Classic Divorce Court: Who Wears The Pants?
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Tenisha says she and James rushed into marriage and since then, their marriage has spiraled out of control. Tenisha says James doesn’t make any attempt to save their marriage. She says she has to stay home with their son, while James hangs out with men who cheat on their wives.Tenisha says although James forgave her for cheating on him prior to marriage, he still has trust issues. Tenisha says James is a mama’s boy who makes family decisions based on what his parents says. She wants the judge to have her husband man up and be a husband to her. James says Queen Tenisha doesn’t respect him and has cheated on him. He says Queen Tenisha is a control freak, doesn’t submit to him, keeps her cookie in the cookie jar, and doesn’t communicate effectively. He says if this is what marriage is like, he doesn’t want it! He wants the judge to help fix their issues before their 1st wedding anniversary
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Judge Lyn is my long lost mom. So wise and pretty😍
I feel you me too
Hmmmn this woman? Is one of its kind. I love her so very much for her wisdom. Being smart, is an understatement. What a beautiful and intelligent woman.
Don’t ever press someone into marriage, it doesn’t matter if you’re a woman or a man. It never works out in the long haul.
Preach!!👏👏👋👋
I'm learning the hard way
I got pressed into a relationship and it was over within 2 months and now i kno never let a mf force me into anything😂💯
Yes it does it’s worked for centuries 😭
Wife just had a baby.....
Mr Williams : iggghhttt imma head out ! 🤷🏽♀️😂😩🤷🏽♀️😂😩
Chashe' Sings I’m so weak 😂😂🤣🤣🤣
Girl.... 😩😩😩😩😩😂😂😂
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It's sad to say we're still talking about skin color 7 days from 2020. When you apply for a job they don't say light skin or dark skin Black. Let's cut the bs.
sullivancountydays, a very good observation.
You talking about the comments or the episode?
So you cant have a preference now?
They dont say but they still feel. Sadly
@@luckylibralady5551 was going to ask same question,lol
He chased after her, he got her then he felt he didn't have to try anymore, he accomplished what he set out to do.
That's how a lot of men are once they got you it's like they lose interest
If a man walked in that court room stating “I don’t like dark skinned women....” child, I don’t even want to know what would happen. Pure ignorance, besides being a very hurtful thing to say.
She said "like" in the context of being in a relationship. It's her preference and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that.
ISayToMyself the problem is that most black men who say that associate negative connotations with women. It’s NOT the same
Well men will say.... I don't like fat women, or skinny women,, short women or tall women... Or I only date educated women it all the same discrimination.... But thier preference
People be evil. Didn't their mama teach them not to be ignant?
@@lifeincanadawithlivi607 It's colorism and it's not ok.
If she cheated before marriage, why marry her.
We still forgive yall shit
They both cheated and both are too immature for marriage....they were on an off 4yrs...and she knew he was not ready for marriage
THAT'S WHAT THE FUCK I'M SAYING!
@@jackiebennett3649 YOU SHOULDN'T...CHEATING IS UNFORGIVABLE! YOU FUCK SOMEBODY ELSE...IT'S OVER! SOME(A TINY GROUP)MAKE IT AFTERWARD...THE MAJORITY WILL NEVER SURVIVE CHEATING...THE THOUGHTS NEVER GO AWAY
@@rpcrealpeopleconsulting6324 no he didn't cheat...he's just passive ave young minded...you give that coochie away...stay with that person...cause we're done lol lol shyt I'd be questioning the baby and everything lol lol lol lol lol lol lol IJS
What does him being light skin have to do with anything? What a silly thing to open with
It was a round about way of saying that although there was no physical attraction at first, they shared he same values and he knew her family. She just isn't very articulate.
Exactly
Cause she doesn't usually date like skinned half caste KNEEGROWS. That's her preference. F**K You all. I don't like over weight females who dress like they are skinny. F**k am they look like shit.
Look up "Willie Lynch Syndrome"
And then the stupid b*tch pronounces the word wrong. It's light "skinned", not "skinded". 🙄
It's so sad Judge Tolers husband passed....smh she deserved to have her husband til they grew old. She's such a wonderful person and am very sure he was happy bc he married a beautiful intelligent wise woman. Sending much love to you Judge Toler ❤❤❤
I dont think he should have gotten her pregnant OR married her!
