I was born with a disability and I still got smacked if I was naughty. I never really rebelled because I was always in and out of hospital as a kid with leg operations. My parents never treated special. I turned out fine.
I feel it's a chicken and egg situation, some children are easier than others there's no denying that, but both extremes on either end of the spectrum tend to go hand in hand with terrible/amazing parents. But I'm strongly biased. My father was *always* in control even when he wasn't present. He had a knack for letting us know what would be the 'road of least resistance' and could then trust us to follow it. So we could freely roam the farm as long as we remember without getting hurt. As well as directing our energy, if we were restless he'd let us help him with some safe mindless task and turn it into a game. If we didn't have energy he'd not ask us to do things against our will. It kept a balance of chores always being done but never feeling like, well.. a chore. I also don't remember him needing to 'punish' me even once, be it time-out or a slap on the wrist. Nor do I have a single bad memory of him and he was the 'main' parent. Wish he coulda passed those skills onto me but he died young. It sadly clashed hard with my stepdad who seemed to punish me for the sake of punishing me. (From beatings because I couldn't lift the bags of horsefood, 10kg+, I was 10 and disabled, to doing German homework instead of English when I had a test for German and wasn't behind on anything. Or that time I 'build a massive bonfire' 2 weeks out of surgery, unable to walk and barely able to hop to the toilet on crutches, couldn't have been my brother on who's friends' facebooks he saw the pictures.) And forcing me through my chronic pain non-stop which... feels like a punishment. And low and behold, his own kids were absolute demon spawns who feel incredibly misunderstood (which they were.) And grandparents, aunts and uncles didn't want to have over. So they were always at his mercy never learning better. My time at grandma and my aunt always made me revert back to how my dad raised us, or I'd probably ended up just as terrible until adulthood.
Hidings were what worked for our household. My old man said it was tough raising me and my siblings. All he has to do is spend 10 minutes walking through the mall to hear screaming kids kicking tantrums to think his own kids were practically angels.
@@PhantomFilmAustralia even my own mother hated high pitched squealing kids, would not take it from me..swift retribution was at hand if I even thought about it. Sorry, not sorry... but parents who tolerate that have something seriously wrong themselves...
I love how the cameraman filmed the kid spilling the water, but didnt bother to warn her when she was carrying her kid, just letting her slam her spine into the doorframe
All these parents are lazy, smacking a child is lazy, they have no rules, no proper discipline, no routine and poor communication. These parents just have no clue.
When my sisters and I wouldn't pick up our toys our dad put them in a trash bag and we had to watch as he threw them in the trash can outside. Then in the middle of the night he went and got them out of the trash can and hid them in the crawlspace for about a month. They eventually told us they hadn't thrown them out and gave them back to us, but it was made very clear that future instances of that would not end with us getting them back. They had no problem with us picking up our toys from that point on.
I think its important for kids to be discipline. Soo many of my friends were spoilt brats who fought back with their parents from the ages of kids to teens and now they are full on regretfull of how they acted and treated their parents as kids whereas me . I was born into a indigenous family where we'd get our asses whooped which I am glad I got because I would have been a depressed ungrateful ass kid like these ones
my kids don't get smacked, my step mother who relentlessly beat her children (that turned out sub par) said they are the best behaved and well mannered children she has seen.
@@Lo.0se And probably some of the most traumatized and likely in need of therapy. Sure, making your kids do what you want by force makes them behave, out of fear, but at what cost?
@@LethalByChoice like I understand about what you mean by that last sentence but you also got to think if your kid is misbehaved and acting like a brat a simple spanking or belt would be best cause not only are the children et some sense smacked I to them but you are also teaching them to not be fuck ups but if you are beating children just for simple shit like a broken vase or some shit then that won't be ok and this is coming from someone who has come from a aggresive household where we would get punished for bein absolute shitheads
@@LethalByChoice Jeremy was saying that his stepmother (who smaked her own kids) said his own NON smaked kids are the most well behaved kids she's ever seen
I have 2 boys, 1 responds to smacking by behaving themselves for a week or two (or at least being able to be controlled with a stern voice for a week or two), the other one just became fearful of me for a couple of days and would avoid me. One still receives the occasional smack as he seems to need hard borders (probably down to every couple of months now, he's 6 years old) the other doesn't (he gets sent to a boring room with no toys instead, usually the laundry or bathroom). Know your children.
My first child required very minimum spankings (she was a girl) and only had to be threatened after that for most part had to be reminded of repercussions…meanwhile my son who was born 8 years separated requires s corporal punishment. Depends on the child for sure too.
One time i threatened to call the police on my Mum for getting a smack , she dead ass called them for me and gave me the phone 😂😂 But yeah , a smack is fuck all compared to the old 'You want the boots , the jug chord or the broomstick?'.
I was born with a disability and I still got smacked if I was naughty. I never really rebelled because I was always in and out of hospital as a kid with leg operations. My parents never me treated special. I turned out fine.
American Boomer Lady here! When I was a kid, I got my hands slapped, not very often I would get the spanking from Dad. It never hurt me. My parents were in charge and that made me secure. Kids should not be in charge - that is what parents are for.
What I find astounding is that so many parents will smack children, yell at children, put them in the naughty corner whatever they want to do but never actually tell them exactly what they did wrong and what they should have been doing . It's crazy. When you show children violence they will answer with violence, if you don't give them enough to do or they're over tired they will get naughty as well it's definitely a balancing act.
Yes you should be able to discipline your children through smacking and in Britain it's perfectly legal to discipline your children so long as you're not beating them to a pulp, and It's for disciplinary reasons, and you're not just taking your anger out on your children. There is a massive difference between discipline and child abuse. Some children won't listen to strong words and totally disrespect their parents, sometimes it's needed.
If you are causing any pain then no it should not be okay, and most kids that do get disciplined by being hit often become more violent as they learn that is the acceptable reaction, hitting your children works short term, long term it makes everything worse
I was beaten as a child so NEVER ever smacked my children. And stopped my Mum from seeing them for a month when she smacked my daughter for accidentally spilling her coffee. All I had to do was tell them no, and they did because they didn’t like my “growly” voice telling them I wasn’t angry, just disappointed that they hadn’t listened to me. And they’re grown adults now, kind, caring and respectful. I couldn’t be prouder ✌🏻✌🏻✌🏻
LOL you both are to funny but just wait till you get your own kids, all your plans how you gonna do it gonna be upside down! Congrats for you radio show appearance Lil Dixon!
