Thank you for making this so crystal clear. I was watching in amazement and dumb as it may sound I never connected the need for emotional nuances to make this distinction of whether it was intuition. It’s been framed in other terms that didn’t connects the dots in my mind. I suddenly feel like I might have the key to understanding me. I don’t know what happened …maybe the delivery or the words but I’m having weird good things happen the I can deduce is more curiosity about the impact a language for nuanced emotions, (You said it more eloquently) and it’s impact on everything. I’m going to watch again so it sticks because this seems critical and something I have no recall of being taught this or remember it said this way and I’m seeing something new. Thank you!❤️ Can’t wait to check out more videos.
Question: What is the link to whatever came before this, which you refer to as "what we were just talking about?" Determining fear, or a fear-based compulsion, from intuition has been a life-long struggle for me, and the impact isn't limited to relationships. I'd love more content like this.
Hi Briana! I would like to know your thoughts on something and maybe this could be the topic of your next vídeo. You talk about being ok with ourselves and accepting no one is coming to save us psychologically. And I understand that, I think i'm working on that, but so often i feel like I need a hug so bad. I feel like i'm accepting that no one is coming to save me psychologically, but I still long for this hug. Psychologically we can be satisfied with ourselves, but a physical hug, THAT is something I can't give to myself. Am I making sense?
@@JC_124 Thank you for watching it for commenting on this video. I think what it sounds like is being communicated in the subtext of your question is that; you believe that if you are someone who is self-possessed and inhabits your own authority that somehow you have to be alone. Or that you don’t rely on others for support when you need it, or that you have to be some kind of island in order to be “healed enough”. And that is not what I’m saying. We could never be alone if we tried. We are social creatures. And we must interact with each other no matter what. What stops you from getting a hug from a friend? What stops you from hiring a cuddle buddy? What stops you from finding ways of getting that need met in relationship to others? or buying a heated compressing blanket. Or spending an hour in a deprivation tank. Or going to the sauna. Or getting a massage. Often times when we are looking for physical contact there’s usually A hormonal and chemical desire for stimulation and there’s no reason we can’t get that met outside of romantic partnership. Is that really what it’s about though? Is the hug really just a hug? Even so, it Doesn’t mean you can’t get that met with someone who has loving and caring intention towards you. In fact acknowledging that it is something that you want and a part of the way you want to interact with people, is a very self-sovereign thing to discover about yourself. So then you go about getting that need met. Underneath it however is usually a fear that if you let somebody hug you then all your emotions will attach to them and you’ll be romantically enthralled. So really what THAT requires is going in and establishing boundaries first. So the answer is yes, you can be secure and still want a hug from somebody. And I’d recommend that you go get it.
I'm watching this video to understand if i should break up with my partner because of true valid reasons or i'm just in survival mode and need to take some urgent action to relieve the energy and anxiety (I'm fearful avoidant)
Determining fear, or a fear-based compulsion, from intuition has been a life-long struggle for me, and the impact isn't limited to relationships. I'd love more content like this.
Thank you so much for the compliment! It's always rewarding to hear that the content resonates and helps people in their personal journeys. The complexities of human relationships and emotions offer endless nuances, and it's my goal to shed light on those areas to help people understand themselves and others better. Your kind words serve as a wonderful affirmation that the message is getting through. Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts and for your support. Wishing you all the best! 😊
Discernment questions Don't label everything anxiety/stress/bad Try to distinguish subtleties 1. Does it Feel too urgent 2 r u comparing things that shouldn't be compared (or jealousy) 3 is there afraid of scarcity 4. Is it too black white 5 are u too concerned about what others think 6. Are u trying to get relief 7 r u trying to control 8 r u trying to attach ur self worth to this thing If so you are more likely acting from fear and not intuition
If I am feeling like I need to move on because I don’t feel like I can be the true person I want to be I feel stressed because I do feel like no matter how good I do the person is only ok as long as they are in control and everything goes their way what advice would you give me! I am a empath and I am a people pleaser, but I have learned boundaries and to stand up for myself I am loyal and honest and I want to be loved for my and not be beat up mentally and emotionally! I have a hard time with people trying to control me but I am imperfect and they are perfect. I guess I want love and appreciation from my boyfriend not the entitlement that they want me to give them
Let me know your thoughts and experiences in the comments below!
I take all comments into consideration when creating new video content like this.
Thank you for making this so crystal clear. I was watching in amazement and dumb as it may sound I never connected the need for emotional nuances to make this distinction of whether it was intuition. It’s been framed in other terms that didn’t connects the dots in my mind. I suddenly feel like I might have the key to understanding me. I don’t know what happened …maybe the delivery or the words but I’m having weird good things happen the I can deduce is more curiosity about the impact a language for nuanced emotions, (You said it more eloquently) and it’s impact on everything. I’m going to watch again so it sticks because this seems critical and something I have no recall of being taught this or remember it said this way and I’m seeing something new. Thank you!❤️ Can’t wait to check out more videos.
