The one and only time I had an tattoo artist talk me out of something was the placement he said that on the hand well it was where my hand and wrist met the skin is constantly bending that it would look good for a few years than the lines would like start to blur out and I totally see that happening now with another tattoo I have
in case anyone needs a reminder you can ALWAYS stop a tattoo. whatever your reason is it’s enough. it’s your body and you have full control over what goes on it. also, tattoos only have the meaning you give them and it doesn’t have to make sense to anyone.
I was about to say all this too. As well as what you mentioned about them having the meaning you give them. Now whether she likes it or not, it's still a quirky story and has meaning. She shouldn't lie and say its cuz she likes cherries as her fav fruit. Lmao kinda feel like this is a bait video tbh
@@kavishurethireswaran2748 I mean the action of stopping is objectively easier than the action of tattooing for the artist, it’s not like the guns move automatically. It would just be a matter of what they’d be doing about the 1/3 of a tattoo making her hand look weird but it might just be up to her to have someone else do a cover up
To be a people pleaser to this extent can’t be healthy for anybody you literally sacrificed your own skin for some stranger you will never see again, honestly I’m heartbroken for you 😔💔
Girl, you're the customer. You can be assertive and change your mind without being disrespectful to the artist. This is you're body. You get the final decision what goes on or in it. You shouldn't feel obligated to get permanent art etched into your body to please others.
It's not a meaningless tattoo It's a symbol of your spontaneous spirit and a reminder to stick up for yourself in the future so other people don't end up dictating your life!
as a tattoo artist, I would never question somebodys choice or placement. and if a tattoo artist talks to you like that walk out and don't get tattooed. you deserve better than that
My tattoo artist messed up and because he kept questioning me and pressuring me to change the design, I gave in. Was pretty upset when I realized, but that place isn’t there anymore so it probably went out of business anyway
For me I like one's with deep meaning but still whimsical. I only have one tattoo and it's the dragon age inquisition symbol. Seems silly to get a video game tattoo but it was a game that my sister and I really bonded over. So for my 27th birthday we got matching dragon age tattoos
Never let a tattoo artiest coerce you out of what you want. And you can absolutely always tell them to stop if you don’t want to continue. Edit: for some reason people can’t comprehend my opinion above. Some people are taking huge offense to what i said and for what? This is my opinion. As a person who is covered in tattoos, and has personally experienced an artist trying to change an idea and placement then ended up not liking it. I would hate for someone else to have to go through that as well. Also, just because you don’t agree with someone’s post doesn’t mean you need to berate them in the comments. Come on people, let’s do better.
Well no you can’t you’re just gonna walk around with half a tattoo😂 I think the cherries are cute actually but I think the flowers would have been prettier
@@cloozy7318 he put the doubt in her head and questioned her decision. But thank you for picking apart the comment for one word I said. How bored are you?
@@nicoleayala4153 she could of stopped him while he was putting on the stencil, while he was pulling his first line. There were multiple spots where she could of stopped him. But thanks again for your unnecessary comment.
As a tattoo artist myself, I would've given you the darn flowers. It's your body, the artist's job is to make sure the design is placed well on your hand and to get the design there safely.
Exactly. You guys can give advice, of course.. But if someone really wants a tattoo on a certain place, it'll be their own decision. My tattoo artist is ALWAYS allowed to give me her advice. she is allowed to give her opinion and shows me her idea if she has one. But if I`d disagree and say no to her idea, she'd not argue and do what I`d tell her to do.
My tattoo artist doesn't questions me about where i want my tattoos he just tells me how long its going to be and if its going iver a scar he tells me its likely going to hurt more but otherwise he just does it
Tattoos don’t need meanings, you can get whatever you want just because you like it and that’s meaning enough. That being said PLEASE DO NOT let artists bully you into something you don’t want or wouldn’t like. It’s YOUR body! Tattoo artists will occasionally tell you if something isn’t possible or won’t look good. He didn’t even do that just bullied you into a different tattoo! I think the flowers were beautiful, I do like your cherries too!
It didn’t sound like the person was trying to bully her into a different tattoo just questioning if she wanted it there because since it’s thin and small it would have hurt or possibly looked a bit awkward for placement purposes. So the person was just figuring out if that’s what she wanted, and I can see how she was like “uh, no” because sometimes it sound as they are like YOU SHOULDNT DO THAT. Most people don’t mean it that way just considering how it will play out in the end
You can ABSOLUTELY tell them to stop. This is forever. After they’re done they forget about you while you have to live with it FOREVER. You don’t want to speak up to your hairdresser or nail tech fine whatever, that’s not forever , but a TATTOO artist, you better SPEAK UP no matter how intimidating they may look
@@shisuiuchiha1201 Obviously no. But like, the less they've already done, the less there is to laser off or cover up? Like, if you're lucky and regret it with only a few lines, those can be used for some other small tattoo that you actually might like.
