If I were Emily's dad I would STILL retire and travel with my wife. Emily can get on welfare, food stamps, and section 8 housing like other adults who have to deal with the consequences of their poor decisions. I think she'd grow up real soon.
@@ilovelifelifelovesme773 Yes, if you cannot afford to take care of your baby. It's not her parents responsibility to feed, clothed, and house Emily's children unless they become legal guardians. It's not fair to her parents. Or maybe it is if they raised Emily to be that way.
I'm sure she would do nothing differently. This is who she is. It's obvious she's been this way for a long time. "When someone shows you who they are, believe them!"
I doubt that was true. I THINK he was just trying to get the point across to her that her decisions can effect other people's lives. & That there's a reason he made that a rule. It wasn't just to "because I said so." She never thinks about other people & instead of just hurting his baby girl's feelings & telling her this, he is passive agressive & gives her his retirement sob story. Well Daddy it didn't work. Ur baby girl is still a selfish brat. He needs to kick her tf out, why should he change any plans for his life because of her mistake? Why is everyone else always more worried about Emily's life than Emily is. Its mind boggling!!!
If he changes his plans, it will only enable her to keep abusing there kindness. Emily is very spoiled and inconsiderate. She needs to get on some birth control, get her ass back to work, or work from home online. She needs to stop abusing her parents.
@@robertlacerda5790 exactly. She seems to have a great family! I love the way her father truly embraced Kobe! Kobe seems like a wonderful person, who will have a good impact on Emily.
I have a question for Emily: Why did she think it was more important to spend money on a ring and a wedding ceremony instead of saving so they can get their own place as a family?
@@Noname-hs5lx No honey, they can go to the courthouse to make it official - weddings are unnecessary and cost money. It’s a WANT, not a need - especially when you’re in your 30’s and are still mooching off your parents.
Because she exceptionally Selfish and has been "bailed out" of Every.Single.Thing. she has done All her life. How can her parents say "They need to get on their own feet" when for Emily's entire life they have ENABLED All her choices.... This is a Parent Issue All the way.
Kobe needs to grow a pair,,he can't even stand up for himself,,crying like a crybaby, on his wedding day,,he does what miss Emily tells him,,I lost the respect for him,,because he's a coward,,everyone is so worried about poor Emily's feelings,,self centered brat.
@@sff.f1114 Temperature said that not him, all this man has ever asked for was for her to respect him and take his opinions into consideration and realize that there’s two authorities in this relationship and he is one of them do you think she’s any better she’s basically dominating the entire relationship and wants him to be submissive to her not to mention she is extremely controlling and manipulative… Wanting a partner who values and respects your opinions and decision making and also takes your emotions into consideration is not a wild thing to want in a relationship and doesn’t mean you want them to be completely an utterly submissive to you what part of that are you not understanding The person that wants a submissive partner in this relationship is Emily not him…no specific gender should have to be submissive to the other unless that is some thing they mutually want in a relationship
she a entitled american women and he's an african man lol it's a cultural thing not everyone is raised the same some have humble upbringings some have it handed to them that says it all
Aww man Kobe is a keeper. Emily is lucky that's for sure. That moment between Kobe and Emilys dad was so very very sweet! My tears were flowin man lol!!!!
I would be so mad as a parent that my daughter didn’t say “hey we accidentally got pregnant, can we scale back the money being spent on the wedding or is it too late for that?”
A question for both Emily and Kobe: Why did they even RISK getting pregnant again when they can’t support themselves and her parents SPECIFICALLY asked them not to get pregnant while staying at their house? There are no “accidents” when you know how biology works…and when the morning-after pill is readily available.
Because she knew daddy would give them a monetary "wedding gift." Enough funding to last a year and time to allow Kobe and Emily to move out of their basement and get settled in a place of their own, and (hopefully) become self-sufficient. But daddy didn't plan on another grandchild to support! Emily has no shame and she should.💯
She is a stay at home mother raising her own children, not having some stranger raise them for her so she can go out and get a easy outside job. Her husband needs to get a side job and support his family. While she raises. The babies.
@@catalinasanchez3294 Kobe cannot legally work until his work permit comes in so it would make more sense for him to stay home with the kids until he can work, and Emily find a suitable job that can support her family.
That conversation between Kobe and Emily's dad before the wedding was so incredibly sweet!! 😭😭😭 She found a keeper for sure! Bilal, Shieeda and the whole family are GORGEOUS! Were they filming a magazine spread at their ceremony?!?! (That Golddigger clip had me rolling!! 🤣)
Kobe you really deserve a woman that can adapt to his culture and learn to be a grown woman not depending on her parents for support. My husband is from Kenya and he came to America on a full scholarship for us athletic ability and academics also. We have been happily married for 10 plus years. Grow up Emily. It’s there culture there is nothing wrong in that. Old school raising the man is the man of the house.
