10 Ways to Stop Negative and Irrational Thinking

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  • @betakitten777
    @betakitten777 7 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    I went in the deepest depression two years ago.. it was pure nightmare, I couldn't even think at something else that my situation for more than 2 secs... I'm fine now... It's a path, you will be stronger, life is beautiful, life is how you look at it, there is hope, there is love. Sending love to everyone there that is feeling bad

  • @saram4934
    @saram4934 7 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Your mind can be your worst nightmare ! But also your best friend if you learn to fight it. Thanks for this !! It couldn't be more true .

  • @Candyce1105
    @Candyce1105 7 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    The part about trying to predict the future and the fear of the unknown is so me!! Anxiety sucks but it's not who I am!! Great video Scott!!

  • @rosezh7323
    @rosezh7323 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I love your optimism. I am 56 yours old and you are teaching this old dog, well not really... a dog. haha alot of good tricks. Finally learning to like myself for the first time ever and I thank you.

  • @shmell
    @shmell 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’ve gotta tell you, the second you said “having an anxiety disorder is NOT YOUR FAULT” and hearing you repeat that line for emphasis, made me burst into tears. I’ve been struggling with some sort of anxiety disorder for about 14 years now, and the last few days have been reallllly rough, on not only myself but my relationship. And I’m finally feeling in a place of momentum and drive to understand myself and seek help because I want to better myself and I also don’t want to lose the things that I have due to this disorder. And even though my partner and my parents have said it a whole bunch, and I do believe them and it has helped, for some reason hearing you say just invoked such an emotional response almost like an epiphany. I’ve been really enjoying your videos and they are really helping me to centre myself and notice my overthinking and insecurity and jealousy and creating scenarios in my head that don’t exist and obsessing over them so that they feel real. I can relate to you so much more than I can do some old lady in a doctors office so thank you so much for all of these videos, I am seeking cbt but these videos are such good exercises for my mental health in addition to the professional help I’m seeking. So thank you

  • @gstylez0107
    @gstylez0107 7 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    "if I kill that person, I won't be able to eat McDonald's anymore" -Emotional reasoning! Lol

  • @depressiontoexpression
    @depressiontoexpression  7 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Catching these Errors in Thinking has made a huge difference in how I think and my overall perspective. Hope this video was helpful :)

    • @Jomanah999
      @Jomanah999 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Depression to Expression So helpful! Thank you bro! I have watched this video just right before my sleeping time and it really helped me feel comfortable and much much better! Thank you!!
      (-Sorry for my bad English.)

    • @RusataRusalka
      @RusataRusalka 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      xD dammmmmn dat intro, I love you Scott, you help us so much and teach us with humor, I'm very thankful for having you in this world, for real great job : )

    • @meg4938
      @meg4938 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes, thank you. You are an amazing person!!

    • @depressiontoexpression
      @depressiontoexpression  7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank You for watching and the kind words

    • @mmvh966
      @mmvh966 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Depression to Expression very enlightening video. You had me laughing in part of it...which brightened my day. Thank you.

  • @pggbtwo8455
    @pggbtwo8455 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This was incredibly helpful. Great information, and also just nice to know I'm not alone. Sometimes it seems like everyone else is so well adjusted...I feel like I'm the only one who struggles with a vicious inner critic.

    • @juliab.75
      @juliab.75 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      PG GBtwo you're definitely not alone!

  • @hiyall2952
    @hiyall2952 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm starting a channel on bipolar disorder and have been struggling with the depression and anxiety really bad...watching u helps so much...im so glad u r here! Thank you! Hope u see this.

  • @omarghdzcol
    @omarghdzcol 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Scott... Just thank you. I am grateful.

  • @KaylaJohnsonsararosegedanitz
    @KaylaJohnsonsararosegedanitz 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    One man used to tell me. Be careful with words even said to urself. *words are spells* u can cast self spells against urself with that. Be wise. Thank u for this.

  • @paolarodriguez5584
    @paolarodriguez5584 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for sharing such helpful toughts! You are a great human being!

  • @Tianelson1967
    @Tianelson1967 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    By saying I am means that I am owning this. Whatever the issue may be. Whether it’s anxiety, depression , anger or whatever. I no longer use that statement because it does not apply to me. Thank you for this wonderful reminder!

  • @farhanahkhan03
    @farhanahkhan03 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Dude, these videos are exactly what i need! Thank you so much.

