unstable world. It is clean. It is green. It is safe. It will be one of the New Countries of the Millenium. It will be New Sai Land. "
Such an underrated but true comment 🤣 She had to leave the "land of the free" and go to the land of the long white cloud a "socialist state" (because they have a public heath system) to find freedom, ah the irony.
This is just an observation but it seems like the US really live in their own world/bubble and don't realise there is a whole other world and culture outside of the US.
You can see that on TH-cam shorts,when they are asked simple questions,that they can't answer, like "What country does the Queen of England come from?", and they have zero idea.
I beg to differ that most people in general live in their own bubble. Sure Kiwis know a thing or two about the US, but I can’t say I’ve been impressed by their knowledge of non western countries, like those in Latin America where a good bulk of my heritage comes from. I got asked so many rude questions while I was in NZ.
@@nzfalcon6578 at first I thought the policing was too soft but over time came to appreciate their hesitancy for force. Non violent crimes are solved with non violent policing. They show patience, listen and not assume they know everything.
Tara have you gone to Eden Park and experienced the NZ Haka performed in front of 50,000 people yet? If not, even if you do not like Rugby, take your hubby and go do it. Enough electricity to power the world for an hour.
As a kiwi who lived elsewhere for 7 years I recognise the cultural difference and came to really appreciate what we have here, consumerism adds huge stress to society which for me has led to having a healthy distain for the marketing industry. I've watched friends change and become essentially unhappy people as theyve gone about acquiring wealth and lose the enjoyment of the simple things in life because everything is measured by the dollar. Its nice to hear you recognise the simple things that really make life good, and it sounds like you might be able to now consider yourself at least part kiwi. 👊☺
I believe there is a direct correlation between consumerism, competition and high levels of stress, anxiety and feelings of inadequacy and discontent. I’ve made my own gradual shifts over the years and feel more free, grateful, centered, present and authentic than ever. Thank you for this video!
Coming from South Africa, I can tell anyone - New Zealand is a stunning country. I still can't get used the fact that cars park in the street, no one wants to steal your stuff and people are just so trusting - as it should be. Clean, modern and functional, have not missed South Africa for 1 second!
Everything you've described since being in NZ has always been in you You just had to come here to see feel and live it Better late than never Wonderful!
I have lived in NZ all my life, and I noticed that American who have just arrived in NZ are use to everything been done straight away, and once they have lived in NZ for 4 to 6 weeks, they started acting more relax and enjoyed the work/life balance.
Thanks Tara for your honesty and frankness and belief to post them all up here. It can no doubt be stressful but ignore any negative nellies and keep doing what makes you happy. I for one am glad NZ gets to have you and your family live here. We need more people like yourselves to continue building a NZ we can all love.
Totally agree. Good to have Tara providing that Q&A support for Americans moving here. It is different for sure. We’re just a dot on the map, which in itself must be a major change in mindset! We certainly have our issues but hopefully our little piece of the South Pacific will become home for those willing and excited to try something different.
Got that one right. It amuses me how British we still are after all these years and yet in the same time so multi cultural. Accepting other cultures is one thing I'm totally proud of in NZ. We are changing our narrative and learning from the mistakes of the past. Well trying.. If I had to make a choice I would chose NZ over USA everytime. Please take it as it's written and don't read something that's not there. Peace and love for a country that has learnt to love culture & our differences.
Your view on consumerism in New Zealand is interesting. I think a lot of especially older Kiwis think we are really consumer driven nowadays compared to maybe 20 or 30 years ago - I certainly do. There are more billboards, more pressure advertising, more sales, more "buy, buy, buy". To hear that we are comparatively not that way really highlights the benefits of an outside view. The same applies to our environmental impacts, we see the dirty rivers, the rubbish, the pollution, the waste. Whereas to someone from another country they see how much better we are than most everywhere else. And yeah - gotta have good coffee. I don't know how anyone can claim that crap they serve up in America is "good".
Yes yes yes exactly... I have bee screamed at when I talk about how amazing your environmental impact is because comparatively it is soo much better. Even in the 7 years I have been here... I can see how consumerism has changed in NZ.... but at least you are way behind the US :)
The part about kids and presents at Christmas really struck me. Thanks to American TV I've been plenty exposed to the toy frenzy of an American Christmas, but it never really occurred to me how it's not like that here. Certainly for myself, from the age of about 10 my relatives typically just gave me cash or Warehouse vouchers for Bdays and Christmas, because there was nothing I really wanted enough to have mentioned it so they didn't know what I even liked.
Kia ora. This was quite interesting. My boss is an American woman who married a kiwi and they came home with their baby who is now 6. Our boss has a huge, huge work ethic - she stays on the job until its done to her incredibly high standard (which is really hard to live up to.. lol) Cee (not her real name) is a former vet, a West Point graduate with multiple tours under her belt - I have to say its impressive as hell. Anyway shes incredibly lovely, incredibly intelligent and a hardworking machine. Since shes been here, she has very impressively learnt a fair bit of Reo. She uses it fairly well, and importantly she uses it appropriately and pronunciation is on pointe. I hope she becomes as settled in her kiwi world as you have - and just not work and stress so hard. Nga mihi (thank you) - Meri Kirihimete kia koe a whanau (Merry Christmas to you and your family).