Look he’s no saint but I completely understand why he don’t wanna deal with her. She couldn’t even properly dictate her feelings & what she needed from him. Judge Lynn had to pull teeth to finally get an answer. Both of them are immature AF they need to split
they still together shordy don’t play wit emmmm
"I normally do not date light skin guys so..." 😂🤣 Like what??
Absolutely!
Shes just staing he changed her mind about dating dark skinned guy. Shes trying to say she genuinely love him
@@sandybryan533 you got ALL that from her remarking his SKIN is light??? Your remarkably perceptive... You should teach classes for the CIA/INTELLIGENCE AGENCIES
@ No, I don't. 😂 Just like every women isn't the same, don't think for a second that all men are like the ones you know of or that are around you. It's a big world out here...
@ it's a shame you think that, have a good day though queen
Judge Toler:
You stop breaking stuff and you start caressing stuff and maybe this thing will work out.... 😩😂😩😂😩.... I LOVE HER!!!! ❤️
Her:"First off I dont usually date light skin guys..."
Me: SIS WHAT...🤯...Not only is it colorism it's also the most irrelevant opening statement I've ever heard🤦🏾♀️
Like she all of that! Gurrrrl bye..🤦🏿♀️
@@youmakemelaugh1797
Bye to me but ma'am I never said hello to you...🤷🏾♀️...It crazy because if this was an African American man saying he doesn't like dark skin chicks...I'm sure that's a problem...but her statement is alright...It was ignorant and had no relevance to what she was trying to say...Period
@@jettanyiagumbs6091 You misunderstood. She said gurl bye to the female in the video saying stuff about light skinned men. Basically she was saying "How you got the audacity to say that when you're no catch yourself?"
@@caitlynmuniz3143
Ohh...Ok...I was like...This comment was so left feild... Thanks for explaining...and to the other young lady...My apologies...Pardon my misunderstanding...🕊
It's like she's doing a favor dating him.
He needs to man up leave her cheating ass.
The minute she said lightskinded I was done.
Right
Karl Gabriel same 🤦🏽♀️
I said the same thing
I thought it was pronounced light skinned..😒 ok..
@@eugeniaboone5602 you fell asleep in English class and missed the extra. ED🤣🤣🤣
Dam shame
I hate when people say skin-ded. The word is skinned....one syllable
Love this comment ❤️💕❤️💕
Lol
@@janelclarke-chambers4033 b
Thank you
Don't forget textis.
Use protection guys. Don't be like this guy and end up with someone you don't match with.
He's a child. He's not mentally mature enough to sustain a marriage.
And you think SHE is? Lol
And she is the same lol. A violent cheater and pressed for marriage. The worse kind
As a mature man on his 2nd marriage, this is one thing men & woman can count on happening...
The MORE you do, the LESS they will do. Set your boundary and don't do anything past that. If your mate consistently fail to handle their part of the relationship. It's time to go. Never forget marriage is a partnership and if your spouse is consistently not doing their part, fire them. Life is too short.
Very true!
Lol what? A relationship is a dynamic partnership where communication takes place. When one is doing less good, the other one does more and the other way around, and it is possible to talk about things. Your spouse isn't supposed to be a greedy person who waits for you to do a little more so you end up with all the chores eventually. Your view of relationships is kind of sad tbh.
It's not about consistently failing. Everyone has attributes and areas that they both excel and lack in. In a relationship you're supposed to compliment the other, mutualism.
@@Plectrudefy your Hollywood driven viewpoint is childish.
Amen to that
Light skin part was so disrespectful.
Not only that, but it was incredibly unnecessary since she married him and had a baby with him anyway! What kind of sense does that make?
phoenix 2008 how is that disrespectful?
I think it’s another way to belittle him
Why? That's her preference.
Kiera Brookes it's not low class. It's about sexual preference, it's not something u can control or can try to like, it's about what turns u on etc. if she had said this normally then that would have been racist.
Cheating is hard to deal with. Many people can't get over the hurt, the betrayal, and the emotions.
