2 Years Of Infertility, Our Letrozole Experience, IVF? Adopting? Coping w/ Friends Getting Pregnant
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So proud of you for opening up about your experiences! It will happen god will find the time 🥺
thank you🥰
If you're struggling with your doctor, I'd suggest searching for a Naturopath in your area. After my obygn brushed me off for a few concerns I had, I looked into a naturopath and I'm so grateful that I found her. Mine specializes in feminine health and fertility and she has honestly changed my life
that sounds amazing! exactly what I want!
What med are you taking
@@SweetEmelynes I also used a naturopath and she lead me through using different supplements, acupuncture, cycle tracking and was able to get pregnant (and I deal with several health issues and hormonal imbalances)
Have you been tested for celiac disease (I have it)? It's an autoimmune disease that often comes with arthritis and often causes infertility prior to diagnosis and treatment.
I'm so sorry you're going through this - I am praying for you
Thanks for this video, I really needed to hear this. Me and hubby have been trying for 14 years now. Everyone around me is getting pregnant without even trying. Somedays it feels like God has forgotten about me. You will be an awesome mommy and you are amazing. Thanks for giving me hope again.
Needed this video Em. Literally seeing women all around me get pregnant and still nothing for my husband and I who have been trying for over a year. Literally so upset this week about it too. I already feel better💕 we are in this together.
I'm so sorry, we are in this together💞 I will be praying for you guys!
@@SweetEmelynes thank you 💕 you and Connor are also in ours🥺
So sorry to hear about your struggles. Sending prayers to you!🙏🙏
My best friend has been ttc for 2 years now. How should I tell her I’m pregnant when it happens? I don’t want to hurt her.
@@dpupo03 “when it happens?” Lol girl it’s a surprise for ALL OF US to be in this boat… don’t come in here acting like it’s gonna happen for you.
I really needed hearing this, my husband and I have been trying to conceive for almost three years and I trust in God and his plan. Every concern and thought you have are also in my head and I know our blessings are coming at the perfect time for Gods glory
I completely agree about trying to heal naturally first.. Sometimes when our bodies hurt we need to figure out what is wrong and if we can fix it naturally instead of numbing the pain with medication. Thankfully our Heavenly Father is a healer and is always there for us🥰💕
Amen!!! 💞💞
For whatever it's worth, I think everything you said is totally correct and that you're on the right path and have the right mindset entirely. I completely agree that it's just a timing issue. Sometimes it's not about when we want our babies, but when our babies want to be born. I've always felt that in my case. I'm 100% certain everything will work out perfectly for you both!
have you tried seeing a PA or NP? in my experience, they've been very good at listening to patients concerns and explaining as much as they can! Thank you for sharing your journey with us Em, can't wait to see something positive come from all this ♡
This video was so wonderful, thank you for being so open and vulnerable♡
thank you! it's scary but I hope it helps someone💞
I'm so hopeful for you while you're on this journey. 🥰 I will keep you and Connor in my prayers! I'm so proud of you for keeping a positive attitude and thank you for sharing your journey. It took my mom 3 months to conceive me and 9 years to conceive my little brother. She said she had literally given up hope of getting pregnant with him and took one last pregnancy test and found out she was expecting! ❤️
I understand what you're going through. You and I have actually had conversations about it before. I, thankfully, was very blessed with 4 babies, even a set of twins. But my twins are 18 now and ly youngest are 15 and 11. I have been trying to conceive for 8 years now. And nothing! I have had the painful experience of several people telling me "Well, you have had 4 babies. You just be happy with that. There are people who can't have any at all!" And I FULLY understand that. And I am totally thankful and grateful for my babies. I just never thought that my last baby would be my last baby. Each negative pregnancy test is still just as painful and I still cry and it still hurts so unbelievably bad! I'm reaching that stretch where they say it becomes harder to conceive. I'm 34 years old. I just try so hard to keep the faith that it will happen again for me. I know lots of woman who have had successful, healthy pregnancies well into their 40's. I just pray and leave it in God's hands! And it will happen for you too. You're going to be such a great Mom. I'll continue praying for you. Lots of love! 💗
Thank you for this video! We’ve been trying to conceive for 16 months now and I’m on my 3rd round of letrozole. I’m hoping the 3rd time is a charm! But I felt the same way with my doctor. She did one blood test then instantly prescribed letrozole and said I had PCOS even though I don’t have any qualifications for it. I feel like the medication is just a band aid and I wish I really knew what the issue is. God has a plan and does everything in his own time. We’re praying we get blessed with a baby though. We’re praying for you as well, thank you for sharing your story it’s so relatable!
