Absolutely beautiful. Is there a transcript available for this? My fiancé and I would love to use this for our ceremony. Please share with us. Thank you
Me and my husband have inserted our names here, but here is the script in full (slightly modified in some parts): Dylan and Casandra, you have come here today to mark the beginning of what will be and also to celebrate what already is. In truth, your marriage already exists. In your every day moments together, you've had many conversations about hopes, promises, past hurts, dreams, values and fears. You've said "I love you", shared adventures, made confessions, perhaps even had an argument or a disagreement... or two. You've told each other your stories, many parts of which you have revealed to no one else. What has emerged from these conversations has been the making of a covenant; a bond of commitment that is uniquely yours. Together, you have decided what you want, what you believe, what you hope for, and that you want to stay together. And so, you are here today because you have said to one another, "I love you, I trust you, I will be here for you when you are hurting, and when I am hurting, I will not leave." The marriage is complete, all that's left is the wedding, which is the public declaration of your love. Today you legally become that which you already are emotionally: a husband and a wife. Dylan and Casandra, as husband and wife you will grow together in mind, heart and spirit. This mutual growth and sharing will strengthen your relationship more than any spoken or written words. Marriage is a promise, potential made in the hearts of two people who love each other and it takes a lifetime to fulfill. Today, you proclaim your love and commitment to the world, and so I ask that you turn to one another and hold hands.... Do you, Dylan, take Casandra as your wife, joining with her today in spirit, offering unconditional love and commitment? Do you promise to honor her growth and freedom as well as your own? To cherish and protect her? To love and embrace her in times of challenge as well as in times of joy? If so, respond by saying "I Do".... (Dylan will then say "I Do") Do you, Casandra, take Dylan as your husband, joining with him today in spirit, offering unconditional love and commitment? Do you promise to honor his growth and freedom as well as your own? To cherish and protect him? To love and embrace him in times of challenge as well as in times of joy? If so, respond by saying "I Do".... (Casandra will then say "I Do") Having stated your intentions to each other, and before those gathered here, I now ask that you repeat after me: (turn to Dylan) "I, Dylan, take you Casandra..." "As my friend and love..." "Beside me and apart from me..." "In laughter and in tears..." "In conflict and tranquility..." "Asking that you be no other than yourself..." "Loving what I know of you..." "Trusting what I do not know yet..." "In all the ways that life might find us." (Turn to Casandra) "I, Casandra, take you Dylan..." "As my friend and love..." "Beside me and apart from me..." "In laughter and in tears..." "In conflict and tranquility..." "Asking that you be no other than yourself..." "Loving what I know of you..." "Trusting what I do not know yet..." "In all the ways that life might find us." (Now obtain the rings and hold them up) These rings mark the beginning of an adventure filled with wonder, surprises, laughter, tears, celebration, grief and joy. They symbolize your two lives now joined in one un-broken circle. Wear them always as a visible reminder of your vows of love and commitment. (Casandra extends her left hand and Dylan says the following) "I give this ring..." "As token that I shall love you..." "In all times..." "In all places..." "And in all ways..." "Forever." (Dylan extends his left hand and Casandra says the following) "I give this ring..." "As token that I shall love you..." "In all times..." "In all places..." "And in all ways..." "Forever." ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Dylan and Casandra, You long to love one person with all your heart, mind, body and soul. You want a forever friend to trust with your intimacies, who won't hold them against you, who loves you when you think you're unlikable, who sees the child in you and who looks for the divine potential in you. You want to be with someone who thanks God for you, with someone you feel blessed to hold. Marriage offers you to opportunity to grow in love and in friendship. May you each take full responsibility for your individual spiritual, mental and physical wholeness so that you will always bring your best possible self to this marriage, because with this commitment, the possibilities are limitless. Dylan and Casandra, in so much as the two of you have agreed to live together in marriage, have promised your love for each other by these vows, the giving of these rings and the joining of your hands, it is now my great pleasure to declare that you are husband and wife! You may now kiss each other!
