How To Live An Elegant Life

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    One of the questions I'm often asked by viewers is - how can I live a more elegant life? In this episode I'm going to show you how I live life in an elegant and relaxed way, focussing on the small moments that enrich our every day. From enjoying even the most mundane task, to creating a beautiful lunch, how to dress elegantly, and what makes an elegant home.
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  • @NicolasFairford
    @NicolasFairford  ปีที่แล้ว +324

    Hello everyone. If you comment on this video and receive a response saying you have won a prize, please report and ignore it. It is not me. Thanks and be safe x

    • @shoshanachavab
      @shoshanachavab ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I got one of those

    • @stefanhelbig8726
      @stefanhelbig8726 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂❤

    • @KevinWJenner
      @KevinWJenner ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sales, son. Yes please. Really looking for Wedgewood and even bone, though tea is among my priorities, also blood pudding and a tip on some legit bangers.

    • @marie-rosechakhtoura4693
      @marie-rosechakhtoura4693 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes i got one and i didn't respond

    • @isabelneves3854
      @isabelneves3854 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very true indeed!! Thank you so much for sharing!!!

  • @joycelangon5782
    @joycelangon5782 ปีที่แล้ว +1164

    Nicolas I am a 65 yr old woman. I recently retired 9 months ago. I find living in elegance is a choice and gift you give yourself and others as the come into your home. I was watching you preparing your lunch which I do every day I am home. Using my beautiful dishes, lighting candles, place mats and cloth napkins add such a special touch. I love playing gentle soft music in my home all of the time. It makes me feel that home is a place of beauty and relaxation. I shop at many fine stores but love estate sales, consignment stores, and like shops to find unique pieces to add to my home. It is a joy to find treasure, bring it into my life, and giving it new life instead of it being destroyed. I also shop for designer clothing at resale shops, it is amazing what you can find some new articles of clothing w/tags still attached. You are absolutely right you don,t need a lot of money. I love your videos so much, and find you so very inspiring. I truly look forward to what you share in 🎉each post you bless us with. Be safe, happy and healthy. 💐

    • @dainasworldnumbers88
      @dainasworldnumbers88 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      So true.

    • @TheDriftwoodlover
      @TheDriftwoodlover ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Well said Nicolas. Yes, why not set up a selling page, but not just for us. Establish something on a wider platform and let us know how to find it. I have been getting ready to downsize and as I sell things on FB marketplace because it’s easy, I tuck the cash away for something special. It’s risen to a nice sum. I did have one more expensive item that bumped it up.

    • @lgrigg5439
      @lgrigg5439 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      You sound like a beautiful lady.

    • @ianbertus9689
      @ianbertus9689 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I am 68 and I used to be like you, buying art, dishes, cutlery, furniture, linen, etc. Then suddenly I realized that when I die, at any moment, these items will be taken over by servants and neighbours. My kids live abroad and they dont have the interest or reach to have any control over my possessions. So is there any purpose?

    • @ibosquez5238
      @ibosquez5238 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@ianbertus9689
      That's your stuff, you enjoy it! What happens after that? Does it matter? Those beautiful things are meant to be enjoyed by the owner, you, until you pass away, that could be until you are 70 or 80 or 90. I visit friends and family and see if they appreciate beautiful things, my sister loves pearls. I'm giving her my pearls when pass away. Those special people that appreciate and will take care of those things, those are the people that will get those items. Pass it forward.

  • @andreawhite7112
    @andreawhite7112 ปีที่แล้ว +336

    I think we crave this lifestyle because we are so fed up with how the World is currently. Watching your videos makes me feel like I am dreamily in another world that is both comforting and somehow familiar. It’s almost like a beautiful meditation and reminder to enjoy the moment. ❤

    • @Keepinitreel108
      @Keepinitreel108 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @robinbjorge9329
      @robinbjorge9329 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      My thoughts exactly!!😊

    • @trishferrer8209
      @trishferrer8209 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I agree 🙂

    • @Keepinitreel108
      @Keepinitreel108 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@markaralvin7919 Dude you wrote the exact comment to another woman. You are suspect bro!☝🏾☝🏾🤔

    • @ThatsJustPeachy1871
      @ThatsJustPeachy1871 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      We all deserve beauty and reject the ugliness and evil enveloping our world. It’s so nice when we can take something so simple and make it so special, beautiful and elegant ☺️

  • @denisegadreau9726
    @denisegadreau9726 ปีที่แล้ว +531

    "Elegance is for everyone." What a marvelous quote! ❤

    • @NicolasFairford
      @NicolasFairford  ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Thank you so much x

    • @daviddill3484
      @daviddill3484 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      My thought exactly, Denise! And Nicolas is elegance personified - a breath of fresh air in today's world.

