@@autobotdiva9268 help as individuals, if they pursue a relationship that’s on the mother to correct not the daughter. Mom failed her emotionally for sure but she made it through regardless
This is stomach turning. Heavenly Father, please protect that child for all of her days to come please keep your protective shield around her. Allow her to heal and suffer no longer. Amen 🙏🏽
@@K4kshawn That’s not a reason why anyone should abuse their child. If she is doing what you say it’s probably because she feels like her mom doesn’t love her so she tries to find that with boys.
Mom needs therapy first to heal from her own childhood of abuse. I think she will then be able to have a better relationship with her beautiful daughter.
Yes you can tell how her daughter spoke how she been done and the mother face was so like a little child that don't know how to express or speak she was to hard on the daughter thinking she protecting her but hurting her daughter for not listening it's hard when both went through tragedy
Women....please DO NOT have a child if you have not healed from the abuse of your mother especially. Many mothers are very abusive to their kids and they never take accoutability when their children become of age and confront them. I feel for this poor baby girl and im middke aged...i suffered from the hands of my mother. Even today im still trying to heal and my mother never takes accountability. I hope God will provide a mom to heal this sweet girl becayse her 'mom' is incapable.
Exactly. Me and my mother have a bad relationship. She also had a bad relationship with her mother. I love kids and I work with them but I'm not having any because I know I'm not healed from not feeling loved by my mother. I refuse to continue any generational curses and if I have to sacrifice to ensure that then so be it. I care for other people's kids for 8 hours cause that's all I can handle. Then go home and mind my business 😂
In my circumstances being healed from past events hits different after having a child. Causes for a different type of healing that gave freedom into my motherhood🤞 I’m still learning shoot just as I’m learning me. And same for my kids they are learning they self and me, all I ask for is respect which could look like patience, silence, understanding, love, God!!!..etc etc.
It’s an obstacle course lol I’m already crazy enough lmao then I have too raise my kids too make sure they ain’t crazy knowing they from my genetics whewwwww lmao
I don’t think her parents care if she goes no contact because they have pretty much abandoned her. She said she went to live with her dad then later said she was kicked out of a house. I’m guessing her dad’s house or that of another relative.
Moms is stuck somewhere else. The community gotta tighten up & I mean quick!!! Lord bless that child! She is so beautiful & intelligent!! She will soar so far🩷
Her maturity comes from all the abuse she endured and the fact that she had to grow up so fast. I can see myself in her from all the trauma I endured growing up. Therapy helps a lot❤
"we living two different lives?" That was the line right there. How is Shalah more emotionally mature than the mom. It's so wild but I hope this young girl gets the healing she deserves.
so glad her daughter confronted her about what she did to her! she was physically, emotionally and mentally abused! Good job young lady!!! please continue your healing we need your testimony!!!!❤❤❤
Wow, what an impressive young lady. She should spend the rest of her life loving on and caring for herself. Being gentle on herself and steer clear of anyone who shows signs of manipulation or abuse. They will be drawn to her like a moth to flame so she must spend her time reminder of herself of her worth. I have so much love and caring for her and I really hope she takes care her self and surrounds herself with only kind and compassionate people like herself.
Yes I wish more people would say this. It took me a long time to realize why this happens to me and now I'm prepared cause I know they're coming. I choose to help them with the best advice I can and then keep it moving. But if you don't know how to recognize it you can easily fall victim to some of these actors trying to pretend that they are here to give you what you've missed out on.
Karamo is literally crying and holding back tears… This one is tough… I’m hugging and loving on my babies as soon as I make contact with them today….❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I think mom is on the spectrum. I think she’s repeating actions that were done to her and because she’s never had therapy to understand the action behind that was wrong she doesn’t interpret it that way. She’s crying because she knows her daughter is hurt by her actions but i don’t think she understands how she is wrong. The mom lacks social awareness.
I pray for her and her healing . But her mom is slow. Like needs to be in a group home for the mentally challenged slow . This young lady shows so much strength and wisdom. She will go so far in this life!
She’s such a beautiful and emotionally intelligent young woman! Keep advocating for yourself and stay on your side. You are more than the circumstances you’ve endured! I’m so sorry those horrible things happened to you. I hope her mom gets the help she needs because she seems deeply damaged.
@@K4kshawn so that means she deserves to be violated, and to be abused & tortured by her own mother? Sick mindset. You weren't under the same roof as her, so to assume she's lying is asinine.