Thais and Pats "priest" looks straight off the Island of Staten 😆 Being from just across the bridge from Staten island, I can adequately confirm that 😂
@@briannavandi having no money is super stressful and she's lived a very nice life. Hes nice but nice doesn't pay the bills. He has no education either. They will both be working. She's not the type to be happy working and never seeing her children. I was raised in childcare, my sister wasn't. Childcare is hell for children. We could always tell the children in daycare teaching at church. It was my strong conviction to not have children if they had to suffer through commercial daycare. Emily won't be happy with that, for long. Remember her showing him the big houses? Yeah. She'll be growing up fast, soon. I stayed home with both of my children. Wouldn't change a thing, but you need to choose your partner wisely.
Watching Kobe and David share that moment had me in tears ♥️ like it really melted my heart and I was glad to see this because it was a very rough start! Knowing that Kobe doesn’t have a close relationship with his dad, it’s great that he has Emily’s Dad. And he respects him so much knowing that he was scared to tell her parents because they promised not to, and he finally has built a relationship with her parents - like damn. Hopefully, her dad will be able to retire within the next year 🤞🏼
Bilal's ex was not at the wedding because she clearly still has feelings for him. I don't think her heart could take it. It was all good as long as they were just dating, but then he proposed and it was a game changer. I'm sure she's seen plenty women come in and out of his life. Which is why she was expecting Shieda to be a temp, as well. He gave her a very special gift that he did not give the ex. 🤔 or did he and then he took it back when they split? I really like Kobe! Emily not so much. The way she speaks to him as if he's a child or something! I cringe every time!🙄
@@ejayemm I wouldn't care if she became a part of a polygamous relationship, married to multiple people! Bilal still has a part of her heart! And she could possibly be having a hard time seeing him fully move on. You weirdo.🤯
Emily is the way she is because of her parents I do not feel sorry for them. But I do feel sorry for kobe because he just married someone who does not know what accountability is.
2 guests in the desert. It’s not a wedding it’s a photoshoot. Miona and j disaster. Shaeeda looks low key miserable. Kobe and Emily are numnuts. Still prefer watching the recaps than the show this season good job Melicia girl 💕
Emily's parents mistake of not adjusting her behavior and telling her no has damaged their life enough, it's time to show her the door. It's not like she can't go from depending on mommy and daddy, to depending on government assistance. They may have created the issue of codependency, but they shouldn't have to be burdened by it for life. Emily played in the streets long enough, let her live on them now.
Idk Bilal and Shae's wedding was .. underwhelming. His daughters voice was Incredibly sweet, such an angelic voice. However, He barely showed her any affection, yet again. Presented her with a keepsake, no kiss, no kneeling to her and looking into her eyes while presenting it..idk their marriage is definitely a business aspect. Kind of wish Shaeeda had some Pop in her make up or flowers, like a dot of red or blue on her eye corners or a bright flower in her bouquet, I suppose bc we're (well, I'm) used to seeing her with so much color on and around her. Just can see through all of it as something not quite as genuine as they hoped the audience would think it were..
He is so cold towards her. It's not even in his eyes. A lot of Islam couples are not on PDA but you can see the warmth in their eyes. Withdrawing affection for control and bargaining with it is a narcissist's move. I feel sorry for Shaeeda, she really deserves better.
Melicia, I look forward to your weekly videos! You always read my mind because you say exactly what I'm thinking at the moment. Emily is spoiled, selfish, and has a lot of growing up and maturing to do. Girrrrl that Gold digger clip after Bilal and Shaida's wedding was hilarious! I hollered. Lol😂 Miona's arch was...interesting, but if she loved it, that's all that matters. Jibri's country song was so sweet! On a scale of 1 to 10, I'll give this 90 Day Fiance season a 5. I can't wait for the Tell All!! Thanks for all that you do, Melicia! ❤️✨
Wow i didn't see Miona and Jabri's wedding but the intimacy of them two was just super sweet. Kobe is a super sweet guy and that moment between him and Emily's father was one of the sweetest of 90 day fiance moments. Shaeeda girl you looked so beautiful honestly
To be honest...I usually have at least more than 1 couple who I bet can make it...but this season I have doubts about every single couples marriage lasting....Getting married when you have obvious issues that you think will ''magically'' be resolved after the wedding is beyond crazy...They all have unresolved issues..🤦🏽♀️🤯🙄
Bilal's son & Shaeeda's youngest sister were not feeling it. Their body language was very telling. They kept it real with the napping (his son) & the perpetually disgusted face (the sister).
