I want to preface this by saying that I am 34 with no children (and no desire to have them), a full time job, and a masters degree. I have tattoos and piercings and spend a lot of time watching horror movies and listening to rock music. In short, I have very different views on and in life than you, but I truly enjoy your videos. They make me smile. I see a family living life. I see kids being kids (and incredibly happy kids at that). I see a mom and dad who are doing their best for their kids, and I see kids who love their mom and dad. Being a mom is hard. There’s a reason I decided it wasn’t for me. And I’m sorry people who don’t know you can be so judgmental and just make it worse.
I have been a little curious why women of the younger generation dont want children. I feel like conservative women still want to be moms and they have chosen supportive husbands. Just curious if its no interest in giving a life, would they rather focus on themselves, dont think they would do well...whats with this trend?
Thank you for being so real Joy, and not being a "I'm loving every moment" mom (which obviously is never the case for anyone). You're helping other moms more than you know!
I appreciate your openness. I’ve followed your family for years, so is really great to see how well you are doing. Figuring out what YOU really want to do as hobbies, like dance lessons with Austin. We only see about 30 minutes of your life per week, but it seems to me you two are really great parents.
You are such a breath of fresh air! I love your sweetness and honesty. And can we take a moment to say how stinking cute Gunner is!? What a cutie pie. All of your kids are so amazing. Good job, Mama!
I've seen many people our age saying that we are resorting back to 'Grandma and Grandpa' hobbies- but I think it's fun! I knit and crochet and have even started an interest in growing my own plants which is so weird! I've never been that way before, nor did I ever think I would be one of those people.
Thank you, Lord.🙌. As an older person, I thank God that any young person takes an interest in what is real and natural and God-made instead of man-made, artificial stuff.
Joy you are a wonderful person, mother and wife. I ready enjoy watching You, Austin and the little ones and your adventures on TH-cam , I always look forward to seeing new posts from you guys. The little ones are growing so fast and they are so adorable. Love to you all.
You are so wise Joy. Everyone that says they are happy every day or all the time are not genuine. Adjustment as a mom is hard. I am so glad you are not fake and that’s what I love about your family too❤hang on to your relationship with Jesus
I am 52 and going to be starting to go to therapy. I feel it may help me. Keep that in the back of your mind….it is ok to have an outside person who can help sort through your feelings.
You sharing from the heart will help many young woman. Try not to be too hard on yourself as you are a young mom of 3 adorable children and are doing a great job with them. It’s understandable that you would be tried/ exhausted as it’s a lot of work. It’s also ok to admit that you had a rough time with the little ones and need a break ie. maybe your younger sisters can help out to give you some breathing room. Wishing for you all God’s Blessings.❤🇨🇦
Im 38, married with no kids (by choice). I will have my masters degree by end of the year. I would say we probably have zero in common (im not religious or an outdoor person) but I appreciate you wanting to put yoursef out there and be your real authentic self. No one is perfect, anyone who says otherwise is dillusional. Having been in the spotlight oh so briefly myself its hard watching people judge you without actually knowing you. The important thing is to be true to yourself and forget the judgemental ones, because they obviously have nothing better to do than sit on their high horse and judge you.
You are blessed but you're also human! It's okay to feel the negative feelings. It's unhealthy to repress those feelings. Austin seems to have a healthy way to pull you out of them and that's good. 💞 You made such a great point about the first kiss. No one should have their first intimate moment in front of a bunch of people. I never thought of it that way.
Thank you for sharing this! I’ve had a rough week due to my chronic illness, and it’s been tempting to slip into self-pity and feel jealous of healthy people who seemingly have normal lives. But your video is a refreshing reminder that everyone has hidden struggles, and we can all still find reasons to feel grateful and blessed.