I hate to say, I was a little bit like that yelling dad for a while. Esp. with our eldest son who we didnt know at the time, was (still is) Dyslexic and would do his homework cos he couldn't! My wife and I were so frustrated! We talked to the teacher and she has a dyslexic daughter and sister so she joined the dots for us. He is 21 now and still struggles at times with written instruction, But knowing what I know now, watching that guy, its SO easy to see how telling all the time is so ineffective.
I will say for being a child myself that was flogged I believe it’s effective if approached properly. We weren’t abusively beaten but if we were to cause harm or intentional damage sometimes that level needed to be raised. Further, more we were taught composure under stress and pressure as my father would say after we got a flogging that “if you keep crying you’ll get another” some may look at this as malicious but my father is a loving and supportive man that is always there for us and I appreciate everything he did to raise us.
In my opinion a short sharp slap, baring in mind your own strength, is acceptable. You see similar throughout the animal kingdom. And as humans we've been doing it for hundreds of years without it becoming, or being, 'abuse'. I myself had a couple of smacked cheeks, face & bottom, growing up. When I just wouldn't listen as to the wrong of some things I kept doing.. soon stopped me from doing them; more so than the conversations as to why I shouldn't be doing said wrongs.
Yep got lots of smacks when I was little. I think a lot of younger guys now a days should have too. Smacked my kids around 4 years ago for fighting and haven’t had too do it since
10:16 when Isaac said that thing about the clown. It works. My grandpa when I was a kid put on a Darth Vader mask that had sound effects. Waiting down the hall until I had to use the bathroom at night. Then chased me down the making scary noises. He was trying to pull a park on my mom but I came out of the room first. Broke my foot when I collided with the door frame trying to get into any room and lock the door. I got a milkshake at dinner that night which was a rare treat 👍🏻😁 and I also have a fear of every reckoning with the chaotic forces know as my grandpa.
I believe if all else fails and you HAVE tried everything you and other people have suggested and you r child is still a terror, it IS ok to smack them on the bum. there is a huge difference between child abuse and smacking.
I appreciate it every hiding I ever received. They taught me right from wrong if I would not listen the older I got the more I saw the hiding hurt my parents more than me
I think the best advice for children is teach don't smack. Anger should never stop a parent from teaching a kid what they've done wrong. Teach right and wrong from when they're a baby, set clear boundaries and you're sorted.
You contradicted yourself. Well done. it's only subtle, but it's there. The key ingredient you missed was the middle ground. It's possible to not smack in anger. Consider an example. Kid is just about to touch a hot stove, and there's water boiling. You decide to say, "Stop." The kid learns the hard way with a scar that will last his whole life. Yay for you not being violent. Another example unrelated to parenting. Who do you think would win between a samurai and a barbarian berserker? (Hint: the samurai isn't angry)
10:38 When you roll a 1 on a dex save. Also love the videos you make, I legitimately think this is some of the best reaction content I've seen on TH-cam, keep it up!
All these parenting shows are absolutely wrong in parenting. (I typed a massive story but deleted it cause no ones gonna read it.) Theres a great deal to parenting, but the crux is to teach your kid to not be an arsehole before they are 5
I think that there are some kids (they’re developing their personality too) that do need a good deal to parenting as well, that Depending on the age need a stronger firm hand than others
Just want to say. I was whipped as a child and as a result of such actions I now suffer from a rare thing called "respect for my elders and others" There's a different between beating your child and disciplining your child.
And my husband and I routinely remind each other of this,before it happens again. Completely agree with you. Not enough of us corporal parents like to admit it’s a thing bc of the stigma it may bring, I’m always wary and keep my liners drawn where they need to be
@@Lo.0se Ikr, i don't know if i was a good child growing up, but i at least know i was respectful. I was taught to hold open doors for strangers and to behave normally in public
@@DevAndVic2022 that's it!, my parents were neglective , abusive, alcoholic, drug addicts who distilled fear as a way of getting they're kids to behave. by the time i was 15 i was a violent, alcoholic, drug addict. a carbon copy as it were. it took me 10 plus years of not being around them to get my head right, even then i still struggle. now with my own children in they're teens they are very respectful, courteous and caring . all i did was talk to them as a person not a child, occasionally i would lose my patience and raise my voice. but later i would apologies for losing my temper. put simply i treated them the way i would want to be treated.
My stepbrother and I were both 4 years old when our parents married. And he was already an evil, lunatic without a conscience. One night I caught him standing over my bed with a knife. I grabbed the knife, beat him, and never saw him again. He went to a boy's home, got out and then went to jail. I hear he is out now, decades later, but no amount of parental effort would have ever made a difference. Some kids are just born, bad to the bone, and you are lucky to survive living with them.
My dad is not abusive in any way whatsoever, just want to make that clear here. But I have to admit I am a bit afraid of him as well. Just because he is loud and does yell. But it's not ever in anger like this guy. My Dad simply works as a prison guard so he kind of has to be loud and yell-y. He is soft hearted and is really nice to me, just when he does yell I do flinch and get a little scared, because it is quite intimidating.
My dad also worked as a cop as well and later in our general regional jail. Sometimes , I think it’shard for them to disseminate afterwards dealings with inmates all day. I get you ❤️
I used to tell my kids when they were 3/5 there going to there new mummy and show them Mrs trunchbabul from Matilda when they went listening 😅 they soon listened
My grandma used to tell us there were big crocodiles in the swamp and water holes on our farm that would eat us, in Victoria, kept us out of the swamp that was/is like quicksand in places
Parenting was the hardest thing I have ever done. I tried all sorts, did all the courses & none of it worked. She turned out alright in the end but OMG never again. 1 was enough.
Some very common parenting mistakes on display. Constantly getting into power battles with the kids. Inconsistent enforcement of the rules. Physical violence just teaches more violence and that violence is an acceptable method of solving problems. It models the behaviour. Every time his kids are trying to get attention he yells at them. Children need attention. Yelling only escalates it. Not saying I haven't yelled at my son before but it has never helped the situation.
@@THEfollowerThatWatches Butt, hands and face depending on the offense. The upside is... I don't have to deal with any of the shit you see on TV and my kids are succesfull. Hum... go figure.
@@THEfollowerThatWatches Not really. I'm 6ft 2 270lbs if I hadn't learned to control my emotions and reactions I would have been in jail a long time ago. If I ever struck any of my children in anger... they would die . It's not about anger, control or supremacy, its about instruction. If they don't understand there are rules and rules must be lived by, why arn't they going to drink and drive? If they grow up with no physical consequences for their actions, society is doomed.... All our kids are going to prison. My2Cents
What is amusing about lil Dixon being nervous about the radio is there's a good possibility that this video will get more views than that radio show got listens
As a young child I was given a spanking if I did something wrong. My older sister also hit me in the head with half a wooden spoon from across the room. That was not her fault, she went to hit my brother in the head with the spoon, and he had just broken his arm a few days before so he had a plaster cast on, he raised his arm to block the hit, the spoon broke, and half flew across the room to hit me.
