Her feelings were valid. The way her friend treated her, literally left her to the side. She could’ve invited her to take a tour of the school together. If Anything, her friend should’ve apologized.
As someone who's been left out many times, and was in a trio group this hurts to watch even. I remember fighting but noone took me seriously. It doesn't sound like that big of an issue but it really is. From sitting alone to not being told inside jokes, you name it. This is a super relatable video Dhar, thanks.
I am so sorry, I am in a friend group with 6 people (2 of which are my sisters and 1 is me) we have been friends for so long and we treat each other equally and in a way, we all have our “favorite best friend” in the group, we all love each other and they helped me get through some tough times it makes me so sad to know that other people don’t have friends that are as good, I am so sorry and I hope you one day meet friends that you deserve
As a person who was in a trio, it really feels bad when you are left out because the two of your friends are specially close. Thank you so much Dhar Mann for making so much related stories to other people's internal feelings!
As a ex-friend who used to be in a trio friend group and being left out many times I could remember, this hits hard, Dhar. Thanks for making this video ❤ edit: what the sigma, don’t wanna be annoying but thank 4 likes
I'm in a trio and one is kind to me but the other one, no. The mean one always makes me the one left out and she always slaps me and sometimes punches me in the stomach, she also sometimes tells me to shut up if I'm talking to my actual kind friend. She also tries to separate us, she is showing that she likes my other friend more than me. When I tried to tell someone, she saw me and whispered in my ear "shut up" and she even lied to a teacher. She said to a teacher "yea me and my friends just joke around, we are just playing" when she literally hit me one second ago-
I was always the one in the trio that was forgotten and left out, so watching this brings back cursed memories, but I'm glad Dhar is putting people struggling with these similar situations in a spotlight. This way more people can notice the second perspective of friendships like these.
I cried so much at the end, Michaela was so kind & understanding even though she did her so wrong, if we can fill the world with kids this kind hearted & loving of people, the world would be a dreamland.
Honestly, Lila didn’t deserve to be left out at all. I know how it feels to be left out in a group but they were doing it on purpose to me. They should be the ones apologising to Lila.
I’ve felt left out to and it makes me sad and I have this best friend and I would never make her feel left out cause she’s my friend and plus I know how it feels
I was always an outsider. Uprooted to a different country several times growing up, even today (67) I watch everyone having together moments with lots of complicity while I'm considered a foreigner wherever I live 🙁 I learned to deal with it. I have family though
I understand, iam also in that kind of situation but iam not jealous, its rather the feeling of anger because me and friend have been together for a year and now she is making friends with some other girls and leaving me behind, dont worry things will work out for you :)
I'm not rlly in that position but I have known my friend for 6 years and every time I try to talk to her like her whole class follows her..... BTW she is in a different school bc she is older than me
I have friends and my friend gets jealous bc I have more friends than her she is mean and forceses me to play with her like no and she bullyed me so NO
I was friends with a kid I met recently, and I introduced him to one of my old friends. They got along so we became a trio, however day by day, they forgot about me. Like I wasn’t there. They would never look for me if I left, and I regret introducing them. Edit: Thanks for the support in the replies, I know some people understand me now :)
This started to happen to me and another friend. My bestfriend introduced someone into the friend group and we became a trio. Although eventually me and the new person started to hangout more and he suggested we should stop hanging out with the friend that got him in the friend group because he just wasn't as cool anymore and that "we're just more close, y'know?". I realized it was messed up- told my bestfriend. We're starting to drift away from him now. Hopefully this was semi-coherent lol
As a teenager, I can 100% relate to having a best friend, but being left out other another best friend of my best friend. 😂😂😂 happens all the time, I love when dhar mann actually makes relatable videos for once! Do more like these
A while ago, I introduced my best friend to another friend of mine. They ended up becoming besties and I gradually got left out of events and outings and eventually became unwanted. This video brings back those painful memories.
Ik how this girl feels and I was once in this situation. Everyday I would come back from school crying. Soon after that I got social anxiety, body dysphormia, depression and anxiety.
hi, I know this may seem random but I want you to know that Jesus loves you very much. He understands everything you are going through and He loves you so much that He wants you to be happy. It makes Him sad to see you suffering, and He wants to help you. He can give you a lot oy joy, peace and happiness , and can take away all of the things you are dealing with. All you have to do is call upon the name of Jesus, because He is with you and will always be there for you. He is waiting for you.
Honestly in my eyes the real villain is hazel. She was the one that sorta left laila out. Michaela wasnt in the position to invite layla cause they barely knew each other. It was hazel that could do something abt it. The worse part was when her party was ruined, she agreed to "ditching" michaela and go with laila when before she ignored her
The girl’s feelings were valid, although she should’ve handled the situation better, her own best friend stabbed her in the back. I know meeting someone you haven’t seen in a while is exciting and all, she could’ve included all 3 into their plans. So in my opinion both parties are in the wrong, and both sides should’ve handled the situation better. Along with that, the other side tried to convince “Laila” to celebrate HER own birthday on a date that was suitable for themselves.