Merry Christmas! Wow there's is a West Point grad in this country. I love hearing your perspective on her work ethic... yes it works be a bit of an adjustment for her
@@Kiwiamericans she s very humble, no tall poppy for her that's for sure. Her and the whanau have gone back home for a month so their son can expeeience a white Xmas (something she misses the most) and also visit the happiest place on earth ;) - good on her too, she certainly deserves a good break. Take care
This is your best video yet.Just look back a couple of years or more and see how you approached being yourself on film. Fast forward and the change is evident, the look in your eye, your whole presence. I'm getting 'authentic' you. I think it takes real courage to embrace being who you really are.I honestly think that is the essence of being a New Zealander.
You really are inspirational Tara. You are so positive about NZ even though things are far from perfect. The Global economy is in such a mess right now and NZ is likely to have some tough times over the next few years - there is a lot of uncertainty in the world right now. It is so refreshing to watch such an upbeat and optimistic person on TH-cam.
Love to have you in my country feel free to discover out beautiful country youre kids can walk or bus to school ..totally safe,goodness you can even have a whole beach to yourselves...
I honestly don't know how or why the American people put up with a system that will not care for them if they don't have health insurance. That stress alone is daunting.
@@Kiwiamericans the Insurance companies have Americans over a barrel. I view NZ socialized health care as collective bargaining. Because there is one main supplier with taxpayers money they can bargain the costs down from suppliers. This system is open for abuse though.
A difference I notice : get to the checkout operator In the US he/she talks like off a script like a robot "Sir would that be all Sir, place your item here Sir! Insert your card there Sir! NZ: (half speed) Not a bad day eh?.. Pause... Will you need a bag with that?..Pause.. Yup.. Swipe when your ready, have a good day! Smile /Thanks mate
Hi Tara, I’m happy that you can see the changes in your outlook and you have acclimated to the NZ environment. I wish the best for you and your family for the year and I hope you channel continues to grow.
Excellent reflections! Even during just a three week holiday to New Zealand we felt many of the things you describe and could tell that NZ has a really great culture and way of life that we long for here. Many of us still in America can also see that America is the odd one out these days - the rest of the world can teach us a thing or two (or three or four) about how to do big things better, but there is this culture of pride that prevents us from reaching out and/or changing our ways. It's a shame, and will likely be our downfall!
Dear Lady, I'm really pleased to hear your comments for how relaxed you feel surely brings you a quality of life. I often enjoy your content please continue Regards GL 🌷🌷🌷
As a kiwi just returned from living in the US for the past 12 year, I agree 100% with what you say. I love the US, but this is a different place, a better place.
I was recently in Las Vegas and i was surprised that there are no cafe's that do espresso coffee where you can actually just sit down and drink good coffee. The only places were starbucks and you usually have to que for ages. Why do starbucks have a monopoly on espresso coffee?
The Americans I know (here in NZ) are lovely and usually they are here because they wanted something different! I think it's ironical that US citizens think they have the 'Land of the Free' but then they move here and wow, more freedom than then had ever had before! I'm so glad that you and your family enjoy life here... Merry Christmas to you all :)
With your experiences of America and New Zealand there is probably just 1 main question - How is your stress levels? Another question could be - do you have a vegetable garden? Maybe fruit trees? Anywhere you are there is always going to be Pro's and Con's.
I've just left new zeland for a two year visa in Canada. And I miss it so much already after just 3 weeks 😂 your videos have been a really nice way to unwind at the end of the day when I'm missing home!
I tried to relate most of this stuff to a friend in the midwest, a hard right winger, but it was water off a ducks back. He just couldn't get it, felt we were SOCIALISTS (lots of hissing and crosses like we were Dracula or something lol), and in the end wasn't interested in our way of life. Pitied him really...
I've watched most of your videos and as a Kiwi, its great to hear your points of view. I'm so glad you have settled in and your children are doing well. Have you completed a video with the kids and their views since moving here. Its really great to hear from other nationalities how NZ is doing as the preferred country to live. Keep up the great videos and hope to see some of your holidays to the South Island 🤣 only cos I live here 😏
Thank you so much! I love the South island!! Yes my kids have been in some videos but mainly on my training hub or podcast as they are more comfortable with that. Thanks for your encouragement
Living in Australia for a couple of decades which is a lot more 'Americanised' than NZ; this place pretty much took the U.S as a template with it's setup...states, a senate, a designed capital in Canberra (the ACT) which mirrors the Washington D.C etc etc. Going back home to NZ for a holiday is a step down in stress, can feel it falling off just being in the middle of all that scenery which seems to speak to you on a cellular level..there is so much spirit in that place. That combined with the laid back vibe of NZers is something you feel instantly. Will be retiring back to NZ in a few years despite Australia being a fantastic place in some ways (mainly the ability to choose a climate that suits from cool Tasmania all the way up to tropical Darwin). Can see how you feel so relaxed in NZ...
@@jenniferandrew2470 Obviously you didn't have the requisite level of ambition ! The term was coined, if I remember correctly , by someone bemoaning the thought that NZ was essentially going to stagnate because no one was willing to work hard past that point .
You should mention how NZ has changed since you moved here. I think most Kiwis are afraid that Americans will try and change the culture. James Cameron tried to make the country Vegan. Most of it starts in the Universities.
Hey ya Tara. As always another great video regarding your life living in New Zealand. Keep up the great work Tara. I'm sure it helps a lot of Americans (as well as other Nationalities) contemplating the big move to New Zealand.
