Size 14 + 16 ASOS try on & Body image Chats

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  • I had some serious PMS and went into a depressive sprial which resulted in a huge asos order. here's what i got ... dont judge we've all been there... 😂❤️
    Here is what I got:
    Zebra top: bit.ly/3McQHZp
    Cowboy boots:bit.ly/37E0E30
    Belt: bit.ly/3MbAcwA
    Socks: bit.ly/3Pi6sjB
    White Shirt: bit.ly/3N8SFdj
    Nude vest: bit.ly/3FJ6zAI
    Black tee: bit.ly/3lbEDvv
    Tiger Flares: bit.ly/3PhYNln
    Denim Skirt: bit.ly/3L2W6Ry
    Long denim skirt: bit.ly/37I4kRw
    Crochet dress: bit.ly/37FbRAz
    Yellow Dress: bit.ly/37Ixxf6
    Tassle Dress: bit.ly/3w6OsBd
    Tassle Jacket: bit.ly/3FvwYBV
    Sunglasses: bit.ly/39dF9GM
    Denim Dress: bit.ly/3vVZCsw
    Red stripey fun top: bit.ly/3NbqScl
    White crochet top: bit.ly/37E5xJq
    Blazer: bit.ly/3L8hiWq
    You Can Also Find Me:
    Twitter: @helenanderz
    Instagram: @helenanderz
    Buisness Email: info@theanderzapproach.com
    PO Box 3767
    NORWICH
    NR7 7HU
    Sometimes I use affiliate links, which mean I get a small commission when you purchase something through that link. It just helps me out a lot and means I can continue to do this full time.

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  • @TheBeautifuliris
    @TheBeautifuliris 2 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    When you said Clothes are meant to fit your body and not the other way around, I felt that. I’ve been struggling with my weight since the beginning of covid ( I gained 10kg) and I was still wearing my size 10-12 jeans. I finally bought size 14 jeans and omg I’m feeling so much better in my body and clothes. Keep on doing these ✨

    • @helenanderz
      @helenanderz  2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      theres so much shame attached to going up a clothing size. But with anything else its totally fine, clothes, condoms, coffee size. Glad your feeling better! xx

    • @fi5284
      @fi5284 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes I have experienced the same, haven't woren jeans in a good 9 months for I couldn't fit into my size 12 anymore.. just brought a pair of size 16 jeans and feel great again.
      Size 16 jeans are actually more comfortable than the smaller sizes ever were 🤩

  • @kmm305
    @kmm305 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I literally brought and wore black leggings and long tops for years after I had kids, then one day i watched one of your try on hauls and decided to buy an outfit that was out of my comfort zone but what my inner self desperately wanted to wear and since then I’ve been wearing whatever the fuck I want when I want and loving my body that has created, grown, birthed and fed 3 humans. Thank you for being you for all of us 💖

  • @louise5493
    @louise5493 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This video perfectly encapsulates why I fucking ADORE YOU!
    I've went up 2 dress sizes in the last year and am now a 14/16 and it's so refreshing to see someone say it like it is; buy the bigger size and don't feel bad!!! Thank you, now I'm off to make an ASOS order 😂💚

  • @regankelly8283
    @regankelly8283 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I use a wheelchair from time to time and it literally forced me to break my mindset around clothing sizes. I size up maybe twice to get jeans that are comfy enough to move in- fab. I love that people are really pushing the fact that clothes are meant to fit us and we don’t have to fit into them ❤️

  • @musicqueen05
    @musicqueen05 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Love these hauls, especially for ASOS because I never seem to find clothes I like on it by myself. But then I see your videos and love what you pick!