The guy in the grey sweater in the background at 1:05 when she said “I don’t date light skinned guys” 😩🤣😂 his facial expression is spot on! Look like he said “BITCH PLEASE” in his head 😂😂😂
Yesss🤣🤣🤣🤣 I caught that and I did laughing
She cheated and brought it up in an argument and the judge just skipped right past it.
black yoda He didn’t press the issue so neither did the judge.
The judge does that often.
You all do know it’s a half hour show they’re not gonna show everything they speak on
@@Sabrewood13 Now show me an example where the man cheated on the woman, was brazen enough about the infidelity to flaunt it an argument, and it was completely ignored by the judge in the show. Surely you will be able to find one if the issue is time. Furthermore, you would think that would have some impact on what she says to them at the end. You wouldn't be able to tell she did anything wrong if you go by what Lynn Toler said.
Judge Tolyer needs to be cloned.
We need 100 more of her!!
She is auntie and friend, a sister and a mother all in one. She can be Big Ma fort the the world !!!!!!
Y'all saw that dudes face when she talked about light skin guys? lol
Women act like men when men act like boys!!!!!! And I don't really agree with the judge that it's her responsibility to teach him HOW to be a man (she already has 1 child)
You gotta meet people where they're at, not where you want them to be. You couldn't pay me a million dollars to marry a child like him though. 😂
Julia Elosheva yes I could pay you two thousand dollars and you would marry him
It's not her responsibility but she did pick him. Now she has gotta work with what she got.
@L Nixon women take on both roles due to the lack of masculinity. Its impossible to focus on your femininity when you're protecting & providing .
I guess coming from a disassembled society I should be somewhere on the spectrum of thug, not taking care of my family, or with a woman from that society; yet I’m not. My mom raised 3 boys and with very few men around that were responsible, my mom was honest. She said she couldn’t teach us to be men, we have to learn that on our own. She did indeed pick my druggie step-father that left us was a young age, but we made a decision to step up and run our lives based on what we wanted. None of us married members of a disassembled community and if we did you wouldn’t know it because none of the ladies we married are remotely close to what was demonstrated here.
Plus, let’s not pretend that sometimes emotions can cloud our better judgment at any age. This couples young and has a few challenges to overcome due to immaturity. Playing procreational games as recreational activities with accountability nor emotional maturity leads to this scenario. Whether pressured, coerced, persuaded, or badgered into marrying her, he chose that. Yes he can leave, but then why marry her in the first place?
Regardless, he still is going to have to grow up or marry someone that will put up with it.... And likewise, she can either divorce or separate at a young age, allow him to take the lead and deal with whatever consequences come with, follow the judge’s advice and coach the young man, or keep doing what you been doing to ensure you and your child are alright.
🤣🤣yoo did anyone see that white gentleman’s reaction when she said she doesn’t date light skin-ded guys. And she needs to leaned that it is light skin. I was done with her after she started off with that statement.
It is sooooo annoying that men are given a pass on CHOOSING not to grow up! It’s a CHOICE! Either grow up and be the father and husband YOU CHOSE to be or stay in the streets away from the rest of us. We are TOO TIRED to be raising your kids AND YOU!! He is far too feminine and she is far too* masculine to have that “man of the house” situation they both claim to want… this is never going to work
Before marriage love is essential vital necessary etc. She say she didn't like the first thing she saw on him his skin color ,how in God's name that marriage can work. These young people need to stay home with their Mama's until they are more mature n leave mature adult business alone (Marriage ) .
Joy and not have kids
She go say light skin ain't her thing but he is a handsome red bone 🤷♀️
She’s a brilliant judge and counselor
The “lightskined(ED)” comment was so freaking tacky, and infuriating 🤬
You mad for what?
@@alexisjones65 cause it was tacky and nobody asked her that.. she completely disregarded the question and started talking bout "light skinded" guys loll
Judge Lynn you are so funny! And speaks the truth lol!
When a woman says she doesn't date light skinned men or dark skinned men no one bats an eye. But let that be a man and all hell breaks loose.
That's true. Either way, it is ignorant.
