I remember growing up I would envy my friends that had no rules & lived at a "fun house". But the adult me thank God my parents gave me guidance & structure! I agree with JJ yet again! 😂
Me too but most people I know who had super permissive parents say their parents were that way because they were too caught up in their own personal lives to care what their kids did.
My kids are now seeing it too. My son would get so mad I wouldn’t let him drive his car without his license or insurance, he had a car given to him. All his friends had cars too, but not one of them had a license or insurance. Knowing 75% of the kids driving out there have neither, it makes me cringe.
No one talking about the 16 and 20-21 and how she lied about her age and how the parents allowed to let a lot people live in the house almost for free. THIS IS A HOTEL
Parent Put in 0 Effort and there’s No way Nick didn’t Know she was 16 if She was Missing School and Running away and that the other girl just happens to be 16 he Preys on vulnerable young girls who are going to be with anybody to feel “secure”
I’m a single mom, and I can promise you my 16 year old child isn’t going to be moving out of my house. That is a hell of a lot of lazy parenting. The lot of them.
I had a "friend" like that. 24/7 party house. Sex, drugs and alcohol all the time. If my parents knew I would have been locked up for sure. But as stupid teens we had a way around that. Funny thing is out of all of us, I am one of the few, still alive not a teenage mom or addicted to anything. And actually with the same guy for almost 30 years! Who used to go to that house with me. Guess my parents fear they instilled in me worked!
@@JulieDmomof3 I'm 33 and I genuinely never really thought that a free for all type of house wasn't a thing back then. All "aduts" I grew up around were kinda strict and wouldn't accept an bs from us kids
@@Koalabean89 oh no, I lived in a high crime City. So a lot of my classmates had no rules. But I had a very abusive father, that I knew if I tried any of that stuff, my life was over. My mom was very lenient. But if she said No, that was the end of the discussion. The "party house" was ran by a single mother with different fathers of her 3 kids. Who lived off the system. She probably was trying to fill a void in her own life. My kids friends are always welcome in my home. Just with boundaries!
"Being a single mom it was hard to keep her safe"....UM as a SINGLE MOM that is my number 1 priority with my daughter&that will always remain so. It's a scary world out here Tf is wrong with these moms out here
IKR. Can you believe she went to see where her daughter was now living THREE WEEKS later? Most people care far more about their dogs than this "mother" does about her daughter.
I've been a single father of 3 for 7 years now and I've never once brought it to attention for sympathy, or tried to use it as an excuse. She did it for both in her very first sentence.
she said that she had called the police, put her in therapy, and in facilities…i think she was excusing why she couldn’t sit at the door all day to stop her from leaving. you’ve been a single dad for 7 years, but teens are difficult. i know this as an eldest child watching my parents raising teenagers
Agree “being a single mom…..” 🙄 tedious and I’ve been one, never used the term, made my bed and I laid on it. Worked, educated my child, he grown living his own life and thanked me for giving him the tools to be independent. 🤷🏾♀️
Oh give it a rest. She said that she put her in and out of therapy, facilities and called the cops several times. What else is she supposed to do aside form beating her severely or shackling to a radiator. She's trying her best, but she's doing this all on her own while working. She's not saying it for sympathy, she's saying it because her task is significantly more difficult without a husband.
@@AshwinRamdin I believe she knew the people I don't remember the case now. A 16 year old today isn't like 40+ years ago. When I was 18 I had a 15 year old girlfriend, today I'd go to jail, the liberals have destroyed this country to a bunch of weak pansy's
@@AshwinRamdin she called the police several times, her daughter continued to run away, she was institutionalized, on medication, in therapy and all of that. At that point it’s not the parent it’s the child
She's trying, she did everything a mother can do: put her into therapy, called the police, had her in and out of facilities. Other than handcuffing her to the fridge, there's not much else she can do.
The parents have a part to play in these children's poor decisions. So many single mothers carry the guilt of seeing their children suffer without their fathers. She let her daughter chase that boy around out of guilt.
It is not as easy as her mother "let" her daughter chase around that boy. Sometimes you cant control your kids and the more you control them, the worse it became. I used to represent my boss to do some charitable works for orphanage homes. I found out that 90% of the children are not totally orphaned. They loss 1 parent, but they still have another one, mostly a mother with no dad. Their mothers send them there because they have gotten so out of control that if they stayed with them, the kids will completely be ruined by the time they turned 18. These are single mothers who have to work 2 if not 3 jobs just to make ends meet. So they had no choice but to send them to these orphanages. At least they have structure, they have to go school, and probably with less expenses and less stress to deal with. The mom can focus on the other child more. So it is easy to say, these moms let their daughters became like that. The truth is, they cant even control their kids anymore after a certain age. How do u control your kids and monitor them if you have to work 13,14,15 hours per day?