@@user-js7wq2hu7l She abandoned her. Out of all friends, she should’ve been the one able to see that. I could go on and say “she could’ve done this.” “she could’ve done that.” but you already know what she could’ve done.
she definitely has the right to feel like that, being the thirdwheel in your own relationship is awful, but, ruining a perfect birthday party for random ass people is not the way to go about it
This hits home. I remember what it was like when young kids didn't know how to include more than one person and so someone was always left out. Even some adults do this! It doesn't feel good.
I remember once I was in a trio of friends and my other two friends went to the carnival together on the weekend. I found out the Monday after. They just "assumed" I didn't wanna go. It still kind of hurts me to this day how much I wasn't included in that friend group.
I can relate to this so much. Brought back so many feelings. Maturing is realizing the friend who left her aside was the toxic one. And I would have rather been alone or with someone who cares about my emotions
She wasn't toxic tho, I always be the one who left behind but for this girl, she's just excited bc her friend she haven't saw in years came back. The excitement will probably last for a while.
I can relate to this. Since June 2006, my church group always excluded me in everything. I tried to talk with them and make friends with them, but the more I tried, the more they pushed me away and treated me like crap. They even put me in the corner of darkness, isolation, loneliness, and despair. Then, one Sunday afternoon at church, I was gonna confront them; I stood outside the SUNDAY SCHOOL classroom door ready to knock. And then I heard laughing and voices saying horrible things about me; "We shouldn't let her hang with us." "Yea. She will never fit in." "True dat. She's not at our level." "Haha. Me? Learn American Sign Language? Hahaha. Not on her life!" Upon hearing those, I fought back my tears from falling. I ran to ladies' bathroom, locked myself in handicap stall, and cried. Then, I waited for the bathroom to be empty, blew my nose, splashed cold water on my face, and fixed my makeup so no one would know that I've been crying. I didn't have the heart to tell the pastors, my mom, and my church group's parents about how they (my church group) have been treating me because I didn't want them to think of me as a bad person or a rat fink. Then, years later, my church group found me on Instagram and they all messaged me apologizing to me for the way they treated me. I was gonna tell them to go screw themselves, but I looked at their messages of apologies, and I saw that they really did feel guilty, and told them all that I accept their apologies and that I forgive them. (Sorry for this long story; I hope I didn't bore you with all the details.)
Idk, Forgiving then was probably the largest mistake ever. Worst they come from a religious group, I deal with a lot of religious Hypocrisy almost everyday and I won’t ever forgive those who claim to be holy but judge and exclude others. They are like a Bunch of Mind controlled sentient beings
Ok i get how the girl felt betrayed and the new girl should've been more considerate as well as friend but the girl who ruined the party is just TOXIC and you cannot convince me otherwise
Ahhh, there's nothing like a good reunion between old friends. But there's no reason to be jealous about that kind of thing or even try to sabotage; just because old friends are together again doesn't make you a third wheel. Friends are forever no matter what and there's always room for more. You know what they say: All for one and one for all.
Yes but jealousy gets to us. At that moment we feel left out which we arent supposed to feel. If the bff doesnt make the other girl feel left out then it wouldnt be a problem. I wouldnt sabotage but just avoid her for a few days so she understands to make both her friends feel loved.
Hazel wasn't being Leila's friend anymore because she was completely ignoring her. She made Leila feel left out and she thought her other friend was more important.
Tbh, This kinda hurts me. It's not like she was left out completely like I have been. From sitting alone to not being told inside jokes, you name it. This is a super relatable video Dhar, thanks.
I was separated from my best friend during the lockdowns, and I wish I'd heard "Friends are like the stars: you can't always see them, but you know they're always there", that would've really helped me push through. Dhar Mann videos are so inspirational. Thank you for making such amazing content.
The "mean girl" aka the one who was left out isn't mean she just feels left out and she is being left out so you can't really blame her for having valid feelings
@H3artz.F0rM33 that doesn't make it okay to ruin someone's birthday tho you can't be that obsessed that you'd have to ruin a whole birthday just because you were left out, you'd at least try to make the friend jealous instead bro
"Good friends are like stars." You don't always see them, but you know they're always there." I love that so much. No matter how you're feeling people do care friends or family. Thank you Dhar Mann for being so inspiring lots of love to you, your family, and just everyone :) Thank you all your amazing viodeos. You guys, team crush it!!! We appreciate you all so much and your amazingness 🥰🥰🙏🏻🙏🏻
Hey dhar here’s a idea for a vid. So this girl comes in a restaurant and a girl comes and she makes fun of the other girl who walked in because her family is poor, well it looks like that. Then the girl (that came in) was the owner of the restaurant with her parents. Not the best but it’s ok I think. but who cares I hope u read it Ik your not cuz this is a werir and im a random person, but yea Edit: oh thanks for the likes
Though I don't have best friends , I have a lot of friends. Sometimes they group up together and make me feel left out . From not being told "inside jokes" to not being in group dances . This is a relatable vid , Thanks Dhar
So relatable! In 5th grade 4 of my best friends turned their back on me because the school bully told them lies. They still hate me to this day. I found new friends now. Dhar man’s videos are so awesome and help me through tough times. Thank you so much!
