I'm 55 years old, retired military , and traveled all around the world had my share of women. I had one special woman. At the time,I said I could always find another good woman like her. It's been 30 years, and I have yet to find one like her again. I needed to find my purpose as well, not knowing I could've brought her with me while pursuing my purpose. I said all that to say this when you find that one good woman it's very and you may not never find one again. Still regretting losing a good one. Time passes very quickly. I hope you guys make it.
@CultureoftheWorld You are right. I was the exact same way I recognize that same energy.... He will learn, but for some reason, I don't think she will wait around long.
@@meathead5670 if she is smart… get a commitment from the next guy… good lessons for both of them…. Painful life lessons they both will never forget this for better or worse. He been listening to the player TH-camrs like hashimi… never be around people that are not on your lifestyle
Man I do understand what your saying, buy don't let go of a great lady. A good woman is very hard to find. If it's money, move in together, and you both will save. money. Make her your wife. Get a part time job.
Bro respectfully you should have thought about that before you came back to Thailand she seems like a sweetheart and you both complement each other to keep it real with you I could almost believe that she's not telling you how she really feels about your decision sometimes in life being steel and comfortable in your own skin is a measure of your strength . But I'm sure you know what's best for you just hoping but your leaving 😊the door open for her and that she does the same I was rooting for you guys.. I'll keep watching a good woman is hard to come by young man..
Man i dont know what to say. SMH. I am a little surprise at this decision. I have look through the comments. Everyone has great points. I can see all their points. Life is about purpose. Everyone has one. The journey call life will take us down some interesting roads. Alone that journey you find and put people in your circle. People come and go. When your young you think different. Only a few of us in this world get to live the dream of traveling out of the courtry. It sounds like you need a job. Being a TH-cam influencer may be one of those fade jobs. So many people try it and few find success. Your channel has changed. Change is good. However, what made your different was the kids you taught and your two families. You showed us how you gave to the people, and community. I have been watching for a long time. Find your purpose and hope you have the right people in your life when you decide to stay in one spot. Sooner or later everyone goes or comes home to rest. Travel gets old when you travel alone. I will say this. Your girl didnt make your channel but she sure did boost your ratings.
Bro gro. With her she really loves you men spend a life trying to find a woman like her dude you found her you know what are problem is we try to change God's plan for us she part of God's plan for you and her
@@SmoothLife.I think she is because there are many women in Asia who will just milk him for money, but she wants to work and provide for her family without trying to do that. She has even paid out money for him and taken him on vacation with her money, there are not many like that in Asia, Caribbean or even Africa.
LITTLE BROTHER, YOU'D BETTER THINK. I UNDERSTAND YOUR POINT. OPEN AN ONLINE BUSINESS IN HER NAME IF YOU MUST. YOU HAVE A GOOD WOMAN. THAT SOMETIMES ONLY HAPPENS ONCE IN A LIFETIME. YOU'D BETTER COME TO YOUR SENSES. SHE LOVES YOU VERY MUCH, AND WENT AGAINST TRADITION FOR YOU. Go to neighboring COUNTRIES, stay for three weeks, and come back.
SHOW US PARTS OF THAILAND THAT OTHERS HAVEN'T. SHOW THE UNIVERSITIES, COSTS, DORMITORIES, SHOW US WHY IT'S COST EFFECTIVE TO GET DENTAL WORK AND MEDICINE IN THAILAND. SHOW US WHAT IS REQUIRED TO OPEN A BUSINESS. WHAT IS THE COST OF RENTING A STORE THERE? TAKE US ON A TOUR OF THE VERY ADVANCED BANGKOK HOSPITAL. THERE ARE SO MANY TOPICS THAT HASN'T BEEN COVERED.
@@reesejenkins497I agree with this, there are quite a few brothers in Thailand living same kind of lifestyle as him but they have content for days. I think for him, he is a free spirit and is not ready for commitment right now.
My advice, you are very good at eco-tourism promotion, why can't you register an international company for eco-tourism promotion, you can continue with your content creation while linking nations of the world together, you can tour the world, achieve your life goals. If you like you can use Thailand or any other country as your base but carry Manita along in your journey, i perceive that you share the same passion. She'll be of great energy to you. Cheers!
Young man stop waiting for something to happen. You have to make things happen. Your dreams and your goals are free, but there is a price you must pay to fulfill those dreams and goals. What are you willing to sacrifice. I wish you peace and prosperity on your journey my brother
Its crazy how people are telling a 20 something that he basically needs to marry the first girl he meets in Thailand LOL. See as many people as you can (respectfully), see the world while you can when you can but don't shut down your life just because you met a lovely beautiful lady. Manita will be fine and be there when you return, plus her channel is moving pretty dang good.
There's no garuntee. While he is chasing his goals, she may find a guy at work that gives her the attemtion she needs. Also for him, there will be plenty of beautiful girls while treveling. They may not be as pure in heart as manita. Also I hear if you keep leaving a country while on visa, that country can revoke your stay permit. I think he should stay in there for atleast another year. Just meet other people and add different girls to make content.
She good enough to sleep with an string a long she’s good enough to marry , I won’t want my son to do this to any girl an I definitely don’t want my daughter get used an out to the side . Why not travel together .
Love Knows No Boundaries: Love transcends cultural, racial, and ethnic lines. When two people genuinely care for each other, these external factors become secondary. Interracial couples often celebrate their unique backgrounds, learning from each other’s traditions, languages, and customs. take care and God bless
For those who just can't seem to understand why you see so many young beautiful women in Asia are with OLDER men, this is why. They prefer older men because older men tend to be settled and won't leave her........... But I do respect his decision.
Nothing wrong with your decision. Your life is your movie and you are the director. You decide the location, the plot and the cast that will star in your movie.
Always keep in mind you are living your dream, Right now your in Bangkok, You moved from the U.S., therefore you are traveling and exploring, appreciation is key.
Bro I understand. I didnt before but I do now. If you and her are really feeling the love and you MUST be together then you will find a way together. You explained it perfectly. She has responsibilities and so do you. It is a shame though because Love shouldnt be this hard. All I can say is if it is supposed to be then it will be. Move on and enjoy your life. Selfishly I wish that you 2 could be together traveling or not traveling but being together. Wish you the best bruh.
