Monica - Until It's Gone (Official Video)

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  • Monica's official music video for 'Until It's Gone'. Click to listen to Monica on Spotify: smarturl.it/Mon...
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    Lyrics:
    It's a shame you ain't wanted when you had it... heey
    Gave my love and you took the shit for granted.. heey
    And it was me those nights that you didn't come home
    Crying to my momma, blowing up your phone
    Just wait a little while, baby you gon' see
    That this gon' hurt you more than it hurt me
    One thing that I know for sure
    Is you gon' miss me when I go
    And it's gon' hurt babe
    When you're all alone
    I guess it's true what people say
    You never know
    What you have until it's gone
    You can never say I didn't try..hey
    Gave my all but I couldn't make you fight..heey
    And it was me those nights that you didn't come home
    Crying to my momma, blowing up your phone
    Just wait a little while, baby you gon' see
    That this gon' hurt you more than it hurt me

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  • @YannaWanna
    @YannaWanna 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1535

    Why the dude that play the lead in this video always the dude cheating? 😂😂 Everything he act in he cheating! Lmao!

    • @ZHARIAG
      @ZHARIAG 8 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      +Shut up I'm pretty i swear haha

    • @betfalcons
      @betfalcons 8 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Why is this so true

    • @tashafuller6512
      @tashafuller6512 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      p

    • @jeremiahanthony5521
      @jeremiahanthony5521 8 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      just like Blair Underwood with being the woman beater

    • @clovemarie6549
      @clovemarie6549 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Swear!

  • @wahaywgr
    @wahaywgr 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1919

    You just can't force a love that's just not there. Sometimes it's best to find the strength to walk away. Either you're the person who's doing the hurting or your the person who's getting hurt.

  • @26traceynicole
    @26traceynicole 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1379

    when you love him but its just not meant to be😢. he'll just keep hurting u

    • @canishaj49
      @canishaj49 7 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Tracey Worley it's a test! I repeatedly fail. I seem to always give second chances and it's a disaster.

    • @yolandafinley2393
      @yolandafinley2393 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tracey Worley so true

    • @christinatv5662
      @christinatv5662 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Tracey Worley I agree I have to learn not to let the same dude keep hurt me

    • @tammalone1830
      @tammalone1830 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Makali

    • @jadiaparker8335
      @jadiaparker8335 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      You gonna miss the shot at real unconditional love when I'm gone this time I'm gone never hurt me again

  • @mimilabellabruja653
    @mimilabellabruja653 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1023

    pain from a broken heart actually hurts...like, you can physically feel that shit in your chest smh

    • @zuri957
      @zuri957 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Soblessed Maxwell So true... 😞

    • @zuri957
      @zuri957 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      TheLookatit God is going to send you someone who is better fit for you. Keep your head up & be strong for your baby. Things will get better. Believe me I know.

    • @tiffanypierson3740
      @tiffanypierson3740 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I know that shit feeling like a heart attack 100 times over and over till u ur heart don't love no more

    • @krystalcollura4162
      @krystalcollura4162 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Omg yes what I’m currently going through

    • @itsyagirljay9762
      @itsyagirljay9762 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ok

  • @DonShana-u4e
    @DonShana-u4e 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +94

    Who is here in 2024

  • @andrechislum4107
    @andrechislum4107 10 ปีที่แล้ว +268

    Fellas we need to listen not jus to the song but the message the feeling u get from sex dnt feel anywhere near as good as the feeling of being loved

  • @naynaynay7143
    @naynaynay7143 8 ปีที่แล้ว +484

    This can be for friends.. sis bros moms dads etc.. not only lovers.. the message is appreciate people because you never know!

  • @Godschoosen1
    @Godschoosen1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    This song reminds me of when my dad left my mom and was gone for 4 years me my mom and brother became homeless and my mom has this song in her c.d player and I would listen to it and think of my dad holding back tears that was the hard times my mom finally saved up enough we was able to rent a house (4 years later)I saw my dad outside the house crying and telling my mom he thought the grass was greener on the other side I begged my mom to let him in the house she didn't years later I understand now my dad haven't seen us since (his choice) but this song brings up that time we was in the shelter and my mom would tell us every night she was sorry for putting us through it I love my mom so much my mom is her own boss she bought a house 10 years ago she taught me to never depend on a man to get my own she can't stress that enough

    • @ASMRR3N33
      @ASMRR3N33 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      So sorry you guys had to experience that. I've never gone a day without both parents in the same household. My Father did everything for us. I'm now 47 years old and lost my father a day before my birthday June 10, 2022. I'm so proud of your Mother being the woman she is. She's correct depend on no one but yourself. You'll never disappoint yourself. My Father always taught me that 💯

    • @MaddyMadness08
      @MaddyMadness08 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😢🤗 so glad you got a wonderful turn around. 🎉

    • @jordandavis2110
      @jordandavis2110 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jordan Davis 19 My She Can’t enough

    • @taemason4134
      @taemason4134 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your mother is a very strong and smart woman. Fuck that leave your daddy in the grass dammit since he thought it was greener...