Well… cherries mean something new. And the fact you got the tattoo spontaneously also brings about same meaning. So it can remind you to be brave, never be afraid to try something new. In Japan it also means good fortune.
I always thought cherries reminded people of virginity. I am today years old when I saw someone say it actually reminded them of boobs.. and I can't even see why too cause cherries aren't actually round they're heart shaped without the pointed bottom.
@@brattCatt_ it is, but rather than focus on virginity as a sexual innuendo we can see it as an experience. A virgin experience could mean a new experience, doesn’t have to be pervertic/sexual; in my opinion 😃 like a metaphor.
If you do really hate it, that’s actually the easiest kind of tattoo to remove. It’ll take a few sessions since it’s so fresh but because it’s all black, the laser will remove it with ease. It might be worth looking into if you find yourself continuing to not like it.
I got two tattoos similar in size, all black, regretted them instantly. Did my first laser session and it was a piece of cake! Never looking back. Should be done in 3-5 sessions.
To anyone who is considering a tattoo in the future: If a tattoo artist mocks you, makes you doubt your choice, or anything like tha, RUN FOR THE HILLS DO NOT LET THEM PUT SOMETHING ON YOUR BODY PERMANENTLY. A GOOD Tattoo artist should make you feel comfortable no matter WHAT. They should be encouraging and offer advice at the MOST (in terms of trying to make the placement look as good as possible). If you ever feel uncomfortable, anxious, or doubtful because of a comment the tattoo artist makes, do NOT ever let the artist make you feel anything short of excited and comfortable.
yesss it's okay to say no, it's okay to take a second and take control of your stuff. Your life is yours. Whether you're people pleasing or not, You Deserve Better and you're never an ass for leading the life you want/letting people know that. never. no matter what people say, it's okay to take your time and figure things out for yourself. if you're scared of rude criticism or belittling statements, just know that comes from their own irrational insecurities, and it's not your job to fix them. i know sometimes we imagine people are meaner than they actually are but whether they are or not love yourself enough. *cough cough* ok, i got carried away with personal stuff but if it helps anyone that's the point💖💖💙💙 ps: this isn't abt anyone just my personal advice
gotten all my tattoos by this one girl purely because she encourages every choice and helps me when im undecided. find a tattoo artist you trust is all i can say
U shouldn't regret a tattoo just bc it's meaningless some of the most beautiful pieces of art in the world are meaningless to the artist but in the eyes of the beholder you create a meaning over time and enjoy it for what it is to you trust me I've regretted tattoos that over the years I now love due to past experiences so just wait and don't let anyone change your vision bc flowers would've looked great there
I stood up to my most recent artist and he did first sketch up... I had him erase everything and do it again with more specific details... my pickiness paid off because it's honestly my favorite tattoo ❤
You absolutely can say stop even after they’ve started. At any point you can tell them, “hey I think I might have acted on impulse, and I don’t think this is going to work out”! Also please don’t take off second skin like that 😫 you’re supposed to stretch it off, not pull it down! ~ your friendly neighbourhood tattoo artist
One thing you should know is NEVER let a tattoo artist second guess your option. If you chose a tattoo and they judge or try to change it for you instantly leave. They sneaky and they'll try to change it up mid tattoo and go "oh I thought this was a cool little detail"
Yeah that’s what happened with mine. I ended up giving in and then finding out after-the-fact that he messed up and that’s why he kept pressuring me to change it. Oh well. Not like I’m gonna pay to get that part removed so it’s whatever
Its ok, you dont have to lie, instead you can say: "I just thought the cherries were cute, I actually like (your favorite fruit) so please dont judge me, its my opinion and I think its cute." Please do that, I love your vids! ❤🍒
my time working in a tattoo studio has taught me that you should NEVER be afraid to set your boundaries with an artist! i was fortunate to work with two really amazing and compassionate artists, but that also meant we heard a LOT of stories from clients that had been treated poorly and felt like they couldn't speak up. even if you're MID TATTOO, you can ALWAYS say stop. ❤
If any artist that touches your body says that kind of thing, be it tattoo or hair or makeup etc, get up and walk. Now, if they are advocating for you ("that colour might not look good on you/your hair can't handle that and here's why" or "having a tattoo like this has this history" etc) that's very different, but you as the canvas ALWAYS have the last say. Signed, a hairstylist who always advocated for her clients.
they didnt “dictate” they literaly just asked where she wanted it and if it was a good idea to put it on her hand and she started freaking out grow a backbone and stop blaming others for your own bad choices because you couldnt figure out what you wanted
@@foreverl0vingherIf the tattoo artist said it in a judging tone like she did, then he was completely judging her and her choices. This is a form of guilting someone out of it, especially those with low confidence. If it's a spot that won't go that well, a good artist will explain why and talk to you about where else you would like it. He wasn't being professional
The thing about tattoos is, they dont have to have this super deep back story. Tattoos are (but not just) for personal expression so if somebody asks why just say "bc i wanted to"
Tattoo removal usually costs $200 to $500 per session, so max, you probably spend $1500 to get it removed. Or you could get it covered up for a lot less.