I cried watching just about all of them but Balil has me on the fence when it comes to him. The song that Jabiri made for Meona was beautiful! I was like "Darius Rucker or Kane Brown need to help the brother out". I totally love them.. As for Theis & Patrick, I'm hopeful for them. I hope things go good for all of the couples -never hope for the worse for any of the couples. Emily & Kobe - the only thing that got me was her her buying the ring & the new pregnancy. Then hearing Kobe about Emily nursing upset me quite a bit. All things aside though I think they truly can make it BUT need to get off on their own 2 feet. I would like to see them in their own spinoff or atleast on "after the 90 days". I don't want cameras to ruin the relationship as we all know it can & has done that and would be fine with little updates here and there at best especially as they venture out on their own and with new baby. They make a Beautiful couple! He's one good looking guy for sure. Best of luck to all of these couples. Learn from other couples though don't let cameras, media and others get between you all. ❤
This comment is based on the content at 3:15 - 4:15 and has a lot of speculation on how Emily is feeling based on her actions, how Melicia talks about love, and my own journey through relationships. I LOVE how Melicia mentions kind of off-script about how we're often so used to letting (the wrong) people in that have hurt us and having to heal those wounds which often become scars on our hearts. When we feel like it's too good to be true, we try to block off emotions and hide behind those scars. When the right person comes into our life they will want to help not only to break down barriers but to help heal those scars and sometimes open wounds that never healed. It's hard to see this when you're in a relationship and have not let down your emotional guard but when you let the right person in and you can look back after letting that person in, hindsight is really where things are able to come to light and know that this is "the one". Also how Emily explains to Kobe that the trust issues aren't really even about him, they've been there probably for many years even before they met (I actually have no idea, this is just speculation from what I see in her and how I have felt in certain relationships) But again maybe she's so used to having these feelings, potentially from relationships she's been in or just from how men have treated her in the past, that she is putting up barriers to protect herself from being hurt again instead of letting him in. All she needs is to open those doors and let Kobe in and see that this man just wants to be with her and love her. He doesn't want to hurt her but with these barriers up she can't see that yet.
Ex wife was the problem all along. She is the one who wanted bilal to get a prenup and upset cause shaeda modified it. Wishing them a very happy successful marriage
I haven’t really watched the show in a hot minute but girl you gave me the tea I didn’t know I was missin I can’t wait for your take on the tell all, you spare me watching all these episodes with 0 progress and you are funny AF while being georgeous yass
Wow I really like her dad what a great father. She’s lucky to have parliament like that. I hope Kobe honor his word promises he made her father. Wish them good luck
If my 30 year old daughter acted like Emily she’d be out on the street that’s all I’m saying. You not going to disrespect my home and think I’m going to take care of you. You an adult figure it out, id be taking trips with my spouse all over the world not giving an F.
So the wedding was at his house because Bilal didn’t want to spend money…. He’s still controlling & acting unbothered leaving her to fight with ppl online. He’s a bad example for his kids. He’s a bad person.
What is wrong with the wedding at house? everyone is different and does different things you guys are so narrow minded can’t accept anything different from others unbelievable.I grew up in Africa and till today we do our weddings at homes. as for online thing that’s her fault she went on TV and show their private relationship all the negative comments that Bilal received on her because she made him to look that bad she can deal with it now .
WTF was Igor late for exactly? They didn't have any guests!? Also, guarantee Jibri had in fact already written his vows(like he had told his Granny). He just wanted it to look like he can whip up lyrics super quick in front of the cameras.
Right! Igor was 1 of the 2 "guests" at the wedding. I wish the granny would have dressed a little nicer. The arch wasn't worth the wait. 2 sticks with 1 wheat looking bouquet on it. How did Igor even find the place? That house was out in no where. It looked hot & dusty and Jibri is wearing a turtle neck & coat.
Doesn't Emily think getting pregnant again is being selfish, since her dad is really trying to help. Now will of to work longer and she looks like it doesn't bothers her, I wouldn't stand for it but her family is real sweet
Emilys parents definitely failed to raise her to be decent human being. She's another entitled person that hasn't worked a day in her life. It's sad that she's able to procreate.
Question for Emily: how did she felt with all the critics around her persona (which I believe some were really valid remarks, but not all of them, because I don't believe she meant it badly) and seeing herself back, did she decided to improve herself and noticed some faults she truly wants to change? Did some comments help her? Or her attitude for Kobe that was not correct, did she see it herself? Because I believe some comments were just written in order to help her and Kobe improve their communication not to criticise her too much. Also, does she watch psychology in Seattle about her and did she learn anything from that? (I mean in a good way)
Ask Emily why wasn’t she more careful about her dads only rule? Like it’s not hard to be an adult and use contraception. Did she just not care and intentionally wanted the second child. It just doesn’t make sense when they both depend on her dad.
I am married to a Nigerian and it is very difficult. They are brought up very different and when a woman is vocal it is a culture shock to them. If Kobe had been honest, trying to make you happy they you have a great man. Tell Temp to sit to the side and you and Kobe can figure it out.
I'm giving you a 10/10 Melicia, I could listen to you all day. They need to give you a bigger show to host as your honesty, thought process and talent shines even more than Sprinkles suit. Love from the UK. John went up in my estimation. Thanks Melicia & John. 👆🇬🇧❤️
I feel sorry for the dad and Emily obviously didn't do anything to prevent herself from getting pregnant it seems. Her dad should tell her you better get out then get a fulltime job so you can afford your own place cause you're a big girl now time to fly.
