the moment she said that at the begining, myron would have just asked her "where are they now?" or "where is the ring?" and that would be it.. and she would turn into coping mode saying she ended things with them blablablabla
On these sites, milf is used as more of a body type and reference to age. If she's over 25 and curvy, she fits the category. It has nothing to do with whether she has kids or not. Also, "teen" doesn't necessarily mean they are under 20. Usually just under 25 with a younger looking face. Men usually focus less on the name of the category, and more on what the search results produce. I've heard people from the industry discuss this on podcasts several times. I heard one actress joke that after she turned 28 the only work available was milf, Stepmom, and butt stuff/extreme hardcore.
@@Shadowbanned4Lyfethe biggest creator of fatherless homes is moms and the courts kicking the father out of the kids lives. Of the hundreds of cases of fatherless homes that I've known personally, the dad abandoned the family in only two of those cases, Just two. The rest was mom and the courts.
@@JosephTracey-j4zthe biggest creator is women choosing to reproduce with bad mating options and getting bad results. Reproduce with Tyrone you’re going to get Tyrone results
Narcissism comes with a need to "be perfect" at any cost, hence their mental gymnastics, lack of accountability, and lack of any empathy (for those they have hurt)
@@xavierayayaell546yep. Modern women are highly narcissistic so it’s very easy for them to be delusional and create their own realities. They can easily lie to others because they’ve already lied to themselves.
I work with young girls that are single moms and I tell them it’s best if they stick to dating single dads. They seem taken aback when I tell them this because they “don’t want to date anyone with kids” 🤦🏻♀️ It’s hopeless 😂
I loved how she said men want SM because they're the #1 search engine 😂 that's like to get off... She should look at the % of men who marry SM, not search for prn
I'm a church guy and I can tell you a lot of us won't date SMs. Church doesn't tell us to wife them up, God is big on free will, it's a personal choice. Most of us want Vcards and more likely won't find it in America
Shaming should be brought back, single moms should have no assistance in parenting and should be forced to live with the father of their children forever. That might make them make better choices
I have 2 kids and Im 38. My girlfriend is 20 and I made everything about me upfront and she was fine with it - this is the exception though. I usually had to hide it.
I will say the best he@d I’ve ever gotten was from a 52 yo woman I met at a bar. I never called her though. She did it outside in the car and we went back in after. How many guys has she done that with before me? No thanks. She was smokin for her age but hard pass on relationship with her.
I actively filter out single moms. I'm not looking to take care of someone else's kids thanks! Yeah I looked up and used MILF corn, sure! But I've never dated a single mom and I never will. I would consider maybe a widow but that would be the exception and if I included them I imagine many women would lie about her ex being deceased to trick men into relationships.
I'm 46. Even before the internet was widespread, I was anti single mom. Nobody needed to tell me. I also never had trouble dating, so I was never desperate.
I dated a single mom briefly, it was casual for me as soon as I asked her if she had kids and I told her this. She wanted me to marry her after a few months. I said nope, this isn’t going to go anywhere. Then it was all over.
I found this content for exactly the reason you mentioned at the end 😂. For anybody thinking about dating a single mom, just don't, there are so many pitfalls. And to be honest I knew about them all but I did a ton of mental gymnastics trying to convince myself it was fine. It almost lasted a year and I have to say it could have been one of the biggest mistakes of my life.
Using this woman's idiotic logic she should be worried about getting married and having children with the man because stepmom, stepdad, stepbro and stepsis are up there too in searched terms. Then again, maybe she's into all that stuff because clearly she places a lot of her value on trending search terms.
I’m not “high value” enough to date women with no kids right now. So I can say that the stereotypes about single moms are right. Most don’t have time and if they do have time, it’s because they put their kids on the back burner for me. Either way. No thanks.
She doesn’t get it. They will date you, but they will not keep you. There’s this idiocy that women have and it’s that if someone is dating you, it means they want you. They don’t realize that there’s a difference between dating and keeping.
IF so many men that you want are into u, then why aren't u in a serious committed relationship as a single mom. They keep saying that, but the men aren't committed to them.