When you're on an aeroplane you are told that in times of trouble see to your own mask first so you are able to look after others. As a mother of only one child, I know that time on your own is invaluable. Don't feel guilty for needing space, it's the hardest job you'll ever do. You do it brilliantly. But look after yourself too. X
This Q&A was so genuine and unscripted. Just honest answers from a sweet little momma who is being transparent. Who is honestly showing she’s doing the best she can and doesn’t claim to be perfect. She’s human and can be hurt by others who do not even know her. I’m so sorry for that too. I cannot imagine. I also she your love that shines through. It’s evident that you know where your strength comes from and you can lean into His love for you. Keep that up!! You’re keeping it “real” and that is so refreshing….the good, the bad & the ugly 😊. I hope you can find a “hobby” that will give you enjoyment that’s perfect for you. I’m 61 years old and this hit me. I could relate & remember a lot of what you’re in the midst of (not all, of course). But you’re a precious little momma who’s trying her best everyday for the ones she loves and that’s all you can do. Keep it up girl!!💪🏻❤️😊
You are a woderfull Momma. Raising kids is the most difficult job you will ever love! Gideon would love sports and Evie ....she is such a performer. G8ve yourself grace. This is the modt difficult time ...being a stay at home Mom❤
Sounds like you're human- and a fine one at that. Never listen to the negativity. Anybody who has watched you over the years, even though it's not really knowing you, should know how great of a person you are. I'm proud of you being a young wife and mother how mature and patient you can be. You are giving your kids a great life and you are present. That is the best anyone can ask for. I always say we shouldn't strive for happiness, rather contentment. Happiness is an elevated state and not the usual condition. But to be content for the most part is the sweet spot. You've had a lot of change in 5 yrs and under a spotlight far more than most people ever will be. You're a-ok kiddo! Blessings, love and light to you Joy! Thank you for sharing! 🤗
Gunner is precious!!! I have never seen him do anything but smile. You're so lucky, he's so sweet! You're doing a great job, don't be so hard on yourself. I love your little family.
You are my Favourite member of the Duggar family I feel like I’ve known you for ever watching you grow into a beautiful women with your own beautiful family you should be so proud ❤of
Oh My Word!! The beginning with Gunner’s smile…he made ME smile and totally made my day!!! Such a cutie patootie! Love watching your videos. Hope Austin had a successful hunting season. Always nice to put meat in the freezer. 😋 Blessings to you and your family.
Your tact, grace, articulation and maturity are so refreshing. You're still our "Little Joy" we all watched grow up on TV, but you've grown into such a wholesome and honest woman.
Hi Joy! I've watched your family since the very first TV special and you've always been my favorite Duggar! You're a beautiful woman, a wonderful mother and child of God . Thank you for bringing so much JOY to so many people! God Bless! ❤
Oh my Gosh! I’m so fan girling right now! I actually got a like from the Forsyths!!! Is it even possible that Joy actually liked this? Either way, you made a 54 year old Nana’s day!
Love how honest and thoughtful you were answering the questions. I appreciate the fact that you are willing to share this with us. You are a wonderful person. ❤
Thanks for being so honest! You go through the same things I go through! I have to remember to be thankful for what the Lord has provided for me on this earth!
So many people are against your family due to the media coverage I love the way you said each of you are individuals. You are a beautiful light in this world and such a caring mom. You cannot change people’s ideas about your family but you are showing everyone how to live life to the fullest and focus on things that truly matter Never change anything about yourself
Just want to let you know it is totaly normal how you feel. Getting older means changing interests. I have been there. You have beautifull goals and a wonderfull husband who is supporting you. Life is a long race, you have time to figure this all out.
You are perfectly imperfect! You are human like the rest of us. And even when you dont feel the greatest, remember that you inspire and make so many people you dont even know smile through your videos. So you matter!!!!!! We are all doing the best we know how with what we have to work with.
Thank you for being open and honest! Thank you for showing that everything isn't perfect all the time, like 90% of others on the internet. Even though your childhood was in the spotlight, you're still human! You're a wife, mother, daughter, sister, and aunt who goes through the same ups and downs as everyone else. I love watching your videos and seeing who Joy is!
I am 76 yrs old and birthed 7 Children Lost my first born when he was 15 and a half months old I feel I can relate to your life My experience as a mother were the best days of my life. I found my third and fifth children were my most difficult transition An attitude of gratitude ( even though there were days of failure) made life doable. My words of wisdom would be a goal of looking back and realizing the best days of my 76 year life were being a Mom🕊️💜
My mother said the same thing , the best years of her life were when she was raising kids . But her life was so busy back then to take the time to appreciate and be in the moment .
Thank you for being so open ! I love Daily Grace Co I actually have been working thru their studying hymns series not sure it’s still available .Such a good Q and A . Totally praying for you being a mom is so hard no matter what your kids ages are . I’m embracing a new season now as my oldest two are adults. Still raising our caboose who is a few months younger than Josie .
That is something I am working on too! Having true inner joy from the Lord! I’m also a stay at home mom of three and there are days where I have to CONSTANTLY tell myself I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength and how I have every reason to be so joyful! Then there are times I immediately say ugh how can I be joyful and positive when there is negativity all around me with whining, crying, etc lol
Praying for you sister! I am a single mama and i needed to hear this, thank you Joy and i praise God for your husband reminding you and pointing you to The Lord!! What a blessing that is.