I met a friend back in the 10th grade. We were inseparable, then I introduced her to this girl I knew. Before I knew it, I was tossed to the side, this happened 10 years ago and I'm thankful I moved past it. I ended up meeting better people. ❤
This is what happened when I introduced my two best friends, when they met they got close and completely forgot about me and ignored almost everything I said and did…it went from something simple like them being in all the same classes without me to them gossiping about me and planning basically every hangout, sleepover, and event without me
Bro literally that is the worst feeling when your best friend goes off with someone else. it’s horrible if anything her friend was not being considerate.I feel bad for her
To be honest, this is so relatable. I've been in like 12 friends groups and most of them were trios. I always got left out.. Every single one, I'm in another one currently and i'm getting left out again.
I guess that means that their not true friends to begin with, I’ve had that recently with a few friends, I’ve eventually called them out and not ever want to see them again as I have better things to do, and to just get on with my life doing other things, I’d rather be on my own, than be with people pretending to be your friend
This reminds me of something that’s been happening for a while. My best friend and I would hang out, but then another girl joined our group and she was actively trying to drive me out of the group and cast me aside. The issue is still happening today, and now I can’t even see, talk to, or text my best friend all because of that girl. I feel this video.
Good lesson for those in a trio friendship. If each friend is looking out for the happiness of the other friends, then there is no room for jealousy. When you are friends with someone and they are reacquainted with an old friend, be happy for them and when you are invited to be with them you should accept the invitation. If you are feeling left out, be honest but kind and tactful when you express your feelings and concerns with the goal of maintaining the friendships, not of getting your way.
"Good friends are like stars, you don't always see them, but you know there always there" One if the best quotes ever Dhar Mann, keep up the good work!💙💙💙
Literally that's how I felt when one of my friends were hanging out with my other friend I wanted to be rude and bully them but I knew it was wrong so I tried to play it cool, and just smile and look at them until they noticed me but it didn't work out.
"Good friends are like stars," "You dont always see them," "But you know they're always there." What an greatful message to use! I love your videos alot dhar!
@@playroblox7222 dude, we don’t know if she is serious and what if she really mean it, not like all people do this. And btw dhar still didn’t even notice her so just leave her alone.
Jealousy can always take over, dont let it get over you! It can cause you to do bad things without you thinking it is bad. Thank you for posting these videos Dhar. The videos you make are amazing because this is actually very inspiring to many people and help them learn life lessons! Thank you :D Edit: I started WW3….
When the principle came to Laila, I was both heart warmed but angered at the same time. For the 9 years of my life going to school, no one’s done anything like that for me.
I know what she’s feeling I get jealous too I worry sometimes that I feel ignored or I’m not good enough or just looked over but you should never go as far as backstabbing your own friend or someone you love. Jealousy can change you and do things you’d never thought you’d do you should try to control yourself with these emotions
I can relate to her, I’ve always been the third wheel out of my friend group. My friends always talk about how they do so much fun stuff, and never think of what I’m feeling.
This video hits closer to home than you think ^^ I never did anything mean though, but it hurts when you see your so called best friends leaving you for other people ^^ As i grew up , never getting picked by anyone. I have come to terms with just relying on myself. Im cool with it now. Some Friends are there only for a period of your life anyway and you only have yourself for the rest of it. If you found yourself a friend who still cares for you even if youre both older with your own lives, youre quite lucky ^^
At first, I see how sad Laila must be, I’ve had friends that left me out. It feels terrible to be the odd one out! I would never try to get in between their relationship though. The worst part is especially how they brag about being friends in diapers and having memories since they were little. I wouldn’t know how to handle the situation though…
Yeah I can relate . I would handle it as just ignore them and focus more on studies or other friends I might have until they think they want me back as their friend and will stop leaving me out .
I also have those kind of freinds to like when a new person joined my other freinds class my freind started making freinds with her and every time they speak I speak with them but my freind hardly pay attention to me
This was an amazing video! You did an awesome job. I also love that quote “Good friends are like stars, you don’t always see them but their always there”. One of my very best friends moved away last year, but I know we will always be there for each other!☺️❤️
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Her feelings were valid. The way her friend treated her, literally left her to the side. She could’ve invited her to take a tour of the school together. If Anything, her friend should’ve apologized.
Yeah I mean she didn’t even care about her birthday
Correct
@@user-nn2du3jj4w right
U being Hella sensetive jeez
@@vasatruhl that's what people say when they know they or somebody else did something wrong
As someone who's been left out many times, and was in a trio group this hurts to watch even. I remember fighting but noone took me seriously. It doesn't sound like that big of an issue but it really is. From sitting alone to not being told inside jokes, you name it. This is a super relatable video Dhar, thanks.