I was strolling down the comments to see if anyone would comment on this. Thank you. I agree
I laughed much too hard at that 'light skinned guys' part. She said that with her chest too LOL
"I did not date light skin guys. " Pathetic! This division needs to STOP in the black community. The right man for you can be a dark skin man. The right man for you can be a light skin man. Skin color has nothing to do with a man's character. And stop using the word "preference" incorrectly, shes using it to hide her colorism.
Relationship facts!!
How does preference speak to division please?
I preferred older men for a while, but my husband of now 11years is 4 years older than me...Preference is just that...PREFERENCE. It's simply a guide to discovering what you really like need or want. It's each individuals way of not accepting/entertaining anything/anyone into their personal space. It's their self imposed filter.
It needs to stop being seen as something larger than what it is and something sinister or the function of some devious motive...it is not rejection, it's not discrimination nor is it degradation in any way...its just a preference.
Why can't it just been seen as that?
@@kayelle1547 Yes. Finally, someone who gets it! Thank you. People really can't help who they prefer or their ideal man or woman...it's nature... if you will... it is what it is... you honestly can't help it... it's not wrong at all... as long as you're not hurting yourself or anyone else... it's your choice and no one else...
I totally agree. People don't choose based on character integrity and loyalty these days. They will make their preference they priority and make it their bottom line and deal breaker
@@Bashanvibe People choose based on everything that is important to them aside from physical features... you gotta give people credit... it's not just the physical features in which it does accumulate half of our ideal mates and I'll say maybe a 1/3 because the bulk of it is characteristics and other things mentioned after the following...values, belief, faith, same ideals on parenting, sex, friendships, dating, marriage, love etc etcetera...
They say you can fake until you make it. They also say if you love someone set them free, and if they are meant to be they be back with you.
She lost me when she came on national television talking about "light skinned guys." That's some shit you talk to your girlfriends about not Judge Lynn who happens to also be "light skinned." She's a gorgeous woman but it's a terrible reflection upon her self worth that this is the best that she could choose for herself.
I wouldn’t be surprised if one hurt her in the past…and that’s why she’s saying that.
MOST WOMEN WON'T ADMIT THAT THEY LOVE SEX. IT'S INTIMACY, THAT WE NEED!!!! I THINK THAT THEY RUSHED EVERYTHING TOO FAST. LOVE MAKING IS A LANGUAGE.... NOT JUST HAVING SEX!!!
It's impossible to truly make love unless you're married first. There's no charity or self-sacrifice involved in premarital sex.
@@MiguelDLewis You posted the most ridiculous thing under this entire video. You must've never had a real WOMAN in your life. Making love to a woman has ZERO to do with marriage.
@@hardworkingcriminal4873 and you sound just as off as the comment that your referring to. Making love is spiritual between 2 people who are bonded by marriage; so the other comment is correct.
I would never get over her saying her natural attraction don’t lie in a light skin brother. It would make me think your not attracted you don’t want me.
It’s hard to pay attention to her speak. Takes her forever to get to the point. It’s almost like she’s trying to cover up the truth by dancing around it.
she is trying to blame him when she forced him to marry her, knowing he wasn't ready...
Juanita Michelle And that’s why the light skin guy don’t talk to her anymore 🤣
Let them switch places on some weekends and see how much he can handle the kid, and her with her friends drinking at the bar situation?
And he seems like he has quite a bit of growing up to do.
Juanita Michelle both of them
“Stop breaking stuff, and start caressing stuff.”
Judge Lynn Toler
She got pregnant to lock him down...oldest a d dumbest trick in the book. He doesn't want to be there🏃🏿♂️🏃🏿♂️🏃🏿♂️
Ma'am, weren't interested in the light skin colour issues, that's your prerogative.
If men would just step up women wouldn’t have to wear the pants in the marriage
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@L Nixon you brought forth a strong argument. I think it’s a little bit of both so I don’t think either of us is wrong. But you are right, nice guys need to be more respected and desired. I definitely am looking for a nice guy not a no good boy
Great advice from the judge.
Sooooo its funny for her to violent and abusively aggressive towards him? Bet if it was HIM doing it the entire room would have been screaming at him. 🤦♀️ grow up
Damn berryboo91. Woman like you do exist and i mean that as a compliment. thank you for noticing. I really mean it
An other man get fk in marriage prostitution
Right! ✔warm me up. Hell bring your jumper cables, I ain't been started in a minute......