I understood this girl sm, not with the abuse sm even though there was some.. I admire her because she was able to speak up about her being raped. In my own experience I was so scared to say anything to anyone because I knew the outcome. My family splitting and that’s exactly what happened. They didn’t believe me. All you can do is take note of these things and not do it to your kids. Be their safe space.
I’m so grateful that you were able to not repeat that. I’m so sorry that that happened to you. However statistically it is very common for people to continue to do to others what was done to them. It’s the whole reason people talk about breaking cycles.
I can relate to Shalah!! The Mother is a straight up Narcissist & she definitely needs to take accountability. As a Sexual Abuse/Physical Abuse Survivor I often acted out in my late teens/twenties & turned to sex/alcohol to dope & mask whatever pain I was feeling. Pain changes ppl but it’s our responsibility to HEAL!! Childhood trauma forever changes the trajectory of your life . Even at 35 I don’t trust many ppl a when or if I ever decide to have kids I’ll protect my children with every fiber in my body . We can’t HEAL what we don’t REVEAL!!! Sending Love , ❤️ Inner Peace, Healing ❤️🩹 to Shalah!! She definitely needs to heal her inner child & Give herself grace . Hopefully the mom corrects her wrongs & begins to recognize where she went wrong ! My Dad was physically & mentally abusive !! I forgive him but we don’t have a relationship
I'm sorry you went through that abuse. I'm glad that you're on the path to healing now and I hope that Shalah and others who've experienced the same pain see your comment and receive it. What we don't talk about as a community is how certain aspects of our entertainment industry encourage young women to engage in hypersexual behavior. Unfortunately, it's easier for victims of abuse to go this route because they think embracing hypersexuality is taking control over the situation and that's not always the case. Sometimes victims embrace sex because they get accused of being "fast" and get blamed for what happened to them. This is why we have to be mindful of what we say with our tongues especially to our babies. Telling a child that they're "fast" only gives them two options to either prove you wrong or prove you right. Don't afflict these children with that kind of mental turmoil, especially not when the greater society is pushing that sex is liberation. They will fall prey. Nevertheless, if you are a victim of sexual abuse, please get therapy and remember to not live your life based on what other people think of you. Forget them. Do what is healing, healthy, and best for you--the true inner you who wants to be restored and protected.
Truthfully that's why I waited so long to have children I knew I wasn't ready. I always wanted to be better than my mother. Now I think I'm ready at 31
What an intelligent, wise and beautiful 15-year-old girl who after all she's been through, still manages to put a smile on her face. The "mother" when backstage, evil was all over her face, so much, it irked my spirit. I feel so bad for Shalah. 😔I hope she can get what she desperately needs and wants from her "mother" but if she can't I wish her a happy and healthy life without her. 9x 💯
this woman made my blood boil. "IF i did it, i don't remember", "IF i did it, then i apologize", "IF i did it", like she just wants to rewrite history because she doesn't want to be exposed as the bad mother on national television and simply won't recognize that she *is* an abuser. this young woman is not only beautiful, but also incredibly smart and knows how to stand up for herself. just because you grew up in an abusive household it doesn't mean you have a free pass to abuse your children, you can break the cycle because you know damn well right from wrong. also, this child has been SA TWICE and the mother didn't do shit to help her own daughter. i pray shalah cut all ties with her mother and has a wonderful life full of love and healing.
The girl is such a wonderful young person. To still seek her mother's closeness after what she'd gone through is just mind boggling! She is definitely a strong, kind and forgiving human being! And a good example of strength for girls that go through similar situations! May God help her achieve what she wants and provide her a peaceful and happy life!!
This is what happens when people are damaged and not repaired. It is important to address and heal from your past. It will follow you into your future and affect those around you. Mom was never taught parenting skills and in turn passed on some of what she endured unintentionally perhaps. Glad her daughter is determined to confront it and praying for healing for both of them. They are beautiful young ladies and will progress with tools and support. Most definitely counseling, prayer, forgiveness and good support system is necessary. Many things to unpack in their lives and hope they get to see the fruit of their labor. Thanks for helping them Karamo.
This girl is amazing!❤️ So brave, beautiful and bright I hope your future will be so good that your mother will feel a shame for what she did for you !!
im a grown ass woman and im inspired by this young lady!! she’s stronger than me. ever since i learned to speak my truth, my mom has denied it. to the point where we don’t talk, because we’ve “lived two different lives.”this young lady is pushing through like i did not have the strength to, and i pray her mother has a miraculous emotional breakthrough soon 15:28
The way that she talk the daughter she’s going to help millions of people❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ big up !! I wish I could stand up to my mother!! maybe next lifetime
Shalah is emotionally intelligent and mature. She is definitely an inspiration to many others who are trying to find their voice and wishing to be heard. I pray and hope that Mom comes through for her and learns to grow.