I enjoy your vids. I have been here in Kapiti for a little over 40 years.......before that spent 5 years in Aus. When I first came in the 70's I felt like I had stepped back to the 50's. Milk came to your letterbox in a glass bottle with the cream on top and was 4 cents a pint......Growing up in Flint Michigan seems so far behind me. It's been a good life living down under, glad to see you learnig to love it.
I like running into Americans in NZ, I love hearing their beautiful rounded accents, (especially the female voice) I like the way they say "ayand" instead of just "and" just like you did in this video 🙂
It sounds like coming here has been great for you, and that is terrific to hear. From media at least, I get the sense that we are a much less polarised society in NZ and long may that stay that way. I worry for the US and Europe in that regard.
I recently went on the canyon swing in Queenstown, on the coach travelling with me was a guy from California. He had already been skydiving, bungy jumping and had partaken of some other activity. He claimed that because of H&S laws he was unable to do some of these activities in the US. There is definitely a different attitude to life and a can do attitude to make thing happen in NZ. Obviously the law around suing when things go wrong makes a huge difference.
I agree consumerism is so big in the US. I'm Italian, and when I've lived in the US I somehow got sucked in in the whole needing all the things: bigger car, bigger house, more decor for the house, more clothes... Then we moved to Germany, and now the UK (yes we move a lot :D ) and I realized how bad I was becoming!
hi i havent watched the clip yet tbh its playing as i type so i just want to say reading the title, i hope you have found the change choice? because we appreciate you. kia ora whanaunga.
One thing I have noticed about your videos over a few years is I think you have increased your speed of speaking more in line with Kiwis. So often when conversing with American's I have wanted to ask them to spit it out. I feel like they are so slow at talking as if they are revelling in being the focus of attention, whereas kiwis want to get their point across so they can get the other person's response and move the conversation forward. Chatting with some American's can really drag sometimes.
A few years ago my cousin went to LA just for few weeks, when he got back he said he was so glad to be back here in NZ. Id still like to visit the US. It seems the USA is on a downward spiral and its all happening quite rapidly so it understandable why any sane person would want to leave there.
Time flew by aye.. you have changed since living here, you look more relaxed, looking good, interesting korero 👌👍🇳🇿awesome . I have a good friend who moved back to Virginia, I keep in contact with her. I loved how she talked and my nephews loved her because she was a pro on PS4 😊
@@Kiwiamericans shes okay, she went home to look after her grand parents She does miss it here. I hope she comes back, it cool having a friend from the US
Hi there, I think the more Americans that come here the better. They bring so much, covering many aspects. Americans are highly motivated and talented, with a get on and do it attitude. New Zealand benefits on so many levels with the influx of Americans, and that's my honest opinion.
As a Kiwi I have no problem with Americans in general...what makes me sick is some terrible tragedy will happen and you will just hear people bang on about individuals rights in a document written hundreds of years ago all the while pointing and blaming others while offering no real ideas of improvement. . I'm a middle-aged man and have never heard an American at any level of power admit fault and pledge to do better. Perhaps it the being seud thing that makes people that way.
When your healthcare is dependent on whether or not you have a job...that's a problem. As a New Zealander l realized that it's a lot more nuanced than that generalization but l've spoken with a number of Americans about that and the majority of them always seem (at some stage during the conversation) to mention the fact that there are so many more opportunities in the US 🤔 😅🤣😂 Excuse the local humor.
@@harrycurrie9664 why metric not only makes more logical sense it's also way easier you are only dealing with one base 10. Graduate science and engineering students studying anywhere but the us struggle in part due to there reliance on the imperial system
@@harrycurrie9664 really! With all due respect it doesn't make much sense. NZ changed to decimal or metric shorty after o started school and are familiar with both. Metric is way easier. But nevermind whatever rocks your world. To use a kiwi- ism all good, sweet as
I attended an American run/owned high school in NZ back in the late 1960s. 95% of my teachers were American and I really had a hard time dealing with where they were coming from....................
What is the best month to visit New Zealand meaning weather like even though it does not bother me because to me it looks like the pass there is nice meaning you can take your time to visit the country and live there for me and my family thank you and god bless you and your family also
Because Americans are different is what I love about them. They challenge the status quo hence why they forge and do what they do. You're lucky you have the best of both worlds where you can utilise the best of everything. Happy holidays 😊
I thought NZ was becoming like America with spending because kids have youtube and the internet but I didnt realise how much americans actually spent. As you said tho the cost of things would have a big influence on it all. If it was cheaper in NZ I think we would be like America.
Kiwi here. I started watching a few older episodes from you, and thought : why is this woman talking so fast...? I could barely keep up... (English being my 2nd language) This video sounds like you've embraced the slower way of life here... no hurry- time enough to think... I've lived here 30 years- I went back to Europe after 5 years- after 3 weeks I'd done and seen what I wanted, and all I wanted was to go home! Some of us are born in the wrong country...
Compared to your earlier videos you are relaxed. As for Americans being separate, I've got my own theory and you hit on this yourself before. You said Americans think they have monopoly on the concept of freedom. Americans are so anti English whether consciencely or not. Changes the language/concept of freedom/quite arrogant in opinions/taking advantage of staff and concept of human rights/gun laws/ no understanding of now British & Commonwealth countries can support a long tradition of monarchy. On the other hand believing someone has your back and trust it. It's not about agreeing it's about believing it will all be fine. Yes very much Christian belief system, not always about agreeing, accepting the narrative. NZ gave women the right to vote first, just saying. A LOT of USA tv programs have so much violence, it makes me wonder if they think that's how the world reacts to crime, YEAH...NAH just THEM. It's all about CONTROL. Just my opinion and a girl who analyses everything.