    • @jessbooth5495
      @jessbooth5495 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Such a beautiful thought. You don’t need to be rich, it’s a mindset and approach to dealing with people and things

    • @jeannehunter5344
      @jeannehunter5344 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And how the Italians have made it a way of life. Every nook and cranny serves up a beautiful surprise.

    • @laminage
      @laminage ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Unfortunately alot of folks don't believe that. Less is more. The Back Area evokes Memories of Paul McCartney's First Home after The Beatles became successful.

  • @hinabarron3842
    @hinabarron3842 ปีที่แล้ว +229

    Nicolas, I am getting married today and you are the person I wanted to hear speaking as I got ready for this beautiful day. Your kindness, voice, elegance and advise are all so appreciated. Thank you for all that you do to brighten our days!!...xoxoxo

    • @NicolasFairford
      @NicolasFairford  ปีที่แล้ว +44

      I hope you have a wonderful day! Wishing you a lifetime of happiness X

    • @chabridgettumusiime8994
      @chabridgettumusiime8994 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @kyers9817
      @kyers9817 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Congratulations!! 💒

    • @boboneill6554
      @boboneill6554 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Congratulations. Best wishes for a happy life.

    • @tamarasahakyan5432
      @tamarasahakyan5432 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hi

  • @patriciakaye4999
    @patriciakaye4999 ปีที่แล้ว +268

    Your parents can be very proud of the young man they've raised, and the young man can be very proud of all he's accomplished so far. I'm looking forward to watching you soar.

    • @NicolasFairford
      @NicolasFairford  ปีที่แล้ว +29

      So kind - Thank you!

    • @robertdunbar2434
      @robertdunbar2434 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I agree. Nicolas has a bright future.

    • @blahblah1438
      @blahblah1438 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Elegance is for everyone… I like that

    • @missmelissa6530
      @missmelissa6530 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I have always thought that too ❤

  • @vodell4935
    @vodell4935 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    I love this quote... "You can live an elegant life by making everything that you do your own beautiful moment." Such a lovely sentiment. Be aware of what brings you joy and savor every task and moment. Thanks for reminding me that I need to practice slowing down and being quiet and relaxed.

  • @raberuo_dobida
    @raberuo_dobida ปีที่แล้ว +376

    "Elegance is a mindset. It is taking the time to be present in your life and do all things in a way that is going to enrich it, so that even a mundane task, like sweeping leaves, becomes a moment to enjoy and to cherish." Beautiful definition.

    • @NicolasFairford
      @NicolasFairford  ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Thank you - I'm so glad you liked this!

    • @R.P.Miller
      @R.P.Miller ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Agreed!

    • @PhetogoNoore
      @PhetogoNoore ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Beautiful

    • @kizzymulcaster6057
      @kizzymulcaster6057 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes and so relatable as i was sweeping leaves earlier 😁

    • @SarahLB22
      @SarahLB22 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I have to share this its very beautifully said.

  • @LiveFree123
    @LiveFree123 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    You always make us feel welcome in your home and life. Wear kindness like a garment and you’ll always be elegantly dressed. 💙

    • @mllegordon1
      @mllegordon1 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Love love love this quote.

    • @Angie-fe8yd
      @Angie-fe8yd ปีที่แล้ว

      💝💐💎

  • @JolovesDecor
    @JolovesDecor ปีที่แล้ว +406

    Isn’t Nicolas a wise soul for his young age? He includes us, but never makes his audience feel as though we’ve fell short before we get started. Ty you for all your content. He’s pure in heart, class, and character. ❤️

    • @NicolasFairford
      @NicolasFairford  ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Thoughtful comment - thank you!

    • @frankieamsden7918
      @frankieamsden7918 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Nicolas is a true gentleman.

    • @miettesdemoidufrenoy3610
      @miettesdemoidufrenoy3610 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Nicolas you are the ÉLÉGANCE !

    • @beatam2146
      @beatam2146 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Very nice the way you explain talk the way you open our eyes for what do we really need to do be and live elegant . Perfect thank you

    • @nancychartrand7808
      @nancychartrand7808 ปีที่แล้ว

      He is such a a delight ,,,im just enthralled by him

  • @decorDD
    @decorDD ปีที่แล้ว +76

    I know I have said this before Nicolas , but your lovely videos are so calming in a world filled with chaos ! They're a reminder to us to take a moment to savour the beauty of life ..thank you .

