summary of the video: 1. You engage in self awareness 2. You practice forgiveness towards yourself and others 3. You listen well 4. You display a commitment to friendship 5. You are honest I recommend watching to learn more!
Engaging in self awareness... does feeling guilty about saying something in a way that was misunderstood but you already apologized and they understood but you still feel terrible about it count? I think it’s Self awareness but it’s not forgiving myself!
Sarah Stevens I think that would count as self awareness. you feel guilty about what you said, even though the other person understands. as long as you’ve recognized what you need to focus on more in your friendship and how you can improve it, then yes i think that’s self awareness.
Always prioritize to be a good friend but sometimes we can have our own slip ups and be toxic. The most important thing is to be self aware so you can change
@@thatonedoge6394 Everyone has mistakes, but that doesn't mean that you're a bad person, if your trying too be your best good version for you and everyone that's what matters and it's enough :D God bless you
Darklycan 458 no, I mean care for yourself, but it’s never bad to give a damn. I do that for all my friends and few return the favor, all I can do is hope that changes.
ALL 5 TRAITS AND SUMMARY OF EACH 1)you engage in self-awareness you reflect on if you are being a good friend 2)you practice forgiveness you forgive and see from your friends POV 3)you listen well (self-explanatory) 4)you display a commitment to friendship you put your time and effort into the friendship. and you are there for them 5)honesty (self-explanatory)
Aww... your a good person even when nobody stands with YOU. You still stand with OTHERS. But you need to talk to your friends how you feel otherwise they won’t know
Friendship like any other relationship is a form of transaction. Not of money, but of things like entertaiment, emotional support, status in a group, attention etc. Some parts of these are more valuable to ones and other to others. If you are giving something for free that may indicate three things: 1. You take joy in giving other people stuff and that is enough for you.-->Noone bothers to give you anything in return unless that makes them feel better about themselfs. 2. You are in a sense "rich" and dont really bother giving people stuff you have enough of already.-->Noone bothers to give you anything unless they think they may get something else such as status in a group. 3. You have bad products and are desperate to sell anything by lowering prices. (Nobody knows your products batter than you after all, so if you think they are worth nothing it is safe to assume they are.)-->Noone who cares about their status or longer term relationships wants to trade with you unless they feel pity for you and helping you would give them enough joy. . Concepts such as unconditional love basiacally mean a situation in which a person takes enough joy in making another person happier that they dont need anything else in return, but following such an idea;istic concepts leads to toxicity in a long term. You wouldnt want to be in a relationship where the other person doesnt even pay attention to you nor supports you emotionally, isnt funny or whatever else you could actually like in a person. The concept most likely exists as a simplified version of "a person doesn't care about money, status or inconsistancy in your behaviour", but that sentence is just my guess. . Edit: The 3 examples apply only to situations in which you are not in a long term friendship already./you dont exchange stuff with that person. If you are already in a friendship it may just be that somone doesnt know or doesnt want to trade a product you are interested in and only gives you something like entertainment while you need emotional support. In those situations you need to tell them you would like to trade this kind of product or find another friend with whom you trade that. You do not need to trade the same things with everyone you know. One person may want entertainment for entertainment, the other emotional support for giving them attention and that is ok. Everybody is diffrent and should be treated accordingly.
Ngl, I started tearing up when watching this video. I had a close friend of 8 years that we end up going through a nasty breakup (in terms of friendship) because she decided to talk shit behind my back. I remember I did my best to be there. Listen to the same things over and over while trying to give my insight. It wasn’t enough so she had to talk shit about me when I talked to her about my feelings (while feeling vulnerable). Going through it, helped me realize how important it is to be grateful and to be a better person to others who are worth it. I want to always be a great person to my friends and family. Yeah this is making me tear up because I never was this opened till now and this video gave me hope that I can keep moving forward. Thanks.
2/2-3: i know how it feels to be i. That exact situation except with my mom not a friend. I’m pretty sure you realized that “friend” was fake and a waste!
Remember that no one is perfect. You can't always be a good friend, and that's okay, because recognising that you may be hurting others and trying to better yourself is proof you're trying, you got this. I believe in you
5 signs you are a good friend: 1. You practise self awareness 2. You forgive yourself and others 3. You are a good listener 4. You are committed to your friendship 5. You are honest
@@thetalkativefos716 no need to feel bad about it, you are not the only there are other ppl as well. But I am sure one day you will be :) everything takes time and you just have to be patient.