    • @dupreejones3243
      @dupreejones3243 ปีที่แล้ว

      Damn sorry

  • @gloryroad6126
    @gloryroad6126 10 ปีที่แล้ว +656

    I was scrolling through videos and found this. I had a car accident June 3 2014 my husband was driving. I got the worst of it. My neck broke and my nerves in my left arm are severely damaged. I dont remember a thing but moments before the accident. We we were at an arcade center an I mentioned seperating. Hrs later I woke up in a halo with limited movement in my arm. He told everyone including family I was driving an I was drunk. Tests were taken an my results to my alcohol tests came bk negative. When I woke up he was so cold towards me cruel even he did things that the lord can only make him pay for. I give God the Glory im alive an everyday life as I knew it has changed bt I pray the Lord will deliver me from this. Bt...I made it. God spared me. This video made me even more grateful to even be the way I am. The devil tried to take my life bt God said No. I am a witness. My God is good. Just thought I would share......

  • @reneesworld4564
    @reneesworld4564 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    Who’s here in 2024?🥰

  • @170flyguy
    @170flyguy 10 ปีที่แล้ว +241

    Sometimes u gotta lett ppl go...dont stick around and be under valued and unappreciated ...leave theyll see once u your gone what they had ..but by then itll already be to late ....life is funny tho what they were doing u will come back to them cause whom ever they meet will return the favor on your behalf.....so youll have the last laugh trust me........move on and lett life be there teacher

    • @aprilann6011
      @aprilann6011 10 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      So very true. I had found out the man I loved for 4 years has cheated on me. He kept constantly lying to me and telling me don't listen to what people out in the streets are saying about him. I did like he said and trusted his word. I was a fool for him Smh. I had a funny feeling in my stomach to find out on my own. I've found the truth and tried to give him a chance to fess up to the truth on his own. I was a good and loyal woman to him for all those years. I told him the last time I spoke to him. What you do to me......someone will do to you. You don't know what you had until it's gone.

    • @ChanellTSamuel
      @ChanellTSamuel 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Prince Dior I wish I had your wisdom ...

    • @tawanatoran7636
      @tawanatoran7636 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Prince Dior. I'm going though this now dam why love so hard

    • @rydrickaperkins2399
      @rydrickaperkins2399 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      FACTS 100%

    • @stanleywashington8548
      @stanleywashington8548 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Bro so True!!

  • @corrislinden8689
    @corrislinden8689 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    Detox yourself from toxic situations to better you physically, mentally, and spiritually 💖💖💖💖💖💖

  • @tesajones9327
    @tesajones9327 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1077

    We love so hard. They treat us so bad. We forgive them, take them back, and give them the benefit of the doubt. They say over-and-over they will change. We believe that. We give them our power, that is why they keep on messing over our hearts. Then we finally wake up and say, "NO MORE, I'M DONE. I''M MOVING ON". And we do that, next thing you know they are engaged to be married, get married, and are about to start a family. Then we find out the woman he is with is going through way more than we ever did just to keep him or be called hers. At that point all I can say is Thank you JESUS for looking out for me and loving me when I didn't have the strength to love myself. All the things I was putting up with with him and the BS, taking him back. You was telling me to let it go. I got something better. So to all the LADIES OUT THERE, cause that's what WE are LADIES, and we don't need them to recognize that. I say, TAKE BACK YOUR POWER!!!!!!! You are much more than that. Love isn't gonna leave you hanging when you suppose to be all he needs. And for the fist 👊 fighting men. To the LADIES, know this. If he loves you, he won't mess up your beautiful face and send you out in the world 🌎 to be made a mockery of. And left to tell a lie how it happened or even explain it. Never let a man define you. Never let him think that he does. He will use it against you. Sometimes YOU is enough for YOU. As long as you got JESUS you will be alright. Did I get it right?? And, to the MEN, sorry no shade. THEY KNOW WHO THEY ARE. We love our good men. ALL MEN AREN'T ALIKE👍🏼✌️️😘

    • @Nicolefairy95
      @Nicolefairy95 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I needed this.