just a reminder tattoos don’t have to have a special deep meaning related to the things depicted in them to be tattoos! they can just be fun things to remember an event in your life so even if cherries in general have no significance to you, the experience which you gained that tattoo from could! it could be a daily reminder to not care what people think and instead go with what feels right for you (if u do want a meaning to the tattoo that is). you can always get the flower somewhere else
Stay firm with your decisions unless the artist has a valid reason behind their critique of placement or design. I have no clue why they would suggest you get something that you didn’t even ask for ☹️
A good artist could turn these into flowers easily. If you don't like them still, that's an option! Luckily since they're not bold heavy lines, and it's a relatively simple tattoo, covering it up with flowers would be done quite simply. ❤
If a tattoo artist judges where you want the placement obviously not when it comes to how the tattoo will stretch then you need to run. Don’t WALK just RUN!
I think a possible reason he said “you want it there” is because the flower seems to have a bit more detail and more intricate - hand/near hand tattoos don’t last as long than other body parts. I’ve had this similar situation on my feet and I just said do it anyways. The cherry looks like such an easy cover up if you’d ever like to do so.
Well there’s also the fact that as a professional he has to take into account how a tattoo is going to look and wear down and even apply to a specific area on the body in the long run. There was probably an issue with the placement and the way the flower would have to be applied. He wasn’t being needlessly judgmental, he was being professional judgmental which is his job. Yes, he probably could have explained better, but to be fair, she could have also asked. 🫤
He probably didn’t even have a negative tone and was just making sure she was certain about getting a highly visible hand tattoo of fine line work that is going to fade badly
The artist didn’t push her to get cherries, all they ask was you “want it there?” She got freaked out and played it safe by choosing something everyone else was getting. This is why you shouldn’t give a damn of what others think because a simple comment can have you paranoid about life decisions.
I mean this in the nicest way possible. No one cares why you got cherries tattooed on you and nobody is judging you for it. They’re cute and that’s it.
Getting any kind of flash/spontaneous tattoo is a riskier move for regret than a planned one - now factor in that it’s on your hand. It was a bold move from the start regardless of the design picked. Though of course impulsively going against what you originally picked for yourself did increase risk of dissatisfaction even more
Ppl suck 🙄 why would he even ask you like that. Dude some ppl are just haters even “professionals” the flower would have been darling and also the style would have matched the birds….BUT the cherries are still very lovely 💕
Don't do flash. Go in with a plan, what means a lot to you, typically what means something to you won't be up on a wall for you to easily select. If something meaningful is available via flash, count yourself lucky but know that many others have the same exact tattoo though too.
As a tattooer this is my worst fear! We can’t always tell what you’re thinking, speak up! I know some tattooers are judgy assholes but you need to advocate for yourself! I’d much rather my client change their mind and tell me than have me work on and complete a piece that they’re not happy with
Looks like I’m on a video call with my friend and she’s telling me about her childhood memories 😂girl I can listen you all day ❤❤I don’t know why but hearing you make me feel at peace
Just for everyone who's planning on getting a tattoo: THEY ARE PERMANENT. I know that seems obvious, like duh, but do not get one on the spot or let yourself be talked into getting one. You want something you will love for the rest of your life, so do not be afraid to turn the artist down or say stop. Coming from someone who hates a part of their tattoo because they were afraid to say stop. It's YOUR tattoo and it's PERMANENT. Just keep that in mind!
@@trishafilm Mine isn't so bad I need to get lasered, but he ruined my favorite part because I didn't explain enough and when he went for the wrong part I didn't stop him. It is still gorgeous and I'm glad I didn't have to go through getting it lasered but I still look down sometimes and I think about how pretty it was before and how much he ruined it and how I let him. It really sucks. I'm sorry that you had to have yours lasered 🤧
Girl, you totally CAN tell the artist to stop even mid tattoo session ! Follow your intuition and never let artists influence you if you're not 100% on board with their advice. And if it can give any consolation, it really looks cool AND your tattoos don't have to have meaning to be amazing. But if you still don't like it, it probably shouldn't be too hard to cover or laser off if you'd like
How can you be a people pleaser when it comes to something that will permanently be on your body? You gotta speak up and advocate for what you want girl!
The flowers would have been cute right there! Don’t let others make you question your own self and intuition!
Girl where are your comments at?
@@kpopmultistan7289 idk what that means! Forgot to mention that the tattoo is beautiful regardless 💗 No regrets! YOLO
@@aliza7132 you had 1.4k likes but zero comments.
@@kpopmultistan7289 oh hah thanks for explaining!
@@aliza7132 no problem
Its not meaningless tho, now its a reminder to speak up for yourself and advocate for what you want.
good point!
omg I love that
Smart
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Hiiii ❤
that tattoo will be a constant reminder why confidence and standing up for yourself is so important
Get it laser it off
Nice interpretation!
And that makes it not meaningless. Way to keep it positive.
