Not as yet. I still have some growing to do. I still like to be alone but you have opened my eyes to what a mature INFJ is. Especially my extroverted sensing.
I think I'll reach full maturity one minute before I die. We're all constantly maturing with age, like a fine stinky wine. Seriously, channels like this have really helped me improve my mental state, so thank you for spending your time to make these vids that help people.
Is it so important, to be fully matured? Is this the purpose of life, to reach full maturity? What is full maturity? Is full maturity nessesery? Can I live an good life without full maturity? Am I matured, because I'm thinking in this way?😅 And try to be perfect, is the divine within every single thing, that exists in this world. We must not die, to reach the perfect point, but after reaching the full awakening, I know now, that I can't do things only to make it, because I love to give my energy into the things I love to do.
I'm an INFJ married to an INFJ. We ran away from home 2 years ago. Moved all the way across the country from our families and lives, with the plan of complete isolation in a very small, rural town. It's been heavenly, with the exception of the townfolk, who insist on showing up with gifts, inviting us to gatherings, church, etc. So we gave in. We joined a church. We made friends. It's a struggle, but we always enjoy ourselves when we participate. I love your videos. They're always spot on. Lovely! Thank you!
Amen! However, I have found that solitude is very beneficial, and the need for socializing has become much less important as I age. I first typed INFJ in 1977. It's been a hell of a trip.
This resonates for me. I recently found out I am INFJ and it has been so helpful … because I thought it was ME that was the weirdo… but it’s the personality type. Like the Joe’s say, knowing is half the battle lol
I found Human Design to be helpful in understanding myself on an even deeper level. Knowing our design has the potential of being massively empowering. Happy trails :) ❤
At 69, this INFJ Has Reached this level of conscious elder maturity, complete with healthy "intentional pattern interruption, socialization, boundaries, loving self care, experimentation, exploration, and nonduality orientation." Thank you for your videos. It's helpful to see oneself mirrored back. 🎉
Boundaries are a must. Otherwise, others will constantly mistake our silence for weakness. Unfortunately for them, they have a rude awakening with that.
Don’t worry… I’m in my early 50’s and, as an INFJ, I’m still maturing. Growth and “Maturity” are linked, my friend. As long as you live, there will ALWAYS be something new to learn and discover that’ll add layers of Growth and Maturity, if you’re receptive to them.
I've made it! But as always, I benefit frm hearing someone else verbalizing it (affirming my thoughts). It's good to stop feeling negatively towards yrself when yr ways oppose the maturity of those around you. That strong nudge to change and comply to become part of the grp has no pull on you anymore. It's freedom and it's peace.
Working on knowing when to set boundaries, I occasionally still overextend myself. Being present is also a challenge some days, especially in social settings,
🎯 🎯 🎯 48 here. It's been a difficult life. All are spot on though. I am looking forward to my "hermit" stage in my later years as I let go of everything.
We older INFJs had to figure everything out on our own. NO internet, hell no idea there even was such a category as INFJ. Fortunately the way we think tends us on a certain path.
Age 51, my friend. I became aware of this INFJ thing a month or so ago. What a relief. I went from an undercurrent of dull confusion to radical self-acceptance in a heartbeat. It's been spiritual whiplash but of a good kind. I wish you and every other INFJ all the peace God can give.
The confusing approach to socialization, how damn brilliantly presented this is. Relating to this 101%. Still having a somewhat long way to go before I mature, BTW...
Spot on. I'm on the path of number 7. I'm slowly reemerging from an intense, prolonged isolation and solutide phase. Gradually, an interaction a time, I'm feeling my way through what works for me, and how best to enjoy it. This was made possible by my learning and committing to setting and enforcing clear boundaries. Great video.
I stopped the 7 paths,at 20 yo things changed, friends disappeared little by little. Freedom is in my blood and goals are back, let's be a 3w7 with weak wings before success maybe(I m 2w1),oups sorry it doesn't exist 3w7 but my tree is broken or awakened. Let s use skills and focus on target and goals,for my case let's run INTJ/P mode the time to go the next step, strong partners, let s be successful just for haters and have an opportunity to make the world better or just taking it easy gardening and cocooning. I did the good since I m born being free now now let's built and reject those who forgot how I gave them love,care and I show them what is a friend. Life has many lessons I ll give some I think. Feeling so good with nothing ❤ all wings can be developed. 7 is my birthday 🥳 just doing things and seeing people with who we have deep connections and surrounded by trust and good vibes 1 to 9 are made to be linked using the good skill at the good moment. Infj must develop sigma stepping out of the box. What thinks others you don't care if you have integrity and if you haven't bad minds. Be unshakable and choose good causes, please you for sure but healthiest 7 is making people who deserve live amazing experiences and ofc doing it for things only you love and learning from new experiences or people about what we love to do
It's really starting to piss me off how accurate and astute you are to the INFJ profile. I really want to dislike this content, but you have so many accurate observations I can't dismiss this as hog wash. Damn, that's a really disturbing way of saying I like your content. Suck it, I'm INFJ.