Yes I agree that as an American it feels weird to rely in other countries as we just build the biggest military so we don't have too. It is refreshing to see that working together works
I love New Zealand even though it's far away from my home country Nigeria, sometimes I just feel like jumping into the plane and landing in New Zealand. I sent you an email, please 🙏 reply.
They were once. Invented a lot of things the world has benefited from. Too many to mention. Policies from successive governments have ruined it. But they were great once. Much to admire from parts of their history as a world leader in a lot of industries. You name it they got into it. Industrial, architectural, technology, sports, movies, fashion, space travel and so on. Amazing to be honest. Huge impact around the world. It’s not like that now but wow. They were awesome once. I’m NZ Māori so I understand the history of injustices. Not talking about that. Just the above mentioned.
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Ok thank you
I came to NZ 30 odd years ago and 8 years in, went back “home” for a visit. It seemed everyone was so negative and complaining, I breathed a sigh of relief when I touched back down in Auckland......and was happy to be back home in NZ. NZ is definitely the best country in the world for me ❤
Sooo true ... I really noticed when I was home in July how miserable everyone was
Tell that to 800.000 thousand New Zealanders living and working in Australia, and they're always complaining lol.
Yes agree. NZ is much better and with a safe and peaceful lifestyle.
I came to New@Zealand in 1974. Walked out of my office in Washington DC , left everything and everyone behind and boarded an Air NZ jet. Never looked back
Realised every dream i ever had in the States but couldnt break down the doors. Still living the dream and so content and happy in this amazing country ....
This is amazing... thanks for sharing your story
@@Kiwiamericans hi again..yes, my degree in usa was in fashion but i longed to break into the world of childrens books..writing and illustrating. Every door i knocked on said oh you have to get a degree in childrens book illustration. I arrived in nz... 3 months later met an author who i began working with and together we published over 150 books worldwide ...and im still publishing.
@@lynkriegler8634 Maybe we should have a new national motto.
Ooh ,I have one , original and unique too: "The Land Of Opportunity"
@@paulg3336 hi Paul, on one of my many trips to South India to see Sathya Sai Baba, the most revered holy man there (Indian government honored him recently with a first day edition stamp n envelope) , he said the following about NZ in 1998. "In future NZ will be a point of stability in an unstable world. It is clean. It is green. It is safe. It will be one of the New Countries of the Millenium. It will be New Sai Land. "
Your deprogramming is coming along nicely . Keep up the good work .
Such an underrated but true comment 🤣 She had to leave the "land of the free" and go to the land of the long white cloud a "socialist state" (because they have a public heath system) to find freedom, ah the irony.
This is just an observation but it seems like the US really live in their own world/bubble and don't realise there is a whole other world and culture outside of the US.
Less Americans have passports, unless they join their military.
Very true
You can see that on TH-cam shorts,when they are asked simple questions,that they can't answer, like "What country does the Queen of England come from?", and they have zero idea.
I'll stand corrected on this, but I was informed that George W Bush didn't get a passport until he became President.
I beg to differ that most people in general live in their own bubble. Sure Kiwis know a thing or two about the US, but I can’t say I’ve been impressed by their knowledge of non western countries, like those in Latin America where a good bulk of my heritage comes from. I got asked so many rude questions while I was in NZ.
A reminder that we are a human being, not a human doing. Glad that you are enjoying your liberation. Kia kaha.
I immigrated to nz 18 years ago. Nz allows me the freedom to be more American than America does . It's true freedom without the judgment.
Awe I love this.. I may have to steal it ( so american of me)
@@Kiwiamericans steal away. I truly believe I'm recreating so much of my childhood from south Alabama here in Nz but in a safer environment.
Did you know they used to say NZ was more British than Britain. Interesting.
how did you find the policing here in NZ compaired to the US ? ( if you have had any dealings with the NZ police )
@@nzfalcon6578 at first I thought the policing was too soft but over time came to appreciate their hesitancy for force. Non violent crimes are solved with non violent policing. They show patience, listen and not assume they know everything.
Welcome to our world...its not about the big dollar, it's about living life to its fullest without the drama. Enjoy NZ.
I give credit to you, as well as to Americans I know personally, for being willing to embrace the Kiwi lifestyle and to respect Polynesian culture.
Awe thanks... it is a blessing to be here
Tara have you gone to Eden Park and experienced the NZ Haka performed in front of 50,000 people yet?
If not, even if you do not like Rugby, take your hubby and go do it. Enough electricity to power the world for an hour.
I have seen it in Wellington and was brought to tears
As a kiwi who lived elsewhere for 7 years I recognise the cultural difference and came to really appreciate what we have here, consumerism adds huge stress to society which for me has led to having a healthy distain for the marketing industry. I've watched friends change and become essentially unhappy people as theyve gone about acquiring wealth and lose the enjoyment of the simple things in life because everything is measured by the dollar. Its nice to hear you recognise the simple things that really make life good, and it sounds like you might be able to now consider yourself at least part kiwi. 👊☺
Thanku for reminding me how beautiful our county and people are. I'm soo glad you're here!