If I were Emily's dad I would STILL retire and travel with my wife. Emily can get on welfare, food stamps, and section 8 housing like other adults who have to deal with the consequences of their poor decisions. I think she'd grow up real soon.
👍😎G Girl, good advice. I hope he sees your comment.
only in these days having babies are poor choices.
@@ilovelifelifelovesme773 Yes, if you cannot afford to take care of your baby. It's not her parents responsibility to feed, clothed, and house Emily's children unless they become legal guardians. It's not fair to her parents. Or maybe it is if they raised Emily to be that way.
Yes. That's what I thought
@@GooniesGirl Exactly
A question for Emily would be: What did she learn about herself from seeing herself on tv? What would she do differently?
Being more in tune of other's feelings
@@depressedindonesiangirl939 you'd hope she would but I dought it,she is a brat
Probably nothing
I'm sure she would do nothing differently. This is who she is. It's obvious she's been this way for a long time. "When someone shows you who they are, believe them!"
She probably would have just hidden her selfishness better.
Hope her dad sticks to his retirement and travel plans! Just cuz Emily doesn’t listen doesn’t mean he has to deal with their consequences
I doubt that was true. I THINK he was just trying to get the point across to her that her decisions can effect other people's lives. & That there's a reason he made that a rule. It wasn't just to "because I said so." She never thinks about other people & instead of just hurting his baby girl's feelings & telling her this, he is passive agressive & gives her his retirement sob story. Well Daddy it didn't work. Ur baby girl is still a selfish brat. He needs to kick her tf out, why should he change any plans for his life because of her mistake? Why is everyone else always more worried about Emily's life than Emily is. Its mind boggling!!!
If he changes his plans, it will only enable her to keep abusing there kindness. Emily is very spoiled and inconsiderate. She needs to get on some birth control, get her ass back to work, or work from home online. She needs to stop abusing her parents.
Doesn't the show pay them?
@@sodvine3486 Yes, however not much.
Yes! He’s such a good dad!
The interaction between kobe, and the dad is so sweet. If only Emily wasn't so awful.
Shes just spoiled. Ppl with property and horses have money!
@@annconforti9294 🤣🤣
@@annconforti9294 I agree, her mom and dad spoiled her. If they don't mind Emily and Kobe living in their home, why should we care.
@@robertlacerda5790 exactly. She seems to have a great family! I love the way her father truly embraced Kobe! Kobe seems like a wonderful person, who will have a good impact on Emily.
I have a question for Emily: Why did she think it was more important to spend money on a ring and a wedding ceremony instead of saving so they can get their own place as a family?
Because they have 90 days and one wedding
@@Noname-hs5lx No honey, they can go to the courthouse to make it official - weddings are unnecessary and cost money. It’s a WANT, not a need - especially when you’re in your 30’s and are still mooching off your parents.
@@KPazzz say it again for the people in the back!!!!
Because she exceptionally Selfish and has been "bailed out" of Every.Single.Thing. she has done All her life. How can her parents say "They need to get on their own feet" when for Emily's entire life they have ENABLED All her choices.... This is a Parent Issue All the way.
That's a good question? If they can make baby number 2 while living with her parents. They could have saved up the money to get their own place.
Kobe is the most decent guy this show has ever had. He deserves the world ,and more.
No he’s not. His sexism put me Off for life
Kobe needs to grow a pair,,he can't even stand up for himself,,crying like a crybaby, on his wedding day,,he does what miss Emily tells him,,I lost the respect for him,,because he's a coward,,everyone is so worried about poor Emily's feelings,,self centered brat.
@@sff.f1114 It’s sexist to want your wife to respect you as a man?
@@justright.1836 it’s sexist to say a woman should be submissive what don’t you understand?
@@sff.f1114 Temperature said that not him, all this man has ever asked for was for her to respect him and take his opinions into consideration and realize that there’s two authorities in this relationship and he is one of them do you think she’s any better she’s basically dominating the entire relationship and wants him to be submissive to her not to mention she is extremely controlling and manipulative…
Wanting a partner who values and respects your opinions and decision making and also takes your emotions into consideration is not a wild thing to want in a relationship and doesn’t mean you want them to be completely an utterly submissive to you what part of that are you not understanding
The person that wants a submissive partner in this relationship is Emily not him…no specific gender should have to be submissive to the other unless that is some thing they mutually want in a relationship
Kobe has a lot more integrity than Emily does.
they were raised differently
she a entitled american women and he's an african man lol it's a cultural thing not everyone is raised the same some have humble upbringings some have it handed to them that says it all
Kobe is way too nice for Emily! She has a sweet man in front of her and I hope she shows how much she appreciates him.
I can’t get over how beautiful Emily’s mom is. She looks so young! I hope Emily looks like her mom at her age
I doubt Emily will....