Only had to bum smack my 2 kids twice when they were about 3 years old - I've had 11 years of milage out of that so far, and have very well adjusted kids. A workmate's wife refuses to smack their kids, and the kids are complete horror stories ...
Everyone I know who genuinely never smacks their children has extremely disobedient children. One of my wifes friends said that she never smacks her children ever but she had a pretty well behaved kid which I thought was an anomaly. Well one evening we were around at her house for dinner and her kid was acting up really bad for some reason and she walked over and smacked him and sent him to his room for 10 minutes. I said "I thought you never smack your kids", she replied "well... sometimes if he is really bad I do" lol...
I was beaten as a child. It worked in correcting my shitty behavior. Friends of mine with single moms and no one to hit them ended up much worse as adults and a lot of them went to prison and some have died. My friends that weren't hit really had insane behavior as teens and 20s.
Growing up my dad never spanked me but my parents had effective discipline. They would remove privileges and give us extra chores, and if that didn't work we went into full covid lockdown mode and could only leave our rooms to go to school. On top of that they were cohesive in their discipline. So if dad gave us a punishment we couldn't just go to mom and expect to get her to budge on the rules. Also were were given everything we ever needed and then some, but we were NEVER given everything we wanted. We were never bought any game consoles or anything like that BUT my dad was more than happy to buy us things like bikes or sports equipment so that we spent our time exercising instead of sitting on our asses. They also restricted what we could watch on t.v and had supervision on the internet. As much as I thought that they were being ass holes to us I can 1000000% say that I appreciate it now as it turned me into a better adult. R.I.P Dad we miss you everyday 💔💔
that's how i raise my children and it works, no need to hit them, i got closed fists as discipline from a 110kg rugby forward, it didn't work it just made me violent and I still turned out to be a drop kick lol, now i resent my parents to the point of only wanting to see them when i show up to they're funeral to pi$$ on they're grave.
Kid runs towards the ever-increasing danger of the road. The music becomes intense. Clare ( or Claire ) depending on how you spell it, lol! ) : Good, he lived a good life!, LMAO! That was funny!, lol! You guys are such great fun to watch, thank you for the laughs! Those knees though, were scary ( Joking ), LMAO ;) Have a fantastic day guys, stay safe!
The way I was raised kids today wouldn't last five seconds. u back talked or misbehaved you got the belt and I'm thankful my family stayed old school and that's just how I will disaplin any kids should I choose to have any it's always best to set them proper before the world corrupts them beyond saving.
If I pulled the stuff that this kid is pulling od would of woke in the hospital 2 weeks later with dad saying did you learn your lesson good now grab your crutch
The parents need to actually PARENT, all they've done is reinforced terrible behaviors, because they've allowed the children to dictate and control the situation. Buck up be an adult. Also lil Dickie congratulations on your first radio show!!
When I was about 4 I guess, I used to bite my mum all the time, one day she bit me back not too hard to cause me actual pain, I never bit her ever again after that.
There is a difference between discipline and making your child look like they survived 12 rounds with Muhammad Ali. Remember that. Cursing at my parents? Are you kidding me? My mom would've slapped the taste out of my mouth if I even dared to do that.
I was born in the 80's and been slapped and belted and yelled at and all the rest and all ill say im fine and have respect when needed, ive never been in jail nor have I stole cars or broken in to houses but I have stolen things from shops in my teens along with a bit of graffiti and thats it. The lack of discipline today is wat has caused kids to be self righteous selfish c**ts with no respect and assume the world owes them everything. Well the world we live in has limits and boundaries and if u dont learn that well let's say when their adults their new parents are the government and police and their new "time out" place is called jail and huge fines to pay. 🤣😂
every generation had these "self righteous C**ts" just because it wasn't you doesn't mean they didn't exist. it wasn't due to lack of beatings, it is from the lack of parenting in general. how's a kids supposed to learn any thing if they're parents are never around to teach them? i coped beatings in every way possible and still turned out a drop kick, but it totally works right? lol i have respect granted, but i just want to snap a C**ts neck if i don't receive it in return.
@@lukeday5474 yeah influences can definitely play a part thats for sure, dont get me wrong i knew lots of people that did crazy shit but the only thing that stopped me was knowing if I brought cops home I would of got a mad slapping by my mum along with her telling my dad once he got home and I would of copped it even worse.
@@caveman5831 yeah I'd never cop it for getting charged by police which happened to me 3x as a teenager. physically anyway. it was more for coming home at 4 in the morning or if they found my drugs or if I told my dad or mum "fuck you" "fuck off " or called him anything offensive .
@@caveman5831 i remember I got thrown around my room the first time I got suspended haha I thought it was such abuse at the time but I look back at it and laugh
It's child endangering to not "whip that ass" in the event of disobedience near a roadway or cutlery/keys and electrical outlet. The object is not to hurt the little idiot but to show them certain actions have immediate negative consequences. In life there's no time outs or negotiating you just get shot in the face.
Compare children of today to how much discipline our grandparents received, not only were they disciplined at home but at school also . Children of their day were so much more well behaved and respectful to the point when they would even volunteer to go to war before they turned 18 . Can you imagine kids of today being asked to fight for their country , they would complain that there’s no were to plug in their iPhone/tablet !! 😂😂😂
I got a smack here and there (till I grew to be bigger than my family but at that point respect was learnt and I didn't screw around and accepted when I did wrong. All parents should be able to give their kids a clip here and there if needed.
The reason this past generation behaves like they do…is because they didn’t get a smack! Makes me nauseous to hear parents ask their kids to “please” NOT do this or that. It’s ridiculous! Yes I do have children- ages 21,17, and 14. Ultimate punishment was in the corner, facing the wall, on their knees, hands behind their backs- 1 minute for each year old they were. Talk about torture! Rarely ever were they spanked, and never were they slapped across the face or given the belt as I was. Much less NEVER were they beat as my husband was by his stepfather as a child. Parents are too lax these days and just look at society! It’s a shit show!
My oldest ran ONCE like that I then got a harness with leash no more problem. As for smacks all my kids got a whack on the bum from there Dad when real naughty but not from me as they grew up they all had more respect for him. No real beltings but a hard whack on the table with a wooden spoon or ruler made a loud noise put the fear of god in them.