But Lo , why bring her through all this just to break up with her? I feel she agrees with you and what u want because she loves you and is submissive to her man. Hmmm. Ion know . She seems like a super rare lady. Wish u the best
Ignore the noise, bro, and follow your heart. If it's meant to be, things will come full circle. Live for you, bro. It's the chances we don't take in this life that we end up regretting. Love is cool and all, but it shouldn't be your sole reason for living. Word of the wise keep your relationship private. Grown folks shouldn't be this involved in your relationship.
D'Lo has that same convo with my dad at 19, joined the military to see some of this world before 30. I've been on 5 different Continents and 12 different countries. If your calling follow your dreams, before settling down, no regrets for you to do you. I'm gonna continue to follow you see you grow as a man in this life. God has you back, follow the plan.
Fulfill your purpose brother. Love the content and amazing editing. I feel ya. Y'all are a beautiful couple, but I understand your decision. You're being real with yourself. Much success to you brother. I love the journey you've displayed so far, and I'm looking forward to the rest of it. Peace, health, love, prosperity, and happiness to you.
Better to chase purpose than to live in regret and potential resentment. You can’t turn a stationary car. You gotta get moving to make the necessary adjustments. Live, learn, grow, plant, harvest, repeat.
If you lose this girl, I bet you will regret it for the rest of your life. They do not come any better and some lucky guy is going to sweep her up, so disappointed!
You don't gotta explain yourself bro! Don't mean your breaking up just means you pursuing the dream that you already had aligned. Shes gonna support you no matter what decision you make just remember always keep that communication going. Gotta build your brand a-lot more if you're trying to help her build hers as well. You guys know where you stand with each other and thats all that matter
It's called a journey for a reason It's a big world, and he wants to physically experience life traveling. Yall don't know what he might do or the ppl he'll meet that could have a impact on his personal growth. Those that only support him because of his lady then that's even more creepy to me and you ve negative regardless. Know the difference between loving someone and BEING IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE. Young man continue to enjoy life and remember to Walk your path and not for those who live vicariously though you. Its your journey and yours alone💯🙌🏾🙏🏾
nothing wrong bringing her along your journey and your vision... nothing wrong going back to her from travels...whatever decision you take should not compete with love, it should rather compliment
Hey bro you 💯 correct. You have to take that leap. Some of us are meant to be stationary and some are not. Looking forward to your journey bro. Safe travels and may the moments that redefine you begin. One love bro.
Am with you , you got to follow your dreams… Put God first and everything will fall into place,Trust in God he will see you through… Monita will wait she loves you . I understand your point 👌🏿
Why make her feels as if there is something there. And again what do I know. Why didn’t just be a friend , you knew she was working, you knew the hours , you knew she have her own place. You knew it would be hard sitting around waiting for her days off. Bombo clath. Jamaican bad word.
Him blood clat wicked and selfish man❗️Him should ah bin just a friend. Him did know from de beginning wha was what but wha go round come round❗️And ah mention GOD in ah all dis❗️Ah 💔 jumbee dat❗️❗️❗️
I believe you are young and still discovering yourself and what makes you happy. Go out and explore the world, and find out what makes you content in life! I rolling with you until the wheels fall off. So take us on an exciting journey by exploring unseen corners of this earth. YOU HAVE YOUR ENTIRE LIFE TO SETTLE DOWN. If she is the one for you, she will be there by your side cheering you on. Good luck on this new journey that I can't wait to witness from afar.
Love doesnt have to take a back seat , your either committed or not and clearly Manita is your lady and she will be there no matter what , so go ahead and get started , start small , like go to different parts thailand and see what unfolds , travel to different parts of the world and discover while Thailand is your home base , its already in your favour , no more talking about it and get going .
You have made a wise, mature decision. You're young, so take the path you feel aligns with your purpose. If your relationship with Manita is meant to eventually progress further, then it will happen. The "fairy tale" ending most on this platform desire to see is not fully steeped in reality. I state that with much due respect. Go live your life, young brother, and set yourself up for a successful future.
I’m 26 years old we all got a point as men where we all gotta do the long walk away from our family and folks in order to grow the skill and craft we possess. In lotta those times of us grinding we might meet the women who can get us there. I spent couple months before doing truck job working away from my family. It helped me to become more self driven to point know I have to do it again. I have work 6 months on the road driving for 3 weeks or a month. But that’s life I don’t mind. I can’t wait for the new content my guy. 😅
Brother you are not saying you are leaving Manita for good you are just saying you need to follow your dreams,nothing wrong you are doing Brother follow your dreams and give us the great contents,keep going bro and don't let anyone to stop you,she will be proud of you and grateful one day God bless you 🙏🙏
Dude she works you should be happy she was with you because she loved you not for popularity the next she won’t have a job want you to buy her stuff u think you spent money yet wait
If you are both in love, do not leave. Grow together and in that way you will learn to carry more responsibilities. If you are not in love even then be savvy, do not just follow your heart use your mind. U are now in a position where you can actually build an empire, if you are bored seek out people who made it, learn what they did and focus on that. Work hard bro, and build. You won't have the luxury of boredom, and then travel the world. But if you decide to travel be careful not to follow your heart but your brain, the heart just gives you ideas, controle it and expand on it, get money for your travelling from agencies if possible and get those connections, it all boils down to work, and work hard... I would personally stay cause experience taught me a lot about loving relationships... but we all have our own path to walk on! If you are not fully comitted especially because she has those responsibilities, just stay friends man. You say looking out for you is the best (it's the selfish mindset the world teaches, but that is a lie, cause u change the definition of looking out for yourself... be honest, you'll feel trapped and anxious if it doesn't work out or isn't worth it in the long run. And I get it, it can be a lot) atleast don't be astumbling block for her if you can't commit let her live her life. That is the life of a nomad, or u are being selfish.
