My childhood was in the U.S, and at the age of 16, my family emigrated to Australia. That was in 1966. The first couple of years was culture shock, but in a good way. After 8 years I traveled back to States with my young Australian bride. Things that felt familiar in my American childhood now seemed distant. That included American family and friends. It wasn't until I boarded the plane back to Australia that I realized I was going 'home', And it felt so good when we landed back on Australian soil.
I couldn't agree more...I've been here for over 14 years and I have gone home (Florida) once. While we we're there I noticed everything and couldn't wait to come back to NZ. I'm a better mom, wife, friend for having come here.
@@mcardnas2984 I can see from your previous comments on your page that you never have anything nice to say. It's ok, I know it's not personal. You are just damaged. Have a great day, and God bless.
*Australian here*. I met two amazing friends from Texas when we all worked together in Germany. They came and lived in Australia for a while, and now live in Auckland where their two great kids are growing up and schooling. They're always reminding me I'm welcome anytime, and whenever I go over to visit they make a special effort to take time off so we can go on road trips. We're polar opposites politically and in other ways, but it just doesn't matter - they've always been ride or die for me. And they love NZ... apart from the housing prices.
I used to work as a Flight Attendant for a New Zealand airline and sometimes we’d codeshare with American Airlines or have Americans chartering our planes and we’d criiiiiinge because Americans would snap their fingers at us, yell “hey you, get me ______” and it was so demanding. We’d be run off our feet and so flabbergasted at the demands and rudeness. It’s just so different. There’s nothing wrong with asking for something - but snapping your fingers and DEMANDING something is so different. And don’t get me started on the things they’d request and then be mad at us that we didn’t have it “Ritz crackers”, “club soda” etc.
Where do you think the over 1 billion spent on elections comes from? Big business, which gets plenty of leverage from the donations for campaigning. Not to mention the huge revenue that flows through the the " religious " machine which in turn manipulates the political gravy train.
Aw, it makes me so sad when I read comments like this about America, as a fellow American. I swear we aren't all this terrible, it's a huge country with tons of different people, and lots of us are kind and good-natured. So sorry this was your experience!
Having lived in the US for 8 years the company I worked for a company gave 1 week leave plus stat days, and 2 after working there for 5 years. Contrast that to my current job in NZ 4 weeks off a year which is standard for all people, and 5 additional family days. That makes a big difference to quality of life.
If by "family days" you mean sick days, it's been increased to 10 now. Not to mention we also have parental leave (paid and unpaid) and bereavement leave. And we're not even that flash compared to some European countries!
It's awesome hearing your perspective and you make it fun. Appreciate your honesty. I'm Maori and it's so good hearing your take on this country. Awesome videos, thank you 😊
Love this. I'm kiwi born and bred, but I do travel a lot. Agree, we are all mostly laid back, friendly, quiet and patient. We very rarely raise our voices and we definitely don't sweat the small stuff. The crowds in many countries do make me uncomfortable and I have no idea how to tip. In NZ, people don't need tips because they are paid for the job they do. A tip shows that someone's service was exceptional, it's not a right but a compliment. Because I travel so much, your korero (words) actually help me to appreciate where I come from even more, and to not take my beautiful home for granted. Thank you 🙏🏽
I'm Kiwi and have met Americans who just haven't made it here. I mean, they've made it in business, but emotionally they just don't get Kiwi culture. I appreciate my American friends who have embraced our culture and see the value in it. It's not all about yourself! Thank you for bringing our culture to the world ❤
Aussie here. One thing I learned years ago about taking time off is that you actually need to take more than one week. The first week is when your body and mind starts to destress and unwind. It is in the SECOND and subsequent weeks that it actually recharges and heals. I was given this advice by my very first boss and I realised it was true after I had been working for a few years. If you are tired and stressed and need a break, take a minimum of two weeks, no less or you are just wasting you leave time. I visited the USA in 1999 and found it so very dirty, loud and the blatant racism was a real shock. Nearly all the cleaners and wait staff were either black or mexican, the middle level jobs were asian and the senior management jobs were held by white people. From the time we stepped off the plane, through the hotels and places we visited until we got on the plane to come back to Australia, it was shocking. That and the hands out for tips and the prices not including tax which is just stupid.
Here's an explanation of prices in the US. We don't have VAT here. Each state has their own tax percentage, plus each county in each state have different tax percentages, and some cities even have their own sales tax. So the tax amount is added after purchase and itemized on the receipt so we can be sure we're not being taken advantage of. If the listed price was the final price, it gives unscrupulous people the opportunity to greedily add an extra amount to the price to pocket more money.
Wow. Interesting. I'm glad your changes are positive. Chill Americans are very cool. I bet you're relieved your family are growing up relaxed, free and fearless. I'm happy for you all.
It's better to run as a business than dish out money to people that will NEVER want to work, unfortunately in the paper today a young man kicked an older man in the head and killed him, after discounts for guilty plea and age he can apply for home detention, that's the BS justice system we have, I was born here 60 years ago
@@Peye-pv4cbI mean, the issue with running a nation state as if it’s a business is determining who the shareholders are. Ultimately I think it should be run like a nation state, but if you have to run it like a business I think the shareholders are “everyone who lives there” It seems like you think it should be run for the rich?
Hi, a Kiwi here. I watched a bunch of your videos a while back and you were so careful choosing your words, and EVERYTHING you said came with a disclaimer or waiver. And you were talking in a more orderly professional style. After taking a break from your videos (for several months or a year - unintentionally so), I have just jumped back in to watching this one. Right at the beginning of your video - before even realising how you were approaching this topic - I noticed how much more relaxed and free and conversational you are talking, both in the style of your speaking and what you say. I know that learning and growing as a You Tube presenter is part of it, but I think that you've been Kiwi-ised in lots of other ways! I like to think we've had a good influence on you! I agree that no country is perfect, but it's nice to see the change in you and the way you think about the US.
@@Kiwiamericans I'm not sure if we are more sensitive than anyone else, but we are quite used to encountering Americans with problematic attitudes on social media so maybe we're reactionary because of that. 😅 It's certainly refreshing to hear an American understanding and acknowledging the good points of our culture.
As a Dutch immigrant living in NZ, and having spent four years in the USA, everything in this video is 100% on point! 👌The issue with America is the rampant excessive capitalisms, where profit and money trumps everything!...just sayin'.
As a Kiwi, never have been to USA. But it seems like one of the most scary places in the world to live. US has so many mentally insane people, and the right to carry fire arms. Look at the school shootings for one. And the gangs. I wouldn't ever willingly want to live is the USA
There’s nothing wrong with capitalism in concept but it’s gets exploited by greedy people, the point here is there will ALWAYS be greedy people (because human nature) no matter what system you use and without a doubt capitalism is the best. What needs more attention is corruption and greed in government.
I've lived in the States too. I found that they are very money and status-driven. Almost a class system. Sooooo focused on "getting ahead ". Aggressive and loud. Lovely people individually, but impersonal and rude in public.
For me it's the excessive marketing we allow corporations to do in the US. We are bombarded by advertising. We have hundreds of pharmaceutical drug advertisements on tv which includes drugs that require a dr's prescription, so it makes no sense to try to sell these medicines to regular consumers on tv. Even viagra is advertised but you just have to figure out the silly words being used. The "little blue pill" is for men to get aroused and yes it is advertised on tv.. Or we see commercials for "the purple pill" which I still don't know what that is.😮 I feel that marketing is out of control in the US. But than again I had a sociology prof in college that said in order to be a good American you must do only two things: 1. Pay your taxes and 2. Keep buying stuff you don't need.
Kia ora I love that being in Aotearoa has allowed you and your whanau to adapt to the laid back and relaxed day to day lifestyle, it’s made me realise how lucky and grateful I am to have been born in this land, yeah sure there are downsides too but I feel we do our best to try make things work for the best of our communities and families and the environment we are surrounded by so thank you just as much for opening my eyes to the differences of another country through your eyes.
I love your more off-the-cuff videos like this one. Travel really does broaden the mind so it's great that you've used yours to add nuance to many of the things you've already mentioned (health care etc.). Well done.
Kia ora and welcome back - your content is fabulous - its a refreshing viewpoint that certainly helps me keep my perspective - as folks on our islands at the bottom of the South Pacific can get one eyed about life - so its great to have your outside input - 5 stars!!
As you know NZ is far from perfect but I love a lot of things here and I feel their are more positives than negatives although sometimes negativity is sometimes in your face. I'm happy when I watch your vids and how positive you are about living here.
Years ago I travelled to tipping societies, working as a registered nurse. I found it really insulting when patients tried to slip money into my hand - it implied that I wouldn't do my job without a bribe. I got used to it, but the first time it happened I was so shocked I said "How dare you!" After a while, working in private nursing jobs in England I realised that it was partly a way of asserting dominance. To be tipped is to be subordinate.
Yes I agree because you are at the whim and mercy of the person giving you money. You are not just getting paid a wage for doing a job you are being “judged” with every interaction and I am sure if you don’t get a tip or get enough then it will affect your confidence and self worth. It feels like a type of serfdom. And it ties you into the myth that if you work harder you can “make” it in America when really on a minimum wage a dollar or 2 of extra tips is not going to move the needle.
If you're working in private nursing in England then your patients wouldn't have been "normal people"; the NHS is free in the UK. If you have unusual patients you can expect unusual behaviour.
