You're the best in the content space.. Alot of these popular "narc experts" on yt cater to specific genders or simply throw around the word narcissist loosley, giving examples that can literally apply to anyone. Shout out to mentalhealness Actually breaking down the root of the disorder & spreading awareness & giving different perspectives Keep up the great work. You're helping a lot of people
Lee this is so right! That’s how I made it through all those years! It’s like manipulating them to do what you want which it made me feel uncomfortable when I was with my soon to be ex-husband!
If I understand, if you want to manipulate a narcissist, act like him when he needs something. I tried it, it works, but it's boring and exhausting pretending to be someone else. Sooner or later, they realize what you are doing because they are constantly on guard for fear of being tricked. Then there will be more drama. It is best if someone has to be in contact to be in a friendly mood, but indifferent, so that he knows that you will not expose him, and that he also knows that there is no more chance with you. It's stupid what I'm going to compare, but like a wild animal - slowly teach him to trust you and approach you without biting or cutting and that when he eats his meal, he leaves without asking for more.
Sometimes when you're in a relationship long enough you change and do stuff without realizing it, because there's no adult way to reason it out with this person. It's sad, it stunts you too.
Sup Lee. Like a few people I watch, you know what a narc is and does because you are one and don't hide it. You break it down to a real actionable level.
Absolutely- but they are going to be at work, gatherings, local establishments, supporting and running non-profits, for profit, political and media related organizations so strap up.
Sounds like WAY too much work without pay, vacation time, no sick days, no health insurance… nothing. lol Hard NO for me. The work out ways the benefits. Work smarter, not harder. Get somebody else to do it. I desire a love that’s reciprocating not disintegrating my body, mind, soul, spirit, and finances. WE DESERVE BETTER!
@@natashahubbert4438 Yes to that-and this helps suss them out for the detour we all deserve to recognize at the ‘opportunities’ that invite us to the moments of “Imma go ahead and head out now,” and work on myself before I explode.
Can confirm 👍 if they think it is their idea. Also, grey rock at the same time with positive reinforcement only, even if it is artificial. Then if they want attention from you, they know the easiest way is to earn that gold star and get that head pat. Be the most boring person you know, and whatever benefit they get from you- stop doing it. Gold stars only, nothing else exists. Your channel is very interesting 🙂
@KimberlyGray-cd3lt haha 😆 its so amusing, when you let them see what they're really worth. I told him I was writing a book of love songs dedicated only to him
Omg dude. When me and my sister were teenagers all wed have to do is compliment my mom and shed completely forget why she was mad and shed go look in the mirror beaming. Its overall really sad. Im diagnosed bpd but i fully understand the way a narc thinks. Im a little jealous cause i wish i never felt guilt 😂
Or try the reverse, "if we don't send our kids to this particular school then people will think we're terrible parents" instead of convincing them it's benefits them, convince them people will think less of them if they don't do what you want. 😝
Im BPD/OCD and have a NPD hubby. Seems like you are saying i have to play games and be manipulative. My father is diagnosed NPD and tells me this all the time. Its a game. Thats so annoying and as a cluster b myself, sorry but im just not naturally manipulative. Bpd is more dormant unless you are a malignant with a narc profile. Im the empath profile with secondary psychopathy ONCE TRIGGERED. This is def manipulative and tbh thats super annoying i have to behave that way. Its also not natural to me haha 😅
More than 1yr, free access to the kid. One month he paid few hundred. Shows up when he wants to. Played me for 1yr no schedule. I stayed away from court. But now I closed the door for co parenting because it’s a failed mission. More access to abuse. I’m independent and can provide so works out for me and blocked him now.
I hear what you say and I’ve done this with my nex. But how to handle my son (15)? I can stroke his ego, but I am still the parent. Sadly I recognise a lot of the nex behavior in my son and I don’t know how to handle it and make him still follow my rules. He is very good in gaslighting. After 29 years I got the courage to leave his father in 2023 and I was happy with the fact that I don’t have to deal with his toxic behavior, but now it is my son that triggers me exactly like his father. 😥
Wow I feel it you have to manipulate a narc.. you really gotta be invested like co parent or business wise cause personally that’s a lot of work.. you gotta make manipulate..instead just straight to the point cause it had to be done.. too much work for me😮😮
@ Keep having excuses. There are many subjects about grey rocking and dealing with it. If you WANT to manipulate a narcissist, you're more damaged than you think.
