I feel sad for the first husband because not only is he finding out on a TV show what the problem is with his wife, a lot of it was his fault and he didn't even know it. Sometimes you just have to spit it out instead of keeping it inside! Like pulling off a bandage. He would have changed quick if he had known how he was contributing to the problem I believe. Good luck to them.
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And it's just so damn funny because anything he did would just wrong in that position XD if he said yes, it would just anger the gf. If he rejected, it would upset the bf XD
Sweet Potato Days yeah... or he could just wait for the two to break up to get his chance for that girl... i just have the feeling that he likes that girl... hahaha...
Ah cheolbinah you poor thing...I'm not convinced he doesn't like the girl though, he hesitated and that says a lot...the boyfriend finds the spending time with the girl boring I'd break up and run to cheolbin
I agree with you. If i were the girl, i'd have broken up with that jiyong and went to cheolbin, seeing as how he's the one who took care of her more with the serving of meat first and giving her his coat to wear when it's cold.
1st concern: ugh!! i had to fan air into my eyes to keep me from crying. he knows the error of his ways and i hope he will become better. Communication!!! Communication! Communication!!! Communication is key to a good marriage.
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I found the first husband really frustrating. He said he wanted her to talk and share her opinions but when she did, he immediately tried to interrupt and got upset by what she had to say. If she answers, even if it's simply, she's sharing her thoughts. I think they were right to say it looked like he didn't give her a chance to speak. And it's even more frustrating when you find out he loved it before they were married and has now decided he doesn't. She hasn't changed. She's still quiet and she's very matter of fact. Why say you like it and then turn around and want her to change?
Diamond i really hate that kind of husbands. my father is just like that. just because of this small reason my parents fought alot. so i can understand. but still his wife is so patient person.
Idk but i think the first 3 concerns were merely based on the lack of communications in the household, while the last one, seems more because of the kid who wasn't taught to get used to sleep alone since he was a kid. It needs patient if the parents taught him to sleep alone by the age of 12. A year probably won't be enough depends on the child's psychology. If i draw a line, there ain't no real concerns in this episode. The importance of communication between parties is the essence here :)
I feel like this most of the times while watching Hello Conselour tbh.. There's always some kind of lack of communication which is why the problems first happen and then continue to rise.. :/
Jenizz I think thats because of the korean confucianism where you don't talk back to older people and don't want to trouble anyone with your personal stuff.
The third concern is just kind of lacking sense because he makes it seem as though he doesnt like being with the girl because shes boring. He needs to spend more time with her alone and get to know the girl and spend less time trying to keep his friend to himself. Hes being incredibly inconsiderate and rude to her and she needs to stand up and do something final or this will carry on and it will become as if he doesnt actuay love her for herself but more for her looks. I feel sorry for the friend because its obvious he doesnt want to be there but hes forced out of that guys obsession to be bffs or whatever guys call them.
On the third concern, I ship the girl and Cheolbin more HAHA Because he seems more generous and helpful, he just doesn't have that much sense or maybe he was just really forced by his friend.
2nd concern: there is a time and a place for everything. in the house at midnight or after is the wrong time and place. talk to your family more and let the children study for school
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The last concern is a simple case of a mother giving in to her child when he was young and not having the strength to pull up the weeds she sowed years ago.
I can relate to the kid in the fourth concern about scary noises in the dark, but I really can't understand the wanting to sleep with his parents. My guess is that the kid prefers the parent's room, not the parents. Here's my "story": After I watched Paranormal Activity, I moved my bed right up against the wall and in a position where I can sleep with my back against the wall and face the door at the same time. I've also taken to locking my bedroom door whenever I'm in my room along with sleeping with the lights on or not sleeping until the sun rises/not sleeping at all. I also check my closet before I climb into bed if I must sleep with the lights turned off before 5am. (I know, I'm a wimp and I might actually have some serious problems...but hey it's been 2 years and a half and I haven't died yet, sooo I'd say that I'll live with this) I have a little brother and we sometimes have so much to talk about that we would just have a sleepover of sorts in my room instead of sleeping in our own rooms, and that helps with my "paranoia." On the other hand, I'd much rather sleep in my own bed, alone, in the dark, than with my mother in her bed or with my brother in his room. There are a lot of reasons as to why I prefer my own room, but one of the major reasons is that my bed is the only one out of the three that will enable me to sleep with my back against the wall. I'm guessing any other position will feel uncomfortable. What I'm proposing about the boy in the fourth concern is that it's more the position of the bed and room he's sleeping in than the parents. He has a brother and the two are able to sleep with each other, but the kid doesn't want to. Personally, sleeping with my mom in my room would have the same effect as if my brother was sleeping there. They're both (live) bodies (that I can hear breathing from), and they're both family (and people who sleep so faraway on the other side of the house that I'm sometimes afraid that if along comes an axe murderer and kills them in their sleep, I would have totally no idea since I'm on the other side of the house). So, it's more likely that the kid is used to the positioning he has on his parent's bed. He sleeps horizontally to the king/queen sized bed, and if he sleeps in his room it's more than likely that it's a bed made for a single person, which will not allow him to sleep horizontally. Also, the room configurations would be substantially smaller if his parents sleep in the master bedroom, and have different amounts of furniture that might or might not fill up the room according to what he's used to. So, that's what I think is up with the kid based on personal experience (from a 16+ girl), but if I'm wrong, then the kid's got some serious problems (more serious than mine?). The parents have also raised him a bit weirdly, too. I was sleeping in my own room probably for a couple years after I was born (my dad showed me where the crib was in our old house) and then after my brother came, I'm a hundred percent sure that he was the one who slept in my parents' bedroom. And then after that my brother and I shared a room for a couple years before we moved and got our own rooms ever since. Why would you allow a child to sleep with you until he's in grade 6? and I've just typed a whole essay for you peeps on YT, so uhh, if you made it down here, congrats bruh, here's your cookie and your cup of milk /hands cookie and milk/ annd I'll go sleep now...since it's 3 am...I'm trying to sleep earlier...