You could always try an interview a few OBs and research them until you find one that aligns with your views.
Definitely!
my momma and dad tried so hard to conceive for years! they decided to visit hawaii to see my moms best friends (she grew up there). suddenly, coming back my mom got sick and she tested and she was pregnant! at 34 she was pregnant with me and i am 19 now 💞 she called me her hawaiian gift as a little kid. she is the best mom in the world. God gifted her a pregnancy at the perfect time and i am so glad to have her and my dad in my life. God will bring you a miracle!!!
I have seen your videos about your love for vintage items. This video turned out really great. I can relate to your fertility challenges. You are so articulate about this topic. I know how it feels to be brushed of by doctors or given minimal time. It is also hard to see children being born in terrible conditions. But our time will come too in the many possible ways you mentioned. You will be a great mom Emiline!
God Bless You 💕 we’ve been ttc for over a year. I absolutely relate to everything you have mentioned. God always has a plan. He is holding our hearts always. 💜
My acupuncturist/ naturopath specializes in fertility and woman’s health and it’s so important for your care provider to validate you and support you. ❤️
Sometimes we want something so much in a certain moment. And when you stop thinking about it or putting your mind in it and doing other things to continue to enjoy life and the time you have as a couple. When you least expect it, you will get the surprise. Don’t stress yourself. Enjoy your time together grow together Build each other up.
This is so helpful and so relatable! Thank you.
Hi! You're so beautiful and strong! You're the first girl that I've watch recently, who talk so calming and true to yourself. I'm 27 and me and my husband are trying to conceive since 05.2021 without success. Everyone is asking and reminding us that we don't have a kid yet. I'm taking supplements, eating healthy, trying to exercise, but it's not working, and almost all of my friends are pregnant at this moment. I felt so bad that deep down I envy them and get a bit sad that I'm not pregnant and they are. Of course I'm really excited for them and can't wait to see them as the amazing parents they will be. I'm sending you love and strength and I know that God has a special plan for you! Hugs from Bulgaria! ❤️
When my sister was TTC, she went to a natural chiropractor and he helped her out soo much and she was able to get everything healthy with their help, then conceived! I'd definitely find a natural doctor online and see reviews, etc! Praying for you on this journey, you'll be an amazing mommy 💖💖💖
Emelyne, my prayers have been with you and Connor since you shared you struggle a while back. I love your courage and it’s that courage that will see you with your baby in your arms one day. Remember God have Sarah a baby. God will give you both your babies. I truly believe that. I myself struggled in our own way on our journey to become parents. I’ve told you before but I suffered 2 awful miscarriages before finally having our son. It was a journey. But I look back now and know Gods timing was perfect. You will have your babies. I just know God will do this miracle. Bless you both xx
I‘m so thankful for these videos. I’m sure God sees something in your and/or Connor’s future, and it will be so big that it will take up your whole attention- and that‘s why it‘s not working. Or he sends you on this journey to bring light and reassurance to women in this situation, maybe he chose you as his spokes person because he knows you would do the job best. There are so many options and I‘m sure you‘ll manage them all, as you are such a strong woman, Emelyne. Never forget that!
God’s plan is not just planned by God. Both you and God are writing your life together. A dear friend of mine, who is a nun, told me this and that just made so much sense to me.