Me and my husband have inserted our names here, but here is the script in full (slightly modified in some parts): Dylan and Casandra, you have come here today to mark the beginning of what will be and also to celebrate what already is. In truth, your marriage already exists. In your every day moments together, you've had many conversations about hopes, promises, past hurts, dreams, values and fears. You've said "I love you", shared adventures, made confessions, perhaps even had an argument or a disagreement... or two. You've told each other your stories, many parts of which you have revealed to no one else. What has emerged from these conversations has been the making of a covenant; a bond of commitment that is uniquely yours. Together, you have decided what you want, what you believe, what you hope for, and that you want to stay together. And so, you are here today because you have said to one another, "I love you, I trust you, I will be here for you when you are hurting, and when I am hurting, I will not leave." The marriage is complete, all that's left is the wedding, which is the public declaration of your love. Today you legally become that which you already are emotionally: a husband and a wife. Dylan and Casandra, as husband and wife you will grow together in mind, heart and spirit. This mutual growth and sharing will strengthen your relationship more than any spoken or written words. Marriage is a promise, potential made in the hearts of two people who love each other and it takes a lifetime to fulfill. Today, you proclaim your love and commitment to the world, and so I ask that you turn to one another and hold hands.... Do you, Dylan, take Casandra as your wife, joining with her today in spirit, offering unconditional love and commitment? Do you promise to honor her growth and freedom as well as your own? To cherish and protect her? To love and embrace her in times of challenge as well as in times of joy? If so, respond by saying "I Do".... (Dylan will then say "I Do") Do you, Casandra, take Dylan as your husband, joining with him today in spirit, offering unconditional love and commitment? Do you promise to honor his growth and freedom as well as your own? To cherish and protect him? To love and embrace him in times of challenge as well as in times of joy? If so, respond by saying "I Do".... (Casandra will then say "I Do") Having stated your intentions to each other, and before those gathered here, I now ask that you repeat after me: (turn to Dylan) "I, Dylan, take you Casandra..." "As my friend and love..." "Beside me and apart from me..." "In laughter and in tears..." "In conflict and tranquility..." "Asking that you be no other than yourself..." "Loving what I know of you..." "Trusting what I do not know yet..." "In all the ways that life might find us." (Turn to Casandra) "I, Casandra, take you Dylan..." "As my friend and love..." "Beside me and apart from me..." "In laughter and in tears..." "In conflict and tranquility..." "Asking that you be no other than yourself..." "Loving what I know of you..." "Trusting what I do not know yet..." "In all the ways that life might find us." (Now obtain the rings and hold them up) These rings mark the beginning of an adventure filled with wonder, surprises, laughter, tears, celebration, grief and joy. They symbolize your two lives now joined in one un-broken circle. Wear them always as a visible reminder of your vows of love and commitment. (Casandra extends her left hand and Dylan says the following) "I give this ring..." "As token that I shall love you..." "In all times..." "In all places..." "And in all ways..." "Forever." (Dylan extends his left hand and Casandra says the following) "I give this ring..." "As token that I shall love you..." "In all times..." "In all places..." "And in all ways..." "Forever." ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Dylan and Casandra, You long to love one person with all your heart, mind, body and soul. You want a forever friend to trust with your intimacies, who won't hold them against you, who loves you when you think you're unlikable, who sees the child in you and who looks for the divine potential in you. You want to be with someone who thanks God for you, with someone you feel blessed to hold. Marriage offers you to opportunity to grow in love and in friendship. May you each take full responsibility for your individual spiritual, mental and physical wholeness so that you will always bring your best possible self to this marriage, because with this commitment, the possibilities are limitless. Dylan and Casandra, in so much as the two of you have agreed to live together in marriage, have promised your love for each other by these vows, the giving of these rings and the joining of your hands, it is now my great pleasure to declare that you are husband and wife! You may now kiss each other!
WOW!!! thank you so much for sharing the so very well detailed script, I'm gonna use the model to officiate my friends wedding this weekend :)! Thank you!!