I get what you're saying. For me, it's the comfort of having my parents there. When I see ghosts stories on TV (even now that I'm 20), I'm really tempted to sleep with my mom. Haha. I think sleeping with your parents growing up might be an Asian thing. Since I was a baby, I slept with my mom because she was scared something would happen to me (getting sick, not being able to breathe, etc) if I was in a crib. She was kinda right to do that though, because later on, I did end up getting really sick one night and developed "slight" asthma later on. I had to use a respirator every few nights. Every once in a while, my mom would have me sleep in my room on the weekends when I was in elementary school. She'd read to me but I still had trouble sleeping. Not because I was scared of being alone but because sleeping with my mom was comforting and I was used to it. Change is difficult. My parents' bedroom was like a safe zone to me and my own bedroom that I hardly used (only as a playroom sometimes) was unfamiliar. Also, if I had trouble with falling asleep, she would sing to me and rub my back until I passed out and then go back to the living room with my dad (because my bed time was 8 or 9 PM and my parents stayed up a bit later). I'm an only child and growing up, I was the youngest in my whole family. I didn't have cousins yet. I think if I had a sibling, though, sleeping with them would be comforting but I would feel safer with my parents. They're adults and I probably thought they would be able to protect me if a ghost attacked. Haha. What can my brother/sister do? Scream? Run away? That's just my mentality. :P
I am just like the boy in the last concern. I couldn't sleep alone until I was about 13-14 years old. Although I am scared of ghosts popping out in the night, I take my pet dogs into my bedroom so I can get some sleep.
Secret :) This was actually a pretty good show. I think they should stay away from certain topics, because they tend to give close-minded advice. Things like sexuality, racial identity, women's rights and pretty much anything out of the norm.
No they dont shy away from racial identity the first episode of hello counselor I ever watched had a black guy being racialy discriminated it was really interesting to watch
Blond1eBoy I know what you mean, but they still discriminated him though lol Korea has a lot to learn about such topics..that's why I would agree that they shouldnt talk about such topics, they lack knowledge.
Blond1eBoy The country hasn't changed though and they still discriminate against Black people and other people of color. Including Asians from other Asian countries and Korean Americans.
They don't give very solid advise about any serious topic really, but at least every time they talk about sexuality, mental health, race, etc. it gets some exposure and maybe someone out there will feel less alone, or will change their ways for the better. It does upset me though how callous the audience is towards topics they probably don't relate to, like I respected the support they showed for the man with the deformed ear who loved to sing, and the girl who shut herself in her room for years, but not only did they hardly vote for concerns with race, people who were being verbally abused by their own family members didn't get much traction either. It's sad, but ignoring these faults won't make them not exist, I think it's better to air the laundry in a clean way, like on a show like this, so that maybe someone out there will get a clue and be a better person.
i was exactly the same as that little boy when i was younger. I used to scream and cry for hours until my mum let me sleep in her room. I also used to do the peeing and drinking water thing, it's because i was terrified of the dark. i also used to make her keep her bedroom door open because it made me feel safer. I grew out of it eventually as my mum persisted in making me sleep by myself, and he will too. it's just a stage. I'm 18 and still afraid of the dark but not to the extremes like when i was younger.
cheolbin's was funny. the kids of the juggling dad was sweet, but the one that did the spinning plate had THE most adorable laugh ever. The first one I think resolved itself well, as for the last, i would be way to annoyed with anyone interrupting my ability to get sleep.
Why is the juggling one less of a "concern"? It did seem like it was getting out of hand especially when the father said that he was going to open an academy lol.
3rd concern: women needs to feel special, like they are your only one. so stop bringing the friend because it breaks your attention from being on her all the time to your friend some or most of the time.
About the 1st concern, the wife does look like she went through depression and her stories about incidents that led up to it confirmed it and I was sitting here thinking what a bastard she has for a husband but then I saw him cry, he really did look regretful of what he had done/said to her when he heard it straight out like that. It would have been preventable if he had listened to her a bit more so that's why I didn't understand why he came here witht he concern that she doesn't talk much when he's the one who doesn't listen to her, undermines her etc. He's not all bad, he does love her but he has never shown her or made her feel it so she lost confidence.