    • @วรรณาจัทร์ชนะ
      @วรรณาจัทร์ชนะ 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Girll Disney child

    • @bekajones823
      @bekajones823 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thank you, god bless 🙂🤗😇

    • @tesajones9327
      @tesajones9327 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Beka Jones you are welcome. We as women got to let them know, WE ARE SOMEBODY!!!! I'm not taking WOODEN NICKELS, NOT PLAYING THE GAME CAUSE I'M NOT IN IT. WE GOT THIS🙏🏾❤️💯

    • @canishaj49
      @canishaj49 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tesa Jones I love this! You said a mouth full❤️ but it's all the truth!

  • @zoyaadams4114
    @zoyaadams4114 4 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    This song hits different because this is exactly what I'm going through.
    How painful is it that we tend to love those who don't or won't love us like we do them. We live in hopes that someday, somehow, they're gonna change.... that they'll reciprocate the affection and the care, the loyalty, the respect, the love.... that we have for them... ONLY TO BREAK OUR OWN HEARTS OVER AND OVER AGAIN💔😭
    #wordsofabrokenheart💔💔💔👌

  • @erinmcgowen3097
    @erinmcgowen3097 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    Whos here in 2024

  • @UnreleasedUnderratedRnBgrooves
    @UnreleasedUnderratedRnBgrooves 5 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    Missy Elliott & Jazmine did such a beautiful job on the songwriting and production to this cut. Such a moving jewel this is.

  • @mrspeaker89
    @mrspeaker89 9 ปีที่แล้ว +436

    That chorus is so damn powerful!

  • @2company3crowd63
    @2company3crowd63 8 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    you cant walk away once your dead! Ladies must find strength to leave while alive.

  • @lifeofamarirenee4386
    @lifeofamarirenee4386 7 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    It hits you really hard when you think about the stuff you been through and compare the situation to the song I love this song so much 😭🙏🏽💯

    • @canishaj49
      @canishaj49 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Amari Siebert memories hurt like hell im going through a break up now. I listen to Monica u deserve and after 2 wks I feel better now

    • @jordandavis2110
      @jordandavis2110 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jordan Davis 19 lt You been Hard

  • @taniyahricks501
    @taniyahricks501 7 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    ii Can Relate To This Song I Think Every Female Who Has Been Hurt Can Relate Too This Song.

    • @robinhayes7631
      @robinhayes7631 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Love this song you don't know what you got until it's gone... if I knew then what I now.. I should have hung in there... I miss her she had my back it was no cheating involved I just had my doughts... what I'm getting now is an asshole with no soul..... I can walk away with an clean heart...

    • @biancacarter-bey8905
      @biancacarter-bey8905 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen big Facts

    • @jaleaalexander1555
      @jaleaalexander1555 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well i did. Time made it better, I'm glad he showed me the person he is

    • @jordandavis2110
      @jordandavis2110 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jordan Davis 19 Has been This

  • @cedricbennett9060
    @cedricbennett9060 9 ปีที่แล้ว +669

    My wife and I have been married 9 years and EVERYTIME we argue I listen to this song, I think of her, me and our kids and I just cant leave. Monica you did your thing on this one.

    • @kidamanfeisal494
      @kidamanfeisal494 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Zelda I guess its true what people say

    • @lovelyrich54
      @lovelyrich54 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      That statement touched my soul...That's so dam sweet! God bless the both of you.

    • @19McGahee82
      @19McGahee82 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      💕💕💕💕💕😍😍😍😍 Cedric you’re amazing for those beautiful, wise, true spoken words. I don’t know you, but I love and respect your intelligence. Man why can’t more men (women as well) think like this??!! Especially when those f*ck*ng vows were taken.

    • @justash8023
      @justash8023 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Y'all still together? I'm curious 😀

    • @cedricbennett9060
      @cedricbennett9060 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@justash8023 nope

  • @kyndragilmore8802
    @kyndragilmore8802 9 ปีที่แล้ว +253

    I really love all of Monica's music because she sticks to REAL R&B.

    • @mr.bloftischiefexecutiveof6328
      @mr.bloftischiefexecutiveof6328 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Kyndra Gilmore what's fake R&B?

    • @imtiredoftheseniggas6618
      @imtiredoftheseniggas6618 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sir Brandis DeWray - CEO today’s music. R&B is dead . Died in 2006.