I am so sorry, I am in a friend group with 6 people (2 of which are my sisters and 1 is me) we have been friends for so long and we treat each other equally and in a way, we all have our “favorite best friend” in the group, we all love each other and they helped me get through some tough times it makes me so sad to know that other people don’t have friends that are as good, I am so sorry and I hope you one day meet friends that you deserve
Lmao
I can relate I got made fun of but recently they started hanging out with me again
@@user-nn2du3jj4w no no it's nothing serious, maybe I'm overthinking, they're seriously the best, the best i could've ever found!
Always a dui in a trio
As a person who was in a trio, it really feels bad when you are left out because the two of your friends are specially close.
Thank you so much Dhar Mann for making so much related stories to other people's internal feelings!
Me to😔
@@SupperSlapperYT ikr same happenes to me now :(
Exactly
“as a person”
Poor Laila.
And Hazel is so insensitive.
As a ex-friend who used to be in a trio friend group and being left out many times I could remember, this hits hard, Dhar. Thanks for making this video ❤
edit: what the sigma, don’t wanna be annoying but thank 4 likes
I know the feeling. Same happened to me.😢
I feel the same.
Same 😢 but now I’m kinda happy cuz my ex bff and her bff are now not in the same class bahahahahahahaha
Same
Gurl u got 248 likes
What hurts more than a heartbreak is your friend leaving you out
Them dying.
What hurts even more is when your friend dies and the last time y’all talked, y’all argued badly
I’d just leave them and join another group
thats so true 🥲😥😭
I'm in a trio and one is kind to me but the other one, no. The mean one always makes me the one left out and she always slaps me and sometimes punches me in the stomach, she also sometimes tells me to shut up if I'm talking to my actual kind friend. She also tries to separate us, she is showing that she likes my other friend more than me. When I tried to tell someone, she saw me and whispered in my ear "shut up" and she even lied to a teacher. She said to a teacher "yea me and my friends just joke around, we are just playing" when she literally hit me one second ago-
I was always the one in the trio that was forgotten and left out, so watching this brings back cursed memories, but I'm glad Dhar is putting people struggling with these similar situations in a spotlight. This way more people can notice the second perspective of friendships like these.
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@@MarinaG-wz3pv woohoo!
Same
Same😢
Same
"Good friends are like stars. You dont always see them, but you know they`re always there" so powerful thanks for this message dhar
This one meant a lot to me ❤
@@Ruby-jd6cc ❤
@@Ruby-jd6cc same ❤
"so powerful" 💀
I cried so much at the end, Michaela was so kind & understanding even though she did her so wrong, if we can fill the world with kids this kind hearted & loving of people, the world would be a dreamland.
Honestly, Lila didn’t deserve to be left out at all. I know how it feels to be left out in a group but they were doing it on purpose to me. They should be the ones apologising to Lila.
I’ve felt left out to and it makes me sad and I have this best friend and I would never make her feel left out cause she’s my friend and plus I know how it feels
So I agree with you
she has the right to feel that way, but ruining your friends party? that's messed up.
Yeah ikr. I mean her feeling was right becuz sometimes also i feel so left out with my friends :). But her actions wasn’t right :(
Ok.
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@@starrblx True
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“Good Friends Are Like Stars. You don’t always see them, but you know there always there.” Amazing, quote, Dhar! ⭐️⭐️⭐️
sasha slays ⚔😘💅
@@wow-zs4kr corny
Yes, it is an amazing quote. He must have spent a lot of time making it perfect.
Dhar did not come up with that quote
@@Cinx2 Yes he did!
Sometimes bestfriends dont act like a friend when they have a new friend.
Hhhhhh
fr😢
Hmm true but only "some" bffs
Just remember this. Two is a company and three Isa crowd. Most of the time trio friendship not good.
I’m crying 💔🥺
This is why most friendships end in betrayal cause it's like they forget all about you when they see their childhood friend
I was always an outsider. Uprooted to a different country several times growing up, even today (67) I watch everyone having together moments with lots of complicity while I'm considered a foreigner wherever I live 🙁 I learned to deal with it. I have family though
Yo yo 🎉
no they just know and like diffrent people then you so it ends up people just drifting apart why is this concept so hard to understand
Doesn't even have to be a childhood friend, in my case people forgot about me when they meet someone who has the same interests as them:(
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"Good friends are like stars. You don't always see them, but you know they're always there." - Big facts! 💯
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The fact that im Laila in this position right now... Jealousy can eaily take over! Keep up the great work Dhar, love your vids!