This sounds beautiful, but I can’t say that I agree. How can it be God’s will then? Sometimes God closes doors, so his will can be done. Not ours.
Hi Em, one of my friend was trying to conceive for year and half, as you said too she healed her health problems with food and vitamins and no medicines, when she healed her body naturaly,food and vitamins and acupuncture also helpes and she get pregnant :) i am sending you many prayers and hope ❤️ you and Conor will be best parents when time will be right for you two 🌸
You are taking all the right steps in your journey 💕 I know in my heart one day God will give you such a huge blessing, and you will look back and be thankful it didn’t happen sooner. I understand how hard infertility can be and comparing yourself to others when they get pregnant. Timing is everything. You will one day get your baby, and I know the wait will have just been a blessing in disguise 💕
Awww!! Thank you so so much!!🥰💞💞
I pray you’ll have your lil blessings soon 🌷🌷🌷🌻
Hang in there you guys. God does have something good in store for you 😊. Tom and I continue to pray for you both. We simply adore you 💕
I would really love to see more videos like this, especially diet related and supplements etc. ☺️
I tried for 3 years to conceive naturally after the first year I had every blood test, hsg, sonohysterography. My cycle was 28 days every month like clock work and would get positive ovulation tests every month exactly when it should be in my cycle. When a doctor recommended clomid 50mg to be taken with robitussin and followed by follicle study ultrasound it turns out when I would ovulate it was immature eggs or nothing at all. During the first cycle they could see the eggs growing but I never actually ovulated and got my period right on schedule. The doctor increased to 100mg with robitussin and another follicle study and finally I actually ovulated one egg. Im currently 31 weeks with identical twins and I know my journey may not be everyone's, but the comment you made about ovulation was how I saw myself and the confusion on why it's not happening if everything is basically 'perfect'. It's a hard journey and I wish you luck :)
It’s crazy to find someone with pretty much the exact same situation I’m going through. So comforting to remember I’m not alone. Almost 2 years of trying, about to begin my second round of Letrozole + IUI. Everyone around me getting pregnant 😂 but God has been so good to me, and it’s been a journey where I’ve seen how He walks with me. Nobody can really assure why it’s not happening, everything people say is speculation, BUT we can trust Him. I hope you can feel Gods nearness in this season.
Thanks for sharing your process it’s like talking to a sister my husband and I have been in this journey for two years and everyone around me is getting pregnant and some aren’t even trying and it’s hard for someone who really does want a baby. But Gods timing is perfect 🙏
Get the HSG testing done! I got pregnant 3 months later after finally doing that I think it definitely definitely helped!! and I took metformin ! Highly recommending talking to your OB doing that! It took us 18 months
That’s amazing!!! Congratulations!
This helped my soul. Thank you for sharing.
Hey Em! I recommend you try incorporating raspberries in your daily diet, it is said to improve chances of pregnancy 💕 good luck 😊
My HSG experience was completely painless! I took two ibuprofen before hand. I think I was more nervous than anything. I know some women can experience pain but I had no idea what was going on. Good luck!
Whatever you choose to do, will be the right decision. Don’t let mean comments get to you. I’m not religious so I can’t technically pray but I can definitely tell you I’m sending so much strength and love. You will be such an amazing mom 🤍
Oh, poor Connor with the comments about him. I feel you so much. I messaged you about my story on IG but now I question if my disclosure of my medical concerns was insensitive.
We are here for you. Don't let the haters get you down. You are making the best choices for you with the information you have.
Aww not at all! I don’t mind it but I just wanted to put it out there for anyone wondering ♥️♥️
I can’t wait for you to announce when you’re pregnant, you’re going to be the most amazing mother ❤️ your angel is floating in heaven waiting for the right time to come earth side!
Aww🥺💕 thank you so much!