That's what is called bad mother. I'm a single mother and without guilt for my sperm donor decisions on his child. A male role model should be a good man. My father was model for my child. White society keeps women down pushing marriage and family units which have nothing to do with real world.
@@secrets.295 Indeed. People blame parents a bit much. Sometimes a kid, especially a more independent kid, will just do bad things. Especially if they hang out with a dangerous crowd. Sprightly 16 year olds can still do a lot of damage if they want, and it's not like you can do hand to hand combat with them to keep them in line.
This must have been a good day for Judge Judy. Every time one of the people said "Yeah" I was expecting her classic "Yeah is not an answer" but she let a lot slide
She’s trouble. 16 looking every bit, 25. She will lie more in the near future, as she is too immature to receive JJ’s words of advice. Right now, she’s content with being rebellious. I’d like to see a follow up story…
The 16yr old doesn't have a clue who will be trouble until she has had a couple of hard knocks. Even then she probably won't learn that you reap what you sow.
Ohhhh! JJ was talking about Peter Pan. 😂 She said, “Pinocchio and the land of lost children.” I quickly paused and the scenes of Pinocchio blew through my mind so fast! I kept thinking, “Land of lost children? What? Did I forget a big part of Pinocchio?” I kept watching and then she said it! “The Lost Boys”, PETER PAN! Man, she meant Peter Pan! 😂 Phew! I’m glad I’m not losing my memory! 😂 I’m a bit paranoid these days about losing my mind or my memory. Even though I just turned 27 a few days ago. I should just enjoy my youth instead of worrying about old age. 😂
For some reason, I believe that Nick didn’t care that she was 16. Even though they are saying she lied to him and said she was 18, I believe Nick knew she was 16.
Some students I grew up with drove Mercedes Benz and BMW Cars in high school. Some students got angry and keyed their cars. The students took a key and scratched the person's luxury vehicle and left significant damage on the paint because of jealousy. Luxuries are not worth it in my opinion. There are too many fights and arguments because some people say it's unfair for someone to have European cars. This is a very common occurrence and happens to every person who drives a high end vehicle.
@@lisastevens2431 it looks like she was born with dwarfism but had her limbs extended (I know there’s a procedure that can do something like that) but she also looks far too tall to have had that procedure.
Sounds like Nick’s mom needs to fix her priorities. I get it. My mom did the same thing for my brothers’ friends when there was tension. But we never had a hotel’s worth of people in the damn house. You need to draw the line somewhere. Money isn’t free
This situation is bizarrely similar to my own family, even with the name of the friend, my sibling is very unstable and is living in this arrangement at the age of 35, and it’s so bad that our dad is now giving money to the mother of the friend to support my sibling in the house.
My parents were very strict but they were loving, caring and taught me right from wrong. Thanks to them I turned into an independent and responsible adult.
Nick's parents need to stop being their son's best friend and tell him no more people. Did JJ say that there was a married daughter with her husband also?
I don’t know that they stick their nose in as much as they are super permissive and let every Tom, Dick and Harry who shows up crash at their house. The dad is gone a lot as a trucker so it’s probably the mom.
@@maryrodger5130 there was a kid on my street that had a home like that. After the dad had enough and left, people started moving in and the mom had no control over her son. The kids staying there were doing drugs and bringing crime into our once quiet street. My bro was getting caught up in that crap and it was tearing my family apart. We were so glad when they finally left on their own.
@@Kaboomboo I'm in my 70's now but back in the early 80's a man down the block sons began to disappear so I asked him what was going on. His answer to me was that on their 18th birthdays the sons knew they had to leave home. I asked why his response what that was how he was raised in the south. He said 18 y/o boys thought they were men and that there could only be one in the house. But years after his death, we noticed that these grown men were slowly moving back in, the mother was older and had allowed them back in! Some drank and others did drugs and none of them worked. The mother was getting food donations from her church! The father was right to show them the door. Where I'm from the parents can lose their home. Here's hoping your brother is doing better.