  • @TheRayjane
    @TheRayjane ปีที่แล้ว +63

    There is a saying ....”Money cant buy you class”. I would say the same of elegance, Nicolas you are elegant without the expensive clothing or most expensive home decor. You have great taste and moreover a beautiful heart. Thank you for this lovely video.🌹

    • @sylviekins
      @sylviekins ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well said❤

  • @lovebertierose
    @lovebertierose ปีที่แล้ว +185

    This was the first vlog that I actually teared up. I do not like eating alone. I use distractions with my meals instead of enjoying what I have prepared (not so elegant). I will change this immediately as you taught how. Thanks Nicolas. You a beautiful, elegant soul.

    • @Motherhubbard170
      @Motherhubbard170 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      If you don't like eating on your own, look up Tim Janus on youtube, its stunningly beautiful scenery with gentle music which you could play

    • @lovebertierose
      @lovebertierose ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@Motherhubbard170 Thank you- I will.

    • @pia9343
      @pia9343 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I checked Tim Janis out. Wonderful and calming scenery and music. Thank you for the tip.

    • @Michele49
      @Michele49 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I understand because this my experience. My heart goes out to you. We are not alone.

    • @gmar7836
      @gmar7836 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Motherhubbard170lol. I know who Tim Janus is! I met him once, made him dinner back in 1987 he was dating my best friend at the time. A very classy guy too 😊

  • @robertdunbar2434
    @robertdunbar2434 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    Nicolas, thank you for this most inspiring video. I love your approach to living an elegant life. It's not about wealth, but having a mindset of bringing out the best in the most simple and mundane situations each day. You set a wonderful example for your viewers. You are so genuine, humble, and inspirational. On a gloomy and rainy day in New York City, you brought a ray of sunshine. Continue to be yourself. Your warm and inviting personality is what attracts viewers to your channel. God bless, Robert

    • @CatsArtAndRubberDucks
      @CatsArtAndRubberDucks ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ich kann nur zustimmen! Besser kann man es kaum ausdrücken.

    • @NicolasFairford
      @NicolasFairford  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'm so happy to hear that - Thank you!

    • @youtimeful
      @youtimeful ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Loved this video. I so agree that elegance isn’t about wealth but believe it is about intention, gratitude, and mindfulness. I learned valuable lessons from my dear German friend in Germany ( I am in America) about how to make the everyday special. It wasn’t expensive things but a simple candle lit at breakfast, cup and saucer instead of a mug, taking time to savor whatever is in front of you, a friend, a sunset, a peaceful moment.

  • @ValentinaStJohn-cv6fu
    @ValentinaStJohn-cv6fu ปีที่แล้ว +30

    “Elegance is for everyone” is such a gracious statement from the extraordinary gentleman that you are. It so perfectly captures what your channel is about. If you write a home & lifestyle book that should be your title. Thank you so much for inspiring so many to live a pleasurable, peaceful, thoughtful and beautiful life with even the simplest examples of elegance.💗💜♥️

  • @estherlum9045
    @estherlum9045 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Hi Nicholas, I think having that selling page is a wonderful idea for your business. Hope it grows! 🌱🍀

  • @LarchmontLady
    @LarchmontLady ปีที่แล้ว +62

    3 Ways Nicolas Has Taught Me To Be Elegant:
    1. Always have fresh flowers 💐 in the house.
    2. Using my good dishes even when alone. Right now, I’m using my Thanksgiving dishes and next month I’ll switch to my Christmas dishes.
    3. Afternoon tea ☕️ is an elegant ritual.

  • @Mienarrr
    @Mienarrr ปีที่แล้ว +73

    I love how relaxing and thoughtful your content is :) It‘s great company on some nights where you feel a bit overwhelmed with life :) Thank you!

    • @jeanash9502
      @jeanash9502 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I need this video today. Stressed out and unmotivated so, I can watch you dear friend 😊

    • @NicolasFairford
      @NicolasFairford  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My pleasure! Thank you!

  • @beezneez2056
    @beezneez2056 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Nicholas! I just love you. My life is a stressful whirlwind and I’ve been very depressed. I’m going into work an hour later than normal, so I took the time to watch this. It was just the peaceful, pleasant, inspiring moment I needed. Thank you. I will try to keep this feeling as I go about my day. 💗🙏🌸

  • @soinlove6889
    @soinlove6889 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    Nicolas, you're a gem. Your parents must be so proud to have such a lovely son!