  • @smileyyrachyy
    @smileyyrachyy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I love that you finally said it! I went from a 12 to now sizes 16 fit me and I’ve been feeling so shit about it but not only have a gained a little bit of weight but sizes how gotten smaller. The size 12 jeans from primark that I got 3 years ago are now the same as a 16 today! Helen you are so beautiful and I love these videos so much 🥰 makes my day

    • @sarahw3452
      @sarahw3452 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Omg your comment could have been written by me! Went up to size 16 from 12 at the start of the pandemic. And I agree with you about Primark's sizing 🙈

  • @jessicailoveleo
    @jessicailoveleo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Never clicked a video so fast 👀
    Late night ASOS order...We've all been there

    • @helenanderz
      @helenanderz  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      riiiight 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @jessicailoveleo
      @jessicailoveleo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@helenanderz now I've had time to watch the video... 100% agree with the message of clothes fitting us not the other way round 👏🏻👏🏻 I defo also have a clothing size range, not one size!! Loooove ya x

  • @hannahmaggs5835
    @hannahmaggs5835 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You’re just the best thank you for being a bundle of fun and positivity around clothes ❤

  • @yahyahyahuhuh
    @yahyahyahuhuh 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That white shirt with the waist belt will be *chefs kiss*

  • @CourtneyRoseKing
    @CourtneyRoseKing 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You could literally wear ANYTHING and look amazing!

  • @amylucy2311
    @amylucy2311 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    HELEN you look fuggin FABULOUS! No one has ever made me feel as in love with my body as you do, as we have the same shape and I think you're stunning, so how could I be so different? Your style is amazing and I definitely take inspiration from you when I get clothes!

  • @funkyfatandfrocked
    @funkyfatandfrocked 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve never seen somebody rock a cowboy boot quite like you do 👢 not the polly pocket jeans 😂😂 Whenever I go thrifting I don’t even look at sizes nowadays! I just hold something up and think ah that’ll fit! It’s so damaging to the mental health and confidence when you get sad about clothing companies not being consistent! 💗

  • @bbyspookybones445
    @bbyspookybones445 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Helen, babes, I love you, your style, all your content! ✨️💓 and ofc you rock the fringe !
    I honestly needed to hear what you mentioned about clothing sizes, I've been worrying about it lately, but you've def made me feel confident and more care free about the stupid number/letter sizes.
    Choose Comfort Yall!
    I'll always support ya🤘💕 -sending positive vibes from south Texas ! 🤠

  • @mittvarupptaget
    @mittvarupptaget 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I Love to still follow these OG youtubers, makes me feel better about getting older, because they do too! hitting 30 soon, scared for my life!

  • @amyrimmer4455
    @amyrimmer4455 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Late night shopping is clearly the way forward! Loved your picks, you look gorgeous 🔥

  • @coffeewithmeg9486
    @coffeewithmeg9486 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Early club! Love your content Helen 🧡🖤

    • @helenanderz
      @helenanderz  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      awh yay!! thank you ❤❤❤

  • @szeszty
    @szeszty 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    'YOU'RE LOOKIN AT HER' cracked me up 😁😁😁

  • @michaelacrawley6766
    @michaelacrawley6766 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The long denim skirt….. raw gem it and make it cool AF! X

  • @georgialee5032
    @georgialee5032 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That denim dress is going straight in my basket! Love your eye make up Helen 😍

  • @louisemc806
    @louisemc806 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Helennn! I am beyond buzzing you are bringing back the hauls! They are my fave vids to watch of yours! Please do more 🙏 and please do primark ones I loved your primark ones xx

  • @dillonhex
    @dillonhex 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your style ! Your asos hauls are always great inspo for me 😍

  • @gabyg4818
    @gabyg4818 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are refreshing to watch and hear... Luuuuv your style

  • @1989Bgirl
    @1989Bgirl 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Girl I'll admit it's been a minute since I've seen one of your videos ! You look gorgeous! You look so put together and you look like you'd be the center of attention in any room!!!!!

  • @brideycoffey7697
    @brideycoffey7697 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    No the crochet dress is out of stock I love it and am gutted!! Instead stunning by the way x

  • @scarletth427
    @scarletth427 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love your style so much, it‘s always so inspiring and gives so many amazing ideas on new outfits! And amen to the words about it being more important to be comfortable! The number doesn’t matter. 🧡 thank you for sharing and inspiring! ☺️✨ ps, the tattoos of your dogs are at the perfect height for those cowboy boots! (12:07) 😍

  • @robyn2592
    @robyn2592 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the length of that denim skirt!!!