@@maryrodger5130 Yup. A lot of comments on here are saying she's a bad mother. But I disagree. Based on what she said, she was trying her best. Judy recognized this, that's why she doesn't chastise the mother as harshly because she knows a bad kid will just be a bad kid. It's one thing if you're willing to just wash your hands of your kid, it's another to explicitly enable them. Mom wasn't encouraging her daughter to do any of those things, hence why she put her in therapy and called the police several times. The mother in your story seems to be enabling them at every turn.
Wow...the defendant's daughter definitely looks older than 16. One can get into a lot of trouble thinking she's older than 18. She looks like she's at least in her early to mid 20's.
I remember growing up I would envy my friends that had no rules & lived at a "fun house". But the adult me thank God my parents gave me guidance & structure! I agree with JJ yet again! 😂
Me too but most people I know who had super permissive parents say their parents were that way because they were too caught up in their own personal lives to care what their kids did.
@@anndeecosita3586 I think so too. And they all seemed love starved.
@@CookieWoods. Same here. ✌️
Facts! I was a belligerent little kid and i ran away from home many times but in the end i am so grateful for having a place to call home
My kids are now seeing it too. My son would get so mad I wouldn’t let him drive his car without his license or insurance, he had a car given to him. All his friends had cars too, but not one of them had a license or insurance. Knowing 75% of the kids driving out there have neither, it makes me cringe.
No one talking about the 16 and 20-21 and how she lied about her age and how the parents allowed to let a lot people live in the house almost for free. THIS IS A HOTEL
My parents would never had let that slide granted I wouldn’t even think about doing what the defendant was doing 😂
Parent Put in 0 Effort and there’s No way Nick didn’t Know she was 16 if She was Missing School and Running away and that the other girl just happens to be 16 he Preys on vulnerable young girls who are going to be with anybody to feel “secure”
This isn't even a hotel; you have to pay for a hotel. They're all living there rent free.
😄😄😄
Not a hotel. It's a HOSTEL!
"theres a whole lotta deadbeats in the house who have no source of income .. Sounds like something outta Pinocchio the Land of lost children" 😳😆😭
Then I saw the defendant's nose. Plaintiff is weird looking too. I would love to see Nick.
She confuses Pinocchio with Peter Pan 🤣
😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣😂🤣😂 that reference made me laugh. I think JJ meant to include both because they are a bunch of lost lying children!
Which part of Pinocchio was that in?
I’m a single mom, and I can promise you my 16 year old child isn’t going to be moving out of my house. That is a hell of a lot of lazy parenting. The lot of them.
Damn all these single moms in the world 🤦🏾♀️
It can be against the law. My 16 year old "thought" she would live with her friend.
One phone call to the cops and I had my perfect teenager back. 🙄🙄🙄
@@teesev6231 Damn all the men who leave them high and dry.
Never say never, some kids don’t listen to parents regardless what they say or do.
Look at the daughter. She looks like a psycho. Can't blame the mom for giving up on her. She did say she had to call the police on her several times.
"Single mom" isn't an excuse to be an uninvolved parent.
That part. My sister was a single mom but my niece knew better to give her that level of aggravation this stupid child gave her mother
She didn't care
You can't stop stupid.
Exactly. It took her 3 weeks to meet the guys mom
How's she uninvolved...she listed a bunch of things she's done to help the child's behavior. Only uninvolved is the deadbeat father
Nick's parents allowed their house to become a free-for-all
Classic case of "I'm your friend first, parent second"...sounds like they want to be a foster house but not legally
I had a "friend" like that. 24/7 party house. Sex, drugs and alcohol all the time. If my parents knew I would have been locked up for sure. But as stupid teens we had a way around that. Funny thing is out of all of us, I am one of the few, still alive not a teenage mom or addicted to anything. And actually with the same guy for almost 30 years! Who used to go to that house with me. Guess my parents fear they instilled in me worked!
@@JulieDmomof3 I'm 33 and I genuinely never really thought that a free for all type of house wasn't a thing back then. All "aduts" I grew up around were kinda strict and wouldn't accept an bs from us kids
@@Koalabean89 oh no, I lived in a high crime City. So a lot of my classmates had no rules. But I had a very abusive father, that I knew if I tried any of that stuff, my life was over. My mom was very lenient. But if she said No, that was the end of the discussion. The "party house" was ran by a single mother with different fathers of her 3 kids. Who lived off the system. She probably was trying to fill a void in her own life. My kids friends are always welcome in my home. Just with boundaries!