@@TitanSummers that is a good way to view things, even as a parent you can learn and even from your children, I see that you recognize this and I respect that
@@TitanSummers that is a good way to view things, even as a parent you can learn and even from your children, I see that you recognize this and I respect that
Both my kids were so totally different that they had to be disciplined totally different. A stern talking to worked perfectly well for my son...my daughter not so much... Lol
My sister's kids act this way and it's simply because that's what they see as an example. When adults throw things, curse eachother out and scream at eachother, how do you think the young kids are going to act. And they just had a 5th one. Cause raising one is hard, why not have 4 more to make things easier, right?
My brother and I were pretty well behaved kids, I was quite scared of my parents and I was still asking for permission for stuff at 18, I know, bloody sad 😅 But our little sister, the youngest, got away with everything and she was sometimes a nightmare. We knicknamed her the "dynamite" as she would explode if you confront her or tell her off. You could not send her to her room or anything! I think our parents were way too soft with her. She would hit and pinch mom and dad all the time. She still does as a teenage. She is so bloody rude as well and acts quite spoilt. Jesus, last Christmas was interesting, I can tell you that much.
Did you know they did that in the Vietnam war they like had speakers and stuf with funeral music i think and had Vietnamese villagers they knew talk into the mic and say stuff that ghosts would say according to their religion in order to scare the enemy but it only worked for like a few weeks then the enemy caught on it was called operation wandering souls
The punishment has to be immediate and shocking, but done with no anger or aggression! So what that dad did was absolutely perfect, a slap on the back on the hand won’t hurt them but will shock them..if you don’t smack children then you WILL end up with boggens! Read Dr Spock and you will understand!
You shouldn't smack or in any way hit your children. You're their parent, someone who they should trust, not someone they should be afraid of. You can punish the child if they misbehave, like a time out and after that ask them if they understand why they were punished and if they feel sorry, so ask them to appologize and that's it. But yelling and hitting is not okay.
@@norma8686 Who the fuck are you to tell "bloo choo" how to raise his/her own kids? You don't know them. You don't know what works for them and what doesn't. Parenting is hard enough with nanny government intervention. I'm certain this person (or anyone) doesn't need you as the self-anointed, domestic moral mediator, perched on the moral high ground, telling them what they can do and what they can't. Best keep your own house in order and let others worry about their own kids.
@@norma8686 It depends on the situation. It shouldn't be your go-to discipline, but for for something like running into the road... sitting in timeout and thinking about your actions is not going to impart the appropriate level of seriousness. If they get the same punishment for that as when they don't pick up their toys, it doesn't register how important it is that they NEVER do that again.
Smacking is not to hurt or show anger, I agree that hurting children or beating them is out of order, but YOU are their parent which means that you are in charge and need to show dominance! If a child can see that they can break you, they have won! I have children and went by the old saying “smack them till they are 2 and you will never need to ever again”…and it is damn true! It hurt me to smack my child more than it hurt them, it was a 2 finger slap on the back of the hand to show that if they misbehave they will be punished! Spare the rod, spoil the child is a saying for a reason! thousand’s of years of child rearing have shown us that, it’s only the last few decades that people have become soft and broken and cannot even cope with raising children, it’s shocking and appalling that adults don’t even know how to behave, and the root of that is because they themselves were not raised correctly, end of!
We told ours they had an older sister once, but she got too naughty so we had to get rid of her. They then predictably asked where she was, in the septic tank we would say pointing to it. LOL they only believed us for about a week. Until they caught on :)
in my primery school in WA. we had the kain .I got put in pricebel s office. I Sean the kain.one. but. not hit with it. mum tryed the wooden spoon on me till I put my feet up. snap the wooden spoon trick. kids lol.
If I'd behaved like that as a child, I'd not be alive today.
I was born with a disability and I still got smacked if I was naughty. I never really rebelled because I was always in and out of hospital as a kid with leg operations. My parents never treated special. I turned out fine.
I feel it's a chicken and egg situation, some children are easier than others there's no denying that, but both extremes on either end of the spectrum tend to go hand in hand with terrible/amazing parents. But I'm strongly biased.
My father was *always* in control even when he wasn't present. He had a knack for letting us know what would be the 'road of least resistance' and could then trust us to follow it. So we could freely roam the farm as long as we remember without getting hurt. As well as directing our energy, if we were restless he'd let us help him with some safe mindless task and turn it into a game. If we didn't have energy he'd not ask us to do things against our will. It kept a balance of chores always being done but never feeling like, well.. a chore. I also don't remember him needing to 'punish' me even once, be it time-out or a slap on the wrist. Nor do I have a single bad memory of him and he was the 'main' parent. Wish he coulda passed those skills onto me but he died young.
It sadly clashed hard with my stepdad who seemed to punish me for the sake of punishing me. (From beatings because I couldn't lift the bags of horsefood, 10kg+, I was 10 and disabled, to doing German homework instead of English when I had a test for German and wasn't behind on anything. Or that time I 'build a massive bonfire' 2 weeks out of surgery, unable to walk and barely able to hop to the toilet on crutches, couldn't have been my brother on who's friends' facebooks he saw the pictures.) And forcing me through my chronic pain non-stop which... feels like a punishment.
And low and behold, his own kids were absolute demon spawns who feel incredibly misunderstood (which they were.) And grandparents, aunts and uncles didn't want to have over. So they were always at his mercy never learning better. My time at grandma and my aunt always made me revert back to how my dad raised us, or I'd probably ended up just as terrible until adulthood.
Hidings were what worked for our household. My old man said it was tough raising me and my siblings. All he has to do is spend 10 minutes walking through the mall to hear screaming kids kicking tantrums to think his own kids were practically angels.
@@PhantomFilmAustralia even my own mother hated high pitched squealing kids, would not take it from me..swift retribution was at hand if I even thought about it. Sorry, not sorry... but parents who tolerate that have something seriously wrong themselves...
@@esmee6308 dude, so sorry you had to deal with your stepdad.
"I'd throw him off the deck"
2 mins later...
"Smacking your kids is not okay"
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Claire, contrary to your belief. The way 20-35 year olds are acting these days proves parents didnt beat their kids enough
Yeah people who were disciplined as kids tend to be and act more responsible and mature than those who weren't.
100% agreed.
Exactly this is why u got woke tick tock trans rights znd shit like that
@@davidkay1948 are you saying trans people dont deserve rights
there are other ways to teach your cauldron who to act. from an abuse survivor, this is disgusting
I love how the cameraman filmed the kid spilling the water, but didnt bother to warn her when she was carrying her kid, just letting her slam her spine into the doorframe
Yeah that's reality TV for ya, not the worst thing to happen (cough cough kid nation)
All these parents are lazy, smacking a child is lazy, they have no rules, no proper discipline, no routine and poor communication. These parents just have no clue.
