The wabi-sabi path to aging happily | Arielle Ford | TEDxSanDiego

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 30 พ.ค. 2024
  • Arielle Ford shares the uplifting research on how happiness grows with each advancing decade over 50. Discover how to celebrate aging with humor and grace by embracing the Japanese aesthetic of Wabi Sabi which seeks to find beauty and perfection in imperfection. She shares the journey of the fun and freedom of aging authentically. IG @arielleford44 Twitter @arielleford TikTok/NA riellefordfanpage #relationships #aging #TEDxSpeaker #TEDxSanDiego #TEDtalk #longevity #Authenticity Arielle Ford is a leading personality in the personal growth and contemporary spirituality movement. For the past 30 years, she has been living, teaching, and promoting consciousness through all forms of media. She is a celebrated love and relationship expert, author, and speaker. Her mission is to help people Find Love, Keep Love, and Be Love.Arielle is the author of eleven nonfiction books including the international bestseller, THE SOULMATE SECRET: Manifest the Love of Your Life with The Law of Attraction. Other books include Turn Your Mate into Your Soulmate: A Practical Guide to Happily Ever After and Wabi Sabi Love: The Ancient Art of Finding Perfect Love in Imperfect Relationships. Her twelfth book and debut novel, The Love Thief, is a spiritual romantic thriller that takes place in SanDiego and India and is described as Eat, Pray, Love Meets Dirty John.
    She lives in La Jolla, CA with her husband Brian Hilliard, and their feline friends. www.arielleford.com This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @Loupdelou-ly1ve
    @Loupdelou-ly1ve 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Filling the crack with gold is called kintsugi, loving the crack without filling it in is wabi sabi, and both are wonderful.

  • @LisaKalmin
    @LisaKalmin 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I adored this...I am stepping into "queenager" and love, love, love your joy, invitation and excitement to play out the rest of my life! Such a wonderful talk! Thank you!

  • @IyanlaVanzant
    @IyanlaVanzant 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Oh Yea! I Am Wabi Sabi! I love it!!!!

  • @sherisalata157
    @sherisalata157 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Arielle is pure wabi sabi gold. I do consciously choose the RCG-thanks for the great spiritual training, Arielle. 💚💚💚

  • @lshwadchuck5643
    @lshwadchuck5643 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Great outlook. I'm right into wabi sabi housekeeping and lawn maintenance. People live with dirt floors. Bees like my wildfower meadow. More time to play music!

  • @RonDonSDHG
    @RonDonSDHG 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Wonderful speech by a wonderful lady showing everybody how to live with grace and humor.

  • @ShellyLefkoe
    @ShellyLefkoe 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    As a fellow wabi sabi queenager I loved this talk. You are natural and free and that's an inspiration to all of us! Pure fiction is so much more fun and actually, it was perfect! I love you and I love this talk. Way to go girlfriend!

  • @sujatashah1999
    @sujatashah1999 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Enjoyed your talk thoroughly

  • @debraponeman5674
    @debraponeman5674 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Loved this talk! I laughed out loud the many times I saw myself in Arielle's examples! I was really intrigued by the research about the "U Curve"! Fascinating!

  • @Lynneesheridan
    @Lynneesheridan 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Beautiful talk. Love 'Pure Fiction' and YES on the U Curve!

  • @CinemaoftheMind
    @CinemaoftheMind 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Yup, my Gram was still “feeling no different then when she was 18” when she was 88. Genetics? I kinda hope so. Attitude? Definitely!

  • @AtreyeeDay-we9xf
    @AtreyeeDay-we9xf 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Love from India! Sharing it with my mum

  • @LzTish
    @LzTish 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    This talk was wonderful!! Arielle weaved humor with deep, poignant insights that resonated deeply with my heart. Her approach to aging isn't just about the inevitable march of time, but rather a celebration of life's sweet, accumulated wisdom. She painted aging not as a thing to fear, but as a badge of honor. This talk was a beautiful reminder that aging is not merely surviving years, but thriving with grace and wisdom. It's a must-watch for anyone looking to embrace their years with joy and courage!! I LOVED it!

  • @DianeAltomare
    @DianeAltomare 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I LOVE this so much! Aging can be tough, I’m not going to lie. But I am definitely a work in progress in accepting it all gracefully and am growing into being a queenager… I am always so inspired by you and your sage wisdom, Arielle. Your energy, humor, and huge heart made me smile throughout the whole entire talk. ❤ ❤ ❤

  • @Oldhippiechickadventures
    @Oldhippiechickadventures 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Wow one of the greatest ted talks ever!!!! I am claiming myself, wabi sabi Queenager, at 63❤❤❤

  • @heidebanks7799
    @heidebanks7799 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    So fun and flilled with so much freedom for everyone who watches and is worried about a wrinkle here or there. I love how you let go of any judgments about aging. Give me hope!
    Congrats. Arielle. You knocked it out of the park.