The daughter, at way more mature than the mother do I believe everything the daughter is saying her mother did to her I was not planning on crying but man it broke me down when she told karamo didn’t believe her mom like or loved her abusing anybody especially kids is not OK mentally physically or emotionally it’s never ok
I knew the mom came from an abusive home. It doesn’t make it right, but these parents that use force like this is nuts… Everyone needs help in this situation…. This child is so desensitized it’s alarming… pray for them!
Something is so off withe mother. I feel she never bonded with her when she was a baby. It’s like she’e emotionless and blank. I just don’t see maternalism or love. On the other hand, the daughter seems to me more mature and I pray for healing because she didn’t deserve none of this.
This is random as hell. But I love the fact we can store anything in our chest lol. The way she pulled that paper out was so relatable 😂. But good luck to them 🙏🏽💕
This was actually a TOUGH watch. 😓 man so much heaviness and just so wrong. I hope the absolute best for the daughter and hope she just goes no contact.
I'm 34 and my moma was the same way and guess what "She don't remember nothing she did" thats the narcissist way of still not giving af ..and she'll never change girl grow up without her!! It's ok I can give detail for detail how my moma beat me as a kid and for some reason she don't remember nothing, and the way she beat was pure hate that I was nothing like her but better ,I remember specifically her beating me and smirking I tried getting up she would beat me back down until she got tired and would then call me nothing but namesake I walked off crying ,until this day nothing about her has changed ..I had to pray and ask God about 3 years ago to remove my heart from hers because like you said "She had a hold on me I couldn't break"
I firmly believe character can’t be fixed. And many people, like this “mom” don’t have the capacity to be good parents. I pray healing and guidance over this young woman. I know that if she is to become a mom, she’ll be the best. She’s such a beautiful soul. If you see this, you are loved and you are worthy. 🙏🏾♥️
The eyes never lie.... the mothers eyes, the way she averts them, almost child like, full of escapism. Watching the mother defend herself against the daughters accusations is probably how she had to defend herself from her own abuse as a child.
Wow cuz I went through something similar and it’s sad that people are still going thru this type of stuff now too 😕 I’m 19 the same as her and I feel so strongly with the things she said and that mother honestly disgusted me she made a jk of herself !
Shayla really is inspiring like Karamo says, I feel like we have similar experiences in how we have chosen to respond to the life we were given. I’m around the same age too and it really is inspiring to see her hold herself up so high still after all she’s been through and I want to say thank you for the message at the end because it’s hard to have confidence in yourself when you’re by yourself and weighing out what you think you can do while you have so much to carry but to hear it from her is affirming. I’m trying to do the math too much instead of just keep trying and really go for it you know. Thank you Karamo and Shayla, it really is good to see that solution and coming through is possible
Her parents have abandoned her. She said she went to live with her dad then later said she went back to live with her mom after being kicked out of a house. The mom only shows up to take a photo for social media and leaves. Looks like raising children is not conducive to the lifestyle she wants.
I definitely can relate ..so sad❤ The daughter is so mature and has a bright future ahead of her. Beautiful too. Sge reminds me of Brandy 😍Her mom is full of it & will regret how she treated her. The main kids that get did wrong, in the end are the ones they always need
I don’t think ppl understand that most parents that live thru trauma do not see the abuse as abuse. No, they will not be seen crying and being overly emotional when confronted about it. Because they are living what they learned, they are in survival. They will most likely not remember what occurred, because they are living in survival mode. So, I see both the mother AND the daughter’s point of view. No, it doesn’t justify any of the behaviors.
Mom need to do some time and therapy. She did all of what baby girl said she did. I hope baby girl gets the helps she needs to heal from all this trauma. She's so brave❤
She is so emotionally and mentally mature. I’m so sorry she had to endure so much abuse, but I’m so proud of her for standing up for herself. I’m praying for her healing ❤️🙌🏾
My mom was abusive....but I couldn't discern from abusive to discipling as a child. Even still as an adult I try to gauge the "level" of abuse I got. Sometimes it's like did I deserve the abuse? and "oh that wasn't too bad". Long story short my mother's abuse opened the door to accepting other's abuse under the same guise "oh it's not too bad". I hope God keeps this young lady safe and protected.
first of all, this young lady is so brave❤ i hope she can heal.. truly. 😢 she is absolutely beautiful and incredibly well spoken… all that aside- she deserves so much love and light… she absolutely can and will inspire so many young girls. shoo, i’m 26 and she has inspired me ❤!