“Don’t Smack your kids?” “Smack someone else’s kid” best duo quote for parenting
When my sisters and I wouldn't pick up our toys our dad put them in a trash bag and we had to watch as he threw them in the trash can outside. Then in the middle of the night he went and got them out of the trash can and hid them in the crawlspace for about a month. They eventually told us they hadn't thrown them out and gave them back to us, but it was made very clear that future instances of that would not end with us getting them back. They had no problem with us picking up our toys from that point on.
All my kids got a smack once. After that all that was required was the 'Stare'. Worked a charm.
Child abuse is child abuse
@@carolinpurayidom4570 and you being parentless is sad life
@@carolinpurayidom4570 its not abuse.
@@carolinpurayidom4570 a quick smack is not child abuse.
I think its important for kids to be discipline. Soo many of my friends were spoilt brats who fought back with their parents from the ages of kids to teens and now they are full on regretfull of how they acted and treated their parents as kids whereas me . I was born into a indigenous family where we'd get our asses whooped which I am glad I got because I would have been a depressed ungrateful ass kid like these ones
My friends daughter threw a swing at me once. Once. That smack across her ass helped her to make different decisions.
Imagine if Dobbys' eyes slowly shifted towards Isaacs' direction while he had his 'molest your children' rant 😂😂
bruh I came down to comment that I felt like I saw dobby's eyes move
*loads animating software with dobby animating intent*
Have you seen the no smack generation of children?
my kids don't get smacked, my step mother who relentlessly beat her children (that turned out sub par) said they are the best behaved and well mannered children she has seen.
@@Lo.0se And probably some of the most traumatized and likely in need of therapy.
Sure, making your kids do what you want by force makes them behave, out of fear, but at what cost?
@@LethalByChoice yeah, they are all on anti depressants.
@@LethalByChoice like I understand about what you mean by that last sentence but you also got to think if your kid is misbehaved and acting like a brat a simple spanking or belt would be best cause not only are the children et some sense smacked I to them but you are also teaching them to not be fuck ups but if you are beating children just for simple shit like a broken vase or some shit then that won't be ok and this is coming from someone who has come from a aggresive household where we would get punished for bein absolute shitheads
@@LethalByChoice Jeremy was saying that his stepmother (who smaked her own kids) said his own NON smaked kids are the most well behaved kids she's ever seen
I think Claire is in for one massive shock when she has kids if she’s judging this bloke for yelling at his kids…
amen!
yelling is not the only way get it right from the start and you dont have to yell but every situation is different i spose
I have 2 boys, 1 responds to smacking by behaving themselves for a week or two (or at least being able to be controlled with a stern voice for a week or two), the other one just became fearful of me for a couple of days and would avoid me. One still receives the occasional smack as he seems to need hard borders (probably down to every couple of months now, he's 6 years old) the other doesn't (he gets sent to a boring room with no toys instead, usually the laundry or bathroom). Know your children.
My first child required very minimum spankings (she was a girl) and only had to be threatened after that for most part had to be reminded of repercussions…meanwhile my son who was born 8 years separated requires s corporal punishment. Depends on the child for sure too.
One time i threatened to call the police on my Mum for getting a smack , she dead ass called them for me and gave me the phone 😂😂 But yeah , a smack is fuck all compared to the old 'You want the boots , the jug chord or the broomstick?'.
Man I get the wooden spoon and the belt never, a smack on the ass
I was born with a disability and I still got smacked if I was naughty. I never really rebelled because I was always in and out of hospital as a kid with leg operations. My parents never me treated special. I turned out fine.
American Boomer Lady here! When I was a kid, I got my hands slapped, not very often I would get the spanking from Dad. It never hurt me. My parents were in charge and that made me secure. Kids should not be in charge - that is what parents are for.
What I find astounding is that so many parents will smack children, yell at children, put them in the naughty corner whatever they want to do but never actually tell them exactly what they did wrong and what they should have been doing . It's crazy. When you show children violence they will answer with violence, if you don't give them enough to do or they're over tired they will get naughty as well it's definitely a balancing act.
Yes you should be able to discipline your children through smacking and in Britain it's perfectly legal to discipline your children so long as you're not beating them to a pulp, and It's for disciplinary reasons, and you're not just taking your anger out on your children. There is a massive difference between discipline and child abuse. Some children won't listen to strong words and totally disrespect their parents, sometimes it's needed.
If you are causing any pain then no it should not be okay, and most kids that do get disciplined by being hit often become more violent as they learn that is the acceptable reaction, hitting your children works short term, long term it makes everything worse
@@swaz986 so you don’t have kids? Why don’t you parent your way and leave others to do there way.
Everyone says they won’t smack their kids…… until they have a kid that needs a solid backhand.
I was beaten as a child so NEVER ever smacked my children. And stopped my Mum from seeing them for a month when she smacked my daughter for accidentally spilling her coffee. All I had to do was tell them no, and they did because they didn’t like my “growly” voice telling them I wasn’t angry, just disappointed that they hadn’t listened to me. And they’re grown adults now, kind, caring and respectful. I couldn’t be prouder ✌🏻✌🏻✌🏻
Thats horrible I would sue if I were you
@@carolinpurayidom4570 I live in Australia 🇦🇺
Good on ya for breaking the cycle of violence. The abused become the abuser, more often than not.
Wow imagine smacking someone else's child the absolute audacity!
LOL you both are to funny but just wait till you get your own kids, all your plans how you gonna do it gonna be upside down! Congrats for you radio show appearance Lil Dixon!
Call CPS on those parents immediately.
I hate to say, I was a little bit like that yelling dad for a while. Esp. with our eldest son who we didnt know at the time, was (still is) Dyslexic and would do his homework cos he couldn't! My wife and I were so frustrated! We talked to the teacher and she has a dyslexic daughter and sister so she joined the dots for us. He is 21 now and still struggles at times with written instruction, But knowing what I know now, watching that guy, its SO easy to see how telling all the time is so ineffective.
Congrats Lil Dixon on the first radio appearance. Hope we can see and hear more from you! in the future :)
I will say for being a child myself that was flogged I believe it’s effective if approached properly. We weren’t abusively beaten but if we were to cause harm or intentional damage sometimes that level needed to be raised. Further, more we were taught composure under stress and pressure as my father would say after we got a flogging that “if you keep crying you’ll get another” some may look at this as malicious but my father is a loving and supportive man that is always there for us and I appreciate everything he did to raise us.
In my opinion a short sharp slap, baring in mind your own strength, is acceptable. You see similar throughout the animal kingdom. And as humans we've been doing it for hundreds of years without it becoming, or being, 'abuse'.