  • @kelleyxoxofoley3376
    @kelleyxoxofoley3376 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    YES Helen totally agree ..all the stores have versions is sizes anyway and can be so damaging to young peoples mindsets especially in this day and age with social media breath of fresh air ❤️

  • @unstablegingy6755
    @unstablegingy6755 ปีที่แล้ว

    It was so much fun watching you - thanks a lot!

  • @natashaafford3174
    @natashaafford3174 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The yellow dress instantly made me think of Pepper from Encanto! Love you Helen you style icon x

  • @bearybearbear9799
    @bearybearbear9799 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That tassel dress was MADE FOR YOU!!!!!
    Also, i don't know if this will make sense but you have like the perfect shoulders for off the shoulder tops and halters, you look stunning in them!

  • @annawoof836
    @annawoof836 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just to say I love the chaotic real vibe of this video 👢👢👢

  • @meq099
    @meq099 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ah i love your attitude trying things on!
    i HATE shopping in stores, so ive ordered alot online for this exact reason! I can react (outloud to myself ofc) and in normal light and my own mirrors, without having just seen someone thats skinner or something.
    Love the stuff youve got too! Im inspired✨

  • @naveenm1193
    @naveenm1193 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    just loved everything need more videos like this 🥰

  • @bethb_the_packer_picker
    @bethb_the_packer_picker 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is my first time watching one of your videos and I am in love! I am a new subscriber! I can't wait to catch up to see what I have missed!

  • @jgaesthetics
    @jgaesthetics 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Everything looks amazing on you! The outfits you pick and style are amazing. These types of style videos are my favorite but I love all your content!

  • @ellenmay3
    @ellenmay3 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    pleaseeeeeeeee do a haul of summer shorts/summer clothes for big thighs!!! i can never find anything that looks good on me and my shape!!! so much love xx

  • @PopisHair
    @PopisHair 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ✨engaging ✨ bc i missed this gal

  • @nataliejjw7615
    @nataliejjw7615 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Haven't watched in ages but loved this video 💛 ps you look as beautiful as ever!

  • @caseyjefferies
    @caseyjefferies 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    "XXL? In what world? Polly Pocket?" I FELT this hahaha. You're so entertaining to watch!

  • @pixieeames9105
    @pixieeames9105 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Had such a shit day and this just cheered me up so much, I love our little chats even though they’re one sided😂 I loved everything! Especially the pink tassel jacket😍 love you💕

  • @meganbrown4912
    @meganbrown4912 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You’re so cool, I just love your vibe! I try on clothes the same way, working out whether I like something or not haha
    The crochet white top you tried on with the suit would look really cute layered over a silky slip dress.

  • @cheroz1
    @cheroz1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I haven’t watched you in years…don’t know why, I just stopped. But I’m so glad I found you again. I love your energy, your positivity, everything. You are wonderful! ❤️

  • @hollysimmons16
    @hollysimmons16 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    the denim dress with the cowboy boots is AMAZING !!!!!!!!!

  • @elcraig2338
    @elcraig2338 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I was in Norwich the other weekend for a wedding and saw Mr Shoes!! Instantly made me think of you and when you worked there and we were all obsessed with Tumblr-esque studded heeled boots!

  • @michaelacrawley6766
    @michaelacrawley6766 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yaaas that sleeveless shirt 😍😍😍

  • @RipTheBreaks
    @RipTheBreaks 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your vibes and your style! Picked up a few ideas from this video... might have to try some of this stuff out soon!