@@vaishnavi4093 it got so bad a while ago when I was working on somthing with some friends and when the due date hit us and we had to show what we worked on and I started crying because I missed one thing which me and someone else in the group were to do together and I felt like I let everyone down. Then one of my best friends saw and she started crying and then I felt even worse and even now I still feel bad for causing her to cry
1. you engage is self-awareness (0:32) 🧠 2. you practice forgiveness (1:05) 💗 3. you listen well (2:15) 👂 4. you display a commitment to friendship (2:55) 👯♂️👯♀️ 5. you are honest (3:35) 🙂👍
Just needed to point this out. Being a good friend doesn't always mean saying "YES" to everything. Trust me, I've done that. I always thought that I'd be a bad friend if I didn't help them out. And it's partially true. You gotta help your friends. But, you gotta know when to say no. If you keep on saying yes, they will take advantage of you. This doesn't necessarily mean they are a bad friend and it's not usually because they want to take advantage of you, but it's because you gave them a chance to take advantage of yourself. So say "yes" to your friends but always know when to say "no". TL;DR : Don't always be a people pleaser
I was once friends with a person with BPD. We had a really beautiful friendship until the day she lashed out on me and I had a terrible reaction. I panicked and felt overwhelmed by her attack. I told her I didn't want to speak to her again. I finally calmed down and we talked though it, but after that conversation, she vanished. I think we were both to blame, but I know it was for the better. The breakup made me value and cherish my other friendships more than ever. I am still angry with her and sad that she dumped me, but I forgive us both.
1. You self-reflect often 2. You are willing to forgive 3. You are a good listener 4. You give your friendships priority 5. You are honest Still, watch the video if you think you want to hear more about these points.
I usually act innocent but recently i’ve been showing my less innocent side more and more to my friends, it’s kind of like i’m feeling more comfortable sharing that side
I needed this video right now. I follow this channel and find each one ive seen has brought new ideas to my mind, and has helped aid my journey. This one popped up when i needed it most. Thanks guys for your efforts to change the world through awareness.
I watched this and was just like "that's exactly how me and my bestie act towards eachother" and that just made my confidence shoot up bc my mom and brother say my bestie is fake but I know she's not
You know what to work on. Ask yourself why do you have this kind of relationship with yourself and take your time to deal with each aspect you list. Next time your thoughts navigate towards any aspect you already listed you are going to use arguments that already worked agaisnt it. If they dont work it means you need to reflect on that aspect from a diffrent angle. If you find new thought patterns that put you in this state repeat the process on them. I am sure you can do this and feel better about yourself again. The process may not be fast but it is effective. Good luck! :)
@@maciejkleszczynski9808 This helps me, believe it or not and I still have depression, but it's way easier to manage and life is a little more bearable than before.
Y'know, the parts where there was someone with tears streaming down there face reminded me a lot of my relationship with a close friend of mine who would say how much of a good friend I was to him 😊
im all of these but yet it’s so hard for me to make friends. im so messed up that eventually everyone leaves 🥺 i just wish someone would understand me.
tchalamet seems like your overly introverted and worry too much. What I would do is open up more maybe try joining groups that fit you and also which videos on opening up more I’m not a psychologist but it might help *Edit Spelling
Maybe YOU are the problem.. sorry but it might be the truth. Lots of people are blind to their own mistakes. Lots of people tend to think of themselves as the “perfect” person and that they are “such a great friend” or that they are “so truthful” and “real.” People tend to think of themselves as something wonderful and always put the blame on everyone else around them. A lot of people tend to pity themselves.
I really appreciate this channel it teaches us a lot and also spreads self awareness... In friendship being a good friend Is a biggest achievement and sometimes these thoughts used to come on my mind but now I am damn sure I am being a good friend but when it comes to honesty I do lie sometimes! 💗
I don’t forgive myself often because I feel like my friend are more important to me! I have a BFF that always listens to me when I’m having a breakdown and helps me through till i find some light! I know friends like that don’t come often and I’m grateful! I try to be a great friend to my friends and try to make new ones! I’m self aware of my actions, I’m honest with them, I forgive, I listen to them when needed, and most importantly my friends.. I make them a priority!
I ended a friendship a few months ago and though I think generally it was the best choice for both of us (being unhappy in the friendship wasn't making me a very good friend, and I'd brought my own hang ups and issues to the friendship) it still hurts. This video reminds me of what is important - thank you.
Err, not to be contrarian but im looking to see if im a good friend or not. See, I have a friend who rode with me to another state and he could have ditched me because his vehicle was faster. But, he didn't. I think he was a good friend.
I was actually here because I thought I was not a good friend and wanted to see if I was wrong. I had 4 of the 5. The 4th one is what I lacked on. Not because I don’t prioritize my friends but more because I just don’t like “hanging out”. I’d rather just text or at least have a short plan on what to do. Not spend 4 hours not even knowing what you’re going to be doing. In a nutshell I’m a big introvert
Honesty. Thank you so much for validating that honesty is a core component for a healthy friendship. I've noticed some "friends" had a habit of lying when they really didn't have to lie. Those lies weren't harmful so I kinda ignored them until a series of incidents happened that they caused and they try to get away with it. I've always practiced honesty and tried to be very tactful when confronting them, but they either became downright rude, fake apologise or force me to apologise to them when I caught them red-handed. And it's always me or someone else's fault, they were never to blame even when it's clearly their fault. And it's really unhelpful to have low self esteem due to relationship issues, so I consulted a few trusted people outside of this "friends" circle. All confirmed that I had tried my best, very willing to improve myself if I really did anything wrong. Heck I even apologised to one of them for giving me trouble! Cause I understood my part in contributing towards the incident, but this doesn't erase the fact that they're the one who caused it. Three attributes that these "friends" didn't have bcos they refuse to genuinely reflect on themselves, admit their wrongdoings, let alone improve themselves. And they shift the blame all the time!!!! So many excuses and nonsensical logic!!!! So I door slammed those "friends" damn hard, and again my low self esteem and self criticizing tendencies kicked in for letting those people in, and for having have to kick them out. I hate myself. Damn those poisonous creatures. People who love playing the victim can go f*** themselves. Thank you again for making me realize that habitual liars, dishonesty and blame-shifting should not exist in a healthy relationship.