My brother! So happy to see your growth and the decision is one of the steps in the correct direction with no regrets. Do what’s n your heart, and don’t feel as if you owe your journey to anyone. You cannot have meaningful “lives lost” if you sit around and wait for things to happen rather than make it happen. The analogy about, if you are on a plane going down in the water, to always put your mask on first. So, go ahead, put your mask on first before assisting others. May god bless you young man please stay positive as usual🙏🏾
You have a bachelor's degree and can get a good paying job online; save money and travel with her later. THAT'S LOVE. But❓️❓️❓️ I pray Manita finds true love soon❗️❗️❗️
Bro, go spread your wings and fly... You do not owe us any explanations as to what goals and aspirations that you chose to pursue and accomplish in your life.
'Sup Lo! One trait I like about you is you being real. And communicating to us your audience how you actually feel. And how you're feeling is valid and makes sense. You'd like to bring along Manita and travel with her but she isn't available yet. I think that was pretty clear when you quit the Peace Corps and came back from the USA that you'll be doing traveling vlogs possibly without Manita. You can still carry on you relationship with her, kinda long distance but pretty sure you're returning to Bangkok a few times a year. And when her TH-cam channel can monetarily sustain her, she could join then.
D-Lo , I appreciate you allowing us in your space ,sharing your exploration and adventure. I'm most grateful for you allowing us to express our opinions on YOUR LIFE! Personally, I respect your decision on following your desires. However, it is awkward to think of your content absent from Manita. 🫤 Man , I hope things shift to where y'all can travel the world together!!! They say: absence makes the heart grow fonder, BUT....sometimes, absence makes the heart wander. I really hope things will work out for you and her ....she seems like she's a KEEPER. Bruh, be safe !🙏🏽
She might be waiting for you to make a bigger commitment. And she does always have to help family. That’s just what they do. But you do have to find your happiness before you can give happiness to somebody else and if you’re not happy, go do what you need to do.
To each is own young brother we support you in all your decisions and will continue to follow your journey. Remember I told you this though true love only comes once .
D’lo. It’s a rough decision for sure but a man’s gotta do what a man’s gotta do. Well done on pursuing your purpose. Trust The Holy Spirit to lead you in all truth.
I truly wish half of you guys would watch the video in its entirety and listen to what Dlo is saying. Smh. Do you, young bro. I will always support you.
Do what is best for you, we only get one shot at life and you can't worry about pleasing everyone. I was in the navy for 5 years and I got out because I knew I wanted more from life. I was afraid because all I knew was military life but things work out when you believe in what you want. i'm currently 31 with a 90% disability rating and I'm in process of leaving the country for a better life. Thailand and Bali are on my list for a home base right now but only time will tell when I get to that point in my list of things to do.
Bro,you are still young, work on you for the mean time, but stay in touch with manita, you both have things that need to be accomplished, but always keep your connection strong, I pray for you and manita, and I stand supportive of you both, and of course I hope the end result is you and manita will be together and happy, The Most High Bless you both in all you do!!!❤❤❤❤❤
Some yall parasocial af, wayyyyy too emotionally invested in someone else's life, let him do his thing, what he does in his life should have no impact on you whatsoever 😂
Some people get emotionally vested in the lives of others. It is what it is. I knew he would eventually venture on his own. Who didn't see this coming?
@Truthisstrangerthanfiction8 exactly 😂 they act like they're never gonna talk again and they hate each other, he just wants to explore and see the world 😅💯
Sheesh bro after all u guys been through, u do know its because of her your content blew up n shit..im not saying your not gonna bd great without her.. I am fully disappointed as a #1 subscriber but then again a Man gotta do what a mans gotta do...
Was in the same situation.. and choosing travel over love was an amazing choice, the experiences I have and still having, would cannot utter. Do you king
Be safe. Find your purpose/what makes you happy. Please don’t leave for money. Manita, stay strong and follow your dreams. “God let your will be done in their lives”
Seem you are using the young lady bro, what about her feeling? What about her emotions? I guess you might have told her that if she wants to move on it’s ok , maybe she should wait. I can’t speak for both, but she should move on. It hurts me to see.
Mr man, you need to think, unthink and re-think, in anything you do in this life, consider your purpose first if you got one,not every woman will suit or is worth your future, wise up man life's way more different from what we think is
Your decision is completely understandable for a young guy who wants to travel the world but i think there's more in life to that. Sometimes God put struggles in front of you to see if you can distinguish what has real values in life and what doesn't. Do you think travelling the world will come with no struggles? In life you have to be smart and wise enough to know when things are worth fighting for. After going to every restaurants, see every landscapes, partying at every countries at the end of day, what s left?... Financial problems are just a matter of perception, because if your heart is good , God will always put someone at your door to help you raise but only if you give worth to things that matters. I would exchange all my money right now to live your struggles with this magnificient lady because true love is the rarest thing to find in life. But i m sure it is not a thing you will understand right now because you're young but 20 years from now you will understand. I wish you all the success in your new adventure but to be honest, I was here for the " love bond that exists between you and Manita that i thought that could transcend all life barriers but obviously i was wrong. Thank you for every good laugh and positive energy you give me through your videos but this time i'm stepping out your bus.
Never let a woman stop you from doing what you wanna do!! I've been married before and these women are not worth you living your life for a woman just because she is supposed to be a good woman. Go make yourself happy cuz that's all that matters
Go and do you young brother! If you and Monita are Destin to be together, you will be together in the future. Don't worry about haters. I wasted a lot of years waiting on a woman who wanted nothing out of life. I've been successful, but not to the degree I would have if I'd made myself the priority. It's not as if you're just waking away. You've had the conversation with Monita and she's agreed that you have to do this for you. Do your thing your brother.
God bless you and your family ! Pray and seek God he will make your path clear ! Remember God honors marriage ! I seen with my Own eyes part of your legacy is to impact children! That’s one of your gifts ! Your ministry !
Go live your dreams young man while you can. If it's meant to be you and Manita will find your way back to each other. If you don't then know you were able to spend a moment in time with an incredible individual. Good luck
I feel bad for Manita. You can tell he was planning on doing this for a while lead her on she probably wanted something serious but once he got what he wanted from TH-cam dirched her to probably get with another girl later on.