Me and my husband have inserted our names here, but here is the script in full (slightly modified in some parts): Dylan and Casandra, you have come here today to mark the beginning of what will be and also to celebrate what already is. In truth, your marriage already exists. In your every day moments together, you've had many conversations about hopes, promises, past hurts, dreams, values and fears. You've said "I love you", shared adventures, made confessions, perhaps even had an argument or a disagreement... or two. You've told each other your stories, many parts of which you have revealed to no one else. What has emerged from these conversations has been the making of a covenant; a bond of commitment that is uniquely yours. Together, you have decided what you want, what you believe, what you hope for, and that you want to stay together. And so, you are here today because you have said to one another, "I love you, I trust you, I will be here for you when you are hurting, and when I am hurting, I will not leave." The marriage is complete, all that's left is the wedding, which is the public declaration of your love. Today you legally become that which you already are emotionally: a husband and a wife. Dylan and Casandra, as husband and wife you will grow together in mind, heart and spirit. This mutual growth and sharing will strengthen your relationship more than any spoken or written words. Marriage is a promise, potential made in the hearts of two people who love each other and it takes a lifetime to fulfill. Today, you proclaim your love and commitment to the world, and so I ask that you turn to one another and hold hands.... Do you, Dylan, take Casandra as your wife, joining with her today in spirit, offering unconditional love and commitment? Do you promise to honor her growth and freedom as well as your own? To cherish and protect her? To love and embrace her in times of challenge as well as in times of joy? If so, respond by saying "I Do".... (Dylan will then say "I Do") Do you, Casandra, take Dylan as your husband, joining with him today in spirit, offering unconditional love and commitment? Do you promise to honor his growth and freedom as well as your own? To cherish and protect him? To love and embrace him in times of challenge as well as in times of joy? If so, respond by saying "I Do".... (Casandra will then say "I Do") Having stated your intentions to each other, and before those gathered here, I now ask that you repeat after me: (turn to Dylan) "I, Dylan, take you Casandra..." "As my friend and love..." "Beside me and apart from me..." "In laughter and in tears..." "In conflict and tranquility..." "Asking that you be no other than yourself..." "Loving what I know of you..." "Trusting what I do not know yet..." "In all the ways that life might find us." (Turn to Casandra) "I, Casandra, take you Dylan..." "As my friend and love..." "Beside me and apart from me..." "In laughter and in tears..." "In conflict and tranquility..." "Asking that you be no other than yourself..." "Loving what I know of you..." "Trusting what I do not know yet..." "In all the ways that life might find us." (Now obtain the rings and hold them up) These rings mark the beginning of an adventure filled with wonder, surprises, laughter, tears, celebration, grief and joy. They symbolize your two lives now joined in one un-broken circle. Wear them always as a visible reminder of your vows of love and commitment. (Casandra extends her left hand and Dylan says the following) "I give this ring..." "As token that I shall love you..." "In all times..." "In all places..." "And in all ways..." "Forever." (Dylan extends his left hand and Casandra says the following) "I give this ring..." "As token that I shall love you..." "In all times..." "In all places..." "And in all ways..." "Forever." ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Dylan and Casandra, You long to love one person with all your heart, mind, body and soul. You want a forever friend to trust with your intimacies, who won't hold them against you, who loves you when you think you're unlikable, who sees the child in you and who looks for the divine potential in you. You want to be with someone who thanks God for you, with someone you feel blessed to hold. Marriage offers you to opportunity to grow in love and in friendship. May you each take full responsibility for your individual spiritual, mental and physical wholeness so that you will always bring your best possible self to this marriage, because with this commitment, the possibilities are limitless. Dylan and Casandra, in so much as the two of you have agreed to live together in marriage, have promised your love for each other by these vows, the giving of these rings and the joining of your hands, it is now my great pleasure to declare that you are husband and wife! You may now kiss each other!
