Mom, Take Accountability For Abusing Me! | KARAMO

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  • Shalah has been waiting for her mother to apologize for abusing her so that they can repair their strained relationship.
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  • @spiritualhem_
    @spiritualhem_ 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3373

    The daughters level of maturity is astonishing. I pray they both get help

    • @KyeshaBonner
      @KyeshaBonner 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

      Yes because they both need counseling

    • @spiritualhem_
      @spiritualhem_ 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      @@KyeshaBonnerexactly!

    • @Shesnoangell
      @Shesnoangell 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      YESSSSSS!!! I was literally about to type this

    • @autobotdiva9268
      @autobotdiva9268 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      sorry boo, there is no help for this. block. move. no contact.

    • @spiritualhem_
      @spiritualhem_ 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@autobotdiva9268 help as individuals, if they pursue a relationship that’s on the mother to correct not the daughter. Mom failed her emotionally for sure but she made it through regardless

  • @Maiden_to_mother
    @Maiden_to_mother 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2570

    Damn, imagine thinking you’re going to die at the hands of your own mother, yikes

    • @lashaysexy2230
      @lashaysexy2230 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That was my story😫😭

    • @Youngari07
      @Youngari07 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      That's scary

    • @Youngari07
      @Youngari07 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      I would've ran away

    • @myellegreen7717
      @myellegreen7717 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      Been there, not a easy life nor a fun time

    • @TiimeToRoar
      @TiimeToRoar 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      @@myellegreen7717god bless u

  • @tammycalvin1596
    @tammycalvin1596 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2939

    There’s a difference between Discipline and abuse and this child was abused some of these people don’t have no business with kids

    • @KyeshaBonner
      @KyeshaBonner 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      Facts

    • @LeshaFBaby
      @LeshaFBaby 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      All facts

    • @81thafellowsh
      @81thafellowsh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      She had her for financial reasons & to hold on to the father.

    • @Youngari07
      @Youngari07 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Exactly

    • @chrisartshow
      @chrisartshow 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      Right. Because Discipline doesn't mean hiting.

  • @honest_lyricism
    @honest_lyricism 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1931

    The baby is crying and she didn’t even try to comfort her

    • @bdaybday1184
      @bdaybday1184 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

      That made me mad

    • @angelrogers3880
      @angelrogers3880 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@honest_lyricism Because she is the devil. She is evil. She don’t give a damn about her daughter.

    • @SiNCERELYTAYY1
      @SiNCERELYTAYY1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

      Shes a sick individual

    • @GangstaBoo7
      @GangstaBoo7 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

      She also tried to include how she was abused growing up for some sympathy to justify what she did 🙄

    • @wandaholmes8201
      @wandaholmes8201 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      @@GangstaBoo7 That alone should make you show more love ❤️ not less....

  • @brittanisimmons5430
    @brittanisimmons5430 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1271

    She is speaking severe abuse so nonchalantly. I hope she gets the help she needs.

    • @LadyNStreet
      @LadyNStreet หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      💔

    • @mw7882
      @mw7882 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      Yes because the abuse has become normalized. Her Mom is a terrible abusive narcissist. The lack of accountability is typical of people like this.

    • @Pme-KT
      @Pme-KT 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@brittanisimmons5430 this is about a 9.5/10 coming from a 7.5/10 situation after a while it’s just tiring literally have to be joking about it or it just spirals. Glad this turned out good.

  • @lisaaapov
    @lisaaapov 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2087

    i went to school with her we just graduated. everything she said was true and my heart hurts for her 🥺 cause she’s such a sweet girl

    • @Crazy_ShaeBae
      @Crazy_ShaeBae 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +100

      Hey lisaaaa❤

    • @lisaaapov
      @lisaaapov 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

      @ heyyy how are youuuu?

    • @Crazy_ShaeBae
      @Crazy_ShaeBae 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

      @@lisaaapovI’m good 💗

    • @lisaaapov
      @lisaaapov 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

      @ that’s good to hear 🙂💕

    • @autobotdiva9268
      @autobotdiva9268 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +69

      she has to block.move and go no contact with her mother. #selforphan. it will NEVER get better.

  • @danielle5391
    @danielle5391 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +878

    Mom needs therapy first to heal from her own childhood of abuse. I think she will then be able to have a better relationship with her beautiful daughter.

    • @LalaJones-gl7on
      @LalaJones-gl7on 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Wisdom right here 💯

    • @to.t3614
      @to.t3614 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Yes you can tell how her daughter spoke how she been done and the mother face was so like a little child that don't know how to express or speak she was to hard on the daughter thinking she protecting her but hurting her daughter for not listening it's hard when both went through tragedy

    • @Youngari07
      @Youngari07 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yea exactly

    • @gwenetteboyles6819
      @gwenetteboyles6819 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Absolutely.. looking at that mother’s face, she turned into a child herself as Karamo spoke to her. I pray healing for this mother and daughter.

