Tso Poj Niam Freedom Poj Niam Tso Yus Tseg. 8/30/2023
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Good job Hmong pojniam.. about time some stand up ool
WHY HMONG MEN FAIL AND LOSE OUT ON RELATIONSHIPS.
1. ALWAYS LEAVING THEIR WIFE AT HOME MAKING CULTURE AND FRIENDS MORE IMPORTANT THAN HER.
2. NEVER SHOWING HIS WIFE THE RESPECT SHE DESERVE AND BE APPRECIATIVE OF THE THINGS SHE DOES FOR HIM
3. BELIEVES HE HAS EVERYTHING UNDER CONTROL AND THAT SHE WILL NEVER LEAVE HIM.
4. NEVER MAKE HER AS IMPORTANT AS THE DAY HE FOUGHT SO HARD TO WIN HER HEART.
5. BECOME SELFISH AND NOT SAY NICE THINGS OR SPEND ENOUGH TIME WITH HER SO SHE CAN STILL FEEL LOVED.
LIKE THE OLD SAYING....
"IF YOU DON'T COMFORT YOUR WOMEN AND LET HER BE FREE. SOMEONE ELSE WILL COMFORT HER FOR YOU."
Yes, you said it all. 👏👏👏👏
I don't think all Hmong men are, but certainly a lot of them. It's a long history dated back in China where men treated women like properties. There were a lot of families esp. those that are in the leadership positions still inherit those traits. Boys/young men were trained to be "men" not to cry, not to be weak, not to be submissive to women....etc. However, men should not be blamed for every relationship failure because there are also women who inherited similar trait as those control freak men. They don't see marriage as a partnership and team, but as a competition field, once you're in it, you have to be strong and fight to win.
My guess is that this guy was an absent father and husband in the past. Fought a lot with the wife and always said the door is open 24/7 for her. So finally she had enough and started doing back what he did.
Now she’s married rich and doing well. Yay for her !!
Agreed! He been going out and drinking with his friends from the start. Never home never help with the kids. He finally got a taste of his own medicine.
For real! I was about to say the same thing too.
And now he’s crying wolf blaming her for their broken marriage. Typical Hmong man.
You would of failed the exam because you are guessing lol
@@khamyang5128 don’t need to pass exams when you’re already the teacher
Your wife was correct when she said men should open doors and treat them like a Queen. It’s not just a meeka thing. You should do this for the woman you love. Women want actions, not just words. You can tell her you love her but you need to show her.
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@@khamyang5128 hi my biggest fan
Well Said! For him to say Hmong men can’t do what Meka men do. Indeed it’s not true. Hmong Men can do it. They just chose not to do it because they care for their ego more. If you love your wife as much as you claim it’s easily achievable to open the door for her, treat her to the littles things that matter to her.
This should be a wake up call for all our unromantic brothers.
I applaud your wife for finding her happiness because you didn’t give an damn.
That means you didn't love her enough, didn't appreciate her enough... love her from afar and make peace with it
I have a lot of freedom and am still with my husband of 38 years. No issues with cheating. It’s trust and respect that keeps us together. I would likely cheat if I’m treated as his property and he has to keep tabs on me all the time.
Will see
Acourse.
You just haven't found your meeka
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Agree!
Brother, it goes both ways. My husband of 35 years did what you wife did. It’s not a ALL women or ALL men. The people that does this have an evil personality. Let her go. Move on with your life. It’s not going to last! They think the grass is greener on the other side.
I don't feel one ounce of pity for this dude. A beggar can't be a chooser. Too late and its all water under the bridge.
Amen me either
Funny dhau lawm os! Thaum yus ua mas zoo ua thiab lom zem kawg nawb tab sis thaum lawm ua tuaj ces yus ti ntsha kiag. Muab iav saib yus tus kheej thiab kho koj tus kheej kom zoo rau tus tom ntej no.
Wow very good job lady 😅😅😅😅
Actually it's the person per individual only. Each person has their inner desires that some of themselves don't know about. It's 50/50 for both men/women.
It’s not just women, this is also true for men. Everyone is different. Not all women are like your wife. Some people are easily influenced like your wife so you’ll have to keep a tab on them
Tis dude and his friends want to blamed and used his ex eife as an example, but honestly, they're wives no better. The only difference is his ex-wife didn't open the truth of their wive's to their husband's. She didn't backstabbed them. You reaped what you sowed. I give props to his ex-wife for finally opening her eyes and valuing her self wirth.