I love judge lynn not saying I don't like judge faith but this woman gives you what you need, straight with no chaser 😏
Judge Toler is so cute... 🤣 you gotta warm us up... 🤣
hahahahaha "I normally do not date light skinDED guys" Listen, I watch this show for the advice, the entertainment and the reaction on the audiences faces. Only 1:05 in, let the faces BEGIN!!
This is so my marriage... The judge was speaking to me today
Meme D hope things work out for u
More power to you sweety! Hope everything works out.
As judge Lynne and others say, "Marriage or wedding is a serious relationship." Both parties must be prepared, because your normal protection or guidiance will not necessarily be there anymore.
Single parent children are now the largest single problem in the world today. The child does not receive the father and mother advice.
That light skinned, dark skinned statement just threw me for a loop. What in the heck does it matter what color a person is if you have a connection and fall in love. colorism. smh
He doesn't really seem to be into her anyway. It sounds like she emasculates him.
The white dudes face when she said she normally does not date light skin guys🤣😂
I peeped that. He was pissed 🤣🤣
He looks like the light skinned version of ed from that movie "welcome to good burger, home of the good burger can I take your order" lookin ahh.
😅
Good advise judge
😇I love Judge Lynn Toler. You stop breaking stuff and you start caressing stuff and maybe you'll get some stuff💛💝💛💝💛💝💛💝
Annnnnd the point of you mentioning not liking skin guys?! What kind of dumbness???
She was in someway saying that he was unique, for her to pick him there must have been something about him that made him stand out, despite her not liking his skin tone.
@@blessedtobealive not so much not liking lightskin...just not attracted to it on a man she is romantically involved with.. Darker skin attracts her attention more..
People are trying to make what she said a colorism situation.. when really it's not.. Not this time..
@@INDIGO.GODDESS_573 yes you're right, liking wasn't the right word to use.
Super dumbness
Imagine the thought of having something in common with someone light "skinned-ed-ed."
R Dy yes that part. How about complexion. I hate the worse skin ded ded
@@lolag.9620 She sounded foolish.
This made me laugh
beautiful couple i hope they are able to work things out.. I wish there were updates.. I love her hair,its so pretty.. I am sending my thoughts and prayers to them..
While I see where Judge Lynn was coming from, at what time thought so you stop coddling a grown ass man? “Honey I need you to take the trash to the curb because it’s trash day. Honey can you put a load of laundry in? Whew! Thank you honey so so much for putting the clothes in the washer and taking out the trash.” Eff that! I understand needing to provide some direction occasionally but for the most part, when you see things that need to be done, step in and get the shit done. Help your partner out!
Not only did he not show up Superman, he did not show up a Man. As a man, if you can not properly care for your spawn (despite the relationship with the Mother), do NOT PROCREATE!
This what happens people’s when you don’t take the time to get to know a person.Please invest time to get to know a person especially before marriage I convince common sense isn’t common anymore.
I do hope he did it. She just gave the ABSOLUTE BEST advice. Thank you for the wisdom.
If he created an environment where she could feel cared for and supported, then she wouldn’t be acting like a mom to him.
I think judge was already through with this woman from the moment she started with that “light skinded” mess
She was going through postpartum depression!
No she wasnt she had that anger issue before the baby
lmao the due's face on the right when she said " normally I don't date light-skinned guys" 1:00
Ewww I can't believe she said that.
He sound lay back and lazy
She gives the best advice
That’s why I have an old saying in my mind that goes like this just because a woman marries you doesn’t mean she respects you and that’s real talk
After she made that light skin comment it threw me off and made me feel uncomfortable
Have a great show keep Rick and God bless make me smile 😊
Yes, my pep peeve......
work ded, look ded, shrimps, like ded 🤦🏾Seems like too many damn people skipped English class. 😱
Classic young love story would love an update of these two
How does being colorist help her case??
1:04 - 1:07 the dude on the right just says it all with his expression
He doesn't want to be there. I would file for divorce and let him be on his way.
LOVE that Guys face @ 1:04 hahaha! lol!