Bro you’ve been cucked
I understand, iam also in that kind of situation but iam not jealous, its rather the feeling of anger because me and friend have been together for a year and now she is making friends with some other girls and leaving me behind, dont worry things will work out for you :)
I'm not rlly in that position but I have known my friend for 6 years and every time I try to talk to her like her whole class follows her..... BTW she is in a different school bc she is older than me
@@ZERO-br1hc 0
I have friends and my friend gets jealous bc I have more friends than her she is mean and forceses me to play with her like no and she bullyed me so NO
I was friends with a kid I met recently, and I introduced him to one of my old friends. They got along so we became a trio, however day by day, they forgot about me. Like I wasn’t there. They would never look for me if I left, and I regret introducing them. Edit: Thanks for the support in the replies, I know some people understand me now :)
Same
This started to happen to me and another friend. My bestfriend introduced someone into the friend group and we became a trio. Although eventually me and the new person started to hangout more and he suggested we should stop hanging out with the friend that got him in the friend group because he just wasn't as cool anymore and that "we're just more close, y'know?". I realized it was messed up- told my bestfriend. We're starting to drift away from him now.
Hopefully this was semi-coherent lol
same
same
it hurts when that happens
“In a trio, there’s always a duo”
And a single
As a teenager, I can 100% relate to having a best friend, but being left out other another best friend of my best friend. 😂😂😂 happens all the time, I love when dhar mann actually makes relatable videos for once! Do more like these
@Bruh Bruh Lol well you think hahaha!!
True
As a teen that whole paragraph is true.
@@Unknown-yr5mj I agree
@@alexandraelenh7400 not being rude but you know that’s a bot lol
I totally know how Laila feels, when someone just come's up and snatches your friend
Me too it happens to me at school like every time when I'm with my friend
@@anastasia76025 sorry to hear that
@@anastasia76025 u ok?!
jw!
Now everyone calls me Leah
Yep
It hurts when you see your bestfriend get along with someone more than they get along with you.
True
Wait you have a friend?
Up there is a joke about giyuu (idk if I spell right) cause he has no friends
YES IT HURTS SO MUCH
@@mr.potato_cool437 DUDE!
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“Good friends are like stars u don’t always see them but u know they’re always there”❤ one of my favorite quotes ✨
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There always has to be one person making these unoriginal jokes.
she’s not backstabbing her, laila got betrayed first. she’s just being smart 😍😍
forreal
If this is how girls think I’m glad I’m a guy
@@dogineed2369 acting like guys are better
Best thing is find another friend and Leave that friend 😂then she will be jelous too
Yeah she’s not backstabbing her she is just being smart
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@@asulkatar1495 the pizzs guy seemed confused when she was closing the door tho so idk
unfunny
Lol
A while ago, I introduced my best friend to another friend of mine. They ended up becoming besties and I gradually got left out of events and outings and eventually became unwanted. This video brings back those painful memories.
Ik how this girl feels and I was once in this situation. Everyday I would come back from school crying. Soon after that I got social anxiety, body dysphormia, depression and anxiety.
That is me 😭😭 you're not alone
I've got the exact things you have. But thankfully my parents took me seriously
hi, I know this may seem random but I want you to know that Jesus loves you very much. He understands everything you are going through and He loves you so much that He wants you to be happy. It makes Him sad to see you suffering, and He wants to help you. He can give you a lot oy joy, peace and happiness , and can take away all of the things you are dealing with. All you have to do is call upon the name of Jesus, because He is with you and will always be there for you. He is waiting for you.
I feel so bad for you😓😭
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@@olakolade6656 Thank you
Honestly in my eyes the real villain is hazel. She was the one that sorta left laila out. Michaela wasnt in the position to invite layla cause they barely knew each other. It was hazel that could do something abt it. The worse part was when her party was ruined, she agreed to "ditching" michaela and go with laila when before she ignored her
Ikr
There are no villains they're all kind girls Laila's feelings where hurt Hazel was really happy to see Michaela
@@BrephObjecTryoutsRealGamers871 well they said it's in THERE eyes
Agreed
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The girl’s feelings were valid, although she should’ve handled the situation better, her own best friend stabbed her in the back. I know meeting someone you haven’t seen in a while is exciting and all, she could’ve included all 3 into their plans. So in my opinion both parties are in the wrong, and both sides should’ve handled the situation better.
Along with that, the other side tried to convince “Laila” to celebrate HER own birthday on a date that was suitable for themselves.
she didint back stab her firend
@@user-js7wq2hu7l She abandoned her. Out of all friends, she should’ve been the one able to see that. I could go on and say “she could’ve done this.” “she could’ve done that.” but you already know what she could’ve done.
@@user-js7wq2hu7l ur right
Only real friends Can like this comment
She didn't betray, she slayed
Edit: this is the most likes I've ever got 😂
She ate and left no crumbs in the plate
Lol
@Aria Blaze & Sonata Dusk ikr
what meaning?
Fr
she definitely has the right to feel like that, being the thirdwheel in your own relationship is awful, but, ruining a perfect birthday party for random ass people is not the way to go about it
This hits home. I remember what it was like when young kids didn't know how to include more than one person and so someone was always left out. Even some adults do this! It doesn't feel good.
Yeah I know the feeling all too well
How u just invite more than one person
It’s Not that hard to include someone else u choose to exclude people
@@advstation2003 It's not the number there. You'd have three people and two would talk, leaving the third person out of the conversation and engaging.