Wow I can so appreciate your honesty in this Q&A. Especially talking about happiness and joy. I’ve often said happiness is a choice. I can choose to have a happy demeanor - and it’s okay if we can’t sometimes. Thank you for being so honest and open about real life struggles. Your message will reach many women.
I love watching your real life videos. Gratitude is the answer to a bad mood, but it’s normal to have times like that, Joy. We all do. You are spread very thin with three little ones. I’d be surprised if you weren’t tired and cranky sometimes. God bless you and your family.
Thank you for your honesty and valuable insight. Though times are really exhausting. During those times when I find myself praying/crying, I stop and realize how far my faith as come and end up thanking Him for guiding me to this point.
Praying for you Joy. My 3 kids are all adults now but you brought me back to when I had 3 under the age of 5. I felt like I lost myself in "just being a mom" but I know now that is so far from true. Being a Mom is one of the best ways to find out who you truly are. They make you seek God for wisdom and grace. Hobbies can wait while you enjoy your precious kiddos. ❤
Thank you for being so transparent in discussing your daily life. You are doing a great job with taking care of your family and I'm glad that you take time for yourself. I'm especially glad that you cling to your faith in God when things get difficult. Blessings 😊😊
No one has a perfect life. Your a mom of 3 littles. Kudos for you for being positive. Motherhood is no joke, especially being a stay at home mom. You got this Joy! Embrace the moments, and reach out for help when you need alone time.
Thank you for opening up and sharing these things! I needed to hear all of this and know that I'm not the only one that goes through these feelings and things! ❤ I appreciate you!
You’ve always been such a joy to watch. You’re a beautiful woman- inside and out. Thank you for sharing your life with us. I love your honesty, your attitude and your realness.
Thank you so much for your bravery and honesty about your mental health struggles, especially in postpartum. I suffered a nightmare of a postpartum depression and it was so helpful to know that I wasn’t the only one! May The Lord wrap you up in his arms while you journey to health- mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually.
Thank you for your authentic generous approach. Joy you are so brave and amazing.I’m in awe of you and your Journey. So excited to see more of you being you ahead.💗you are amazing inspiring individual!💗
You made a comment many years ago about happiness coming from circumstance and joy coming from the lord and I’ve really used that phrase in my life to not let circumstance dictate my emotions and what I put out into the world. Thank you for sharing.
Amen! You were very honest. Just remember you don’t answer to negative people who want to dwell on things that are no one’s business. Just put those people aside. As hard and hurtful as it may be, do your best to press forward and continue blessing those who follow you for the right reasons. Just keep trusting the Lord and clinging to your husband. ❤️❤️
Joy you are so aptly named. Your spirit sure brings Joy to others. I so enjoy watching your family. Your children are adorable and Gunners smiles are a delight to see! God Bless you and prayers for You and Your family.
Joy, you are a kind, loving mom & it shows. Your kids are awesome & So Happy! In order to get out & take some time, you could hire your siblings to watch your kiddos once a week. Who knows, that might give you the mental break to find exactly what your interests are!
You help me so much! I'm 28, so a little older than you, but married 5 years, and haven't been able to have kids this whole time (potential medical problems).... but seeing your family and your children and you do that at such a young age gives me some kind of hope that I can't even describe.
My children are grown up now but still living at home and i still have unhappy days. Being a parent is very difficult no matter how old your children are. You are both doing a great job, be kind to yourself 😊
Joy, you are so real and it is a pleasure to see that in you. I hope 2024 is a wonderful year for you and you continue to grow. May God bless you and your family.
Find joy in the moment and be grateful in all things even the naughty child because they are blessings and their smile makes it worth it. What has helped me is a daily long walk alone. I do 5-10 miles and this with all my children now gone and I always take vitamin D a huge mood booster. May you continue to walk in you faith and find joy daily
This is my favorite video on your channel so far. I felt like I got to know you a little deeper today and you’ve also shown me how mature you are. You pleasantly surprised me. I appreciate all you do in showing us a glimpse of your life with these videos. God Bless! ❤
I appreciate your honesty. Being a mom is a WONDERFUL blessing and very challenging at the same time. I wish we moms could just be more real with each other. I think we could encourage each other better and not feel so lonely if we could understand that we're all dealing with the same feelings and struggles.
Love this video sweet girl! What a refreshing testimony. Very open and honest. You are such a bright blessing!! Praying that the days ahead become easier and that you feel more and more lighter emotionally and spiritually. The time you are in with your kids is hard because you are always on. Give yourself grace. 💕. Praying for you beautiful!! You make me smile
Finding some time for yourself is so helpful. And, while it's nice, and important to think of others, I'm also reminded of the plane example of putting the oxygen mask on yourself first before you can help your kids/others. ❤ 🙂
As a first-time mom who is still in her first year postpartum, thank you for being so transparent with your postpartum experience. I could relate to so much of what you were saying. Its been a hard year postpartum, but God is using it. Praying for the Lord to continue to heal and balance your hormones!