    • @jordandavis2110
      @jordandavis2110 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jordan Davis 19 To all of She

    • @retrocreole97
      @retrocreole97 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@imtiredoftheseniggas6618 died in 2010 cause it got mixed with pop and stuff R&B artists like Ne Yo and Usher changed sounds tho in this era, the Loud Era Of Rihanna. But Now Ne Yo makes R&B, Craig David tho, Marques Houston and a lot Of other artists tho, Flo is a fresh air Of R&B tho

    • @nathanmedina2809
      @nathanmedina2809 ปีที่แล้ว

      2006, 2010 lol 😂 R&b never died and is still very alive today. Y’all are funny

  • @ThisIsMissyExclusive
    @ThisIsMissyExclusive 6 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    Props to Missy Elliott & Jazmine Sullivan for composing this single. Monica deserves more shine along with this song.

  • @tippanywills188
    @tippanywills188 8 ปีที่แล้ว +515

    who still spending late night's listen to this ??

    • @grinch75r29
      @grinch75r29 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tippany Wills lost my mom i didnt lover her no more but still miss her

    • @dajaharvey129
      @dajaharvey129 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Grinch 75R you didn't love your mom?

    • @fashionshowsdlh
      @fashionshowsdlh 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tippany Wills me

    • @pamrichards4716
      @pamrichards4716 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I I'm, Monica has a lot of great songs

    • @preciousspratley2
      @preciousspratley2 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      girlll me... Monica got me in me in my feelings tonight

  • @phillippingshaw3301
    @phillippingshaw3301 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Kleenex - Never mistreat the women/or man you love.

  • @Ty_leneaa
    @Ty_leneaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +416

    Who's here in 2020? 🥺

  • @simplyreddalicious5089
    @simplyreddalicious5089 8 ปีที่แล้ว +179

    that guy plays in Tyler Perry's movies but he's always into something

  • @alondaboyd8663
    @alondaboyd8663 7 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    sometimes love ain't what it seems. Because love doesn't hurt and it doesn't caused pain when its real love

  • @Mikwaevonnj
    @Mikwaevonnj 9 ปีที่แล้ว +363

    I love Monica but I feel for the guy in this video for some reason. It really took him until his wife died for him to realize he killed her both physically and emotionally. There is no coming back from knowing it was you who caused it all.

    • @TheVlogLife
      @TheVlogLife 9 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      You make a good point

    • @nikasmith1663
      @nikasmith1663 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +Shareka Ford bb nm

    • @mrstexas3577
      @mrstexas3577 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Sad situation but ppl live this life daily smh...😍😍😍😍 loved this video and song.

    • @michaelhunter3052
      @michaelhunter3052 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      my

    • @ernestmoore8932
      @ernestmoore8932 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      rigth

  • @tynaee95
    @tynaee95 10 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    When you realize there's really nothing you can do at this point cuz you have tried so many times so you just got to let it go.....

  • @maunyehmiller1887
    @maunyehmiller1887 8 ปีที่แล้ว +202

    who is still listening to this song in 2016

  • @c.c2373
    @c.c2373 8 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    Still listening in2016, this is a sad song but it's so real.true words. Love it

    • @keara514
      @keara514 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Christine Davidson I cry I miss my girlfriend so much it breaks my heart every time I hear or watch this....

    • @jordandavis2110
      @jordandavis2110 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Jordan Davis 21 Still This Sad

  • @grooviaxxqua
    @grooviaxxqua ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Writing this at 2:33am as a reminder to myself as well as hopefully a sign to someone else to let that toxic relationship go. This is the last time i allow anyone to talk to me this way , hurt me this way , physically, emotionally, spiritually. I deserve the same love i put into others & it hurts like shit right now to let this go but it hurts more to sit here and be broken down everyday by someone I put so much life and energy into . & if you are in the same situation, I hope you take this as a sign to do what’s best for you 💚

    • @ceceyoungg
      @ceceyoungg 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Im writing this at 2:02 am. Thank you for this. This is the last time I let someone do this to me. I deserve to be loved the way I loved and not toyed with and tossed out like I never meant anything man 😢. I am definitely about to block her everywhere and move on. I hope you have healed and moved on ❤

  • @Morgansbeautysupply
    @Morgansbeautysupply 5 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    Who here with me in 2019🥰🙋🏾‍♀️🔥😞😔

  • @o13sweetboy
    @o13sweetboy 8 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    You don't argue in car while driving in the dark like that.

  • @shaylavea8102
    @shaylavea8102 8 ปีที่แล้ว +190

    All I can do is cry listening to this

    • @duckey499
      @duckey499 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Shay Lavea why ? bad memories or wat

    • @shaylavea8102
      @shaylavea8102 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      duckey499 yes very bad 😥

  • @lisasuccessmindset7279
    @lisasuccessmindset7279 9 ปีที่แล้ว +346

    I love this song. Its funny how we assume someone will always be there.