  • @mochabeautymama
    @mochabeautymama 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1491

    This is stomach turning. Heavenly Father, please protect that child for all of her days to come please keep your protective shield around her. Allow her to heal and suffer no longer. Amen 🙏🏽

    • @BeaYOUtifulMe_9
      @BeaYOUtifulMe_9 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Please Lord hear 👂 this prayer 🙏🏽 Amen 🙏🏽 Amen 🙏🏽 Amen 🙏🏽 😢

    • @Tiff_C
      @Tiff_C 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@SwitchemK That’s not a reason why anyone should abuse their child. If she is doing what you say it’s probably because she feels like her mom doesn’t love her so she tries to find that with boys.

    • @SyreetaMHenry
      @SyreetaMHenry 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Beautiful 🙏🏾❤️

    • @Lovelyliberianleo
      @Lovelyliberianleo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Amen

    • @Goobebeh
      @Goobebeh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@SwitchemKhypersexuality can be a result of abuse. Besides violence on your children is wild

  • @terrificv1665
    @terrificv1665 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +726

    Women....please DO NOT have a child if you have not healed from the abuse of your mother especially. Many mothers are very abusive to their kids and they never take accoutability when their children become of age and confront them. I feel for this poor baby girl and im middke aged...i suffered from the hands of my mother. Even today im still trying to heal and my mother never takes accountability. I hope God will provide a mom to heal this sweet girl becayse her 'mom' is incapable.

    • @Nita_100
      @Nita_100 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      The problem is, it's normalized.

    • @LaCreshiaify
      @LaCreshiaify 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm sorry that you went through abuse with your mom. I hope that she acknowledges her harm and that you continue to heal, even if she doesn't. 🙏🏿

    • @quianamathis7345
      @quianamathis7345 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Exactly. Me and my mother have a bad relationship. She also had a bad relationship with her mother. I love kids and I work with them but I'm not having any because I know I'm not healed from not feeling loved by my mother. I refuse to continue any generational curses and if I have to sacrifice to ensure that then so be it. I care for other people's kids for 8 hours cause that's all I can handle. Then go home and mind my business 😂

    • @BoomShakaLaka128
      @BoomShakaLaka128 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      In my circumstances being healed from past events hits different after having a child. Causes for a different type of healing that gave freedom into my motherhood🤞 I’m still learning shoot just as I’m learning me. And same for my kids they are learning they self and me, all I ask for is respect which could look like patience, silence, understanding, love, God!!!..etc etc.

    • @BoomShakaLaka128
      @BoomShakaLaka128 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It’s an obstacle course lol I’m already crazy enough lmao then I have too raise my kids too make sure they ain’t crazy knowing they from my genetics whewwwww lmao

  • @butyoucancallmesam
    @butyoucancallmesam 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +502

    Her mother lacks a natural affection for her child.

    • @melaningoddess5179
      @melaningoddess5179 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      @@butyoucancallmesam NO MATERNAL INSTINCT

    • @jadesingleton4110
      @jadesingleton4110 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Most black American women have no affection for children.

    • @Lay-Tasha
      @Lay-Tasha 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      She literally can't, she has so much hurt of her own that she can't even love the child she birthed and it's sad

    • @lucio24753
      @lucio24753 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Now she said I am 15 and don't know what I want.
      But I guess when she was 15, she never listened cos she would think she knew it all...
      These are behaviours synonymous to youthful exorbitant.
      If we take into account human development, they are mostly deviants at that age till 25.
      These children too become parents with no tools and the cycles repeat.
      Why?
      They think they be correcting the mistakes they made.
      But we can help these kids by being truthful not validating their wrongs by acknowledging they are "just children" . Children capable of solving science equations?
      They have sense, just the foolishness of thinking they are invisible. It won't happen to me cos I'm smart and then it happens. They shift the blame cos it's easy to be victim rather than taking accountability.
      This excuses is why society never get better.
      We should hold both accountable.
      Then both should take a course to learn tools to navigate the complexities of life.
      Parents are humans themselves trying to understand themselves.
      We just pile all these loads on them.
      These patterns especially with poor parents cos they be thinking about how to survive then a troubling child.
      They too never had tools. They are tired too.

    • @lucio24753
      @lucio24753 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@Lay-Tasha Because she's been through a lot herself and still is.
      It's not easy but we just pick sides and it's not fair.

  • @User719ywi
    @User719ywi 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +607

    And then parents wonder why kids go no contact .. she’s better than me still wanting to fix things, once I have everything together, see you never!

    • @anndeecosita3586
      @anndeecosita3586 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      I don’t think her parents care if she goes no contact because they have pretty much abandoned her. She said she went to live with her dad then later said she was kicked out of a house. I’m guessing her dad’s house or that of another relative.

    • @autobotdiva9268
      @autobotdiva9268 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      #selforphan

    • @itty.bittypretty2019
      @itty.bittypretty2019 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes this is literally me I can’t wait and I will not have no guilt

  • @IAM.christine
    @IAM.christine 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +303

    it’s the mom rolling her eyes everytime he daughter says what she had been through. she’s sick.