Awe thanks so much for your kind words
I believe there is a direct correlation between consumerism, competition and high levels of stress, anxiety and feelings of inadequacy and discontent. I’ve made my own gradual shifts over the years and feel more free, grateful, centered, present and authentic than ever. Thank you for this video!
Coming from South Africa, I can tell anyone - New Zealand is a stunning country. I still can't get used the fact that cars park in the street, no one wants to steal your stuff and people are just so trusting - as it should be. Clean, modern and functional, have not missed South Africa for 1 second!
Soo very true!!
Bless You
Everything you've described since being in NZ has always been in you You just had to come here to see feel and live it Better late than never Wonderful!
Awe yes exactly... so well said
I have lived in NZ all my life, and I noticed that American who have just arrived in NZ are use to everything been done straight away, and once they have lived in NZ for 4 to 6 weeks, they started acting more relax and enjoyed the work/life balance.
Yes that is a huge adjustment
True. They just have to be more adoptable. I was also the same but now I love it so much that I think it is the best country. Goodbye America forever.
Thanks Tara for your honesty and frankness and belief to post them all up here. It can no doubt be stressful but ignore any negative nellies and keep doing what makes you happy. I for one am glad NZ gets to have you and your family live here. We need more people like yourselves to continue building a NZ we can all love.
Awe thanks so much for your kind words
Totally agree. Good to have Tara providing that Q&A support for Americans moving here.
It is different for sure. We’re just a dot on the map, which in itself must be a major change in mindset!
We certainly have our issues but hopefully our little piece of the South Pacific will become home for those willing and excited to try something different.
Definition of being a Kiwi is Chill.
Got that one right. It amuses me how British we still are after all these years and yet in the same time so multi cultural. Accepting other cultures is one thing I'm totally proud of in NZ. We are changing our narrative and learning from the mistakes of the past. Well trying.. If I had to make a choice I would chose NZ over USA everytime.
Please take it as it's written and don't read something that's not there. Peace and love for a country that has learnt to love culture & our differences.
Your view on consumerism in New Zealand is interesting. I think a lot of especially older Kiwis think we are really consumer driven nowadays compared to maybe 20 or 30 years ago - I certainly do. There are more billboards, more pressure advertising, more sales, more "buy, buy, buy". To hear that we are comparatively not that way really highlights the benefits of an outside view. The same applies to our environmental impacts, we see the dirty rivers, the rubbish, the pollution, the waste. Whereas to someone from another country they see how much better we are than most everywhere else.
And yeah - gotta have good coffee. I don't know how anyone can claim that crap they serve up in America is "good".
Yes yes yes exactly... I have bee screamed at when I talk about how amazing your environmental impact is because comparatively it is soo much better. Even in the 7 years I have been here... I can see how consumerism has changed in NZ.... but at least you are way behind the US :)
The part about kids and presents at Christmas really struck me. Thanks to American TV I've been plenty exposed to the toy frenzy of an American Christmas, but it never really occurred to me how it's not like that here. Certainly for myself, from the age of about 10 my relatives typically just gave me cash or Warehouse vouchers for Bdays and Christmas, because there was nothing I really wanted enough to have mentioned it so they didn't know what I even liked.
Kia ora. This was quite interesting. My boss is an American woman who married a kiwi and they came home with their baby who is now 6. Our boss has a huge, huge work ethic - she stays on the job until its done to her incredibly high standard (which is really hard to live up to.. lol) Cee (not her real name) is a former vet, a West Point graduate with multiple tours under her belt - I have to say its impressive as hell. Anyway shes incredibly lovely, incredibly intelligent and a hardworking machine. Since shes been here, she has very impressively learnt a fair bit of Reo. She uses it fairly well, and importantly she uses it appropriately and pronunciation is on pointe. I hope she becomes as settled in her kiwi world as you have - and just not work and stress so hard. Nga mihi (thank you) - Meri Kirihimete kia koe a whanau (Merry Christmas to you and your family).
Merry Christmas! Wow there's is a West Point grad in this country. I love hearing your perspective on her work ethic... yes it works be a bit of an adjustment for her
@@Kiwiamericans she s very humble, no tall poppy for her that's for sure. Her and the whanau have gone back home for a month so their son can expeeience a white Xmas (something she misses the most) and also visit the happiest place on earth ;) - good on her too, she certainly deserves a good break. Take care
@@aniolson1808 That is sooo nice - I would really love a white Christmas this year!
This is your best video yet.Just look back a couple of years or more and see how you approached being yourself on film. Fast forward and the change is evident, the look in your eye, your whole presence. I'm getting 'authentic' you. I think it takes real courage to embrace being who you really are.I honestly think that is the essence of being a New Zealander.
I'm living in Rarotonga at the moment and your videos remind me how much I miss NZ of old. Thanks so much
Watching your live the other day... you were totally a kiwi with the kiwi chill attitude.. .. your lovely friend Was on speed lol 😆
I noticed that too
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Ok really.. I was feeling that way as well. Why she git so many decorations.. my goodness
You really are inspirational Tara. You are so positive about NZ even though things are far from perfect. The Global economy is in such a mess right now and NZ is likely to have some tough times over the next few years - there is a lot of uncertainty in the world right now. It is so refreshing to watch such an upbeat and optimistic person on TH-cam.
Awe thanks... I agree that more positive and encouraging content needs to be created
My husband and I cannot wait to move to NZ. We just want a safer place for our children and keep the values. We are in the US.