Great video! I have a few friends I'm blessed to have in my life. I've always supported them and they've done the same foe me. I do care about them and I think what makes me a good friend is that I listen, understand, and really see their perspectives in life. I love communicating with them. Sometimes I check up on them and they do the same for me. I think having a good friendship is nice to have. You can grow, interact, and appreciate the ones you love. Nothing is perfect but good friendships are a blessing! My advice the friends that DO care and vice versa are worthy for a lifetime.
I just wanna emphasize how important the first one is. Self-awareness is a game changer. I learned that if someone struggles with making friends, sometimes the ugly truth is we, ourselves, aren’t good friends to begin with. Self-awareness can help change that. Helps you grow.
I always seem to attract toxic friends that take advantage of my kindness. I think it's important to be self aware of what you want out of a friend and understand boundaries so you're being a loyal friend but not being used for their benefit.
I just got back in contact with a friend of mine after 3 years. Within that span I had gone through some rough stuff and had become a more humble person by practicing self awareness to get through it. I noticed it effected me some, but my friend told me that (and he had no idea what I had gone through) although we had been good buddies, he now felt like I was becoming his best friend. It was surprising, but felt really rewarding to hear that I was making a difference not only for myself, but for others as well! Give it a shot!
I've been feeling like I've been a really bad friend recently, and would like to change that. I'll have to remember these and keep them present in my mind anytime I interact with them. Thanks for the help!
Me watch this while laying in my bed My brain:why u watch this u not a good friend n u don't like socialize Me:i donno just want to watch psych2go vid😂😂😂
I try to be a good friend,, and I think I am. but sometimes I can be harsh towards my friends (I dont actually say anything) but they often are upset and need my help, which is okay because life happens! but sometimes I get fed up with it and I get mad that they need my help again... I always feel bad for getting mad at them because Its not their fault at all they have problems.
I'm glad that I'm a good friend according to these signs, even though I'm not being treated the same way by the ones whom I consider my friends, I still felt happy that I'm not a terrible or annoying person around them. Also the animation style is so adorable and wholesome, I'd absolutely love to see more of it in the future!
I fit these all. It's just the commitment part. My friends know I'm a ride or die and will literally go out of my way to save them from a crisis but I just havent been showing up lately. I let them know that I need space and that I just need to be alone for the most part and I'm sure they understand. I wish I could just show up more tho bc I know they miss me and I miss them so so so much but I just need to be alone right now. I've been alone for months now and it's not that I am scared to be social, but I'm just still working on myself and I dont wanna accidentally hurt anyone while I'm still hurting somewhere deep inside. I'm just done putting on masks and I told them the truth about how I need to get my shit together before making plans to sit down and hang out with a friend for an hour or two or more. There's only like 3 people I really have the energy for and even with them they know I need my space if I'm not constantly talking to them.
Being a good friend requires someone to enjoy silence, have gratitude for themselves and their friend. I think what makes an excellent friend is to be honest, making an effort to reconcile and see them at their best, and also to be independent too. Being indepedent and loving your own company is a fantastic way to be a great friend. & a really excellent friend will never make you prove how great you are as a friend. I am enough as a friend, and jsut being myself is enough.
So basically, 1. You engaged in self-awareness 2. You practice forgiveness (to yourself and others) 3. You listen well 4. You display a commitment to friendship 5. You are honest makes you a good friend. And then after all this you get betrayed and being boss around by your friends. And then try to forgive them everytime and at some point you give up, and decided to end the friendship. Then she or he called u a bad friend. _.
I'm thankful that I have a real best friend in my life. True friends need not be prompt in replying to you but when they do they always make you feel so loved. Talking with them is the best feeling in the world. One important thing to remember is we all have our own lives. And they can have their exams and deadlines. So please don't be mad at them promptly. Also don't forget to pour your love on them.
I think a good friend is someone who is always there for you and when they are not they want argue or make a big fuss about it ... They will just talk through it
Julya Flyer I highly doubt they would be laughing hard... however if they are, get them out your life. Don’t keep associating yourself with them if you call them fake, because then it makes you fake too.