Joy, this was a really well done and thoughtful Q & A! I think you've probably helped a lot of Momma's, even those that are not. I enjoyed hearing your honest perspective on how you've been navigating and reacting to what life's thrown at you! ❤😊
I used to do that too with my kids with drives. We live in a railroad town and I would go to crossings. Sitting and waiting for trains, and then counting the cars slowed my mind down. I miss my drives. My kids are preteen/teenagers and they don't enjoy the trains anymore. Now, I send them outside to either play basketball or shoot arrows and I put on live cameras of trains. We have to learn to adapt to our situations to keep our minds healthy. But remember this, it's ok for our kids to see us have big emotions, so they can learn healthy skills for their big emotions.
I really enjoy your videos giving us a glimpse into your lives. Also wanted to comment on your new opening to the video: it's great to see you and Austin so happy together!🥰
Joy you are such a blessing to us moms. You are honest, open, and real. I struggled with PPD as well. Being a mom is hard. I had to learn It’s ok to not be ok and to not be perfect and to not be able to do it all. Thank you for being real. I have watched your family since the beginning when we were young kiddos and enjoy your videos now that we are grown. You are a blessing ❤
Enjoyed this video. Gunner, is so precious. He enjoyed seeing hisself on the camera. Really good Q & A. I like that you’re so real. Thank you for taking the time to do this. ♥️
I wasn't much for hobbies when I was younger.. Mostly because I didn't have many opportunities and wasn't taught any skills or hobbies growing up.. but now I'm 35 and I'm full on "old lady" mode, haha! I've been teaching myself canning, gardening, sourdough bread, a little sewing.. and I absolutely love all of it so much! It brings so much sense of accomplishment!
It's been so amazing getting to know you through your channel, to hear so much of your heart and see you grow so mature in your outlook on life. You definitely have a beautiful faith! My husband and I were just talking the other night about how people have this strange notion that what little bit they see of a reality tv star or youtuber's life is their 24/7. It barely scratches the surface! I'm sorry people have been so mean, especially during pp. That takes the emotions to a whole new level! Some people don't really want to know you, they just want to hate. Thankfully your foundation is unshakable!
Thank you for your honesty! I understand when you are feeling sad , you are an amazing young woman , and mother! I love watching you and your family! God bless!💖💖🙏🙏
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I want to preface this by saying that I am 34 with no children (and no desire to have them), a full time job, and a masters degree. I have tattoos and piercings and spend a lot of time watching horror movies and listening to rock music. In short, I have very different views on and in life than you, but I truly enjoy your videos. They make me smile. I see a family living life. I see kids being kids (and incredibly happy kids at that). I see a mom and dad who are doing their best for their kids, and I see kids who love their mom and dad. Being a mom is hard. There’s a reason I decided it wasn’t for me. And I’m sorry people who don’t know you can be so judgmental and just make it worse.
😭🥹 thank you!🩷
@BrianD81881it’s was her choice, joy didn’t ask, plus in the video Joy “spilled a lot of her guts” too so 🤷🏽♀️
@BrianD81881 shes a busy mom of with lots of comments. Most youtubers dont even respond.
@BrianD81881that was totally unnecessary. She responded with showing how she was feeling about the kind comment.
I have been a little curious why women of the younger generation dont want children. I feel like conservative women still want to be moms and they have chosen supportive husbands. Just curious if its no interest in giving a life, would they rather focus on themselves, dont think they would do well...whats with this trend?
Thank you for being so real Joy, and not being a "I'm loving every moment" mom (which obviously is never the case for anyone). You're helping other moms more than you know!
it is sweet of you to share your emotional challenges, it helps to know we are all not alone. you and your family are in my prayers.
I appreciate your openness. I’ve followed your family for years, so is really great to see how well you are doing. Figuring out what YOU really want to do as hobbies, like dance lessons with Austin. We only see about 30 minutes of your life per week, but it seems to me you two are really great parents.
You are such a breath of fresh air! I love your sweetness and honesty. And can we take a moment to say how stinking cute Gunner is!? What a cutie pie. All of your kids are so amazing. Good job, Mama!
The Only person who was perfect enough to throw stones, Didn’t… period People need to respect others
I've seen many people our age saying that we are resorting back to 'Grandma and Grandpa' hobbies- but I think it's fun! I knit and crochet and have even started an interest in growing my own plants which is so weird! I've never been that way before, nor did I ever think I would be one of those people.