Txiv neej tsis sawm zoo, thaum poj Niam zoo tsis iam qhov zoo ne😊
This is the dumbest advice ever. Freedom comes in all shapes and forms just like anything else. If your foundation of marriage is good, no amount of freedom will get her to leave you. The fact she left appears that there are other foundational problems.
Good one
Bro, it does not matter who it is, men or women if he or she decide to cheat and leave you she or he will do it. No matter how much control you may be.
It sounds like your wife got tired of you having fun and leaving her home with the kids. So now the kids are grown, she is free and she free herself from you.
Pab tsis tau koj vim koj xwb 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
It don't matter if you gave her freedom or she stuck in the house. A cheater will cheat no matter the situation. She was bound to cheat. But I'm sure you weren't 100% innocent in her decision to cheat.
That’s a good wife 😅😂😊
I feel like this guy is not telling the whole truth. She probably got tired of him cheating or he probably didn’t have any ambitions to better their lives.
I feel the same, just by listening to him talk about what he has done in the past, she would just stay home and take care their kids. I don't feel pity for him. Especially after all she raised the kids and still tells her to that the door is open to her she can go anytime. This means she loves her kids and raised them until they can help themselves then it's time for her to have a better life. Don't you agree?
A lesson learned too late, but better late than never. Don’t pity yourself too much brother, go find someone that truly loves you and move on. Sometimes it’s meant to be.
It wasn't because she didn't love him. She woke up and loved herself and value her self worth. He didn't appreciate or value his wife. She was just a doormat to take care of his home and children and catered to him. When she had enough and her eyes opened. She's better off now and found true happiness. She doesn't have to catered to him anymore. Now she's being catered to and respected, love, valued and treated like a Queen.
Tus tij laug cas koj neej neeg es niam tu tu siab os cas tus neeg uas yus hlub lawm ces tseem nws twb g rov los yus pheej tseem tos muaj nws tuav rov los no tus nws g hlub yus ces nws yeej yuav mus tseem yuav ua zoo los luag yeej yuav mus os tus tij laug
Xyaum ua zoo thiaj tau lub neej zoo Xyaum ua phem ces kawg neej liamsim, koj yog tus chiv koj thiaj tau ris. Txhob tu siab rau nws rov tu siab rau koj xwb.
Wooooo
Koj hais yog kawg lawm qhov zoo ces yus txhob ua ua ntej xwb yog yus pib ua ntej lawm ces thaum lawm tau ua ces yus txhob mob thiab no xwb mas
Kuv mas nyiam Zaj neej neeg no 100% vim nws ntshe txawj ua txhawb peb cov poj niam vim cov ruam ua tsis tau cov txiv neej ua tau lawv tseem cem tias peb ruam kuv pab txhawb koj zog koj mog tus me Viv ncaus
Nyob zoo o
If you listen carefully he was a bad husband. Thaum ub nws yeej mus li mus tham hluas nkauj ua dog ua dig tsis tsheej haj. Tamsi no nws tus pojniam ntse es thiaj mus ntaus. This guy still blames freedom of women but he in reality he was a shit husband never loved her and now she found someone who truly cares for her, he did say to her nws lub qhov rooj qhib lug. That speaks alot!
100% agreed 👍 thanks 😊
Being trustworthy is hard. So always remember to love each and respect each other. It's all about respect. Good luck to you.
I’d like to hear your ex-wife’s side of the story first. Sounds like you did all the things your wife did too, when she stayed home to raise the children. She learned everything from you.
Anyway, not only do women be like that. Men are like that too. Not all women are easily influenced like your ex-wife. People who are given freedom all their life are less likely to leave than people who are cooped up and suddenly let out.
A perfect reason to leave and try something new
Players gonna play. Don’t matter if it’s a male or female. Don’t hate the players hate the game.
You should take your spouse with you bc you want to (bc you love them and want to be around them) not to keep them from cheating. It’s not true love when they don’t want to love you but are forced. Like God giving us the free will to deny him if we want to. It wouldn’t be true love if he forced us to love him.
Txhiv neej Poj niam Los ib yam nkaus.
Sounds like no matter what she was going to leave you anyways. If they're not happy they will go. Don't hold someone with you if they don't want to be with you. It's worth your time.