The general cultural memetics has conditioned men into believing it's virtuous to date single moms. Even though this is one of the rawest deals a male can ever enter into 99.9 times you will get burned, you will never be prioritized, any efforts will be expected not appreciated. You will never get points or authority from this woman no matter what you do. You are an expendable resource.
I'm interested in a woman because I want to have OUR children together. Experience has shown me that trying to have a relationship with a woman with kids always is different and even difficult when you take second place to her biological children no matter how good a substitute father you are. For so many years of being the eligible age for marriage I would see. a girl and sometimes even get to know her a little only to find out she's mother to another man's children and it seems like they were everywhere and I got so frustrated trying to find a single woman with no success that it finally started turning into intense anger towards these women.I spent my whole youth making myself into the most desirable husband and father that I possibly could to attract a perfect partner but everywhere all I saw were single women who hadn't waited for me as I did for them.And in my book there were no excuses for giving up to another man what belonged to me especially when I was there the whole time.And I'm a very good looking guy as well so to me there were no excuses. And as time went by it got even worse so there were literally no women to choose from who didn't have a least one or more kids. Why can't women just wait and allow themselves to mature for a few years? They'd definitely make better mothers if they had more of the wisdom that comes with age, but so damn many of them want to start as early as 15 or 16 and 18 seems to be the magic number, just out of highschool.What does a little girl like that know about responsibility at they age? Most are still playing games with friends and partying and getting high.Very few have any money and just a penny ante job with no future but want to have sex with or without a family.And so that's why I never got married and am a lonely old man when I would have made the perfect husband and father and that's why you girls lost our on the man of your dreams!
@@jayp9059 no you're wrong I was blessed to have been born to and raised in a happy family and wanted to have the best relationship and family for them the same way that I did I'd say that's pretty damn selfless! And fyi I raised a little girl that was abandoned by her mother when I was babysitting a she never came back to pick her up so how dare you be presumptuous about my condition especially when I've gotten praised by other people than you for my choice and also you don't even know the whole story because I didn't have the time to tell it
Rich Cooper is also a single dad so I'd argue it makes a lot more sense for him to date single moms. Saw a debate between him an single moms and he honestly didn't make a good argument for why single dads don't also have shitloads of baggage
Kurt Warner made it work. Russell’s Wilson we will have to see after he has exited the NFL. Tom Brady is not dating any single moms. Shaq is not dating single moms. So now what is your point?
Why not find some men who have successfully bonded with single moms and do some research instead of making assumptions? There must be some men who actively welcome a ready made family scenario.
Dating single mothers Sure many men will date single women, but will not get into a relationship. The ole saying still holds true, Why buy the cow when the milk is free.
There are chubby chasers as well, that doesn't mean that most men want them to marry. Lots of men will just choose the easiest woman who will sleep with them.
The Problem With Dating Single Mothers Today As Opposed To Days Gone By Is The Mentality Of Women. It’s Now A Badge Of Honor To Be A Single Mother These Days. It Wasn’t That Way In Decades Past. Add To That The Rhetoric That Women “Think Like A Man”, And You Have A Recipe For Disaster.
Look single men don't want to date single women with it but as a person with kids strictly trying to find a woman who doesn't have kids but I would prefer it
This is hard for single woman, that is why it is prohibited in Islam to have any kind of relationships with men. Unless he is clear and honest about getting married. Even though he is, women have to careful about it. You can talk about what is your opinion and importent things withen your marriage. No crossing lines . Be so respectful to each other. Therefore, no relationship what so over until he comes and proposes to you with both family knowing about it. Get married and then have children.