@@TankEnMate True, they weren't normal people, but I don't think that changes my point about the dynamics of tipping. They were extremely not normal - it was a fascinating experience. I had never before then known people who felt that their riches made them a different species.
My Kiwi boyfriend sent me this video to watch. I'm an American and will be joining him on the South Island next year, and everything I've heard about NZ has made me think I'll enjoy it much more than the US. Thanks for this!
I'm an Australian just spent 4 weeks I the USA we went a few states and u have to agree with everything your saying we came back feeling like we didn't have a holiday it's just rush rush with everything and they try to tell us it's cheaper there than in aus nop don't agree you get the bill for your food with all these add ons tax tip and other charges we had no clue what it was your $25 bill ends up being $40 you couldn't even get $5 coffee without them wanting a tip in country's that have tipping has just gotten out of control
On the other hand, tho, I do appreciate everything America does around the world. If it wasnt for the USA,, the world would be ruled by tyrants. Lord knows there is enough tyranny in the world,now.
Not my place to say, but as someone born in the UK, but raised my kids in Aotearoa, you'd be doing your kids a favor by letting them be kiwis. My kids don't realize how lucky they are to be kiwis
I talk a tad loud, but it's because my hearing's not as it was. Tinnitus and some loss. It affects me more when there's group noise and it's harder to figure someones speech you're actually engaged with.
I just got my citizenship in the USA and my family and friends down under are all asking why? You make very valid points about everything, especially tipping, politics, and healthcare. 🙂. Also I always tell people that America is like 50 little countries rather than one United States.
So true, this kiwi has spent the last 40 years traveling and doing busness in the usa, 330M people is alot, its 50 countrys under the same $$$ and system and yet different....enjoy your citizenship, good on you.
Totally agree with the tipping culture! Just back from two months visiting family in the US. Tipping is absolutely out of control. I believe in service, and want to contribute, but taking an order across the counter should NOT attract a tip. To me that was no service other than typing into a screen….it’s soooo frustrating. We felt forced to tip every time that screen was turned around to us. Out of control for sure.
People all over the World tip. And have no problem with it. Or stress out about it. For some reason Kiwis get their panties all in a knot about it. And don't understand it. If there was tipping in NZ, the customer service would not be the worst in the World.
Wages. US pays abysmal min wages, so business profit more, user pays staff's wages in tips, as meals/goods/services are cheaper in the US. NZ pays higher wages. Service cost in NZ is already high, so kiwis pay the tip cost in their service fee. Besides, service in NZ is good, we just don't put up with US Karen BS mentality. NZ does not need to start tipping, worst concept ever, as you are then paying the high service cost + tip. Not going to happen. I refuse to tip for a meal I have paid $40/50 for and that does not include an entree, desert or drinks. I think it is the height of rudeness to expect me to tip for someone doing the job they are paid quite well to do. NZ does not need the US mentality here.
@@DennisMerwood-xk8wp Really? Australia don't tip unless we choose to. I can't speak for other specific countries, but I do 17:43 know that not all countries tip.
@@dionex6973 It's not worth debating you. You have so many misconceptions and factual errors in your rant - one would take days to explain them to you. You Kiwis let your idiotic hatred of tipping cloud your rational judgement and reasoning. I tip regularly in NZ for exceptional service. Very few refuse my tip. And workers appreciate my kindness. It helps their families. You sound like you are a real tightwad scrooge. And if you think service is good in New Zealand - you are in la la land my friend.
Its so funny and so dam cool that ANYONE can come to Aotearoa/NZ to live and automatically you become a flightless bird, a KIWI, it joins us all as one, i dont know of any other country that bonds together like that and be proud of it, GO THE MIGHTY ALL BLACKS
I’m a kiwi who’s travelled the world. We are extremely fortunate and we have overall an amazing society in my opinion, you are right about the fear based attitude of some countries is toxic and it filters through everything.
The thing about time off for relaxation is that NZ has a standard employment contract that an employer has to comply with for all employees. This is something like 20 annual days and 10 sick days or there abouts, whereas the US doesn’t have anything similar.
Holidays in New Zealand mean a day off. Valentines' day and Halloween are not a holiday in New Zealand as you don't get paid time off for them. I worked in the US over an Easter once and was surprised that they didn't have days off over Easter, especially considering how much more religion is (or appears to be) part of the culture there. New Zealand has 20days annual leave and 11 public holidays, which your employer must pay you for by law. That's more than 6 weeks of holiday.
The standard for employers in NZ and Australia is almost identical re holidays and sick leave etc. However that's only possible in a country that allows Freedom of Unionisation which is almost impossible in the USA as per the uproar about the current UAW strikes.
The US seems to be more about the individual rather than the community, and everything has a price tag. Without wishing to denigrate the country of your birth, i call it "the land of the fee", money before people seems to be the way.
Yeah right! NZ$750,000 for a crappy 40-year-old house with no insulation. Young Kiwi couples, even if they can save for the deposit, will be debt slaves for life. And Kiwi couples can't afford to start a family. While NZ has open immigration of low wage workers. Money before workers. It's a sure recipe for doom.
That individualism is exactly WHY Americans hate the idea of universal health care so much!!! They do NOT want their tax dollars paying for the Disabled person or the child with a chronic illness who might need a life time's worth of health care to survive.
Yes, I went to visit my cousin in Vancouver about 15 years ago and he said they never let their children play in the fenced off back yard unless they were out there with them! ( Kidnapping worries..). I would have thought Canada was a little more like N.Z, but obviously not so. It's really mind boggling!!
Tipping used to be for the waiter/waitress that makes $2/hr and they relied on tipping for their salary. It’s gotten ridiculous now where the person making a regular wage expects it too.
But that’s the problem- l have been told by my American friends that, although they have minimum wages; there is no law to enforce this, so many Americans are still been massively underpaid. I was in San Francisco a few years ago with a friend. It was her birthday so l shouted her dinner at one of the restaurants at Fisherman’s wharf. The waitress was extremely rude and dismissive so l refused to tip her and l told her exactly why; AND very loudly so her manager could hear. However l have also tipped very generously in places where the service has been exceptionally good.
Wrong - oh deary me! No waiter/waitress in America makes a minimum $2/hr wage! Where do you Kiwi's come up with his bullshit? And in NZ every waiter/waitress makes the same - even if they do a lousy job! What incentive do they have to give good service? None. Why the service in NZ is arguably the worst in the World. And in America a hard-working waiter/waitress can make enormous bucks to take home to her family. Not just the minimum wage like in NZ.
I did part of my schooling in the US and lived there on and off for years. It's completely unrecognisable to me now. I would be happy to live in New Zealand, but I wouldn't live in the US unless it was last place left on Earth. On one side of our house lived Jane Fonda and on the other side Leonard Nimoy, so it's not like it was a bad area that represented the worst of the US.
Welcome back. I wondered what had happened to you. I enjoyed and was fascinated by your insights to differences you now notice between the USA and elsewhere. Thank you.
You've made the sacrifice, that every migrant makes, to give your family a better life, you've succeed in getting that better life (your changes for the better are proof of that) I hope your kids realise and appreciate what they've been given 🤞
I was in America for the first time ever last year, flew 19 hours from New Zealand to New York and man I was absolutely shocked! Everyone seemed to be in a constant rush and the tipping was ridiculous I couldn’t believe the minimum was 15%. Other than that I loved my time in America I want to visit again ☺️
So if you compare it to NZ with a rate of 15% GST (goods and services tax) it's reallly like the Government has said.. "We will step out of the transaction and you pay "the tax" for SERVICE...directly to the person giving you the service". Tipping means the person giving the service takes on the "tax collector" role... The Govt duck shoves the responsibility onto the server.... That bullshit (plus tax) is again another duck shove by the employer.... in NZ it is law that the price when expected to be for any retail bought good or service MUST be inclusive. Only wholesale or commercial are allowed to separate them... and it pays to ask on the phone "GST inclusive?" because some businesses try it on... Employers need to pay a decent wage to their staff so they don't have to be pushy or grovel for tips. There needs to be legislation applicable to all employees and salary workers in the USA.... a minimum 4 weeks a year plus an extra week after 5 years with the same employer... plus as much more vacation time as anyone can negotiate.....
There is no minimum tip requirement in America. If you don't like the service - don't tip. This Kiwi practiced that for 41-years working in 15-states all across the USA. And those lousy businesses, with lousy employees, will go under. Its so easy!
It's hard on the employees not knowing from wek to week whether they will be able to afford to live. A decent living wage...plus tips if necessary.... If the businesses advertised "No tip expected...we pay our staff a good wage every week".... would that business garner more business???? @@DennisMerwood-xk8wp
They constantly say they're the best country, land of the free. But don't even have free Healthcare. And work their citizens to the bone. Not really a 1st world country in my opinion. 😅 Also agree with the crowd thing. Wanting to go Universal Studios at some point, but 2hr wait time for rides, are you crazy. 30mins is even too long for a kiwi. 😂
My employer in Seattle included the cost of my first-class healthcare as part of my compensation. My family never paid a dime for healthcare. Retired Americans are well covered for their healthcare by MEDICARE. (And the Average retired American on SOCIAL SECURITY gets way more than the average Kiwi on its pitiful pension plan.) The poor, disadvantaged and disabled's healthcare is paid by MEDICAID. Very few do fall the cracks. But OBAMCARE went a long way to fixing that. American healthcare for everyone is as good as NZ's lousy Gubmint scheme.