I started growing food, medicinal plants and learning to make medicines and preserve food at 53. 😊
Yes! I love knitting and punch needle embroidery. So soothing ❤
Thank you, Lord.🙌. As an older person, I thank God that any young person takes an interest in what is real and natural and God-made instead of man-made, artificial stuff.
Joy you are a wonderful person, mother and wife. I ready enjoy watching You, Austin and the little ones and your adventures on TH-cam , I always look forward to seeing new posts from you guys. The little ones are growing so fast and they are so adorable. Love to you all.
You are so wise Joy. Everyone that says they are happy every day or all the time are not genuine. Adjustment as a mom is hard. I am so glad you are not fake and that’s what I love about your family too❤hang on to your relationship with Jesus
I am 52 and going to be starting to go to therapy. I feel it may help me. Keep that in the back of your mind….it is ok to have an outside person who can help sort through your feelings.
Agreed
Joy you are such a sweet girl!! You are so genuine! Hang in there! You are doing a great job!
You sharing from the heart will help many young woman. Try not to be too hard on yourself as you are a young mom of 3 adorable children and are doing a great job with them. It’s understandable that you would be tried/ exhausted as it’s a lot of work. It’s also ok to admit that you had a rough time with the little ones and need a break ie. maybe your younger sisters can help out to give you some breathing room. Wishing for you all God’s Blessings.❤🇨🇦
Joy, you are such an honest, thoughtful and down to earth person. You're a wonderful inspiration for other young moms to follow.
Im 38, married with no kids (by choice). I will have my masters degree by end of the year. I would say we probably have zero in common (im not religious or an outdoor person) but I appreciate you wanting to put yoursef out there and be your real authentic self. No one is perfect, anyone who says otherwise is dillusional. Having been in the spotlight oh so briefly myself its hard watching people judge you without actually knowing you. The important thing is to be true to yourself and forget the judgemental ones, because they obviously have nothing better to do than sit on their high horse and judge you.
Gunner is such a smiley baby!! 😊😊😊
You are blessed but you're also human! It's okay to feel the negative feelings. It's unhealthy to repress those feelings. Austin seems to have a healthy way to pull you out of them and that's good. 💞 You made such a great point about the first kiss. No one should have their first intimate moment in front of a bunch of people. I never thought of it that way.
It’s okay to feel your feelings. Outside counseling may help. We are not expected to be happy all the time and you shouldn’t feel bad about it.
Perfectly said
Not everyone needs counseling
Thank you for sharing this! I’ve had a rough week due to my chronic illness, and it’s been tempting to slip into self-pity and feel jealous of healthy people who seemingly have normal lives. But your video is a refreshing reminder that everyone has hidden struggles, and we can all still find reasons to feel grateful and blessed.
I also struggle with chronic illness, so I understand what you are going through. I hope you feel as best as you can soon! God bless!
When you're on an aeroplane you are told that in times of trouble see to your own mask first so you are able to look after others. As a mother of only one child, I know that time on your own is invaluable. Don't feel guilty for needing space, it's the hardest job you'll ever do. You do it brilliantly. But look after yourself too. X
This Q&A was so genuine and unscripted. Just honest answers from a sweet little momma who is being transparent. Who is honestly showing she’s doing the best she can and doesn’t claim to be perfect. She’s human and can be hurt by others who do not even know her. I’m so sorry for that too. I cannot imagine. I also she your love that shines through. It’s evident that you know where your strength comes from and you can lean into His love for you. Keep that up!! You’re keeping it “real” and that is so refreshing….the good, the bad & the ugly 😊. I hope you can find a “hobby” that will give you enjoyment that’s perfect for you. I’m 61 years old and this hit me. I could relate & remember a lot of what you’re in the midst of (not all, of course). But you’re a precious little momma who’s trying her best everyday for the ones she loves and that’s all you can do. Keep it up girl!!💪🏻❤️😊
You are a woderfull Momma. Raising kids is the most difficult job you will ever love! Gideon would love sports and Evie ....she is such a performer. G8ve yourself grace. This is the modt difficult time ...being a stay at home Mom❤
Sounds like you're human- and a fine one at that. Never listen to the negativity. Anybody who has watched you over the years, even though it's not really knowing you, should know how great of a person you are. I'm proud of you being a young wife and mother how mature and patient you can be. You are giving your kids a great life and you are present. That is the best anyone can ask for. I always say we shouldn't strive for happiness, rather contentment. Happiness is an elevated state and not the usual condition. But to be content for the most part is the sweet spot. You've had a lot of change in 5 yrs and under a spotlight far more than most people ever will be. You're a-ok kiddo! Blessings, love and light to you Joy! Thank you for sharing! 🤗
Gunner is precious!!! I have never seen him do anything but smile. You're so lucky, he's so sweet! You're doing a great job, don't be so hard on yourself. I love your little family.