He married her cause he wanted to regardless of what he feels now. I disagree. No gun was put to his head. They don't do what they don't want to do any other time so no excuse for marriage either. 😡
lmao the light skin jab was so unnecessary
Damn if he hadn't gotten her pregnant he could've made a clean escape from her toxic ass but then again he scared of her so she would've just forced him back into the relationship
Yes in legal marriage prostitution
You want to be the man of the house yet you behave like a single boy how will you leave your wife by 2am to go to the club not paying bills common on now man up
He’s light skinned? What happened to old fashioned values?
They were not ready for marriage period!
So the first thing she says was she doesn’t date light skinned guys? Wth does that have to do with anything lol
They are a BEAUTIFUL couple I wish them the best BLESSINGS
thank you we're thriving 6 years later!
poppaking16 fortnite god thank you I appreciate your kind words
How do you talk to someone who tells you what to and throws things and breaking down doors and always playing the victim?
the white guy in the audience when she said she dosent date white guys lol, i would've been the same too!
She came ROLLING out the gate with ignorance.
Great wisdom judge very good advice
Grrrrrr! These two have/had difficulties expressing themselves. They have surface conversations. Just say what the real issues are! It's like trying to fix a lie. Ew I hope they fixed that 😣😣😣😣
still going strong 6 years and three kids later
The white woman behind Taniesha is so precious.
As many Black ppl nowadays, they weren’t cultivated for marriage and obviously hv no wise elders. I appreciate Lynn Toler for having a heart for Black Men when the rest of Black Women don’t and hv been taught that way by the world. Do Black Women officially hate Black Men? I think so subconsciously.......
Nope. We love YA'LL it's just the WHITE culture has conditioned us to hate black men and vice-versa because of their own personal fear and jealousy of the BLACK man and BLACK woman and not accepting and unwilling to learn that the BLACK man is the true headship of the ENTIRE WORLD and NATIONS and in its totality and entirety. I must admit we did kind of grow blind and accustomed to it because we thought Y'ALL didn't like or worst yet hated us too but now I am so glad just about all my black people are seeing the common denominator in this situation and no worries King we will rise and overcome. I am praying that our beautiful BLACK men be the RIGHTFUL heads of ALL households across the world. Keep praying. The discord between a black man and black woman NEVER began with us. I love y'all black men always have and certainly ALWAYS will. Stay prayed up. The world will shift and their demise is coming soon. 🥰✊🏾🙌🏾💃🏾😍 What's a black man's strength without a black woman? Just remember who you are as a black man and who you have always been. A loving husband and father. A provider, a protector, a lover, a giver, selfless, compassionate, loyal. That's who our black men are. Your strength comes from the father of ALL fathers, our Heavenly Father, and in return we gain strength from our black men. Just keep praying we're almost free. Freedom, equality, simplicity, peace, steadfastness has ALWAYS been in the veins of a black man. We need y'all. That's why the world has always been in a state of conflict, confusion, and corruption because our black man is the pillar of strength and provision and care and love and peace. Ya'll got to remember who you are. Y'all are the teachers of manhood and every culture of boys included white(despite their unwillingness, but God will handle them specifically) learn from y'all. God is a black man and so is his son. That's where our wisdom as in addition to us as black women. The bearers of life. And teachers of motherhood. That's WHY we have WISDOM we didn't get this wisdom by accident God intentionally placed that in us because he's black. And I wholeheartedly believe that. Stay prayed up. We got this. #blackmanblackwomanlove #blackmanandblackwomanstrength #dearfutureblackhusband #dearmyfutureblackhubbyprayers #dearmyfutureblackchildrenprayers
Sadly, I was too blind to believe this but so glad I know what I originally didn't know before. Thank God for that. Black men have ALWAYS been woke to the nonsense. I can honestly admit we were in too deep as black women to see it. But, thank God we see the clarity, well women like me. I love my black men and women. And, I not only love and like being a woman, took a little mintue to accept that too, but nonetheless I did, but anyway not only do I love being a woman but black woman never was ashamed of proclaiming my culture and ethnicity.
Why can't couples just be together without one being man of the house?
it's sooooooo daaated lool
Juge Lynn is a brillant advisor! I loving it