My young brother, you connected to a outstanding woman that adores you and you are bored and would rather loose a relationship that you have earned so much love and respect for, to travel the world for content and money when I promise you that you will never connect with another woman like the young beautiful compassionate hard working and not about self nor is she about you just taking care of her, and she has and will meet you halfway in everything that you may not get that in another relationship my brother. The world is wicked and full of women that like to play games and looking for a man to take care of them, in JOHN 17:16 Jesus emphasizes the distinction between his disciples and the world, and that they should not be “of the world’ . Of the world” means following the values, beliefs and conduct of the unbelieving world. Christians are to follow Christ’s word and reflect it in their words and actions. However, Jesus also says that the church should remain in the world for a time. Christians are ambassadors for Christ in the world, representing Christ’s kingdom to unbelievers ……… respectively have you taken your decisions to Christ 1st because this could be the devil distracting you from what you have gained and now trying to destroy your future my brother. You are a smart young brother and full of life and while I’ve acknowledged other young brothers TH-cam channel by touring the world and have met so they think the love of their life you my friend have earned the most respect from fans around the world that have managed to meet a lovely beautiful woman that will cherish and appreciate you for who you are and will be that same person for the rest of your life, I’m not saying jump to marry her right now but don’t make a foolish decision that you will regret one day because you want to explore the world and eventually get caught up in it that could possibly lead to the wrong people and in areas of your life you can’t prosper in. LISTEN TO THE VOICE OF GOD BEFORE ANYTHING MY BROTHER, we love your Plattform and content GOD BLESS FROM THE THOMAS FAMILY …………
If that relationship with that young lady is meant to be then it will be. In the mean time continue to draw close to God. Read your scriptures and ask him to help you to understand what your read. You have plans for your life, but he has a plan for your life ask him to reveal his plans for you. He is the source of all wisdom so follow what he says. He speaks to us through the scriptures. Trust in the lord with all your heart and lean not to your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him and he will direct your path.
Go live your truth youngster, if your bond with Manita is strong enough, you will gravitate back to each other, when the time is right & the opportunity presents itself. Can't wait to follow your travels, wherever you choose to go. All the best from Denmark D'lo ❤
D'lo why don't you find a job there in Bangkok..I know you're a smart young man..that's why you're bored...just find something there or do what you were doing in tbe village, teaching..Find a job D'lo n save money...anything..
You’re making the right decision bro. You’re a young man doing real man things. Building a foundation is the key to life. If both of you spend the next couple of years build good foundations. Life is going to be awesome for you both. Both of you need to live your purpose until it's time to join forces. Many men have made life decisions based on a woman, only to have regrets and resentment later. In terms of Manita, she is on the grind and living her purpose. She appears to be strong, independent, and caring. If she is meant to be, she will weather the storm.
Bro. EXPLORE! You are a travel creator! That’s what you do! You never said your boundaries are just in Thailand, so go on a new adventure and please take us with you! 👍🏼 We, as in most of us, were following you before there was a Manita on your channel, and we will continue to follow you.. I love Manita… but y’all not breaking up. You are just going to see some other places! I’m all the way in Atlanta, Georgia and I leave my home to explore other Countries and I don’t have to explain what I’m doing to nobody else… And you don’t have to either! You grown! Do you, Maaan!🤜🏼✊❤
I'd keep moving forward on your path you are on until her channel grows to the point where she can support her family monetarily. Then, you both could travel the world together and continue to grow both channels. That way, you get the best of both worlds. Make the sacrifice and invest in her now. It will reward you later.
I'm 55 years old, retired military , and traveled all around the world had my share of women. I had one special woman. At the time,I said I could always find another good woman like her. It's been 30 years, and I have yet to find one like her again. I needed to find my purpose as well, not knowing I could've brought her with me while pursuing my purpose. I said all that to say this when you find that one good woman it's very and you may not never find one again. Still regretting losing a good one. Time passes very quickly. I hope you guys make it.
He has no clue to what you’re talking about . Young and …….full of ….
He will realize when he turns 70 years old
@CultureoftheWorld You are right. I was the exact same way I recognize that same energy.... He will learn, but for some reason, I don't think she will wait around long.
@@CultureoftheWorld Lol! He's fucking it up... Lol! Sad but funny in some weird sad way.
@@meathead5670 if she is smart… get a commitment from the next guy… good lessons for both of them…. Painful life lessons they both will never forget this for better or worse. He been listening to the player TH-camrs like hashimi… never be around people that are not on your lifestyle
Man I do understand what your saying, buy don't let go of a great lady. A good woman is very hard to find. If it's money, move in together, and you both will save. money. Make her your wife. Get a part time job.
Bro respectfully you should have thought about that before you came back to Thailand she seems like a sweetheart and you both complement each other to keep it real with you I could almost believe that she's not telling you how she really feels about your decision sometimes in life being steel and comfortable in your own skin is a measure of your strength . But I'm sure you know what's best for you just hoping but your leaving 😊the door open for her and that she does the same I was rooting for you guys.. I'll keep watching a good woman is hard to come by young man..
Man i dont know what to say. SMH.
I am a little surprise at this decision. I have look through the comments. Everyone has great points. I can see all their points.
Life is about purpose. Everyone has one. The journey call life will take us down some interesting roads. Alone that journey you find and put people in your circle. People come and go. When your young you think different.
Only a few of us in this world get to live the dream of traveling out of the courtry.
It sounds like you need a job. Being a TH-cam influencer may be one of those fade jobs. So many people try it and few find success. Your channel has changed. Change is good. However, what made your different was the kids you taught and your two families. You showed us how you gave to the people, and community. I have been watching for a long time.
Find your purpose and hope you have the right people in your life when you decide to stay in one spot.
Sooner or later everyone goes or comes home to rest. Travel gets old when you travel alone.
I will say this. Your girl didnt make your channel but she sure did boost your ratings.