Difícil heim, parecer c à mãe
Mmmm don’t think so 😅😅
Aww man Kobe is a keeper. Emily is lucky that's for sure. That moment between Kobe and Emilys dad was so very very sweet! My tears were flowin man lol!!!!
Shaeeda looks drop dead gorgeous. Good luck girl
Sheeda is a lovely women and deserves respect from Bilal !
Emily is toxic in my opinion
I would be so mad as a parent that my daughter didn’t say “hey we accidentally got pregnant, can we scale back the money being spent on the wedding or is it too late for that?”
They Broke -& can't afford there own house & & still making Babies....-🛑
Stop the madness...🤔
No wonder she waited till after the wedding. She’s not dumb
@@Nanasmama - She s sucking The life out of her parents..
They want to leave & Travel
Girls like Emily, people like Emily, do not care how their actions impact others. She could care less about her Dad retiring.
To hear David say "you're a good Daddy" my heart cried... so sweet
That moment between Kobe and David was the best moment on any episode on any season.
Emily planned that pregnancy!
A question for both Emily and Kobe: Why did they even RISK getting pregnant again when they can’t support themselves and her parents SPECIFICALLY asked them not to get pregnant while staying at their house? There are no “accidents” when you know how biology works…and when the morning-after pill is readily available.
Exactly! Both could have did something to prevent pregnancy
she did it pb bc TLC is going to run her fat mouth on a spin off…
LMAO K. Paz you're on a rolll keep going!!
Neither emily or kobe are very bright, they proved it to the world & their kids will see this see this
Stupid is as stupid does
As a Cameroonian i have say is Kobe is well brought up...He makes me proud .. well done and congratulations....I am soo happy for you both ..
Eve and Mohammed..... what can I say...... she better not act clueless when that man leaves her
Why do Emily’s parents help her so much.. this is why she’s a spoiled adult that gives 0 fucks.
Another question for Emily: Why can’t she get a job (a sufficient job) so that her family can afford to get a place of their own?
Isn't she a nanny?
Because she knew daddy would give them a monetary "wedding gift." Enough funding to last a year and time to allow Kobe and Emily to move out of their basement and get settled in a place of their own, and (hopefully) become self-sufficient. But daddy didn't plan on another grandchild to support! Emily has no shame and she should.💯
@@jays45673 Even if she is, it’s clearly not a job that can support her and her family in their own place.
She is a stay at home mother raising her own children, not having some stranger raise them for her so she can go out and get a easy outside job. Her husband needs to get a side job and support his family. While she raises. The babies.
@@catalinasanchez3294 Kobe cannot legally work until his work permit comes in so it would make more sense for him to stay home with the kids until he can work, and Emily find a suitable job that can support her family.
That conversation between Kobe and Emily's dad before the wedding was so incredibly sweet!! 😭😭😭 She found a keeper for sure!
Bilal, Shieeda and the whole family are GORGEOUS! Were they filming a magazine spread at their ceremony?!?! (That Golddigger clip had me rolling!! 🤣)
Jibri did a FANTASTIC job writing and recording that song!
I want to see a show where Shaeeda’s sisters react to all the Bilal scenes lol
Would be HILARIOUS 🤣🤣‼
No you want to see the bad behavior with the kid sister singing gold digger by kanye.
Emily's parents need to take a page from Jibri's mom
Kobe you really deserve a woman that can adapt to his culture and learn to be a grown woman not depending on her parents for support. My husband is from Kenya and he came to America on a full scholarship for us athletic ability and academics also. We have been happily married for 10 plus years. Grow up Emily. It’s there culture there is nothing wrong in that. Old school raising the man is the man of the house.
whats his culture? getting a woman knocked up 2 times out of marriage with no resources and money?
@@danifranc7011 😂😂😂
@@danifranc7011 really,,good point...and useless too..
@@danifranc7011 right but pick me women don't see that
@@loveyb9090 right listening to them praising a perpetual baby daddy lol
Q for Emily, you don’t listen to Kobe’s wishes on anything so why did you listen to him about not using birth control?
such a good question
I was asking that myself.... 😵
Shaeeda is like soooooo beautiful and and sisters are also equally gorgeous
Kobe’s and David’s moment melted my heart 🥺
Thais and Pats "priest" looks straight off the Island of Staten 😆
Being from just across the bridge from Staten island, I can adequately confirm that 😂
OMG🤣‼ For Real though 🤣🤣‼
Facts 😂😂😂😂
Emily’s parents are too lenient on her, even her sister feels the same!! Kobe’s gonna have gray hair all over before baby #2 gets here 😂
🤪😀😁At Kobe's grey hair. comment, Lol! !!!
Why because he has no money?