    • @NicolasFairford
      @NicolasFairford  ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thank you so much x

    • @catherinestephenson1139
      @catherinestephenson1139 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I must agree what a beautiful young man I would of loved a son like you thanks for making such wonderful blogs so inspiring 💕💕💕💕

    • @Dwilli1_thebussyboy
      @Dwilli1_thebussyboy ปีที่แล้ว

      This comment, speaks volumes about you as a parent. If you aren't one, you should be.

  • @patsywhiddon1832
    @patsywhiddon1832 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As I created a beautiful pot of Ratatouille yesterday I felt elegant chopping my fresh vegetables. I enjoyed each step of the process so much, being present for myself 🙏🏼🥰

  • @larrymcrorey786
    @larrymcrorey786 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Watching and listening to Nicholas makes one just want to try harder…to do better. Always a good thing. 😊

  • @Chahlie
    @Chahlie ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I love how Nicolas spends time cleaning and beautifying his outdoor dining table....then sits on the steps :)

  • @deborahhuckaby4623
    @deborahhuckaby4623 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    I'm probably in the small percentage of women that hate clothes and shoe shopping. I shop when I need certain items of course but I rather shop for things for my home. This was a very elegant video and always so relaxing!!

    • @imapip6313
      @imapip6313 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I’m in your category 😊

    • @NicolasFairford
      @NicolasFairford  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you so much x

    • @eily_b
      @eily_b ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me too. If I find somethint I buy a few items of it. 😄 If possible in different colours. But I also love to shop for my home.

    • @deborahhuckaby4623
      @deborahhuckaby4623 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lol, I'm really glad to hear I'm not the only female that doesn't care for clothes and shoe shopping. Lol

    • @sheilaenglish3293
      @sheilaenglish3293 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I’m with you. I love shopping for home items which I find much more fun than shopping for shoes or clothes.

  • @feliciapillow5860
    @feliciapillow5860 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Right on Nicolas!!! I agree with you 150%." Elegance is for everyone". I would never mistake you for a pretentious, uptight person. Your kindness of heart and spirit shines through. We use to say," his parents raised him right." Sincerely.

  • @mediterraneamente
    @mediterraneamente ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I love your patio, your style, your voice, your hair...thank you Nicolas. Your channel is like medicine for me🤍

  • @meowma201
    @meowma201 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Nicolas, I've had such a rotten day at work today. I'm in Australia and I work in an educational environment 🙃. My days had been rough and emotionally challenged. Then today, instead of doing work after hours, I decided to watch your video. Thank you for calm countenance and humility, coupled with your soothing voice. Thank you for making me feel better.

  • @jayashreepkunju
    @jayashreepkunju ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Hello Nicolas I'm from India. I grew up on romantic novels before I post-graduated in accounting. Your videos take me back to a world of elegance and graceful living, away from the din of life on a fast lane. Thank you for rhe beauty you spread through your video posts. God bless you.

  • @conversecone9687
    @conversecone9687 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Such wonderful advice to be a kind person to live an elegant life! I love that! It is so true! You are a very kind person, Nicolas.

  • @helgadamme5474
    @helgadamme5474 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    In einer Welt von Kriegen, Streitigkeiten und Hass sind deine Videos wie ein Ausflug in eine friedliche, schönere ubd bessere Welt. Vielen Dank für deine wunderbare Arbeit.

  • @nomads.landing
    @nomads.landing ปีที่แล้ว +115

    It's nice that you took the gift of the measuring spoons in the spirit in which it was intended rather than take offence. That's real class.

  • @sk.n.9302
    @sk.n.9302 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I love your definition of elegance, you made me think of my aunts (who have now passed), they embodied this similar kind of grace. Thank you for reminding me!

  • @patriciadowd2948
    @patriciadowd2948 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I always look forward to your videos because they are so relaxing and peaceful. I love a elegant home even though I do not have a lot of money. I shop estate sales , yard sales and flea markets to find some great buys. Neoclassical style is my favorite and I love art for my walls. Thank you for making such wonderful videos.

  • @aintgotnotltc
    @aintgotnotltc ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Each time I watch your videos I am speechless at how lovely you are. Every point you make is so thoughtful, articulate, and inspiring. I must say I wish we could all be having lunch with you on that nice table setting

  • @gmpacheco60
    @gmpacheco60 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    What an interesting video Nicolas. I really liked the topic of how to dress elegantly and how to invest your money in things that highlight elegance, such as good shoes and good accessories. I am an elderly person with a not big budget and I cannot buy very expensive clothes, but I can from time to time invest in good shoes or a handbag, scarves and fashion jewelry that help me make the most of the clothes I already have in stock. But this summer for example, I gave my clothes made of synthetic fabrics and bought everything made of linen and very elegant, it was a good investment that will last me. Please keep bringing videos with these topics. I love them and they educate me. Thank so very much.