  • @cobaltbluecava
    @cobaltbluecava 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The crochet dress is so cute on you

  • @philippamason
    @philippamason 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Say it louder for the ones in the back! Clothes should fit you, not the other way around!!! Thank you Helen, I needed to see this today 🖤 xx

  • @MISERYMARY
    @MISERYMARY 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg just found your channel fab video 🤍 and absolutely love ur vibe 💕

  • @stefany8441
    @stefany8441 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fab! Missed your clothing hauls as I always see stuff I want too! 😂 Love the boots, have same problem myself with calves. Also being same clothing size as you its really good to see fits of things. Love the denim dress and pink jacket too,! Your hair also looking bloody amazing beautiful colours and so healthy. Big love to you Helen, thank you! ❤️ xx

  • @hannahrandolph584
    @hannahrandolph584 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your hair and makeup in this video looks so nice! I always find ASOS a little overwhelming just because there are so many options on there. But this has inspired me to take a look on there and see what I can find. Loved your comments on finding clothes to fit you and not you fit into clothes. Love you Helen!!

  • @Jo-jp4og
    @Jo-jp4og 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cracking threads! Now I need a pink suede fringe jacket 💖

  • @tiannahanford606
    @tiannahanford606 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Truly my favorite fashion inspiration. Every time Helen posts an ASOS haul I immediately save all the pieces to my list for my next shopping spree shenanigans 🤪

  • @Cbenson0
    @Cbenson0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are absolutely gorgeous 💕💕💕💕

    • @helenanderz
      @helenanderz  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      oh bless you thank you!!! xx

  • @mallorywinstead7374
    @mallorywinstead7374 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    "Hey...I work here!" That was great. Loved your outfits!

  • @freckkleface1621
    @freckkleface1621 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was the conversation I needed to hear about clothing sizes! I love all the items you’ve shown & my bank balance is going to hate me, but it’s so worth it to feel confident and comfortable in my clothes xx

  • @SleepyHugAsmr
    @SleepyHugAsmr ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved your vibe - def subscribing ❤

  • @Thirdeyeddeer
    @Thirdeyeddeer 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    everything looked amazing on you 🥰 You have been a true fashion inspiration for me since the purple hair time back in the days!

  • @beccariddle2649
    @beccariddle2649 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    “I’m a big fan of wearing shirts.” I nearly spilt my coffee out of me mouth 😂

  • @NikkiLove9022
    @NikkiLove9022 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love how you said you were never taking the boots off, then proceeded to wear them for the remainder of the video. You're amazing! xx

  • @jorgiicamkin5238
    @jorgiicamkin5238 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved this video - it’s been so cool to see your style grow and develop over the years. I also really enjoyed the chats about accepting our bodies more, no need to lie to ourselves or feel shame for a change in size
    Celebrate bodies everywhere! 🎉⚡️
    You rock all these outfits by the way - a whole vibe

  • @samanthahunter1759
    @samanthahunter1759 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just found your channel as we are similar body types and we seem to have similar styles and you are hilarious absolutely love your energy

  • @princesss222
    @princesss222 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your asos hauls are my favorite thing on TH-cam

  • @lilyns99
    @lilyns99 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Helen is like the cool big sis’ I never had. Comfort channel ❤

  • @stephanieshanonn366
    @stephanieshanonn366 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    omg I love the fringe dress it is a FIT!

  • @frida_magdalena
    @frida_magdalena 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love these videos 🥳🥰

  • @lilymay9808
    @lilymay9808 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    you're actually always the person I look to for style inspo

  • @Ava16349
    @Ava16349 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Absolutely love these.. the suit the tassel the everything.
    Your stunning!

  • @ellenb2039
    @ellenb2039 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I LOOOOOOVEEE all of these! That tassel jacket 😫👌🏻 Such a vibe 🤠

  • @trinitythomas3497
    @trinitythomas3497 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Absolutely love her

  • @ameliamcloughlin8222
    @ameliamcloughlin8222 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I order that crochet dress because of you! I am so excited for it to arrive tomorrow!! I describe my summer style as a crochet hippy 😂 so its perfect!

  • @ellie3915
    @ellie3915 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved this vid!!

  • @indieminxiedoo
    @indieminxiedoo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The Polly pocket comment had me howling!! 🤣🤣 That's some terrible sizing right there!!