  • @edu.Funtime
    @edu.Funtime 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +399

    This is so sad. Once your childhood is gone, you can’t get it back. So many have been ROBBED! Smh

    • @amandamadyara5635
      @amandamadyara5635 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      ‼️‼️ this is truly the saddest part of it all. You have to live forever knowing you’re stuck with the awful memories from your childhood.

    • @stoplayin21
      @stoplayin21 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And the fact you growing up like something was wrong with you too.

  • @brendawelch6477
    @brendawelch6477 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +615

    Mental abuse and physical abuse and now on national television screaming at your daughter it's sad 😢😢😢

    • @CatrinaChante-e2e
      @CatrinaChante-e2e 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      Sickening to see a mother acting out towards her daughter. I'm grateful my mother could neva

  • @kayshco4899
    @kayshco4899 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +465

    Moms is stuck somewhere else. The community gotta tighten up & I mean quick!!! Lord bless that child! She is so beautiful & intelligent!! She will soar so far🩷

    • @LeticiaFerreira-oe2hp
      @LeticiaFerreira-oe2hp 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      Perfectly said. The mums mental state is clearly not okay and probably hasn’t been for a long time, probably from her trauma she needs therapy

    • @jkirk1710
      @jkirk1710 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I pray they both get the help they need. May God bless and hold them close ❤❤❤

  • @breej69
    @breej69 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +180

    The look on the mom's face says it all. The mom is stuck at whatever young age she was when she first experience with trauma.

    • @KapQueen
      @KapQueen หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      She looks 11 or 12

    • @Foreverinlovetoca
      @Foreverinlovetoca หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@breej69 👍🏼

    • @knightclassic1
      @knightclassic1 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She's stuck with Chicago, Cleveland and Detroit Attitude

  • @bluesnail310
    @bluesnail310 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +307

    "we living two different lives?" That was the line right there. How is Shalah more emotionally mature than the mom. It's so wild but I hope this young girl gets the healing she deserves.

  • @MissAsh1
    @MissAsh1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +217

    Her maturity comes from all the abuse she endured and the fact that she had to grow up so fast. I can see myself in her from all the trauma I endured growing up. Therapy helps a lot❤

  • @shannenluevelle7331
    @shannenluevelle7331 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +358

    She’s so pretty and has a bright future ahead of her! Pray and build a relationship with God 🙏🏽, it’ll be ok hun!

    • @Crazy_ShaeBae
      @Crazy_ShaeBae 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Thank you hun💗

  • @ArrielleNicole
    @ArrielleNicole 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +326

    Mama didnt even cry or shed a tear once - she not sorry

    • @autobotdiva9268
      @autobotdiva9268 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      overt & malignant narcissists never do

    • @Nita_100
      @Nita_100 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She only came to the show for attention. ​@@autobotdiva9268

    • @bretube9294
      @bretube9294 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      It’s because her pride and she don’t want to show remorse

    • @the_chosen1.761
      @the_chosen1.761 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      She should’ve had more time behind bars 😤

    • @RainbowKidd
      @RainbowKidd 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      She really not.

  • @sliimasskee
    @sliimasskee 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +192

    This show always heals an inner child. It's crazy to think that your alone because we are Not .

    • @kaitlyncarey3269
      @kaitlyncarey3269 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Word

    • @xen9281
      @xen9281 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      It is so validating to see others in this community here for the same reason. To see the justice that we couldn’t have.

  • @Bestbeanz
    @Bestbeanz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +118

    That girl is very mature & emotionally intelligent. Despite who she was born to, trust she will be okay, that’s Gods child!!

  • @psyourauntie
    @psyourauntie 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +152

    The eyes never lie.... the mothers eyes, the way she averts them, almost child like, full of escapism. Watching the mother defend herself against the daughters accusations is probably how she had to defend herself from her own abuse as a child.

    • @porshab4275
      @porshab4275 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      I agree, it’s like the mom is somewhere else. I can’t describe it. She gives childlike vibes.

    • @Gooknusa
      @Gooknusa หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I think she’s on the spectrum

    • @psyourauntie
      @psyourauntie หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Gooknusa That too...wow so sad 😿

    • @psyourauntie
      @psyourauntie หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@porshab4275 Very childlike so sad for her.... arrested development

  • @Simplyyy.BerniceTV
    @Simplyyy.BerniceTV หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    I loved how she walked away when things were getting a little TOO heated that shows that she is mature.

  • @j9carson
    @j9carson 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +187

    Wow, what an impressive young lady. She should spend the rest of her life loving on and caring for herself. Being gentle on herself and steer clear of anyone who shows signs of manipulation or abuse. They will be drawn to her like a moth to flame so she must spend her time reminder of herself of her worth. I have so much love and caring for her and I really hope she takes care her self and surrounds herself with only kind and compassionate people like herself.

