We've both been divorced... Alex Costa opens up about society pressures

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  • Welcome to Season 3 of Miracle Mindset Podcast, feat Alex Costa.
    Robbi and Alex talk about the reality of divorce, and the pressures society puts on us as we age. From getting married, to having kids, how long you should be single for after a breakup, and re-discovering yourself after a breakup. Alex opens up for the first time about his own divorce, the heartbreak and how he learnt to stay in his own time line and stop comparing himself to others.
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  • @AmmarNomani
    @AmmarNomani ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Wow been watching Alex for 4 years and never knew this! Thanks for sharing

  • @patmelendrez6410
    @patmelendrez6410 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Yes to decision of not rushing into marriage, not having kids and living the most of your lives with your gf/bf! 💗 U guys inspire me! 😍❤️

    • @RobbiJan
      @RobbiJan  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

  • @rubenangelmartinez2952
    @rubenangelmartinez2952 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    What a power couple. Wish you two the best!

    • @michalS-
      @michalS- 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      this comment didnt age well. "Power Couple"

    • @Noqqin
      @Noqqin 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@michalS- They broke up? What happened?

  • @Tundra0128
    @Tundra0128 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    It’s really frustrating when family puts pressure on you to get married. I’m 31 and my family is always telling me to find someone quick or else I never will because of age.

    • @denzelheden4256
      @denzelheden4256 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I live in India and women here they marry as soon as they finish college... I've completed my College in 2019 and more than 95% of all my classmates are married.... arrange marriage

    • @ÄãbirIslam98
      @ÄãbirIslam98 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​@@denzelheden4256 yea asia and specifically south asian they are very family oriented.

  • @kingDavidsPodcast135
    @kingDavidsPodcast135 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It’s the trauma that’s avoiding them from getting married .. it’s not that they want to .. but they are scared of that trauma of divorce happening again

  • @Terri1976
    @Terri1976 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Me and my husband as well, sometimes the second time around is a charm😘

    • @ericprieto4348
      @ericprieto4348 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      the second time is
      never a
      charm

  • @Loggerr
    @Loggerr ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Never realized how wellspoken Alex is. Impressivveee

  • @Mr.Sandi..
    @Mr.Sandi.. 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love Alex.. your personality really improve me ❤

  • @Ram90ification
    @Ram90ification ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Sad to see this after their breakup

    • @apacur
      @apacur ปีที่แล้ว +4

      What happened-?

    • @yCryptoAnatolyG
      @yCryptoAnatolyG ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@apacurdid you find out?

    • @carlosleonardogomezhidalgo1573
      @carlosleonardogomezhidalgo1573 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I’m happy about it

    • @ThatPopcorn
      @ThatPopcorn 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@yCryptoAnatolyGwhat happened

    • @tekiero
      @tekiero 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      lol whaat

  • @AprilGarciaDfw
    @AprilGarciaDfw ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I had no idea that y'all were ever married as long as I've been watching Alex channel past few years then finding Robbi's channel 🤎

  • @mariog1490
    @mariog1490 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My friends, love fails often. But why? Is it not fear which propelled you to love. That one might be alone and isolated. Loneliness is not good for the heart and isolation tastes bad! But, it is also true, that love is destroyed because of fear. At the right hour, if one asks himself this-and there is no other question to ask- would love have prevailed if I was not frightened? Would love have flowered and been rosy if I was more bold? The bad, is not solely to be found in the other-but to be sure , it is-but also in one’s own heart. Is “society” really the reason you had failed? Was it your age? Was it a woman who was more beautiful than you? Or, was it pride? Was it fear? Are we to say love has ended without fear? You were not slain because of the wishful. You and all on the whole were slain because the journey is more dangerous the higher one traverses the mountain. And now, in all this height and all the depth you must leap from, will you have faith? Or will you have fear? My friends, what does real love teach us, than the possibility of being a man-without fear. For true love neither flowers nor fades.

