What Makes You Get Stuck Constantly Thinking Of Someone

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  • What causes you to suddenly start thinking of someone and not be able to stop no matter how hard you try?
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  • @pmdal
    @pmdal ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Love yourself first!

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So true. I wish you happiness and love!

  • @jessebradford7130
    @jessebradford7130 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    For me, it's been 5 years and I still rage over how I was discarded, the lies etc. I have to fight it. Wish I never met them.

  • @michaelmorgan7893
    @michaelmorgan7893 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank you for this. I've loved someone for 30 years, and she is a narcissist who never cared about me, except the time I sent her money while she was in jail. I'd like to "disconnect" from this toxic love, so I can move forward. Alone is better than a ball and chain tying me down.

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I fully agree that alone is better than someone taking advantage and dragging you down. I wish you happiness and love!!

  • @dariasmenos9690
    @dariasmenos9690 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    For me it's been over a year of feeling this magnetic pull towards this person that I am in love and head over heels for! Never ever have I experienced this kind of attachment with any one in my life. I miss this person when we are apart really it put tears in my eye with a heavy heart.
    I was wondering if they feel it to but continue to chose there own path to seeing and dating other people.
    For me I do not care to date anyone because this person is who I know is for me and forever will be even if they do not want to admit it to themselves.
    I cannot force this spiritual love upon them because it is the choice to decide it's for them and to move forward and complete the oneness of us and we give the love that belongs forever within..
    ❤ What a blessing so mysterious
    BF you are the one and it is ageless love

  • @erictripton
    @erictripton ปีที่แล้ว +14

    In love unrequited. It's like grieving. Though when I wake up, she lingers in my thoughts.
    Yes a different level. I just think it's me getting to the other side of the sadness of her not reciprocal.
    It is something even when I am happy.
    Yes it's a spiritual connection from my feelings for her.
    whatever triggers it at such a level, God is my go to for relief from the pain or obsessing.
    Confusing

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  ปีที่แล้ว +12

      On the other side of the sadness and pain is the greatest happiness and love. May your most beautiful dreams come true.

    • @erictripton
      @erictripton ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@AlikiHoidas Thanks, Aliki...this has been rough.

    • @KandyKoatedKrafts
      @KandyKoatedKrafts ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Eric you may be suffering from limerence…

    • @erictripton
      @erictripton ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@KandyKoatedKrafts Yep.... I have already established no contact until this dissipates.

    • @natural3362
      @natural3362 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@KandyKoatedKrafts or simply in love

  • @jessicaribuffo9137
    @jessicaribuffo9137 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you again Aliki! You are so insightful and helpful with looking at things from another perspective. This was so what I needed to hear and remember to look within and trust in who I am!! Much love to you and happy holidays :)

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  ปีที่แล้ว

      Happy holidays!! Much love to you.
      It means so much to me that you enjoy my videos. Thank you for being here. Wishing you a wonderful New Year full of happiness and love.

  • @jefe2098
    @jefe2098 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ii think of my friend all the time only friend I've ever had that always has time to go somewhere with her making plans all the time

  • @stardif31
    @stardif31 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Another great video Aliki. I would have liked to discover this channel several years ago. Better late than never. Thank's Aliki, have a merry chrismas and a happy new years

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much!! Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!!! Wishing you happiness and love.
      I'm so happy you found my channel and enjoy my videos.

  • @Made-in-mind
    @Made-in-mind ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Aliki for answering all these questions 🙏
    Lots of Love! and Happy new year 💐!

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  ปีที่แล้ว

      You are so very welcome Aria! ❤️ Lots of love. Happy New Year! ✨😊🌷🎵

  • @TroyPosey
    @TroyPosey ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Excellent video Aliki! I have dealt with this before. It's not easy, because your heart never truly lets you forget someone who made such a wonderful impact on you when you needed it the most. But, at some point, you have to realize what is reality vs. what you WANT to be reality. And sometimes how our hearts see someone is not how are brains should be looking at a situation (logically)...And sometimes it's the exact opposite, and our brains are attracted, but our hearts aren't.
    That being said, sometimes we can manifest our dreams into reality, but we have to accept that some things are simply not in God/The Universe's plan for us, no matter how badly we want it to be. And that fact hurts when we finally realize this, and it can be very depressing. But something greater will almost always come along when you least expect it...But always at the exact right time that it's supposed to. 🙂
    I hope you are having a wonderful week, and that you have a very Merry Christmas! 😊❤🌹😘

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Merry Christmas Troy!! Much love to you. I hope you are enjoying the holidays. Wishing you happiness and love! ❤️🎄❄️⛄✨

    • @TroyPosey
      @TroyPosey ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@AlikiHoidas Wishing you the same Aliki! 😊🌹❤️

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TroyPosey thank you!! ❤️✨🙂

  • @denisedee1978
    @denisedee1978 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for the support!!

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  ปีที่แล้ว

      My pleasure Denise! Wishing you happiness and love.