  • @karenkoslowski2329
    @karenkoslowski2329 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I love you! I’m not afraid to say that because life is short and I’m older! Your videos are joyful and always elegant. I can’t wait to see what you do next. Stay well.

  • @jsylvest500
    @jsylvest500 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    And that's why I love you Nicolas, you're a truly kind young man always inclusive and appreciative. What a helpful video, I will watch this one again and again!

  • @thomasdinan9667
    @thomasdinan9667 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    As a poor artist, I have worked hard to live well on less. If one cooks from fresh, simple ingredients and chooses a good, value wine, one can eat beautifully for very little. Similarly in other aspects of life, the right, thoughtful choice can create an elegant affect without spending a lot.

  • @helengreen6724
    @helengreen6724 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Hello Nicolas. I truly enjoyed this elegance video. I like your definition of not only elegance, but life and how you live it. You are so right about being kind, putting on a smile and just be nice to people is very attractive. Just feeling good in your place and having it the way you want it. Looking forward to your next video.

  • @stephaniemcclellan2904
    @stephaniemcclellan2904 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Your videos are inspiring and relaxing. Thank you for these wonderful lifestyle tips!

  • @AlexanderHernandez-f5b
    @AlexanderHernandez-f5b ปีที่แล้ว

    Nicolas Fairford, you have inspired me - San Antonio,Texas USA

  • @ConnieBach
    @ConnieBach ปีที่แล้ว +15

    You gave me reason to replace my measuring spoons! Thanks Nicolas! ❤️❤️

  • @johnmones1450
    @johnmones1450 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I agree with you. Having an elegant life doesn’t mean to be pretentious or ostentatious. It has to do more with not only the quality of what you surround oneself with but also the way you project yourself and treat others around you. Have a fantastic week👍🙏😎

  • @clementineclement5757
    @clementineclement5757 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    How I agree with the lighting ! It's the nr 1 lesson students get in Interior Design schools : never a single source of lighting, especially from the ceiling, but lots of lights spread over the room. Lately we've been invited to a manour, the party started pleasantly in the lounge, alas the dining-room was lit with only one large ceiling chandelier, granted a sumptious one. But : it ruined the atmosphere and ...aged faces ! Couldn't wait to return to the lounge for coffee, where thankfully lovely Asian shade lamps were creating a cosy atmosphere.

  • @LindaKordich
    @LindaKordich ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Absolutely beautiful ❤ vlog. when I clean my dishes at night it’s like putting everything to bed so that in the morning the kitchen is ready for me; ready for another relaxed beautiful new day.

  • @margaretbarclay-laughton2086
    @margaretbarclay-laughton2086 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Nicholas your lovely video reminded me of the most elegant lady i ever knew. She had spent years in private service she walked almost silently, her voice like yours soothing.
    Her home was simply furnished but of quiet good quality nothing screamed for attention. Thank you for bringing my day to a calming end filled with happy memories..

  • @user-iz4op3eg4n
    @user-iz4op3eg4n ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing! Every detail in life could be a beautiful moment of joy 💛✨

  • @KafkaShore
    @KafkaShore ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Nicolas, your videos make me appreciate the simpler things in life ❤ Hope you have a great week!

    • @NicolasFairford
      @NicolasFairford  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm so happy to hear that!

    • @MsElisabete123
      @MsElisabete123 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nicolas, I've just watched your Vídeo and I was surprised that someone lives and share "elegance" when we see the opposite everywhere.
      I love that way of life, too.
      I had to subscrive.
      I'm from PORTUGAL

  • @jere5555
    @jere5555 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    When one conducts themselves respectfully, with consideration to to others, there is an elegance. You, dear Nicolas, exude such. Your home is a lovely reflection of yourself. ❤. P.s. your selling page will be much appreciated 🎉

  • @agabert7318
    @agabert7318 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Enjoy your weather as much as you can. I saw you working in your Courtyard Garden and grieved; we have snow already in Western Canada 🇨🇦. My wife and I went to attend a Birthday Party of one of her dear High School friends last evening and ended up enjoying a quiet meal out for ourselves, as we hadn't checked our messages that the Party was canceled due to the bad roads. We had driven into town on the backroads and avoided the slick pavement of the Highway. We turned the situation into a Romantic Date Night. A little preseason Christmas Carols on the snowy drive home, and the effect was magical.
    Have a great week, Nicolas. Your Italian Tan is golden!
    A

  • @maryoleary2037
    @maryoleary2037 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    For elegance in a home, you should have stated one thing that you do extremely well, Nicolas. That is to have plenty of fresh flowers and plants about....never fake ones. A floral bouquet or a stunning plant can really elevate any room to obtain more elegance.