  • @ChocolateBabe_
    @ChocolateBabe_ ปีที่แล้ว +2

    New to the channel. Needed to hear this im 27 as a woman I feel so behind and over whelmed 😮

  • @kushalmalipeddi1691
    @kushalmalipeddi1691 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    What is the reason for breakup

  • @TheGirlSkateBoardCo
    @TheGirlSkateBoardCo 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Solid interview! When do you foresee getting married if you don’t mind me asking? Looks like both of you have learned valuable lessons along the way. Keep up the great work!

  • @DJOGINEDIMOKSHITHDURGAPHANENDR
    @DJOGINEDIMOKSHITHDURGAPHANENDR 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    But why did you guys break up

  • @Ray_Cassim
    @Ray_Cassim ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Will you be doing more podcasts Robbie?
    Would love to hear more from you

  • @Ben86709
    @Ben86709 ปีที่แล้ว

    So much was said here that's on the minds of many young couples these days. Does fitting the societal mold serve us right here and right now or not?

  • @soodamncolddisabled
    @soodamncolddisabled ปีที่แล้ว +3

    How old is Alex? I'd love to hear more content in Portuguese from Alex

  • @Music-ch7tm
    @Music-ch7tm 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just see Alex channel yesterday after a year I didn’t now that you both split but I see him tense love to see you both sad for me

  • @AstroKunta
    @AstroKunta ปีที่แล้ว

    Great content! Shoutout to the notification bell ❤

  • @adamkhabazian3249
    @adamkhabazian3249 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    you should marry young, get divorced and then do whatever you want. that works so well in today's society

    • @najmehkasiri9952
      @najmehkasiri9952 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      This couple is wasting their lives.

    • @Beall_
      @Beall_ ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Get divorced for what reason? You just said an ignorant statement

  • @Anonymous-ow4tf
    @Anonymous-ow4tf 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh My God 🥲
    This is so sad
    you guys are made for eachother 😭

  • @Justincrock10
    @Justincrock10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I never knew either one of them were married

  • @kingDavidsPodcast135
    @kingDavidsPodcast135 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sad to really see this after 😢

  • @lumpkanella69
    @lumpkanella69 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When are you getting married

  • @Hello2u3582mypincode
    @Hello2u3582mypincode ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Meh, you're teasing us...
    Did batman come along?? Why the sudden ending of the video?
    I'd love to hear your side of the story

  • @uddin2166
    @uddin2166 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1:47 if don’t mind me asking, was the marriage arranged ?

    • @nadiaaguiar386
      @nadiaaguiar386 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I believe hes brazilian so i dont think so as thats not rlly part of the culture

    • @michalS-
      @michalS- 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      resist the slave mind

  • @chrismundiath4348
    @chrismundiath4348 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where did Alex get that shirt is what I wanna know??

  • @ruipedroraimundo1921
    @ruipedroraimundo1921 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Are they still togheter?

    • @gracepattie
      @gracepattie 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No. 😢

  • @kingDavidsPodcast135
    @kingDavidsPodcast135 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    By the way Robbi you were Fat in this video ( signs of Healthy Relationship 😂

  • @princess-fj1hm
    @princess-fj1hm ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you more 😙❤️

  • @we-canTM
    @we-canTM ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pretty

  • @timshanemelton
    @timshanemelton ปีที่แล้ว

    #metoo Did a common law marriage certificate for $30 in The County Clerk's Office in " good faith " to make sure my ex & kids would have benefits through my former employment agency. Divorce is HELL in texas & probably costs a lot more than the ex agreements in paying? Idk? I still haven't asked anyone

  • @kuntalraj26
    @kuntalraj26 ปีที่แล้ว

    🥰🥰

  • @lillyl1599
    @lillyl1599 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Robbi you deserve better than this guy who talks about his ex

    • @dna8269
      @dna8269 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      she talked about her ex first lol

    • @Neopremium
      @Neopremium 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@dna8269😭😭😭😭