It’s not the freedom you gave her, it’s the neglect!! Not only did you go wondering off alone, you neglected her at home and reminded her they the door is wide open.
Most guys don’t know how to balance outside and inside with their spouse that’s why at the end she had enough and she will go farther away when she finds her way.
You didn’t know how to balance and you neglected her too much so now it’s her turn.
Guys when you go you will come back but ladies will not come back, remember that.
If you control her too much When she break free she will go, but if you give her too much independence and neglect her too long she will also go at the end.
I guess some people forgot that this is a country with a society where men and women are free to do whatever they choose to do. Once you have an alcoholic dumpster in your family, everyone else will pretty much learn to do the same thing. This is one of the biggest problem in some Hmong families in America that no body talk about it. You can’t teach an old dog new trick but for sure to teach the new dog some tricks that he/she has not done before and this is exactly what happened to you and your wife. You got what you deserved. Alcohol is a great thing to destroy people life because it is not anyone friends.
I heard OKHNY ces ua line noj mov 3 hours. Sab dhau.
Poj niam hmoob meskas ces yeej liam li no ntag nawb thaub aw...
When you were the first to abuse freedom and pay back your wife with freedom is a karma. Now you see that what you did isn't wrong but what she doing is wrong. This is what we men seen isn't wrong was wrong.
Tus phooj ywg no puas tau nrhiav tau tu hlub na lo kv nrog kj tu siab thiab os tu me nu aw
Kuv mloog tus txiv Neej no hais mas zoo li nws ruam heev
Let that beach go brother....you are the ocean
Yog hlub dhau thiab ruam dhau li koj ces mus npuav phom mas npawg
Thaum koj paub ces lig lawm
A woman who doesn't want a life you is always on the look out. It's only a matter of time, brotha. Let her be who she wants to be. She won't be with that dude for too long until another guy comes along. But to us men who are always chasing after other women, don't be complaining and crying when they start doing it to you. I like to keep it fair
Good comment
Nws mus nws mas npawg aw.....tseem tshuav peb daim av 3nti os
....lol
Nco ntsoov nrauj kom hmab tu hlua pluam tsam lwm Hnub rov raug koj tha dua.
Yeap, quas puj tsis sawm zoo, same goes for the men!!!
Ruam li tus thaub no cia mus yuav poj ruam xwb nawb
Tu txiv tsev ca koj lub neej yuav tu siab ua luaj o lub neej raug tso e yu yog tu nyob to e mob thiab ntsim npaum li ca .tu siab dhau lawm o xav tuag kom dim txoj kev mob lo kuj tuag g tau e lam nyob xwb koj pua kam ua phooj ywg nrog kuv.lub neej no tu siab .chim siab ualuaj e yuav ua ca nyob txog hnub tuag o lawv
Oh!! Koj pheej yws tau ua abtsis nas!! Zoo li koj poj niam xeem txoj kev ntawd nrog koj xwb! Yog koj ua zoo thaum pib ces nws yeej zoo lawm, txhob tu siab you had received of what you plant the seeds! We all humans being as husband & wife, we most treated each other’s with respect, integrity and loves! Sound like you’re hide your true self from the story.
Not ur wife fault
It ur fault
U teach her
There's probably more to the story. There's always three sides to a story. His, hers, And the truth. This is just his side.
Txhob tu siab lwm hnub yog daj hau tsis yuav ntshe neej tsa tseem yuav hais tias yug tau ib pab me nyuam rau koj kom koj thaj tsob...ntshe thaum kawg koj tseem yuav tau tha os
Txoj kev freedom no yeej zoo tiamsis yog sib ntseeg siab tiag tiag xwb.. yog hauv lub neej twb muaj kev lwj siab iab siab dua los lawm ces txhob tso nawb thiaj tsis ua neej nyuam kev tau nyob ib leeg os..
Txhob tu siab, tus neeg phem yeej yuav tau qhov phem. Tsis hais saum neej los yog nruab dab, tsis hais tiam no los yog lwm tiam.