That mother hates her daughter because she's jealous of her. Happens alot. this young lady seems so strong. She's been graped multiple times n still stands strong
My heart goes out to the daughter; I feel so sorry for her 😢! The mother is in a whole nother level world. The mother need spiritual counseling. Bothe are in my prayers 🙏🏼 for healing ❤
So, when moms ABUSE their kids they just need "help" and "counseling", but when dad does it he's a monster and deserves PRISON. Yall just can't hold other women accountable for BS. GTFOH
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The daughters level of maturity is astonishing. I pray they both get help
Yes because they both need counseling
@@KyeshaBonnerexactly!
YESSSSSS!!! I was literally about to type this
sorry boo, there is no help for this. block. move. no contact.
@@autobotdiva9268 help as individuals, if they pursue a relationship that’s on the mother to correct not the daughter. Mom failed her emotionally for sure but she made it through regardless
There’s a difference between Discipline and abuse and this child was abused some of these people don’t have no business with kids
Facts
All facts
She had her for financial reasons & to hold on to the father.
Exactly
Right. Because Discipline doesn't mean hiting.
Damn, imagine thinking you’re going to die at the hands of your own mother, yikes
That was my story😫😭
That's scary
I would've ran away
Been there, not a easy life nor a fun time
@@myellegreen7717god bless u
i went to school with her we just graduated. everything she said was true and my heart hurts for her 🥺 cause she’s such a sweet girl
Hey lisaaaa❤
@ heyyy how are youuuu?
@@lisaaapovI’m good 💗
@ that’s good to hear 🙂💕
she has to block.move and go no contact with her mother. #selforphan. it will NEVER get better.
Mom is holding a lot of guilt and her ego is not allowing her to admit fault
Same way with my mom! She left when I was 14 and acts as if she raised me until a full grown adult! Even lies to my grandmother about speaking to us😂😂
Mom is trifling
@@Ashleyomega07 so sorry!
@@tafena84 the mother is using a bunch of word salad🥗
Where's her father?
This is stomach turning. Heavenly Father, please protect that child for all of her days to come please keep your protective shield around her. Allow her to heal and suffer no longer. Amen 🙏🏽
Please Lord hear 👂 this prayer 🙏🏽 Amen 🙏🏽 Amen 🙏🏽 Amen 🙏🏽 😢
@@K4kshawn That’s not a reason why anyone should abuse their child. If she is doing what you say it’s probably because she feels like her mom doesn’t love her so she tries to find that with boys.
Beautiful 🙏🏾❤️
Amen
@@K4kshawnhypersexuality can be a result of abuse. Besides violence on your children is wild
The baby is crying and she didn’t even try to comfort her
That made me mad
@@honest_lyricism Because she is the devil. She is evil. She don’t give a damn about her daughter.
Shes a sick individual
She also tried to include how she was abused growing up for some sympathy to justify what she did 🙄
@@GangstaBoo7 That alone should make you show more love ❤️ not less....
She is speaking severe abuse so nonchalantly. I hope she gets the help she needs.
Mom needs therapy first to heal from her own childhood of abuse. I think she will then be able to have a better relationship with her beautiful daughter.
Wisdom right here 💯
Yes you can tell how her daughter spoke how she been done and the mother face was so like a little child that don't know how to express or speak she was to hard on the daughter thinking she protecting her but hurting her daughter for not listening it's hard when both went through tragedy
Yea exactly
Women....please DO NOT have a child if you have not healed from the abuse of your mother especially. Many mothers are very abusive to their kids and they never take accoutability when their children become of age and confront them. I feel for this poor baby girl and im middke aged...i suffered from the hands of my mother. Even today im still trying to heal and my mother never takes accountability. I hope God will provide a mom to heal this sweet girl becayse her 'mom' is incapable.
The problem is, it's normalized.
I'm sorry that you went through abuse with your mom. I hope that she acknowledges her harm and that you continue to heal, even if she doesn't. 🙏🏿
Exactly. Me and my mother have a bad relationship. She also had a bad relationship with her mother. I love kids and I work with them but I'm not having any because I know I'm not healed from not feeling loved by my mother. I refuse to continue any generational curses and if I have to sacrifice to ensure that then so be it. I care for other people's kids for 8 hours cause that's all I can handle. Then go home and mind my business 😂
In my circumstances being healed from past events hits different after having a child. Causes for a different type of healing that gave freedom into my motherhood🤞 I’m still learning shoot just as I’m learning me. And same for my kids they are learning they self and me, all I ask for is respect which could look like patience, silence, understanding, love, God!!!..etc etc.