Awesome.. I am here to help!
Love to have you in my country feel free to discover out beautiful country youre kids can walk or bus to school ..totally safe,goodness you can even have a whole beach to yourselves...
@@Kiwiamericans yay thank you. Your channel is really helpful.💗
@@louissmith6300 thank you
I honestly don't know how or why the American people put up with a system that will not care for them if they don't have health insurance. That stress alone is daunting.
Man do I see how bad it is now!!
@@Kiwiamericans the Insurance companies have Americans over a barrel. I view NZ socialized health care as collective bargaining. Because there is one main supplier with taxpayers money they can bargain the costs down from suppliers. This system is open for abuse though.
I still laugh when I see my Kiwi mates sneer at 'filtered coffee' or is it 'philtered coffee' 8)
Love your honesty and openness - Christmas we always got a Wish, a want, and a need and an experience 🎉
Love that.. glad you liked it!
the blue sky background is immaculate! so peaceful and calm ❤
A difference I notice : get to the checkout operator
In the US he/she talks like off a script like a robot "Sir would that be all Sir, place your item here Sir! Insert your card there Sir!
NZ: (half speed) Not a bad day eh?.. Pause... Will you need a bag with that?..Pause.. Yup.. Swipe when your ready, have a good day! Smile /Thanks mate
Oh man good point
Hi Tara, I’m happy that you can see the changes in your outlook and you have acclimated to the NZ environment. I wish the best for you and your family for the year and I hope you channel continues to grow.
Awe thanks for taking the time to give some encouragement
Excellent reflections! Even during just a three week holiday to New Zealand we felt many of the things you describe and could tell that NZ has a really great culture and way of life that we long for here. Many of us still in America can also see that America is the odd one out these days - the rest of the world can teach us a thing or two (or three or four) about how to do big things better, but there is this culture of pride that prevents us from reaching out and/or changing our ways. It's a shame, and will likely be our downfall!
Yes american pride ... refusal to change to metric system 😂😂😂😂
You have caught the She'll be right disease :-)
I think I have 💁♀️
Dear Lady,
I'm really pleased to hear your comments for how relaxed you feel surely brings you a quality of life. I often enjoy your content please continue
Regards GL 🌷🌷🌷
As a kiwi just returned from living in the US for the past 12 year, I agree 100% with what you say. I love the US, but this is a different place, a better place.
Awesome... I would love to hear mote about tire experience moving back
@@Kiwiamericans anytime, happy to chat
I just arrived back from NZ and loved my trip back home, I prefer watching you this way, wow what beautiful weather there. Have a very Merry Xmas.
Merry Christmas!
@@Kiwiamericans Meri Kiihimete koutou, Tara, no to Whanau hoki{ Merry Xmas to you and your family )
I was recently in Las Vegas and i was surprised that there are no cafe's that do espresso coffee where you can actually just sit down and drink good coffee. The only places were starbucks and you usually have to que for ages. Why do starbucks have a monopoly on espresso coffee?
I'm in Auckland and was working a public holiday, all the cafes were closed so i tried starbucks, it was gross
The Americans I know (here in NZ) are lovely and usually they are here because they wanted something different! I think it's ironical that US citizens think they have the 'Land of the Free' but then they move here and wow, more freedom than then had ever had before! I'm so glad that you and your family enjoy life here... Merry Christmas to you all :)
Thanks - Merry Christmas to you and your family
With your experiences of America and New Zealand there is probably just 1 main question - How is your stress levels?
Another question could be - do you have a vegetable garden? Maybe fruit trees?
Anywhere you are there is always going to be Pro's and Con's.
I've just left new zeland for a two year visa in Canada. And I miss it so much already after just 3 weeks 😂 your videos have been a really nice way to unwind at the end of the day when I'm missing home!
Awe that is awesome.. I am so glad they are comforting! Winters are harsh in Canada!
Awesome vid always brings a smile when I get time to watch a vid.
You are so kind... that makes my day!
I tried to relate most of this stuff to a friend in the midwest, a hard right winger, but it was water off a ducks back. He just couldn't get it, felt we were SOCIALISTS (lots of hissing and crosses like we were Dracula or something lol), and in the end wasn't interested in our way of life. Pitied him really...
I understand that.. so many feel that way
@@Kiwiamericans mores the pity ay. Like - what the hell???
And THAT is the effect of brainwashing. Sad but we can see it is common in the US.
That was so interesting hearing from a kiwis perspective when you don’t know anything different and take the lifestyle for granted.
I've watched most of your videos and as a Kiwi, its great to hear your points of view. I'm so glad you have settled in and your children are doing well. Have you completed a video with the kids and their views since moving here. Its really great to hear from other nationalities how NZ is doing as the preferred country to live. Keep up the great videos and hope to see some of your holidays to the South Island 🤣 only cos I live here 😏
Thank you so much! I love the South island!! Yes my kids have been in some videos but mainly on my training hub or podcast as they are more comfortable with that. Thanks for your encouragement
Living in Australia for a couple of decades which is a lot more 'Americanised' than NZ; this place pretty much took the U.S as a template with it's setup...states, a senate, a designed capital in Canberra (the ACT) which mirrors the Washington D.C etc etc. Going back home to NZ for a holiday is a step down in stress, can feel it falling off just being in the middle of all that scenery which seems to speak to you on a cellular level..there is so much spirit in that place. That combined with the laid back vibe of NZers is something you feel instantly. Will be retiring back to NZ in a few years despite Australia being a fantastic place in some ways (mainly the ability to choose a climate that suits from cool Tasmania all the way up to tropical Darwin). Can see how you feel so relaxed in NZ...