I agree
I'm betting his views & likes will suffer considerably without Manita...her , Thailand & the Thai people is the reason alot of people tuned in
Do your thing bro, but I can tell you this now. You can travel 7 different worlds and won’t find a girl like that, don’t take it for granted🥂
niggas gotta learn the hard way..... it is what it is
Bro gro. With her she really loves you men spend a life trying to find a woman like her dude you found her you know what are problem is we try to change God's plan for us she part of God's plan for you and her
Bull shit, bull shit, bull shit… yes he can find it while traveling… Stop the simping. She’s not rare in Asia at all.
@@SmoothLife.I think she is because there are many women in Asia who will just milk him for money, but she wants to work and provide for her family without trying to do that. She has even paid out money for him and taken him on vacation with her money, there are not many like that in Asia, Caribbean or even Africa.
100% true she's real with a good heart
putting this on manita is weird, just say u want to be single and travel the world that is okay u have every right to.
Very bad decision. You lost a Good woman. Good luck
Yep, nobody wants to see another travel channel. That stuff is everywhere. Just stupid
LITTLE BROTHER, YOU'D BETTER THINK. I UNDERSTAND YOUR POINT. OPEN AN ONLINE BUSINESS IN HER NAME IF YOU MUST. YOU HAVE A GOOD WOMAN. THAT SOMETIMES ONLY HAPPENS ONCE IN A LIFETIME. YOU'D BETTER COME TO YOUR SENSES. SHE LOVES YOU VERY MUCH, AND WENT AGAINST TRADITION FOR YOU. Go to neighboring COUNTRIES, stay for three weeks, and come back.
SHOW US PARTS OF THAILAND THAT OTHERS HAVEN'T. SHOW THE UNIVERSITIES, COSTS, DORMITORIES, SHOW US WHY IT'S COST EFFECTIVE TO GET DENTAL WORK AND MEDICINE IN THAILAND. SHOW US WHAT IS REQUIRED TO OPEN A BUSINESS. WHAT IS THE COST OF RENTING A STORE THERE? TAKE US ON A TOUR OF THE VERY ADVANCED BANGKOK HOSPITAL. THERE ARE SO MANY TOPICS THAT HASN'T BEEN COVERED.
@@reesejenkins497I agree with this, there are quite a few brothers in Thailand living same kind of lifestyle as him but they have content for days. I think for him, he is a free spirit and is not ready for commitment right now.
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My advice, you are very good at eco-tourism promotion, why can't you register an international company for eco-tourism promotion, you can continue with your content creation while linking nations of the world together, you can tour the world, achieve your life goals. If you like you can use Thailand or any other country as your base but carry Manita along in your journey, i perceive that you share the same passion. She'll be of great energy to you. Cheers!
Exactly bro good Advice for him and give it a year she will come join you be patient, good things comes to those why wait, trust my she's a good girl
Young man stop waiting for something to happen. You have to make things happen. Your dreams and your goals are free, but there is a price you must pay to fulfill those dreams and goals. What are you willing to sacrifice. I wish you peace and prosperity on your journey my brother
Its crazy how people are telling a 20 something that he basically needs to marry the first girl he meets in Thailand LOL. See as many people as you can (respectfully), see the world while you can when you can but don't shut down your life just because you met a lovely beautiful lady. Manita will be fine and be there when you return, plus her channel is moving pretty dang good.
There's no garuntee. While he is chasing his goals, she may find a guy at work that gives her the attemtion she needs. Also for him, there will be plenty of beautiful girls while treveling. They may not be as pure in heart as manita. Also I hear if you keep leaving a country while on visa, that country can revoke your stay permit. I think he should stay in there for atleast another year. Just meet other people and add different girls to make content.
Yes she's perfect 💯🔥👌.
She good enough to sleep with an string a long she’s good enough to marry , I won’t want my son to do this to any girl an I definitely don’t want my daughter get used an out to the side . Why not travel together .
Love Knows No Boundaries:
Love transcends cultural, racial, and ethnic lines. When two people genuinely care for each other, these external factors become secondary.
Interracial couples often celebrate their unique backgrounds, learning from each other’s traditions, languages, and customs. take care and God bless
For those who just can't seem to understand why you see so many young beautiful women in Asia are with OLDER men, this is why. They prefer older men because older men tend to be settled and won't leave her........... But I do respect his decision.
Ehh. It’s more probably because older men have the resources to travel more to these countries and stay. But I hear some of your point.
Nothing wrong with your decision. Your life is your movie and you are the director. You decide the location, the plot and the cast that will star in your movie.
Always keep in mind you are living your dream, Right now your in Bangkok, You moved from the U.S., therefore you are traveling and exploring, appreciation is key.
Bro I understand. I didnt before but I do now. If you and her are really feeling the love and you MUST be together then you will find a way together. You explained it perfectly. She has responsibilities and so do you. It is a shame though because Love shouldnt be this hard. All I can say is if it is supposed to be then it will be. Move on and enjoy your life. Selfishly I wish that you 2 could be together traveling or not traveling but being together. Wish you the best bruh.
But Lo , why bring her through all this just to break up with her?
I feel she agrees with you and what u want because she loves you and is submissive to her man. Hmmm. Ion know . She seems like a super rare lady. Wish u the best
Ignore the noise, bro, and follow your heart. If it's meant to be, things will come full circle. Live for you, bro. It's the chances we don't take in this life that we end up regretting. Love is cool and all, but it shouldn't be your sole reason for living. Word of the wise keep your relationship private. Grown folks shouldn't be this involved in your relationship.
Young people don't like to settle down, it is weird to them.
All we want is to enjoy life , travel etc .
Maybe 28yrs , 30 yrs
We will settle.
D'Lo has that same convo with my dad at 19, joined the military to see some of this world before 30. I've been on 5 different Continents and 12 different countries. If your calling follow your dreams, before settling down, no regrets for you to do you. I'm gonna continue to follow you see you grow as a man in this life. God has you back, follow the plan.
Fulfill your purpose brother. Love the content and amazing editing. I feel ya. Y'all are a beautiful couple, but I understand your decision. You're being real with yourself. Much success to you brother. I love the journey you've displayed so far, and I'm looking forward to the rest of it. Peace, health, love, prosperity, and happiness to you.