    • @zuri957
      @zuri957 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Lisa Kahele Yep, until they're not.

    • @shaneerivera328
      @shaneerivera328 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Right...

    • @DLogan55
      @DLogan55 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes, Jehovah God put eternity into our hearts

    • @persephonejones7650
      @persephonejones7650 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Mental health illness as always been real as always enjoy today and every movement and moment ☺️

    • @kendreamedlock5803
      @kendreamedlock5803 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Zur o

  • @reshadotson3086
    @reshadotson3086 8 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    I wish this was true I wish it would hurt him if I leave but the sad truth is I love him way more then he will ever care about me

    • @Alwaysprofessional1
      @Alwaysprofessional1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Resha Dotson i feel your pain but you love him more than you love yourself. Love you first, the way a mother loves a child, and you will never let anything happen to you.

    • @bigsneak132
      @bigsneak132 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Resha Dotson he may portray that but trust he'll miss you when you're gone...

    • @zuri957
      @zuri957 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Damn...how sad.

    • @jordandavis2110
      @jordandavis2110 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jordan Davis 19 Will but This

  • @rareintuitions6111
    @rareintuitions6111 10 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Rip to my Aunt Lisa 3-10-74-12-24-11 happy early bday ima graduate for u and make u proud I swear I will

  • @Mclaren_karen
    @Mclaren_karen 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Dude responding to Shannon Brown on Shaderoom brought me back here. #classicmonica 💯🎶🎶

  • @desireewhite9431
    @desireewhite9431 10 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    you never know whatchu had until it's gone... goodbye

    • @jowinona
      @jowinona 10 ปีที่แล้ว

      Love this song had me in tears

    • @desireewhite9431
      @desireewhite9431 10 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ikr.. it's that feeling you have for some one who really doesn't care!!

  • @billnye3919
    @billnye3919 6 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Monica’s voice reminds me of a cloudy fall day, sipping hot chocolate with a double shot of henny 😍😍

  • @luguila9988
    @luguila9988 8 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I used 2 sing this song to the father of my kids when we used 2 fight o be mad at eachother😔 Never thought God will take him 2 soon! I miss you soooo much Terrelle! this song sure bring tears

    • @queensnowbunny5770
      @queensnowbunny5770 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sorry for your loss. A close call with death has helped me appreciate my husband daily!

    • @jenniferh8321
      @jenniferh8321 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      omg I cry to this song all the time my ante die😭😭😭

    • @jordandavis2110
      @jordandavis2110 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jordan Davis 19 We Though Will of

  • @krissyfox3056
    @krissyfox3056 8 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    This song is getting me thru...8years of BS...lose yo family over a bitch with NOTHING...PRAY FOR ME😩😥💔💔💔

    • @canishaj49
      @canishaj49 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Krissy FOX sweetie you can and will do it I was in a 6 yr relationship when this song first came out I was going through it it help me move on from my ex. I repeatedly played this song.

    • @Alwaysprofessional1
      @Alwaysprofessional1 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cee Ray keep praying. You will make it through

    • @chrystalhumphrey3159
      @chrystalhumphrey3159 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Krissy FOX praying for you

  • @shonybaby9982
    @shonybaby9982 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Dedicated to my ex fiance when you realize im really gone thats when you will love and appreciate me I wish you nothing but blessings may GOD be with you mind body and soul #I am free from you#Back to the boss I always been##

    • @lorrainedailey5556
      @lorrainedailey5556 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/_fz8YL6ynP4/w-d-xo.html

    • @saucedripkidd2
      @saucedripkidd2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      (And it was me ....miss me when I go) @ but I couldn't make them fight....(Ksha and erry B) # boss "SIRRI" yep Gone baby Gone...

    • @jordandavis2110
      @jordandavis2110 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Jordan Davis 21 gone be boss You

  • @MsNiknak30
    @MsNiknak30 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    she should've played this at the verzuz 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @kylthegoat145
      @kylthegoat145 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      i dont know why she didnt 🤦🏽‍♂️she would’ve killed with this one

  • @tatiannaa9457
    @tatiannaa9457 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Healing process….Strong enough to walk away … New Beginnings is on the way !

  • @jepps0
    @jepps0 8 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    I love me some Monica

    • @canishaj49
      @canishaj49 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      jonathan epps me too

    • @ashantigregg961
      @ashantigregg961 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This song is so sad

    • @ambitchoussenselessinjusti8314
      @ambitchoussenselessinjusti8314 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      She is the most real, authentic, beautifully natural and classiest hood with the voice of an ANGEL❤ Love her. The only other person that compares to her, what do the Anita Baker and Sade! But Monica is the true queen of R&B

  • @clementinemccray17
    @clementinemccray17 10 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    My crybaby ass!! That was a touching video never paid attention to it until now.