Omg I love that! Idk why but this just radiates positivity, and made my day🧿
@@mrace7526❄️
NOOO THE FLOWERS WOULD HAVE BEEN SO CUTE WITH THE BUTTERFLYSS!!!
DONT EVER let your artist talk you out of your choice. If they can’t give positive suggestions they aren’t an artist that should be tattooing you
Exactly the only time an artist should talk you out of your choice is if the location might be a health or safety issue
"I couldn't say no" ...... um ......
The one and only time I had an tattoo artist talk me out of something was the placement he said that on the hand well it was where my hand and wrist met the skin is constantly bending that it would look good for a few years than the lines would like start to blur out and I totally see that happening now with another tattoo I have
Sissss ❤
”Don’t ever” - that’s simply not true. In most cases you should absolutley listen to your artist when they try to make you reconsider stuff
in case anyone needs a reminder you can ALWAYS stop a tattoo. whatever your reason is it’s enough. it’s your body and you have full control over what goes on it. also, tattoos only have the meaning you give them and it doesn’t have to make sense to anyone.
Plus it's way easier to add to and change an unfinished design than it is to do a cover up.
I was about to say all this too. As well as what you mentioned about them having the meaning you give them. Now whether she likes it or not, it's still a quirky story and has meaning. She shouldn't lie and say its cuz she likes cherries as her fav fruit. Lmao kinda feel like this is a bait video tbh
This! 💯
@@kavishurethireswaran2748 I mean the action of stopping is objectively easier than the action of tattooing for the artist, it’s not like the guns move automatically. It would just be a matter of what they’d be doing about the 1/3 of a tattoo making her hand look weird but it might just be up to her to have someone else do a cover up
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The flowers would of looked so cute bc the butterfly's are on the other hand
Girl they are so cute ❤
Do u know what butterfly's mean
To be a people pleaser to this extent can’t be healthy for anybody you literally sacrificed your own skin for some stranger you will never see again, honestly I’m heartbroken for you 😔💔
Girl, you're the customer. You can be assertive and change your mind without being disrespectful to the artist. This is you're body. You get the final decision what goes on or in it. You shouldn't feel obligated to get permanent art etched into your body to please others.
I totally get her tho, i'd freeze too!!
id never have tattoo indecisively
Yeah but he’d already started
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It's not a meaningless tattoo It's a symbol of your spontaneous spirit and a reminder to stick up for yourself in the future so other people don't end up dictating your life!
Thissssssss
Omg a similar situation happened to me and your comment made me feel so happy 🥹❤
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Exactly, she needs to turn it into something positive, a reminder to listen to her gut. I love your comment.
Or her passiveness and ability to be bulldozed about decisions in a moment’s time.
The cherries are really cute tho!! 🍒
They still look really pretty! If you didn’t say you hated it no one would know ❤
as a tattoo artist, I would never question somebodys choice or placement. and if a tattoo artist talks to you like that walk out and don't get tattooed. you deserve better than that
All good tattoo artist know to Atleast do that with names tattoos & depending on the circumstances sometimes even refuse
@@alexisrene5854 aint a name tho
Okay but I really don't think he was questioning her. He was probably just asking for confirmation
@preeti "are you sure you wanna get it thete?" *insert raised eyebrow and curious judgmental tone and look*
Yeah but you also shouldn’t get a hand tattoo if you have no other tattooed lmao a lot of artist won’t do it because you’ll just regret it
Never let the tattoo artist make you question yourself, you know what you want and that's all that should matter
And for the tattoo artist to question her on where to put the tattoo is so unprofessional to be honest
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@@tarawright1287how are you supposed to do the tattoo if you don't know where to put it?
@@cee4real.there’s a difference between confirming the placement and judging the placement
My tattoo artist messed up and because he kept questioning me and pressuring me to change the design, I gave in. Was pretty upset when I realized, but that place isn’t there anymore so it probably went out of business anyway
*Keep up the amazingly fabulous work!*
In the future never get a tattoo without having a few weeks minimum of thinking it over, you’ll end up regretting it.
Tattoos don't always have to have the most profound deep meaning ever, they can just be fun and whimsical
Thats different for different people. For some that is fine, for others it isnt
For me I like one's with deep meaning but still whimsical. I only have one tattoo and it's the dragon age inquisition symbol. Seems silly to get a video game tattoo but it was a game that my sister and I really bonded over. So for my 27th birthday we got matching dragon age tattoos
for my birthday i’m getting two lil smiling bananas in cowboy hats >:)
Some have meanings while others are just plain ol’ fun! Like Medusa, and the semi-colon !! I do believe there’s both meaning and fun in tattoos!!
@@bugsarecool5555 that’s adorable
Never let a tattoo artiest coerce you out of what you want. And you can absolutely always tell them to stop if you don’t want to continue.
Edit: for some reason people can’t comprehend my opinion above. Some people are taking huge offense to what i said and for what? This is my opinion. As a person who is covered in tattoos, and has personally experienced an artist trying to change an idea and placement then ended up not liking it. I would hate for someone else to have to go through that as well.