Better to chase purpose than to live in regret and potential resentment. You can’t turn a stationary car. You gotta get moving to make the necessary adjustments. Live, learn, grow, plant, harvest, repeat.
Follow your heart bro. The heart never lies. You will always support you keep that positive energy and things will work out for you, man.❤️💪🏿💪🏿❤️❤️
If you lose this girl, I bet you will regret it for the rest of your life. They do not come any better and some lucky guy is going to sweep her up, so disappointed!
Yes irreplaceable
You don't gotta explain yourself bro! Don't mean your breaking up just means you pursuing the dream that you already had aligned. Shes gonna support you no matter what decision you make just remember always keep that communication going. Gotta build your brand a-lot more if you're trying to help her build hers as well. You guys know where you stand with each other and thats all that matter
It's called a journey for a reason
It's a big world, and he wants to physically experience life traveling.
Yall don't know what he might do or the ppl he'll meet that could have a impact on his personal growth.
Those that only support him because of his lady then that's even more creepy to me and you ve negative regardless.
Know the difference between loving someone and BEING IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE.
Young man continue to enjoy life and remember to
Walk your path and not for those who live vicariously though you.
Its your journey and yours alone💯🙌🏾🙏🏾
Yes 💯 how many countries , province or state .
Just think about it 😁💯👌.
nothing wrong bringing her along your journey and your vision... nothing wrong going back to her from travels...whatever decision you take should not compete with love, it should rather compliment
Yep💯🔥👌
Hey bro you 💯 correct. You have to take that leap. Some of us are meant to be stationary and some are not. Looking forward to your journey bro. Safe travels and may the moments that redefine you begin. One love bro.
Am with you , you got to follow your dreams…
Put God first and everything will fall into place,Trust in God he will see you through…
Monita will wait she loves you .
I understand your point 👌🏿
Why make her feels as if there is something there. And again what do I know. Why didn’t just be a friend , you knew she was working, you knew the hours , you knew she have her own place. You knew it would be hard sitting around waiting for her days off. Bombo clath. Jamaican bad word.
Him blood clat wicked and selfish man❗️Him should ah bin just a friend. Him did know from de beginning wha was what but wha go round come round❗️And ah mention GOD in ah all dis❗️Ah 💔 jumbee dat❗️❗️❗️
I believe you are young and still discovering yourself and what makes you happy. Go out and explore the world, and find out what makes you content in life! I rolling with you until the wheels fall off. So take us on an exciting journey by exploring unseen corners of this earth. YOU HAVE YOUR ENTIRE LIFE TO SETTLE DOWN. If she is the one for you, she will be there by your side cheering you on. Good luck on this new journey that I can't wait to witness from afar.
he ain't lost her... that's his woman. she'll be waiting for him when he returns... you MUST stand on your purpose. I can relate brother
Love doesnt have to take a back seat , your either committed or not and clearly Manita is your lady and she will be there no matter what , so go ahead and get started , start small , like go to different parts thailand and see what unfolds , travel to different parts of the world and discover while Thailand is your home base , its already in your favour , no more talking about it and get going .
You should have taken some of the money you spent on yourself and bought Manita flowers and a beautiful gift for treating you so good ❗️
Well, with most desires come sacrifices. Just be sure you're ok with the trade off. It's ok
You have made a wise, mature decision. You're young, so take the path you feel aligns with your purpose. If your relationship with Manita is meant to eventually progress further, then it will happen. The "fairy tale" ending most on this platform desire to see is not fully steeped in reality. I state that with much due respect. Go live your life, young brother, and set yourself up for a successful future.
Follow your dreams and passion. I wish I could travel and see the world like you right now. She will be ok.
I’m 26 years old we all got a point as men where we all gotta do the long walk away from our family and folks in order to grow the skill and craft we possess. In lotta those times of us grinding we might meet the women who can get us there. I spent couple months before doing truck job working away from my family. It helped me to become more self driven to point know I have to do it again. I have work 6 months on the road driving for 3 weeks or a month. But that’s life I don’t mind. I can’t wait for the new content my guy. 😅
Brother you are not saying you are leaving Manita for good you are just saying you need to follow your dreams,nothing wrong you are doing Brother follow your dreams and give us the great contents,keep going bro and don't let anyone to stop you,she will be proud of you and grateful one day
God bless you 🙏🙏
Vlogging/TH-cam is your business path now. She will understand and hopefully be along for the ride.
Dude she works you should be happy she was with you because she loved you not for popularity the next she won’t have a job want you to buy her stuff u think you spent money yet wait
If you are both in love, do not leave. Grow together and in that way you will learn to carry more responsibilities. If you are not in love even then be savvy, do not just follow your heart use your mind. U are now in a position where you can actually build an empire, if you are bored seek out people who made it, learn what they did and focus on that. Work hard bro, and build. You won't have the luxury of boredom, and then travel the world.
But if you decide to travel be careful not to follow your heart but your brain, the heart just gives you ideas, controle it and expand on it, get money for your travelling from agencies if possible and get those connections, it all boils down to work, and work hard... I would personally stay cause experience taught me a lot about loving relationships... but we all have our own path to walk on! If you are not fully comitted especially because she has those responsibilities, just stay friends man.
You say looking out for you is the best (it's the selfish mindset the world teaches, but that is a lie, cause u change the definition of looking out for yourself... be honest, you'll feel trapped and anxious if it doesn't work out or isn't worth it in the long run. And I get it, it can be a lot) atleast don't be astumbling block for her if you can't commit let her live her life. That is the life of a nomad, or u are being selfish.
I love your content bro... you're absolutely right tho and all u need is your own validation... u got this we're tuned in
My brother! So happy to see your growth and the decision is one of the steps in the correct direction with no regrets. Do what’s n your heart, and don’t feel as if you owe your journey to anyone. You cannot have meaningful “lives lost” if you sit around and wait for things to happen rather than make it happen. The analogy about, if you are on a plane going down in the water, to always put your mask on first. So, go ahead, put your mask on first before assisting others. May god bless you young man please stay positive as usual🙏🏾
You have a bachelor's degree and can get a good paying job online; save money and travel with her later. THAT'S LOVE. But❓️❓️❓️
I pray Manita finds true love soon❗️❗️❗️
Bro, go spread your wings and fly... You do not owe us any explanations as to what goals and aspirations that you chose to pursue and accomplish in your life.