  • @heidisegelke6281
    @heidisegelke6281 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s a fine American accent ya got thayre in that country song! Nifty channel! I miss being young-rock on…and those trousers ARE fabulous!

  • @brookefenton4107
    @brookefenton4107 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oohhh, some lovely goodies! The fringe dress and crochet baby doll dress are VIBES. And I'm now going to look up those boots and fringe jacket because they rock.

  • @lizzylucky34
    @lizzylucky34 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Everything looked sick! Love the crochet like dress

  • @coolbeanismymiddlename9274
    @coolbeanismymiddlename9274 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Helen, you are my style icon.

  • @michaelacrawley6766
    @michaelacrawley6766 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The trousers after the Polly pocket jeans 😍 I have never seen a more Helen pair of trousers! 🤣😍

  • @inmyroom4057
    @inmyroom4057 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I rarely comment on videos but this one definitely deserved a comment. I recently gained a bit of weight and have been feeling so down about it but watching you made me feel so much better. I looked at myself in the mirror while watching this and was like “yes, you look good today!”

  • @salemgraves1692
    @salemgraves1692 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    holy hell helen!!! these pieces look PHENOMENAL on you!!!! especially the suit, those animal print velour pants, and that black jean dress with the belt. oh, to die for. 😍😍

  • @yvettemariee1505
    @yvettemariee1505 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video made me soo happy! Loving your energy!!!!

  • @sjeyre406
    @sjeyre406 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Would love a vinted/ Depop haul!

  • @ouremporium
    @ouremporium 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Everything is amazing and I'm gonna have to get that jacket. Your hauls always cost me money 😂🙈😂🙈

  • @birdiebellamy317
    @birdiebellamy317 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg the boots! ❤

  • @Nenyaki
    @Nenyaki 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you and your style Helen ❤️ and the whole commentary over the clothes :D love you

  • @abigailindia9619
    @abigailindia9619 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Always LOVE your fashion videos, ordered those sick tiger trousers! xxx

  • @Olijffie
    @Olijffie 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your energy! Pretty much every noise you make and thing you say when trying stuff on is exactly what goes around in my head too when I try stuff on 😂🧡

  • @Venus_Loki13
    @Venus_Loki13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In what world? Polly pocket 🤣 DEAD!

  • @caraboliantz
    @caraboliantz 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve been feeling like that too lately good to know I’m not the only one !

  • @sophieperkins4765
    @sophieperkins4765 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I am in love with the crotchet dress but its sold out in my size! Im so sad :( it looks incredible on you and thank you for always being body positive it helps me so much, I have struggled a lot since I went from always being a size 8/10 to 12/14 so yeah thank you xoxo

  • @Muertenoir
    @Muertenoir 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love everything, but I especially love those tiger pants. I need those in my life.

  • @Samhutchx
    @Samhutchx 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    "In what world? Polly Pocket?" 😂😂😂

  • @lucykeller63
    @lucykeller63 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Enjoyed the video Helen! Have you considered a second hand/charity shop/Vinted haul?

  • @MusicLovesGigi
    @MusicLovesGigi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your hauls are just the best!

  • @mamabearbabyblair4840
    @mamabearbabyblair4840 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Always love a Helen asos haul.

  • @bournie21
    @bournie21 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Helen you brighten my day ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Princessroxie
    @Princessroxie 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the western vibe to this haul 😍😍 I need those cowboy boots going to have a look for them now

  • @niicopop
    @niicopop 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve been struggling to find more summery tops but this gave me inspo! 💕

  • @dollybabiesreborns
    @dollybabiesreborns 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really enjoyed watching this video I’m about the same size as you and clothes and I really like shopping at that same store

  • @chryseechris
    @chryseechris 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You’re so right. I use beat myself up when ever I sized up in clothes and now I just don’t give a damn anymore. Our bodies are all built different. Whether we control it with diet and exercise, not everyone is the same size 0 or 14.