  • @didriannaoutler7829
    @didriannaoutler7829 9 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    It’s a shame you ain’t wanted when you had it... heey
    Gave my love and you took the shit for granted.. heey
    And it was me those nights that you didn’t come home
    Crying to my momma, blowing up your phone
    Just wait a little while, baby you gon’ see
    That this gon’ hurt you more than it hurt me
    One thing that I know for sure
    Is you gon’ miss me when I go
    And it’s gon’ hurt babe
    When you’re all alone
    I guess it’s true what people say
    You never know
    What you have until it’s gone
    You can never say I didn’t try..hey
    Gave my all but I couldn’t make you fight..heey
    And it was me those nights that you didn’t come home
    Crying to my momma, blowing up your phone
    Just wait a little while, baby you gon’ see
    That this gon’ hurt you more than it hurt me
    One thing that I know for sure
    Is you gon’ miss me when I go
    And it’s gon’ hurt babe
    When you’re all alone
    I guess it’s true what people say
    You never know
    What you have until it’s gone
    And I can’t say enough that it’s gon’ be me you’ll miss, no
    And I can’t say enough that it ain’t gon’ get no better than this
    I’m tryna make you realize
    I cried and I cried so many times
    But one thing I know
    It’s gon’ hurt when you go
    But one thing that I know babe
    One thing that I know for sure
    Is you gon’ miss me when I go
    And it’s gon’ hurt babe
    You’re all alone
    I guess it’s true what people say
    You never know
    I guess it’s true what people say
    You never know
    What you have until it’s gone

    • @lakyrralakyrra7310
      @lakyrralakyrra7310 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      this song hearts my ❤ i start crying it means sum to me

  • @tracylewis3789
    @tracylewis3789 8 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    I'm not sure if I want to get married anymore

    • @rickmack5045
      @rickmack5045 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      then don't

    • @brittaneyallen7056
      @brittaneyallen7056 8 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Girl I understand.. it's not just getting married but even when being in a relationship this happen.😞

    • @mimilabellabruja653
      @mimilabellabruja653 7 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      marriage is hard. don't do it if you're not ready and don't marry the wrong person.

    • @Brittiney-fz6tk
      @Brittiney-fz6tk 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeah me either.....it was something I always wanted but..1 relationship ruined it for me I'm scared of the heartbreaks the sadness ... This song put me in my feelings.i don't think there is really any good man left that only need and want 1 women

    • @antonioherbin5981
      @antonioherbin5981 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tracy Lewis Not if you have not took the time to know the one you plan on marrying it takes two to make it last I'm a 32 year old man but I see and understand where you and so many women like you are coming from relationship are not meant to be easy. Never forget you are a 💎 and we deserve 😍 long as it's given in return nothing is never easy has not been since the dawn of time we all know the story how we gotten to where we are today but there is 😍 out there and it's worth fighting for. If I could find and get to know you personally I'll 💍💒you you sound nice but unsure for all the wrong reasons marriage is only what you put into it not what you get out of it.

  • @maddiemafia2562
    @maddiemafia2562 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    When Monica said this gone hurt you more than it hurts me I swear I felt it in my soul

    • @laylatena
      @laylatena 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know the feeling

  • @kolewestlyn4814
    @kolewestlyn4814 10 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    This video and song breaks my heart.
    Monica is incredible and her voice is amazing, and gives me goosebumps.
    Plus, that little boy is adorable...

    • @leonshaw6417
      @leonshaw6417 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Until it's gone.monica.

  • @bmo_beautiful3368
    @bmo_beautiful3368 8 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I tried to make you realize...I cried and I cried so many times...But one thing that i know.... you gone miss me when i go! #SOPOWERFUL

  • @ronwash4727
    @ronwash4727 7 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    my husband told me he not in love with me nomore i think he ment Someone esle. So me and the leaving and he not fighting for our marriage and that hurt and i a good wife

  • @zoemnqosini6921
    @zoemnqosini6921 8 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    U will never knw until its gone.....oohhh those words r starting to cut me deep

  • @djlituation215
    @djlituation215 7 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Facts if someone love you pay attention cause you never know

  • @preciouswhite7915
    @preciouswhite7915 7 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    The saying is so true... He or she will miss you once you're gone...