Hey it's hard, we are 5million they're nearly 400, with different states with different cultures with an outstanding history. We are still 180 years young
A comment I heard recently floored me with the simplicity and truth it told about being American. It was something like: The income in American dollars we earn is plenty to have a good life as long as we live anywhere but the US.
oh yes, and no tipping here. The other day we where served by a great young woman, and we gave her $10. Her response was off the charts with happiness and her colleagues where all smiling for her. Its fabulous.
If nobody stays to fix it then it won't get fixed, is the other side of that argument some people prefer to stay and try to fix things, it is looking like we are about to elect a libertarian conservative government, that should make me immediately want to jump ship, but I would rather stay and oppose the things they intend to do
Got any evidence for that my friend? Have you lived in America? I have two kids living fantastic lives in in America. In WI and NY. You need to stop watching NZ TV. You are being fed a line of bullshit about the USA
I'm from Canada and lived there for a year in 2015-2016. I totally align with the kiwi way of life and am not a super materialistic person. I don't need the large fancy house or the newest flashiest car or top brand name clothes. I'd honestly love to spend the rest of my life there and plan on returning one day when the time is right. However it definitely is an expensive country and the wages are pretty terrible if I'm being completely transparent.. This will differ from person to person depending on profession but I'm not even working in a top earning job in my profession in Canada and when I was in New Zealand doing the same job I took home $50,000.00 NZD less than what I would have earned at home. You can imagine the quality of life adjustment when taking that kind of decrease in earnings. My personal opinion is if you're coming from North America just be aware that it will be much harder to save. Make sure you're in it for the long haul. If you plan on going and staying forever you wont regret it at all. But 20-30 years pass and you wanna return home you'll be severely less prepared for your golden years as NZD is also a weaker currency so you'll unfortunately lose a lot of whatever you do save.
You nailed it jared. Thanks. The wages in New Zealand are pitiful. When I lived in Seattle, on an average wage, I had a Cessna and flew it all over the US. Try that in Godzone wages eh!
@@francescathomas3502 usually, National Governments drive currency rates higher, Farmers really love that.I rent a Studio in Anzac Ave, Auckland central, and can manage on the Pension.
@@francescathomas3502 By leaving NZ you lose roughly 10% going to Australia, 20% going to Canada and 40% by going to the United states. Money's 100% not everything but these could be substantial hits to most people. Even if you were just vacationing away from NZ it would make that trip that much more which just adds to that feeling of being isolated and stuck. I think I wouldn't have felt this way as much if I was born and raised in NZ and it's all I ever knew. My weekly take home was actually pretty decent if it was the same pay in Canada but for me I'd convert it back to CAD and be a little disappointed lol.
Tall Poppy syndrome, it works for and against us. I like that people don't get all in my face, however we could stand to use more of that American assertiveness, when it comes to demanding better outcomes for our people. We let shit fly far more than we should. Hell, we could take a page out of France's book.
We have a law in NZ that election advertising or even electioneering will not start until 3 months before the election date. If you or a Party does so outside the 3 months you can be fined HEAVILY, not to mention named and shamed as well.
This is a really interesting perspective. We are preparing to move back to the states (American living in NZ since teenage years). We are literally fleeing the country as we cannot afford to even eat here anymore! I hadnt thought about how it has changed me and what culture shocks I will experience going back
You are making the right decision my friend. The Kiwi cost of living is a killer. Nice scenery does not make up for not being to afford rent and groceries. You will find anywhere in the US outside of the big cities infinitely more affordable. Just avoid Cailfornia and NY.
@@Kiwiamericans We are heading off to the Suburbs (near Chicago). My parents live there and have kindly offered to let us live there while we get on our feet and save for a house deposit. We do want to come back when we are a bit more stable financially, but with our current situation - we are just getting by with no room to save, plan for the future or get ahead at all. So this will be life changing for us. Devestated to leave, but we will make it a goal to come back often and visit friends and my husbands family.
Oh my young Padawan, you have matured beyond your years. You are now your own master Yoda. Go forth and let the force be with you.🧙♀️ This was very inspiring, thank you 👍💗
You are seriously a Kiwi! 🤣 your laid back attitude is so kiwi! I was born and raised here and all I can say is that, I love being a Kiwi! Welcome home sis x😊
I'm a Kiwi in NZ and love our country. The USA is fantastic though in many other ways. Your patriotism is mind blowing I mean how is it that your college sport is bigger with more passion than our national sport? And I love a bit of US country music.
The few Americans I have met have ALL been good natural speakers open and eloquent plus, their accent does somehow enhance my kiwi ears to pay a warmer attention to their korero (discussion). Like fluent public speaker's 📢 they did have the twang and practicality to put their point across..eh..umm attentively, if I may aim it that way. Basically I'm a shy bloke 🤭 and definitely no where near scholar material that when in the presence of such educated boldness wrapped up and presented in a nice common sense way just like our (A .K .S=😏🫡 American.Kiwi.Sista,) here is doing. What a fine job and always moves me towards the tissue paper NO SORRY my sleeve (I had almost forgotten that I was once a harden Ex-Rugby ball boy who never was seen shedding one tear 😢 well maybe not ONE 🤣 😭 🤧 This is only my second time in one day I have seen your videos and I am captivated. Thank you for sharing so many positive vibes about kiwiana=(things kiwi) but now l must go 🚶♂️ 🚶♀️ and search out where you found these wonderful Kiwis and these lovely places and coffees etc. I suppose one could say, I embody the saying that goes... "I couldn't see the jungle because I was to close to the tree." It's now Friday 11th of October 2024 so I have missed out on following the up to date in living color your series of Americana doing Kiwiana 🎉 Sparks and All but nevertheless its all in the system therefore we can fill ourselves up on it anytime and get sentimentally touched 😢 I do not know if I can still subscribe but I will watch some more and if it looks like you are not closing shop then I will indeed subscribe. God the Almighty look upon you and all your family most graciously through Jesus Christ 🙏 Amen 🙏 🫶 👌🫵🤝👍
Love your video. I grew up here, and spent 5 years at uni in Australia. Upon returning here, I hated it. It's so small and slow. Yet after time, I realised that this is it's appeal. I can think here lol I can relax. Laid back kiwiana is good 😊
Laid back and relaxed is good. Small and slow is why I left NZ. Have now been in Canada for 20+ years!! Am in no hurry to come home - mostly because we do have Skype!!
I thoroughly enjoyed your take on the differences that you shared, and while it’s not perfect in NZ I still believe there are still friendly people willing to help and exercise a laid back approach to most things. I hope you will continue to have more positive experiences
@bazzatheking3155 no there isn't. Do you know how many people can't get a home here Because of Unwanted imports like you . Go home. You have no right to invite other Unwanted imports here
Its a mindset, seems like America as a whole has a closed mindset when it comes to change vs a lot of other countries that have a more growth mindset (yes an oversimplification but kinda aligns)
I agree with everything you said, welcome to our happy world, and glad you are here now. 💕 That being said, my parents were recently in Kansas City, staying with friends/work colleagues. They wanted to get their hosts a gift to say thank you, so they went to Walmart, to buy a leaf blower (as one does). As they were carrying it out, an employee who was just finishing work, saw them looking for a taxi outside, and gave them a lift back. They always say how friendly Americans are! Good and bad of everyone everywhere. ❤
So true, im my 40 years of travelling to the usa i have met nothing but kind and decent people, even in some not so good areas, many have become friends....its a great place but NZ is home.
With USA family we visit often. As a general rule we enjoy our visits. Lucky I get 5 weeks annual leave to make those trips. I enjoy driving in the States, great freeways and pedal to the metal mentality. I will always have small denomination notes for tipping but do not enjoy being treated like a forger because I have big notes. Thanks for the interesting video and perspective.
Hello! Your contents are fantastic. They are quite informative and precise. By the way, I am coming to Wellington. Is there any suggestions or anyone from there? It's good to know more people at wellington. Thanks!
I wonder if you could touch on the homelessness problem in the US? I have a friend in the US who has worked her whole life. Yes it was a min wage job but millions of people work in min wage jobs. She developed a serious health problem and because she didnt have insurance it bankrupted her. She is still sick and now she lives on the street. How is this possible? I think it is shocking and very sad.
Exactly. How can they allow this to happen in a developed country. I became disabled at 32 after having my third child and I am very grateful to live in NZ where I am looked after. I would be homeless in the US.
Yes welcome home Tara. Loved your take on things…politics and the tipping (oh yes the tipping is nassssty now!) Been away like you for a break and stopped in NYC for a week and then to Europe for 3 weeks. As busy as it was in Europe, it was sane and well adjusted and funnily enough, quite relaxed but arriving back onto O’hare on the way home….yes, back in the US and being yelled at in queues, prodded and challenged and in general, treated disrespectfully. It’s just gruff and rough for sure. Just been 3 days in San Francisco (home today at 0530am)and while I felt some optimism there, you are right about the fear factor. Dining out with friends for 3 days and hearing their take on life, I realized that NZ is very different. Great video as usual and I missed you. B
If you think you are going to get used to the customs unique to American life by short stopovers in Chicago and California you are very naive my friend. Visting Americans find NZ equally frustrating.