Also, just because you don’t agree with someone’s post doesn’t mean you need to berate them in the comments. Come on people, let’s do better.
Well no you can’t you’re just gonna walk around with half a tattoo😂 I think the cherries are cute actually but I think the flowers would have been prettier
@@cloozy7318 he put the doubt in her head and questioned her decision. But thank you for picking apart the comment for one word I said. How bored are you?
@@nicoleayala4153 she could of stopped him while he was putting on the stencil, while he was pulling his first line. There were multiple spots where she could of stopped him. But thanks again for your unnecessary comment.
@@nicoleayala4153 it’s much easier to cover up a couple lines than an entirely finished tattoo
@@TheTruthHurtss of something as simple as asking if you’re sure that you want a tattoo for life then maybe don’t go get one .
The butterflies could be going yo the flowers that would be so cute 🥺
Ohhh no I feel you 😭 altho it's best to listen to ur heart 🥹
As a tattoo artist myself, I would've given you the darn flowers. It's your body, the artist's job is to make sure the design is placed well on your hand and to get the design there safely.
Yeah
Yhhhh
Exactly.
You guys can give advice, of course.. But if someone really wants a tattoo on a certain place, it'll be their own decision.
My tattoo artist is ALWAYS allowed to give me her advice. she is allowed to give her opinion and shows me her idea if she has one. But if I`d disagree and say no to her idea, she'd not argue and do what I`d tell her to do.
My tattoo artist doesn't questions me about where i want my tattoos he just tells me how long its going to be and if its going iver a scar he tells me its likely going to hurt more but otherwise he just does it
Cherries symbolize innocence, peace and fertility. It's actually really pretty :'
Also boobies
Love this! 🍒
Also good wealth
Who came up with that 😂?
Also balls
The cherry looks so oo oo good I love it it's just aesthetic ❤
It’s cute! And it will probably fade quickly being on your hand, so if you don’t like it you should be able to get it covered relatively soon
Cherries represent purity and innocence whilst being the symbol of friendship so no, nothing is meaningless especially that tattoo 😊
399 likes and no comments lemme change that
Not to be wired, but cherry also has a different meaning 😏
@@slayallday9389 😶
@@just_.a._girl Awww thx 😊
@@-CatwithaK- np
Tattoos don’t need meanings, you can get whatever you want just because you like it and that’s meaning enough. That being said PLEASE DO NOT let artists bully you into something you don’t want or wouldn’t like. It’s YOUR body! Tattoo artists will occasionally tell you if something isn’t possible or won’t look good. He didn’t even do that just bullied you into a different tattoo! I think the flowers were beautiful, I do like your cherries too!
yeah!!! im getting a hello kitty tramp stamp and a heart on my shoulder lol no reason at all just pretty
@@xx_iheartgirlz.mp3_xx i have a mermaid and a pinky promise! They have vague meanings but mostly just because I liked them😂
It didn’t sound like the person was trying to bully her into a different tattoo just questioning if she wanted it there because since it’s thin and small it would have hurt or possibly looked a bit awkward for placement purposes. So the person was just figuring out if that’s what she wanted, and I can see how she was like “uh, no” because sometimes it sound as they are like YOU SHOULDNT DO THAT. Most people don’t mean it that way just considering how it will play out in the end
This!!! I have 2 tattoos planned out with no meanings, I just like them :D
Exactly the comment I was looking for!
Hey! Don’t be so hard on yourself. Cherries are good! ❤😂
I have a cherry tattoo too, and it's my favourite one! I got it for my dog though, who's name is Cherry. 😂
No hate to the tattoo artist! He did such an amazing job! ❤️
Yeah it’s very cute! Maybe you would like it better if it was smaller? Like a mini tattoo lol!
He shouldn’t have questioned your first choice. He was wrong for that.
It’s looks so amazing!💖
Good tattoo, bad service.
But its so cute anyway
You can ABSOLUTELY tell them to stop. This is forever. After they’re done they forget about you while you have to live with it FOREVER. You don’t want to speak up to your hairdresser or nail tech fine whatever, that’s not forever , but a TATTOO artist, you better SPEAK UP no matter how intimidating they may look
yeah lets say half way through a tattoo "ohh nah actually just erase that real quick "
@@shisuiuchiha1201 Obviously no. But like, the less they've already done, the less there is to laser off or cover up? Like, if you're lucky and regret it with only a few lines, those can be used for some other small tattoo that you actually might like.
Good thing we dont live "forever" then
you didn't have to call me out with not speaking up to my hairdresser 😔✊🏾
It’s NOT forever. Go to a dermatologist and have it lasered off.
The flowers have been really cute right there, but since the cherries are already there, you could try getting a tattoo over it or just leave it
Yo the butterflies and that flower wouldve gone soo well y the heck did you let him do that to you
Well… cherries mean something new. And the fact you got the tattoo spontaneously also brings about same meaning. So it can remind you to be brave, never be afraid to try something new.