These comments are WILD ASF. Regardless of what he did he never cheated on her, beat her and still love her. She was the one that got a taste of the poj liab life and cheated. Why tf are ya'll attacking him. 😒
Txog txij koj pojniam ua rau koj li no los koj yeej ua txaus rau nws lawm xwb os tsis muaj ib tug pojniam es nyob2 cia li xav muab nws lub neej hloov li os
What's wrong with being a gentleman who opens doors and doesn't leave parenting to his wife only? Are you going to lose your manhood or die if you do that? You still haven't figured it out yet. It's not about freedom or size. It's about how much you have her back in everything she does. Sounds like you let her down all these years when she needed you the most. SMH! Another OG mind who only see his rights but not his wrongs.
Koj tus poj niam muaj hmoo kawg
Vim peb cov txiv neej Hmoob no muaj qee tus siv hwj chim dhau lawm
Cas lub teb Chaws miskas es tej poj thiaj Li ua pauj Tau kiag Li thaum txiv neej ua Rau poj niam es neej tsis xav Tias poj yuav muaj peev xwm ib Li no .? Ces zaum no ntag zoo zoo kawg.
Thaub aw poj niam ces zoo li nej cov txiv nej es mus tham hluas es poj niam hais nej txwv nej es nej dhuav poj niam li cas ces poj dhuav li ntawv los mas cov niag neej
Some women are like this and some men too. They found freedom and forgot to be a wife or husband. If you didn't cage her then she wouldn't have did this.
Tus niam tsev no nw yeej mob siab txau lawm os . Vim thaum pib koj yog txiv koj twb tsi coj zoo rau poj niam . Thaum poj niam tag kev cia siab lawm ce kawg rhiav duas ib tug tshiab lis no xwb tiag ...txiv neej hmoob yuav tau hloov los hlub thaum pib txog xaus , tsi yog koj mam lo ua zoo lo hlub thaum poj niam twb tus siab txau rau koj ...
She was going to cheat on you one way or another. It was just a matter of time, had nothing to do with her going out. Her friends didn't cheat on their husbands, they all did the same thing
Ceeb laj nrhiav tau tus zoo niam tsev if you still hold on to your past.
Thov qhuas koj os viv ncaus, koj muaj peem xwm heev kav tsij ua pub rau peb cov ua tsis tau, zoo heev rau cov txiv neej uas ib los ntiab ob los ntiab nej cov txiv neej uas pheej cem tias qhov rooj qhib luag peb tsuas nros peb tsis muaj peem XWM es peb mus tsis taus peb
Some people are just meant to have the leash on.
Ib co neeg ua laib thaum hluas, ib co ua thaum laus. Ib co neeg ntsej muag yog neeg tiamsis siab yog tsiaj. Ib co neeg lam yog neeg tiamsis tsis paub kev cai ua neeg. Cov neeg zoo li no zam kev kom deb rau.
Some of these comments! Lol I actually agree with one of his statements. To those who likes to go out and hang out at the bars: never say never! The right person just haven't come along your way. When that person does, you're bound to cheat. Lust exists in everyone. The only difference is that some are better at controlling it than others.
Hmong people be like: when a Hmong man cheats he's a txiv dev but when a Hmong woman does it, she finally has the courage to leave. The hate for Hmong men is forreal. Lol. Cheating is cheating.😂😂
Thissssss 🙌🙌🙌 She cheated and all these people in here, oh you deserve it, oh blah blah blah. These comments are wild asf lol
This is what happened when a grown man married a child and brain washed her for most of her life. Find someone in your own age, tus txiv neej hmoob tsis muaj lwb. If you can drinks, why can’t your wife drinks?
Koj tus poj niam yeej yog poj niam liam os brother.😂
Fun is trouble lady. The end of fun is dead.
Xav nov tus poj niam sab os
Hmmm… I think you left some dirty laundry out to make yourself sound like the victim. She played your game and left you.
Mister, it’s not about freedom. I have a lot of freedom but I wouldn’t cheat. If you controlled her, you would have lost her too. Maybe you were a lousy husband to begin with. 🤷🏻♀️
Ua neeg nyob mas tus neeg zoo, txawm nws yuav ua dab tsi, mus qhov twg, nrog cov neeg zoo li cas los nws yeej ua neeg zoo. Tus neeg tsis zoo, muaj lub siab tsis zoo ces txawm nws muab kaw hauv tsev xwb los nws yeej yuav nrhiav kev ua phem.