Welcome home, and it is your home cos you get it. Life is not meant to only revolve around money. People are so much more important and looking out for yourself and those around you should always be the top priority. I am delighted you have gained awareness and now appreciate a slower , less crowded life style. I love Americans (The majority being everyday hardworking family people), having lived in Atlanta for six years, but now that I am 68 yrs old, I am grateful for the Healthcare in New Zealand and the pension I get here. I would not have survived my Stage 4 kidney cancer in USA. Americans are extremely kind, generous and hardworking people, but the American system is not kind to them. 😢
This Kiwi lived in Seattle for 41-years, and managed huge Construction jobs all over the USA. In 15-states. Had a bone marrow transplant in Seattle. Which cost me US$0.00. And had a standard of living and opportunities Kiwi's can dream about. Now sadly retired back to Godzone, I disagree with you 100% my friend. If you are happy with 11-hour waits in the Hospital Emergency Room, I am not. Don't get me started! The pension is an insult. OK if you like a poverty existence. By any Criteria, if you work hard in the USA, it is a fantastic place to live and raise a family. Infinitely better than living in New Zealand.
Totally agree re tipping! As for insurance, it seems like every 3rd ad on TV was from an insurance company. Great to see the positive influence NZ is having on you, and how you can see through some of the things that some in America think are just the way things should be. It's such a pity that rational discussions can't be had about health care etc. It's my firm opinion that the USA would be an awesome country if only it could be more like NZ and Australia. Makes me wonder what the place would be like if it were to have stayed in the British Empire / Commonwealth.
I got into trouble years ago as the train porter got mad with me, but I didn't understand why. Before I disembarked, I gave the barman enough for him and porter snd said to him to share it. -That was probably very naive to do that, but man; the porter was aggressively rude.
I love America and I love Americans, please get well soon so the rest of us can get on with our lives, we wish you all the best-love from a Kiwi-mmmmmwah!!🙂🙃🙂
I travelled to the US years ago, and had dinner in Boston. I was stunned at the concept of tipping because the people who worked there did not serve us well at all. They stood there gossiping, and were not particularly friendly or helpful. I was frustrated that I had to tip them for slack service. I grew up in South Africa (have lived in NZ though since 1985 so am pretty much a Kiwi now) also a country where tipping is the norm, but again, not been particularly impressed with their service.
Im a kiwi, married 23 years to an American who left LA to come meet me and never left. Every trip we've had to the US, i have loved the people and small town Americans. Its the big cities and brash attitudes i suffer with. My wife feels the same 😊
You have to sympathise with workers in hospitality industry in america though. The federal minimum wage in the U S is $7.25/hour. The adult minimum wage in NZ is $22.70/hour, and the NZ new starter/trainee hourly rate is $18.00/hour, but then our cost of living is a lot higher then U S.
@@DennisMerwood-xk8wp Wikipedia - List_of_US_states_by_minimum_wage DO NOT say you cant trust wikipedia. Their source is the USA FEDERAL Dept of LABOR. Federal minimum is $7.25 per hour. Has been for several years - since 2019 at least. There are 20 states on that list that still have a minimum wage of $7.25 per hour. Some states have less than that. Of the remaining 30 states, Montana pays $9.95/hour and the rest all pay at least $10/hour or more. Highest Hourly wages are currently in Wash DC, Wash state and California
"Hahahahalololol 9:00Arhhhh New Zealand's No Tipping Culture...Why Should We Pay When The Meal + Beverages Are So Damn Expensive!?! Anyways For The Waiter/Waitress's Here In New Zealand Would Feel Ashamed If They Even Hint To Getting A Tip...It's Not A Reflection Of The Service But It's A Compliment To Having A Meal There At Their Restaurant...And If We Enjoy The Meal There Then Expect Customers To Come Back...😉😉😉
Just do what you want! There are no rules! Don't tip if you don't want to. The tip is paid AFTER the service - they never know what you tipped until after you have gone! This idea you have to tip for good service is bogus!
Sorry, going to disagree about service being better in the USA. Service is different in each country as each country value different dining experiences. I imagine in the USA diners want everything immediately and not to have to wait for anything whereas in NZ we want a quite relaxed dining experience where we are not continually interrupted. If we need something and there are no staff nearby to ask we simply go up to the bar or counter.
Agree. The downside of living in Canada is that I cant really BROWSE in the shops without having pushy sales people coming to ask if they can help me, every 2 minutes. I have been known to walk out of a shop after being asked that one time too many!! Which is why I now prefer to buy most of everything i need online!!!
Oh wow the tipping! I went to South Africa where they also tip and it just sucked. Why don't they just build the price in?!?! So stressful. I'd always do too much and feel taken advantage of. One less drama in my life I don't need. It was the same in Tanzania too but just at restaurants so that made it easier.
I'm a New Zealander who spent a few years in the USA, and you seem to be hitting the things I noticed. Not sure if I would say the service in restaurants is necessarily better in the USA than NZ (but maybe I just didn't tip enough money!). The USA has some strong positives (enjoyed my visits there and making friends) and the USA was THE model of democracy from the early to mid 1900s. Unfortunately it seems like over the last 30+ years that democracy there seems to have stalled and not progressed / improved much like it has in some countries. I'm wondering if one reason might be that the law system favours the wealthy & powerful (if you can afford a better lawyer you are much more likely to win) and so having money is seen as the answer to everything. The son of a friend who moved to the USA was quite shocked about how USA values were taught in school - basically he was taught that the USA was better, in all regards, than every other country in the world (this would lead to no desire to change if you are taught to believe that you are already the best). Of course it could just be the State and / or School he went to.
Us kiwis are so chill and I love it. To be honest I wouldn’t want to travel to the states never wanted to go even if it was a planned trip I wouldn’t go. New Zealand is home to me. Always.
My childhood was in the U.S, and at the age of 16, my family emigrated to Australia. That was in 1966. The first couple of years was culture shock, but in a good way. After 8 years I traveled back to States with my young Australian bride. Things that felt familiar in my American childhood now seemed distant. That included American family and friends. It wasn't until I boarded the plane back to Australia that I realized I was going 'home', And it felt so good when we landed back on Australian soil.
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That’s what makes Australia great mate
@@looking8030, living in a country full of snakes and crocs that's no way greatest.. 😊😮
@@mtuk4538 they taste good though so win win
Yes. We all envy you.❤
Love from the poor, dilapidated, crime ridden, USA.
I couldn't agree more...I've been here for over 14 years and I have gone home (Florida) once. While we we're there I noticed everything and couldn't wait to come back to NZ. I'm a better mom, wife, friend for having come here.
Thats "mum" in NZ, lol.
Go home. Stay there
@@mcardnas2984Are you ok? Do you need a hug? You seem very angry over nothing.
@@melholland1867 yawn. Totally predictable passive aggressive, lame gaslighting response 🥴😴
@@mcardnas2984 I can see from your previous comments on your page that you never have anything nice to say. It's ok, I know it's not personal. You are just damaged. Have a great day, and God bless.
*Australian here*. I met two amazing friends from Texas when we all worked together in Germany. They came and lived in Australia for a while, and now live in Auckland where their two great kids are growing up and schooling. They're always reminding me I'm welcome anytime, and whenever I go over to visit they make a special effort to take time off so we can go on road trips. We're polar opposites politically and in other ways, but it just doesn't matter - they've always been ride or die for me. And they love NZ... apart from the housing prices.
I used to work as a Flight Attendant for a New Zealand airline and sometimes we’d codeshare with American Airlines or have Americans chartering our planes and we’d criiiiiinge because Americans would snap their fingers at us, yell “hey you, get me ______” and it was so demanding. We’d be run off our feet and so flabbergasted at the demands and rudeness. It’s just so different. There’s nothing wrong with asking for something - but snapping your fingers and DEMANDING something is so different. And don’t get me started on the things they’d request and then be mad at us that we didn’t have it “Ritz crackers”, “club soda” etc.
Oh my goodness right!!! Soo true
Where do you think the over 1 billion spent on elections comes from? Big business, which gets plenty of leverage from the donations for campaigning. Not to mention the huge revenue that flows through the the " religious " machine which in turn manipulates the political gravy train.
And by not saying anything back then, you enabled that entitled behaviour.
We all need to remember the manners street brawl.
Aw, it makes me so sad when I read comments like this about America, as a fellow American. I swear we aren't all this terrible, it's a huge country with tons of different people, and lots of us are kind and good-natured. So sorry this was your experience!
Wow. That is incredibile. I guess its just their normal way of life. Farrr.. that
Having lived in the US for 8 years the company I worked for a company gave 1 week leave plus stat days, and 2 after working there for 5 years. Contrast that to my current job in NZ 4 weeks off a year which is standard for all people, and 5 additional family days. That makes a big difference to quality of life.
If by "family days" you mean sick days, it's been increased to 10 now. Not to mention we also have parental leave (paid and unpaid) and bereavement leave. And we're not even that flash compared to some European countries!
It's awesome hearing your perspective and you make it fun. Appreciate your honesty. I'm Maori and it's so good hearing your take on this country. Awesome videos, thank you 😊
Love this. I'm kiwi born and bred, but I do travel a lot. Agree, we are all mostly laid back, friendly, quiet and patient. We very rarely raise our voices and we definitely don't sweat the small stuff. The crowds in many countries do make me uncomfortable and I have no idea how to tip. In NZ, people don't need tips because they are paid for the job they do. A tip shows that someone's service was exceptional, it's not a right but a compliment.