In Japan it also means good fortune.
Exactly
i need someone like you in my life lol
To me, cherries represent a certain organ used for feeding babies.
I always thought cherries reminded people of virginity. I am today years old when I saw someone say it actually reminded them of boobs.. and I can't even see why too cause cherries aren't actually round they're heart shaped without the pointed bottom.
@@brattCatt_ it is, but rather than focus on virginity as a sexual innuendo we can see it as an experience.
A virgin experience could mean a new experience, doesn’t have to be pervertic/sexual; in my opinion 😃 like a metaphor.
If you do really hate it, that’s actually the easiest kind of tattoo to remove. It’ll take a few sessions since it’s so fresh but because it’s all black, the laser will remove it with ease. It might be worth looking into if you find yourself continuing to not like it.
I got two tattoos similar in size, all black, regretted them instantly. Did my first laser session and it was a piece of cake! Never looking back. Should be done in 3-5 sessions.
Plus it would be possible to go over it, it’d be kinda big, but i would think someone could do a coverup with flower(s)
@@bfso96 that would be very lucky because most tattoos, especially newer ones, will take a lot more sessions than 3-5
The cherries aren't all bad. However, I personally think that the flowers would have looked really cute over there!
For what its worth, i think it looks really cute ❤
The flower would have been so cute with the butterflies 😭
Bruh don’t make her feel bad
@@abboyaboyashe’s trying to be comforting
To anyone who is considering a tattoo in the future: If a tattoo artist mocks you, makes you doubt your choice, or anything like tha, RUN FOR THE HILLS DO NOT LET THEM PUT SOMETHING ON YOUR BODY PERMANENTLY. A GOOD Tattoo artist should make you feel comfortable no matter WHAT. They should be encouraging and offer advice at the MOST (in terms of trying to make the placement look as good as possible). If you ever feel uncomfortable, anxious, or doubtful because of a comment the tattoo artist makes, do NOT ever let the artist make you feel anything short of excited and comfortable.
yesss it's okay to say no, it's okay to take a second and take control of your stuff. Your life is yours. Whether you're people pleasing or not, You Deserve Better and you're never an ass for leading the life you want/letting people know that. never. no matter what people say, it's okay to take your time and figure things out for yourself.
if you're scared of rude criticism or belittling statements, just know that comes from their own irrational insecurities, and it's not your job to fix them.
i know sometimes we imagine people are meaner than they actually are but whether they are or not love yourself enough.
*cough cough* ok, i got carried away with personal stuff but if it helps anyone that's the point💖💖💙💙
ps: this isn't abt anyone just my personal advice
gotten all my tattoos by this one girl purely because she encourages every choice and helps me when im undecided. find a tattoo artist you trust is all i can say
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U shouldn't regret a tattoo just bc it's meaningless some of the most beautiful pieces of art in the world are meaningless to the artist but in the eyes of the beholder you create a meaning over time and enjoy it for what it is to you trust me I've regretted tattoos that over the years I now love due to past experiences so just wait and don't let anyone change your vision bc flowers would've looked great there
Never be afraid to stand up to your artist. Not standing up to them is like ASKING to regret your tattoo.
I stood up to my most recent artist and he did first sketch up... I had him erase everything and do it again with more specific details... my pickiness paid off because it's honestly my favorite tattoo ❤
@@MyKeturah I feel this and I hate the idea were being "picky" for simply asking for what we want and will live with forever. ):
You absolutely can say stop even after they’ve started. At any point you can tell them, “hey I think I might have acted on impulse, and I don’t think this is going to work out”!
Also please don’t take off second skin like that 😫 you’re supposed to stretch it off, not pull it down!
~ your friendly neighbourhood tattoo artist
Why should you not peel it back like that? 😮Just curious. I’ve always peeled mine back.. oops 😅
She doesn’t want half a cherry
How do you stretch something off? Jw
@@cartoomist6548 it would be easier to cover up or remove in the future
@@geraldinelafayette1838 you pull up/back instead of up and off.
Now the tattoo symbolises being confident and sure with your decisions. ❤ It looks pretty tho...
The flowers would have been a better choice in contrast with the butterfly's
Either ways THEY LOOK GORGEOUS ON YOU THOOO
One thing you should know is NEVER let a tattoo artist second guess your option. If you chose a tattoo and they judge or try to change it for you instantly leave. They sneaky and they'll try to change it up mid tattoo and go "oh I thought this was a cool little detail"
right!!! i know they’re artists but man just stfu and give me what we agreed on
It reminds me of the tattoo artist that when the guy asked for a lion or something he added unwanted details
Yeah that’s what happened with mine. I ended up giving in and then finding out after-the-fact that he messed up and that’s why he kept pressuring me to change it. Oh well. Not like I’m gonna pay to get that part removed so it’s whatever
I have 11 tattoos
@@daniellegoodwin8240and? 🤨
Weird, irrelevant flex lol, but hey- go off booboo
You can ABSOLUTELY say stop. A good artist would never pressure you into anything.