He came to the show to know all this truth because the wife looks like she didn't want to tell him the reason for her behaviour. If she doesn't talk about it how can he know what he did wrong, due to a small miscommunication they both ended up suffering for 11 years.
In the 3rd concern it's like that guy doesn't want / is not ready for a gf. If I was her I'd leave him tbh, she could do much better. Even cheolbin takes better care of her & pays attention to her a lot more than her actual bf (even if he denied it). wtf even. Seriously, Im Jina should leave them both. In the 4th concern... like what is the mother expecting/hoping to get out of telling everyone about her son sleeping in their bedroom? Everyone to scold him, make fun of him or something? It's been said by many other people who came on the show before that after their story was told the person who was brought in gets hateful comments & people around them make fun of them, does she want that for her son, is that her way to make him stop? Why not take him to a real counselling session for God's sake. HC is a nice show to learn about the strange/weird things that people are into but it's no good for REAL help. But yeah, I do understand why she's angry, frustrated. Take him for real therapy to find out what's wrong cause I think the 'scared of ghosts' thing is an excuse. The jealousy he has sounds like the main issue he has which is kinda unhealthy.
Not trying to be mean but hana look so old , like really ! When i first saw her i thought she was around 30 ! But what ?!? She's only like ..what ..? 24 ? 25? Dang......
Are you kidding?! I'm not that into Secret so I thought maybe Hana is 30 like Sojin from Girl's Day and the rest of the members in both groups are in their early-mid 20's. [Just did a Google search & found out everyone in Secret is in their mid 20's and I got only Girl's day's ages right.] Maybe she/her company lied about the age? lol Hana has a really mature look to her, she looks like a beautiful woman instead of the forced innocent/cute girl image companies push for & general Korean public falls for. She's so stunning!
pinkribbonshoes she only did plastic once, don't call her like this please, she has a natural beauty for her age, she'll not be young forever, now she's a beautiful woman, our hana ❤
1st concern - i think they could be a very sweet couple with some good counselling. he clearly loves her a lot, and because she's so simple with what she says, he filled in the gap and it's gotten out of hand. they're both at fault, but i think they could be okay if they talked things out openly. 2nd concern - more on the scale of annoying than anything. i'll bet the older son has less of an interest in juggling and more of an interest in skipping out on schoolwork... 3rd concern - the boyfriend is totally at fault. he seems to have some discomfort when he's alone with his girlfriend, and is therefore dragging his friend along to make himself more comfortable, but he's not thinking of her. cheolbin is hilarious, but i don't think he's really to blame since he's being called out constantly. he seems like a decent guy. 4th concern - how hard is it to buy a lock for your bedroom door? seriously? and turn off your cellphones for good measure. the kid isn't going to die if he has to sleep alone, and maybe he'll grow up a bit.
I honestly don't see how the first wife is at fault. I felt like crying hearing how he ignored her and shut her down every time she tried to open up. It's no surprise that she got even quieter around him, who wouldn't in similar circumstances?
Diam just from what i saw, it seemed that she didn't speak her mind as much as she needed to. instead of trying to make him understand her feelings, she just shut down even further. she seems to blame him for their communication breakdown, but she did nothing to make him hear her. she seems to be quiet by nature, but she needs to open up more as well and talk to her husband - she just assumed he was judging her during her 'christmas event' when he was merely shocked by it... it embarrassed her and she pulled away and the gap just widened. i'm not saying that their faults are insurmountable, i'm just saying that if they both - together - work hard, they can make it a good marriage.
chullybeans Did you miss the part where she said she tried to talk about how she felt depressed and thought she needed to go to the hospital and he didn't listen or support her? Granted, she definitely seems quiet by nature but not only was she like that before they got married, he claimed to have loved it. She didn't change, his expectations of her did. And as far as her not trying to force him to hear her goes, she said she used to try and put herself outside of her comfort zone and open up to him but he dismissed it. It's only common sense that a person will withdraw if they're continuously dismissed. Why would anyone put themselves out there when it always ends with you being ignored? Her points were valid.
The couple in the first concern: they need to go to an actual marriage counselor to sort out their problems. To me, it seems like a lot of miscommunication and lack of communication of feelings and intent. It seems that, if things continue as they are, they will end up divorced. Both parties are at fault. They need to work through their issues, because I'm sure there are more than what was said. I hope things work out for them and they can have a happier marriage, for their sake, as well as their children's.
the way that 3rd concern was taking really pissed me off!!! it's really unfair for that guy and no one was on his side after they heard his side of the story they even kept telling him that he doesn't have no sense... especially when yeongja said to him "did you have no sense since you were little?" so rude!!! come on!!! men like sports, besides it's not a place for dates, so why he shouldn't go to that game? everybody change their mind in the last minute for going somewhere or doing something! about the other stories, he was tricked by his friend AND his gf, y he will think that she doesn't want him to join them while she called and ask him to come? if I was in his shoes I'll definitely think that they love to hung out with me otherwise y they will keep calling me? I can't understand her, she is so close to him y she didn't told him the truth, that she wants to be alone with her bf for some dates, he will understand her for sure, he got hurt nd he will feel so awkward being with them now... it's not his fault at all nd I'm pretty sure he does have sense, after the show he will definitely take few steps back, I love this show so much but sometimes they piss me off with their comments nd how they run the concerns!