    • @Crazy_ShaeBae
      @Crazy_ShaeBae 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Thank you bby this made me smile 💗

    • @quianamathis7345
      @quianamathis7345 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yes I wish more people would say this. It took me a long time to realize why this happens to me and now I'm prepared cause I know they're coming. I choose to help them with the best advice I can and then keep it moving. But if you don't know how to recognize it you can easily fall victim to some of these actors trying to pretend that they are here to give you what you've missed out on.

    • @j9carson
      @j9carson 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Crazy_ShaeBae Keep up the healing work Sis! 🩷

    • @j9carson
      @j9carson 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@quianamathis7345 Amen. Those of us who need healing ❤️‍🩹 should always seek to be around kind, supportive and loving ppl. Keep it up and I will too!

    • @stephaniealicia-y3i
      @stephaniealicia-y3i 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      This daughter is so mature for her age because of what she's been through. Her childhood was robbed from her & her Mother needs to acknowledge all of the harm & hurt she has done to her beautiful daughter. I had a similar experience with my Mum, not as bad as this but actually rather similar. I wanted her to acknowledge all of the wrongdoings she done to myself & my younger sibling but unfortunately she took everything to her grave without acknowledging anything. We can't help who we are born to sadly.

  • @lisawilliams8865
    @lisawilliams8865 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +104

    Counseling is needed for both of them… they truly need it 😢😢

  • @ShanetteLewis
    @ShanetteLewis 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +158

    so glad her daughter confronted her about what she did to her! she was physically, emotionally and mentally abused!
    Good job young lady!!! please continue your healing we need your testimony!!!!❤❤❤

  • @Jasmine229-e7h
    @Jasmine229-e7h 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +78

    That baby is angry & hurting all while trying to heal & move on but her mom is taking no accountability. It’s sad.

  • @kimdean1079
    @kimdean1079 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +100

    That young lady has a great future if she stays positive and keeps working to develop herself.

    • @sweetcaramel2887
      @sweetcaramel2887 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      And staying away from her mammie

  • @BeaYOUtifulMe_9
    @BeaYOUtifulMe_9 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

    Karamo is literally crying and holding back tears… This one is tough… I’m hugging and loving on my babies as soon as I make contact with them today….❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @lexciib
    @lexciib 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    I pray for her and her healing . But her mom is slow. Like needs to be in a group home for the mentally challenged slow . This young lady shows so much strength and wisdom. She will go so far in this life!

    • @kaitlyncarey3269
      @kaitlyncarey3269 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I was also gathering that…. It makes me really really so incredibly sad….

    • @ariamason9324
      @ariamason9324 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      He mom looks pretty young, she probably was a teen mom and has no clue how to parent.

  • @jujubeans27981
    @jujubeans27981 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +108

    Mama is a sociopath she has 0 emotions…. Damn I am crying and I don’t know this child!

    • @dreeeambaby
      @dreeeambaby 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      agree. I get personality disorder vibes from her too

    • @mimix3879
      @mimix3879 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Narcissistic personality disorder.

  • @gabifgt
    @gabifgt 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +84

    this woman made my blood boil. "IF i did it, i don't remember", "IF i did it, then i apologize", "IF i did it", like she just wants to rewrite history because she doesn't want to be exposed as the bad mother on national television and simply won't recognize that she *is* an abuser. this young woman is not only beautiful, but also incredibly smart and knows how to stand up for herself. just because you grew up in an abusive household it doesn't mean you have a free pass to abuse your children, you can break the cycle because you know damn well right from wrong. also, this child has been SA TWICE and the mother didn't do shit to help her own daughter. i pray shalah cut all ties with her mother and has a wonderful life full of love and healing.

  • @kristinjohnson8984
    @kristinjohnson8984 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    The mother went through abuse growing up and instead of going to therapy & healing, she inflicts that same pain on her daughter. At 15 years old, this young lady is so mature and strong. I have high hopes she will be the one to break this awful cycle of abuse. She has gone through so much that she did not deserve, praying for better days ahead for her.

    • @yougsa
      @yougsa 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Shes 19 she was 15 when she was assaulted

  • @teecee9926
    @teecee9926 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    This girl is SOOOO STRONG. I GENERALLY WISH HER well on life.

  • @riyaroka
    @riyaroka 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    Cried because the strength she has at that young age is truly inspiring😢. Wishing her the best life.🍀🍀

  • @Hannahrk9
    @Hannahrk9 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +164

    The mother definition of a narcissist

    • @SwitchemK
      @SwitchemK 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yall don’t realize she cap half her story I know this girl🤦🏽‍♂️use to run around school with boys but yall letting ha get ha fam

    • @MaddyB102
      @MaddyB102 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@SwitchemK so that means she deserves to be violated, and to be abused & tortured by her own mother? Sick mindset. You weren't under the same roof as her, so to assume she's lying is asinine.