A good friend is a hard bed, able to relied on to help you through the darkest nights, but still able to not let you sleep through the morning. They are your railing in the storms on which to clutch, but they do not allow themselves to become your crutch. They are your whetstone, only opposing you that you may become sharper, more useful, and more dependable. They see the light and warmth of your flame and they feed you to be a light to be appreciated by more. They seek to put you on the height, but only when you shine so bright as to illumine all the world. And they give you the gift of performing all of the above for them. For sometimes, I find, that serving others is what we really need, no matter how minute or small the task may be.
the fact that im all this and my "best" friend just threw me away because i was helping her way too "much". I never had a best friend i can really talk with, wish i had one
Keeping my friends around always has been and probably always will be my biggest priority. I just wish that I could spend more time with them. Regardless, I think that this was a good video. Keep up the good work!
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They should teach this stuff in school it would help so many people in life.
Totally agree ♥️
Ikr
Right
So true
School therapy day/week
When you're a good friends to other but they backstabbed you. I've been in that situation..
No cap
Very true
That is so true.
True :\
Oh, that hurts. I’ve been in the same situation..
summary of the video:
1. You engage in self awareness
2. You practice forgiveness towards yourself and others
3. You listen well
4. You display a commitment to friendship
5. You are honest
I recommend watching to learn more!
Dont do that like ever
@@pocketpixie9706 why not?
I literally have a book where I write down how many times I forgave people
Engaging in self awareness... does feeling guilty about saying something in a way that was misunderstood but you already apologized and they understood but you still feel terrible about it count? I think it’s Self awareness but it’s not forgiving myself!
Sarah Stevens I think that would count as self awareness. you feel guilty about what you said, even though the other person understands. as long as you’ve recognized what you need to focus on more in your friendship and how you can improve it, then yes i think that’s self awareness.
When you’re so early that your vote actually changes the numbers
When you're so early that your vote instantly changes the number to 100%
Ooo I was the 200th like
I was the 5,300th like :D
Always prioritize to be a good friend but sometimes we can have our own slip ups and be toxic. The most important thing is to be self aware so you can change
This is so true! I agree :) How many signs did you relate to?
I actually agree and I can relate to all of these
this comment gonna help me a ton ngl
this is exactly what just happened to me and it's hard to not just get angry at myself, glad I haven't though
Agree! Everyone has their downfalls every now and then, but being and getting better is always an option.
Plot twist: To be a good friend is to have good friends
You are the sum of the people you hang around with.
welp...
@@sarah1160
good friends are important
well, im a hypocrite
True
Indeed💖
“You practice forgiveness towards yourself”
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Guess I’m not a good friend then
@ Lily C same here
Well try and learn to be
@@rebeccaeverett8957 If only it were so easy.
@@thatonedoge6394 Everyone has mistakes, but that doesn't mean that you're a bad person, if your trying too be your best good version for you and everyone that's what matters and it's enough :D God bless you
God loves all of you!!
I'm just here to boost my self-esteem.
Ha same
Hey, at least you are honest
What's that?
I think that's why we are all here
Awww, your all great people in your own ways 😇💛
"I'm a good friend!"
*Watches video*
= w = *sniff* *right?*
I’m about to send this to a couple friends to make sure...... 🙃🙃
My friend has none of em she suckssss 💀😂
Is it bad I care about my 1 friend more than myself
right? ._.
Darklycan 458 no, I mean care for yourself, but it’s never bad to give a damn. I do that for all my friends and few return the favor, all I can do is hope that changes.
ALL 5 TRAITS AND SUMMARY OF EACH
1)you engage in self-awareness
you reflect on if you are being a good friend
2)you practice forgiveness
you forgive and see from your friends POV
3)you listen well
(self-explanatory)
4)you display a commitment to friendship
you put your time and effort into the friendship. and you are there for them
5)honesty
(self-explanatory)
Thank you
I do all of those already
Yay I'm a good friend! I passed this test and got a 100/100 😂😀
@@yall955 same! ^^
This makes me realize that good friends are hard to find. I have only a few friends like this and I try to practice this as much as possible.
Thanks for sharing! How many signs do you relate to so far?
*I’m one of those friends who are there for everyone when they need me*
*But no ones there for me when I need them*
Don't worry I got cha
Sry if it sounded weird
Aww... your a good person even when nobody stands with YOU. You still stand with OTHERS. But you need to talk to your friends how you feel otherwise they won’t know
Friendship like any other relationship is a form of transaction. Not of money, but of things like entertaiment, emotional support, status in a group, attention etc. Some parts of these are more valuable to ones and other to others. If you are giving something for free that may indicate three things:
1. You take joy in giving other people stuff and that is enough for you.-->Noone bothers to give you anything in return unless that makes them feel better about themselfs.
2. You are in a sense "rich" and dont really bother giving people stuff you have enough of already.-->Noone bothers to give you anything unless they think they may get something else such as status in a group.