I admire you & Lady Manita. God loves the two of you.🙏🏿🌎🙏🏿
I seriously don't understand how people in the comments can't see where you're coming from. LIVE YOUR PURPOSE!
You’re still young. Go explore and just enjoy your life. Do all of that before settling down.
My mindset 😁💯.
'Sup Lo! One trait I like about you is you being real. And communicating to us your audience how you actually feel. And how you're feeling is valid and makes sense. You'd like to bring along Manita and travel with her but she isn't available yet. I think that was pretty clear when you quit the Peace Corps and came back from the USA that you'll be doing traveling vlogs possibly without Manita. You can still carry on you relationship with her, kinda long distance but pretty sure you're returning to Bangkok a few times a year. And when her TH-cam channel can monetarily sustain her, she could join then.
I feel you when you said LOVE has to take a backseat UNTIL goals are fulfilled 💪🏿
If your not happy within yourself any relationship is doomed ❤
Don't date or get entwined with people if you. It's selfish.
D-Lo , I appreciate you allowing us in your space ,sharing your exploration and adventure.
I'm most grateful for you allowing us to express our opinions on YOUR LIFE!
Personally, I respect your decision on following your desires.
However, it is awkward to think of your content absent from Manita. 🫤
Man , I hope things shift to where y'all can travel the world together!!!
They say: absence makes the heart grow fonder, BUT....sometimes, absence makes the heart wander.
I really hope things will work out for you and her ....she seems like she's a KEEPER.
Bruh, be safe !🙏🏽
She might be waiting for you to make a bigger commitment. And she does always have to help family. That’s just what they do. But you do have to find your happiness before you can give happiness to somebody else and if you’re not happy, go do what you need to do.
I’m with you brother. There’s still a lot of life to live. Just stay humble and loyal and you’ll find your way back home.
Bro, You are a young man that needs to explore and chase your dream in TH-cam! So, go get it and enjoy life! Peace.
To each is own young brother we support you in all your decisions and will continue to follow your journey. Remember I told you this though true love only comes once .
You can’t never get a refund for time💯once it gone it will never return 😎
D’lo. It’s a rough decision for sure but a man’s gotta do what a man’s gotta do.
Well done on pursuing your purpose. Trust The Holy Spirit to lead you in all truth.
I truly wish half of you guys would watch the video in its entirety and listen to what Dlo is saying. Smh. Do you, young bro. I will always support you.
Much Respect Dilo; continue to seek and you will find🙏🏽 You have my support…. Looking forward to your journey‼️💕
Do what is best for you, we only get one shot at life and you can't worry about pleasing everyone. I was in the navy for 5 years and I got out because I knew I wanted more from life. I was afraid because all I knew was military life but things work out when you believe in what you want. i'm currently 31 with a 90% disability rating and I'm in process of leaving the country for a better life. Thailand and Bali are on my list for a home base right now but only time will tell when I get to that point in my list of things to do.
Free Will is what we have here.Live your life and enjoy every single second of it.Safe travels to and from and hopefully love conquers all.
I'm proud of you bro pray and follow the Lord he will guide you to your purpose in life stay focus on you will be praying for you
Bro,you are still young, work on you for the mean time, but stay in touch with manita, you both have things that need to be accomplished, but always keep your connection strong, I pray for you and manita, and I stand supportive of you both, and of course I hope the end result is you and manita will be together and happy, The Most High Bless you both in all you do!!!❤❤❤❤❤
Some yall parasocial af, wayyyyy too emotionally invested in someone else's life, let him do his thing, what he does in his life should have no impact on you whatsoever 😂
Some people get emotionally vested in the lives of others. It is what it is. I knew he would eventually venture on his own. Who didn't see this coming?
@Truthisstrangerthanfiction8 exactly 😂 they act like they're never gonna talk again and they hate each other, he just wants to explore and see the world 😅💯
Congrats bro, that’s maturity
Literally not maturity !
Sheesh bro after all u guys been through, u do know its because of her your content blew up n shit..im not saying your not gonna bd great without her.. I am fully disappointed as a #1 subscriber but then again a Man gotta do what a mans gotta do...
Follow your heart, brother. Everything else will follow you 🤲🏾
Was in the same situation.. and choosing travel over love was an amazing choice, the experiences I have and still having, would cannot utter. Do you king
DANG man, that's sad to hear, smh..... she seemed like a wonderful woman.
Yep💯👌 down to earth , just perfect.
Some are irreplaceable, you will look and never in your entire life . Find even one like her.
God Knows Best !! HE alone has a Perfect PLAN for each of us !! God bless you both.
I’ll continue to support you my brother much love 😎💯
Be safe. Find your purpose/what makes you happy. Please don’t leave for money. Manita, stay strong and follow your dreams. “God let your will be done in their lives”
Seem you are using the young lady bro, what about her feeling? What about her emotions? I guess you might have told her that if she wants to move on it’s ok , maybe she should wait. I can’t speak for both, but she should move on. It hurts me to see.
Mr man, you need to think, unthink and re-think, in anything you do in this life, consider your purpose first if you got one,not every woman will suit or is worth your future, wise up man life's way more different from what we think is
Your decision is completely understandable for a young guy who wants to travel the world but i think there's more in life to that. Sometimes God put struggles in front of you to see if you can distinguish what has real values in life and what doesn't. Do you think travelling the world will come with no struggles? In life you have to be smart and wise enough to know when things are worth fighting for. After going to every restaurants, see every landscapes, partying at every countries at the end of day, what s left?... Financial problems are just a matter of perception, because if your heart is good , God will always put someone at your door to help you raise but only if you give worth to things that matters. I would exchange all my money right now to live your struggles with this magnificient lady because true love is the rarest thing to find in life. But i m sure it is not a thing you will understand right now because you're young but 20 years from now you will understand. I wish you all the success in your new adventure but to be honest, I was here for the " love bond that exists between you and Manita that i thought that could transcend all life barriers but obviously i was wrong. Thank you for every good laugh and positive energy you give me through your videos but this time i'm stepping out your bus.