  • @lkey2441
    @lkey2441 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    It’s 2020 I grew up to Monica and man dis song outta all her jams and TRUST she gots PLENTY! But dis one right here on repeat man it takes you to another space well for me it does and that is what REAL R&B suppose to do !

  • @iammusiq11
    @iammusiq11 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    This song was so underrated

    • @jamiascott2384
      @jamiascott2384 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Holliman McFatten I know it gives me goosebumps ❤️

  • @chavonroyal2173
    @chavonroyal2173 8 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    I want a divorce

    • @321cheesehead
      @321cheesehead 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      💀💀

    • @BAESOBEAUTIFUL
      @BAESOBEAUTIFUL 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Right

    • @micacroomes3806
      @micacroomes3806 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      So sorry it's gotten to that point but I understand.

    • @canishaj49
      @canishaj49 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Chavon Royal damn and this is my biggest fear. I'm afraid of marriage never want to divorce someone.

    • @chavonroyal2173
      @chavonroyal2173 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      what's meant will be

  • @lavonnyianevels5159
    @lavonnyianevels5159 10 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I luv this song but the sad thing is that its so true!!!

  • @nomalangamapurisa8846
    @nomalangamapurisa8846 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I've always been the good woman that gets hurt only for them to come back asking for another chance when it's too late 😪

    • @kiannapierre7500
      @kiannapierre7500 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Go and never look back think of all what you have been through what they took you through we are queens an deserve the world

    • @jordandavis2110
      @jordandavis2110 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jordan Davis 21 Always it’s for

  • @kristyf48
    @kristyf48 10 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Love this song brought me to tears! Love you monica

  • @alenastewart3820
    @alenastewart3820 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Sometimes I think it isn't worth it to be in a relationship or to try to love a man I'm just tired of being let down I'm very broken-hearted right now I can feel it in my soul and this song just makes me cry it is a beautiful song

  • @prettibone339
    @prettibone339 8 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    This song I've always loved, and this was my first time watching this video a week ago. I cried when I saw the beginning of the video it reminded me of my mommy and daddy. I lost my mommy in a car accident and she and my daddy were in a heated argument, like so and and drunk driver hit them head on. My mom went through the windshield and died on the spot and my dad, once he got out of his Coma, he left me never looked back. 😢😢😢😢😢 I now watch this video every single day..... This touched a soft spot in my heart....

    • @zuri957
      @zuri957 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Pretti Bone Oh I am so sorry to hear that. I hope your heart heals one day. As for your dad, one day he'll have to answer for abandoning you.

    • @mskells7236
      @mskells7236 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      DAM THAT WAS BRUTAL!!!! I'M SOOOO SORRY FOR YOUR LOST!!!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 BLESS YOUR HEART❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @prettibone339
      @prettibone339 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@zuri957 OMG! I apologize for the late reply.... Thank you so much for your words of encouragement.....

    • @prettibone339
      @prettibone339 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@mskells7236 Thank you so much for your condolences.... much appreciated...

    • @zuri957
      @zuri957 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@prettibone339 It is all good. You take care :-)

  • @Shinewithodette
    @Shinewithodette 7 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    who still listens in 2017

  • @chelsidnelson
    @chelsidnelson 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Why was this not on the battle?

  • @sylviafrancis3466
    @sylviafrancis3466 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    yes ladies it hurts and it stings bad but I thought I had someone in my life I thought I was the sh***.but I guess not he left me for a women right the street from me then since then I been feeling srry for her cuz after he left me he's cheating on her it's funnie the Gud Lord pulls us out of something and open our eyes and let us c whats really going on.

  • @bosskenzieford7687
    @bosskenzieford7687 10 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    This my song

  • @keemstubbs4638
    @keemstubbs4638 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Sigh I remember my ex gf dedicated this too me 😢 I remember I was so messed up back then!! I didn’t deserve her, she was a great person 😔

  • @rasheedarogers2766
    @rasheedarogers2766 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    this song makes me so sad whn yu wanted it wrk but yu knw its best fr yall 2 be apart yu cant make sme1 love yu 😢

  • @nicolegibau4023
    @nicolegibau4023 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Monica is a true 90s artist.. watching her video is like a musical❤❤

  • @antonioherbin5981
    @antonioherbin5981 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This song hurts me to my core I already lost to many it hurts bad I keep moving once you lost someone to a breakup or death the pain is forever there I believe with prayer and time it gets better, getting over pain of losing the love of your life or the lo_ of a love one takes years to deal with this song imbodys all these feeling pain in losing someone who meant so much by also learning to heal and deal with it excepting it. 😊