@@annconforti9294 No because of stress from Emily.. I’m saying she’s gonna speed up his aging process 🤦🏽♀️ lol
@@briannavandi having no money is super stressful and she's lived a very nice life. Hes nice but nice doesn't pay the bills. He has no education either. They will both be working. She's not the type to be happy working and never seeing her children. I was raised in childcare, my sister wasn't. Childcare is hell for children. We could always tell the children in daycare teaching at church. It was my strong conviction to not have children if they had to suffer through commercial daycare. Emily won't be happy with that, for long. Remember her showing him the big houses? Yeah. She'll be growing up fast, soon. I stayed home with both of my children. Wouldn't change a thing, but you need to choose your partner wisely.
Kanye’s Gold Digger as they’re doing the Cupid shuffle 🤣🤣🤣
Watching Kobe and David share that moment had me in tears ♥️ like it really melted my heart and I was glad to see this because it was a very rough start! Knowing that Kobe doesn’t have a close relationship with his dad, it’s great that he has Emily’s Dad. And he respects him so much knowing that he was scared to tell her parents because they promised not to, and he finally has built a relationship with her parents - like damn. Hopefully, her dad will be able to retire within the next year 🤞🏼
Bilal's ex was not at the wedding because she clearly still has feelings for him. I don't think her heart could take it. It was all good as long as they were just dating, but then he proposed and it was a game changer. I'm sure she's seen plenty women come in and out of his life. Which is why she was expecting Shieda to be a temp, as well. He gave her a very special gift that he did not give the ex. 🤔 or did he and then he took it back when they split? I really like Kobe! Emily not so much. The way she speaks to him as if he's a child or something! I cringe every time!🙄
She's remarried you weirdo, who in their right mind would miss THAT?!
@@ejayemm I wouldn't care if she became a part of a polygamous relationship, married to multiple people! Bilal still has a part of her heart! And she could possibly be having a hard time seeing him fully move on. You weirdo.🤯
@@j.y.8 he's trash and I'm sure she's happy she got away from that narcissistic emotionally abusive a hole
Emily is the way she is because of her parents I do not feel sorry for them. But I do feel sorry for kobe because he just married someone who does not know what accountability is.
I loved the way you explained it all, especially the Cobi and David moments. Very emotional 😢
Wow the sister is so talented. The dress ,and wedding decor were stunning
The dress too she made it. It was beautiful,,,looked nice on Sheeda..
Emily's father knows his daughter is controlling, he saying good luck
Melicia was the best host ever! 💯And those clips in this episode - hilarious! 🤣🤣🤣 Loved it!
2 guests in the desert. It’s not a wedding it’s a photoshoot. Miona and j disaster.
Shaeeda looks low key miserable.
Kobe and Emily are numnuts.
Still prefer watching the recaps than the show this season good job Melicia girl 💕
Emily's parents mistake of not adjusting her behavior and telling her no has damaged their life enough, it's time to show her the door. It's not like she can't go from depending on mommy and daddy, to depending on government assistance. They may have created the issue of codependency, but they shouldn't have to be burdened by it for life. Emily played in the streets long enough, let her live on them now.
Bilal’s kids are gorgeous!
And so well behaved too.
Idk Bilal and Shae's wedding was .. underwhelming. His daughters voice was Incredibly sweet, such an angelic voice.
However, He barely showed her any affection, yet again. Presented her with a keepsake, no kiss, no kneeling to her and looking into her eyes while presenting it..idk their marriage is definitely a business aspect.
Kind of wish Shaeeda had some Pop in her make up or flowers, like a dot of red or blue on her eye corners or a bright flower in her bouquet, I suppose bc we're (well, I'm) used to seeing her with so much color on and around her.
Just can see through all of it as something not quite as genuine as they hoped the audience would think it were..
Also, lol they're complaining about their personal viewpoints directly after the wedding. No romance in their eyes what so ever
He is so cold towards her. It's not even in his eyes. A lot of Islam couples are not on PDA but you can see the warmth in their eyes. Withdrawing affection for control and bargaining with it is a narcissist's move. I feel sorry for Shaeeda, she really deserves better.
yeah I am not sure if she was really happy......there was not much spark in her eyes....
Jibri’s Dad is handsome. The fact that no one showed up is very telling for the faux Serb
“I love you like a son”❤️❤️
Temp kills me everytime. Too much lol
She so luck to have him as a dad wow, that a wonderful man. Her mom too. Blessed family
Emily is damn spoiled😬 She and Kobe are lucky to have parents like that.
Nothing wrong with being spoiled.
Melicia, I look forward to your weekly videos! You always read my mind because you say exactly what I'm thinking at the moment.
Emily is spoiled, selfish, and has a lot of growing up and maturing to do.
Girrrrl that Gold digger clip after Bilal and Shaida's wedding was hilarious! I hollered. Lol😂
Miona's arch was...interesting, but if she loved it, that's all that matters. Jibri's country song was so sweet!
On a scale of 1 to 10, I'll give this 90 Day Fiance season a 5. I can't wait for the Tell All!!