I feel you 100 percent
I think it's great you're gonna follow your dreams!
I support you son ❤
She might be waiting for you to make a bigger commitment. And she does always have to help family. That’s just what they do.
You are young and have time to settle down. Go explore and live your life. If it’s meant to be then it will be 💗 go do your thing!!
Never let a woman stop you from doing what you wanna do!! I've been married before and these women are not worth you living your life for a woman just because she is supposed to be a good woman. Go make yourself happy cuz that's all that matters
Real love is hard to find!
One thing I'll tell you , there will never be another malita in your life, she's a special kind,
Go and do you young brother! If you and Monita are Destin to be together, you will be together in the future. Don't worry about haters.
I wasted a lot of years waiting on a woman who wanted nothing out of life. I've been successful, but not to the degree I would have if I'd made myself the priority. It's not as if you're just waking away. You've had the conversation with Monita and she's agreed that you have to do this for you. Do your thing your brother.
God bless you and your family ! Pray and seek God he will make your path clear ! Remember God honors marriage ! I seen with my
Own eyes part of your legacy is to impact children! That’s one of your gifts ! Your ministry !
And 4ornication.
Go live your dreams young man while you can. If it's meant to be you and Manita will find your way back to each other. If you don't then know you were able to spend a moment in time with an incredible individual. Good luck
Wow, Lo just leveled up. Proud of you bro. 🙏
I feel bad for Manita. You can tell he was planning on doing this for a while lead her on she probably wanted something serious but once he got what he wanted from TH-cam dirched her to probably get with another girl later on.
He will get a taste of his own medicine soon ❗️❗️❗️
Find something to do in Thailand do TH-cam as part-time.
Yep even permanent.
Even short courses are worth it.
While doing your thing.
Or part time job .
Purpose over everything bro.. you're making the right decision.
My young brother, you connected to a outstanding woman that adores you and you are bored and would rather loose a relationship that you have earned so much love and respect for, to travel the world for content and money when I promise you that you will never connect with another woman like the young beautiful compassionate hard working and not about self nor is she about you just taking care of her, and she has and will meet you halfway in everything that you may not get that in another relationship my brother. The world is wicked and full of women that like to play games and looking for a man to take care of them, in JOHN 17:16 Jesus emphasizes the distinction between his disciples and the world, and that they should not be “of the world’ . Of the world” means following the values, beliefs and conduct of the unbelieving world. Christians are to follow Christ’s word and reflect it in their words and actions. However, Jesus also says that the church should remain in the world for a time. Christians are ambassadors for Christ in the world, representing Christ’s kingdom to unbelievers ……… respectively have you taken your decisions to Christ 1st because this could be the devil distracting you from what you have gained and now trying to destroy your future my brother. You are a smart young brother and full of life and while I’ve acknowledged other young brothers TH-cam channel by touring the world and have met so they think the love of their life you my friend have earned the most respect from fans around the world that have managed to meet a lovely beautiful woman that will cherish and appreciate you for who you are and will be that same person for the rest of your life, I’m not saying jump to marry her right now but don’t make a foolish decision that you will regret one day because you want to explore the world and eventually get caught up in it that could possibly lead to the wrong people and in areas of your life you can’t prosper in. LISTEN TO THE VOICE OF GOD BEFORE ANYTHING MY BROTHER, we love your Plattform and content GOD BLESS FROM THE THOMAS FAMILY …………
If that relationship with that young lady is meant to be then it will be. In the mean time continue to draw close to God. Read your scriptures and ask him to help you to understand what your read. You have plans for your life, but he has a plan for your life ask him to reveal his plans for you. He is the source of all wisdom so follow what he says. He speaks to us through the scriptures. Trust in the lord with all your heart and lean not to your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him and he will direct your path.
She's perfect 💯 , not a hoe ( gold digger).
Go live your truth youngster, if your bond with Manita is strong enough, you will gravitate back to each other, when the time is right & the opportunity presents itself. Can't wait to follow your travels, wherever you choose to go. All the best from Denmark D'lo ❤
D'lo why don't you find a job there in Bangkok..I know you're a smart young man..that's why you're bored...just find something there or do what you were doing in tbe village, teaching..Find a job D'lo n save money...anything..
Why would he go back to a 9-5 making bad money….
Live life traveling being an influencer as a young man is a much better option.
That's not his Dream right now !!
YOU DO NOT WORK YOU DO NOT EAT
Follow your passion and pursue your dreams! You're a smart guy, you God on your side and good people around you, you will go far!
@@SmoothLife.Majority of influences are in debt
You’re making the right decision bro. You’re a young man doing real man things. Building a foundation is the key to life. If both of you spend the next couple of years build good foundations. Life is going to be awesome for you both. Both of you need to live your purpose until it's time to join forces. Many men have made life decisions based on a woman, only to have regrets and resentment later. In terms of Manita, she is on the grind and living her purpose. She appears to be strong, independent, and caring. If she is meant to be, she will weather the storm.
Bro. EXPLORE! You are a travel creator! That’s what you do! You never said your boundaries are just in Thailand, so go on a new adventure and please take us with you! 👍🏼 We, as in most of us, were following you before there was a Manita on your channel, and we will continue to follow you.. I love Manita… but y’all not breaking up. You are just going to see some other places! I’m all the way in Atlanta, Georgia and I leave my home to explore other Countries and I don’t have to explain what I’m doing to nobody else… And you don’t have to either! You grown! Do you, Maaan!🤜🏼✊❤
That's it dawg, never let anything get in the way of your purpose
I'd keep moving forward on your path you are on until her channel grows to the point where she can support her family monetarily.
Then, you both could travel the world together and continue to grow both channels. That way, you get the best of both worlds.
Make the sacrifice and invest in her now. It will reward you later.