  • @sebastienmorand2479
    @sebastienmorand2479 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Still waiting for my after 46 happiness curve to rise.

  • @donaldaltman8474
    @donaldaltman8474 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    How sublime and beautiful a message! This is the way to live life fully and joyfully, Thank you for sharing this uplifting wisdom for the "ages!"

  • @StephanieBavaro
    @StephanieBavaro 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    This!!!! 100%. I am more free, happy, light, playful, and grateful - for everything (or at least finding the gifts, miracles, and blessings in everything) than I have ever been before. I live and celebrate the Wabi Sabi Queenager phase of this adventure of life. Thank you, Arielle!

  • @kimweiss4010
    @kimweiss4010 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Mazel tov, Arielle!! You make queen-aging sound delicious, fun, and a great way to cruise through our latter years.
    Hooray for your fabulous presentation!!!

  • @audreyjacobs1
    @audreyjacobs1 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Absolutely hilarious and so wonderful for aging women to love themselves.

  • @sherylanjanette947
    @sherylanjanette947 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    This was such a memorable talk with a meaningful message…. finding ease with imperfection! We all need a little wabi sabi 😊

  • @MarkEiglarsh
    @MarkEiglarsh 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Wonderful message given by an extraordinary person. Everyone should hear and embrace her words.

  • @pprehn5268
    @pprehn5268 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    The curse of getting older is, "You have to slow down. The blessing of getting older is "You have to slow down.

  • @metamehling4736
    @metamehling4736 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Arielle, WOW, Thank you - I am smiling ear to ear with your joyful spin on being a Queenager Your vision into the joy of turning my golden years into more dessert, innovation, fun and happiness inspires me deeply. I am putting on a new pair of rose colored glasses. You are such a gift.

  • @melw2260
    @melw2260 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I was reading Wabi Sabi by Mark Reibstein to my seven year old last week. I think it’s important to have an understanding of this concept from a young age. This was a wonderful talk.

  • @allisonwondersgars3715
    @allisonwondersgars3715 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I LOVE this talk!!!!! I am declaring MYSELF Wabi Sabi Queenager! Thanks for sharing your incredible joy and enthusiasm and sharing us the beauty (and imperfection) in aging!

  • @brendasorrels5081
    @brendasorrels5081 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    You're so cute! Loved this! Thank you for all of your work - especially your Soulmate book! XOXO

  • @nancydeville
    @nancydeville 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You hit it out of the park, Arielle! There is only one choice in aging and that is acceptance that you so humorously and graciously delivered in this TED talk. You are a gift and an inspiration. I’ll be filling in all cracks with gold from now on. Love it!

  • @TracyAMalone
    @TracyAMalone 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Great job Arielle! thanks for the reminders

  • @leejilli
    @leejilli 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Amazing!!

  • @suzannetodd5555
    @suzannetodd5555 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Arielle!!! So much incredible wisdom and pure heart - thank you! Queenager!!! Perfectly imperfect! Rose colored all the way. Thank you for these insights - I will carry them with me always!

  • @greghilliard
    @greghilliard 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Your message is simple and so very true. Laughing, loving, and living long depend on attitude. Let's spread that Wabi Sabi around with another helping of imperfect perfection. You really nailed it Arielle but I'm hardly surprised. Congrats!

  • @LauraPlumb
    @LauraPlumb 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Brilliant!

  • @user-ph7ps2og6u
    @user-ph7ps2og6u 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Arielle you are amazing!

  • @PeggyMcColl
    @PeggyMcColl 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Fabulous message Arielle. Brilliantly created, wonderfully inspiring and beautifully delivered. Thank you for sharing such a powerful and fun message. You're the best.

  • @maryholmes2
    @maryholmes2 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Completely delightful. Thank you for your wisdom, fun, open heart, and fabulous humor. Well done!!

  • @KathiCasey
    @KathiCasey 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    You are SO much fun, Arielle! I have always loved your work and this is another great one! Thanks for sharing it with us!

  • @EvaGregory
    @EvaGregory 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    OMG, so good! What a fun way to share a beautiful message!

  • @JennieRichards1
    @JennieRichards1 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I love your message and everything you shared! Thank you!

  • @DrBrianKeating
    @DrBrianKeating 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Ariel’s Phenomenal performance 🎉🎉🎉

  • @leisawoolsey647
    @leisawoolsey647 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Love Love Love this!!!
    Your ripple effect is far reaching & I'm so grateful I was kead in to your sphere (& Debbie's).
    Qweenager Life is the only Life for me! ❤
    Well done 👏🏻

  • @kuteblackson2579
    @kuteblackson2579 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I love this Talk!!!! truly Inspiring!!!!!

  • @thomasjohn6187
    @thomasjohn6187 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    wow! I love this!!!!!!!

  • @crystalandrus
    @crystalandrus 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You are a Wabi-Sabi Queen

  • @margaretek5350
    @margaretek5350 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    🙏🤍🦋☺️For real this is awesome! 👏🙌🤗