3. You have bad products and are desperate to sell anything by lowering prices. (Nobody knows your products batter than you after all, so if you think they are worth nothing it is safe to assume they are.)-->Noone who cares about their status or longer term relationships wants to trade with you unless they feel pity for you and helping you would give them enough joy.
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Concepts such as unconditional love basiacally mean a situation in which a person takes enough joy in making another person happier that they dont need anything else in return, but following such an idea;istic concepts leads to toxicity in a long term. You wouldnt want to be in a relationship where the other person doesnt even pay attention to you nor supports you emotionally, isnt funny or whatever else you could actually like in a person. The concept most likely exists as a simplified version of "a person doesn't care about money, status or inconsistancy in your behaviour", but that sentence is just my guess.
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Edit: The 3 examples apply only to situations in which you are not in a long term friendship already./you dont exchange stuff with that person. If you are already in a friendship it may just be that somone doesnt know or doesnt want to trade a product you are interested in and only gives you something like entertainment while you need emotional support. In those situations you need to tell them you would like to trade this kind of product or find another friend with whom you trade that. You do not need to trade the same things with everyone you know. One person may want entertainment for entertainment, the other emotional support for giving them attention and that is ok. Everybody is diffrent and should be treated accordingly.
Dino Buccolier #BLM the accuracy 😔
Me also. We are all same.☺️
Oh my god the art style is SOOOO CUUTTTEEE.
Thank you so much! Would you like to see more of this artstyle ?
@@Psych2go I would love to!
I love the art style too
@@Psych2go of course, I want this style and only this styleee
@@Psych2go Sure! It's really adorable!
Good friends are few and far between. Being a good friend is something commendable to say the least ♥️
Ngl, I started tearing up when watching this video. I had a close friend of 8 years that we end up going through a nasty breakup (in terms of friendship) because she decided to talk shit behind my back. I remember I did my best to be there. Listen to the same things over and over while trying to give my insight. It wasn’t enough so she had to talk shit about me when I talked to her about my feelings (while feeling vulnerable). Going through it, helped me realize how important it is to be grateful and to be a better person to others who are worth it. I want to always be a great person to my friends and family. Yeah this is making me tear up because I never was this opened till now and this video gave me hope that I can keep moving forward. Thanks.
1/2-3 maybe 2 It’s good that you learned some things about friendship while going through a friendship break up!
2/2-3: i know how it feels to be i. That exact situation except with my mom not a friend. I’m pretty sure you realized that “friend” was fake and a waste!
I can't wait until you find good friends who deserve you.
She talks so calmly and her voice is so soft
Glad you like Amanda's voice! Do you know she has a channel too?
Remember that no one is perfect. You can't always be a good friend, and that's okay, because recognising that you may be hurting others and trying to better yourself is proof you're trying, you got this. I believe in you
Most good friends think they’re the worst ones
5 signs you are a good friend:
1. You practise self awareness
2. You forgive yourself and others
3. You are a good listener
4. You are committed to your friendship
5. You are honest
I have self forgiveness issues and that is my biggest issue
@@thetalkativefos716 no need to feel bad about it, you are not the only there are other ppl as well. But I am sure one day you will be :) everything takes time and you just have to be patient.
Zen!!!
@@eduardocruz3277 👀👀👀
@@vaishnavi4093 it got so bad a while ago when I was working on somthing with some friends and when the due date hit us and we had to show what we worked on and I started crying because I missed one thing which me and someone else in the group were to do together and I felt like I let everyone down. Then one of my best friends saw and she started crying and then I felt even worse and even now I still feel bad for causing her to cry
You just called me a good friend in 5 ways
That's good to know :) Which sign did you relate to the most?
The animation from the start had me shock
1. you engage is self-awareness (0:32) 🧠
2. you practice forgiveness (1:05) 💗
3. you listen well (2:15) 👂
4. you display a commitment to friendship (2:55) 👯♂️👯♀️
5. you are honest (3:35) 🙂👍
Just needed to point this out. Being a good friend doesn't always mean saying "YES" to everything. Trust me, I've done that. I always thought that I'd be a bad friend if I didn't help them out. And it's partially true. You gotta help your friends. But, you gotta know when to say no. If you keep on saying yes, they will take advantage of you. This doesn't necessarily mean they are a bad friend and it's not usually because they want to take advantage of you, but it's because you gave them a chance to take advantage of yourself. So say "yes" to your friends but always know when to say "no".
TL;DR : Don't always be a people pleaser
I was once friends with a person with BPD. We had a really beautiful friendship until the day she lashed out on me and I had a terrible reaction. I panicked and felt overwhelmed by her attack. I told her I didn't want to speak to her again. I finally calmed down and we talked though it, but after that conversation, she vanished. I think we were both to blame, but I know it was for the better. The breakup made me value and cherish my other friendships more than ever. I am still angry with her and sad that she dumped me, but I forgive us both.
man that's so relatable
So heartfelt, the art style is outstandingly gorgeous and tells a well meaning story.
Glad you love this! :) Vanessa is a good talent!