Its ok, you dont have to lie, instead you can say: "I just thought the cherries were cute, I actually like (your favorite fruit) so please dont judge me, its my opinion and I think its cute." Please do that, I love your vids! ❤🍒
my time working in a tattoo studio has taught me that you should NEVER be afraid to set your boundaries with an artist! i was fortunate to work with two really amazing and compassionate artists, but that also meant we heard a LOT of stories from clients that had been treated poorly and felt like they couldn't speak up.
even if you're MID TATTOO, you can ALWAYS say stop. ❤
This is such an insane thought to me. Putting something on your body forever in a moment without thinking about it? Nuts.
You gonna half half a tattoo permanently
If any artist that touches your body says that kind of thing, be it tattoo or hair or makeup etc, get up and walk. Now, if they are advocating for you ("that colour might not look good on you/your hair can't handle that and here's why" or "having a tattoo like this has this history" etc) that's very different, but you as the canvas ALWAYS have the last say.
Signed, a hairstylist who always advocated for her clients.
you ever think maybe he said it based on how small she got it versus how big it was intended to be?
@@shisuiuchiha1201 any professional artists would explain that. they would not say what he said in that tone.
The cherry suits you cause your a beautiful cherry blossom❤
Its cute though !! They did a good job on it!
As a tattoo artist, it's okay to take the artists advice, but don't ever let them talk you into something you don't even like😂
Never NEVER let someone else dictate what you put on your body. Unless they are a close to you and doing it with pure intentions
they didnt “dictate” they literaly just asked where she wanted it and if it was a good idea to put it on her hand and she started freaking out
grow a backbone and stop blaming others for your own bad choices because you couldnt figure out what you wanted
Even then honestly
I feel this
@@foreverl0vingherIf the tattoo artist said it in a judging tone like she did, then he was completely judging her and her choices. This is a form of guilting someone out of it, especially those with low confidence. If it's a spot that won't go that well, a good artist will explain why and talk to you about where else you would like it. He wasn't being professional
Unless it's Fauci😅
The flower would’ve been adorable but the cherries are really cute too
I love youre videos 🎉❤ happy new Year
even if it’s meaningless to you it’s still super cute!! next time, try not to let anyone influence you (i know it can be difficult)!! 💗
It ain’t cute, it looks like, one of those wannabe tattoos.
The thing about tattoos is, they dont have to have this super deep back story. Tattoos are (but not just) for personal expression so if somebody asks why just say "bc i wanted to"
I honestly think the flowers would’ve been SOO CUTE. Maybe when you look at it now you’ll remember to stay confident in yourself and not back down
Tattoo removal usually costs $200 to $500 per session, so max, you probably spend $1500 to get it removed. Or you could get it covered up for a lot less.
just a reminder tattoos don’t have to have a special deep meaning related to the things depicted in them to be tattoos! they can just be fun things to remember an event in your life so even if cherries in general have no significance to you, the experience which you gained that tattoo from could! it could be a daily reminder to not care what people think and instead go with what feels right for you (if u do want a meaning to the tattoo that is). you can always get the flower somewhere else
Yeah my aunt has a meaningless hot dog tatoo, but she also has one of her dog
Stay firm with your decisions unless the artist has a valid reason behind their critique of placement or design. I have no clue why they would suggest you get something that you didn’t even ask for ☹️
You shouldn’t regret it bc it means devotion , passion and strong love
A good artist could turn these into flowers easily. If you don't like them still, that's an option! Luckily since they're not bold heavy lines, and it's a relatively simple tattoo, covering it up with flowers would be done quite simply. ❤
If a tattoo artist judges where you want the placement obviously not when it comes to how the tattoo will stretch then you need to run. Don’t WALK just RUN!
he literally just double checked you nut head
You could say that the cherries are cute❤
OMGGGG DONT PULL DOWN PULL UPPPPP. it'll hurt a lot less and keep the ink in
I think a possible reason he said “you want it there” is because the flower seems to have a bit more detail and more intricate - hand/near hand tattoos don’t last as long than other body parts. I’ve had this similar situation on my feet and I just said do it anyways. The cherry looks like such an easy cover up if you’d ever like to do so.
How dare heeeee? I hate that he made you doubt your own choice!
i mean he did no wrong, he was just warning her if she'll regret it in future
maybe he just kinda said it in a judgemental way which got her
@@Manu.b_07 but like it was a flower meanwhile a cherry could be interpreted wrongly
Well there’s also the fact that as a professional he has to take into account how a tattoo is going to look and wear down and even apply to a specific area on the body in the long run. There was probably an issue with the placement and the way the flower would have to be applied. He wasn’t being needlessly judgmental, he was being professional judgmental which is his job. Yes, he probably could have explained better, but to be fair, she could have also asked. 🫤
Also possible this bimbo jus has zero ability to think or speak using her brain
He probably didn’t even have a negative tone and was just making sure she was certain about getting a highly visible hand tattoo of fine line work that is going to fade badly
The artist didn’t push her to get cherries, all they ask was you “want it there?” She got freaked out and played it safe by choosing something everyone else was getting. This is why you shouldn’t give a damn of what others think because a simple comment can have you paranoid about life decisions.