    • @ladaishaminor1012
      @ladaishaminor1012 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      @@SwitchemK clearly she didn’t have the right structure at home and no comfort so when you lack that you go looking for attention in other places

    • @yattetheaqua
      @yattetheaqua 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

      @@SwitchemKyou dont think sexual abuse could lead to hypersexulality?

    • @harriettubman337
      @harriettubman337 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      She was arrested​@@SwitchemK

  • @jchelbi
    @jchelbi 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    She’s such a beautiful and emotionally intelligent young woman! Keep advocating for yourself and stay on your side. You are more than the circumstances you’ve endured! I’m so sorry those horrible things happened to you. I hope her mom gets the help she needs because she seems deeply damaged.

  • @carriberri15
    @carriberri15 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    Karamo is doing the Lord's work❤️

  • @rustyhornzinstrumentalist-7596
    @rustyhornzinstrumentalist-7596 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +84

    What an intelligent, wise and beautiful 15-year-old girl who after all she's been through, still manages to put a smile on her face. The "mother" when backstage, evil was all over her face, so much, it irked my spirit. I feel so bad for Shalah. 😔I hope she can get what she desperately needs and wants from her "mother" but if she can't I wish her a happy and healthy life without her. 9x 💯

    • @sibslawrence2335
      @sibslawrence2335 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      She said she is 19 years old now, but I concur with everything you said. She displays such uncredible strength

  • @Sheiselu
    @Sheiselu 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    This girl is strong asf I’m so inspired watching her story . She’s gonna do great things

  • @B1ggyNorr1S
    @B1ggyNorr1S 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +75

    I disagree I was abused in every single way as a child growing up I would never raise a hand on my children

    • @osunlade-daphne2598
      @osunlade-daphne2598 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      I’m so grateful that you were able to not repeat that. I’m so sorry that that happened to you. However statistically it is very common for people to continue to do to others what was done to them. It’s the whole reason people talk about breaking cycles.

  • @damianu4082
    @damianu4082 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Shalah is emotionally intelligent and mature. She is definitely an inspiration to many others who are trying to find their voice and wishing to be heard. I pray and hope that Mom comes through for her and learns to grow.

  • @CarmenVPeralta
    @CarmenVPeralta 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    I understood this girl sm, not with the abuse sm even though there was some.. I admire her because she was able to speak up about her being raped. In my own experience I was so scared to say anything to anyone because I knew the outcome. My family splitting and that’s exactly what happened. They didn’t believe me. All you can do is take note of these things and not do it to your kids. Be their safe space.

  • @tarig9555
    @tarig9555 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +103

    I think mom is on the spectrum. I think she’s repeating actions that were done to her and because she’s never had therapy to understand the action behind that was wrong she doesn’t interpret it that way. She’s crying because she knows her daughter is hurt by her actions but i don’t think she understands how she is wrong. The mom lacks social awareness.

    • @laurenjenkins2070
      @laurenjenkins2070 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@tarig9555 was looking for this comment!

  • @stephenchristian3636
    @stephenchristian3636 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    I can relate to Shalah!! The Mother is a straight up Narcissist & she definitely needs to take accountability. As a Sexual Abuse/Physical Abuse Survivor I often acted out in my late teens/twenties & turned to sex/alcohol to dope & mask whatever pain I was feeling. Pain changes ppl but it’s our responsibility to HEAL!! Childhood trauma forever changes the trajectory of your life . Even at 35 I don’t trust many ppl a when or if I ever decide to have kids I’ll protect my children with every fiber in my body . We can’t HEAL what we don’t REVEAL!!! Sending Love , ❤️ Inner Peace, Healing ❤️‍🩹 to Shalah!! She definitely needs to heal her inner child & Give herself grace . Hopefully the mom corrects her wrongs & begins to recognize where she went wrong ! My Dad was physically & mentally abusive !! I forgive him but we don’t have a relationship

    • @LaCreshiaify
      @LaCreshiaify 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm sorry you went through that abuse. I'm glad that you're on the path to healing now and I hope that Shalah and others who've experienced the same pain see your comment and receive it.
      What we don't talk about as a community is how certain aspects of our entertainment industry encourage young women to engage in hypersexual behavior. Unfortunately, it's easier for victims of abuse to go this route because they think embracing hypersexuality is taking control over the situation and that's not always the case. Sometimes victims embrace sex because they get accused of being "fast" and get blamed for what happened to them. This is why we have to be mindful of what we say with our tongues especially to our babies. Telling a child that they're "fast" only gives them two options to either prove you wrong or prove you right. Don't afflict these children with that kind of mental turmoil, especially not when the greater society is pushing that sex is liberation. They will fall prey.
      Nevertheless, if you are a victim of sexual abuse, please get therapy and remember to not live your life based on what other people think of you. Forget them. Do what is healing, healthy, and best for you--the true inner you who wants to be restored and protected.