I love this drawing style, and the narrator has such a cute voice, I love her. This video also fixed my bad mood today, thanks for the good content
Early. I'm from Philippines and I want to become a psychologist someday that's why I love your contents.♥️
Wow same! Good luck bro... Insta?
Marselle Joyce Gagarin Ohh..Good luck then..I'm a Pinoy(Pilipino from Philippines)
@@eduardocruz3277 My Instagram is Marselle Joyce Gagarin. How about you?
@@ChimeraLotietheBunny hi kababayannnn😊
Omg same
1. You self-reflect often
2. You are willing to forgive
3. You are a good listener
4. You give your friendships priority
5. You are honest
Still, watch the video if you think you want to hear more about these points.
I usually act innocent but recently i’ve been showing my less innocent side more and more to my friends, it’s kind of like i’m feeling more comfortable sharing that side
I needed this video right now. I follow this channel and find each one ive seen has brought new ideas to my mind, and has helped aid my journey. This one popped up when i needed it most. Thanks guys for your efforts to change the world through awareness.
❤️❤️ I am a deep thinker bout I have anxiety and this helps thank you!❤️❤️
I watched this and was just like "that's exactly how me and my bestie act towards eachother" and that just made my confidence shoot up bc my mom and brother say my bestie is fake but I know she's not
"You practice forgiveness towards yourself"
Me having depression and hating myself: oh
You know what to work on.
Ask yourself why do you have this kind of relationship with yourself and take your time to deal with each aspect you list. Next time your thoughts navigate towards any aspect you already listed you are going to use arguments that already worked agaisnt it. If they dont work it means you need to reflect on that aspect from a diffrent angle. If you find new thought patterns that put you in this state repeat the process on them. I am sure you can do this and feel better about yourself again. The process may not be fast but it is effective.
Good luck! :)
@@maciejkleszczynski9808 This helps me, believe it or not and I still have depression, but it's way easier to manage and life is a little more bearable than before.
@@Quetzalcoatl-Dragon_97 I am happy to hear that :)
OMG I LOVE THE ART STYLEEEEEEEEEE
Sometimes I feel like I’m too good of a friend towards the wrong people.
Oh yay another positive video from y’all!!!:)
♥️
let there b light their such light brights i love em
Thank you!! What other videos would you like to watch next?
@@Psych2go ur very welcome 😊 have a blessed day ❤
@@Psych2go n ide like to c a video on self asteem
Animation makes me "Aww!" It's so cute. 🥺
High five!
I like the animation style already :D
I might be a good friend, but it doesn’t mean others are good friends to me
Someone who is honest with us and love our true self is the real friend❤
I just love this, it makes you feel loved and appreciated..
It gives you that little reassurance.
Thank you Psyc2go 🥰💕
Aww. Thank you for the kind words! How's your day?
Y'know, the parts where there was someone with tears streaming down there face reminded me a lot of my relationship with a close friend of mine who would say how much of a good friend I was to him 😊
im all of these but yet it’s so hard for me to make friends. im so messed up that eventually everyone leaves 🥺 i just wish someone would understand me.
Don't worry u will get friends. I also went through this and now I have some good friends. If u want I can be your friend 😊
So, so same
tchalamet seems like your overly introverted and worry too much. What I would do is open up more maybe try joining groups that fit you and also which videos on opening up more I’m not a psychologist but it might help *Edit Spelling
Maybe YOU are the problem.. sorry but it might be the truth. Lots of people are blind to their own mistakes. Lots of people tend to think of themselves as the “perfect” person and that they are “such a great friend” or that they are “so truthful” and “real.” People tend to think of themselves as something wonderful and always put the blame on everyone else around them. A lot of people tend to pity themselves.
(Also, I’m not saying you do, I was just saying a thought.)
I really appreciate this channel it teaches us a lot and also spreads self awareness... In friendship being a good friend Is a biggest achievement and sometimes these thoughts used to come on my mind but now I am damn sure I am being a good friend but when it comes to honesty I do lie sometimes! 💗
"do you often wonder if you are being a good friend to others"
me, who just had a mental breakdown about it : yesn't
I don’t forgive myself often because I feel like my friend are more important to me! I have a BFF that always listens to me when I’m having a breakdown and helps me through till i find some light! I know friends like that don’t come often and I’m grateful! I try to be a great friend to my friends and try to make new ones! I’m self aware of my actions, I’m honest with them, I forgive, I listen to them when needed, and most importantly my friends.. I make them a priority!
*me reading the thumbnail*
"Good Friend, 5 signs you're a happy ghost!"
I ended a friendship a few months ago and though I think generally it was the best choice for both of us (being unhappy in the friendship wasn't making me a very good friend, and I'd brought my own hang ups and issues to the friendship) it still hurts. This video reminds me of what is important - thank you.
We all know why you're here: ”I’m A gOoD fRiEnD”
"....right...?"