The Lsnd Of Lost Boys😂😂😂😂😂
None of these goofballs could survive 1 day living in Judy's house.
Not even the mother.
Or my house either
Any environment that demands responsibilities. These people identify themselves as plants who think they can survive by sunlight only.😒😒😒😒😒
@@Mybpeterson
Especially the mother
Judy's family has a hard time living in Judy's house! Shite, if I was Judy, I wouldn't want to live with myself!!
The mother looks unstable also 🤦♀️
she’s an alcoholic
girls who tend to run away a lot have bad issues with their moms, mom probably is a control freak
They all look unstable
Trash
How?
16 year old with a tattoo? Living with a bunch of 20 something dead beats? Running away from home? ooof.
That's a hard 16. She's gonna look old af by the time she hit 25
With that tattoo and attitude fs
I thought she was at least 20.
My thoughts exactly lol
I legitly think she looks 26
@@dejha.daniel what does a tattoo have to do with anything..??
Fathers, this is why you make sure to hug and love your daughters always! 👨👧
No guarantees that will work
But it's worth a try at least
I got one good daughter and one full of self imposed drama
Men… don’t stick yodick in crazy. If ur not interested in marryin - use a rubber every single time.
"Being a single mom it was hard to keep her safe"....UM as a SINGLE MOM that is my number 1 priority with my daughter&that will always remain so. It's a scary world out here Tf is wrong with these moms out here
No fr!! When the mom said that all I heard was, I want to live my life and I’m not letting my daughter stop me😅
It’s too many single moms out here
IKR. Can you believe she went to see where her daughter was now living THREE WEEKS later? Most people care far more about their dogs than this "mother" does about her daughter.
I think the mother was happy she was moving out, so she didn’t care to check until much after.
The girl kept running away. What's she supposed to do? Shackle her to a radiator?
I've been a single father of 3 for 7 years now and I've never once brought it to attention for sympathy, or tried to use it as an excuse. She did it for both in her very first sentence.
Yup. She uses her "single mom" status as an excuse so she can excuse herself from any self accountability for her bad parenting behavior.
she said that she had called the police, put her in therapy, and in facilities…i think she was excusing why she couldn’t sit at the door all day to stop her from leaving.
you’ve been a single dad for 7 years, but teens are difficult. i know this as an eldest child watching my parents raising teenagers
@@halaltequila547 I don't understand your comment. Are you saying she is neglectful or that it's hard to raise teenagers?
Agree “being a single mom…..” 🙄 tedious and I’ve been one, never used the term, made my bed and I laid on it. Worked, educated my child, he grown living his own life and thanked me for giving him the tools to be independent. 🤷🏾♀️
Oh give it a rest. She said that she put her in and out of therapy, facilities and called the cops several times. What else is she supposed to do aside form beating her severely or shackling to a radiator. She's trying her best, but she's doing this all on her own while working. She's not saying it for sympathy, she's saying it because her task is significantly more difficult without a husband.
lmao, love how she kept referring to the house as "the Land of Lost Boys."
Way to go parents!!! You really have everything figured out.
Blame it all on the parents there ya go. Teens don't know right from wrong 🤨
@@m42037 If your chils is 16, you dont let them live in a stangers home.... It sure as hell is partly the parents fault. It's called bad parenting.
@@AshwinRamdin I believe she knew the people I don't remember the case now. A 16 year old today isn't like 40+ years ago. When I was 18 I had a 15 year old girlfriend, today I'd go to jail, the liberals have destroyed this country to a bunch of weak pansy's
@@AshwinRamdin she called the police several times, her daughter continued to run away, she was institutionalized, on medication, in therapy and all of that. At that point it’s not the parent it’s the child
@@AshwinRamdin didn't you watch the first part? The mom called the police, put her in therapy, she tried. The girl is just out to do bad.
JJ confusing Pinnocchio and Peter Pan is cute
well there is still the pleasure island in pinnochio .. which is a big mess you must admit lol ..
Land of Misfit Toys, Rudolph. Lol! 🤣😂
Liars
I thought she was referring to the children in Pinocchio that turned into donkeys lol
@@julia.c.mcclure92 she was
So is Nick going to jail for dating a 16 year old 🤔
Hello there Jessica, how are you?
My guess is Nick told her to leave when he found out she was 16.
She’s legal depending on the state. So he’s probably not going to jail.