Me and my husband have inserted our names here, but here is the script in full (slightly modified in some parts): Dylan and Casandra, you have come here today to mark the beginning of what will be and also to celebrate what already is. In truth, your marriage already exists. In your every day moments together, you've had many conversations about hopes, promises, past hurts, dreams, values and fears. You've said "I love you", shared adventures, made confessions, perhaps even had an argument or a disagreement... or two. You've told each other your stories, many parts of which you have revealed to no one else. What has emerged from these conversations has been the making of a covenant; a bond of commitment that is uniquely yours. Together, you have decided what you want, what you believe, what you hope for, and that you want to stay together. And so, you are here today because you have said to one another, "I love you, I trust you, I will be here for you when you are hurting, and when I am hurting, I will not leave." The marriage is complete, all that's left is the wedding, which is the public declaration of your love. Today you legally become that which you already are emotionally: a husband and a wife. Dylan and Casandra, as husband and wife you will grow together in mind, heart and spirit. This mutual growth and sharing will strengthen your relationship more than any spoken or written words. Marriage is a promise, potential made in the hearts of two people who love each other and it takes a lifetime to fulfill. Today, you proclaim your love and commitment to the world, and so I ask that you turn to one another and hold hands.... Do you, Dylan, take Casandra as your wife, joining with her today in spirit, offering unconditional love and commitment? Do you promise to honor her growth and freedom as well as your own? To cherish and protect her? To love and embrace her in times of challenge as well as in times of joy? If so, respond by saying "I Do".... (Dylan will then say "I Do") Do you, Casandra, take Dylan as your husband, joining with him today in spirit, offering unconditional love and commitment? Do you promise to honor his growth and freedom as well as your own? To cherish and protect him? To love and embrace him in times of challenge as well as in times of joy? If so, respond by saying "I Do".... (Casandra will then say "I Do") Having stated your intentions to each other, and before those gathered here, I now ask that you repeat after me: (turn to Dylan) "I, Dylan, take you Casandra..." "As my friend and love..." "Beside me and apart from me..." "In laughter and in tears..." "In conflict and tranquility..." "Asking that you be no other than yourself..." "Loving what I know of you..." "Trusting what I do not know yet..." "In all the ways that life might find us." (Turn to Casandra) "I, Casandra, take you Dylan..." "As my friend and love..." "Beside me and apart from me..." "In laughter and in tears..." "In conflict and tranquility..." "Asking that you be no other than yourself..." "Loving what I know of you..." "Trusting what I do not know yet..." "In all the ways that life might find us." (Now obtain the rings and hold them up) These rings mark the beginning of an adventure filled with wonder, surprises, laughter, tears, celebration, grief and joy. They symbolize your two lives now joined in one un-broken circle. Wear them always as a visible reminder of your vows of love and commitment. (Casandra extends her left hand and Dylan says the following) "I give this ring..." "As token that I shall love you..." "In all times..." "In all places..." "And in all ways..." "Forever." (Dylan extends his left hand and Casandra says the following) "I give this ring..." "As token that I shall love you..." "In all times..." "In all places..." "And in all ways..." "Forever." ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Dylan and Casandra, You long to love one person with all your heart, mind, body and soul. You want a forever friend to trust with your intimacies, who won't hold them against you, who loves you when you think you're unlikable, who sees the child in you and who looks for the divine potential in you. You want to be with someone who thanks God for you, with someone you feel blessed to hold. Marriage offers you to opportunity to grow in love and in friendship. May you each take full responsibility for your individual spiritual, mental and physical wholeness so that you will always bring your best possible self to this marriage, because with this commitment, the possibilities are limitless. Dylan and Casandra, in so much as the two of you have agreed to live together in marriage, have promised your love for each other by these vows, the giving of these rings and the joining of your hands, it is now my great pleasure to declare that you are husband and wife! You may now kiss each other!
@@glenna.450 You know that some people are not religious and don’t take any of your crap. Hell or Heaven both does not exist and I don’t even wanna go there I would like to die in peace. So don’t come t me with some religious crap
This is Shockingly perfect and what I’ve been looking for !
I've been looking for something like this in all over youtube!!! Thank God I found your video! It's perfect. Thank you so much for sharing.
Amazing and respectful vows ❤️
That's beautiful!
I watched the whole video and heard every word and yes I agree to that which is very beautiful :)
this is exactly what I was looking for. thanks
This is a perfect ceremony!
Everything I've been looking for
Absolutely beautiful. Is there a transcript available for this? My fiancé and I would love to use this for our ceremony. Please share with us. Thank you
Me and my husband have inserted our names here, but here is the script in full (slightly modified in some parts):
Dylan and Casandra, you have come here today to mark the beginning of what will be and also to celebrate what already is. In truth, your marriage already exists. In your every day moments together, you've had many conversations about hopes, promises, past hurts, dreams, values and fears. You've said "I love you", shared adventures, made confessions, perhaps even had an argument or a disagreement... or two. You've told each other your stories, many parts of which you have revealed to no one else. What has emerged from these conversations has been the making of a covenant; a bond of commitment that is uniquely yours. Together, you have decided what you want, what you believe, what you hope for, and that you want to stay together.