Thanks for all that you do, Melicia! ❤️✨
Wow i didn't see Miona and Jabri's wedding but the intimacy of them two was just super sweet. Kobe is a super sweet guy and that moment between him and Emily's father was one of the sweetest of 90 day fiance moments. Shaeeda girl you looked so beautiful honestly
Emily says "He is the best thing Ive ever had."
Wow...
The bar is set so low for these women and they are so oblivious its hilarious.
Maybe he is you don't personally know that man
@@tyaburgress4981 Im sure he is, thats why i said the bar is set so low.
I want Melicia to host the tell all😭🙏
Gurl, FIND OUT WHAT THE DAD GAVE KOBE!!!! 🍿
Money to help them get settled into their own place and on their feet.
Emily is totally drunk knowing she's pregnant this is really alarming
Same with night before wedding.
I had 2 beers before I knew I was pregnant. My obgyn told me she had an alcoholic mother and the baby was fine. She told me 2 beers are no big deal.
David needs to go ahead with his retirement/travel plans because Emily's lack of responsibility really should not be his burden..🤦🏽♀️🤯🙄
To be honest...I usually have at least more than 1 couple who I bet can make it...but this season I have doubts about every single couples marriage lasting....Getting married when you have obvious issues that you think will ''magically'' be resolved after the wedding is beyond crazy...They all have unresolved issues..🤦🏽♀️🤯🙄
Bilal's son & Shaeeda's youngest sister were not feeling it. Their body language was very telling. They kept it real with the napping (his son) & the perpetually disgusted face (the sister).
Q for Emily, don’t you want Koban to grow up around ppl who look like him? Not just white people?
All the weddings were beautiful in my eyes. It was lovely how they all made do, and still created a beautiful memorable moment.
I agree. I liked the variety of ceremonies. Each wedding had a different vibe.
I cried watching just about all of them but Balil has me on the fence when it comes to him. The song that Jabiri made for Meona was beautiful! I was like "Darius Rucker or Kane Brown need to help the brother out". I totally love them.. As for Theis & Patrick, I'm hopeful for them. I hope things go good for all of the couples -never hope for the worse for any of the couples.
Emily & Kobe - the only thing that got me was her her buying the ring & the new pregnancy. Then hearing Kobe about Emily nursing upset me quite a bit. All things aside though I think they truly can make it BUT need to get off on their own 2 feet. I would like to see them in their own spinoff or atleast on "after the 90 days". I don't want cameras to ruin the relationship as we all know it can & has done that and would be fine with little updates here and there at best especially as they venture out on their own and with new baby. They make a Beautiful couple! He's one good looking guy for sure. Best of luck to all of these couples. Learn from other couples though don't let cameras, media and others get between you all. ❤
This comment is based on the content at 3:15 - 4:15 and has a lot of speculation on how Emily is feeling based on her actions, how Melicia talks about love, and my own journey through relationships.
I LOVE how Melicia mentions kind of off-script about how we're often so used to letting (the wrong) people in that have hurt us and having to heal those wounds which often become scars on our hearts. When we feel like it's too good to be true, we try to block off emotions and hide behind those scars. When the right person comes into our life they will want to help not only to break down barriers but to help heal those scars and sometimes open wounds that never healed. It's hard to see this when you're in a relationship and have not let down your emotional guard but when you let the right person in and you can look back after letting that person in, hindsight is really where things are able to come to light and know that this is "the one".
Also how Emily explains to Kobe that the trust issues aren't really even about him, they've been there probably for many years even before they met (I actually have no idea, this is just speculation from what I see in her and how I have felt in certain relationships) But again maybe she's so used to having these feelings, potentially from relationships she's been in or just from how men have treated her in the past, that she is putting up barriers to protect herself from being hurt again instead of letting him in. All she needs is to open those doors and let Kobe in and see that this man just wants to be with her and love her. He doesn't want to hurt her but with these barriers up she can't see that yet.
Ex wife was the problem all along. She is the one who wanted bilal to get a prenup and upset cause shaeda modified it. Wishing them a very happy successful marriage
No Kobe does not have game. He’s made extremely poor life choices and no end in sight. He’s got no backbone and seems happy with that
thank you !!!!!!
Patience’s DOES NOT equal no back bone…if he was anything but patient their relationship would have been over a LONG time ago
Melicia your comments and clips are hilarious!
No one can ever call miona a gold digger again ....after that wedding.
I haven’t really watched the show in a hot minute but girl you gave me the tea I didn’t know I was missin I can’t wait for your take on the tell all, you spare me watching all these episodes with 0 progress and you are funny AF while being georgeous yass
Wow I really like her dad what a great father. She’s lucky to have parliament like that. I hope Kobe honor his word promises he made her father.
Wish them good luck
Not gonna lie, Jibri's song sounds good. He has potential.
I thought the song was good, even if I can't stand him.
If my 30 year old daughter acted like Emily she’d be out on the street that’s all I’m saying. You not going to disrespect my home and think I’m going to take care of you. You an adult figure it out, id be taking trips with my spouse all over the world not giving an F.