Because I travel so much, your korero (words) actually help me to appreciate where I come from even more, and to not take my beautiful home for granted. Thank you 🙏🏽
Awe thanks for your kind words
I'm Kiwi and have met Americans who just haven't made it here. I mean, they've made it in business, but emotionally they just don't get Kiwi culture. I appreciate my American friends who have embraced our culture and see the value in it. It's not all about yourself! Thank you for bringing our culture to the world ❤
Tell us what these people didn’t get about your culture.
@@poisontoad8007 awe thanks... it's my privilege
Aussie here. One thing I learned years ago about taking time off is that you actually need to take more than one week. The first week is when your body and mind starts to destress and unwind. It is in the SECOND and subsequent weeks that it actually recharges and heals. I was given this advice by my very first boss and I realised it was true after I had been working for a few years. If you are tired and stressed and need a break, take a minimum of two weeks, no less or you are just wasting you leave time.
I visited the USA in 1999 and found it so very dirty, loud and the blatant racism was a real shock. Nearly all the cleaners and wait staff were either black or mexican, the middle level jobs were asian and the senior management jobs were held by white people. From the time we stepped off the plane, through the hotels and places we visited until we got on the plane to come back to Australia, it was shocking. That and the hands out for tips and the prices not including tax which is just stupid.
Much like Australia, the racism is right in your face.
When my wife and u visited in 2022 it was still the same as what you saw
Here's an explanation of prices in the US. We don't have VAT here. Each state has their own tax percentage, plus each county in each state have different tax percentages, and some cities even have their own sales tax. So the tax amount is added after purchase and itemized on the receipt so we can be sure we're not being taken advantage of.
If the listed price was the final price, it gives unscrupulous people the opportunity to greedily add an extra amount to the price to pocket more money.
Yeah everytime we build a new prison our sales tax goes up half a percentage point. I'm not joking.
Wow. Interesting. I'm glad your changes are positive. Chill Americans are very cool. I bet you're relieved your family are growing up relaxed, free and fearless. I'm happy for you all.
I'm a Kiwi.. born here 47yrs ago...what I have to learn about the USA. It's not a country for the people, it's a country run like a business.
And that’s what National is going to do once in parliament 😢
It's better to run as a business than dish out money to people that will NEVER want to work, unfortunately in the paper today a young man kicked an older man in the head and killed him, after discounts for guilty plea and age he can apply for home detention, that's the BS justice system we have, I was born here 60 years ago
@@Peye-pv4cbI mean, the issue with running a nation state as if it’s a business is determining who the shareholders are.
Ultimately I think it should be run like a nation state, but if you have to run it like a business I think the shareholders are “everyone who lives there”
It seems like you think it should be run for the rich?
@@teaorerekomene5959 Oh BS. You are spouting the Labour govts propaganda hook line and sinker.
@@Peye-pv4cb It's the "Caring" labour system they introduced in 2016, to be kind and find the "good" in everybody. Hence the dickhead getting Home D.
Hi, a Kiwi here. I watched a bunch of your videos a while back and you were so careful choosing your words, and EVERYTHING you said came with a disclaimer or waiver. And you were talking in a more orderly professional style. After taking a break from your videos (for several months or a year - unintentionally so), I have just jumped back in to watching this one. Right at the beginning of your video - before even realising how you were approaching this topic - I noticed how much more relaxed and free and conversational you are talking, both in the style of your speaking and what you say. I know that learning and growing as a You Tube presenter is part of it, but I think that you've been Kiwi-ised in lots of other ways! I like to think we've had a good influence on you! I agree that no country is perfect, but it's nice to see the change in you and the way you think about the US.
The disclaimer is because kiwis are quite sensitive so I adjust.. Thanks for your comments
@@Kiwiamericans I'm not sure if we are more sensitive than anyone else, but we are quite used to encountering Americans with problematic attitudes on social media so maybe we're reactionary because of that. 😅 It's certainly refreshing to hear an American understanding and acknowledging the good points of our culture.
As a Dutch immigrant living in NZ, and having spent four years in the USA, everything in this video is 100% on point! 👌The issue with America is the rampant excessive capitalisms, where profit and money trumps everything!...just sayin'.
Agree!
As a Kiwi, never have been to USA. But it seems like one of the most scary places in the world to live. US has so many mentally insane people, and the right to carry fire arms. Look at the school shootings for one. And the gangs. I wouldn't ever willingly want to live is the USA
There’s nothing wrong with capitalism in concept but it’s gets exploited by greedy people, the point here is there will ALWAYS be greedy people (because human nature) no matter what system you use and without a doubt capitalism is the best. What needs more attention is corruption and greed in government.
I've lived in the States too. I found that they are very money and status-driven. Almost a class system. Sooooo focused on "getting ahead ". Aggressive and loud. Lovely people individually, but impersonal and rude in public.
For me it's the excessive marketing we allow corporations to do in the US. We are bombarded by advertising. We have hundreds of pharmaceutical drug advertisements on tv which includes drugs that require a dr's prescription, so it makes no sense to try to sell these medicines to regular consumers on tv. Even viagra is advertised but you just have to figure out the silly words being used. The "little blue pill" is for men to get aroused and yes it is advertised on tv.. Or we see commercials for "the purple pill" which I still don't know what that is.😮 I feel that marketing is out of control in the US. But than again I had a sociology prof in college that said in order to be a good American you must do only two things: 1. Pay your taxes and 2. Keep buying stuff you don't need.
I really enjoy your videos. It's interesting hearing a foreigners take on NZ versus their own experiences from their home country. Subscribed, thanks
Glad you like them!
Kia ora I love that being in Aotearoa has allowed you and your whanau to adapt to the laid back and relaxed day to day lifestyle, it’s made me realise how lucky and grateful I am to have been born in this land, yeah sure there are downsides too but I feel we do our best to try make things work for the best of our communities and families and the environment we are surrounded by so thank you just as much for opening my eyes to the differences of another country through your eyes.
I love your more off-the-cuff videos like this one. Travel really does broaden the mind so it's great that you've used yours to add nuance to many of the things you've already mentioned (health care etc.). Well done.
Thanks for watching
Kia ora and welcome back - your content is fabulous - its a refreshing viewpoint that certainly helps me keep my perspective - as folks on our islands at the bottom of the South Pacific can get one eyed about life - so its great to have your outside input - 5 stars!!
Awe thanks for your kind words and for watching
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As you know NZ is far from perfect but I love a lot of things here and I feel their are more positives than negatives although sometimes negativity is sometimes in your face. I'm happy when I watch your vids and how positive you are about living here.
Years ago I travelled to tipping societies, working as a registered nurse. I found it really insulting when patients tried to slip money into my hand - it implied that I wouldn't do my job without a bribe. I got used to it, but the first time it happened I was so shocked I said "How dare you!" After a while, working in private nursing jobs in England I realised that it was partly a way of asserting dominance. To be tipped is to be subordinate.
Oh my really???
Yes I agree because you are at the whim and mercy of the person giving you money. You are not just getting paid a wage for doing a job you are being “judged” with every interaction and I am sure if you don’t get a tip or get enough then it will affect your confidence and self worth. It feels like a type of serfdom. And it ties you into the myth that if you work harder you can “make” it in America when really on a minimum wage a dollar or 2 of extra tips is not going to move the needle.
If you're working in private nursing in England then your patients wouldn't have been "normal people"; the NHS is free in the UK. If you have unusual patients you can expect unusual behaviour.
@@TankEnMate True, they weren't normal people, but I don't think that changes my point about the dynamics of tipping.
They were extremely not normal - it was a fascinating experience. I had never before then known people who felt that their riches made them a different species.
I agree with the comment about tipping - it IS a form of implying superiority!
My Kiwi boyfriend sent me this video to watch. I'm an American and will be joining him on the South Island next year, and everything I've heard about NZ has made me think I'll enjoy it much more than the US. Thanks for this!
Awesome... so glad it is helpful!
I'm an Australian just spent 4 weeks I the USA we went a few states and u have to agree with everything your saying we came back feeling like we didn't have a holiday it's just rush rush with everything and they try to tell us it's cheaper there than in aus nop don't agree you get the bill for your food with all these add ons tax tip and other charges we had no clue what it was your $25 bill ends up being $40 you couldn't even get $5 coffee without them wanting a tip in country's that have tipping has just gotten out of control
Bovine excrement trish.
Thanks for appreciating our paradise here in New Zealand. ❤
I think watching the way America runs from another country's perspective does show quite drastically how broken America is
Michael Moore's Where to Invade Next is a prime example of that.
On the other hand, tho, I do appreciate everything America does around the world. If it wasnt for the USA,, the world would be ruled by tyrants. Lord knows there is enough tyranny in the world,now.
What you watch on NZ TV about America is bovine excrement emily!
Broken lol we'd all be speaking Mandarin or Russian if they weren't the Mighty America they are
America brought English to my country and I’m grateful for that. However, I love NZ and Australia more for so many reasons.❤
Not my place to say, but as someone born in the UK, but raised my kids in Aotearoa, you'd be doing your kids a favor by letting them be kiwis. My kids don't realize how lucky they are to be kiwis
Soo true
I talk a tad loud, but it's because my hearing's not as it was. Tinnitus and some loss. It affects me more when there's group noise and it's harder to figure someones speech you're actually engaged with.