That is soo interesting... thanks for sharing your experience
Ambition in NZ used to be defined as the 3 B's , the bach , the boat and the BMW . Once you got those it is time to slow down and enjoy them !!
BMW ? yeah...nah
Our bach was camping in a tent at a campground. So not sure your B's applies to everyone.
@@jenniferandrew2470 Obviously you didn't have the requisite level of ambition ! The term was coined, if I remember correctly , by someone bemoaning the thought that NZ was essentially going to stagnate because no one was willing to work hard past that point .
You should mention how NZ has changed since you moved here.
I think most Kiwis are afraid that Americans will try and change the culture. James Cameron tried to make the country Vegan.
Most of it starts in the Universities.
NZ has changed a lot in the 7 years I have been here - that is a good topic to talk about!
Hey ya Tara. As always another great video regarding your life living in New Zealand. Keep up the great work Tara. I'm sure it helps a lot of Americans (as well as other Nationalities) contemplating the big move to New Zealand.
Thanks for the encouragement
I enjoy your vids. I have been here in Kapiti for a little over 40 years.......before that spent 5 years in Aus. When I first came in the 70's I felt like I had stepped back to the 50's. Milk came to your letterbox in a glass bottle with the cream on top and was 4 cents a pint......Growing up in Flint Michigan seems so far behind me. It's been a good life living down under, glad to see you learnig to love it.
I like running into Americans in NZ, I love hearing their beautiful rounded accents, (especially the female voice) I like the way they say "ayand" instead of just "and" just like you did in this video 🙂
It sounds like coming here has been great for you, and that is terrific to hear. From media at least, I get the sense that we are a much less polarised society in NZ and long may that stay that way. I worry for the US and Europe in that regard.
I recently went on the canyon swing in Queenstown, on the coach travelling with me was a guy from California. He had already been skydiving, bungy jumping and had partaken of some other activity. He claimed that because of H&S laws he was unable to do some of these activities in the US. There is definitely a different attitude to life and a can do attitude to make thing happen in NZ. Obviously the law around suing when things go wrong makes a huge difference.
It makes a huge difference! I could not believe the parks here when I first came.. they are real boring in the states comparatively
Our ACC really works.
Love all of your personal growth ! Great vid
Thanks for watching
Wonderful keep up the great work kiwis wonderful country from 🇬🇧
Thank you so much 😀
With the US in charge of our world I feel very unsafe! Especially right now!!
I agree consumerism is so big in the US. I'm Italian, and when I've lived in the US I somehow got sucked in in the whole needing all the things: bigger car, bigger house, more decor for the house, more clothes... Then we moved to Germany, and now the UK (yes we move a lot :D ) and I realized how bad I was becoming!
It really is shocking... it is very easy to get sucked it. I always do
hi i havent watched the clip yet tbh its playing as i type so i just want to say reading the title, i hope you have found the change choice? because we appreciate you. kia ora whanaunga.
One thing I have noticed about your videos over a few years is I think you have increased your speed of speaking more in line with Kiwis. So often when conversing with American's I have wanted to ask them to spit it out. I feel like they are so slow at talking as if they are revelling in being the focus of attention, whereas kiwis want to get their point across so they can get the other person's response and move the conversation forward. Chatting with some American's can really drag sometimes.
Kiwis are like the borg in Star Trek, “You will be assimilated, resistance is futile”. Great video, have an awesome Xmas with your family.
Happy holidays!
Thank you.
A few years ago my cousin went to LA just for few weeks, when he got back he said he was so glad to be back here in NZ. Id still like to visit the US.
It seems the USA is on a downward spiral and its all happening quite rapidly so it understandable why any sane person would want to leave there.
Thanks for sharing your experience!
Time flew by aye.. you have changed since living here, you look more relaxed, looking good, interesting korero 👌👍🇳🇿awesome . I have a good friend who moved back to Virginia, I keep in contact with her. I loved how she talked and my nephews loved her because she was a pro on PS4 😊
Thanks soo much! How is she adjusting back in the states?
@@Kiwiamericans shes okay, she went home to look after her grand parents
She does miss it here. I hope she comes back, it cool having a friend from the US
Hi there, I think the more Americans that come here the better. They bring so much, covering many aspects. Americans are highly motivated and talented, with a get on and do it attitude. New Zealand benefits on so many levels with the influx of Americans, and that's my honest opinion.
Well I have to agree with you there!!
Love your videos. So happy you are enjoying our beautiful land. Tena koe.
my favorite, thank you for sharing
As a Kiwi I have no problem with Americans in general...what makes me sick is some terrible tragedy will happen and you will just hear people bang on about individuals rights in a document written hundreds of years ago all the while pointing and blaming others while offering no real ideas of improvement. . I'm a middle-aged man and have never heard an American at any level of power admit fault and pledge to do better.
Perhaps it the being seud thing that makes people that way.
When your healthcare is dependent on whether or not you have a job...that's a problem.
As a New Zealander l realized that it's a lot more nuanced than that generalization but l've spoken with a number of Americans about that and the majority of them always seem (at some stage during the conversation) to mention the fact that there are so many more opportunities in the US 🤔
😅🤣😂 Excuse the local humor.