I myself had a couple of smacked cheeks, face & bottom, growing up. When I just wouldn't listen as to the wrong of some things I kept doing.. soon stopped me from doing them; more so than the conversations as to why I shouldn't be doing said wrongs.
Yep got lots of smacks when I was little. I think a lot of younger guys now a days should have too. Smacked my kids around 4 years ago for fighting and haven’t had too do it since
10:16 when Isaac said that thing about the clown. It works. My grandpa when I was a kid put on a Darth Vader mask that had sound effects. Waiting down the hall until I had to use the bathroom at night. Then chased me down the making scary noises. He was trying to pull a park on my mom but I came out of the room first. Broke my foot when I collided with the door frame trying to get into any room and lock the door. I got a milkshake at dinner that night which was a rare treat 👍🏻😁 and I also have a fear of every reckoning with the chaotic forces know as my grandpa.
Lol, the dad smacked the kid and the kid called him out "You did that for she" pointing at the host. Utter gold, the kid knows!!!!
I believe if all else fails and you HAVE tried everything you and other people have suggested and you r child is still a terror, it IS ok to smack them on the bum. there is a huge difference between child abuse and smacking.
I appreciate it every hiding I ever received. They taught me right from wrong if I would not listen the older I got the more I saw the hiding hurt my parents more than me
I think the best advice for children is teach don't smack. Anger should never stop a parent from teaching a kid what they've done wrong. Teach right and wrong from when they're a baby, set clear boundaries and you're sorted.
First sensible comment I've seen here
You contradicted yourself. Well done. it's only subtle, but it's there. The key ingredient you missed was the middle ground. It's possible to not smack in anger.
Consider an example. Kid is just about to touch a hot stove, and there's water boiling. You decide to say, "Stop." The kid learns the hard way with a scar that will last his whole life. Yay for you not being violent.
Another example unrelated to parenting. Who do you think would win between a samurai and a barbarian berserker? (Hint: the samurai isn't angry)
10:38
When you roll a 1 on a dex save.
Also love the videos you make, I legitimately think this is some of the best reaction content I've seen on TH-cam, keep it up!
omfg MEGA under rated comment hahahah
All these parenting shows are absolutely wrong in parenting.
(I typed a massive story but deleted it cause no ones gonna read it.)
Theres a great deal to parenting, but the crux is to teach your kid to not be an arsehole before they are 5
I think that there are some kids (they’re developing their personality too) that do need a good deal to parenting as well, that
Depending on the age need a stronger firm hand than others
Update on my comment one of my grown kids saw this and rang me to say we did not and do not respect him we were just scared.
Lmao 🤣 here to see kids get yelled at 😂
Lol... I love that they try to make a nanny look like a PHD doctorate, candidate.
Just want to say. I was whipped as a child and as a result of such actions I now suffer from a rare thing called "respect for my elders and others" There's a different between beating your child and disciplining your child.
Exactly
And my husband and I routinely remind each other of this,before it happens again. Completely agree with you. Not enough of us corporal parents like to admit it’s a thing bc of the stigma it may bring, I’m always wary and keep my liners drawn where they need to be
I don't believe in beating children. Just be a good parent and you're going to have good children.
finally some one with a brain, kids emulate what they see. if you are respectful etc to those around you you're children will follow suit.
@@Lo.0se Ikr, i don't know if i was a good child growing up, but i at least know i was respectful. I was taught to hold open doors for strangers and to behave normally in public
@@DevAndVic2022 that's it!, my parents were neglective , abusive, alcoholic, drug addicts who distilled fear as a way of getting they're kids to behave. by the time i was 15 i was a violent, alcoholic, drug addict. a carbon copy as it were. it took me 10 plus years of not being around them to get my head right, even then i still struggle. now with my own children in they're teens they are very respectful, courteous and caring . all i did was talk to them as a person not a child, occasionally i would lose my patience and raise my voice. but later i would apologies for losing my temper. put simply i treated them the way i would want to be treated.
@@Lo.0se I'm sorry you had to deal with that, but yes treat people how they wish to be treated and you have an okay time.
don't smack em, just emotionally damage them XD and as for that kid running to the road let natural selection take over :P
My stepbrother and I were both 4 years old when our parents married. And he was already an evil, lunatic without a conscience. One night I caught him standing over my bed with a knife. I grabbed the knife, beat him, and never saw him again. He went to a boy's home, got out and then went to jail. I hear he is out now, decades later, but no amount of parental effort would have ever made a difference. Some kids are just born, bad to the bone, and you are lucky to survive living with them.
Yes. Yes you should. If they can't behave or respect and you've tried everything... It's the only thing that works
My dad is not abusive in any way whatsoever, just want to make that clear here. But I have to admit I am a bit afraid of him as well. Just because he is loud and does yell. But it's not ever in anger like this guy. My Dad simply works as a prison guard so he kind of has to be loud and yell-y. He is soft hearted and is really nice to me, just when he does yell I do flinch and get a little scared, because it is quite intimidating.
My dad also worked as a cop as well and later in our general regional jail. Sometimes , I think it’shard for them to disseminate afterwards dealings with inmates all day. I get you ❤️
I used to tell my kids when they were 3/5 there going to there new mummy and show them Mrs trunchbabul from Matilda when they went listening 😅 they soon listened
”Thats me When We have to socialise” can relate… soo much.
I love how that last lady got hit for 6 when she slipped, too funny
My grandma used to tell us there were big crocodiles in the swamp and water holes on our farm that would eat us, in Victoria, kept us out of the swamp that was/is like quicksand in places
Parenting was the hardest thing I have ever done. I tried all sorts, did all the courses & none of it worked. She turned out alright in the end but OMG never again. 1 was enough.
Some very common parenting mistakes on display. Constantly getting into power battles with the kids. Inconsistent enforcement of the rules. Physical violence just teaches more violence and that violence is an acceptable method of solving problems. It models the behaviour. Every time his kids are trying to get attention he yells at them. Children need attention. Yelling only escalates it. Not saying I haven't yelled at my son before but it has never helped the situation.
I am lucky and God blessed... my kids wouldn't think about acting this way... They know from experience they''de get the sh"$ slapped out of them.
So u slap ur kids :/
@@THEfollowerThatWatches Absolutely.
@@THEfollowerThatWatches Butt, hands and face depending on the offense. The upside is... I don't have to deal with any of the shit you see on TV and my kids are succesfull. Hum... go figure.
@@GradyRisley do you ever go to far, and do you worry about what they may do in the future
@@THEfollowerThatWatches Not really. I'm 6ft 2 270lbs if I hadn't learned to control my emotions and reactions I would have been in jail a long time ago. If I ever struck any of my children in anger... they would die . It's not about anger, control or supremacy, its about instruction. If they don't understand there are rules and rules must be lived by, why arn't they going to drink and drive? If they grow up with no physical consequences for their actions, society is doomed.... All our kids are going to prison. My2Cents
Love you guys please bring back true crime Tuesdays love those clips
I remember this tv show my aggressive parent didn’t help me develop the right way so I highly dislike them way these parents are.