It’s an obstacle course lol I’m already crazy enough lmao then I have too raise my kids too make sure they ain’t crazy knowing they from my genetics whewwwww lmao
Mental abuse and physical abuse and now on national television screaming at your daughter it's sad 😢😢😢
Sickening to see a mother acting out towards her daughter. I'm grateful my mother could neva
And then parents wonder why kids go no contact .. she’s better than me still wanting to fix things, once I have everything together, see you never!
I don’t think her parents care if she goes no contact because they have pretty much abandoned her. She said she went to live with her dad then later said she was kicked out of a house. I’m guessing her dad’s house or that of another relative.
#selforphan
Moms is stuck somewhere else. The community gotta tighten up & I mean quick!!! Lord bless that child! She is so beautiful & intelligent!! She will soar so far🩷
Perfectly said. The mums mental state is clearly not okay and probably hasn’t been for a long time, probably from her trauma she needs therapy
She’s so pretty and has a bright future ahead of her! Pray and build a relationship with God 🙏🏽, it’ll be ok hun!
Thank you hun💗
This is so sad. Once your childhood is gone, you can’t get it back. So many have been ROBBED! Smh
‼️‼️ this is truly the saddest part of it all. You have to live forever knowing you’re stuck with the awful memories from your childhood.
Her maturity comes from all the abuse she endured and the fact that she had to grow up so fast. I can see myself in her from all the trauma I endured growing up. Therapy helps a lot❤
This show always heals an inner child. It's crazy to think that your alone because we are Not .
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"we living two different lives?" That was the line right there. How is Shalah more emotionally mature than the mom. It's so wild but I hope this young girl gets the healing she deserves.
so glad her daughter confronted her about what she did to her! she was physically, emotionally and mentally abused!
Good job young lady!!! please continue your healing we need your testimony!!!!❤❤❤
Her mother lacks a natural affection for her child.
Wow, what an impressive young lady. She should spend the rest of her life loving on and caring for herself. Being gentle on herself and steer clear of anyone who shows signs of manipulation or abuse. They will be drawn to her like a moth to flame so she must spend her time reminder of herself of her worth. I have so much love and caring for her and I really hope she takes care her self and surrounds herself with only kind and compassionate people like herself.
Thank you bby this made me smile 💗
Yes I wish more people would say this. It took me a long time to realize why this happens to me and now I'm prepared cause I know they're coming. I choose to help them with the best advice I can and then keep it moving. But if you don't know how to recognize it you can easily fall victim to some of these actors trying to pretend that they are here to give you what you've missed out on.
That girl is very mature & emotionally intelligent. Despite who she was born to, trust she will be okay, that’s Gods child!!
Counseling is needed for both of them… they truly need it 😢😢
Mama didnt even cry or shed a tear once - she not sorry
overt & malignant narcissists never do
She only came to the show for attention. @@autobotdiva9268
It’s because her pride and she don’t want to show remorse
it’s the mom rolling her eyes everytime he daughter says what she had been through. she’s sick.
Karamo is literally crying and holding back tears… This one is tough… I’m hugging and loving on my babies as soon as I make contact with them today….❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I think mom is on the spectrum. I think she’s repeating actions that were done to her and because she’s never had therapy to understand the action behind that was wrong she doesn’t interpret it that way. She’s crying because she knows her daughter is hurt by her actions but i don’t think she understands how she is wrong. The mom lacks social awareness.
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I pray for her and her healing . But her mom is slow. Like needs to be in a group home for the mentally challenged slow . This young lady shows so much strength and wisdom. She will go so far in this life!
I was also gathering that…. It makes me really really so incredibly sad….
He mom looks pretty young, she probably was a teen mom and has no clue how to parent.
That baby is angry & hurting all while trying to heal & move on but her mom is taking no accountability. It’s sad.
Mama is a sociopath she has 0 emotions…. Damn I am crying and I don’t know this child!
She’s such a beautiful and emotionally intelligent young woman! Keep advocating for yourself and stay on your side. You are more than the circumstances you’ve endured! I’m so sorry those horrible things happened to you. I hope her mom gets the help she needs because she seems deeply damaged.
The mother definition of a narcissist
Yall don’t realize she cap half her story I know this girl🤦🏽♂️use to run around school with boys but yall letting ha get ha fam
@@K4kshawn so that means she deserves to be violated, and to be abused & tortured by her own mother? Sick mindset. You weren't under the same roof as her, so to assume she's lying is asinine.