  • @Suraj_Mehra0211
    @Suraj_Mehra0211 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you so much for this video. This was very helpful. Thanks for supporting us and making us realising our worth. Thanks a lot.

  • @siobhanwood9140
    @siobhanwood9140 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You're amazing! Thankyou so much for this channel

  • @catgames6215
    @catgames6215 7 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I don't really have any friends to help me through this. This community seems helpful

    • @thynguyen911
      @thynguyen911 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Sending love and positive vibes to you, Cat Games X

    • @petrinab5281
      @petrinab5281 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That's ok. You are strong enough n you will get through it. Sending best wishes, hope, peace n love.

    • @depressiontoexpression
      @depressiontoexpression  6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Always here for you!

    • @reviewer5286
      @reviewer5286 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I feel for you! I neeeever thought about youtube or the internet as a community until recently. (Late to the game.) But it truly is. My heart goes out to you!

    • @catgames6215
      @catgames6215 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Depression to Expression I appreciate you so much.

  • @christina413
    @christina413 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    10:00 “Next time i will” statement is so powerful

  • @carlscayan9931
    @carlscayan9931 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I am so thankful I stumbled upon your channel today. Thank you so much for these videos. I am feeling better about myself already and I look forward to exploring more of your videos.

  • @deepanshubaisoya8232
    @deepanshubaisoya8232 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Scott thanks bro for showing up and making videos for helping us, owe you this one big time

  • @poe3man394
    @poe3man394 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Very well said and also with such a positive vibes. Blessings!

  • @schokistange
    @schokistange 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Your skin is so bright, its like looking at the sun ^^
    Besides from that i wanna thank you again for your videos. You're a cool and helpful person.

  • @Sarah-o3v
    @Sarah-o3v 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Your video was extremely helpful. Must rewatch and take notes now. Thank you

  • @sue6776
    @sue6776 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so grateful to you Scott. You are a great help. I love CBT and how it gives me a solid base to keep coming back to and practicing. Keep doing what you're doing you are giving a lot of people including myself a lifeline.

  • @jamesbjerno2891
    @jamesbjerno2891 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You're amazing man, keep it up

  • @marklewis2780
    @marklewis2780 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video is EXACTLY what I needed just now! Thanks Scott!

  • @szabolaszlo
    @szabolaszlo 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Seriously Man!!! As an experienced, You are giving so much better advices and help, that modern psychiatrists can offer to Me! Love You!

  • @kallieshields9866
    @kallieshields9866 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank Scott for the videos!

  • @havenoname9699
    @havenoname9699 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Great advice and expertise as allways. And by the way, this is my first youtube comment ever. I guess I am getting out of my comfort zone...Thanks Scott!

  • @sofiablm
    @sofiablm 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Right now my anxiety comes because l haven't the vocabulary for explain all that you and your meaningfull help gave me lasts weeks when l've been sick in my bed... Thanks a lot Scott

  • @ninagonzalez1837
    @ninagonzalez1837 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just wanted to take the time to say Thankyou so much for all these videos they have helped me so much from the bottom of my heart Thankyou so much.

  • @JaceMeunier
    @JaceMeunier 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Everyone should watch this video regardless of what they are or are not dealing with. I have been trying to take these points into consideration quite a bit lately and it makes a huge difference in how my life plays out, whether or not it alleviates the "feelings". Really awesome video.

  • @justinhoskins5740
    @justinhoskins5740 ปีที่แล้ว

    So thankful for your videos Scott. Been watching for years. I always come back to them when I’m going through another episode and they help

    • @eddiew2325
      @eddiew2325 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi I love u Justin

  • @amyd2424
    @amyd2424 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you! I love your videos they give me so much hope knowing I can retrain my brain!

  • @DraKarmen
    @DraKarmen 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love your videos! 😀 Let's start doing this! Saludos desde México 🇲🇽

  • @verabushey7089
    @verabushey7089 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love listening to you. Keep doing what your doing.

  • @yunnie04
    @yunnie04 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video helped me a lot. I will probably rewatch it several times.

  • @TheRoarWithin
    @TheRoarWithin 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You’ve come such a long way in your TH-cam and mental health journey. You should be very proud.

  • @alongalphamale2303
    @alongalphamale2303 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome!! 💪🏻Stay strong!live the moment.