  • @kathysyphrit5713
    @kathysyphrit5713 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Elegance is candles and flowers fro no special occasion , just fro every day, because every day counts. Be Elegant every day.

  • @eleni1968
    @eleni1968 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Once again, Thank You Nicolas!!! It's always better to invest in shoes because they expand your wardrobe. Clothing doesn't need to be fancy. Keep your wardrobe with very basic Navy or midnight blue, brown / beige and hunter green with classic silhouette and accessorize. As we say here in NYC its not really about who you're wearing, it's about how well you can arrange and re-arrange your rags.

  • @cblodg1
    @cblodg1 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I feel so calm watching you and listening to your voice. Thank you for sharing what you do with everyone.

  • @lilianemareil2147
    @lilianemareil2147 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I’m following you from France since a year, first by curiosity then with more and more pleasure. I’m a grand mother of 75 and you remind me of my son easygoing way of life. It seems easy but it is not. Thanks to show us how you stand for kindness with smile, that’s the only way to be happy

  • @Avignon1996
    @Avignon1996 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    What a beautiful video! I enjoyed every second, especially the last tips is amazing 😍. You are such a beautiful person inside and out and yes it would be great to create a webpage with all the things you want to replace in your house and sell them. You are the epitome of elegance! 👏❤️

  • @christineryman579
    @christineryman579 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Aw Nicolas, I'm in tears, that last part of your video just got me chunking, it is just so true, it doesn't mean anything if you're not kind, well said, I just love your videos. And you don't have to be rich to be elegant either which is great! The simpler the more elegant, thanks again for a wonderful video, I am hooked on them all, never tire of looking at them, I'm sure you're going to do well with the sale! Have a fab (& elegant!) week. Xx

  • @janejdough2230
    @janejdough2230 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This is one of your best presentations! I enjoyed it immensely.

  • @cindyceraolo4676
    @cindyceraolo4676 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    your home is beautiful and inviting! Your style is what I would love for my home, but it doesn’t suit my spouse so I have to compromise.

  • @gabriellad1725
    @gabriellad1725 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    One of your best videos yet Nicholas! Thank you for those lovely tips and wise words delivered so elegantly. Wonderful!

  • @vickynay9863
    @vickynay9863 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Nicholas, you are so correct about buying good shoes. Not only do they last and still look great, they are repairable when things like heels wear out. Cheap shoes often do not have the quality leather that can be repaired. Even just replacing a heel on a cheap shoe is impossible because of the shortcuts often taken in its construction.

  • @lifeby2044
    @lifeby2044 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "Elegance is for everyone" is absolutely true. Money does not give elegance what does give is the possibility to buy expensive things, that is all. Would interesting a sale page.

  • @ClaireMcD
    @ClaireMcD ปีที่แล้ว +5

    A chef’s tip for you Nicholas - put the dressing in the bowl first then add the salad before mixing. This way the dressing is distributed much better x

  • @carla.c
    @carla.c ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I needed this video 🤗

  • @patricekanagy5898
    @patricekanagy5898 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m 66. I find that keeping your own home clean and tidy (whether an apartment, house, RV, or condo) is imperative. Do the dishes, make your bed, set an elegant table for meals, savor what you have and live within your means. You are educating many. 🥰❤️

  • @susanprentice6075
    @susanprentice6075 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Clothes always buy the best you can afford and buy less. Church’s’ shoes are great!

  • @joshenyou360
    @joshenyou360 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Lovely, as always. You are inspiring Nicolas. You know, I have a comfortable home with many lovely things. The issue is I believe I have to much. When I have guests over, they always say that "they just love walking through looking at all of the eye candy." However, I have come to discover that more is not always better. This vlog has prompted me to make a change. I have decided to go through one room at a time and remove what I feel is to much. It may take a while but in the end I will be much happier. Thank you for your inspiration. Also, I am like you Nicolas, there is nothing I dislike more than overhead lighting. Since I was young, I never felt comfortable in a home where they used over heads. My home is a home of lamps, large and small. Candles and soft jazz.

  • @hernanruiz6683
    @hernanruiz6683 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    That's right, you don't have to be rich to live an Elegant life, I love interior Design and Garden design, greetings from USA 🇺🇸 🙏🇨🇴✌️❤️

  • @josephblake4135
    @josephblake4135 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Living well and enjoying quality time with REAL friends. You remind each of us the joy of maximizing the elegance of living well. Keeping it simple and BEAUTIFUL.