Err, not to be contrarian but im looking to see if im a good friend or not. See, I have a friend who rode with me to another state and he could have ditched me because his vehicle was faster. But, he didn't.
I think he was a good friend.
I was actually here because I thought I was not a good friend and wanted to see if I was wrong. I had 4 of the 5. The 4th one is what I lacked on. Not because I don’t prioritize my friends but more because I just don’t like “hanging out”. I’d rather just text or at least have a short plan on what to do. Not spend 4 hours not even knowing what you’re going to be doing. In a nutshell I’m a big introvert
Quite the opposite lmao, I don't match up to any of the points. No wonder no one likes me.
Honesty.
Thank you so much for validating that honesty is a core component for a healthy friendship. I've noticed some "friends" had a habit of lying when they really didn't have to lie. Those lies weren't harmful so I kinda ignored them until a series of incidents happened that they caused and they try to get away with it.
I've always practiced honesty and tried to be very tactful when confronting them, but they either became downright rude, fake apologise or force me to apologise to them when I caught them red-handed. And it's always me or someone else's fault, they were never to blame even when it's clearly their fault.
And it's really unhelpful to have low self esteem due to relationship issues, so I consulted a few trusted people outside of this "friends" circle. All confirmed that I had tried my best, very willing to improve myself if I really did anything wrong. Heck I even apologised to one of them for giving me trouble! Cause I understood my part in contributing towards the incident, but this doesn't erase the fact that they're the one who caused it. Three attributes that these "friends" didn't have bcos they refuse to genuinely reflect on themselves, admit their wrongdoings, let alone improve themselves. And they shift the blame all the time!!!! So many excuses and nonsensical logic!!!!
So I door slammed those "friends" damn hard, and again my low self esteem and self criticizing tendencies kicked in for letting those people in, and for having have to kick them out. I hate myself. Damn those poisonous creatures. People who love playing the victim can go f*** themselves.
Thank you again for making me realize that habitual liars, dishonesty and blame-shifting should not exist in a healthy relationship.
This animation looks beautiful, love the video.
Mystic Much agreed.
can we just appreciate the tummy pooches they have in this animation style omg 💚💚
This channel has actually helped tremendously with my mental health. Keep making great videos!❤️
Happy to see that we could help!
Great video! I have a few friends I'm blessed to have in my life. I've always supported them and they've done the same foe me. I do care about them and I think what makes me a good friend is that I listen, understand, and really see their perspectives in life. I love communicating with them. Sometimes I check up on them and they do the same for me. I think having a good friendship is nice to have. You can grow, interact, and appreciate the ones you love. Nothing is perfect but good friendships are a blessing! My advice the friends that DO care and vice versa are worthy for a lifetime.
I mean my friends kept me around for this long so I must be doing something right
I just wanna emphasize how important the first one is. Self-awareness is a game changer. I learned that if someone struggles with making friends, sometimes the ugly truth is we, ourselves, aren’t good friends to begin with. Self-awareness can help change that. Helps you grow.
My self esteem just lowered down to -100
Agreed. Also, mutual trust and respect are a key ingredient to maintain the bond.
I hope I’m a good friend, however I don’t think that’s necessarily something I can evaluate myself
I always seem to attract toxic friends that take advantage of my kindness. I think it's important to be self aware of what you want out of a friend and understand boundaries so you're being a loyal friend but not being used for their benefit.
I just got back in contact with a friend of mine after 3 years. Within that span I had gone through some rough stuff and had become a more humble person by practicing self awareness to get through it. I noticed it effected me some, but my friend told me that (and he had no idea what I had gone through) although we had been good buddies, he now felt like I was becoming his best friend. It was surprising, but felt really rewarding to hear that I was making a difference not only for myself, but for others as well! Give it a shot!
I've been feeling like I've been a really bad friend recently, and would like to change that. I'll have to remember these and keep them present in my mind anytime I interact with them. Thanks for the help!
Me watch this while laying in my bed
My brain:why u watch this u not a good friend n u don't like socialize
Me:i donno just want to watch psych2go vid😂😂😂
You have a beautiful profile picture.
And it was a wonderful comment
@@jean-thecrazyone8267 you have a wonderful username.
And it was a wonderful reply
Thanks, . I really loved your wonderful reply to my reply.
Hope you live a great life. :)
LOL this comment section is wonderful......
I try to be a good friend,, and I think I am. but sometimes I can be harsh towards my friends (I dont actually say anything) but they often are upset and need my help, which is okay because life happens! but sometimes I get fed up with it and I get mad that they need my help again... I always feel bad for getting mad at them because Its not their fault at all they have problems.
Time to learn what I’ve been doing wrong
It’s good that you acknowledge it
I appreciate when people don't dismiss my feelings(or even just say "then do so and so"), but rather show they understand how I feel.
Thank you for this video! I’ll help many people be aware about what being a good friend means 🤙🏽💯🥰
I'm glad that I'm a good friend according to these signs, even though I'm not being treated the same way by the ones whom I consider my friends, I still felt happy that I'm not a terrible or annoying person around them. Also the animation style is so adorable and wholesome, I'd absolutely love to see more of it in the future!