Oh! So… some narc people really care about what other people think. So, go ahead and pepper in some cringe vocabulary. For example- ‘that was groovy’ or ‘this shirt makes me feel like the main character in a sci fi movie’. Start quoting Disney movies, and stop using contractions. Can’t is now always ‘can not’ etc. it’s just really cringe on the ears. Maybe give some weird eye contact. Just be subtle cringe and it will turn them away because associating with you might rub some of that cringe on them. Cheerful. Calm. Cringe.
I do that but I wont he stay with me becouse we čime back to me whan I discard him he go away,I manipulate him whan he manipulated to me and the and become strong than him,AM I empatha .But end the end I herts but his cold😢
You're the best in the content space..
Alot of these popular "narc experts" on yt cater to specific genders or simply throw around the word narcissist loosley, giving examples that can literally apply to anyone.
Shout out to mentalhealness
Actually breaking down the root of the disorder & spreading awareness & giving different perspectives
Keep up the great work. You're helping a lot of people
I really appreciate it
Yes you are for real, when you know you know. I wish you were friends with my husband. So thankful for the insights & laughs. Thanks, Lee!
Lee this is so right! That’s how I made it through all those years! It’s like manipulating them to do what you want which it made me feel uncomfortable when I was with my soon to be ex-husband!
sometimes you have to
@@MentalHealnessthat’s so true
In short public image: The thing narcissists care the most, after themselves, is how they look from the outside. How others (!) view them.
If I understand, if you want to manipulate a narcissist, act like him when he needs something.
I tried it, it works, but it's boring and exhausting pretending to be someone else.
Sooner or later, they realize what you are doing because they are constantly on guard for fear of being tricked. Then there will be more drama.
It is best if someone has to be in contact to be in a friendly mood, but indifferent, so that he knows that you will not expose him, and that he also knows that there is no more chance with you. It's stupid what I'm going to compare, but like a wild animal - slowly teach him to trust you and approach you without biting or cutting and that when he eats his meal, he leaves without asking for more.
Aka saying shady behaviour i sometimes do it but un aware till I've done it n I get accused of being shady or sketchy 😂
Sometimes when you're in a relationship long enough you change and do stuff without realizing it, because there's no adult way to reason it out with this person. It's sad, it stunts you too.
Yes always on guard. I agree with ur thinking …been there
Sup Lee.
Like a few people I watch, you know what a narc is and does because you are one and don't hide it.
You break it down to a real actionable level.
Tricks, manipulation, tactics and strategy to stay with one person. So exhausting. Mr Lee i believe you but i will not accept this offer.
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Absolutely- but they are going to be at work, gatherings, local establishments, supporting and running non-profits, for profit, political and media related organizations so strap up.
Sounds like WAY too much work without pay, vacation time, no sick days, no health insurance… nothing. lol
Hard NO for me. The work out ways the benefits. Work smarter, not harder. Get somebody else to do it. I desire a love that’s reciprocating not disintegrating my body, mind, soul, spirit, and finances. WE DESERVE BETTER!
@@natashahubbert4438 Yes to that-and this helps suss them out for the detour we all deserve to recognize at the ‘opportunities’ that invite us to the moments of “Imma go ahead and head out now,” and work on myself before I explode.
All that work means u become their home doctor, mother or nanny while u add disrespect and disregard.
The saying you learn from the Best don't know if thats good or bad,❤
Can confirm 👍 if they think it is their idea. Also, grey rock at the same time with positive reinforcement only, even if it is artificial. Then if they want attention from you, they know the easiest way is to earn that gold star and get that head pat.
Be the most boring person you know, and whatever benefit they get from you- stop doing it. Gold stars only, nothing else exists.
Your channel is very interesting 🙂
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Lee was like...wait. Let me make a quick service announcement, with clarity...because...NO, cheeks ain't it! 😂😂😂
been there
tried that.
i’m not into games.!
if it’s in the “too hard basket”
it’s just that - to hard.!
life’s meant to be
“easy, brezzy.!”
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Stroking their egoes results in a really bad narcissisistic/sociophahtic attack.
I told my ex narc I was writing a book about him, and I never did 😊😂
Me too
@KimberlyGray-cd3lt haha 😆 its so amusing, when you let them see what they're really worth. I told him I was writing a book of love songs dedicated only to him
I think this is a great advice but I’m mentally exhausted. I can’t entertain the narc .
protect your peace
Me either,that's how I stayed,can't no More it drains you😢
Omg dude. When me and my sister were teenagers all wed have to do is compliment my mom and shed completely forget why she was mad and shed go look in the mirror beaming.