Maybe I'm weird I found the last concern CUTE. They're lucky that they're son is very affectionate towards them LOL. The son just wants to spend time and wants to play with his parents. Korean culture is weird that they think that is a concern and they're pissed that their son is affectionate towards his parents.
I would really really like to know why people get married if they want the spouse to be a mind reader after a certain amount of time being married😡 He wouldn't talk a lot if she use her words omg I really can't handle ignorgance😒
AHAHAHAAHAH "1 times"! Cute little kid!! That 3rd concern....i think it's more the boyfriends fault than Cheolbin's! Poor guy, i feel sorry for him! Oh man the last child seems annoying! I know what it's like to have to sleep next to someone who has irritating sleeping habits and sleeps in weird positions, 3 in a bed must be worse!! Maybe a night light could help him?
4th concern: pubescent children needs to start breaking away from their parents. i suggest spend time with him, and maybe give him a nightlight. ban all scary books. (check his book-bag daily) and hopefully after awhile he will get better.
i think the dad talks a lot coz his wife doesn't talk -im not saying he's not talkative he might be a talkative person but does it more when he's with her-... it's the same with me I'm kinda talkative but when people I'm close to don't reply or talk i tend to talk even more until they respond :p ... not to spite them, i just do it.
That was the dumbest statement by that one guy honest. Asking the parent can’t they just deal with their kid sleeping with them he’s In the 7th grade for Pete’s sake
The third concern, Cheolbin shld just stand up for himself and just let the couple have their time though im kind of unsure if the bf is getting bored with the gf. It is always the bf who keeps bugging him. The fourth concern, if that were to happen to me, im just gonna tie him up to the bed, gag his mouth and off to my dreamland or better...slip in some sleeping pills to the food. Problem solved. :D
God, if I had a kid like that, I would take away his electronics so he doesn't text me at night, and lock his door. 7th grade! Time to learn how to be considerate and unselfish.
I hope the first couple talk about their problems and find a solution. They are both good people. *tears
I feel sad for the first husband because not only is he finding out on a TV show what the problem is with his wife, a lot of it was his fault and he didn't even know it. Sometimes you just have to spit it out instead of keeping it inside! Like pulling off a bandage. He would have changed quick if he had known how he was contributing to the problem I believe. Good luck to them.
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LOL! The concern with Cheolbin is so funny. xD So much back and forth. Cheolbin does seem like a nice guy though. heh
And it's just so damn funny because anything he did would just wrong in that position XD if he said yes, it would just anger the gf. If he rejected, it would upset the bf XD
Cheolbin needs a girlfriend...if he has one..that guy cant force him anymore...
Joshua Enojas I feel like he'll definitely get a gf or his chances will improve once he stops hanging out with them and goes exploring on his own.
Sweet Potato Days yeah... or he could just wait for the two to break up to get his chance for that girl... i just have the feeling that he likes that girl... hahaha...
Ah cheolbinah you poor thing...I'm not convinced he doesn't like the girl though, he hesitated and that says a lot...the boyfriend finds the spending time with the girl boring I'd break up and run to cheolbin
I agree with you. If i were the girl, i'd have broken up with that jiyong and went to cheolbin, seeing as how he's the one who took care of her more with the serving of meat first and giving her his coat to wear when it's cold.
1st concern:
ugh!! i had to fan air into my eyes to keep me from crying. he knows the error of his ways and i hope he will become better. Communication!!! Communication! Communication!!! Communication is key to a good marriage.
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I found the first husband really frustrating. He said he wanted her to talk and share her opinions but when she did, he immediately tried to interrupt and got upset by what she had to say. If she answers, even if it's simply, she's sharing her thoughts. I think they were right to say it looked like he didn't give her a chance to speak. And it's even more frustrating when you find out he loved it before they were married and has now decided he doesn't. She hasn't changed. She's still quiet and she's very matter of fact. Why say you like it and then turn around and want her to change?
Diamond i really hate that kind of husbands. my father is just like that. just because of this small reason my parents fought alot. so i can understand. but still his wife is so patient person.
Idk but i think the first 3 concerns were merely based on the lack of communications in the household, while the last one, seems more because of the kid who wasn't taught to get used to sleep alone since he was a kid. It needs patient if the parents taught him to sleep alone by the age of 12. A year probably won't be enough depends on the child's psychology.
If i draw a line, there ain't no real concerns in this episode. The importance of communication between parties is the essence here :)
I feel like this most of the times while watching Hello Conselour tbh.. There's always some kind of lack of communication which is why the problems first happen and then continue to rise.. :/
Jenizz
I think thats because of the korean confucianism where you don't talk back to older people and don't want to trouble anyone with your personal stuff.