I remember once I was in a trio of friends and my other two friends went to the carnival together on the weekend. I found out the Monday after. They just "assumed" I didn't wanna go. It still kind of hurts me to this day how much I wasn't included in that friend group.
I am sorry that happened. Almost every trio has a duo🙁
I can relate to this so much. Brought back so many feelings. Maturing is realizing the friend who left her aside was the toxic one. And I would have rather been alone or with someone who cares about my emotions
I don't blame you, I feel the same way.
She wasn't toxic tho, I always be the one who left behind but for this girl, she's just excited bc her friend she haven't saw in years came back. The excitement will probably last for a while.
True friends dont treat a friend different cuz one has money.
I can relate to this. Since June 2006, my church group always excluded me in everything. I tried to talk with them and make friends with them, but the more I tried, the more they pushed me away and treated me like crap. They even put me in the corner of darkness, isolation, loneliness, and despair. Then, one Sunday afternoon at church, I was gonna confront them; I stood outside the SUNDAY SCHOOL classroom door ready to knock. And then I heard laughing and voices saying horrible things about me; "We shouldn't let her hang with us." "Yea. She will never fit in." "True dat. She's not at our level." "Haha. Me? Learn American Sign Language? Hahaha. Not on her life!" Upon hearing those, I fought back my tears from falling. I ran to ladies' bathroom, locked myself in handicap stall, and cried. Then, I waited for the bathroom to be empty, blew my nose, splashed cold water on my face, and fixed my makeup so no one would know that I've been crying. I didn't have the heart to tell the pastors, my mom, and my church group's parents about how they (my church group) have been treating me because I didn't want them to think of me as a bad person or a rat fink. Then, years later, my church group found me on Instagram and they all messaged me apologizing to me for the way they treated me. I was gonna tell them to go screw themselves, but I looked at their messages of apologies, and I saw that they really did feel guilty, and told them all that I accept their apologies and that I forgive them.
(Sorry for this long story; I hope I didn't bore you with all the details.)
Wow
@@nyameakuamoah-ansong6408 yea
I'm glad they apologized, I hope you all are good now.
Idk, Forgiving then was probably the largest mistake ever. Worst they come from a religious group, I deal with a lot of religious Hypocrisy almost everyday and I won’t ever forgive those who claim to be holy but judge and exclude others. They are like a Bunch of Mind controlled sentient beings
Looooooooooooooong
Ok i get how the girl felt betrayed and the new girl should've been more considerate as well as friend but the girl who ruined the party is just TOXIC and you cannot convince me otherwise
This really hits home for me. I’ve dealt with being abandoned by friends for other friends before. It sucks.
7:00 Only if principles actually cared this much
So true
Ahhh, there's nothing like a good reunion between old friends. But there's no reason to be jealous about that kind of thing or even try to sabotage; just because old friends are together again doesn't make you a third wheel. Friends are forever no matter what and there's always room for more. You know what they say: All for one and one for all.
ON GOD
Finally one who understands
Thank you for sharing your thoughts about this video, Anthony. I appreciate you watching. Stay inspired and always be in the loop.
Yes but jealousy gets to us. At that moment we feel left out which we arent supposed to feel. If the bff doesnt make the other girl feel left out then it wouldnt be a problem. I wouldnt sabotage but just avoid her for a few days so she understands to make both her friends feel loved.
@@DharMann Daddy dhar
Hazel wasn't being Leila's friend anymore because she was completely ignoring her. She made Leila feel left out and she thought her other friend was more important.
Tbh, This kinda hurts me. It's not like she was left out completely like I have been. From sitting alone to not being told inside jokes, you name it. This is a super relatable video Dhar, thanks.
This happens a lot to me when I have friends especially when your "friend" leaves you out like you never existed.
I was separated from my best friend during the lockdowns, and I wish I'd heard "Friends are like the stars: you can't always see them, but you know they're always there", that would've really helped me push through. Dhar Mann videos are so inspirational. Thank you for making such amazing content.