And so, you are here today because you have said to one another, "I love you, I trust you, I will be here for you when you are hurting, and when I am hurting, I will not leave." The marriage is complete, all that's left is the wedding, which is the public declaration of your love. Today you legally become that which you already are emotionally: a husband and a wife.
Dylan and Casandra, as husband and wife you will grow together in mind, heart and spirit. This mutual growth and sharing will strengthen your relationship more than any spoken or written words. Marriage is a promise, potential made in the hearts of two people who love each other and it takes a lifetime to fulfill. Today, you proclaim your love and commitment to the world, and so I ask that you turn to one another and hold hands....
Do you, Dylan, take Casandra as your wife, joining with her today in spirit, offering unconditional love and commitment? Do you promise to honor her growth and freedom as well as your own? To cherish and protect her? To love and embrace her in times of challenge as well as in times of joy? If so, respond by saying "I Do"....
(Dylan will then say "I Do")
Do you, Casandra, take Dylan as your husband, joining with him today in spirit, offering unconditional love and commitment? Do you promise to honor his growth and freedom as well as your own? To cherish and protect him? To love and embrace him in times of challenge as well as in times of joy? If so, respond by saying "I Do"....
(Casandra will then say "I Do")
Having stated your intentions to each other, and before those gathered here, I now ask that you repeat after me:
(turn to Dylan)
"I, Dylan, take you Casandra..."
"As my friend and love..."
"Beside me and apart from me..."
"In laughter and in tears..."
"In conflict and tranquility..."
"Asking that you be no other than yourself..."
"Loving what I know of you..."
"Trusting what I do not know yet..."
"In all the ways that life might find us."
(Turn to Casandra)
"I, Casandra, take you Dylan..."
"As my friend and love..."
"Beside me and apart from me..."
"In laughter and in tears..."
"In conflict and tranquility..."
"Asking that you be no other than yourself..."
"Loving what I know of you..."
"Trusting what I do not know yet..."
"In all the ways that life might find us."
(Now obtain the rings and hold them up)
These rings mark the beginning of an adventure filled with wonder, surprises, laughter, tears, celebration, grief and joy. They symbolize your two lives now joined in one un-broken circle. Wear them always as a visible reminder of your vows of love and commitment.
(Casandra extends her left hand and Dylan says the following)
"I give this ring..."
"As token that I shall love you..."
"In all times..."
"In all places..."
"And in all ways..."
"Forever."
(Dylan extends his left hand and Casandra says the following)
"I give this ring..."
"As token that I shall love you..."
"In all times..."
"In all places..."
"And in all ways..."
"Forever."
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Dylan and Casandra,
You long to love one person with all your heart, mind, body and soul. You want a forever friend to trust with your intimacies, who won't hold them against you, who loves you when you think you're unlikable, who sees the child in you and who looks for the divine potential in you. You want to be with someone who thanks God for you, with someone you feel blessed to hold. Marriage offers you to opportunity to grow in love and in friendship. May you each take full responsibility for your individual spiritual, mental and physical wholeness so that you will always bring your best possible self to this marriage, because with this commitment, the possibilities are limitless.
Dylan and Casandra, in so much as the two of you have agreed to live together in marriage, have promised your love for each other by these vows, the giving of these rings and the joining of your hands, it is now my great pleasure to declare that you are husband and wife!
You may now kiss each other!
Thank you
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EXACTLY what I was looking for. Can you please share the words? if its not too much to ask.
Did you receive the words?
Great
why not just go to a judge?
Uhhh... because they will do a standard civil ceremony that is nowhere near as heartfelt as this one?