Violet Ortensia I guess you're right. :(
Jenizz y5
The third concern is just kind of lacking sense because he makes it seem as though he doesnt like being with the girl because shes boring. He needs to spend more time with her alone and get to know the girl and spend less time trying to keep his friend to himself. Hes being incredibly inconsiderate and rude to her and she needs to stand up and do something final or this will carry on and it will become as if he doesnt actuay love her for herself but more for her looks. I feel sorry for the friend because its obvious he doesnt want to be there but hes forced out of that guys obsession to be bffs or whatever guys call them.
Why does she stick with him...? If this was in my country they broke up a long time ago..
Same i just dont understand why she stays
she should just date cheolbin... hahaha..
i think he liked her thats why he kept coming in their dates... dump that selfish guy...
She should he seems to be a lot more generous and understanding then her so called boyfriend
Just the way i think XD
On the third concern, I ship the girl and Cheolbin more HAHA
Because he seems more generous and helpful, he just doesn't have that much sense or maybe he was just really forced by his friend.
Aww the first concern make me cry i really felt he was sorry
-ugggh i am sensitive
2nd concern:
there is a time and a place for everything. in the house at midnight or after is the wrong time and place. talk to your family more and let the children study for school
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this first concern I don't know what to say awww poor couple they need another Christmas
The last concern is a simple case of a mother giving in to her child when he was young and not having the strength to pull up the weeds she sowed years ago.
musicaddict4life15 I know you commented this years ago, but you are so right! Very well put!
I can relate to the kid in the fourth concern about scary noises in the dark, but I really can't understand the wanting to sleep with his parents. My guess is that the kid prefers the parent's room, not the parents.
Here's my "story": After I watched Paranormal Activity, I moved my bed right up against the wall and in a position where I can sleep with my back against the wall and face the door at the same time. I've also taken to locking my bedroom door whenever I'm in my room along with sleeping with the lights on or not sleeping until the sun rises/not sleeping at all. I also check my closet before I climb into bed if I must sleep with the lights turned off before 5am. (I know, I'm a wimp and I might actually have some serious problems...but hey it's been 2 years and a half and I haven't died yet, sooo I'd say that I'll live with this) I have a little brother and we sometimes have so much to talk about that we would just have a sleepover of sorts in my room instead of sleeping in our own rooms, and that helps with my "paranoia."
On the other hand, I'd much rather sleep in my own bed, alone, in the dark, than with my mother in her bed or with my brother in his room. There are a lot of reasons as to why I prefer my own room, but one of the major reasons is that my bed is the only one out of the three that will enable me to sleep with my back against the wall. I'm guessing any other position will feel uncomfortable.
What I'm proposing about the boy in the fourth concern is that it's more the position of the bed and room he's sleeping in than the parents. He has a brother and the two are able to sleep with each other, but the kid doesn't want to.
Personally, sleeping with my mom in my room would have the same effect as if my brother was sleeping there. They're both (live) bodies (that I can hear breathing from), and they're both family (and people who sleep so faraway on the other side of the house that I'm sometimes afraid that if along comes an axe murderer and kills them in their sleep, I would have totally no idea since I'm on the other side of the house).
So, it's more likely that the kid is used to the positioning he has on his parent's bed. He sleeps horizontally to the king/queen sized bed, and if he sleeps in his room it's more than likely that it's a bed made for a single person, which will not allow him to sleep horizontally. Also, the room configurations would be substantially smaller if his parents sleep in the master bedroom, and have different amounts of furniture that might or might not fill up the room according to what he's used to.
So, that's what I think is up with the kid based on personal experience (from a 16+ girl), but if I'm wrong, then the kid's got some serious problems (more serious than mine?). The parents have also raised him a bit weirdly, too. I was sleeping in my own room probably for a couple years after I was born (my dad showed me where the crib was in our old house) and then after my brother came, I'm a hundred percent sure that he was the one who slept in my parents' bedroom. And then after that my brother and I shared a room for a couple years before we moved and got our own rooms ever since. Why would you allow a child to sleep with you until he's in grade 6?
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I get what you're saying. For me, it's the comfort of having my parents there. When I see ghosts stories on TV (even now that I'm 20), I'm really tempted to sleep with my mom. Haha. I think sleeping with your parents growing up might be an Asian thing. Since I was a baby, I slept with my mom because she was scared something would happen to me (getting sick, not being able to breathe, etc) if I was in a crib. She was kinda right to do that though, because later on, I did end up getting really sick one night and developed "slight" asthma later on. I had to use a respirator every few nights.
Every once in a while, my mom would have me sleep in my room on the weekends when I was in elementary school. She'd read to me but I still had trouble sleeping. Not because I was scared of being alone but because sleeping with my mom was comforting and I was used to it. Change is difficult. My parents' bedroom was like a safe zone to me and my own bedroom that I hardly used (only as a playroom sometimes) was unfamiliar. Also, if I had trouble with falling asleep, she would sing to me and rub my back until I passed out and then go back to the living room with my dad (because my bed time was 8 or 9 PM and my parents stayed up a bit later). I'm an only child and growing up, I was the youngest in my whole family. I didn't have cousins yet. I think if I had a sibling, though, sleeping with them would be comforting but I would feel safer with my parents. They're adults and I probably thought they would be able to protect me if a ghost attacked. Haha. What can my brother/sister do? Scream? Run away? That's just my mentality. :P
Little girl at 2:50 is havin a feast
Cheolbin seemed sweet lol
I ship Jina with Cheolbin now.