Good friends are like stars you don’t always see them but you know they’re always there big facts 💯
The "mean girl" aka the one who was left out isn't mean she just feels left out and she is being left out so you can't really blame her for having valid feelings
Bruh she ruined a party bro thats taking it to far 💀
@@BungeezI feel like u wouldn’t understand what it feels like to be the girl who was left out 😟
@H3artz.F0rM33 that doesn't make it okay to ruin someone's birthday tho you can't be that obsessed that you'd have to ruin a whole birthday just because you were left out, you'd at least try to make the friend jealous instead bro
"Good friends are like stars." You don't always see them, but you know they're always there." I love that so much. No matter how you're feeling people do care friends or family. Thank you Dhar Mann for being so inspiring lots of love to you, your family, and just everyone :) Thank you all your amazing viodeos. You guys, team crush it!!! We appreciate you all so much and your amazingness 🥰🥰🙏🏻🙏🏻
Hey dhar here’s a idea for a vid. So this girl comes in a restaurant and a girl comes and she makes fun of the other girl who walked in because her family is poor, well it looks like that. Then the girl (that came in) was the owner of the restaurant with her parents. Not the best but it’s ok I think. but who cares I hope u read it Ik your not cuz this is a werir and im a random person, but yea
Edit: oh thanks for the likes
Already made I'm pretty sure but yeahh dharmann NEEEEDS ideas
This is a great idea
A similar video was already made
Kinda bad
I like your idea
Though I don't have best friends , I have a lot of friends. Sometimes they group up together and make me feel left out . From not being told "inside jokes" to not being in group dances . This is a relatable vid , Thanks Dhar
At 5:20 it made me so sad in the video a girl who takes over her old friend than new friend so sad I even cry
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The way she just slam the door in the delivery guys face without paying 😭 18:49
LMAO FR
THE DELIVERY PERSON'S REACTIONS IS PRICELESS LIKE
So relatable! In 5th grade 4 of my best friends turned their back on me because the school bully told them lies. They still hate me to this day. I found new friends now. Dhar man’s videos are so awesome and help me through tough times. Thank you so much!
@Jennifee Barry What jerks they are. Glad you found new friends.
I met a friend back in the 10th grade. We were inseparable, then I introduced her to this girl I knew. Before I knew it, I was tossed to the side, this happened 10 years ago and I'm thankful I moved past it. I ended up meeting better people. ❤
We’re not just telling stories, we’re teaching kids to not be selfish jerks
We're not only telling stories, we're explaining the true value of friendship
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We're not just telling stories, we're giving people dog poop for their birthday
We're not only telling stories, we're sabotaging birthday parties
@@weaponsmith can I have some 😊
We’re not just telling stories we are teaching best friends to never backstab eachother great content dhar Mann ❤️
that doesn’t even make sense
Do one
Says the one with 9 subscribers
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Cringe roblox LMAO
Probably the most relatable episode he’s ever made.
This is what happened when I introduced my two best friends, when they met they got close and completely forgot about me and ignored almost everything I said and did…it went from something simple like them being in all the same classes without me to them gossiping about me and planning basically every hangout, sleepover, and event without me
Bro literally that is the worst feeling when your best friend goes off with someone else. it’s horrible if anything her friend was not being considerate.I feel bad for her
"Good friends are like stars. You don't have to see them but you know they're always there" important note
Thank you for watching, Hilary. I hope the message of this video inspired you.
Dhar Mann only comment, let's change that
To be honest, this is so relatable. I've been in like 12 friends groups and most of them were trios. I always got left out.. Every single one, I'm in another one currently and i'm getting left out again.
I guess that means that their not true friends to begin with, I’ve had that recently with a few friends, I’ve eventually called them out and not ever want to see them again as I have better things to do, and to just get on with my life doing other things, I’d rather be on my own, than be with people pretending to be your friend
We’re not just telling stories, we’re making children seem like murderers
We’re not just telling stories, we’re closing the door on the pizza guy
@VAXRO yes.. yes you are bot (i'm being sarcastic)
@VAXRO no your not but you are
@@unicornpupart you don't have to because it's a bot
@VAXRO no one asked
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This reminds me of something that’s been happening for a while. My best friend and I would hang out, but then another girl joined our group and she was actively trying to drive me out of the group and cast me aside. The issue is still happening today, and now I can’t even see, talk to, or text my best friend all because of that girl. I feel this video.
12:39 pickle juice isnt bad
UMMMMMM................. Then Try Some🥒🍹
@@Itach_Uchiha420 i did and its pink its so good
@@qoben38Why would pickle juice be pink ?
@@Potterhead.Always it is though go search it
@@qoben38 doubt it
Every trio has a duo coming from someone who has been left out
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Good lesson for those in a trio friendship. If each friend is looking out for the happiness of the other friends, then there is no room for jealousy. When you are friends with someone and they are reacquainted with an old friend, be happy for them and when you are invited to be with them you should accept the invitation. If you are feeling left out, be honest but kind and tactful when you express your feelings and concerns with the goal of maintaining the friendships, not of getting your way.
6:43 literally ever principal
"Good friends are like stars, you don't always see them, but you know there always there" One if the best quotes ever Dhar Mann, keep up the good work!💙💙💙
Stolen someone else comment lmao 🤣
Yes I love this quote too
@@lilatbabyLTAT bruh what
stolen....
@Bruh Bruh stupid content
Literally that's how I felt when one of my friends were hanging out with my other friend I wanted to be rude and bully them but I knew it was wrong so I tried to play it cool, and just smile and look at them until they noticed me but it didn't work out.
Last time I got so jealous that I baked a cake and put raw chicken in the cake
I regret way I did tho bc one of my friends eat I'd "oh um wanna hang out with us?" I after a baked a draw chicken ckae
"Good friends are like stars,"
"You dont always see them,"
"But you know they're always there."
What an greatful message to use!
I love your videos alot dhar!