  • @carameldippturn8857
    @carameldippturn8857 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Anyone still listening in 2019? Don't miss me when I'm gone 😭

  • @stephbabii2227
    @stephbabii2227 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    love this song! Listen to it everyday. Heart break is so hard but know ima be ok

  • @bisolaamokomowo5135
    @bisolaamokomowo5135 7 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    l love Monica very real natural

  • @JAIMARKIA101
    @JAIMARKIA101 7 ปีที่แล้ว +373

    Listening in 2017...dis made me sad...I'm in tears😭😭😭😭💔

    • @stephaniehulitt773
      @stephaniehulitt773 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      princesss jayyy wat

    • @adrianoprea693
      @adrianoprea693 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm listening every year !!!♥♥♥♥

    • @keliyahb.4020
      @keliyahb.4020 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      princesss jayyy, wassup girl

    • @Raganf68
      @Raganf68 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jailynn Monfort ou

    • @ericabrown5336
      @ericabrown5336 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jailynn Monfort it goo hart boy

  • @BLACK_GODDESS7
    @BLACK_GODDESS7 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Came back here after hearing Commitment and Me+You ‼️😩😌

  • @carascreations9813
    @carascreations9813 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    we don't have songs or music like this anymore it's just sideline music or music about sex, music doesn't tell a story anymore well at least stories that are real like this or as connectable as this one .... still listening while in 2018 / 2019

  • @Krissyloveem
    @Krissyloveem 10 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Love Mo, she's so talented, beautiful, and humble.

  • @kellsthomas6792
    @kellsthomas6792 11 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    Im hurting so much my husband all he does is lie to me and cheat after 10 years together and 2 kids but KARMA has a way of getting back!!!!

    • @noname716ful
      @noname716ful 11 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      sorry to hear that

    • @mokka.australia
      @mokka.australia 11 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Im so sorry.. l wish you lots of love & incredible moments

    • @blahblahlick4709
      @blahblahlick4709 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Kells Thomas yeah, it's called divorce

    • @arypooh5600
      @arypooh5600 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Leave him he won't ever learn💯

  • @jettamarie2127
    @jettamarie2127 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Yess I understand this deeply I'm slowly healing

  • @nofacenocase866
    @nofacenocase866 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Whose here from the shade room???

  • @sunnipasha1834
    @sunnipasha1834 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    2023 and this video the concept the message the arrangement the vocals the acting….issssss STELLA … great song great job monica

  • @ErikaDenise1603
    @ErikaDenise1603 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    And it was me those nights that you didn't come home.
    I felt that 😔.

  • @Mad143
    @Mad143 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm here studying for the verzuz just realizing how much hits miss thang had. Damn this gone me good.

    • @lextionne2432
      @lextionne2432 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yessssssss! Can’t wait.

  • @odeolllccv762
    @odeolllccv762 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    8 years of dealing with all the lies and cheating I have gotten to my breaking point and he gone miss me when I'm gone

  • @eastside80s93
    @eastside80s93 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I bet nobody knew Jazmine Sullivan wrote this song 😉

  • @phillippingshaw3301
    @phillippingshaw3301 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Deep but real, don't take the one you love for granted.

  • @teeanna
    @teeanna 8 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    I cry everytime I see this video

  • @jjsquad4060
    @jjsquad4060 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Who is here 2024🎉

    • @Blanchhunter-qt6ll
      @Blanchhunter-qt6ll 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Girl me and I am still balling my eyes out every time I watch this video.

  • @Honest000w
    @Honest000w 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Living this now.... he gon miss me when up and and get married to a real man😂

  • @kobestrickland99
    @kobestrickland99 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    3:59 my favorite part gives me chills 😩

  • @msworldriri4182
    @msworldriri4182 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Who’s here in 2024 😢

  • @PheonixBrooks
    @PheonixBrooks 10 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thumbs up 2014 and still love this song

  • @ninah4072
    @ninah4072 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    THIS WILL ALWAYS BE SOLID. 💪🏿💯

  • @brendalockhart7568
    @brendalockhart7568 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This is a beautiful song. Monica sung her ass off on this song.🔥

  • @nikkithomas2929
    @nikkithomas2929 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This song cuts deep. It is very true that when you hurt the people you love, take them for granted and doing the things you know that isn't right, you truly understand why it is often said that you need to cherish every moment you are here on earth because you don't never know when it will be the last time you will see them again. Monica truly sets the standard in this song and I feel sad for the family losing their loved one.

  • @gabrielmarks6369
    @gabrielmarks6369 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I feel this song soo much. My mom is on a breathing machine right now fighting too stay here 😟