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This is absolutely perfect
Thank you so much for this video. Has tremendously help me craft the perfect script to officiate my friend's ceremony :)
Me and my husband have inserted our names here, but here is the script in full (slightly modified in some parts):
Dylan and Casandra, you have come here today to mark the beginning of what will be and also to celebrate what already is. In truth, your marriage already exists. In your every day moments together, you've had many conversations about hopes, promises, past hurts, dreams, values and fears. You've said "I love you", shared adventures, made confessions, perhaps even had an argument or a disagreement... or two. You've told each other your stories, many parts of which you have revealed to no one else. What has emerged from these conversations has been the making of a covenant; a bond of commitment that is uniquely yours. Together, you have decided what you want, what you believe, what you hope for, and that you want to stay together.
And so, you are here today because you have said to one another, "I love you, I trust you, I will be here for you when you are hurting, and when I am hurting, I will not leave." The marriage is complete, all that's left is the wedding, which is the public declaration of your love. Today you legally become that which you already are emotionally: a husband and a wife.
Dylan and Casandra, as husband and wife you will grow together in mind, heart and spirit. This mutual growth and sharing will strengthen your relationship more than any spoken or written words. Marriage is a promise, potential made in the hearts of two people who love each other and it takes a lifetime to fulfill. Today, you proclaim your love and commitment to the world, and so I ask that you turn to one another and hold hands....
Do you, Dylan, take Casandra as your wife, joining with her today in spirit, offering unconditional love and commitment? Do you promise to honor her growth and freedom as well as your own? To cherish and protect her? To love and embrace her in times of challenge as well as in times of joy? If so, respond by saying "I Do"....
(Dylan will then say "I Do")
Do you, Casandra, take Dylan as your husband, joining with him today in spirit, offering unconditional love and commitment? Do you promise to honor his growth and freedom as well as your own? To cherish and protect him? To love and embrace him in times of challenge as well as in times of joy? If so, respond by saying "I Do"....
(Casandra will then say "I Do")
Having stated your intentions to each other, and before those gathered here, I now ask that you repeat after me:
(turn to Dylan)
"I, Dylan, take you Casandra..."
"As my friend and love..."
"Beside me and apart from me..."
"In laughter and in tears..."
"In conflict and tranquility..."
"Asking that you be no other than yourself..."
"Loving what I know of you..."
"Trusting what I do not know yet..."
"In all the ways that life might find us."
(Turn to Casandra)
"I, Casandra, take you Dylan..."
"As my friend and love..."
"Beside me and apart from me..."
"In laughter and in tears..."
"In conflict and tranquility..."
"Asking that you be no other than yourself..."
"Loving what I know of you..."
"Trusting what I do not know yet..."
"In all the ways that life might find us."
(Now obtain the rings and hold them up)
These rings mark the beginning of an adventure filled with wonder, surprises, laughter, tears, celebration, grief and joy. They symbolize your two lives now joined in one un-broken circle. Wear them always as a visible reminder of your vows of love and commitment.
(Casandra extends her left hand and Dylan says the following)
"I give this ring..."
"As token that I shall love you..."
"In all times..."
"In all places..."
"And in all ways..."
"Forever."
(Dylan extends his left hand and Casandra says the following)
"I give this ring..."
"As token that I shall love you..."
"In all times..."
"In all places..."
"And in all ways..."
"Forever."
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Dylan and Casandra,
You long to love one person with all your heart, mind, body and soul. You want a forever friend to trust with your intimacies, who won't hold them against you, who loves you when you think you're unlikable, who sees the child in you and who looks for the divine potential in you. You want to be with someone who thanks God for you, with someone you feel blessed to hold. Marriage offers you to opportunity to grow in love and in friendship. May you each take full responsibility for your individual spiritual, mental and physical wholeness so that you will always bring your best possible self to this marriage, because with this commitment, the possibilities are limitless.
Dylan and Casandra, in so much as the two of you have agreed to live together in marriage, have promised your love for each other by these vows, the giving of these rings and the joining of your hands, it is now my great pleasure to declare that you are husband and wife!
You may now kiss each other!
WOW!!! thank you so much for sharing the so very well detailed script, I'm gonna use the model to officiate my friends wedding this weekend :)! Thank you!!
I wish I would have known about this sooner :)
Is there a transcript for this?