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:00 🙅♂️ *Men date single moms, debunking the myth; the speaker emphasizes that men do pursue relationships with single moms.* 01:51 🔄 *Men's interest in certain adult content categories (e.g., "mil") doesn't necessarily indicate a desire to date single moms.* 03:41 🔄 *The speaker mentions prominent figures in the red pill community who, despite their current views, have previously dated single moms.* 06:12 🤔 *Men may overlook the single mom factor due to infatuation and a phenomenon known as "oneitis," emphasizing unconditional love but acknowledging the potential consequences.* 08:14 🔄 *Men who date single moms may not necessarily be considered "simps"; the distinction is drawn between unconditional lovers and those providing unreciprocated value.* 11:26 📉 *Adding filters, like being a single mom, may decrease dating options logically, but it doesn't mean men won't want someone; attractiveness varies among individuals.* 13:54 🚫 *Disagreement on whether men are inherently attracted to single moms; the speaker argues that men might overlook it but not actively seek it as an attractive feature.* 15:31 ✅ *The speakers express varying views on dating men with children; some are open to it, while others consider personal circumstances, such as fertility issues.*
I have no problem with dates ... said the single mom ... number 1 search is milf on corn sites? So your a corm star or do you not no what milf stands for? Nothing to do with dating
Take it from a guy. We don't want to date you, period. We especially don't want anything to do with your kid(s). It's your kids that have seriously limited your dating options.
@@chowchow2386 Reading comprehension. It's statistically accurate to say step dads are more often found assaulting kids than bio. That was her point. If she had children, she would put protecting them over dating some dude. Like she's supposed to.
@5050TM actually it's a statistical fact that women are the most likely to abuse children and the elderly. Point blank, period. The idea that "all" men are inherent grapists/abusers is a logical fallacy that's been disproven by facts, time and time again. Oh and maybe if SHE learned how to make good choices she wouldn't have to worry about these things. Stop "moving the goalposts" and instead of fabricating a story to fit your desired narrative, stick to what we actually do know. 🤔
"I have no problem getting men to want to sleep with me". She is confusing 'wanting to sleep with me' with 'wanting me'
All women do & they when you tell them this they don't agree, typical..
the moment she said that at the begining, myron would have just asked her "where are they now?" or "where is the ring?" and that would be it.. and she would turn into coping mode saying she ended things with them blablablabla
Even when I was blue-pill I avoided single moms. It just didn't make sense to take over someone else's drama.
"Spoken!!"
And then she thinks that "MILF" being one of the top 2 porn video search terms means that guys want to DATE single moms. Wow is THAT a stretch!
It's MILF not MIWM - Mothers I Want to Marry
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On these sites, milf is used as more of a body type and reference to age. If she's over 25 and curvy, she fits the category. It has nothing to do with whether she has kids or not.
Also, "teen" doesn't necessarily mean they are under 20. Usually just under 25 with a younger looking face.
Men usually focus less on the name of the category, and more on what the search results produce.
I've heard people from the industry discuss this on podcasts several times.
I heard one actress joke that after she turned 28 the only work available was milf, Stepmom, and butt stuff/extreme hardcore.
Facts
They have done studies on women who have children out of wedlock and they are less likely to be get married compared to women who are childless.
Studies also show children do worse in the care of a single mother. If you get her pregnant take responsibility.
@@Shadowbanned4Lyfethe biggest creator of fatherless homes is moms and the courts kicking the father out of the kids lives. Of the hundreds of cases of fatherless homes that I've known personally, the dad abandoned the family in only two of those cases, Just two. The rest was mom and the courts.
@@JosephTracey-j4z that sounds like a pretty hyperbolic statement. Source for that?
@@JosephTracey-j4zthe biggest creator is women choosing to reproduce with bad mating options and getting bad results. Reproduce with Tyrone you’re going to get Tyrone results
I know thats what the studies show, but thats so contradictory to what we see daily. Almost all people i know end up marrying these single moms
It's just her cope. Lots of women do this ridiculously illogical B.S., after the chad father leaves or just keeps cheating on them 'til they leave.
It's hilarious how deluded they are. I honestly believe they have to lie to themselves to just protect their ego
Exactly, women really do not like reality if it hurts their feelings.
Narcissism comes with a need to "be perfect" at any cost, hence their mental gymnastics, lack of accountability, and lack of any empathy (for those they have hurt)
That's exactly it. Due to their nature, women will lie to each other knowingly. It's about stature. Hoe-math had video on subject.
@@xavierayayaell546yep. Modern women are highly narcissistic so it’s very easy for them to be delusional and create their own realities. They can easily lie to others because they’ve already lied to themselves.
Searching for corn in private to satisfy your urge is not even remotely similar to searching for someone for a relationship.
It's amazing how women try to tell men what we want and don't want
You'd think after all these thousands of years women would understand that male sexual interest and male partnership desires aren't the same.