Question: What is the link to whatever came before this, which you refer to as "what we were just talking about?" Determining fear, or a fear-based compulsion, from intuition has been a life-long struggle for me, and the impact isn't limited to relationships. I'd love more content like this.
Hi Briana! I would like to know your thoughts on something and maybe this could be the topic of your next vídeo.
You talk about being ok with ourselves and accepting no one is coming to save us psychologically. And I understand that, I think i'm working on that, but so often i feel like I need a hug so bad. I feel like i'm accepting that no one is coming to save me psychologically, but I still long for this hug. Psychologically we can be satisfied with ourselves, but a physical hug, THAT is something I can't give to myself.
Am I making sense?
@@JC_124 Thank you for watching it for commenting on this video. I think what it sounds like is being communicated in the subtext of your question is that; you believe that if you are someone who is self-possessed and inhabits your own authority that somehow you have to be alone. Or that you don’t rely on others for support when you need it, or that you have to be some kind of island in order to be “healed enough”. And that is not what I’m saying. We could never be alone if we tried. We are social creatures. And we must interact with each other no matter what. What stops you from getting a hug from a friend? What stops you from hiring a cuddle buddy? What stops you from finding ways of getting that need met in relationship to others? or buying a heated compressing blanket. Or spending an hour in a deprivation tank. Or going to the sauna. Or getting a massage. Often times when we are looking for physical contact there’s usually A hormonal and chemical desire for stimulation and there’s no reason we can’t get that met outside of romantic partnership. Is that really what it’s about though? Is the hug really just a hug? Even so, it Doesn’t mean you can’t get that met with someone who has loving and caring intention towards you. In fact acknowledging that it is something that you want and a part of the way you want to interact with people, is a very self-sovereign thing to discover about yourself. So then you go about getting that need met. Underneath it however is usually a fear that if you let somebody hug you then all your emotions will attach to them and you’ll be romantically enthralled. So really what THAT requires is going in and establishing boundaries first. So the answer is yes, you can be secure and still want a hug from somebody. And I’d recommend that you go get it.
I'm watching this video to understand if i should break up with my partner because of true valid reasons or i'm just in survival mode and need to take some urgent action to relieve the energy and anxiety
(I'm fearful avoidant)
Your coaching helped me turn my sadness into CONSIDERING the other ppl’s perspectives, and not just BELIEVING their thoughtless 🌲gifts
Determining fear, or a fear-based compulsion, from intuition has been a life-long struggle for me, and the impact isn't limited to relationships. I'd love more content like this.
The discerning questions were so good. I’m gonna write them down. Thank you 🙏
How about a video of wishful thinking Vs intuition? It's tricky to distinguish sometimes
Great - I can see there is a control thing here vs an intuition thing
This makes alot of sense...gives me more tools to decipher....thank you very helpful
Briana, this video is INCREDIBLE. Thank you so much. You have a gift.
@reynaldosrepairs Thank you for commenting. I’m glad the content has been helpful!
Yes I reckon you got it correct, I no this you’re good at this, you got a gift for this.
Thank you so much for the compliment! It's always rewarding to hear that the content resonates and helps people in their personal journeys. The complexities of human relationships and emotions offer endless nuances, and it's my goal to shed light on those areas to help people understand themselves and others better. Your kind words serve as a wonderful affirmation that the message is getting through. Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts and for your support. Wishing you all the best! 😊
I never experienced appropriate anger until I was very adult and it was very uncomfortable for me.
Thank you Briana. This is very helpful to me!!
bronson mcdonald Glad you liked this video! Thank you for commenting.
The 'pain' or the 'pleasure' in the yelling
Discernment questions
Don't label everything anxiety/stress/bad
Try to distinguish subtleties
1. Does it Feel too urgent
2 r u comparing things that shouldn't be compared (or jealousy)
3 is there afraid of scarcity
4. Is it too black white
5 are u too concerned about what others think
6. Are u trying to get relief
7 r u trying to control
8 r u trying to attach ur self worth to this thing
If so you are more likely acting from fear and not intuition
WOW genius!
Well said!
Great content, thank you.
Glad it was helpful!
Because if they yell out of frustration....they usually take that out on the closest person to them.
Thank you for commenting and for sharing your experience, @user-dn9vd9xg9p. Sending you well wishes on your journey.
If I am feeling like I need to move on because I don’t feel like I can be the true person I want to be I feel stressed because I do feel like no matter how good I do the person is only ok as long as they are in control and everything goes their way what advice would you give me! I am a empath and I am a people pleaser, but I have learned boundaries and to stand up for myself I am loyal and honest and I want to be loved for my and not be beat up mentally and emotionally! I have a hard time with people trying to control me but I am imperfect and they are perfect. I guess I want love and appreciation from my boyfriend not the entitlement that they want me to give them
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