You're so adorable 😍
It will happen just when you least expect it 💫
In case it hasn't been suggested before, you could try to track your basal body temperature. A good book on this is Taking Charge of Your Fertility. Crossing my fingers for you!
absolutely correct adoption is not for everyone. As Angie from This Gathered Nest says "you have to have the heart for it". It's not the same as a baby with the move toward foster to adopt programs, the trauma involved for the child, the whole process etc. The foster and adoption system is very difficult and heartbreaking and it's a lot to go through as parents.
I'm curious about adopting/fostering myself in the future but it is very emotionally demanding
Please do a video on how someone that is pregnant should tell a friend struggling with infertility that she is pregnant. Like what should they say or not say, in your opinion?
I’d probably send a text rather than face to face so if they get upset they can take a moment for themselves without getting embarrassed. And avoid any pity talk just tell her like you’d tell anyone else 💕 at least that what I would want
I can definitely do that!!
I don’t struggle with infertility but I do struggle with pregnancy loss and miscarriage. You’re videos help me so much to look on the brighter side of things! I’d love to follow your journey and see future videos of your healthy eating and lifestyle for trying to conceive. ❤️
i am praying for you! 💞
Have you tried ovulation test kits? My sister tried one a friend reccomended and it worked for them. Some women have a slim window like an hour and the tests tell you the exact time you are most fertile.
My friends and family are all having children and I'm a toddler teacher. I'm surrounded by children all the time yet some how can't manage to convince. One day hopefully, but in the mean time just spreading so much love to all the other kids in my life.
I’m so sorry, I can’t imagine how difficult that must be. I pray you conceive soon💞💞
I’ve got my HSG test next Tuesday after 17 months of TTC and having two miscarriages. A few of my friends have got pregnant throughout this time which has been tough but as you I’m happy for them but just sad for me and my husband. Wishing you all the best and praying for you and Connor xxx
I am getting my HSG next Tuesday too after 4 years of TTC. Good luck Girl! xoxo
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@@MsTiffanymakeup awww thank you, good luck to you too hun xxx
I will have you in my prayers. My partner and I are trying to conceive. I have a medical condition that can affect my fertility. I always get upset and happy when someone tells me they are excepting 😌 I wish you all the best xx
You and Connor would be amazing parents! ❤
I tried for a while and finally conceived after seeing a chiropractor. He adjusted my hips, pelvis, ect...may be worth a try!
Wishing you many blessings 🙏 ❤
thank you!
I have been trying for 5 years (I was 25 when I actively started trying) and someone suggested I get on the pill and towards my cycle I should just intentionally keep skipping.. And let me tell you, I'm holding my 4months old baby girl right now.
Wow thats the first time i hear this.
Praying for you💕
I’m sure it’s so hard I’m sorry still praying hard for your path to parent hood however you guys get there. Thanks for sharing 🌟
thank you for the support!
@@SweetEmelynes your welcome
I’m not try for a baby because my partner isn’t ready. But I really want to have a baby, so I also feel that when my friends tell me there pregnant. I’m super happy for them, but also feel this deep sadness for myself.
We were married for 17 and a half years before we got pregnant (really don’t recommend 40 & pregnant 😂). Tried a bunch of stuff and none of it worked. I have PCOS, which is a hard nut to crack... finally did the job by developing Type 2 diabetes, a common result of PCOS :( But! My cycle returned on the medication (Metformin) and less than a year later I was pregnant... worth it! He’s just about to graduate HS (next week). Auto-immune is a tough diagnosis... often only reached through elimination of everything else... and doctors are often unwilling to deal with it... they consider it a Cinderella condition, which means (to them) that it’s all in your head 😡 It is hard to deal with other people’s pregnancies, when that is your un-fulfilled heart’s desire. It sounds like you’re are able to have grace when people are insensitive, that’s a major achievement 💖 We did clomid and amped it up with some prednisone (one last time) and I turned into a crazy person 🤪 That was it for us! It only took another 10 years... Hang in there :) when it happens for you, you will truly be blessed and know it!