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They know. They know all the stuff we say to them. They are just playing games.
I work with young girls that are single moms and I tell them it’s best if they stick to dating single dads. They seem taken aback when I tell them this because they “don’t want to date anyone with kids” 🤦🏻♀️ It’s hopeless 😂
They want men to man up and take care of their kids but they themselves won't woman up and be stepmoms themselves
She said she has no problem getting the man she wants. Didn't hear that she was able to keep the man she wants. Big L, smash and dash.
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there is stupid and then there is this girl
She based her analysis on a porn search.
Ya I just found out I'm a lesbian
She gets men but they don't commit.
That’s why she’s a single mom lol
I loved how she said men want SM because they're the #1 search engine 😂 that's like to get off... She should look at the % of men who marry SM, not search for prn
Yeah, those simps just wanna SMASH, not be in a long-term relationship.
Simps will definitely date and marry single moms.. most have little, to no standards...
I'm a church guy and I can tell you a lot of us won't date SMs. Church doesn't tell us to wife them up, God is big on free will, it's a personal choice. Most of us want Vcards and more likely won't find it in America
Yet still many of them go back to church to trick and scamm a beta simp with money
She doesn’t know the difference between being liked and valued
She works for a "corn" search company. Seriously?
Life on easy mode.
Imagine her job interview 😂😂😂😂
I bet she blew that interview 😂😂😂😂
There is no way anyone should marry a single mother........why would anyone do something so foolish?
Shaming should be brought back, single moms should have no assistance in parenting and should be forced to live with the father of their children forever. That might make them make better choices
Problem here is she believed a pick up line. Telling a woman he likes she is a good mom.
The fact that single moms still have more options than most good hard working men shows how easy women have it in dating.
What sane man without kids would make a woman his #1, so he can be her #2,3,4,etc
The fact that modern women see absolutely no difference in the women who men love and the women who men lust is astounding.
I have 2 kids and Im 38. My girlfriend is 20 and I made everything about me upfront and she was fine with it - this is the exception though. I usually had to hide it.
I will say the best he@d I’ve ever gotten was from a 52 yo woman I met at a bar. I never called her though. She did it outside in the car and we went back in after. How many guys has she done that with before me? No thanks. She was smokin for her age but hard pass on relationship with her.
I actively filter out single moms. I'm not looking to take care of someone else's kids thanks!
Yeah I looked up and used MILF corn, sure! But I've never dated a single mom and I never will. I would consider maybe a widow but that would be the exception and if I included them I imagine many women would lie about her ex being deceased to trick men into relationships.
I don't want to date single moms. Its not a myth.
But a night of fun. Im cool with it.
She's confusing master bait with LTR search.
Only simps date 304 momZ😢😢😢
She actually used pron searches as her dating evidence… astounding.
women live their life off of whats possible and not whats probable.
They date them, but overwhelmingly don’t commit to them.
Exactly... Ive slept with plenty of women with kids but have zero desire to even date them seriously
I'm 46. Even before the internet was widespread, I was anti single mom. Nobody needed to tell me. I also never had trouble dating, so I was never desperate.
Equating porn searches with relationship desire is dumb.
Totally! Reaching hard for "proof"... lol
0:28 Difference is between getting a guy and keeping him.
I dated a single mom briefly, it was casual for me as soon as I asked her if she had kids and I told her this. She wanted me to marry her after a few months. I said nope, this isn’t going to go anywhere. Then it was all over.
I found this content for exactly the reason you mentioned at the end 😂. For anybody thinking about dating a single mom, just don't, there are so many pitfalls. And to be honest I knew about them all but I did a ton of mental gymnastics trying to convince myself it was fine. It almost lasted a year and I have to say it could have been one of the biggest mistakes of my life.
Using this woman's idiotic logic she should be worried about getting married and having children with the man because stepmom, stepdad, stepbro and stepsis are up there too in searched terms. Then again, maybe she's into all that stuff because clearly she places a lot of her value on trending search terms.
I’m not “high value” enough to date women with no kids right now. So I can say that the stereotypes about single moms are right. Most don’t have time and if they do have time, it’s because they put their kids on the back burner for me. Either way. No thanks.