Read my name
me when im a bot
You copy it so you think dhar will notice you
@@playroblox7222 dude, we don’t know if she is serious and what if she really mean it, not like all people do this. And btw dhar still didn’t even notice her so just leave her alone.
Jealousy can always take over, dont let it get over you! It can cause you to do bad things without you thinking it is bad. Thank you for posting these videos Dhar. The videos you make are amazing because this is actually very inspiring to many people and help them learn life lessons! Thank you :D
Edit: I started WW3….
No u are wrong he is supporting gays
@@1touchassisT nothing is wrong with gays
@@1touchassisT There is nothing wrong with being gay, explain to me how it’s wrong.
@@Nexuszzz890 he’s probably christian
Dhar Mann sucks! my content is better!
4:39 "you didnt have to cut me off"
6:50 W principle ngl
Dhar should make a movie but add inspirational, educational and helpful tips in life scenes in it. That would be so cool
@@AYT04he does that every video tho-
When the principle came to Laila, I was both heart warmed but angered at the same time. For the 9 years of my life going to school, no one’s done anything like that for me.
Seems like a you problem ngl
@@justsomeguywithoutamustach939 ok but you dont have a mustache
I know what she’s feeling
I get jealous too I worry sometimes that I feel ignored or I’m not good enough or just looked over but you should never go as far as backstabbing your own friend or someone you love. Jealousy can change you and do things you’d never thought you’d do you should try to control yourself with these emotions
Same here
4:22 What was this? She literally stepped like 2 inches off the floor and got her foot stuck in a bucket thats like 12 inches LOL
The way the last pizza guy reacted when the girl slammed the door is killing…it’s like she forgot to pay him😂😂😂😂
We aren’t just telling stories, we are watching the principal be “reasonable”
hahahaha. Wanda vibes
😂😂😂
i swear dhar man has gotten worse and more cringe for some reason 😬
@Nayeli Ramos alr bro chill out, want a medal?
@@DoughnutGem i agree
With a friend like that you don’t need enemies.
Why is the cafeteria so small for middle school 😂
I can relate to her, I’ve always been the third wheel out of my friend group. My friends always talk about how they do so much fun stuff, and never think of what I’m feeling.
Hi sis
Whatever you're feeling, always remember, sabotage is NEVER the answer.
Its a question and the answer is yes
So true! Never the answer, you'll only dig a hole for yourself and not the other person.
I can definitely relate to this. I’ve been left out so many time by people who I thought were my best friends.
She wasn't even mean, she was jealous because her best friend has an older best friend so she sabotaged the old best friend
This video hits closer to home than you think ^^ I never did anything mean though, but it hurts when you see your so called best friends leaving you for other people ^^ As i grew up , never getting picked by anyone. I have come to terms with just relying on myself. Im cool with it now. Some Friends are there only for a period of your life anyway and you only have yourself for the rest of it. If you found yourself a friend who still cares for you even if youre both older with your own lives, youre quite lucky ^^
I totally agree!!! no one is seeing this part of it
10:13 anger issues
I love how Dharr Man videos always have a lesson but it’s told in such extraordinary ways! Keep up the great work :D
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@@DharMann are u a nigga?
@@DharMann Yo wassup Dhar mann
@@DharMann yo wassup Dhar Mann
@@DharMann we aren't just telling stories, we are having lifes
I can relate to Layla, but NEVER sabotage your bestfriend for your own good :)
7:15 if that were my headteacher they'd act like they know who she's talking about
Good friends are like stars. You dont always see them, but you know they’re always there”
Inspirational quote - Dhar Mann
Ew
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@@DatHoodBooger69 Why ew?
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Who else feels like this at school 😢
At first, I see how sad Laila must be, I’ve had friends that left me out. It feels terrible to be the odd one out! I would never try to get in between their relationship though. The worst part is especially how they brag about being friends in diapers and having memories since they were little. I wouldn’t know how to handle the situation though…
Yeah I can relate . I would handle it as just ignore them and focus more on studies or other friends I might have until they think they want me back as their friend and will stop leaving me out .
I also have those kind of freinds to like when a new person joined my other freinds class my freind started making freinds with her and every time they speak I speak with them but my freind hardly pay attention to me
I completely understand, I felt like that for most of my life.
19:08 the fact that she didn't even pay him it’s just hilarious 😂
I always get left out and her friend owes her a HUGE apology it feels horrible to be left out,everyone thinks it’s easy but it’s really not
Relatable video for trio friends lol
Even tho your friend tries to leave you behind u should find another friend to hang out with
Anytime someone is depressed they should watch dhar mann instead to feel better ❤️
Agreed
This was an amazing video! You did an awesome job. I also love that quote “Good friends are like stars, you don’t always see them but their always there”. One of my very best friends moved away last year, but I know we will always be there for each other!☺️❤️
“There is always a duo in a trio”
Just remember “Good Friends are the Ones who Truly have Your Backs”
Thanks , Dhar Mann
And they'll always be with you. No matter how far away they are.
@@airtiger4577 True