I just got my citizenship in the USA and my family and friends down under are all asking why? You make very valid points about everything, especially tipping, politics, and healthcare. 🙂. Also I always tell people that America is like 50 little countries rather than one United States.
So true, this kiwi has spent the last 40 years traveling and doing busness in the usa, 330M people is alot, its 50 countrys under the same $$$ and system and yet different....enjoy your citizenship, good on you.
Love the perspective you’ve gained !
Totally agree with the tipping culture! Just back from two months visiting family in the US. Tipping is absolutely out of control. I believe in service, and want to contribute, but taking an order across the counter should NOT attract a tip. To me that was no service other than typing into a screen….it’s soooo frustrating. We felt forced to tip every time that screen was turned around to us. Out of control for sure.
I know - what is the deal with flipping that screen around!
People all over the World tip. And have no problem with it. Or stress out about it.
For some reason Kiwis get their panties all in a knot about it.
And don't understand it.
If there was tipping in NZ, the customer service would not be the worst in the World.
Wages. US pays abysmal min wages, so business profit more, user pays staff's wages in tips, as meals/goods/services are cheaper in the US. NZ pays higher wages. Service cost in NZ is already high, so kiwis pay the tip cost in their service fee. Besides, service in NZ is good, we just don't put up with US Karen BS mentality. NZ does not need to start tipping, worst concept ever, as you are then paying the high service cost + tip. Not going to happen. I refuse to tip for a meal I have paid $40/50 for and that does not include an entree, desert or drinks. I think it is the height of rudeness to expect me to tip for someone doing the job they are paid quite well to do. NZ does not need the US mentality here.
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Really? Australia don't tip unless we choose to. I can't speak for other specific countries, but I do 17:43 know that not all countries tip.
@@dionex6973 It's not worth debating you. You have so many misconceptions and factual errors in your rant - one would take days to explain them to you.
You Kiwis let your idiotic hatred of tipping cloud your rational judgement and reasoning.
I tip regularly in NZ for exceptional service. Very few refuse my tip. And workers appreciate my kindness. It helps their families. You sound like you are a real tightwad scrooge.
And if you think service is good in New Zealand - you are in la la land my friend.
Its so funny and so dam cool that ANYONE can come to Aotearoa/NZ to live and automatically you become a flightless bird, a KIWI, it joins us all as one, i dont know of any other country that bonds together like that and be proud of it, GO THE MIGHTY ALL BLACKS
Well Tara, sounds like you are a nicer person now. And you're right, happiness is the most important thing.
We are so glad to have someone like you living here. You are one of us!
I’m a kiwi who’s travelled the world. We are extremely fortunate and we have overall an amazing society in my opinion, you are right about the fear based attitude of some countries is toxic and it filters through everything.
Hey, I'm kiwi, born and raised in NZ and I'm new to your channel. Thanks for sharing your insight I learnt a lot.
The thing about time off for relaxation is that NZ has a standard employment contract that an employer has to comply with for all employees. This is something like 20 annual days and 10 sick days or there abouts, whereas the US doesn’t have anything similar.
Yes exactly
Holidays in New Zealand mean a day off. Valentines' day and Halloween are not a holiday in New Zealand as you don't get paid time off for them.
I worked in the US over an Easter once and was surprised that they didn't have days off over Easter, especially considering how much more religion is (or appears to be) part of the culture there.
New Zealand has 20days annual leave and 11 public holidays, which your employer must pay you for by law. That's more than 6 weeks of holiday.
The standard for employers in NZ and Australia is almost identical re holidays and sick leave etc. However that's only possible in a country that allows Freedom of Unionisation which is almost impossible in the USA as per the uproar about the current UAW strikes.
The US seems to be more about the individual rather than the community, and everything has a price tag. Without wishing to denigrate the country of your birth, i call it "the land of the fee", money before people seems to be the way.
'Land of the fee, home of the (working) slave'?
Yeah right! NZ$750,000 for a crappy 40-year-old house with no insulation.
Young Kiwi couples, even if they can save for the deposit, will be debt slaves for life.
And Kiwi couples can't afford to start a family.
While NZ has open immigration of low wage workers.
Money before workers. It's a sure recipe for doom.
That individualism is exactly WHY Americans hate the idea of universal health care so much!!!
They do NOT want their tax dollars paying for the Disabled person or the child with a chronic illness who might need a life time's worth of health care to survive.
21 years for me. First way I knew I had changed...about 18 months in....I was no longer hypervigilant about the children.
Yes, I went to visit my cousin in Vancouver about 15 years ago and he said they never let their children play in the fenced off back yard unless they were out there with them! ( Kidnapping worries..). I would have thought Canada was a little more like N.Z, but obviously not so. It's really mind boggling!!
Tipping used to be for the waiter/waitress that makes $2/hr and they relied on tipping for their salary. It’s gotten ridiculous now where the person making a regular wage expects it too.
But that’s the problem- l have been told by my American friends that, although they have minimum wages; there is no law to enforce this, so many Americans are still been massively underpaid.
I was in San Francisco a few years ago with a friend. It was her birthday so l shouted her dinner at one of the restaurants at Fisherman’s wharf. The waitress was extremely rude and dismissive so l refused to tip her and l told her exactly why; AND very loudly so her manager could hear. However l have also tipped very generously in places where the service has been exceptionally good.
@@libbysevicke-jones3160 yes, totally agree. I am very generous unless I’m treated rudely.
Wrong - oh deary me! No waiter/waitress in America makes a minimum $2/hr wage! Where do you Kiwi's come up with his bullshit?
And in NZ every waiter/waitress makes the same - even if they do a lousy job!
What incentive do they have to give good service? None. Why the service in NZ is arguably the worst in the World.
And in America a hard-working waiter/waitress can make enormous bucks to take home to her family. Not just the minimum wage like in NZ.
Maybe we're a little lazier lol but Kiwis have a beautiful environment and want to enjoy nature. We want to have work-life balance.
Yes you do! Thanks for watching
I did part of my schooling in the US and lived there on and off for years. It's completely unrecognisable to me now. I would be happy to live in New Zealand, but I wouldn't live in the US unless it was last place left on Earth. On one side of our house lived Jane Fonda and on the other side Leonard Nimoy, so it's not like it was a bad area that represented the worst of the US.
Welcome back. I wondered what had happened to you. I enjoyed and was fascinated by your insights to differences you now notice between the USA and elsewhere. Thank you.
I watch a lot of US yard sale videos and I'm struck by how polite and friendly everyone is.
Yes when I went back it was very noticable - how friendly everyone was in the midwest.
That Kiwi's are more friendly and polite than American's is a myth. Kiwi's can be very unapproachable and rude.
You've made the sacrifice, that every migrant makes, to give your family a better life, you've succeed in getting that better life (your changes for the better are proof of that) I hope your kids realise and appreciate what they've been given 🤞
I was in America for the first time ever last year, flew 19 hours from New Zealand to New York and man I was absolutely shocked! Everyone seemed to be in a constant rush and the tipping was ridiculous I couldn’t believe the minimum was 15%. Other than that I loved my time in America I want to visit again ☺️
Awesome... soo glad you got to go
So if you compare it to NZ with a rate of 15% GST (goods and services tax) it's reallly like the Government has said..
"We will step out of the transaction and you pay "the tax" for SERVICE...directly to the person giving you the service".
Tipping means the person giving the service takes on the "tax collector" role...
The Govt duck shoves the responsibility onto the server....
That bullshit (plus tax) is again another duck shove by the employer....
in NZ it is law that the price when expected to be for any retail bought good or service MUST be inclusive.
Only wholesale or commercial are allowed to separate them...
and it pays to ask on the phone "GST inclusive?" because some businesses try it on...
Employers need to pay a decent wage to their staff so they don't have to be pushy or grovel for tips.
There needs to be legislation applicable to all employees and salary workers in the USA....
a minimum 4 weeks a year plus an extra week after 5 years with the same employer...
plus as much more vacation time as anyone can negotiate.....
There is no minimum tip requirement in America.
If you don't like the service - don't tip.
This Kiwi practiced that for 41-years working in 15-states all across the USA.
And those lousy businesses, with lousy employees, will go under.
Its so easy!
It's hard on the employees not knowing from wek to week whether they will be able to afford to live.
A decent living wage...plus tips if necessary....
If the businesses advertised "No tip expected...we pay our staff a good wage every week"....
would that business garner more business????
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They constantly say they're the best country, land of the free. But don't even have free Healthcare. And work their citizens to the bone. Not really a 1st world country in my opinion. 😅
Also agree with the crowd thing. Wanting to go Universal Studios at some point, but 2hr wait time for rides, are you crazy. 30mins is even too long for a kiwi. 😂
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USA = 3rd world country with a Gucci belt.
My employer in Seattle included the cost of my first-class healthcare as part of my compensation. My family never paid a dime for healthcare.
Retired Americans are well covered for their healthcare by MEDICARE.
(And the Average retired American on SOCIAL SECURITY gets way more than the average Kiwi on its pitiful pension plan.)
The poor, disadvantaged and disabled's healthcare is paid by MEDICAID.
Very few do fall the cracks. But OBAMCARE went a long way to fixing that.
American healthcare for everyone is as good as NZ's lousy Gubmint scheme.