Love your videos, I always learn something
Awesome, thank you!
You summed it up beautifully. Thank you. Even democracy USA style is different and edgy.
I can't imagine taking a job for the purpose of getting Healthcare, it's nice if health insurance is perk but, as a drawcard, no.
The odd one out the us is one of two countries still using imperial. Why?
As someone raised with the Imperial system, I prefer it over the Metric.
@@harrycurrie9664 why metric not only makes more logical sense it's also way easier you are only dealing with one base 10. Graduate science and engineering students studying anywhere but the us struggle in part due to there reliance on the imperial system
@@johanmeischke9189 For mine the imperial system relates better to time and distance.
@@johanmeischke9189 For mine the imperial system relates better to time and distance.
@@harrycurrie9664 really! With all due respect it doesn't make much sense. NZ changed to decimal or metric shorty after o started school and are familiar with both. Metric is way easier. But nevermind whatever rocks your world. To use a kiwi- ism all good, sweet as
I feel the same way too
I attended an American run/owned high school in NZ back in the late 1960s. 95% of my teachers were American and I really had a hard time dealing with where they were coming from....................
Welcome to the Sane world :)
What is the best month to visit New Zealand meaning weather like even though it does not bother me because to me it looks like the pass there is nice meaning you can take your time to visit the country and live there for me and my family thank you and god bless you and your family also
January and February are the best weather wise
Because Americans are different is what I love about them. They challenge the status quo hence why they forge and do what they do. You're lucky you have the best of both worlds where you can utilise the best of everything. Happy holidays 😊
I could not agree more! Happy Holidays
Lol you are becoming a New Zealander you keep saying ‘like’ and you talk with your hands☺️
Very interesting......I reckon you feel safer....na mihi for your insights😁
Yes!!!!
Thank you so inspiring 😊
You are so welcome!
Hi Tara… How have your kids fitted into the kiwi way? Do they miss living back in the US.?
Rob - they are fitting in great! They do miss the states sometimes...The older kids for sure.
You dont say! Haha something the rest of the world already knew for years lol. Happy holidays
I thought NZ was becoming like America with spending because kids have youtube and the internet but I didnt realise how much americans actually spent. As you said tho the cost of things would have a big influence on it all. If it was cheaper in NZ I think we would be like America.
Kiwi here. I started watching a few older episodes from you, and thought : why is this woman talking so fast...? I could barely keep up... (English being my 2nd language)
This video sounds like you've embraced the slower way of life here... no hurry- time enough to think...
I've lived here 30 years- I went back to Europe after 5 years- after 3 weeks I'd done and seen what I wanted, and all I wanted was to go home!
Some of us are born in the wrong country...
Yes I have definitely slowed down! Thanks for watching
Wet Sunday in Auckland, not Beach weather,
Auckland weather...just move to Horowhenua mate!
Yes... You become more layed back. Don't sweat the small stuff.
As long as I live here anyway.. very stressful when I go home
@@Kiwiamericans you're are doing well. There are many Australians and kiwis who are trying to leave Australia.
Well you sound happy 😊 an content.That’s the kiwi way 👍🏽🤭
Yes I am thank you!
Compared to your earlier videos you are relaxed.
As for Americans being separate, I've got my own theory and you hit on this yourself before. You said Americans think they have monopoly on the concept of freedom.
Americans are so anti English whether consciencely or not.
Changes the language/concept of freedom/quite arrogant in opinions/taking advantage of staff and concept of human rights/gun laws/
no understanding of now British & Commonwealth countries can support a long tradition of monarchy.
On the other hand believing someone has your back and trust it. It's not about agreeing it's about believing it will all be fine. Yes very much Christian belief system, not always about agreeing, accepting the narrative.
NZ gave women the right to vote first, just saying.
A LOT of USA tv programs have so much violence, it makes me wonder if they think that's how the world reacts to crime, YEAH...NAH just THEM.
It's all about CONTROL.
Just my opinion and a girl who analyses everything.
Yes I agree that as an American it feels weird to rely in other countries as we just build the biggest military so we don't have too. It is refreshing to see that working together works
OUCH!
Well traveled and matured :) we have assimilated you in ;) pull up a seat, cuppa tea and a biscuit? Lol
I love New Zealand even though it's far away from my home country Nigeria, sometimes I just feel like jumping into the plane and landing in New Zealand. I sent you an email, please 🙏 reply.
NZ is a slice of heaven and yet in the USA they still think that its the greatest country on earth
They were once. Invented a lot of things the world has benefited from. Too many to mention. Policies from successive governments have ruined it. But they were great once. Much to admire from parts of their history as a world leader in a lot of industries. You name it they got into it. Industrial, architectural, technology, sports, movies, fashion, space travel and so on. Amazing to be honest. Huge impact around the world. It’s not like that now but wow. They were awesome once.
I’m NZ Māori so I understand the history of injustices. Not talking about that. Just the above mentioned.
I’m wondering how your kids feel and how their attitude to life has changed
That is a good question!
Great video 👍
Thanks
the odd one out is me when it comes to business in new zealand? I mean I am the odd one not the business?
I love your videos👍
Awe thanks
I think Americans are more about the individual, very materialistic.
Preach!!!
Good morning 🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻
Good morning
Awesomeness
Thanks Jackie!
Mimi atu