I am just like the boy in the last concern. I couldn't sleep alone until I was about 13-14 years old. Although I am scared of ghosts popping out in the night, I take my pet dogs into my bedroom so I can get some sleep.
Secret :)
This was actually a pretty good show. I think they should stay away from certain topics, because they tend to give close-minded advice. Things like sexuality, racial identity, women's rights and pretty much anything out of the norm.
No they dont shy away from racial identity the first episode of hello counselor I ever watched had a black guy being racialy discriminated it was really interesting to watch
Blond1eBoy I know what you mean, but they still discriminated him though lol Korea has a lot to learn about such topics..that's why I would agree that they shouldnt talk about such topics, they lack knowledge.
true true.
Blond1eBoy
The country hasn't changed though and they still discriminate against Black people and other people of color. Including Asians from other Asian countries and Korean Americans.
They don't give very solid advise about any serious topic really, but at least every time they talk about sexuality, mental health, race, etc. it gets some exposure and maybe someone out there will feel less alone, or will change their ways for the better. It does upset me though how callous the audience is towards topics they probably don't relate to, like I respected the support they showed for the man with the deformed ear who loved to sing, and the girl who shut herself in her room for years, but not only did they hardly vote for concerns with race, people who were being verbally abused by their own family members didn't get much traction either. It's sad, but ignoring these faults won't make them not exist, I think it's better to air the laundry in a clean way, like on a show like this, so that maybe someone out there will get a clue and be a better person.
The boy in the fourth concern is going to be teased so much at school!
19:53
.... speechless, the guy was ask into the concern....
Cool man, I respect that
Finally SECRET ♡
Aw, no Hyosung :( Ahh well.
Always happy to see a new episode of Hello Counselor.
Thank you KBS World TV for uploading!
i was exactly the same as that little boy when i was younger. I used to scream and cry for hours until my mum let me sleep in her room. I also used to do the peeing and drinking water thing, it's because i was terrified of the dark. i also used to make her keep her bedroom door open because it made me feel safer. I grew out of it eventually as my mum persisted in making me sleep by myself, and he will too. it's just a stage. I'm 18 and still afraid of the dark but not to the extremes like when i was younger.
i watch this ep at 3:00am,and shin dongyeop concern makes me scared like a frickin baby
I finished watching and went to the comments. I saw comments about the girl @2:50 having a "feast" lol. I didn't eve notice.
like because of hana.
OH WAITTT THOSE ACTORS ARE FROM HIGH SCHOOL LOVE ON OMFGGG AHHA :D
Yeng Lee yeah. The fairy that had been human who helps sulbi and woohyun
Hana so pretty sunhwa so cute pretty love them face wash dance was funny.
I hope she ended up with Cheolbin. haha. I think Cheolbin is more suited for her.
Me too
jina's so pretty
I love SECRET!
Hana & Sunhwa < 3
The little girl in the first concern looks like a mini Hara (from Kara).
Since this is Secret episode, Red Velvet should be next week :D KBS World aired it based on the order of episode it was aired in Korea :)
Hahah The Two guys are from Hi! School love on. SUNBAE!!!
Secret
aww poor Cheolbin :D
cheolbin's was funny. the kids of the juggling dad was sweet, but the one that did the spinning plate had THE most adorable laugh ever. The first one I think resolved itself well, as for the last, i would be way to annoyed with anyone interrupting my ability to get sleep.
Why is the juggling one less of a "concern"? It did seem like it was getting out of hand especially when the father said that he was going to open an academy lol.
Zinger looks different :/
Haha when that one actor said he's in "Sunny". The people in the room were like "..huh?! 0_o"
at first i was like "who is this hana from secret?" i never knew zinger by that name
Jina and Cheolbin should just get together HAHA
3rd concern:
women needs to feel special, like they are your only one. so stop bringing the friend because it breaks your attention from being on her all the time to your friend some or most of the time.
About the 1st concern,
the wife does look like she went through depression and her stories about incidents that led up to it confirmed it and I was sitting here thinking what a bastard she has for a husband but then I saw him cry, he really did look regretful of what he had done/said to her when he heard it straight out like that.
It would have been preventable if he had listened to her a bit more so that's why I didn't understand why he came here witht he concern that she doesn't talk much when he's the one who doesn't listen to her, undermines her etc.
He's not all bad, he does love her but he has never shown her or made her feel it so she lost confidence.
He came to the show to know all this truth because the wife looks like she didn't want to tell him the reason for her behaviour. If she doesn't talk about it how can he know what he did wrong, due to a small miscommunication they both ended up suffering for 11 years.