  • @JamMasterKae
    @JamMasterKae 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    im a grown ass woman and im inspired by this young lady!! she’s stronger than me. ever since i learned to speak my truth, my mom has denied it. to the point where we don’t talk, because we’ve “lived two different lives.”this young lady is pushing through like i did not have the strength to, and i pray her mother has a miraculous emotional breakthrough soon 15:28

  • @laashaayy
    @laashaayy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    I can relate to this soooo much. I feel so bad for her.

    • @AndreaSylve
      @AndreaSylve 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @laashaayy So sorry to hear that 🙏 🤲

    • @LaCreshiaify
      @LaCreshiaify 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Hope you're getting the healing you deserve

  • @Hannahrk9
    @Hannahrk9 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    I believe this young girl cps should be taking this girl to a safe home

  • @MrSupermariobro82
    @MrSupermariobro82 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    KARAMO you are what the new generation needs you stop and ask her if she is comfortable telling these stories that’s beyond professional, you carry yourself of a very high standards. Love it. I watch your show every week.

  • @emmacaldwell3583
    @emmacaldwell3583 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    These parents need to learn how to be a parent she didn't even give her child a hug when she started crying

  • @reatherhollingsworth2097
    @reatherhollingsworth2097 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    This is what happens when people are damaged and not repaired. It is important to address and heal from your past. It will follow you into your future and affect those around you. Mom was never taught parenting skills and in turn passed on some of what she endured unintentionally perhaps. Glad her daughter is determined to confront it and praying for healing for both of them. They are beautiful young ladies and will progress with tools and support. Most definitely counseling, prayer, forgiveness and good support system is necessary. Many things to unpack in their lives and hope they get to see the fruit of their labor. Thanks for helping them Karamo.

  • @KarakoreJapan
    @KarakoreJapan 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    The girl is such a wonderful young person. To still seek her mother's closeness after what she'd gone through is just mind boggling! She is definitely a strong, kind and forgiving human being! And a good example of strength for girls that go through similar situations! May God help her achieve what she wants and provide her a peaceful and happy life!!

  • @The.Still.Healing.Podcast
    @The.Still.Healing.Podcast 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    The fact she can smile while sharing so much trauma is remarkable.. I hope she is blessed beyond measure, mentally, physically & emotionally 💔🙏🏾

  • @leeannajohnson1008
    @leeannajohnson1008 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    This young girl is brave, intelligent, courageous the list goes on and on I see a very bright future for her ❤

  • @nl8128
    @nl8128 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    This girl is amazing!❤️
    So brave, beautiful and bright I hope your future will be so good that your mother will feel a shame for what she did for you !!

  • @chinkz6375
    @chinkz6375 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    She is so emotionally and mentally mature. I’m so sorry she had to endure so much abuse, but I’m so proud of her for standing up for herself. I’m praying for her healing ❤️🙌🏾

  • @fbmusic7647
    @fbmusic7647 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This girl is strong I kid you not. Takes so much courage to stand up to your parent(s) as a young person. And she still willing to have a good relationship with her mom wow.
    I wish this girl the best!!

  • @dreyday21
    @dreyday21 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I’m so glad to hear that the daughter is doing fine ❤

  • @Rissaj07
    @Rissaj07 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Shout out to this young lady. She is definitely going to inspire many others to do the work!

  • @lovingyouispain4312
    @lovingyouispain4312 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Truthfully that's why I waited so long to have children I knew I wasn't ready. I always wanted to be better than my mother. Now I think I'm ready at 31

  • @teshaholsey9367
    @teshaholsey9367 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    The daughter, at way more mature than the mother do I believe everything the daughter is saying her mother did to her I was not planning on crying but man it broke me down when she told karamo didn’t believe her mom like or loved her abusing anybody especially kids is not OK mentally physically or emotionally it’s never ok

  • @lifewk
    @lifewk 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    A very brave, intelligent and eloquent young lady. Her mental age is far beyond 15.

  • @OHDATSANT
    @OHDATSANT 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    Karamo For President !

  • @2536l1
    @2536l1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    This is my mother!!!! You have to wring any apology out of her. It’s scary how cold people can be

  • @donbaby30
    @donbaby30 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    The mom need to break the cycle! This is so heartbreaking… praying for this beautiful young lady❤️❤️

  • @damiencrews7603
    @damiencrews7603 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    That mother hates her daughter because she's jealous of her. Happens alot. this young lady seems so strong. She's been graped multiple times n still stands strong

  • @cassidy._
    @cassidy._ 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This girl is so mature and amazing. I admire the host’s ability to empathize with the mother to gauge why she did what she did. The daughter is so strong because I wouldnt even be able to get the words out through all my tears if this was me. People and the way they react to trauma is so interesting. This is why i feel moms and dads need to check themselves before having kids because they end up perpetuating the cycle like my mom. But its up to girls and boys like us to break the cycle and the daughter is so strong for confronting her abuser and mom. I wish her the best. And same to the mom who was making weird excuses that made her guilt obvious. It must be hard so the best to the both of them❤. The daughter has such a strong and beautiful soul.