And where is the men she wants?😂
Where is the ring?
Oh wait she is single by choice but not her choice
Having s** with does not mean committing to.
She falsely conflated "milf" with "single mother".
While there is overlap, they are not the same thing in all cases.
When you hear the terms “normalize” or “debunk the myth” that means a lie is coming.
She doesn’t get it. They will date you, but they will not keep you.
There’s this idiocy that women have and it’s that if someone is dating you, it means they want you. They don’t realize that there’s a difference between dating and keeping.
So her argument is fantasy equals reality. Super intelligent take. 😂
IF so many men that you want are into u, then why aren't u in a serious committed relationship as a single mom. They keep saying that, but the men aren't committed to them.
Is Richard Cooper the guy that sells soap 🧼
Rich cooperation has always been and will always be a LOSER.
The general cultural memetics has conditioned men into believing it's virtuous to date single moms. Even though this is one of the rawest deals a male can ever enter into 99.9 times you will get burned, you will never be prioritized, any efforts will be expected not appreciated. You will never get points or authority from this woman no matter what you do. You are an expendable resource.
Toutube ...YOU ARE BRUTAL...they tried to censor me for speaking my mind
I'm interested in a woman because I want to have OUR children together. Experience has shown me that trying to have a relationship with a woman with kids always is different and even difficult when you take second place to her biological children no matter how good a substitute father you are. For so many years of being the eligible age for marriage I would see. a girl and sometimes even get to know her a little only to find out she's mother to another man's children and it seems like they were everywhere and I got so frustrated trying to find a single woman with no success that it finally started turning into intense anger towards these women.I spent my whole youth making myself into the most desirable husband and father that I possibly could to attract a perfect partner but everywhere all I saw were single women who hadn't waited for me as I did for them.And in my book there were no excuses for giving up to another man what belonged to me especially when I was there the whole time.And I'm a very good looking guy as well so to me there were no excuses. And as time went by it got even worse so there were literally no women to choose from who didn't have a least one or more kids. Why can't women just wait and allow themselves to mature for a few years? They'd definitely make better mothers if they had more of the wisdom that comes with age, but so damn many of them want to start as early as 15 or 16 and 18 seems to be the magic number, just out of highschool.What does a little girl like that know about responsibility at they age? Most are still playing games with friends and partying and getting high.Very few have any money and just a penny ante job with no future but want to have sex with or without a family.And so that's why I never got married and am a lonely old man when I would have made the perfect husband and father and that's why you girls lost our on the man of your dreams!
Hmm it kinda sounds like you love yourself a bit too much
@@jayp9059 no you're wrong I was blessed to have been born to and raised in a happy family and wanted to have the best relationship and family for them the same way that I did I'd say that's pretty damn selfless! And fyi I raised a little girl that was abandoned by her mother when I was babysitting a she never came back to pick her up so how dare you be presumptuous about my condition especially when I've gotten praised by other people than you for my choice and also you don't even know the whole story because I didn't have the time to tell it
They have all but removed anything under the category "mature" that isnt grandmas. If a guy wants mature women 30-50 "milf" is your only option
Saying is MILF and not MILM (Mom I Want to Marry)...
Rich Cooper is also a single dad so I'd argue it makes a lot more sense for him to date single moms. Saw a debate between him an single moms and he honestly didn't make a good argument for why single dads don't also have shitloads of baggage
Kurt Warner made it work. Russell’s Wilson we will have to see after he has exited the NFL. Tom Brady is not dating any single moms. Shaq is not dating single moms. So now what is your point?
Why not find some men who have successfully bonded with single moms and do some research instead of making assumptions? There must be some men who actively welcome a ready made family scenario.
Dating single mothers Sure many men will date single women, but will not get into a relationship. The ole saying still holds true, Why buy the cow when the milk is free.
There are chubby chasers as well, that doesn't mean that most men want them to marry. Lots of men will just choose the easiest woman who will sleep with them.
To be fair, there are a lot of simps dating single Mothers.
What about widows?
The Problem With Dating Single Mothers Today As Opposed To Days Gone By Is The Mentality Of Women. It’s Now A Badge Of Honor To Be A Single Mother These Days. It Wasn’t That Way In Decades Past. Add To That The Rhetoric That Women “Think Like A Man”, And You Have A Recipe For Disaster.