What is amusing about lil Dixon being nervous about the radio is there's a good possibility that this video will get more views than that radio show got listens
As a young child I was given a spanking if I did something wrong. My older sister also hit me in the head with half a wooden spoon from across the room. That was not her fault, she went to hit my brother in the head with the spoon, and he had just broken his arm a few days before so he had a plaster cast on, he raised his arm to block the hit, the spoon broke, and half flew across the room to hit me.
Only had to bum smack my 2 kids twice when they were about 3 years old - I've had 11 years of milage out of that so far, and have very well adjusted kids. A workmate's wife refuses to smack their kids, and the kids are complete horror stories ...
Everyone I know who genuinely never smacks their children has extremely disobedient children. One of my wifes friends said that she never smacks her children ever but she had a pretty well behaved kid which I thought was an anomaly. Well one evening we were around at her house for dinner and her kid was acting up really bad for some reason and she walked over and smacked him and sent him to his room for 10 minutes. I said "I thought you never smack your kids", she replied "well... sometimes if he is really bad I do" lol...
I was beaten as a child. It worked in correcting my shitty behavior. Friends of mine with single moms and no one to hit them ended up much worse as adults and a lot of them went to prison and some have died. My friends that weren't hit really had insane behavior as teens and 20s.
Growing up my dad never spanked me but my parents had effective discipline. They would remove privileges and give us extra chores, and if that didn't work we went into full covid lockdown mode and could only leave our rooms to go to school. On top of that they were cohesive in their discipline. So if dad gave us a punishment we couldn't just go to mom and expect to get her to budge on the rules. Also were were given everything we ever needed and then some, but we were NEVER given everything we wanted. We were never bought any game consoles or anything like that BUT my dad was more than happy to buy us things like bikes or sports equipment so that we spent our time exercising instead of sitting on our asses. They also restricted what we could watch on t.v and had supervision on the internet. As much as I thought that they were being ass holes to us I can 1000000% say that I appreciate it now as it turned me into a better adult. R.I.P Dad we miss you everyday 💔💔
that's how i raise my children and it works, no need to hit them, i got closed fists as discipline from a 110kg rugby forward, it didn't work it just made me violent and I still turned out to be a drop kick lol, now i resent my parents to the point of only wanting to see them when i show up to they're funeral to pi$$ on they're grave.
Kid runs towards the ever-increasing danger of the road.
The music becomes intense.
Clare ( or Claire ) depending on how you spell it, lol! ) : Good, he lived a good life!, LMAO!
That was funny!, lol!
You guys are such great fun to watch, thank you for the laughs!
Those knees though, were scary ( Joking ), LMAO ;)
Have a fantastic day guys, stay safe!
The way I was raised kids today wouldn't last five seconds.
u back talked or misbehaved you got the belt and I'm thankful my family stayed old school and that's just how I will disaplin any kids should I choose to have any it's always best to set them proper before the world corrupts them beyond saving.
If I pulled the stuff that this kid is pulling od would of woke in the hospital 2 weeks later with dad saying did you learn your lesson good now grab your crutch
this is what not following through with punishment for years
Dobby fearing for his life back there
The parents need to actually PARENT, all they've done is reinforced terrible behaviors, because they've allowed the children to dictate and control the situation. Buck up be an adult. Also lil Dickie congratulations on your first radio show!!
When I was about 4 I guess, I used to bite my mum all the time, one day she bit me back not too hard to cause me actual pain, I never bit her ever again after that.
I used to be the no nonsense babysitter that a kid would never cross and then I had children of my own…. 😂😂😂😂
Lol Little Dixon watching Radio shows. Hahaha brilliant.
@9:27 first thing that comes to my head is, Mortal Kombat 😂.
There is a difference between discipline and making your child look like they survived 12 rounds with Muhammad Ali. Remember that.
Cursing at my parents? Are you kidding me? My mom would've slapped the taste out of my mouth if I even dared to do that.
I got my mouth washed with soap way too many times as a kid for cursing at my siblings
@@themissakura599 That's not ok.
@@martinrusev3502 nah, my mother wasn't a monster. She used soap once and then went with dental rinse, it felt as terrible though.
That kid was five steps away from meeting mr. Truck-kun and being sent to another world
10:36 THAT was the breaking point? It's water, not Coke or cordial
I was born in the 80's and been slapped and belted and yelled at and all the rest and all ill say im fine and have respect when needed, ive never been in jail nor have I stole cars or broken in to houses but I have stolen things from shops in my teens along with a bit of graffiti and thats it. The lack of discipline today is wat has caused kids to be self righteous selfish c**ts with no respect and assume the world owes them everything. Well the world we live in has limits and boundaries and if u dont learn that well let's say when their adults their new parents are the government and police and their new "time out" place is called jail and huge fines to pay. 🤣😂
I was born in the 90s and I got what you had. I broke Into houses though . Influences are probably another thing
every generation had these "self righteous C**ts" just because it wasn't you doesn't mean they didn't exist. it wasn't due to lack of beatings, it is from the lack of parenting in general. how's a kids supposed to learn any thing if they're parents are never around to teach them? i coped beatings in every way possible and still turned out a drop kick, but it totally works right? lol i have respect granted, but i just want to snap a C**ts neck if i don't receive it in return.
@@lukeday5474 yeah influences can definitely play a part thats for sure, dont get me wrong i knew lots of people that did crazy shit but the only thing that stopped me was knowing if I brought cops home I would of got a mad slapping by my mum along with her telling my dad once he got home and I would of copped it even worse.
@@caveman5831 yeah I'd never cop it for getting charged by police which happened to me 3x as a teenager. physically anyway. it was more for coming home at 4 in the morning or if they found my drugs or if I told my dad or mum "fuck you" "fuck off " or called him anything offensive .
@@caveman5831 i remember I got thrown around my room the first time I got suspended haha I thought it was such abuse at the time but I look back at it and laugh
It's child endangering to not "whip that ass" in the event of disobedience near a roadway or cutlery/keys and electrical outlet.
The object is not to hurt the little idiot but to show them certain actions have immediate negative consequences. In life there's no time outs or negotiating you just get shot in the face.
