Signs a Guy is Abusive | Lifestyle Lessons

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  • I was inspired by my therapist to create this video, How to: Signs a Guy is Abusive. I'm happy that I did so and will continue to provide my opinions to help others.
    If you are in a domestic violence situation please call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.
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  • @albertshinskiy
    @albertshinskiy 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +222

    well constructed video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her..

    • @deboralaw-on9od
      @deboralaw-on9od 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back

    • @albertshinskiy
      @albertshinskiy 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

    • @deboralaw-on9od
      @deboralaw-on9od 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @albertshinskiy
      @albertshinskiy 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

  • @unablessington7168
    @unablessington7168 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Run, Run, Run. The minute you see the charmer and the next sign is jealousy, and don't look back.

  • @LYYD.
    @LYYD. 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Dealing with an abusive person really changes you.

  • @jodifloria6647
    @jodifloria6647 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Insults.. side eye looks..
    Ignore u and sit on their phone..

    • @user-dc7iw3fu4e
      @user-dc7iw3fu4e หลายเดือนก่อน

      That side eye look is real dangerous bc they're considering physically assaulting you

  • @Shai8212
    @Shai8212 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I met a guy, we were talking for a couple of weeks. I noticed he was very negative about everything so I became distant. He called me to question me about being distant then he told me he’ll kick my dog, I said oh hell no I don’t joke like that I blocked him never spoke to him again😂

    • @irsanonymous
      @irsanonymous  24 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Hats off to you!!! That makes me happy to hear. It's so good when women listen to the signs to save their life, sanity, and peace.

  • @tjaspire
    @tjaspire 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Sorry that happened to you beautiful. I'm just glad that I got out before he ever got the chance. He did say something that disturbed me; he said that if I ever cheated on him he would beat me. I took that as a threat and kicked his sorry, no ambition having, behind to the curb. The nerve of that clown.

    • @irsanonymous
      @irsanonymous  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Oh yes, that’s a threat in my book too! I’m so happy you had the confidence to leave. I pray the best for you moving forward.

    • @user-dc7iw3fu4e
      @user-dc7iw3fu4e หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yup and guaranteed he has many other reasons in his mind that is worth putting the paws on you. I'm glad you took that threat seriously.

  • @jashondasuber7273
    @jashondasuber7273 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Omg the telling you to be rough with them is something I would wouldn’t had even thought of as a sign because he’s always like oh Idc if you put your hands on me and I’m like I don’t want to tho 😮

  • @susandaye8146
    @susandaye8146 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    You look really pretty.you are helping women everywhere. these signs you named are classic.

    • @irsanonymous
      @irsanonymous  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      susan daye Thank you! I really want to help as many women and girls as I can.

  • @TheRealLarissa
    @TheRealLarissa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Yes. My husband and I separated for a short time ten years ago and I dated someone. The guy was Uber abusive and he's still stalking me and no one will help me.

    • @irsanonymous
      @irsanonymous  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Protective order, prayer, and try your best to move and make sure he can’t trace you.

    • @TheRealLarissa
      @TheRealLarissa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@irsanonymous we have moved multiple times. He and his family are disgusting. I'm not moving again. I had him in court a couple weeks ago and the judge did nothing.

    • @irsanonymous
      @irsanonymous  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@TheRealLarissa that is not right. Hopefully you can pray that someone or something would come along to occupy his time so he will leave you alone.

    • @TheRealLarissa
      @TheRealLarissa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@irsanonymous prayer has done nothing

    • @lindadewese6754
      @lindadewese6754 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Get yourself to a spiritual priest.yes, use magic to banish him!

  • @theover50fashionflipper
    @theover50fashionflipper 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Keep sharing your story! Never give up. It has helped my awareness

    • @irsanonymous
      @irsanonymous  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That means so much to me! Thank you for being a blessing.

  • @cheetavontiebolt9971
    @cheetavontiebolt9971 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    No woman deserves abuse

  • @arlyngrunick4550
    @arlyngrunick4550 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    thank you for this!!! 🙏

  • @ElizabethCommons-m6x
    @ElizabethCommons-m6x 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    They hacked my phone 🤳 stole my car the list goes on

  • @weepingangel8190
    @weepingangel8190 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    when he hits you on the nose its usually a huge sign ( this was joke) XD

  • @Parleral
    @Parleral 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    When you say "wanting you to get rough" are you referencing in the bedroom? I am asking because a guy asked to pull my hair

    • @irsanonymous
      @irsanonymous  4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Parleral the rough I’m talking about in this video is outside of the bedroom, physically and verbally rough. For instance, harmful verbiage, pushing and fighting. The pulling hair in the bedroom is not unheard of. Still be discerning tho if other things kinda make you feel uncomfortable or weird about him.

    • @Parleral
      @Parleral 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@irsanonymous thank you.

    • @irsanonymous
      @irsanonymous  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Parleral you’re welcome!