I appreciate how you talked about not every moment being a happy moment. I wish everyone was this honest.
Thank you for sharing and answering tough questions. God bless you, Joy! ❤️🙏
You are my
Favourite member of the Duggar family I feel like I’ve known you for ever watching you grow into a beautiful women with your own beautiful family you should be so proud ❤of
You have a sweet and honest heart!!! Thank you for sharing!
Oh My Word!! The beginning with Gunner’s smile…he made ME smile and totally made my day!!! Such a cutie patootie! Love watching your videos. Hope Austin had a successful hunting season. Always nice to put meat in the freezer. 😋 Blessings to you and your family.
And he looks like mom ❤
Me too. He is so cute. Made me smile too ❤
Your tact, grace, articulation and maturity are so refreshing. You're still our "Little Joy" we all watched grow up on TV, but you've grown into such a wholesome and honest woman.
Hi Joy! I've watched your family since the very first TV special and you've always been my favorite Duggar! You're a beautiful woman, a wonderful mother and child of God . Thank you for bringing so much JOY to so many people! God Bless! ❤
Thank you for your
"realness" I appreciate who you are.
God's Blessings to you & yours. 🙏❤️
Loved it, Joy! Keep being you!! I’m happy to hear you and Austine are even considering Ballet lessons for your little one!! That’s exciting! 👍
Thankyou for sharing so truthfully joy. God bless you x
I adore you and your precious family! So proud of you! God bless y’all!
Oh my Gosh! I’m so fan girling right now! I actually got a like from the Forsyths!!! Is it even possible that Joy actually liked this? Either way, you made a 54 year old Nana’s day!
Love how honest and thoughtful you were answering the questions. I appreciate the fact that you are willing to share this with us. You are a wonderful person. ❤
Thanks for being so honest! You go through the same things I go through! I have to remember to be thankful for what the Lord has provided for me on this earth!
It’s so awesome to see you being open like this. Thank you for sharing.
You’re so down to earth. Keep being YOU, not what others perceive or think you should be.
Haircut looks awesome on you!
You are so strong + beautifully articulate the joys and hard times of motherhood. Thank you for being honest.
U are doing a wonderful job. Your family u have created is absolutely beautiful!! Keep on doing what u do little mama❤
So many people are against your family due to the media coverage I love the way you said each of you are individuals. You are a beautiful light in this world and such a caring mom. You cannot change people’s ideas about your family but you are showing everyone how to live life to the fullest and focus on things that truly matter Never change anything about yourself
Just want to let you know it is totaly normal how you feel. Getting older means changing interests. I have been there. You have beautifull goals and a wonderfull husband who is supporting you. Life is a long race, you have time to figure this all out.
You are perfectly imperfect! You are human like the rest of us. And even when you dont feel the greatest, remember that you inspire and make so many people you dont even know smile through your videos. So you matter!!!!!! We are all doing the best we know how with what we have to work with.
This is so encouraging! You are very courageous and transparent, thank you for being you, a daughter of the King!
Thank you for being open and honest! Thank you for showing that everything isn't perfect all the time, like 90% of others on the internet. Even though your childhood was in the spotlight, you're still human! You're a wife, mother, daughter, sister, and aunt who goes through the same ups and downs as everyone else.
I love watching your videos and seeing who Joy is!
I am 76 yrs old and birthed 7 Children Lost my first born when he was 15 and a half months old
I feel I can relate to your life
My experience as a mother were the best days of my life. I found my third and fifth children were my most difficult transition
An attitude of gratitude ( even though there were days of failure) made life doable. My words of wisdom would be a goal of looking back and realizing the best days of my 76 year life were being a Mom🕊️💜
My mother said the same thing , the best years of her life were when she was raising kids . But her life was so busy back then to take the time to appreciate and be in the moment .
Thank you for being so open ! I love Daily Grace Co I actually have been working thru their studying hymns series not sure it’s still available .Such a good Q and A . Totally praying for you being a mom is so hard no matter what your kids ages are . I’m embracing a new season now as my oldest two are adults. Still raising our caboose who is a few months younger than Josie .