  • @margaretbaucum944
    @margaretbaucum944 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this. You are a rockstar you have to say what is key to my destination

  • @eunicegomez2020
    @eunicegomez2020 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hello,
    I could not find the PDF in the description box. Can you help me find it?

  • @umeshbansall
    @umeshbansall 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    superb video ever

  • @ginablanton890
    @ginablanton890 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I do all of these. Thanks for the positive advice 🌞

  • @mammathorne2098
    @mammathorne2098 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are awesome. I needed to hear that and I will download that. Thank you again

  • @alinamachita4150
    @alinamachita4150 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You rock ,thank you!

  • @tomekpaluch9167
    @tomekpaluch9167 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you.

  • @snowgates8476
    @snowgates8476 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My best strategy that is working for me is fighting that irrational thoughts with counter rational arguments.
    The more irrational the thought the easier it is to forget about it since it’s easier to debunk.
    Anything else won’t work,trying to forget it will only make it stronger and larger as a thought.
    However I do feel very bad for those with the actual issue,those that deal with rational thoughts such as the death of a loved one,loss of a job,break up of a relationship,failing an exam or semester etc.

  • @ADBOND100
    @ADBOND100 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm still living my life because of a guy like you still exist in the world.

  • @adriellenaparecidaalbino8643
    @adriellenaparecidaalbino8643 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Hi, Scott, I would love a video about fear of public speaking.

  • @linn9909
    @linn9909 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks Scott. Where can I find the PDF? I can't find it in the description box. Thanks :)

  • @nasirmehood3110
    @nasirmehood3110 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you and your way of teaching boss😎

  • @tattyteady733
    @tattyteady733 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is a bit random I know, but I just wanted to drop a comment to say thank you, Scott. I've watched your videos for a long time now. When I first started struggling I found you channel, I watched all your videos and immediately felt a little less alone. And granted, I'm still where I was before. But I'm still fighting. I should be getting antidepressants soon, and hopefully everything may start to move forward:)

  • @Cesc8170
    @Cesc8170 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks Scott. It does help. :) I know everything that you have said, but still, it's stronger than me sometimes. It's good to think about this from time to time.

  • @mercedesmatthews75
    @mercedesmatthews75 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    this video is extremely helpful

  • @mariaannenkova7954
    @mariaannenkova7954 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Helpful. Thank you

  • @reviewer5286
    @reviewer5286 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you sense of humor!

  • @JBOneOne11
    @JBOneOne11 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are awesome thank you for this

  • @margaretbaucum944
    @margaretbaucum944 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I AM IS WORKING FOR ME.

  • @suksysavage713
    @suksysavage713 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Extremely helpful, thank you for your work and 💜👊

  • @muhammadawaisansari519
    @muhammadawaisansari519 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you brother.

  • @samantharichards1
    @samantharichards1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for your videos :) helps so much

  • @petroniaskho
    @petroniaskho 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is great. I'm going to hang this by my mirror. Thanks!

  • @freescot8035
    @freescot8035 ปีที่แล้ว

    WORDS matter. For example, many years ago a 'friend' said to me that I was wallowing in my grief.
    My husband had left. It was a huge shock.
    I wish I had been able to stand up for myself but I was already crushed.
    Now I would say I am experiencing grief. And experiencing grief is natural. Not wallowing.

  • @soyyo8565
    @soyyo8565 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for the great ideas, ur always awesome 😎

  • @demontamerbf18
    @demontamerbf18 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    LOL, these are exactly what my therapist has taught me, she's so good, I'm quite better at managing anxiety and depression now

  • @Cat-bz7tm
    @Cat-bz7tm 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s not my fault, are powerful words to say to oneself . Going to use that technique

  • @totoro7412
    @totoro7412 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    such a good tips.Thanks)

  • @x_x_pops_x_x
    @x_x_pops_x_x 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm 13 minutes in and this is all me. I'm suffering eight months now from depression. I'm so exhausted man. I have a wife and three kids. I need to get out of this state of mind.

  • @karengrace6804
    @karengrace6804 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love the song hahaha..luv the video! Thanku!!

  • @normafavila702
    @normafavila702 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank YOU!

  • @GeorgeIllustrations
    @GeorgeIllustrations 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This i part of the CBT sessions...take those sessions, will help...for me, isn`t working for now, but it kinda helps when different sensations take me directly...with time, will be better

  • @josec9066
    @josec9066 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome video!