Me and my husband have inserted our names here, but here is the script in full (slightly modified in some parts):
Dylan and Casandra, you have come here today to mark the beginning of what will be and also to celebrate what already is. In truth, your marriage already exists. In your every day moments together, you've had many conversations about hopes, promises, past hurts, dreams, values and fears. You've said "I love you", shared adventures, made confessions, perhaps even had an argument or a disagreement... or two. You've told each other your stories, many parts of which you have revealed to no one else. What has emerged from these conversations has been the making of a covenant; a bond of commitment that is uniquely yours. Together, you have decided what you want, what you believe, what you hope for, and that you want to stay together.
And so, you are here today because you have said to one another, "I love you, I trust you, I will be here for you when you are hurting, and when I am hurting, I will not leave." The marriage is complete, all that's left is the wedding, which is the public declaration of your love. Today you legally become that which you already are emotionally: a husband and a wife.
Dylan and Casandra, as husband and wife you will grow together in mind, heart and spirit. This mutual growth and sharing will strengthen your relationship more than any spoken or written words. Marriage is a promise, potential made in the hearts of two people who love each other and it takes a lifetime to fulfill. Today, you proclaim your love and commitment to the world, and so I ask that you turn to one another and hold hands....
Do you, Dylan, take Casandra as your wife, joining with her today in spirit, offering unconditional love and commitment? Do you promise to honor her growth and freedom as well as your own? To cherish and protect her? To love and embrace her in times of challenge as well as in times of joy? If so, respond by saying "I Do"....
(Dylan will then say "I Do")
Do you, Casandra, take Dylan as your husband, joining with him today in spirit, offering unconditional love and commitment? Do you promise to honor his growth and freedom as well as your own? To cherish and protect him? To love and embrace him in times of challenge as well as in times of joy? If so, respond by saying "I Do"....
(Casandra will then say "I Do")
Having stated your intentions to each other, and before those gathered here, I now ask that you repeat after me:
(turn to Dylan)
"I, Dylan, take you Casandra..."
"As my friend and love..."
"Beside me and apart from me..."
"In laughter and in tears..."
"In conflict and tranquility..."
"Asking that you be no other than yourself..."
"Loving what I know of you..."
"Trusting what I do not know yet..."
"In all the ways that life might find us."
(Turn to Casandra)
"I, Casandra, take you Dylan..."
"As my friend and love..."
"Beside me and apart from me..."
"In laughter and in tears..."
"In conflict and tranquility..."
"Asking that you be no other than yourself..."
"Loving what I know of you..."
"Trusting what I do not know yet..."
"In all the ways that life might find us."
(Now obtain the rings and hold them up)
These rings mark the beginning of an adventure filled with wonder, surprises, laughter, tears, celebration, grief and joy. They symbolize your two lives now joined in one un-broken circle. Wear them always as a visible reminder of your vows of love and commitment.
(Casandra extends her left hand and Dylan says the following)
"I give this ring..."
"As token that I shall love you..."
"In all times..."
"In all places..."
"And in all ways..."
"Forever."
(Dylan extends his left hand and Casandra says the following)
"I give this ring..."
"As token that I shall love you..."
"In all times..."
"In all places..."
"And in all ways..."
"Forever."
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Dylan and Casandra,
You long to love one person with all your heart, mind, body and soul. You want a forever friend to trust with your intimacies, who won't hold them against you, who loves you when you think you're unlikable, who sees the child in you and who looks for the divine potential in you. You want to be with someone who thanks God for you, with someone you feel blessed to hold. Marriage offers you to opportunity to grow in love and in friendship. May you each take full responsibility for your individual spiritual, mental and physical wholeness so that you will always bring your best possible self to this marriage, because with this commitment, the possibilities are limitless.
Dylan and Casandra, in so much as the two of you have agreed to live together in marriage, have promised your love for each other by these vows, the giving of these rings and the joining of your hands, it is now my great pleasure to declare that you are husband and wife!
You may now kiss each other!
Thank you for sharing this!
This is great! Is there a way to get it written?
Me and my husband have inserted our names here, but here is the script in full (slightly modified in some parts):
Dylan and Casandra, you have come here today to mark the beginning of what will be and also to celebrate what already is. In truth, your marriage already exists. In your every day moments together, you've had many conversations about hopes, promises, past hurts, dreams, values and fears. You've said "I love you", shared adventures, made confessions, perhaps even had an argument or a disagreement... or two. You've told each other your stories, many parts of which you have revealed to no one else. What has emerged from these conversations has been the making of a covenant; a bond of commitment that is uniquely yours. Together, you have decided what you want, what you believe, what you hope for, and that you want to stay together.