Super nanny done well not to beat these senseless 🤣🤣💪🏻🏴
Compare children of today to how much discipline our grandparents received, not only were they disciplined at home but at school also . Children of their day were so much more well behaved and respectful to the point when they would even volunteer to go to war before they turned 18 . Can you imagine kids of today being asked to fight for their country , they would complain that there’s no were to plug in their iPhone/tablet !! 😂😂😂
"volunteer to go to war before they turned 18" I am European, don't you mean drafted? Had no choice?
@@ChairyCrasher no some actually did volunteer
@@captainnamora4239 Thanks, Was it the majority, or the minority who voluntored?
Cheers for specifying blowing in the ear with my mouth mate was halfway through setting up the air compressor
I got a smack here and there (till I grew to be bigger than my family but at that point respect was learnt and I didn't screw around and accepted when I did wrong. All parents should be able to give their kids a clip here and there if needed.
The reason this past generation behaves like they do…is because they didn’t get a smack! Makes me nauseous to hear parents ask their kids to “please” NOT do this or that. It’s ridiculous! Yes I do have children- ages 21,17, and 14. Ultimate punishment was in the corner, facing the wall, on their knees, hands behind their backs- 1 minute for each year old they were. Talk about torture! Rarely ever were they spanked, and never were they slapped across the face or given the belt as I was. Much less NEVER were they beat as my husband was by his stepfather as a child. Parents are too lax these days and just look at society! It’s a shit show!
Dobby ready to move out 😂😂
My oldest ran ONCE like that I then got a harness with leash no more problem. As for smacks all my kids got a whack on the bum from there Dad when real naughty but not from me as they grew up they all had more respect for him. No real beltings but a hard whack on the table with a wooden spoon or ruler made a loud noise put the fear of god in them.
If your children have to fear you to do what you want, you're doing something wrong
@@goblinslayer310 I agree if you see my update I am still learning from my kids.
@@TitanSummers that is a good way to view things, even as a parent you can learn and even from your children, I see that you recognize this and I respect that
@@TitanSummers that is a good way to view things, even as a parent you can learn and even from your children, I see that you recognize this and I respect that
@@goblinslayer310 Thankyou
Both my kids were so totally different that they had to be disciplined totally different. A stern talking to worked perfectly well for my son...my daughter not so much... Lol
My sister's kids act this way and it's simply because that's what they see as an example. When adults throw things, curse eachother out and scream at eachother, how do you think the young kids are going to act. And they just had a 5th one. Cause raising one is hard, why not have 4 more to make things easier, right?
If I even thought of acting like this I would have got my ass handed to me. And that's why I'm a civilized and responsible adult today.
I'm literally watching your main channel on the TV right now then this pops up on me bloody phone! You beauty! Cheers you two lovely people 🍻
Nothing wrong with being strict when needed with kids but if your kids are scared of you then somthing is wrong
You two crack me up, I've started enjoying this more than the main channel - sorry
I don't feel well 😓
My brother and I were pretty well behaved kids, I was quite scared of my parents and I was still asking for permission for stuff at 18, I know, bloody sad 😅 But our little sister, the youngest, got away with everything and she was sometimes a nightmare. We knicknamed her the "dynamite" as she would explode if you confront her or tell her off. You could not send her to her room or anything! I think our parents were way too soft with her. She would hit and pinch mom and dad all the time. She still does as a teenage. She is so bloody rude as well and acts quite spoilt. Jesus, last Christmas was interesting, I can tell you that much.
I feel for you ❤️ got two younger sister sins myself and they may as well get away with murder. Or it felt like that in those years.
Did you know they did that in the Vietnam war they like had speakers and stuf with funeral music i think and had Vietnamese villagers they knew talk into the mic and say stuff that ghosts would say according to their religion in order to scare the enemy but it only worked for like a few weeks then the enemy caught on it was called operation wandering souls
My parents used to threaten that if I played up super nanny would come to our house and that was traumatising enough to not play up 😂
The punishment has to be immediate and shocking, but done with no anger or aggression! So what that dad did was absolutely perfect, a slap on the back on the hand won’t hurt them but will shock them..if you don’t smack children then you WILL end up with boggens! Read Dr Spock and you will understand!
Agree i think a hand slap works. No punoishment should be done out of anger.
You shouldn't smack or in any way hit your children. You're their parent, someone who they should trust, not someone they should be afraid of. You can punish the child if they misbehave, like a time out and after that ask them if they understand why they were punished and if they feel sorry, so ask them to appologize and that's it. But yelling and hitting is not okay.
@@norma8686 Who the fuck are you to tell "bloo choo" how to raise his/her own kids? You don't know them. You don't know what works for them and what doesn't. Parenting is hard enough with nanny government intervention. I'm certain this person (or anyone) doesn't need you as the self-anointed, domestic moral mediator, perched on the moral high ground, telling them what they can do and what they can't. Best keep your own house in order and let others worry about their own kids.
@@norma8686 It depends on the situation. It shouldn't be your go-to discipline, but for for something like running into the road... sitting in timeout and thinking about your actions is not going to impart the appropriate level of seriousness. If they get the same punishment for that as when they don't pick up their toys, it doesn't register how important it is that they NEVER do that again.
Smacking is not to hurt or show anger, I agree that hurting children or beating them is out of order, but YOU are their parent which means that you are in charge and need to show dominance! If a child can see that they can break you, they have won! I have children and went by the old saying “smack them till they are 2 and you will never need to ever again”…and it is damn true! It hurt me to smack my child more than it hurt them, it was a 2 finger slap on the back of the hand to show that if they misbehave they will be punished! Spare the rod, spoil the child is a saying for a reason! thousand’s of years of child rearing have shown us that, it’s only the last few decades that people have become soft and broken and cannot even cope with raising children, it’s shocking and appalling that adults don’t even know how to behave, and the root of that is because they themselves were not raised correctly, end of!
Yes, yes, you should. Not enough kids today know what consequences are because their parents didn't raise em right.
that last dad gave me flashbacks of my childhood. 😳🥺😬
I had my butt swatted as a child when I would misbehave.
This makes me more and more not want kids and it’s great I stay away from everything to do with kids
We told ours they had an older sister once, but she got too naughty so we had to get rid of her. They then predictably asked where she was, in the septic tank we would say pointing to it. LOL they only believed us for about a week. Until they caught on :)
I need more of these
Yaw had crying I was laughing so hard!!
U 2 can make almost any video Hilarious.
I threw something at my door and my parents took my door off me and put it the shed
we took the door off my sons room cause he kept slaming it
You won’t smack a child yet, you will let your child run towards a road?
Let the car do it for them
I was smacked and I'm better off for having been
in my primery school in WA. we had the kain .I got put in pricebel s office. I Sean the kain.one. but. not hit with it. mum tryed the wooden spoon on me till I put my feet up. snap the wooden spoon trick. kids lol.