Me: *Watches video*
Also me: *Crying halfway through because he realizes he doesn't have any friends.*
I'm sorry me too I guess only online
I fit these all. It's just the commitment part. My friends know I'm a ride or die and will literally go out of my way to save them from a crisis but I just havent been showing up lately. I let them know that I need space and that I just need to be alone for the most part and I'm sure they understand. I wish I could just show up more tho bc I know they miss me and I miss them so so so much but I just need to be alone right now. I've been alone for months now and it's not that I am scared to be social, but I'm just still working on myself and I dont wanna accidentally hurt anyone while I'm still hurting somewhere deep inside. I'm just done putting on masks and I told them the truth about how I need to get my shit together before making plans to sit down and hang out with a friend for an hour or two or more. There's only like 3 people I really have the energy for and even with them they know I need my space if I'm not constantly talking to them.
Any one else want to go to that “kitty land” now? Cause I do!
I wanna go to kitty land!
Let's all go to kitty land together
It sounds like something you could find in Japan lol I would love if it were real.
it's the child friendly version of furry land
What’s wrong with furry land?
Being a good friend requires someone to enjoy silence, have gratitude for themselves and their friend. I think what makes an excellent friend is to be honest, making an effort to reconcile and see them at their best, and also to be independent too. Being indepedent and loving your own company is a fantastic way to be a great friend. & a really excellent friend will never make you prove how great you are as a friend. I am enough as a friend, and jsut being myself is enough.
So basically,
1. You engaged in self-awareness
2. You practice forgiveness (to yourself and others)
3. You listen well
4. You display a commitment to friendship
5. You are honest
makes you a good friend.
And then after all this you get betrayed and being boss around by your friends. And then try to forgive them everytime and at some point you give up, and decided to end the friendship. Then she or he called u a bad friend. _.
people take my friendship and kindness for granted
Ooo I’ve been waiting for this one
The dislikes are the people who thought they were good but then considered the facts
Absolutely. I believe Honesty is very important.
I guess I'm a good friend, yet, I don't have any to be with rn
Due to covid?
I'm thankful that I have a real best friend in my life. True friends need not be prompt in replying to you but when they do they always make you feel so loved. Talking with them is the best feeling in the world. One important thing to remember is we all have our own lives. And they can have their exams and deadlines. So please don't be mad at them promptly. Also don't forget to pour your love on them.
when it's 5am, but you're watching psych2go
Even if you are a good friend, some friendships will start to fade :3
The animations are evolving so as the topics and viewer's mood or state.😁😁
I think a good friend is someone who is always there for you and when they are not they want argue or make a big fuss about it ... They will just talk through it
I'm here to improve my self-esteem. That's all.
I've always made it a point, to remind my friends and show people they are important to me
to be a good friend you need friends so...
Exactly, why am I watching this.
I have none
It kinda annoys me when people joke about having “no friends” because most of the time, it’s said as an exaggeration.
Julya Flyer I highly doubt they would be laughing hard... however if they are, get them out your life. Don’t keep associating yourself with them if you call them fake, because then it makes you fake too.
I mean, you're not wrong there-
Julya Flyer ok, that’s good
A good friend is a hard bed, able to relied on to help you through the darkest nights, but still able to not let you sleep through the morning. They are your railing in the storms on which to clutch, but they do not allow themselves to become your crutch. They are your whetstone, only opposing you that you may become sharper, more useful, and more dependable. They see the light and warmth of your flame and they feed you to be a light to be appreciated by more. They seek to put you on the height, but only when you shine so bright as to illumine all the world.
And they give you the gift of performing all of the above for them. For sometimes, I find, that serving others is what we really need, no matter how minute or small the task may be.
Oh look a dose of reassurance right when I need it...... 🙃🙃
Your hair is so adorable in your pfp!
ali thank you!! It’s from awhile ago but I loved it!!
In my experience, following these don't matter
I still get left every time
Thanks for the sign god, I'll try using this
the fact that im all this and my "best" friend just threw me away because i was helping her way too "much". I never had a best friend i can really talk with, wish i had one
Oh dang. I haven’t been this early since I was born
I like friends that respect personal space and understand circumstances / quick witted..
None of this will stop your friends from betraying you.
True, in that case THEY are not good friends.
Thank you for this! Perfect timing
Me: **read the title** yeah, i think I’m a pretty good friend!
Me 2 seconds after: ...wait.. I have no friends... TwT
Keeping my friends around always has been and probably always will be my biggest priority. I just wish that I could spend more time with them. Regardless, I think that this was a good video. Keep up the good work!
Just because you say first doesn’t mean you watched the video first
I’ve always been insecure whether or not I’m a good friend, so this really helped 👉🏻👈🏻
I'm four minutes late!
*I am late cuz I was doing my homework*
Me with no friends: yea I’m a good friend for sure!