They look really pretty, everyone has flowers and butterflies (me included) it’s nice to have something a little unique
If you really don't like it then you can definitely cover it up! But it does look really cute 😂❤
With how small it is… don’t even ..go straight for laser removal lol
@@v3xxdd753 facts
Girl, tattoos don’t need a meaning, it can just be for fun too!
Right? My whole arm is covered in stuff I just think looks cool. Sad she didn't get exactly what she wanted because of someone else opinion though.
I have MORE meaningless tattoos
Omg no the flower would jave been so pretty there
The flowers and the butterflies could've matched well!
I mean this in the nicest way possible. No one cares why you got cherries tattooed on you and nobody is judging you for it. They’re cute and that’s it.
Getting any kind of flash/spontaneous tattoo is a riskier move for regret than a planned one - now factor in that it’s on your hand. It was a bold move from the start regardless of the design picked. Though of course impulsively going against what you originally picked for yourself did increase risk of dissatisfaction even more
the flowers would have matched the butterflies perfectly 😭😭
Ppl suck 🙄 why would he even ask you like that. Dude some ppl are just haters even “professionals” the flower would have been darling and also the style would have matched the birds….BUT the cherries are still very lovely 💕
People with 3 tattoos..
"They all have personal meanings" ❤
People with 14+
"This one is my favourite character from Harry potter, Crabbe"
🚩 on the tattoo artist, get the tattoo you want and don't let yourself get bullied into picking something you don't want 💓💓
Don't do flash. Go in with a plan, what means a lot to you, typically what means something to you won't be up on a wall for you to easily select. If something meaningful is available via flash, count yourself lucky but know that many others have the same exact tattoo though too.
The flowers should have looked so cute 🥰 don’t let others make your choices for you!
As a tattooer this is my worst fear! We can’t always tell what you’re thinking, speak up! I know some tattooers are judgy assholes but you need to advocate for yourself! I’d much rather my client change their mind and tell me than have me work on and complete a piece that they’re not happy with
It’s not even that she changed her mind but more that she felt pressured to change her original choice
“i just- .. it just- the cherries are very questionable-..” 😭😭
Looks like I’m on a video call with my friend and she’s telling me about her childhood memories 😂girl I can listen you all day ❤❤I don’t know why but hearing you make me feel at peace
Just for everyone who's planning on getting a tattoo: THEY ARE PERMANENT. I know that seems obvious, like duh, but do not get one on the spot or let yourself be talked into getting one. You want something you will love for the rest of your life, so do not be afraid to turn the artist down or say stop. Coming from someone who hates a part of their tattoo because they were afraid to say stop. It's YOUR tattoo and it's PERMANENT. Just keep that in mind!
Some years ago I had gotten a tattoo coz I couldn't say no. Got it lasered last month and now I'm never gonna get flash tattoos .
@@trishafilm Mine isn't so bad I need to get lasered, but he ruined my favorite part because I didn't explain enough and when he went for the wrong part I didn't stop him. It is still gorgeous and I'm glad I didn't have to go through getting it lasered but I still look down sometimes and I think about how pretty it was before and how much he ruined it and how I let him. It really sucks.
I'm sorry that you had to have yours lasered 🤧
@@bambisbluebell oh , u don't have to be sorry. I'm just sad that I didn't speak up then
@Makayla Yeah I've heard it's not even really effective I'm sure it sucks 🤧
@makayla5227 mine worked well
it’s not entirely meaningless! it’s definitely a story to tell and it’s something you did on a whim while having fun :)
The flower would have been so cute especially with butterflies on the other hand
It’s cute! The flower would have been cute on that spot, don’t make others decide what u want to do.
*the tattoo artist watching this rn*
Don’t let anyone let you doubt yourself!! It’s your choice even when they put you on the spot
BUT IT LOOKS SO GOOD THO😭😭
Girl, you totally CAN tell the artist to stop even mid tattoo session ! Follow your intuition and never let artists influence you if you're not 100% on board with their advice.
And if it can give any consolation, it really looks cool AND your tattoos don't have to have meaning to be amazing. But if you still don't like it, it probably shouldn't be too hard to cover or laser off if you'd like
How can you be a people pleaser when it comes to something that will permanently be on your body? You gotta speak up and advocate for what you want girl!
💯💯💯
Honestly, if you think about it, it now has a meaning - to not let others change your mind, and do what YOU wanna do :)
It's okey girl it looks cute fr
OMG YOUR HAIR, LOVE IT
Get it removed girl! You should be able to speak for yourself, don’t let people guilt trip you!❤
girl that tattoo is so cute you shouldn't regret it