INFJ isn't as smart as people they they are, but they're extremely curious about everything & wouldn't stop after until they reach the 360° views of everything. Once they understood a certain topic they can give 360° perpective on that topic making them seems smarter than they actually are
Me either, I’m loving the antisocial part of this journey. My stepping back has been a game changer! I no longer run to those who wouldn’t cross puddles for me, I’m over it. My door is always open, I have coffee if they like and a lake view. I’m tired boss!
I found out i was a INFJ in late 70s. internet new to me an pandemic i got on TH-cam. About 2 years i seen a INFJ video on my feed so i checking it out. I never put eny thought or energy into being INJF tell TH-cam. WOW WE i got a head full. I how know my INFJ qualities are over the top im exter special (that word special is hard for me to use about myself). I see how much other try to be like me🫠. The truth is they are so alone, depressed an get left out of thing. Being around or pretending to be INFJS gives them a reason. It anger me too see them cheating there selfs out of a cool, sick, far out, loving life that belongs to them. Having a brain disorder will get worse the longer they put off treatment. I even see fake INFJ started up there own INFJ channel. I'm able to clearly see his disorder an gets his information looking out word to other's well known typers
Hey PSYCH-Os!👋
*So, do you think you've reached full maturity as an INFJ? *
Comment down below 👇
Not as yet. I still have some growing to do. I still like to be alone but you have opened my eyes to what a mature INFJ is. Especially my extroverted sensing.
I think I'll reach full maturity one minute before I die. We're all constantly maturing with age, like a fine stinky wine. Seriously, channels like this have really helped me improve my mental state, so thank you for spending your time to make these vids that help people.
Is it so important, to be fully matured? Is this the purpose of life, to reach full maturity? What is full maturity? Is full maturity nessesery? Can I live an good life without full maturity? Am I matured, because I'm thinking in this way?😅
And try to be perfect, is the divine within every single thing, that exists in this world. We must not die, to reach the perfect point, but after reaching the full awakening, I know now, that I can't do things only to make it, because I love to give my energy into the things I love to do.
Yes!
Yes it took me some many years and once I surrendered I became a Dark Sigma INFJ
As an old fart…. My best gift of aging has been the ability to disengage and observe. Others are a source of entertainment.
I'm an INFJ married to an INFJ. We ran away from home 2 years ago. Moved all the way across the country from our families and lives, with the plan of complete isolation in a very small, rural town. It's been heavenly, with the exception of the townfolk, who insist on showing up with gifts, inviting us to gatherings, church, etc. So we gave in. We joined a church. We made friends. It's a struggle, but we always enjoy ourselves when we participate.
I love your videos. They're always spot on. Lovely! Thank you!
Amen! However, I have found that solitude is very beneficial, and the need for socializing has become much less important as I age. I first typed INFJ in 1977. It's been a hell of a trip.
This resonates for me. I recently found out I am INFJ and it has been so helpful … because I thought it was ME that was the weirdo… but it’s the personality type. Like the Joe’s say, knowing is half the battle lol
Welcome to a world where you are normal .
It's almost everyone else who's weird.
I found Human Design to be helpful in understanding myself on an even deeper level. Knowing our design has the potential of being massively empowering.
Happy trails :) ❤
Straight up 😂
Wait until you figure out you're actually quite special and rare, and start to love your weirdness. We're pretty cool people.
@@ericanorton71 it’s already begun. Thank you 🙏🏻
I think I have definitely reached a more mature state . There is still room for plenty of growth!
There is *always* plenty of room for growth!
At 69, this INFJ Has Reached this level of conscious elder maturity, complete with healthy "intentional pattern interruption, socialization, boundaries, loving self care, experimentation, exploration, and nonduality orientation." Thank you for your videos. It's helpful to see oneself mirrored back. 🎉
I'm 55 and just discovered any of this 😮. I'll surely make haste at learning what it's all about. It can only help the journey. ❤
Clear and firm boundaries. When I robustly stepped into that, life took a definite upturn for the better!
I am 52 and still have trouble understanding who's emotions I am experiencing
I'm pretty good with the rest of it though
thank you
Boundaries are a must. Otherwise, others will constantly mistake our silence for weakness. Unfortunately for them, they have a rude awakening with that.
for me, silence is intelligence 😅 no matter how smart and clever ENTPs are, i still feel dumb without learning how to control my mouth lol
Guilty! When I Learn something of real value I MUST share it... never wondering if the other person can handle it or wants to hear it.
Ditto! Couple that with ADHD dopamine cravings 😅
Lol me too 😅😅
No quite to fulll maturity yet, but working on it!!!!! 😊
Don’t worry… I’m in my early 50’s and, as an INFJ, I’m still maturing. Growth and “Maturity” are linked, my friend. As long as you live, there will ALWAYS be something new to learn and discover that’ll add layers of Growth and Maturity, if you’re receptive to them.
I've made it! But as always, I benefit frm hearing someone else verbalizing it (affirming my thoughts). It's good to stop feeling negatively towards yrself when yr ways oppose the maturity of those around you. That strong nudge to change and comply to become part of the grp has no pull on you anymore. It's freedom and it's peace.