That is something I am working on too! Having true inner joy from the Lord! I’m also a stay at home mom of three and there are days where I have to CONSTANTLY tell myself I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength and how I have every reason to be so joyful! Then there are times I immediately say ugh how can I be joyful and positive when there is negativity all around me with whining, crying, etc lol
Praying for you sister! I am a single mama and i needed to hear this, thank you Joy and i praise God for your husband reminding you and pointing you to The Lord!! What a blessing that is.
Wow I can so appreciate your honesty in this Q&A. Especially talking about happiness and joy. I’ve often said happiness is a choice. I can choose to have a happy demeanor - and it’s okay if we can’t sometimes. Thank you for being so honest and open about real life struggles. Your message will reach many women.
Thanks for this question and answer video! It just gives us some insight into how feel and what you’re going through! Great video!
I love that you’re so genuine. It’s normal to have those off days. You’re doing great! 😊
I love watching your real life videos. Gratitude is the answer to a bad mood, but it’s normal to have times like that, Joy. We all do. You are spread very thin with three little ones. I’d be surprised if you weren’t tired and cranky sometimes. God bless you and your family.
You’re doing a good job !! I’m so glad you understand yourself. Keep up the videos !! You are a blessing ! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Thank you for your honesty and valuable insight.
Though times are really exhausting. During those times when I find myself praying/crying, I stop and realize how far my faith as come and end up thanking Him for guiding me to this point.
Praying for you Joy. My 3 kids are all adults now but you brought me back to when I had 3 under the age of 5. I felt like I lost myself in "just being a mom" but I know now that is so far from true. Being a Mom is one of the best ways to find out who you truly are. They make you seek God for wisdom and grace. Hobbies can wait while you enjoy your precious kiddos. ❤
Thank you for being so transparent in discussing your daily life. You are doing a great job with taking care of your family and I'm glad that you take time for yourself. I'm especially glad that you cling to your faith in God when things get difficult. Blessings 😊😊
No one has a perfect life. Your a mom of 3 littles. Kudos for you for being positive. Motherhood is no joke, especially being a stay at home mom. You got this Joy! Embrace the moments, and reach out for help when you need alone time.
Thank you for sharing your q and a with us! You’re a good mom and wife. Stay strong and don’t forget to take time for you!!
Thank you for opening up and sharing these things! I needed to hear all of this and know that I'm not the only one that goes through these feelings and things! ❤ I appreciate you!
Thank you for being so open and real Joy. You are a sweetheart.❤❤
You’ve always been such a joy to watch. You’re a beautiful woman- inside and out. Thank you for sharing your life with us. I love your honesty, your attitude and your realness.
Thank you so much for your bravery and honesty about your mental health struggles, especially in postpartum. I suffered a nightmare of a postpartum depression and it was so helpful to know that I wasn’t the only one! May The Lord wrap you up in his arms while you journey to health- mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually.
Thank you for your authentic generous approach.
Joy you are so brave and amazing.I’m in awe of you and your Journey. So excited to see more of you being you ahead.💗you are amazing inspiring individual!💗
Thank you for being so kind, and real. I do see at times you do seem tired. You do need to do what is best for you.
Praying for you Joy! Dont let the darkness of social media get to you! Evil will drag us down if it can..so put on your armor daily!! God bless!
You made a comment many years ago about happiness coming from circumstance and joy coming from the lord and I’ve really used that phrase in my life to not let circumstance dictate my emotions and what I put out into the world. Thank you for sharing.
Yes....keeping a gratitude journal reminds me how blessed I am and gives me the joy I desire. I definitely recommend a gratitude journal 😊❤️
Thank you for your honesty and just being you.
You’re so sweet. Thank you for sharing your life with us.
Amen! You were very honest. Just remember you don’t answer to negative people who want to dwell on things that are no one’s business. Just put those people aside. As hard and hurtful as it may be, do your best to press forward and continue blessing those who follow you for the right reasons. Just keep trusting the Lord and clinging to your husband. ❤️❤️
Joy you are so aptly named. Your spirit sure brings Joy to others. I so enjoy watching your family. Your children are adorable and Gunners smiles are a delight to see! God Bless you and prayers for You and Your family.
Joy, you are a kind, loving mom & it shows. Your kids are awesome & So Happy! In order to get out & take some time, you could hire your siblings to watch your kiddos once a week. Who knows, that might give you the mental break to find exactly what your interests are!
You help me so much! I'm 28, so a little older than you, but married 5 years, and haven't been able to have kids this whole time (potential medical problems).... but seeing your family and your children and you do that at such a young age gives me some kind of hope that I can't even describe.
My children are grown up now but still living at home and i still have unhappy days. Being a parent is very difficult no matter how old your children are. You are both doing a great job, be kind to yourself 😊
Joy, you are so real and it is a pleasure to see that in you. I hope 2024 is a wonderful year for you and you continue to grow. May God bless you and your family.