@@K4kshawn clearly she didn’t have the right structure at home and no comfort so when you lack that you go looking for attention in other places
@@K4kshawnyou dont think sexual abuse could lead to hypersexulality?
She was arrested@@K4kshawn
I understood this girl sm, not with the abuse sm even though there was some.. I admire her because she was able to speak up about her being raped. In my own experience I was so scared to say anything to anyone because I knew the outcome. My family splitting and that’s exactly what happened. They didn’t believe me. All you can do is take note of these things and not do it to your kids. Be their safe space.
That young lady has a great future if she stays positive and keeps working to develop herself.
And staying away from her mammie
I think there’s something deeper with the mom. Not excusing her behaviors, I just think there might be more than meets the eye here.
I disagree I was abused in every single way as a child growing up I would never raise a hand on my children
I’m so grateful that you were able to not repeat that. I’m so sorry that that happened to you. However statistically it is very common for people to continue to do to others what was done to them. It’s the whole reason people talk about breaking cycles.
I can relate to Shalah!! The Mother is a straight up Narcissist & she definitely needs to take accountability. As a Sexual Abuse/Physical Abuse Survivor I often acted out in my late teens/twenties & turned to sex/alcohol to dope & mask whatever pain I was feeling. Pain changes ppl but it’s our responsibility to HEAL!! Childhood trauma forever changes the trajectory of your life . Even at 35 I don’t trust many ppl a when or if I ever decide to have kids I’ll protect my children with every fiber in my body . We can’t HEAL what we don’t REVEAL!!! Sending Love , ❤️ Inner Peace, Healing ❤️🩹 to Shalah!! She definitely needs to heal her inner child & Give herself grace . Hopefully the mom corrects her wrongs & begins to recognize where she went wrong ! My Dad was physically & mentally abusive !! I forgive him but we don’t have a relationship
I'm sorry you went through that abuse. I'm glad that you're on the path to healing now and I hope that Shalah and others who've experienced the same pain see your comment and receive it.
What we don't talk about as a community is how certain aspects of our entertainment industry encourage young women to engage in hypersexual behavior. Unfortunately, it's easier for victims of abuse to go this route because they think embracing hypersexuality is taking control over the situation and that's not always the case. Sometimes victims embrace sex because they get accused of being "fast" and get blamed for what happened to them. This is why we have to be mindful of what we say with our tongues especially to our babies. Telling a child that they're "fast" only gives them two options to either prove you wrong or prove you right. Don't afflict these children with that kind of mental turmoil, especially not when the greater society is pushing that sex is liberation. They will fall prey.
Nevertheless, if you are a victim of sexual abuse, please get therapy and remember to not live your life based on what other people think of you. Forget them. Do what is healing, healthy, and best for you--the true inner you who wants to be restored and protected.
Cried because the strength she has at that young age is truly inspiring😢. Wishing her the best life.🍀🍀
Truthfully that's why I waited so long to have children I knew I wasn't ready. I always wanted to be better than my mother. Now I think I'm ready at 31
I can relate to this soooo much. I feel so bad for her.
@laashaayy So sorry to hear that 🙏 🤲
Hope you're getting the healing you deserve
What an intelligent, wise and beautiful 15-year-old girl who after all she's been through, still manages to put a smile on her face. The "mother" when backstage, evil was all over her face, so much, it irked my spirit. I feel so bad for Shalah. 😔I hope she can get what she desperately needs and wants from her "mother" but if she can't I wish her a happy and healthy life without her. 9x 💯
She said she is 19 years old now, but I concur with everything you said. She displays such uncredible strength
this woman made my blood boil. "IF i did it, i don't remember", "IF i did it, then i apologize", "IF i did it", like she just wants to rewrite history because she doesn't want to be exposed as the bad mother on national television and simply won't recognize that she *is* an abuser. this young woman is not only beautiful, but also incredibly smart and knows how to stand up for herself. just because you grew up in an abusive household it doesn't mean you have a free pass to abuse your children, you can break the cycle because you know damn well right from wrong. also, this child has been SA TWICE and the mother didn't do shit to help her own daughter. i pray shalah cut all ties with her mother and has a wonderful life full of love and healing.
Karamo is doing the Lord's work❤️
I believe this young girl cps should be taking this girl to a safe home
The girl is such a wonderful young person. To still seek her mother's closeness after what she'd gone through is just mind boggling! She is definitely a strong, kind and forgiving human being! And a good example of strength for girls that go through similar situations! May God help her achieve what she wants and provide her a peaceful and happy life!!