Hey it's hard, we are 5million they're nearly 400, with different states with different cultures with an outstanding history. We are still 180 years young
It's a joy to watch your upbeat videos Tara. We need more people like you in NZ 🙂
Awe thanks... and I agree
No we fucking don't
@@mcardnas2984 Well I fucking do, royal 'we' dick.
great video glad you are home safely now, awesome insights :)
Thanks for watching
A comment I heard recently floored me with the simplicity and truth it told about being American. It was something like:
The income in American dollars we earn is plenty to have a good life as long as we live anywhere but the US.
That is our thinking too!
oh yes, and no tipping here. The other day we where served by a great young woman, and we gave her $10. Her response was off the charts with happiness and her colleagues where all smiling for her. Its fabulous.
The USA has very serious problems and is in rapid decline. It is an "act of insanity" to stay in America if a person can leave to live somewhere else.
If nobody stays to fix it then it won't get fixed, is the other side of that argument some people prefer to stay and try to fix things, it is looking like we are about to elect a libertarian conservative government, that should make me immediately want to jump ship, but I would rather stay and oppose the things they intend to do
Rots of Ruck !@@chrisharris1522
If all the sane people were to vacate the US, it would be the Land of the Stupid - Trump supporters 100% -
No. Don't bring your shit to another land and make it shitty. Stay home and fix your own mess
Got any evidence for that my friend? Have you lived in America? I have two kids living fantastic lives in in America. In WI and NY.
You need to stop watching NZ TV. You are being fed a line of bullshit about the USA
I'm from Canada and lived there for a year in 2015-2016. I totally align with the kiwi way of life and am not a super materialistic person. I don't need the large fancy house or the newest flashiest car or top brand name clothes. I'd honestly love to spend the rest of my life there and plan on returning one day when the time is right.
However it definitely is an expensive country and the wages are pretty terrible if I'm being completely transparent.. This will differ from person to person depending on profession but I'm not even working in a top earning job in my profession in Canada and when I was in New Zealand doing the same job I took home $50,000.00 NZD less than what I would have earned at home. You can imagine the quality of life adjustment when taking that kind of decrease in earnings.
My personal opinion is if you're coming from North America just be aware that it will be much harder to save. Make sure you're in it for the long haul. If you plan on going and staying forever you wont regret it at all. But 20-30 years pass and you wanna return home you'll be severely less prepared for your golden years as NZD is also a weaker currency so you'll unfortunately lose a lot of whatever you do save.
Wait until our wages & salaries catch up with Australia,
You nailed it jared. Thanks. The wages in New Zealand are pitiful.
When I lived in Seattle, on an average wage, I had a Cessna and flew it all over the US.
Try that in Godzone wages eh!
And that weaker currency is probably a large part of why I am no hurry to return to NZ to live. I love it here in Canada!!
@@francescathomas3502 usually, National Governments drive currency rates higher, Farmers really love that.I rent a Studio in Anzac Ave, Auckland central, and can manage on the Pension.
@@francescathomas3502 By leaving NZ you lose roughly 10% going to Australia, 20% going to Canada and 40% by going to the United states. Money's 100% not everything but these could be substantial hits to most people.
Even if you were just vacationing away from NZ it would make that trip that much more which just adds to that feeling of being isolated and stuck.
I think I wouldn't have felt this way as much if I was born and raised in NZ and it's all I ever knew. My weekly take home was actually pretty decent if it was the same pay in Canada but for me I'd convert it back to CAD and be a little disappointed lol.
Tall Poppy syndrome, it works for and against us. I like that people don't get all in my face, however we could stand to use more of that American assertiveness, when it comes to demanding better outcomes for our people. We let shit fly far more than we should. Hell, we could take a page out of France's book.
totally agree - thanks for watching
I think this is the first time I’ve seen Tara start to get a good rant going.
Omg yes.... I really did
@@Kiwiamericans I enjoyed it
We have a law in NZ that election advertising or even electioneering will not start until 3 months before the election date. If you or a Party does so outside the 3 months you can be fined HEAVILY, not to mention named and shamed as well.
This is a really interesting perspective. We are preparing to move back to the states (American living in NZ since teenage years). We are literally fleeing the country as we cannot afford to even eat here anymore! I hadnt thought about how it has changed me and what culture shocks I will experience going back
That is so interesting! I am sorry to see u go... where r u moving too?
You are making the right decision my friend. The Kiwi cost of living is a killer. Nice scenery does not make up for not being to afford rent and groceries.
You will find anywhere in the US outside of the big cities infinitely more affordable. Just avoid Cailfornia and NY.
That's sad. But you are so right. The cost of living has gotten out of hand. It's disgusting!
@@Kiwiamericans We are heading off to the Suburbs (near Chicago). My parents live there and have kindly offered to let us live there while we get on our feet and save for a house deposit. We do want to come back when we are a bit more stable financially, but with our current situation - we are just getting by with no room to save, plan for the future or get ahead at all. So this will be life changing for us. Devestated to leave, but we will make it a goal to come back often and visit friends and my husbands family.
Oh my young Padawan, you have matured beyond your years. You are now your own master Yoda. Go forth and let the force be with you.🧙♀️
This was very inspiring, thank you 👍💗
You are seriously a Kiwi! 🤣 your laid back attitude is so kiwi! I was born and raised here and all I can say is that, I love being a Kiwi! Welcome home sis x😊
I'm a Kiwi in NZ and love our country. The USA is fantastic though in many other ways. Your patriotism is mind blowing I mean how is it that your college sport is bigger with more passion than our national sport? And I love a bit of US country music.
The few Americans I have met have ALL been good natural speakers open and eloquent plus, their accent does somehow enhance my kiwi ears to pay a warmer attention to their korero (discussion). Like fluent public speaker's 📢 they did have the twang and practicality to put their point across..eh..umm attentively, if I may aim it that way. Basically I'm a shy bloke 🤭 and definitely no where near scholar material that when in the presence of such educated boldness wrapped up and presented in a nice common sense way just like our (A .K .S=😏🫡 American.Kiwi.Sista,) here is doing. What a fine job and always moves me towards the tissue paper NO SORRY my sleeve (I had almost forgotten that I was once a harden Ex-Rugby ball boy who never was seen shedding one tear 😢 well maybe not ONE 🤣 😭 🤧 This is only my second time in one day I have seen your videos and I am captivated. Thank you for sharing so many positive vibes about kiwiana=(things kiwi) but now l must go 🚶♂️ 🚶♀️ and search out where you found these wonderful Kiwis and these lovely places and coffees etc. I suppose one could say, I embody the saying that goes... "I couldn't see the jungle because I was to close to the tree." It's now Friday 11th of October 2024 so I have missed out on following the up to date in living color your series of Americana doing Kiwiana 🎉 Sparks and All but nevertheless its all in the system therefore we can fill ourselves up on it anytime and get sentimentally touched 😢 I do not know if I can still subscribe but I will watch some more and if it looks like you are not closing shop then I will indeed subscribe. God the Almighty look upon you and all your family most graciously through Jesus Christ 🙏 Amen 🙏 🫶 👌🫵🤝👍
Love your video. I grew up here, and spent 5 years at uni in Australia. Upon returning here, I hated it. It's so small and slow. Yet after time, I realised that this is it's appeal. I can think here lol I can relax. Laid back kiwiana is good 😊
Yes laid back is good! Thanks for watching
I agreeeee. Been away almost 16 years and left for the same reasons now that’s what I yearn for
yeah that's the whole point. the less noise the better
Laid back and relaxed is good. Small and slow is why I left NZ. Have now been in Canada for 20+ years!! Am in no hurry to come home - mostly because we do have Skype!!
Yes! All this, for days! I especially enjoyed the second half of the list. As an American in NZ, the difference in ads is stark and good!!
It's so funny to hear how you have changed, and as a kiwi, I complete relate to you being annoyed when it comes to loud people and also the crowds 😂
I thoroughly enjoyed your take on the differences that you shared, and while it’s not perfect in NZ I still believe there are still friendly people willing to help and exercise a laid back approach to most things. I hope you will continue to have more positive experiences
Girl say it LOUDER. 💯 agree with you. We’re in the US trying to leave. Hoping to follow suit and become kiwis too!
Awesome! I am here to help :)
Awesome! Plenty of room! Pack those bags and get here! You will have a great life here.
Yup, we got out in May. Pack your bags!
@bazzatheking3155 no there isn't. Do you know how many people can't get a home here Because of Unwanted imports like you . Go home. You have no right to invite other Unwanted imports here
@@emilypenick9414got out of a shit hole cause of Unwanted imports . Yeah we know the feeling. Go home
Loved this video 💚 Thank you
You are so welcome!
Its a mindset, seems like America as a whole has a closed mindset when it comes to change vs a lot of other countries that have a more growth mindset (yes an oversimplification but kinda aligns)
Welcome home. So glad to have you back. Have missed your input videos
Awe thanks! It has been a journey but I am glad to be back!
I agree with everything you said, welcome to our happy world, and glad you are here now. 💕
That being said, my parents were recently in Kansas City, staying with friends/work colleagues. They wanted to get their hosts a gift to say thank you, so they went to Walmart, to buy a leaf blower (as one does).
As they were carrying it out, an employee who was just finishing work, saw them looking for a taxi outside, and gave them a lift back. They always say how friendly Americans are! Good and bad of everyone everywhere. ❤
So true, im my 40 years of travelling to the usa i have met nothing but kind and decent people, even in some not so good areas, many have become friends....its a great place but NZ is home.