Guys can't resist single mothers!
Sure we can
she can get a guy that's eazy! can she get a Good Man to put a ring on it? now that`s another issue.
The Asian girl in the background is the only one worthy of my attention!!
Look single men don't want to date single women with it but as a person with kids strictly trying to find a woman who doesn't have kids but I would prefer it
Patrice O Neal.....I see your picture.
I miss hearing from you.
Just reconfirming that Think Before You Sleep and Brittany Venti are lowkey an item.
Low-key? They're engaged and mention they're together all the time.
This is hard for single woman, that is why it is prohibited in Islam to have any kind of relationships with men. Unless he is clear and honest about getting married. Even though he is, women have to careful about it. You can talk about what is your opinion and importent things withen your marriage. No crossing lines . Be so respectful to each other. Therefore, no relationship what so over until he comes and proposes to you with both family knowing about it. Get married and then have children.
dating single mom its depends if been married few times that a red flag
Your skill at English is a red flag. unless your drunk, and that's a different red flag.
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
00:00 🙅♂️ *Men date single moms, debunking the myth; the speaker emphasizes that men do pursue relationships with single moms.*
01:51 🔄 *Men's interest in certain adult content categories (e.g., "mil") doesn't necessarily indicate a desire to date single moms.*
03:41 🔄 *The speaker mentions prominent figures in the red pill community who, despite their current views, have previously dated single moms.*
06:12 🤔 *Men may overlook the single mom factor due to infatuation and a phenomenon known as "oneitis," emphasizing unconditional love but acknowledging the potential consequences.*
08:14 🔄 *Men who date single moms may not necessarily be considered "simps"; the distinction is drawn between unconditional lovers and those providing unreciprocated value.*
11:26 📉 *Adding filters, like being a single mom, may decrease dating options logically, but it doesn't mean men won't want someone; attractiveness varies among individuals.*
13:54 🚫 *Disagreement on whether men are inherently attracted to single moms; the speaker argues that men might overlook it but not actively seek it as an attractive feature.*
15:31 ✅ *The speakers express varying views on dating men with children; some are open to it, while others consider personal circumstances, such as fertility issues.*
@Ace Nate, who should single dads date, find single moms or those without kids
Love ya Nate ❤️🇨🇦
I quit watching whatever because Brian is so Milk toast limp wristed and scared to speak truth
Yup. The only good material comes out when they tell on themselves.
I agree Brian is trying to hard to not get demonetized. But lately he has started to really assert himself.
I am telling you guys. Drugs.
I have no problem with dates ... said the single mom ... number 1 search is milf on corn sites? So your a corm star or do you not no what milf stands for? Nothing to do with dating
Yall men are dead wrong Bc my sisterhood always agreed with me and i agreed with what they say 😂😂
This guy can't afford heat in his house. When I do a podcast, I have furnace and don't need a jacket.
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As a woman, I’d be so worried that any man that wanted to date me would be doing so to have access to my kids. Predators are not stupid.
Take it from a guy. We don't want to date you, period. We especially don't want anything to do with your kid(s). It's your kids that have seriously limited your dating options.
@@chowchow2386 I didn’t have kids until I got married so 🤷🏻♀️
@@chowchow2386 I’m married so no chance of us dating 😂
@@chowchow2386 Reading comprehension. It's statistically accurate to say step dads are more often found assaulting kids than bio. That was her point. If she had children, she would put protecting them over dating some dude. Like she's supposed to.
@5050TM actually it's a statistical fact that women are the most likely to abuse children and the elderly. Point blank, period.
The idea that "all" men are inherent grapists/abusers is a logical fallacy that's been disproven by facts, time and time again.
Oh and maybe if SHE learned how to make good choices she wouldn't have to worry about these things. Stop "moving the goalposts" and instead of fabricating a story to fit your desired narrative, stick to what we actually do know. 🤔
Personally I'm fine with dating single moms only if their kids are from the same father.
what?
He said personally he's fine dating single moms only if their kids are from the same father @@tanyalalaby937
Only if you are also a single dad, and I don’t even recommend that.
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