Working on knowing when to set boundaries, I occasionally still overextend myself. Being present is also a challenge some days, especially in social settings,
🎯 🎯 🎯
48 here. It's been a difficult life. All are spot on though. I am looking forward to my "hermit" stage in my later years as I let go of everything.
We older INFJs had to figure everything out on our own. NO internet, hell no idea there even was such a category as INFJ. Fortunately the way we think tends us on a certain path.
@@trisldAgreed
Age 51, my friend. I became aware of this INFJ thing a month or so ago. What a relief. I went from an undercurrent of dull confusion to radical self-acceptance in a heartbeat. It's been spiritual whiplash but of a good kind. I wish you and every other INFJ all the peace God can give.
@@messenjah71 Thank you. Likewise.
I've never heard someone describe my personality so well. I don't even know what infj is? a new fan of the Channel ❤
Kimberly, take the Meyers-Briggs personality test to be sure! 🤗
The confusing approach to socialization, how damn brilliantly presented this is. Relating to this 101%. Still having a somewhat long way to go before I mature, BTW...
Surprisingly, I've done some good work in all these categories.
21 years old.
Working on 3, 5, 6 & 7
Achieved 1, 2 & 4
I'm getting there, but there's still a long road ahead.
8. They begin to get mistyped as INTJs
not if you know cognitive functions
I have been healing/maturing, tho something that is not always a pleasant process !
INFJ & Human Design 4/6 projector RAX Planning 1! I fully resonate with what is said. Thanks for posting & reminding us about our power
No. 1. Yes! I have totally accepted my "weirdness." I love it.
I am fully there on number 1 and somewhere in the middle with the rest.
INFJ..I wish that I had of known a lot of this a long time ago Ty!
As an INFJ I agree with the video
Love the vid
Thank you my friend 🙏
Spot on. I'm on the path of number 7.
I'm slowly reemerging from an intense, prolonged isolation and solutide phase.
Gradually, an interaction a time, I'm feeling my way through what works for me, and how best to enjoy it.
This was made possible by my learning and committing to setting and enforcing clear boundaries.
Great video.
We wish you the best of luck in this new phase, it’s certainly not easy 💙
I stopped the 7 paths,at 20 yo things changed, friends disappeared little by little. Freedom is in my blood and goals are back, let's be a 3w7 with weak wings before success maybe(I m 2w1),oups sorry it doesn't exist 3w7 but my tree is broken or awakened. Let s use skills and focus on target and goals,for my case let's run INTJ/P mode the time to go the next step, strong partners, let s be successful just for haters and have an opportunity to make the world better or just taking it easy gardening and cocooning. I did the good since I m born being free now now let's built and reject those who forgot how I gave them love,care and I show them what is a friend. Life has many lessons I ll give some I think. Feeling so good with nothing ❤ all wings can be developed. 7 is my birthday 🥳 just doing things and seeing people with who we have deep connections and surrounded by trust and good vibes 1 to 9 are made to be linked using the good skill at the good moment. Infj must develop sigma stepping out of the box. What thinks others you don't care if you have integrity and if you haven't bad minds. Be unshakable and choose good causes, please you for sure but healthiest 7 is making people who deserve live amazing experiences and ofc doing it for things only you love and learning from new experiences or people about what we love to do
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Yah!
Geez 🙄 I'm still immature.
No, I'm not sure I am close.
It's really starting to piss me off how accurate and astute you are to the INFJ profile. I really want to dislike this content, but you have so many accurate observations I can't dismiss this as hog wash. Damn, that's a really disturbing way of saying I like your content. Suck it, I'm INFJ.
Haha we'll take the compliment, thank you! 😆
No. Maybe, soon....
I advoid social interaction.
Physical disability, only doctor's appointments.
INFJ isn't as smart as people they they are, but they're extremely curious about everything & wouldn't stop after until they reach the 360° views of everything. Once they understood a certain topic they can give 360° perpective on that topic making them seems smarter than they actually are
Wow
I don't think I will ever be a mature INFJ😂😂😂🤦♀️
Me either, I’m loving the antisocial part of this journey. My stepping back has been a game changer! I no longer run to those who wouldn’t cross puddles for me, I’m over it. My door is always open, I have coffee if they like and a lake view. I’m tired boss!
But im 50…😂
I found out i was a INFJ in late 70s. internet new to me an pandemic i got on TH-cam. About 2 years i seen a INFJ video on my feed so i checking it out. I never put eny thought or energy into being INJF tell TH-cam. WOW WE i got a head full. I how know my INFJ qualities are over the top im exter special (that word special is hard for me to use about myself). I see how much other try to be like me🫠. The truth is they are so alone, depressed an get left out of thing. Being around or pretending to be INFJS gives them a reason. It anger me too see them cheating there selfs out of a cool, sick, far out, loving life that belongs to them. Having a brain disorder will get worse the longer they put off treatment. I even see fake INFJ started up there own INFJ channel. I'm able to clearly see his disorder an gets his information looking out word to other's well known typers