I'd be pissed if I was the pops, especially when stating that retirement was gonna have to hold off for over a year.. how defeating.
Bruh in the shades and Gucci sweat suit 😎 🤣 🤣
So the wedding was at his house because Bilal didn’t want to spend money…. He’s still controlling & acting unbothered leaving her to fight with ppl online. He’s a bad example for his kids. He’s a bad person.
Wait til she finds out he's had a vasectomy...!! 😆
@@marktwain1466 seriously? Omg
What is wrong with the wedding at house? everyone is different and does different things you guys are so narrow minded can’t accept anything different from others unbelievable.I grew up in Africa and till today we do our weddings at homes. as for online thing that’s her fault she went on TV and show their private relationship all the negative comments that Bilal received on her because she made him to look that bad she can deal with it now .
@@bahreldinyagob421 of course it’s her fault smh 🤦♂️
@@bahreldinyagob421 They are not in Africa!
That "arch".....🤦🏿♂️ 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Kobe is a diamond
But a fool, nonetheless, for falling for Emily.
Did anyone else notice why is she drinking what I am assuming is a beer if she is pregnant.
Last episode Emily said she bought a non-alcoholic beer so no one would be suspicious. Notice how she had her bottle in a beer cozy to hide the name.
@@ilovegoodsax ok. I missed that. Thank you. Kobe had the same green beer too.
That was amazing 🤩 keep all the info coming can’t wait for the tell all show
WTF was Igor late for exactly? They didn't have any guests!? Also, guarantee Jibri had in fact already written his vows(like he had told his Granny). He just wanted it to look like he can whip up lyrics super quick in front of the cameras.
Right! Igor was 1 of the 2 "guests" at the wedding. I wish the granny would have dressed a little nicer. The arch wasn't worth the wait. 2 sticks with 1 wheat looking bouquet on it.
How did Igor even find the place? That house was out in no where. It looked hot & dusty and Jibri is wearing a turtle neck & coat.
Shaeeda's a stunner!
Emilys dad is amazing. Sweet man.
Doesn't Emily think getting pregnant again is being selfish, since her dad is really trying to help. Now will of to work longer and she looks like it doesn't bothers her, I wouldn't stand for it but her family is real sweet
Emilys parents definitely failed to raise her to be decent human being. She's another entitled person that hasn't worked a day in her life. It's sad that she's able to procreate.
Question for Emily: Why is your momma proud of you? What have you achieved for yourself? Thank you,
Emily really gets on my last nerves, but they know her, because they created that monster
Question for Emily: how did she felt with all the critics around her persona (which I believe some were really valid remarks, but not all of them, because I don't believe she meant it badly) and seeing herself back, did she decided to improve herself and noticed some faults she truly wants to change? Did some comments help her? Or her attitude for Kobe that was not correct, did she see it herself? Because I believe some comments were just written in order to help her and Kobe improve their communication not to criticise her too much.
Also, does she watch psychology in Seattle about her and did she learn anything from that? (I mean in a good way)
Loveee you threw the Kanye West clip in there with the dancing... Perfect 😂😂🔥🔥💛
Emily’s dad should retire and let Emily and husband figure it out.
Omg she got jokes 🤣 "in that truck nahhhhh" I'm weak 🤣
When you gotta officiate a wedding at 1 but whack wise guy's at 2
HAHHAHA the memes for when Kobe came out of the bathroom in his underwear 😂
Ask Emily why wasn’t she more careful about her dads only rule? Like it’s not hard to be an adult and use contraception. Did she just not care and intentionally wanted the second child. It just doesn’t make sense when they both depend on her dad.
Who would have known Jabri could do country like that?
I hope Emily makes serious changes after watching herself on television
Emily looks EXACTLY like her father !!
I am married to a Nigerian and it is very difficult. They are brought up very different and when a woman is vocal it is a culture shock to them. If Kobe had been honest, trying to make you happy they you have a great man. Tell Temp to sit to the side and you and Kobe can figure it out.
Lool come on now who would want to be at the ex's wedding 😂
I must add that the ET Host for 90 DAY Relay is an awesome host, great job👏🏿👏🏽👏🏿👏🏽👏🏿
I'm giving you a 10/10 Melicia, I could listen to you all day. They need to give you a bigger show to host as your honesty, thought process and talent shines even more than Sprinkles suit. Love from the UK.
John went up in my estimation. Thanks Melicia & John. 👆🇬🇧❤️
Wow that was beautiful when Kobe and her dad hugged etc.
Wasn't the guy with the Gucci jacket the same guy that had took them on the yacht?
Jibrin should switch to Country Music Artist. That song caught my attention though I am not a country music fan!!!!
I feel sorry for the dad and Emily obviously didn't do anything to prevent herself from getting pregnant it seems. Her dad should tell her you better get out then get a fulltime job so you can afford your own place cause you're a big girl now time to fly.