This is what happens when people are damaged and not repaired. It is important to address and heal from your past. It will follow you into your future and affect those around you. Mom was never taught parenting skills and in turn passed on some of what she endured unintentionally perhaps. Glad her daughter is determined to confront it and praying for healing for both of them. They are beautiful young ladies and will progress with tools and support. Most definitely counseling, prayer, forgiveness and good support system is necessary. Many things to unpack in their lives and hope they get to see the fruit of their labor. Thanks for helping them Karamo.
This girl is amazing!❤️
So brave, beautiful and bright I hope your future will be so good that your mother will feel a shame for what she did for you !!
This girl is strong asf I’m so inspired watching her story . She’s gonna do great things
This is my mother!!!! You have to wring any apology out of her. It’s scary how cold people can be
im a grown ass woman and im inspired by this young lady!! she’s stronger than me. ever since i learned to speak my truth, my mom has denied it. to the point where we don’t talk, because we’ve “lived two different lives.”this young lady is pushing through like i did not have the strength to, and i pray her mother has a miraculous emotional breakthrough soon 15:28
Karamo For President !
These parents need to learn how to be a parent she didn't even give her child a hug when she started crying
The way that she talk the daughter she’s going to help millions of people❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ big up !! I wish I could stand up to my mother!! maybe next lifetime
@@mizzpersonalityoffchartsin9080 aww😢
Shalah is emotionally intelligent and mature. She is definitely an inspiration to many others who are trying to find their voice and wishing to be heard. I pray and hope that Mom comes through for her and learns to grow.
This young girl is brave, intelligent, courageous the list goes on and on I see a very bright future for her ❤
The daughter, at way more mature than the mother do I believe everything the daughter is saying her mother did to her I was not planning on crying but man it broke me down when she told karamo didn’t believe her mom like or loved her abusing anybody especially kids is not OK mentally physically or emotionally it’s never ok
1:20 that just broke my heart
😢mine too
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i feel so bad for the mom she can’t even complete a full sentence, keep stuttering & choking up on her words. something is wrong with the mom !!
Yeah she’s a liar who’s being called out on her bs that’s why she’s stuttering.
I’m so glad to hear that the daughter is doing fine ❤
Whewwww… this was hard to watch! Her mama is still a child in the mind. They need help help.
I knew the mom came from an abusive home. It doesn’t make it right, but these parents that use force like this is nuts… Everyone needs help in this situation…. This child is so desensitized it’s alarming… pray for them!
Shout out to this young lady. She is definitely going to inspire many others to do the work!
Something is so off withe mother. I feel she never bonded with her when she was a baby. It’s like she’e emotionless and blank. I just don’t see maternalism or love. On the other hand, the daughter seems to me more mature and I pray for healing because she didn’t deserve none of this.
Yep I feel this
She probably was a teen mum..
The mom need to break the cycle! This is so heartbreaking… praying for this beautiful young lady❤️❤️
This is random as hell. But I love the fact we can store anything in our chest lol. The way she pulled that paper out was so relatable 😂. But good luck to them 🙏🏽💕
This was actually a TOUGH watch. 😓 man so much heaviness and just so wrong.
I hope the absolute best for the daughter and hope she just goes no contact.
I believe the daughter and I hope they both get the help they need to heal and possibly repair their relationship. Jesus help them 🙏🏼
@@roxi9897 hell yea!!
I'm 34 and my moma was the same way and guess what "She don't remember nothing she did" thats the narcissist way of still not giving af ..and she'll never change girl grow up without her!! It's ok I can give detail for detail how my moma beat me as a kid and for some reason she don't remember nothing, and the way she beat was pure hate that I was nothing like her but better ,I remember specifically her beating me and smirking I tried getting up she would beat me back down until she got tired and would then call me nothing but namesake I walked off crying ,until this day nothing about her has changed ..I had to pray and ask God about 3 years ago to remove my heart from hers because like you said "She had a hold on me I couldn't break"
I firmly believe character can’t be fixed. And many people, like this “mom” don’t have the capacity to be good parents. I pray healing and guidance over this young woman. I know that if she is to become a mom, she’ll be the best. She’s such a beautiful soul. If you see this, you are loved and you are worthy. 🙏🏾♥️
The eyes never lie.... the mothers eyes, the way she averts them, almost child like, full of escapism. Watching the mother defend herself against the daughters accusations is probably how she had to defend herself from her own abuse as a child.
A very brave, intelligent and eloquent young lady. Her mental age is far beyond 15.