Legal age of consent in many states is 16. I don't agree with it but that's the law
16 is legal age
16. Looks 30.
She’s going to regret her lifestyle when she actually reaches 30 because she’s gonna look 60 by then.
Sounds like Nick needs to be investigated for statutory grape and watched for his inappropriate interactions with children.
*rape
She lied about her age
In many states, 16 is the age of consent.
Reverse the genders and nobody would give a shit!
JJ is the ultimate slay queen. 🤣
And that is why I love her. She doesn't have time for bullshiting.
Clearly this mother drastically failed
Hello there, how are you?
You don't know everything that went on
She's trying, she did everything a mother can do: put her into therapy, called the police, had her in and out of facilities. Other than handcuffing her to the fridge, there's not much else she can do.
The Land Of Lost Boys! 😂😂 This would never fly at JJs house! Or mine!
Nasty old bag...JJ is. Poor kid she's only 16.
😂😂😂😂
I cackled every time she said that!
The lost kids are such high risk for assault and every other horrible thing that happens to children without boundaries.
So true, & many already come from bad situations. So sad but not an excuse to behave badly.
16 and she’s dating a 21 YEAR OLD MAN. Oh hell nah.
We all had that type of classmate in HS...Arriving late in Cookie Monster pajama pants and drinking an energy drink for breakfast.
What sucks is that this guy could have went to jail because she lied to him about her age.
@@theycallmequeen6273the signs were probly clear. Her wanting a glass of milk before bed, her hello kitty lunchbox, watching cartoons in the Morning
She lied about her age
The parents have a part to play in these children's poor decisions. So many single mothers carry the guilt of seeing their children suffer without their fathers. She let her daughter chase that boy around out of guilt.
It is not as easy as her mother "let" her daughter chase around that boy. Sometimes you cant control your kids and the more you control them, the worse it became. I used to represent my boss to do some charitable works for orphanage homes. I found out that 90% of the children are not totally orphaned. They loss 1 parent, but they still have another one, mostly a mother with no dad. Their mothers send them there because they have gotten so out of control that if they stayed with them, the kids will completely be ruined by the time they turned 18. These are single mothers who have to work 2 if not 3 jobs just to make ends meet. So they had no choice but to send them to these orphanages. At least they have structure, they have to go school, and probably with less expenses and less stress to deal with. The mom can focus on the other child more. So it is easy to say, these moms let their daughters became like that. The truth is, they cant even control their kids anymore after a certain age. How do u control your kids and monitor them if you have to work 13,14,15 hours per day?
Not all the time. Some people are so rebellious that it doesn’t matter that you do.
That's what is called bad mother. I'm a single mother and without guilt for my sperm donor decisions on his child. A male role model should be a good man. My father was model for my child. White society keeps women down pushing marriage and family units which have nothing to do with real world.
Guilt? I'd say laziness and poor parenting are far more likely.
@@secrets.295 Indeed. People blame parents a bit much. Sometimes a kid, especially a more independent kid, will just do bad things. Especially if they hang out with a dangerous crowd. Sprightly 16 year olds can still do a lot of damage if they want, and it's not like you can do hand to hand combat with them to keep them in line.
I saw the title of the video pop up on my notifications and I immediately clicked 🤣
Nick mom need to stop taking in strays. She putting her family and these teens in danger
Pinocchio and the land of lost children? sounds like JJ got stuck watching the grandchildren for the weekend lol
This must have been a good day for Judge Judy. Every time one of the people said "Yeah" I was expecting her classic "Yeah is not an answer" but she let a lot slide
Mom needs a backbone. Being a single mom is no excuse mam..
How is Nick not in jail right now? This is disgusting!
She lied to him
Yes she also lie about here age
Love these old JJs
Hello there, how are you?
This feels like a Telemundo or Korean Drama excerpt. This can't be real 🥺😳
Mother needs to take some parenting lessons from JJ.
Love Judge Judy's witt and straight forward approach ❤️❤️❤️ "Land of the lost boys" 😅😆
Part 2 about to get good 😅
That's JJ teach this child some respect!!!
I am utterly confused!
3:29 it really took alot for her to say "yes." And look how pissed she is.
JJ is having none of it.😂😂😂
She’s trouble. 16 looking every bit, 25. She will lie more in the near future, as she is too immature to receive JJ’s words of advice. Right now, she’s content with being rebellious. I’d like to see a follow up story…
Plaintiff looks like she might be addicted 😢
Parents, please don’t let your kids move out and live with strangers. This is heartbreaking.