She does not talk how the hell can he understand if she does not tell him.
Last concern...get some earplugs...and close and lock the door. Eventually the kid will stop trying to sneak into the room. Has to learn sometime.
In the 3rd concern it's like that guy doesn't want / is not ready for a gf. If I was her I'd leave him tbh, she could do much better.
Even cheolbin takes better care of her & pays attention to her a lot more than her actual bf (even if he denied it). wtf even.
Seriously, Im Jina should leave them both.
In the 4th concern... like what is the mother expecting/hoping to get out of telling everyone about her son sleeping in their bedroom? Everyone to scold him, make fun of him or something? It's been said by many other people who came on the show before that after their story was told the person who was brought in gets hateful comments & people around them make fun of them, does she want that for her son, is that her way to make him stop?
Why not take him to a real counselling session for God's sake. HC is a nice show to learn about the strange/weird things that people are into but it's no good for REAL help. But yeah, I do understand why she's angry, frustrated. Take him for real therapy to find out what's wrong cause I think the 'scared of ghosts' thing is an excuse. The jealousy he has sounds like the main issue he has which is kinda unhealthy.
hi school love on characters!!! ^^
cheolbin is so cute BUT the boyfriend is so weird
Wuah, i love these Teddybears. What are they called?
that boyfriend does not understand how lucky he is to have a gf like that. needs some sense knocked into him
Not trying to be mean but hana look so old , like really ! When i first saw her i thought she was around 30 ! But what ?!? She's only like ..what ..? 24 ? 25? Dang......
She's fine.
I thought the same thing
really! she has the mature beauty.
Are you kidding?! I'm not that into Secret so I thought maybe Hana is 30 like Sojin from Girl's Day and the rest of the members in both groups are in their early-mid 20's. [Just did a Google search & found out everyone in Secret is in their mid 20's and I got only Girl's day's ages right.]
Maybe she/her company lied about the age? lol
Hana has a really mature look to her, she looks like a beautiful woman instead of the forced innocent/cute girl image companies push for & general Korean public falls for. She's so stunning!
pinkribbonshoes she only did plastic once, don't call her like this please, she has a natural beauty for her age, she'll not be young forever, now she's a beautiful woman, our hana ❤
The 2nd concern older brother is handsome
OMG LOL XD I FEEL BAD FOR CHEOLBIN !1 XD HE GOT HIMSELF IN A WEIRD SITUATION XD
i keep waiting and no red velvet episode seriously kbs!
Yeah. Where are they?
Wait till next week
The juggler's wife looks like Oshima Yuko
1st concern - i think they could be a very sweet couple with some good counselling. he clearly loves her a lot, and because she's so simple with what she says, he filled in the gap and it's gotten out of hand. they're both at fault, but i think they could be okay if they talked things out openly.
2nd concern - more on the scale of annoying than anything. i'll bet the older son has less of an interest in juggling and more of an interest in skipping out on schoolwork...
3rd concern - the boyfriend is totally at fault. he seems to have some discomfort when he's alone with his girlfriend, and is therefore dragging his friend along to make himself more comfortable, but he's not thinking of her. cheolbin is hilarious, but i don't think he's really to blame since he's being called out constantly. he seems like a decent guy.
4th concern - how hard is it to buy a lock for your bedroom door? seriously? and turn off your cellphones for good measure. the kid isn't going to die if he has to sleep alone, and maybe he'll grow up a bit.
I think if they lock the door, the kid will knock it until they respond...their kid is so inconsiderate..
you're so right!
I honestly don't see how the first wife is at fault. I felt like crying hearing how he ignored her and shut her down every time she tried to open up. It's no surprise that she got even quieter around him, who wouldn't in similar circumstances?
Diam just from what i saw, it seemed that she didn't speak her mind as much as she needed to. instead of trying to make him understand her feelings, she just shut down even further. she seems to blame him for their communication breakdown, but she did nothing to make him hear her.
she seems to be quiet by nature, but she needs to open up more as well and talk to her husband - she just assumed he was judging her during her 'christmas event' when he was merely shocked by it...
it embarrassed her and she pulled away and the gap just widened.
i'm not saying that their faults are insurmountable, i'm just saying that if they both - together - work hard, they can make it a good marriage.
chullybeans Did you miss the part where she said she tried to talk about how she felt depressed and thought she needed to go to the hospital and he didn't listen or support her? Granted, she definitely seems quiet by nature but not only was she like that before they got married, he claimed to have loved it. She didn't change, his expectations of her did.
And as far as her not trying to force him to hear her goes, she said she used to try and put herself outside of her comfort zone and open up to him but he dismissed it. It's only common sense that a person will withdraw if they're continuously dismissed. Why would anyone put themselves out there when it always ends with you being ignored? Her points were valid.
when is the red velvet ones gonna be post?!😏
The couple in the first concern: they need to go to an actual marriage counselor to sort out their problems. To me, it seems like a lot of miscommunication and lack of communication of feelings and intent. It seems that, if things continue as they are, they will end up divorced. Both parties are at fault. They need to work through their issues, because I'm sure there are more than what was said. I hope things work out for them and they can have a happier marriage, for their sake, as well as their children's.