  • @natalieb3193
    @natalieb3193 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Some of the things you talked about I've learned in DBT. What you said about not using emotion reasoning and only using logic don't support DBT. In that theory practice, I learned "mindfulness". This taught me that we are supposed to use both emotion and logic mind together. Want to know your feedback about this learning style. Thank you for putting out videos that help many people :)

  • @NaturesFairy
    @NaturesFairy 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you. Your videos are great.

  • @ginablanton890
    @ginablanton890 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Scott...I sent you a email and I am anxiously awaiting what your answer will be. I hope It's yes. Thanks for taking your time to help everyone deal with mental illness a little easier.

  • @anilchugh986
    @anilchugh986 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sir it was amazing.the points u discussed were quite good.But pdf is not available kindly provide it..
    Waiting for ur reply asap.

  • @fabsinsanitysderanged8625
    @fabsinsanitysderanged8625 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was so awesome and interesting and I think it will be very helpful for me in the future so thank u .

  • @open_mindeddog_training
    @open_mindeddog_training 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I found this very helpful! :-)

  • @hanschenk2708
    @hanschenk2708 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    VERY GOOD INFORMATION SOO WELL EXPLAINED

  • @Jessica-md4hb
    @Jessica-md4hb 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    YOUR SO FUNNY and Helpful.

  • @laurahigson8192
    @laurahigson8192 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That point about no one having chosen depression hit quite hard. Logically, I know that, but there's always that voice in my head (I guess one of those unhelpful thoughts) going: Yeh, well maybe you deserve this... Thanks for your videos :) You have a very funny, relatable way of talking about this stuff. You seem to know your shit haha

  • @ahintofawesome
    @ahintofawesome 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video helped a ton thank you!

  • @jbgodsgirl5381
    @jbgodsgirl5381 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Smart and handsome too. My trouble is worrying thoughts. Now that I recognize them I seem to repeat them even more. Frustrating

  • @catgames6215
    @catgames6215 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've always thought like this. It's been a rough time for me. Any support is appreciated Thank you.

  • @darylowens9613
    @darylowens9613 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    You been a great help thanks

  • @ramymodalala
    @ramymodalala 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your channel

  • @phoenix1428
    @phoenix1428 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Scott, my name is Fernando, i'm a psychologist. I would like to thank u for your videos. Its inspired me, their really great. Are you a psychologist?

  • @dormeemusic
    @dormeemusic 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Where's the PDF? A link to it is not in the description. I'd like to have a copy if possible.

  • @huykhanh2455
    @huykhanh2455 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wait u did include the pdf right? Cus i couldnt find it :(

  • @Wichardf
    @Wichardf 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    What works for me is wine and xanax.

  • @Mona-xw8nm
    @Mona-xw8nm 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    6:43 is actually me that's always happens to me since i was 18 years and it still happens with me n this time I'm really suffering I couldn't help myself ! :*( 😩

  • @Y.Bergamot
    @Y.Bergamot 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What's the name of the pdf? i can't see it

  • @ancsa0727
    @ancsa0727 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Can I please somehow download just the intro music ? :'D I love it! And yepp. this was useful, thanks! (Y) :)

  • @cristinepunla419
    @cristinepunla419 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    where is the pdf scott? i want to download it..tnx

  • @mandymandy80
    @mandymandy80 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello Scott, may I ask can you sleep naturally without any pills? or you've already had sedative medication for a good night's sleep?
    I suffer sooooo much from insomnia which i think is the hardest to tackle...😔

  • @jenniferparker-bell1549
    @jenniferparker-bell1549 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    all the time.

  • @JaneDoe-uq2ud
    @JaneDoe-uq2ud 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    if you keep making those fart noises I'll keep laughing and therefore have no time to be depressed or anxious. Thanks for that!

  • @InfluenceFilms
    @InfluenceFilms 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a great video Where is the PDF you mentioned at the start?

  • @melissahill5083
    @melissahill5083 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Just discovered you afew days ago. Just wanted to say hi and keep doing what you are doing. X

    • @depressiontoexpression
      @depressiontoexpression  7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Hi Melissa,
      Thanks so much for joining and the kind words :) I will.

  • @saatvik1585
    @saatvik1585 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    The sex Ed test 😂😂😂😂