16 years old with a tattoo & living in with the boyfriend 🤔
Yep she is trash in the making. I bet the boyfriend is a loser.
Future Trailer Park, Welfare Recipients
The woman’s face in the audience when the defendant said she’s 16 lmaoooo 😭
I replayed that part so many times because a few people reacted that way 😂😂
Ahhh…a behind the scenes look into the Bang Bros house.
“Yes” or “No” is *ALWAYS* the correct answer!
Hello there, how are you?
I love and greatly appreciate the format of these videos. Thank you!
The 16yr old doesn't have a clue who will be trouble until she has had a couple of hard knocks. Even then she probably won't learn that you reap what you sow.
I love it Judge Judy bust their balls about saying yes or no!!!! Hahaha
The answer is YES. How many times do you need to be reminded in a 10 second span to be respectful. jc
unrelated but i love the makeup happening on defendant and plaintiff, both. and jj !!
That's too damn much lol these parents need to do better
Ohhhh! JJ was talking about Peter Pan. 😂 She said, “Pinocchio and the land of lost children.” I quickly paused and the scenes of Pinocchio blew through my mind so fast! I kept thinking, “Land of lost children? What? Did I forget a big part of Pinocchio?” I kept watching and then she said it! “The Lost Boys”, PETER PAN! Man, she meant Peter Pan! 😂 Phew! I’m glad I’m not losing my memory! 😂 I’m a bit paranoid these days about losing my mind or my memory. Even though I just turned 27 a few days ago. I should just enjoy my youth instead of worrying about old age. 😂
Pinocchio had “pleasure island” it was full of runaway/misbehaved children. So yes and no on judy being incorrect
That defendant was a smart mouth, disrespectful brat! I raised two kids as a single mom, I know it’s hard.
Hello there Donna, how are you?
The defendant looks like she is 30. I see a life of crime in her future if she doesn’t wake up and get her act straight. Poor mom!
The future for mankind worries me seeing the stupidity of young people today.
These girls are clearly going places in this world 🙄
Straight to welfare
Judge judy has no love lost for teens😂🤣
For some reason, I believe that Nick didn’t care that she was 16. Even though they are saying she lied to him and said she was 18, I believe Nick knew she was 16.
“She runs away, been in facilities, treatments, medications… but being a single mom it’s hard…” epidemic of single mommies.
Epidemic of deadbeat men
I'm lost already. I'm gonna have to start over.
Some students I grew up with drove Mercedes Benz and BMW Cars in high school. Some students got angry and keyed their cars. The students took a key and scratched the person's luxury vehicle and left significant damage on the paint because of jealousy. Luxuries are not worth it in my opinion. There are too many fights and arguments because some people say it's unfair for someone to have European cars. This is a very common occurrence and happens to every person who drives a high end vehicle.
I still drive a crappy, old car, no real jewelry and never brand name purses or other nonsense that would make me a target.
When it comes to rebellious and hostile teens, parents need to let them go before they turn on them!
Dear lord, the eyelashes!!!
There's something strange about her whole face.
@@lisastevens2431 She has the look of someone with dwarfism… perhaps a mild case?
@@lisastevens2431 it looks like she was born with dwarfism but had her limbs extended (I know there’s a procedure that can do something like that) but she also looks far too tall to have had that procedure.
There’s nothing better you can do for your child than giving them a structured, secure, life.
They're the type who don't need an ID for clubs/drinks 😱
You see how JJ is on her. She ain't confused, her mom just doesn't know how to properly demand respect.
Classic tale of the current generation.
This episode is like 8 years old
Classic tale of terrible parents of the older generation
Sounds like Nick’s mom needs to fix her priorities. I get it. My mom did the same thing for my brothers’ friends when there was tension. But we never had a hotel’s worth of people in the damn house. You need to draw the line somewhere. Money isn’t free
When you're a best friend instead of a parent.
Hello there, how are you?
Best friends don't call the police and get you in and out of facilities. She's trying her best.
This situation is bizarrely similar to my own family, even with the name of the friend, my sibling is very unstable and is living in this arrangement at the age of 35, and it’s so bad that our dad is now giving money to the mother of the friend to support my sibling in the house.