Muaj coob tus poj niam uas nyob hauv tsev zov me nyuam xwb, nws tseem mus muaj siab rau tus neighbor los the guy work at the gas station on the corner.
los tim plog no mam nrhiav rau koj tseem muaj nkauj mog ab coob heev
Txiv neej twb noj sab nraud Los ntau tiam lawm poj niam twb Siab loj ...tiam no yog muaj qee tus poj niam ho ua li nej cov txiv neej ua Los nej yuav tsum tau Siab loj thiab ma...Cas nej uv tsis taus li na
Txiv neej hmoob tsis txawj hlub peb poj niam. Kojyuav tsum coj nws...ib txwm.. nws ua pauj koj xwb
Tus mekwv tus poj niam cooj pwm zoo li koj tus no ces ntxov tsi mus los lig nws yeej yuav mus, koj saib nws cov phooj yws lawv tsuas ua li lawv paub tias lawv muaj txiv lawm, tab sis koj tus nws lub siab ntsws yeej nyiam qhov ntawd tshaj lwm tus ces nws yeej yuav mus ib hnub xwb xob tus siab xob sav tias tim yog tso ywj siab rau nws ntau, tsi yog li ntawd tus nws yuav mus ces ib hnub nws yeej yuav mus xwb.
Yeah tso poj niam freedom ces poj niam mus tshoob qaus thaum poj niam mus tshoob tshoob qaus ces poj niam tsis muaj chaws tuag ces poj niam rov qab los, this happen a lot in the United states
tus neeg yuav ua siab phem uas muaj lub siab dub ces txawm yus tso nws kev heev thiab tsis tso nws kev los yog nws xav ua siab phem thaum twg los yeej tag li od yog nws yog neeg ncaj ncees ces yus yuav mus raug tau pes tsawg xyoo los nws yeej tos yus hos yog nws yeej muaj lub siab dub lawm ces yus txawm nyob kiag ntawm nws ib sab los nws yeej yuav ua siab phem od mog.
Nyuam qhuav haum cov txiv ua thaum poj niam tsis paub ua es cem2 tias poj niam ruam tsis qhaub xam khoos, siab me2 tsis zoo li lawv cov poj niam os yus coj2 cob2 kom poj niam ua li koj ua ne chim no poj niam ua tuaj ces kawg lub quaj thov li koj.
Maiv vaj,puas muaj tej tug txiv neej hmoob ruam npaum li tus thaub no mas cas ntxim ncaws taw ua luaj na
tabsis yog yog pojniam mus ntsib tus tshiab lawm ces pojniam yeej tsis pub nws ob ceg rau yus ywj siab lawm yus nrog ua niam txiv lub sij hawm twg los txhaum nws tag thiab ua tag ib zaug los sib ceg ib zaug li nawb.
Txhob tu siab os... tus me txiv tsev 1 pab niam tsev ua ke tsuas yog koj tus poj niam nws tsuas yog 1 leeg ntawm ntawm 1,000 leej xwb cov niam tsev zoo tsawm muaj os mog
Bro! Mob nws xwb let freedom begin dumb will be dumped! we men can stand ground. Love our children!
Don’t worry, no lost. A cheating woman like that will go nowhere. Always have balance. Find a new good wife.
Yog li cas nej cov txiv neej pheej tsis hlub peb cov poj niam mas. Kuv tus txiv qub mas khuv xim tas 1 sim neej li vim nws tias kuv tsis thaum kuv nyob ntawd nws tes,
Tim yus txoj kev ruam
Thaub ua neej rua ces pib lis no mus tías.
Nej nim nco2 nej cov ib yam li peb nco peb cov txiv es mus nrog vajtswv nyob ntxov2 lawm thiab os..😮😢
Shrimp or lobster.. ofc she’s gonna eat the expensive lobster.. Lol taste it and love it lol
Yim tos yim nrhiav tsis tau tus zoo lawm nawb..vim tias ib hnub laus zuj zus.
Muaj ib co pojniam yeej tsis sawm zoo os...
Kuv tsis xav tias koj tso poj niam ywj siab. Kuv xav mas ntshe koj ua hluas zog lawm es tsis los tsev ces tos koj nco xwb poj niam twb npaj tau neej tshiab lawm xwb.
Kheev lam peb lub teb chaws ua tau li nej lub ntshe kuv yuav yog ib tug mus thiab laus vim kuv tus txiv tsev nws muaj hauj lwm saib hlob dhau lawm mus txog tsheej tog xyoo g kam los tsev li o
After children grew up and out of the house... partners tend to cheat on each. Modern lifestyle !!