  • @OdachiRain
    @OdachiRain 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    im so sick of seeing mothers ABUSING their daughters then getting mad when they are held accountable. hitting your kid with a pipe, making them kneel on rice, verbal abuse... and then these mothers wonder why their kids leave them when they get old

  • @SkaizMoM
    @SkaizMoM 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    thank you Karamo for giving this girl this platform to spread this very powerful message

  • @Bubbles201021
    @Bubbles201021 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I see the emptiness in the mother's eyes😢 she is not healed from her own past and she just has an emptiness and she doesn't know how to love properly

  • @jaymurphy8050
    @jaymurphy8050 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This young lady is amazing. I pray she blossoms into a rose 🌹 she is ❤❤

  • @joneshariley621
    @joneshariley621 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I'm 34 and my moma was the same way and guess what "She don't remember nothing she did" thats the narcissist way of still not giving af ..and she'll never change girl grow up without her!! It's ok I can give detail for detail how my moma beat me as a kid and for some reason she don't remember nothing, and the way she beat was pure hate that I was nothing like her but better ,I remember specifically her beating me and smirking I tried getting up she would beat me back down until she got tired and would then call me nothing but namesake I walked off crying ,until this day nothing about her has changed ..I had to pray and ask God about 3 years ago to remove my heart from hers because like you said "She had a hold on me I couldn't break"

  • @aysiababyyy3664
    @aysiababyyy3664 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    1:20 that just broke my heart

    • @imanihollins664
      @imanihollins664 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😢mine too

    • @BEINGAKPOPMULTISTANISHARD
      @BEINGAKPOPMULTISTANISHARD 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Fr😭

    • @iiamtray.1234
      @iiamtray.1234 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Fr

    • @BlessedtoSOAR
      @BlessedtoSOAR หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Fr😢 Unfortunately, I can relate to her childhood abuse.

    • @BushBabeez
      @BushBabeez 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Me too, This little girl didn't deserve this.

  • @mizzpersonalityoffchartsin9080
    @mizzpersonalityoffchartsin9080 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    The way that she talk the daughter she’s going to help millions of people❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ big up !! I wish I could stand up to my mother!! maybe next lifetime

    • @tiyehyler4610
      @tiyehyler4610 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@mizzpersonalityoffchartsin9080 aww😢

  • @Gamingandlipstck
    @Gamingandlipstck 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I knew the mom came from an abusive home. It doesn’t make it right, but these parents that use force like this is nuts… Everyone needs help in this situation…. This child is so desensitized it’s alarming… pray for them!

  • @cherylcondra5655
    @cherylcondra5655 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    She is so brave, mature, kind and forgiving made cry. I hope mom gives her what she needs ❤❤❤

  • @dami_mary
    @dami_mary 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This is so sad, but bring me comfort. I don’t talk to my mom at all for a lot of the same reasons. I’ve always felt like she hated me and still does. Why have a child and mistreat them? What is the purpose? I’m a mother myself and that is what keeps me sane is thinking “I’ll never do what she does to me to my kids.”

  • @IloveGod.2000
    @IloveGod.2000 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    This is random as hell. But I love the fact we can store anything in our chest lol. The way she pulled that paper out was so relatable 😂. But good luck to them 🙏🏽💕

  • @Natalie.H._3
    @Natalie.H._3 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My story was kind of like that and I am so sorry for what happened to her and i am truly inspired on how brave she was to tell people that, to go on a show and say all of that to her mom and all that maturity just shows how brave she is. ❤❤❤

  • @dekendrajackson3772
    @dekendrajackson3772 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I firmly believe character can’t be fixed. And many people, like this “mom” don’t have the capacity to be good parents. I pray healing and guidance over this young woman. I know that if she is to become a mom, she’ll be the best. She’s such a beautiful soul. If you see this, you are loved and you are worthy. 🙏🏾♥️

  • @lightskinnpleasant8288
    @lightskinnpleasant8288 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Bless this baby girl, she so strong and full of light to sit there and not be hateful towards her Mother. May God continue to strengthen her and give her the understanding that she did not deserve to be treated like that and to never allow anyone to treat her in a way that would cause this kind of pain. One time is to many....God touch her mother and give her understanding as well.

  • @prettyface7818
    @prettyface7818 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    They both so pretty I pray they can get thru this ❤

  • @luvinonthee
    @luvinonthee 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Whewwww… this was hard to watch! Her mama is still a child in the mind. They need help help.

  • @roxi9897
    @roxi9897 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    I believe the daughter and I hope they both get the help they need to heal and possibly repair their relationship. Jesus help them 🙏🏼

    • @booker1437
      @booker1437 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@roxi9897 hell yea!!

  • @lyndenlee_
    @lyndenlee_ 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    This was actually a TOUGH watch. 😓 man so much heaviness and just so wrong.
    I hope the absolute best for the daughter and hope she just goes no contact.