So sad, some children are a lost cause. Heart breaking
I knew the "yeah ,yes" was coming the 1st time she said it smh lol
The amount of “yea” that already has been said lol
Judge Judy is going to teach this girl some manners
As a single mom, it is so annoying to hear women use "single mom" as an excuse for things.
"Yeah." 👀
Judy talks about Pinnochio and the land of lost boys. She means Peter Pan.
These young ladies don't look 16. Ladies slow down with the lifestyle or you'll look 50 before you're 30.
My parents were very strict but they were loving, caring and taught me right from wrong. Thanks to them I turned into an independent and responsible adult.
16 and looks like 35. At 16 I Iooked 11 and understood my place as a CHILD. Allowing your child to have men at 16 is sickening. Loose mother. .
As a single mum I was actually more concerned about my own failing life
Nick's parents need to quit sticking their nose in another parents' disciplining?
Nick's parents need to stop being their son's best friend and tell him no more people. Did JJ say that there was a married daughter with her husband also?
I don’t know that they stick their nose in as much as they are super permissive and let every Tom, Dick and Harry who shows up crash at their house. The dad is gone a lot as a trucker so it’s probably the mom.
@@maryrodger5130 there was a kid on my street that had a home like that. After the dad had enough and left, people started moving in and the mom had no control over her son. The kids staying there were doing drugs and bringing crime into our once quiet street. My bro was getting caught up in that crap and it was tearing my family apart. We were so glad when they finally left on their own.
@@Kaboomboo I'm in my 70's now but back in the early 80's a man down the block sons began to disappear so I asked him what was going on. His answer to me was that on their 18th birthdays the sons knew they had to leave home. I asked why his response what that was how he was raised in the south. He said 18 y/o boys thought they were men and that there could only be one in the house. But years after his death, we noticed that these grown men were slowly moving back in, the mother was older and had allowed them back in! Some drank and others did drugs and none of them worked. The mother was getting food donations from her church! The father was right to show them the door. Where I'm from the parents can lose their home. Here's hoping your brother is doing better.
@@maryrodger5130 Yup. A lot of comments on here are saying she's a bad mother. But I disagree. Based on what she said, she was trying her best. Judy recognized this, that's why she doesn't chastise the mother as harshly because she knows a bad kid will just be a bad kid. It's one thing if you're willing to just wash your hands of your kid, it's another to explicitly enable them. Mom wasn't encouraging her daughter to do any of those things, hence why she put her in therapy and called the police several times. The mother in your story seems to be enabling them at every turn.
As a parent how do you allow your 16 year old daughter with her boyfriend??
None of these moms are responsible.. don’t be these people
JJ : “Sounds like Pinocchio and the Land of Lost Children”. 🤣🤣🤣
I'm getting a head ache just hearing the back story..I can't believe ppl live like this and full grown adults allowed all this. Smh
Wow...the defendant's daughter definitely looks older than 16. One can get into a lot of trouble thinking she's older than 18. She looks like she's at least in her early to mid 20's.
This is how parents fell on children giving them no direction no value nothing!!!! this is why later they hang up on the street with high addiction.
Hello there, how are you?
As soon as I heard ‘single mom’ I knew what the underlying problem for all of this was.
Judge Judy please do a reaction video to amber Heard case loll
Hello there Kyle, how are you?
I've seen this one before.
A 16 year old living on her own with a nasty attitude who have the audacity to ask JJ that question
Hello there, how are you?
1:51 WHAT!!!
Me: The way she sounded 😮😂🤣
Drugs, the answer is drugs, it's the thing they are not talking about but is definitely part of the situation
The parents of that home should be ashamed of themselves for taking in someone else's child.🤦🏽♀️
Man of the house is gone a lot so she probably wants other people in the house to feel less alone.
There is nothing shameful about offering a child refuge from a troubled home life if the parent is made aware.
16??!!! She look like she is in her twenties!!
You should be embarrassed to have to continually be told to say yes and no, instead of yea and naw. 🤦🏾♂️😔
All of these folks know how to party very hard.
So is that statutory between the 16 year old and 21 year old?
She also got a tattoo so it sounds like shes a troubled child
technically yes, but depending on the state it could pass with the “romeo and juliet” law.
Depends on the state but imho it's disgusting regardless of legal status 🤢 no adult that isn't a gross predator wants to date a highschooler
@@onionbubs386 i agree. very disturbing.
I agree with these comments! I remember being 21 and there’s no way I’d feel comfortable dating a 16 year old at that time. 🥴