I've never been happy with doctors either lol!! My current OB prescribed me Premarin and it caused a yeast infection and I asked him if there were any symptoms, he said no.... smh. I'm still TTC, so thank you for this video!!
If you ever need to talk to someone who understands this whole journey I’m here for you as a sister in Christ 🥰 it took my husband and I 7 years and we went through the entire fertility journey. Anyway praying for you and keep your strong faith in the Lord he never disappoints 💓
Where are you girl?!?!?!
I miss you and your videos!
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I hope you're doing well!
God bless you Emelyne
Since you've had stomach issues, joint pain, anxiety, and with your troubles gaining weight in the past, have you considered celiac or gluten intolerance as possibilities? And since you do have one autoimmune disease you have a higher chance of having another. I don't want to be one of "those people" giving medical advice online but those were my exact symptoms along with lowish iron my whole life and I want you to have all of the options available to help you get a baby of your own in your arms 😊
I’ve actually been looking into that! It’s definitely something to talk about with my doctor! Thank you for reminding me!
You can also try acupuncture
I will pray for u always but keep on trying never give up ask God with all your heart !!!!
I’d like to encourage you to find a rheumatologist if you don’t have one. Without immunosuppressant drugs, joints will continue to deteriorate. There are medications that are cleared to take during pregnancy and breastfeeding that will prevent any further joint damage. It took me 5 years to get a diagnosis and unfortunately some damage had already been done that can’t be reversed.
I had one that I was going to when I got diagnosed but I was never prescribed medication, I will look into it
Miss Emelyne.....I'm so sorry that you're having such a difficult time. I say prayers for you all the time 🙏❤️. I don't have any children but stumbled upon a vlog channel here called "LeighAnnSays" she also struggled to conceive and her journey with the different methods. Maybe that would help to on your journey? God has a special plan for you my dear, I just know it!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏. Please give Mr Wilbur a hug for me, I love your darling puppy! 💕🐕
Aww thank you so much for the encouragement ♥️♥️♥️ I will look her up now, thank you!!
Am so Méxican 100% like so mexican that I believe in Mexican believes and and that Mexican woman believe in a massage but not any massage it has to be with somebody that knows how to do it regularly is old Mexican woman that does it Thant has experience doing it has experience in home labor but that massage is guaranteed it work because you say u are fertile and that your cycle is good so u should try this massage my mom did it because she couldn’t concive she got married at 19 and she dint have her first baby until she did the massage she was 29 years after the first born the same thing happened and she when back again when 12 years she couldn’t get pregnant again and again she got pregnant but doctors don’t believe in this things so really is to to each individual person but I believe because the same thing happens to me and my mom look for some lady here we are in California I whent and now am going to try for my third child
I wish that people would be more mindful of how they announce their pregnancy to those who are struggling with infertility. It is very hurtful. I hated hearing people say “ I can’t believe I’m pregnant again!” They act really upset when you wish so bad that it was you. A baby is always a gift from God! Praying for you and your husband! Sounds like you need to search for other doctors. Some times you need to take a break from trying and yes it’s Gods timing. God bless you for being so open. You are helping so many people with the same issue!
What you're saying is very selfish. "They act really upset when you wish so bad that it was you", just because you really want a child doesn't mean that they should not get to be upset about it. Not everybody is ready for a baby and they get to be upset if an unplanned pregnancy happens. Yes, a healthy baby is always a gift from God. Are you however always grateful for unexpected gifts that you never asked for?? No. Just because you badly want a baby, doesn't mean everybody wants one.
em, since you're an all natural type of person, maybe you can try something called grounding, or earthing. there are electrodes in the earth that connect to those in the body, which promotes health. i suggest doing the research, even watching the earthing movie which is on youtube. i wish you the best and lots of love💕
I’ve been hearing a bit about earthing and I’m very interested, I will look that up now! Can’t wait🥰 thanks for the suggestion!!
Have you tried EU Natural?