  • @silvercrown4293
    @silvercrown4293 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Shayla really is inspiring like Karamo says, I feel like we have similar experiences in how we have chosen to respond to the life we were given. I’m around the same age too and it really is inspiring to see her hold herself up so high still after all she’s been through and I want to say thank you for the message at the end because it’s hard to have confidence in yourself when you’re by yourself and weighing out what you think you can do while you have so much to carry but to hear it from her is affirming. I’m trying to do the math too much instead of just keep trying and really go for it you know. Thank you Karamo and Shayla, it really is good to see that solution and coming through is possible

    • @Crazy_ShaeBae
      @Crazy_ShaeBae 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ❤ you got this no matter what anyone tells u bby you mean something and your here for a reason 💗

    • @silvercrown4293
      @silvercrown4293 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @ Thank you 🙏 I’ll always try my best
      tho I don’t need a reason to just deserve to be here 💯 I appreciate your words, have a good one⭐️

  • @bernicemillhouse9693
    @bernicemillhouse9693 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    She is very brave and smart I wish the best her mom gets better so they can build a real Mom & Daughter relationship ❤🙏🏾❤️

  • @oceanbella
    @oceanbella 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I'm glad she's talking about her abuse. I was abused by my cousin. She would beat me over it every little thing, and I was just a child, and now that i'm talking about it more and i'm calling it abuse.Nobody seems to believe me, or tells me to get over it but I know what it was. CONTINUE TO SPEAK UP FOR YOURSELF.

  • @angelawilliams2377
    @angelawilliams2377 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I'm sorry You went through that. I was in that situation as a kid not by My Mother but My Grandmother. You can only get through this one day at a time. Praying for You.

  • @kylaevans9438
    @kylaevans9438 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is so sad. The kids are gonna be alright though. Look at her, even thru her hurt shes so mature, well spoken and insightful.

  • @Lyxur_thv
    @Lyxur_thv หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Poor baby you can see in her eyes how much she been through hope all the best for her hope she recovers from the abuse ik how it feels not to feel loved by I just know she will have a good future with her maturity 💗

  • @dbly704
    @dbly704 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Something is so off withe mother. I feel she never bonded with her when she was a baby. It’s like she’e emotionless and blank. I just don’t see maternalism or love. On the other hand, the daughter seems to me more mature and I pray for healing because she didn’t deserve none of this.

    • @isabellesantos7186
      @isabellesantos7186 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yep I feel this

    • @aoc092
      @aoc092 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She probably was a teen mum..

  • @MbaliFlayser
    @MbaliFlayser หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    She has a beautiful , confident , smart articulate daughter she should take accountability period !!!!

  • @JordanKeuna
    @JordanKeuna 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    i feel so bad for the mom she can’t even complete a full sentence, keep stuttering & choking up on her words. something is wrong with the mom !!

    • @Datpmf112
      @Datpmf112 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Yeah she’s a liar who’s being called out on her bs that’s why she’s stuttering.

    • @ericdwhitmorec
      @ericdwhitmorec หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Datpmf112no developmentally, there is something off there.

  • @donikkabrown7518
    @donikkabrown7518 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    As a previous victim of severe child abuse,torment,torture, and multiple sexual assaults,I would never be sitting on TV telling my horrific story e we it’s a BIG ASS SMILE on my face because any kind of abuse is not funny so the daughter to me seems like she’s exaggerating some details. Now in ALOT of different communities families use physical punishments like whoopings with belts or standing in the corner for an hour,or even using electrical cords or hands,etc to discipline unruly children. Now as adults we look back and say to our cousins or friends “remember when grandma used to get the switch off the tree to whoop us” or “remember this n that happened” n that is followed up with “it did have a positive outcome on my life,etc or it helped shape us into who we are as adults later in life… I feel a little manipulation coming from the daughter also.

    • @Crazy_ShaeBae
      @Crazy_ShaeBae 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      If you look into psychology, you’ll notice that smiling it’s a way to hide your emotions because you don’t want to seem weak in front of the people around you. You also have to remember that other people, perceive and project what has Happened to them differently because we all live different lives. You may have got it worse than Me and you deal with it worse, Vice versa I could have gone through it worse than you, but I smile and laugh through it to keep strong. You don’t know what anybody’s going through or how they’ve gone through it. My truth is my story and that’s what I told that show. I am not mad at you or anything. I just felt the need to educate you. I love you bby💗 and rember GOD IS ALWAYS WITH YOU AND HE LOVES YOU ❤❤😊

  • @hms3412
    @hms3412 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This relationship doesn’t need saving and this young woman deserves better

  • @niexoxooo
    @niexoxooo หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    the way the mom just mugging is pissing me off, no type of consideration , care , or sympathy

  • @angelastewart6584
    @angelastewart6584 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The daughter is going to do something special with her life. she's so intelligent and articulate. I hope and pray they both get the support and love they need.

  • @sydneyfryer6971
    @sydneyfryer6971 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    She’s such a sweet intelligent young woman I really hope the best for her ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