  • @lindaegert552
    @lindaegert552 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When your furniture is under arrest......'up against the wall !!! " LED lighting is the worst. If you can still find them, use incandescent bulbs.

  • @planetissa4899
    @planetissa4899 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So true about kindness, what the world needs now is more love not hate and then elegance will be abundant not just in material things but in our actions and spirit.☮️

  • @massigironi
    @massigironi ปีที่แล้ว +6

    What a locely video! And I could agree more re all your tips (and especially the last one about being nice and kind). Really refreshingly honest and true x

  • @stareye8
    @stareye8 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Nicolas, I've been watching your videos since you've started this YT channel and I just wanted to say that this is the best video you have uploaded. The sound was perfect (remember when you first started and we couldn't hear you? Lol. You have come so far:) editing was lovely, voice over, visuals, everything but mostly this wonderful content. You outdid yourself with this one. Congratulations. I look forward to watching you on your continuing journey and the changes you will be making to your beautiful, elegant home:)

    • @NicolasFairford
      @NicolasFairford  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you! It has been quite the journey x

  • @mahnazfard5580
    @mahnazfard5580 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hi Nicolas, you’re living my dream life and I enjoy it 🙏
    Elegant and simple

  • @shirleymartin548
    @shirleymartin548 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nicholas…thank you…… yes be kind …..Love you ❤️. your countenance and voice and subjects …..all i just adore ❤️

  • @marilynbunte5376
    @marilynbunte5376 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I fully agree paying for quality shoes, coats and accessories. Another Sunday I would not miss with you!

  • @saral8092
    @saral8092 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hey Nicolas, great content, thank you for sharing. I thrift high quality pieces for my closet, they bring me joy, they have a story and they are usually unique. I know thrifting is not for everyone but it’s worth trying.

  • @tiamo_danielle
    @tiamo_danielle ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I appreciate your message that “elegance is for everyone.” Thank you, Nicolas!

  • @Hangrier
    @Hangrier ปีที่แล้ว

    This video made me smile

  • @KevinWJenner
    @KevinWJenner ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Something about your work feels like reconnecting with an English way of life. Over here in The States, many of us yearn for ancestral and cultural, national fulfillment. Someday I hope to visit or 'return' home. Your offering is something I have searched for, and finding a practical primer/discourse on English and British culture; thus an fellowship met. God Bless you, Nicolas Fairford.

    • @kimberlyperrotis8962
      @kimberlyperrotis8962 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m also an American to whom the English lifestyle is very appealing. At times everything feels rushed, careless and ugly here. I’ve always tried to “live a beautiful life”, strictly for myself and others in my home.

    • @KevinWJenner
      @KevinWJenner ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kimberlyperrotis8962 There's no substitute for fine living, best wishes in and among your pursuits.

    • @rebeccafrost5542
      @rebeccafrost5542 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm an African American living life in a modern multicultural society. Nothing difficult too sit down and enjoy a nutritional meal in silence. I was raised that way. Nice video.

  • @emmanewman9863
    @emmanewman9863 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Just woke up in Australia and watched this. I feel really calm and relaxed. Although I live here I watched and missed my old uk home. The crunchy winter leaves. I felt relaxed watching you sweep the leaves and make food and arrange flowers.
    I’m getting out of bed now to elegantly put on my tea and toast. I’m going to sit in the garden and eat. Watch the birds and start. My day. Your right it is a mindset. I may put on a nice dress today to and some beautiful purfume. A bold lip. It’s about feeling good.

  • @michellepauline1043
    @michellepauline1043 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I eat salad all the time but don't take the time to make it elegant. Where is your glass salad bowl and wood servers from? I want to purchase a set to start making my lunches elegant too. Thank you for another great video! Greetings from the USA.

  • @saralewis6859
    @saralewis6859 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I am a 72 year old mamaw that has been married to the same man for 52 years so far and hope to have many more. i grew up in the hippy era and alway loved all people. I enjoy your videos so much. You bring me calm peace when i watch your videos. Will never experience what you have experenced but live a little of that threw your videos. May God bless you as he has me. sara from Tennessee USA

    • @saralewis6859
      @saralewis6859 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Wisdom-Nuggets-Tid-Bits Grandmother

    • @saralewis6859
      @saralewis6859 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have two beautiful granddaughters . One is a doctor and the other is in college for a degree in foreign language. They both called me mamaw which is a common name for grandmother in the USA.