    • @denisedee1978
      @denisedee1978 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AlikiHoidas ❤️‼️🧘

  • @Mari-lv1rd
    @Mari-lv1rd 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for this video

  • @basselsakr9858
    @basselsakr9858 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    it's been 6 years and i can't take her out of my mind, and i don't feel to, she is the love of my life. thank you for making me feel better

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are so very welcome. I'm happy to hear my video helped you feel better. May your most beautiful dreams come true!

  • @Mari-lv1rd
    @Mari-lv1rd 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He has hijacked my mind for weeks, I woke up from a nightmare(we were arguing angrily and by the way we never did this, we discussed things calmly) and burst into tears. I Googled him and saw his Dad's obituary.

  • @Lu-ml3qf
    @Lu-ml3qf ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This keeps happening to me with my ex. I know I'm not alwats thinking of him, sometimes. But he keeps popping up in my thoughts, it's quiet frustrating. Because I'm thinking am I obsessed with him. It's so comforting to listen, to you. You absolutely hit it on the nail on the head. I was even married, and I don't think about my ex husband at all.

    • @comparecards5688
      @comparecards5688 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Do you know what love is ?

    • @jefe2098
      @jefe2098 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My other friends don't come looking for me if she don't see me in. A week

  • @rudycervantes4985
    @rudycervantes4985 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Seek the wisdom yes 🙌

  • @eparedes7165
    @eparedes7165 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Aliki unconditional Love feeling peaceful &7 aware yes Thank You Gratitude JOY

    • @eparedes7165
      @eparedes7165 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      your teaching us amazing spiritual thoughts I am Thanking You yes Blessings!!!111

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you so so much for being here. Much love to you. ❤️✨

  • @Beautifulach
    @Beautifulach 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have been thinking of him alot, I feel his manifesting me..and we haven't seen each other in 4 years n I don't how all this is happening..

  • @helenwasi928
    @helenwasi928 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We have not communicating or being together but I am still thinking about me constantly. Why is this.

  • @shreyadas6071
    @shreyadas6071 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much❤️

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are so very welcome. Wishing you happiness and love! ✨❤️

  • @emotionpictures19
    @emotionpictures19 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is for me

  • @faridaaali6170
    @faridaaali6170 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am going yhis through rite now never met him physically online distance relationship. I hate it i cant focus on other thing sometimes its 247

  • @Ificationer
    @Ificationer ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love the way you present this problem that I have but I feel like the solutions are too ambiguous for me to understand. Are you saying that I have to go deep withing myself to extract meaning from the question "Why am I stuck thinking of this person"?
    If so, how do I do that? Is it something only I can know if I meditate or journal or dedicate my time to ponder on deeply?

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I see your point. I have a playlist called 'Thinking About Someone' th-cam.com/play/PLcXcbvnmvYlZUMpmeqNAnvIaTqqZ9D2cP.html I am going to create a video to explain step by step how you can get a clear answer to this question.

    • @Ificationer
      @Ificationer ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@AlikiHoidas Wow, thank you for responding, I'm looking forward to it :)

    • @aleadiann
      @aleadiann ปีที่แล้ว

      This would be amazing. I was considering sitting down and writing on paper a hundred times some statement like "i do not ruminate over him" or "i let go of thinking about so n so" or something bc it's really affecting me every day. I do not usually take much more than a month or so to get over an attachment.. He still expresses interest on occasion but i feel desperate energy just engulfing me and it's pathetic. Also, i fully understand the benefit of letting go. Of focusing on my own thing, but this feels like i am under a spell! It's been over a year. Day in, day out. It doesn't help that the person has a TH-cam channel that i love and have learned so much from on a deep level, and one day we met... It was such "kismet" to me. When you say that the connection is trying to tell me something - i feel like that has everything to do with it. I am inspired by him to do something similar to what he does and i think since i appreciate him for his essence... I am meant to follow my own desire to speak confidently on the topics i want to share (like he does). I feel like when i try to do anything other than check out his channel.. Or think of him... Or move the hell on... I can't stop this CONSTANT thinking of him. It's ridiculous. I don't know what to do at this point. I feel like i am about to try hypnosis bc i cannot seem to get control over how he dominates my thoughts.
      I am so sorry for the rant. What i set out to say was "thank you" and i would love and appreciate a video with specifics. Lol. ❤

  • @aishaa4519
    @aishaa4519 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    💜

  • @mabe_productions
    @mabe_productions ปีที่แล้ว

    How did I get here? 😆

  • @user-ex3ek5ty2f
    @user-ex3ek5ty2f 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    you are telling mw hes not thinking of me? pls answer this. he nvwe leaves my mind and its so unhealthy.

  • @Filmesemocionantes
    @Filmesemocionantes ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤🇧🇷🙏

  • @Whitemoon379
    @Whitemoon379 ปีที่แล้ว

    333

  • @FrenshPerfume
    @FrenshPerfume 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @BellaFront9
    @BellaFront9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm going through this right now!! Wow 🙏🌈🤍