Try pink stork products, it’s all natural I tried it before starting my treatment with cabergolina, and got pregnant in 2 months I don’t know if it was the pink stork or the medicine but I doesn’t hurt to try 💕
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@@SweetEmelynes I know you will get pregnant sooner than you think 💕
@@SweetEmelynes I forgot to mention what truly helped me was the premom app and the strips trust and believe 💕
Hey girl, I rarely comment on videos but I just want to tell you that I work with a lady of 70 years old and she told us that when her and her husband were first married she was not on birth control for four years before she got pregnant, she believes it was just God’s plan for them. She later went on to have four children including twins
I want and over board fertility stuff lol. Definitely diet and supplements and stuff.
Your egg could be getting stuck in your ovary. Please look into this. It's a common cause of 'unexplained' infertility and can be worsened or caused by clomid. Quercetin and pine bark is supposed to help with this.
Sooo.... did your husband get tested to make sure he is fertile? Also, have you been tested for MTHFR?
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Have you had an ultrasound of your uterus? And checked for fibroids?
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I agree that adoption should not be for everyone. As someone who grew up around many families where adopted or who were going through the process, I can say that you have to really know what you are doing. You cannot romanticize the situation. Unless you adopt a newborn, that child has been through a lot of hell. There's going to be a lot of stuff that child will have to work through, and he or she will take it out on you, your other children, and those you know and care about. It won't probably be this glorious beautiful situation. You might even find yourself raising the children of your adopted children in the future. I know more than one family who has had this happen. It is a noble act, it is a risky decision, and people should adopt, but not everybody should. If you have other kids it is also important to prioritize them and their welfare. Sometimes adoption is not the right way to do that and is not fair to your other children. Some couples who don't' have children might not feel ready or lead to adopt and that is also ok.
As an adult adoptee please keep in mind that newborn adoption is also trauma. Adoption is always trauma.
@@laurenshank5803 Yes, I can see how that could be true. I don't personally have much experience with people who adopted newborns, only older children. Thanks for the information!
Would you ever consider surrogacy? You got this em 💛💛💛
I am curious as to what a horrible way is to tell someone? All I can think of is being cruel/egotistical about it.
Has your husband been tested for anything that could make it so you guys are struggling to conceive? I'm sorry if you've already answered this. I will be praying for you and your family!
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Have you scheduled an HSG?
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What about surrogacy? What if maybe your sister can carry the baby for yall. Praying for you 🙏
Check out Dr. Natalie Crawford! She’s an REI and has a super informative TH-cam channel and Insta 💕 thank you for being honest and vulnerable.
Jesús is Life: Delight thyself in the Lord and he will give thee the desires of thy heart! He is the creator of the heavens and the earth. God knows you and your heart he knows what’s best for you I hope & pray that Both of you will be prepared when it is his time to bless you with children. You have a beautiful heart and you will be a wonderful loving mother! ❤️💎May God bless you & help you grow in wisdom & spiritually May his light shine upon your life. Babies are blessings of God look up to him. Put him first All things are possible with God! 🌸
Try a nurse practitioner. They will give you more time and won't rush you.
Where have you been? Are you ok?
She still posts on her other channel Our little Nest
@@katelyn7335 Thank you!!!
Found her!
Not to be rude but did you ever get pregnant?
You don’t have to take my suggestion at all that’s completely up to you. But please change doctors. Listening to your patience and having good bedside manner is one of the most important things. It sounds like your doctor is not listening to you in the way that is needed. I would suggest you look at other midwifery‘s, Homeopathic. Even just a different doctor in a different practice. It sounds like she is not listening to you. I am so sorry that your doctor is making you feel this way. And if you do decide to change doctors. Make sure you take your medical records from that office to the new one.
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You should consider going/finding a holistic doctor! Lysm 💛you’ll be the best momma one day when it’s your time!
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I wonder about that as well...
She literally addressed this in the video.
@@cysterforever1861 did you watch the video?