@@FastKiwiBoss @heleng9940. Thanks you guys. Kiwi's are brainwashed by their TV's about how BAD America is. It's not true,
With USA family we visit often. As a general rule we enjoy our visits. Lucky I get 5 weeks annual leave to make those trips. I enjoy driving in the States, great freeways and pedal to the metal mentality. I will always have small denomination notes for tipping but do not enjoy being treated like a forger because I have big notes. Thanks for the interesting video and perspective.
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Hello!
Your contents are fantastic. They are quite informative and precise.
By the way, I am coming to Wellington. Is there any suggestions or anyone from there? It's good to know more people at wellington.
Thanks!
I wonder if you could touch on the homelessness problem in the US? I have a friend in the US who has worked her whole life. Yes it was a min wage job but millions of people work in min wage jobs. She developed a serious health problem and because she didnt have insurance it bankrupted her. She is still sick and now she lives on the street. How is this possible? I think it is shocking and very sad.
Exactly. How can they allow this to happen in a developed country. I became disabled at 32 after having my third child and I am very grateful to live in NZ where I am looked after. I would be homeless in the US.
You might want to research the homeless rate in NZ vs the USA david. I think you are in for a helluva shock my friend.
@@DennisMerwood-xk8wp Yeah and while your at research the life expectancy as well eh sunshine.
@@fabmanly1070 Yeah and while you at research the child and spousal abuse statistics as well eh sunshine.
Welcome home.
Yes welcome home Tara. Loved your take on things…politics and the tipping (oh yes the tipping is nassssty now!) Been away like you for a break and stopped in NYC for a week and then to Europe for 3 weeks. As busy as it was in Europe, it was sane and well adjusted and funnily enough, quite relaxed but arriving back onto O’hare on the way home….yes, back in the US and being yelled at in queues, prodded and challenged and in general, treated disrespectfully. It’s just gruff and rough for sure. Just been 3 days in San Francisco (home today at 0530am)and while I felt some optimism there, you are right about the fear factor. Dining out with friends for 3 days and hearing their take on life, I realized that NZ is very different. Great video as usual and I missed you. B
Awe thanks for watching! Glad to be back
If you think you are going to get used to the customs unique to American life by short stopovers in Chicago and California you are very naive my friend.
Visting Americans find NZ equally frustrating.
Personal space and chilled life.
I have the recipe book, it is very nice :)
Welcome home, and it is your home cos you get it. Life is not meant to only revolve around money. People are so much more important and looking out for yourself and those around you should always be the top priority. I am delighted you have gained awareness and now appreciate a slower , less crowded life style. I love Americans (The majority being everyday hardworking family people), having lived in Atlanta for six years, but now that I am 68 yrs old, I am grateful for the Healthcare in New Zealand and the pension I get here. I would not have survived my Stage 4 kidney cancer in USA. Americans are extremely kind, generous and hardworking people, but the American system is not kind to them. 😢
This Kiwi lived in Seattle for 41-years, and managed huge Construction jobs all over the USA. In 15-states.
Had a bone marrow transplant in Seattle. Which cost me US$0.00.
And had a standard of living and opportunities Kiwi's can dream about.
Now sadly retired back to Godzone, I disagree with you 100% my friend.
If you are happy with 11-hour waits in the Hospital Emergency Room, I am not. Don't get me started!
The pension is an insult. OK if you like a poverty existence.
By any Criteria, if you work hard in the USA, it is a fantastic place to live and raise a family.
Infinitely better than living in New Zealand.
You highlighted a lot of the things id hope an American would observe and change. Refreshing video thank you
Totally agree re tipping! As for insurance, it seems like every 3rd ad on TV was from an insurance company. Great to see the positive influence NZ is having on you, and how you can see through some of the things that some in America think are just the way things should be. It's such a pity that rational discussions can't be had about health care etc.
It's my firm opinion that the USA would be an awesome country if only it could be more like NZ and Australia. Makes me wonder what the place would be like if it were to have stayed in the British Empire / Commonwealth.
I got into trouble years ago as the train porter got mad with me, but I didn't understand why. Before I disembarked, I gave the barman enough for him and porter snd said to him to share it. -That was probably very naive to do that, but man; the porter was aggressively rude.
I love America and I love Americans, please get well soon so the rest of us can get on with our lives, we wish you all the best-love from a Kiwi-mmmmmwah!!🙂🙃🙂
I travelled to the US years ago, and had dinner in Boston. I was stunned at the concept of tipping because the people who worked there did not serve us well at all. They stood there gossiping, and were not particularly friendly or helpful. I was frustrated that I had to tip them for slack service. I grew up in South Africa (have lived in NZ though since 1985 so am pretty much a Kiwi now) also a country where tipping is the norm, but again, not been particularly impressed with their service.
You sound like your happier now. 😊 🇦🇺
Im a kiwi, married 23 years to an American who left LA to come meet me and never left. Every trip we've had to the US, i have loved the people and small town Americans. Its the big cities and brash attitudes i suffer with. My wife feels the same 😊
Great post. Obviously stay proud of your US heritage. But be equally proud of being an awesome kiwi. Marvelous observations.❤❤
Awe thanks for watching
Tipping in the USA: crazy and frustrating, yes, but the problem is that the minimum wage is SO low.
Interesting insights. Thank you for the video.
Glad you enjoyed it!
Ive bein watching your videos since lockdown and watching the body language and the happy happy Tara and the way you korero keep being you ❤
Thanks so much - I am glad you like them :)
You have to sympathise with workers in hospitality industry in america though. The federal minimum wage in the U S is $7.25/hour. The adult minimum wage in NZ is $22.70/hour, and the NZ new starter/trainee hourly rate is $18.00/hour, but then our cost of living is a lot higher then U S.
No hospital in the USA pays its workers US$7.25. Where do you Kiwi's come up with this stuff?
@@DennisMerwood-xk8wp Wikipedia - List_of_US_states_by_minimum_wage DO NOT say you cant trust wikipedia. Their source is the USA FEDERAL Dept of LABOR.
Federal minimum is $7.25 per hour. Has been for several years - since 2019 at least.
There are 20 states on that list that still have a minimum wage of $7.25 per hour. Some states have less than that.
Of the remaining 30 states, Montana pays $9.95/hour and the rest all pay at least $10/hour or more.
Highest Hourly wages are currently in Wash DC, Wash state and California
I enjoy your refreshing self awareness. Kia kaha
Awe - thanks for watching :)
This was funny listening as a kiwi! Awesome video
"Hahahahalololol 9:00Arhhhh New Zealand's No Tipping Culture...Why Should We Pay When The Meal + Beverages Are So Damn Expensive!?! Anyways For The Waiter/Waitress's Here In New Zealand Would Feel Ashamed If They Even Hint To Getting A Tip...It's Not A Reflection Of The Service But It's A Compliment To Having A Meal There At Their Restaurant...And If We Enjoy The Meal There Then Expect Customers To Come Back...😉😉😉
I'm going to the US next year, and the tipping thing stresses me out - I have no idea when/who/how much 🤔
I am here to help!
Just do what you want! There are no rules! Don't tip if you don't want to.
The tip is paid AFTER the service - they never know what you tipped until after you have gone!
This idea you have to tip for good service is bogus!
Check your bill before you tip-- some have an automatic gratuity, but they won't necessarily tell you that.
Glad you enjoyed your holidays and came home safe and well :)
Sorry, going to disagree about service being better in the USA. Service is different in each country as each country value different dining experiences. I imagine in the USA diners want everything immediately and not to have to wait for anything whereas in NZ we want a quite relaxed dining experience where we are not continually interrupted. If we need something and there are no staff nearby to ask we simply go up to the bar or counter.
Agree. The downside of living in Canada is that I cant really BROWSE in the shops without having pushy sales people coming to ask if they can help me, every 2 minutes. I have been known to walk out of a shop after being asked that one time too many!! Which is why I now prefer to buy most of everything i need online!!!
Oh wow the tipping! I went to South Africa where they also tip and it just sucked. Why don't they just build the price in?!?! So stressful. I'd always do too much and feel taken advantage of. One less drama in my life I don't need. It was the same in Tanzania too but just at restaurants so that made it easier.
I'm a New Zealander who spent a few years in the USA, and you seem to be hitting the things I noticed. Not sure if I would say the service in restaurants is necessarily better in the USA than NZ (but maybe I just didn't tip enough money!).
The USA has some strong positives (enjoyed my visits there and making friends) and the USA was THE model of democracy from the early to mid 1900s. Unfortunately it seems like over the last 30+ years that democracy there seems to have stalled and not progressed / improved much like it has in some countries. I'm wondering if one reason might be that the law system favours the wealthy & powerful (if you can afford a better lawyer you are much more likely to win) and so having money is seen as the answer to everything. The son of a friend who moved to the USA was quite shocked about how USA values were taught in school - basically he was taught that the USA was better, in all regards, than every other country in the world (this would lead to no desire to change if you are taught to believe that you are already the best). Of course it could just be the State and / or School he went to.
Us kiwis are so chill and I love it. To be honest I wouldn’t want to travel to the states never wanted to go even if it was a planned trip I wouldn’t go. New Zealand is home to me. Always.
Bout time you came back I've missed your content thank you 🌸🌸
It's great to have you here 🇳🇿🇺🇲
Love this thank you so much for your perspective. Sometimes as kiwis we loose sight of how blessed we really are 🥰🥰🥰😊
Your welcome