Very mature girl, had to grow up fast. God bless her and protect her ❤️
Your daughter is crying out.Take accountability for being a bad mother. So you can heal for a new beginning.
Wow cuz I went through something similar and it’s sad that people are still going thru this type of stuff now too 😕 I’m 19 the same as her and I feel so strongly with the things she said and that mother honestly disgusted me she made a jk of herself !
They both so pretty I pray they can get thru this ❤
I see the emptiness in the mother's eyes😢 she is not healed from her own past and she just has an emptiness and she doesn't know how to love properly
Shayla really is inspiring like Karamo says, I feel like we have similar experiences in how we have chosen to respond to the life we were given. I’m around the same age too and it really is inspiring to see her hold herself up so high still after all she’s been through and I want to say thank you for the message at the end because it’s hard to have confidence in yourself when you’re by yourself and weighing out what you think you can do while you have so much to carry but to hear it from her is affirming. I’m trying to do the math too much instead of just keep trying and really go for it you know. Thank you Karamo and Shayla, it really is good to see that solution and coming through is possible
❤ you got this no matter what anyone tells u bby you mean something and your here for a reason 💗
@ Thank you 🙏 I’ll always try my best
tho I don’t need a reason to just deserve to be here 💯 I appreciate your words, have a good one⭐️
May God bless and use the daughter to inspire others like her. She’s truly anointed ✨
I could NOT continue listening to this black TRAUMA playing out in front of the world!! The SCREAMING was unbearable.
Beautiful young lady! Hope mom gets some serious help fast!
The daughter can’t even allow herself to cry.
Her parents have abandoned her. She said she went to live with her dad then later said she went back to live with her mom after being kicked out of a house. The mom only shows up to take a photo for social media and leaves. Looks like raising children is not conducive to the lifestyle she wants.
I definitely can relate ..so sad❤ The daughter is so mature and has a bright future ahead of her. Beautiful too. Sge reminds me of Brandy 😍Her mom is full of it & will regret how she treated her. The main kids that get did wrong, in the end are the ones they always need
She is so brave, mature, kind and forgiving made cry. I hope mom gives her what she needs ❤❤❤
I don’t think ppl understand that most parents that live thru trauma do not see the abuse as abuse. No, they will not be seen crying and being overly emotional when confronted about it. Because they are living what they learned, they are in survival. They will most likely not remember what occurred, because they are living in survival mode. So, I see both the mother AND the daughter’s point of view. No, it doesn’t justify any of the behaviors.
Mom need to do some time and therapy. She did all of what baby girl said she did. I hope baby girl gets the helps she needs to heal from all this trauma. She's so brave❤
Yesss Queen ,this young lady is living through her pain and is defo an inspiration to others 👏👏👏
She is so emotionally and mentally mature. I’m so sorry she had to endure so much abuse, but I’m so proud of her for standing up for herself. I’m praying for her healing ❤️🙌🏾
She is such a sweetheart... I pray her and her mom continue their healing process.
The look on the mom's face says it all. The mom is stuck at whatever young age she was when she first experience with trauma.
Literally Made Me Cry,
I love this ❤❤❤Beautiful Episode
She's brave! I hope she heals regardless if things don't work out with her mom.
My mom was abusive....but I couldn't discern from abusive to discipling as a child. Even still as an adult I try to gauge the "level" of abuse I got. Sometimes it's like did I deserve the abuse? and "oh that wasn't too bad". Long story short my mother's abuse opened the door to accepting other's abuse under the same guise "oh it's not too bad". I hope God keeps this young lady safe and protected.
first of all, this young lady is so brave❤ i hope she can heal.. truly. 😢 she is absolutely beautiful and incredibly well spoken… all that aside- she deserves so much love and light… she absolutely can and will inspire so many young girls. shoo, i’m 26 and she has inspired me ❤!
That mother hates her daughter because she's jealous of her. Happens alot. this young lady seems so strong. She's been graped multiple times n still stands strong
Videos like this make me cry 😭
My heart goes out to the daughter; I feel so sorry for her 😢! The mother is in a whole nother level world. The mother need spiritual counseling. Bothe are in my prayers 🙏🏼 for healing ❤
So, when moms ABUSE their kids they just need "help" and "counseling", but when dad does it he's a monster and deserves PRISON. Yall just can't hold other women accountable for BS. GTFOH
The mother is so immature. It’s sad. How she spoke so nonchalantly is weird to me. Something is off with the mom. She needs therapy.
This girl is SOOOO STRONG. I GENERALLY WISH HER well on life.
Poor baby laughs to keep from crying. I hate when parent so called " forget ".