Its overall really sad.
Im diagnosed bpd but i fully understand the way a narc thinks.
Im a little jealous cause i wish i never felt guilt 😂
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Or try the reverse, "if we don't send our kids to this particular school then people will think we're terrible parents" instead of convincing them it's benefits them, convince them people will think less of them if they don't do what you want. 😝
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We learn to manupilate from the manupilator 😂😂😂 be quiet and watch and do the same thing 10 times better. They hate that 😂😂🤷🏼♀️🫣
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You're proud to be manipulating people? It isn't that hard but feeling the need to do so only comes from damaged people.
You're proud to want to manipulate people? Lol, that need only comes from damaged people.
Your right about this
I try
I laughed a couple times during the video cause ya you right about stroking the ego :)
Thank you, Lee! 🙏❤️
Any time!
I got my popcorn ready...LETS GOOOO lol
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8 seconds in and i'm already in stitches!! #resultsmayvary
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Lee is the best
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Im BPD/OCD and have a NPD hubby. Seems like you are saying i have to play games and be manipulative. My father is diagnosed NPD and tells me this all the time. Its a game. Thats so annoying and as a cluster b myself, sorry but im just not naturally manipulative. Bpd is more dormant unless you are a malignant with a narc profile. Im the empath profile with secondary psychopathy ONCE TRIGGERED. This is def manipulative and tbh thats super annoying i have to behave that way. Its also not natural to me haha 😅
More than 1yr, free access to the kid. One month he paid few hundred. Shows up when he wants to. Played me for 1yr no schedule. I stayed away from court. But now I closed the door for co parenting because it’s a failed mission. More access to abuse. I’m independent and can provide so works out for me and blocked him now.
I do know this demon,should have seen it before it happened,guess im still needing a lesson.
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The exs name is Dlee. The D is silent. Lol
I miss the video(s) being uploaded in the morning..
hardly anyone watched
I hear what you say and I’ve done this with my nex. But how to handle my son (15)? I can stroke his ego, but I am still the parent. Sadly I recognise a lot of the nex behavior in my son and I don’t know how to handle it and make him still follow my rules. He is very good in gaslighting. After 29 years I got the courage to leave his father in 2023 and I was happy with the fact that I don’t have to deal with his toxic behavior, but now it is my son that triggers me exactly like his father. 😥
❤ love your channel
Thank you ♥️
Majority of Cluster B humans respond to "Mammon sin" that is how you give them "fuel"
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How can a narcissist like you become a normal person ???? Everybody keeps saying it’s impossible to change them
Wow I feel it you have to manipulate a narc.. you really gotta be invested like co parent or business wise cause personally that’s a lot of work.. you gotta make manipulate..instead just straight to the point cause it had to be done.. too much work for me😮😮
You always say people should focus on themselves and on their healing so manipulating a narcissist is a topic no one should follow or even care about.
There are many circumstances where you do have to deal with them. You must not have kids with one
Ok
Take what resonate and not follow everything unless you brain dead now
@ Keep having excuses. There are many subjects about grey rocking and dealing with it. If you WANT to manipulate a narcissist, you're more damaged than you think.
@@ModelValeriaa you dramatic I suspect you also a closet narc not everyone will leave a narc withouth making them aware of their ways I'm one of those
Oh! So… some narc people really care about what other people think. So, go ahead and pepper in some cringe vocabulary. For example- ‘that was groovy’ or ‘this shirt makes me feel like the main character in a sci fi movie’. Start quoting Disney movies, and stop using contractions. Can’t is now always ‘can not’ etc. it’s just really cringe on the ears. Maybe give some weird eye contact. Just be subtle cringe and it will turn them away because associating with you might rub some of that cringe on them.
Cheerful. Calm. Cringe.
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hahahhahahahahah hilarious
The going rate 😂😂😂
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But giving them compliments makes them worse
Yes cola and chips 🍟🤣🤌🏻
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I been watching i tell u what you tips be workin 🎉 give you your flowers i won tiday this mornin 745 am😅😊
Sorry misspellin i didnt double check excited 17 yrs
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I do that but I wont he stay with me becouse we čime back to me whan I discard him he go away,I manipulate him whan he manipulated to me and the and become strong than him,AM I empatha .But end the end I herts but his cold😢
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Off subject .. lee is fine! Very handsome!!!!!!
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