The last concern... Arghhh really angers me alot...
the way that 3rd concern was taking really pissed me off!!! it's really unfair for that guy and no one was on his side after they heard his side of the story they even kept telling him that he doesn't have no sense... especially when yeongja said to him "did you have no sense since you were little?" so rude!!! come on!!! men like sports, besides it's not a place for dates, so why he shouldn't go to that game? everybody change their mind in the last minute for going somewhere or doing something! about the other stories, he was tricked by his friend AND his gf, y he will think that she doesn't want him to join them while she called and ask him to come? if I was in his shoes I'll definitely think that they love to hung out with me otherwise y they will keep calling me? I can't understand her, she is so close to him y she didn't told him the truth, that she wants to be alone with her bf for some dates, he will understand her for sure, he got hurt nd he will feel so awkward being with them now... it's not his fault at all nd I'm pretty sure he does have sense, after the show he will definitely take few steps back, I love this show so much but sometimes they piss me off with their comments nd how they run the concerns!
Last concern, bit funny. Just throw away the scary book,
i hope it's not weird that I ship cheolbin and jina... they're cute and more understanding of situations, compared to jiyong (the bf) lol
sunhwa :))
Maybe I'm weird I found the last concern CUTE. They're lucky that they're son is very affectionate towards them LOL. The son just wants to spend time and wants to play with his parents. Korean culture is weird that they think that is a concern and they're pissed that their son is affectionate towards his parents.
i agree too i don't really see any problem with that
Yay I can do dish spinning as well its fun 😂😂
Where is IOI's Somi?
The daughter from the first concern looks a lot like Kara's Hara with smaller eyes. Lol
I haven't seen sunhwa in a while but it kind of looks like she got some more work done?
Waiting for Red Velvet and Super Junior
Jina and Cheolbin will make a cute couple.Lol -.-
i though this was going to be the episode red velvet would be
Same here - I keep on waiting!
it should be next week :)
The girl at 40:22 looked like she was jealous of Jina & nudged her man 🤣🤣🤣
I would really really like to know why people get married if they want the spouse to be a mind reader after a certain amount of time being married😡 He wouldn't talk a lot if she use her words omg I really can't handle ignorgance😒
ok none of these situations re serious except for the last 2. in my opinion
AHAHAHAAHAH "1 times"! Cute little kid!!
That 3rd concern....i think it's more the boyfriends fault than Cheolbin's! Poor guy, i feel sorry for him!
Oh man the last child seems annoying! I know what it's like to have to sleep next to someone who has irritating sleeping habits and sleeps in weird positions, 3 in a bed must be worse!! Maybe a night light could help him?
I thought super junior's hello was on September 15? When does there's air?
When will they post the episode with Red Velvet?, it was aired two weeks ago >
The 3rd concern, why she didn't date cheolbin instead? XD he's cutee..
4th concern:
pubescent children needs to start breaking away from their parents. i suggest spend time with him, and maybe give him a nightlight. ban all scary books. (check his book-bag daily) and hopefully after awhile he will get better.
When is red velvets episode going to be uploaded?
Where's Heechul, Shindong, Kangin and Ryeowook's episode?
should be up in a couple of weeks i guess (:
I hope so.. :3
i think the dad talks a lot coz his wife doesn't talk -im not saying he's not talkative he might be a talkative person but does it more when he's with her-... it's the same with me I'm kinda talkative but when people I'm close to don't reply or talk i tend to talk even more until they respond :p ... not to spite them, i just do it.
i post this comment at the beginning of the concern... i guess it turns out he was the source of it
Not really she didn't tell him how she felt if she had told him he would have understood it.
the one about cheolbin what if her bf is gay for him
KBS I WANT EPISODE WITH RED VELVET RIGHT NOW
Where's red velvet episode?
What ep
Làm vietsub đi
Where is eps with Red Velvet??😒
That was the dumbest statement by that one guy honest. Asking the parent can’t they just deal with their kid sleeping with them he’s In the 7th grade for Pete’s sake
why cant i watch this in southkorea?
No idea :/ Try using proxy's
The irony hahahaha
They are asking you to use their video services in sk XD
Because of copy right issues. It comes on TV there so they may not allow it to be watched on the internet.
posemwen But that's weird because this is KBS World's official channel, there should be no copy right problems lol
The third concern, Cheolbin shld just stand up for himself and just let the couple have their time though im kind of unsure if the bf is getting bored with the gf. It is always the bf who keeps bugging him.
The fourth concern, if that were to happen to me, im just gonna tie him up to the bed, gag his mouth and off to my dreamland or better...slip in some sleeping pills to the food. Problem solved. :D
cruel...>
EP???
It's episode 185😊
63 views ...hohoh
Gay if you more comfortable around man instead your girlfriend...
God, if I had a kid like that, I would take away his electronics so he doesn't text me at night, and lock his door.
7th grade! Time to learn how to be considerate and unselfish.
Last concern child is annoying....😡😡