And so, you are here today because you have said to one another, "I love you, I trust you, I will be here for you when you are hurting, and when I am hurting, I will not leave." The marriage is complete, all that's left is the wedding, which is the public declaration of your love. Today you legally become that which you already are emotionally: a husband and a wife.
Dylan and Casandra, as husband and wife you will grow together in mind, heart and spirit. This mutual growth and sharing will strengthen your relationship more than any spoken or written words. Marriage is a promise, potential made in the hearts of two people who love each other and it takes a lifetime to fulfill. Today, you proclaim your love and commitment to the world, and so I ask that you turn to one another and hold hands....
Do you, Dylan, take Casandra as your wife, joining with her today in spirit, offering unconditional love and commitment? Do you promise to honor her growth and freedom as well as your own? To cherish and protect her? To love and embrace her in times of challenge as well as in times of joy? If so, respond by saying "I Do"....
(Dylan will then say "I Do")
Do you, Casandra, take Dylan as your husband, joining with him today in spirit, offering unconditional love and commitment? Do you promise to honor his growth and freedom as well as your own? To cherish and protect him? To love and embrace him in times of challenge as well as in times of joy? If so, respond by saying "I Do"....
(Casandra will then say "I Do")
Having stated your intentions to each other, and before those gathered here, I now ask that you repeat after me:
(turn to Dylan)
"I, Dylan, take you Casandra..."
"As my friend and love..."
"Beside me and apart from me..."
"In laughter and in tears..."
"In conflict and tranquility..."
"Asking that you be no other than yourself..."
"Loving what I know of you..."
"Trusting what I do not know yet..."
"In all the ways that life might find us."
(Turn to Casandra)
"I, Casandra, take you Dylan..."
"As my friend and love..."
"Beside me and apart from me..."
"In laughter and in tears..."
"In conflict and tranquility..."
"Asking that you be no other than yourself..."
"Loving what I know of you..."
"Trusting what I do not know yet..."
"In all the ways that life might find us."
(Now obtain the rings and hold them up)
These rings mark the beginning of an adventure filled with wonder, surprises, laughter, tears, celebration, grief and joy. They symbolize your two lives now joined in one un-broken circle. Wear them always as a visible reminder of your vows of love and commitment.
(Casandra extends her left hand and Dylan says the following)
"I give this ring..."
"As token that I shall love you..."
"In all times..."
"In all places..."
"And in all ways..."
"Forever."
(Dylan extends his left hand and Casandra says the following)
"I give this ring..."
"As token that I shall love you..."
"In all times..."
"In all places..."
"And in all ways..."
"Forever."
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Dylan and Casandra,
You long to love one person with all your heart, mind, body and soul. You want a forever friend to trust with your intimacies, who won't hold them against you, who loves you when you think you're unlikable, who sees the child in you and who looks for the divine potential in you. You want to be with someone who thanks God for you, with someone you feel blessed to hold. Marriage offers you to opportunity to grow in love and in friendship. May you each take full responsibility for your individual spiritual, mental and physical wholeness so that you will always bring your best possible self to this marriage, because with this commitment, the possibilities are limitless.
Dylan and Casandra, in so much as the two of you have agreed to live together in marriage, have promised your love for each other by these vows, the giving of these rings and the joining of your hands, it is now my great pleasure to declare that you are husband and wife!
You may now kiss each other!
I hate it!! It leaves Jesus Christ out of the picture! 100% secular! Gross!!!!
It literally says not religious. What the fuck did you think it was going to be you did this to yourself. In your wise words "GROSSSS!!!!!!!!"
It's not your wedding
@@glenna.450 You know that some people are not religious and don’t take any of your crap. Hell or Heaven both does not exist and I don’t even wanna go there I would like to die in peace. So don’t come t me with some religious crap
@@glenna.450 Do you really think I want to go to Heaven? Why would you think then I’m not religious?
@@glenna.450 Yeah believe your fairytales. I only believe things that can be proven by facts not some random people written book.