Thanks for answering the questions so honest and real! Love you Joy! Love Y’all! Love and Prayers Always
Appreciate your honesty, and love hearing your faith.
Find joy in the moment and be grateful in all things even the naughty child because they are blessings and their smile makes it worth it. What has helped me is a daily long walk alone. I do 5-10 miles and this with all my children now gone and I always take vitamin D a huge mood booster. May you continue to walk in you faith and find joy daily
This is my favorite video on your channel so far. I felt like I got to know you a little deeper today and you’ve also shown me how mature you are. You pleasantly surprised me. I appreciate all you do in showing us a glimpse of your life with these videos. God Bless! ❤
I appreciate your honesty. Being a mom is a WONDERFUL blessing and very challenging at the same time. I wish we moms could just be more real with each other. I think we could encourage each other better and not feel so lonely if we could understand that we're all dealing with the same feelings and struggles.
Love this video sweet girl! What a refreshing testimony. Very open and honest. You are such a bright blessing!! Praying that the days ahead become easier and that you feel more and more lighter emotionally and spiritually. The time you are in with your kids is hard because you are always on. Give yourself grace. 💕. Praying for you beautiful!! You make me smile
Finding some time for yourself is so helpful. And, while it's nice, and important to think of others, I'm also reminded of the plane example of putting the oxygen mask on yourself first before you can help your kids/others. ❤ 🙂
Love your heart. Thanks for being honest and inspiring.
As a first-time mom who is still in her first year postpartum, thank you for being so transparent with your postpartum experience. I could relate to so much of what you were saying. Its been a hard year postpartum, but God is using it. Praying for the Lord to continue to heal and balance your hormones!
Joy, this was a really well done and thoughtful Q & A! I think you've probably helped a lot of Momma's, even those that are not. I enjoyed hearing your honest perspective on how you've been navigating and reacting to what life's thrown at you! ❤😊
I agree!!!
Gunner favors joy
Your human.thank you for being so honest your an amazing mom love watching and getting Encouragement from you
Love seeing all of you. Such a loving family! God's grace will see you through the hard times.
I used to do that too with my kids with drives. We live in a railroad town and I would go to crossings. Sitting and waiting for trains, and then counting the cars slowed my mind down. I miss my drives. My kids are preteen/teenagers and they don't enjoy the trains anymore. Now, I send them outside to either play basketball or shoot arrows and I put on live cameras of trains. We have to learn to adapt to our situations to keep our minds healthy. But remember this, it's ok for our kids to see us have big emotions, so they can learn healthy skills for their big emotions.
Your normal baby. We all have good days and bad days. God Bless sweetheart ! 👍🥰👍♥️😘
I really enjoy your videos giving us a glimpse into your lives. Also wanted to comment on your new opening to the video: it's great to see you and Austin so happy together!🥰
Joy you are such a blessing to us moms. You are honest, open, and real. I struggled with PPD as well. Being a mom is hard. I had to learn It’s ok to not be ok and to not be perfect and to not be able to do it all. Thank you for being real. I have watched your family since the beginning when we were young kiddos and enjoy your videos now that we are grown. You are a blessing ❤
Enjoyed this video. Gunner, is so precious. He enjoyed seeing hisself on the camera. Really good Q & A. I like that you’re so real. Thank you for taking the time to do this. ♥️
Love your candid honesty. Keep being you. ❤
I wasn't much for hobbies when I was younger.. Mostly because I didn't have many opportunities and wasn't taught any skills or hobbies growing up.. but now I'm 35 and I'm full on "old lady" mode, haha! I've been teaching myself canning, gardening, sourdough bread, a little sewing.. and I absolutely love all of it so much! It brings so much sense of accomplishment!
Thank you for sharing your thoughts ❤ praying for you
Thank You for your transparency 💕💕🙏🏼🙏🏼
It's been so amazing getting to know you through your channel, to hear so much of your heart and see you grow so mature in your outlook on life. You definitely have a beautiful faith! My husband and I were just talking the other night about how people have this strange notion that what little bit they see of a reality tv star or youtuber's life is their 24/7. It barely scratches the surface! I'm sorry people have been so mean, especially during pp. That takes the emotions to a whole new level! Some people don't really want to know you, they just want to hate. Thankfully your foundation is unshakable!
Thank you for your honesty! I understand when you are feeling sad , you are an amazing young woman , and mother! I love watching you and your family! God bless!💖💖🙏🙏
Praying for you Joi! God bless! I am with you sister! I am on the same journey to know Jesus for who He is!