  • @valerieward7673
    @valerieward7673 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Well done Nicolas, best advice I've ever heard was when you said to just be nice. You are a very elegant young man and so wise beyond your years. Love your style and I look so forward to your videos each week. Thank you for sharing yourself with us.❤

  • @sebastiankyte7411
    @sebastiankyte7411 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Lovely video Nicholas.

  • @mavep2855
    @mavep2855 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Nicolas, you are elegance personified! Thank you for sharing your kind, thoughtful wisdom with us.🙏🏻❤️

  • @kellyscarolinagarden
    @kellyscarolinagarden ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I must admit, I tragically lost my brother. I've been suffering from insomnia. People say I have a relaxing voice. Nicolas your voice is so kind and soothing. Listening to Nicolas voice helps me fall asleep. I have to listen to previous videos otherwise I want to stay awake to watch.

    • @zeek4749
      @zeek4749 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am so sorry 😢about your brother 🙏 I lost my father a few months ago it’s very painful 😢I notice I alway do things to relax me

    • @kellyscarolinagarden
      @kellyscarolinagarden ปีที่แล้ว

      @@zeek4749 I truly appreciate that, Thank you! I'm 😔 for your loss too. 🌹🧡

  • @janmorris4066
    @janmorris4066 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I agree with you completely Nicolas :) I am so fortunate to have the time to create beauty and comfort around my home and gardens. It brings me such peace and joy to relax and enjoy the day at home.

    • @markaralvin7919
      @markaralvin7919 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello Jan.. Am sorry if this sounds weird but you wrote a nice and wonderful comment on here. I can tell you are a very positive and charming person. If it's okay by you, I hope you don't mind to be friends?

  • @ImtheLico
    @ImtheLico ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I have to agree that it's a mindset on how to live your life. In watching your videos, I have come to appreciate what I have and taking care of it. Keep up the good work young man!

  • @lindap6150
    @lindap6150 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I look forward to your videos. You are truly elegant and wise and give us peace and gratitude to enjoy life and to be more "present"
    Thank you Nicolas, for being you and sharing your life values with us!! The salad looks delicious and more special with your table setting🙂

  • @dyinteriors
    @dyinteriors ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Nicolas, why has a suitable mate not turned up in your life? You are a catch on so many levels. You should be sharing this elegant life not only with us, but also with someone that hugs you at night and caresses you tenderly when you need love and support through the times that challenge all of us. It is my deepest hope that your Prince Charming comes to share with you!

    • @cecilyerker
      @cecilyerker ปีที่แล้ว

      All in good time. Everything will happen as it’s meant to.

    • @dyinteriors
      @dyinteriors ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cecilyerker hopefully you are right. How do you know things will eventually happen on some time frame that is predestine to take place? Sometimes things do not materialize in our lives because we do not put in the effort needed to have them just show up. You seem to be able to see into the future or am I mistaken?

  • @alexandriaofatlantis
    @alexandriaofatlantis ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My goodness, I almost passed up this video when it was recommended to me. I had preconceived notions about the content and/or creator (as I’m from a very religious, blue-collar area of the Midwest), and I’m so glad I clicked this video. We all could learn so much from you, Nicolas. You inspire me & you are so eloquent in the way you advise your viewers. Truly artful & tactful & such a great display of interpersonal skills. Bravo!

  • @beverlymartin1414
    @beverlymartin1414 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    In this world where you can choose to be anything- choose to be kind. 💙

  • @rlund651
    @rlund651 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Enjoy your post. I live an aesthetic life as well. Everything in life should bring you joy.

  • @moonlightdancer5495
    @moonlightdancer5495 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Lovely taste in music ❤

  • @cathygodin7196
    @cathygodin7196 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I loved your content today! Specifically - "Making Everything You do - Your Own Elegant Moment" THANK YOU! I needed that reminder! xo

  • @susanprentice6075
    @susanprentice6075 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Elegance is doing things as they have been since Georgian times. Elegance is Good Taste. Clothes,interiors, food etc. But you know that Nicholas and you have it in spades. It is something you can’t learn.

  • @rosalindhambleton9012
    @rosalindhambleton9012 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Bonjour Nicolas, This was a very nice moment spent with you. I totally agree with you that "Elegance is a mindset". I truly like the last tip you gave which is to be nice to others and smile at people, be kind to others, that is elegant for sure. If I may, I would add that being elegant does not mean that a person has to follow very trend there is, for ex. fashion, decor, etc. Having and enjoying nice classic pieces will always show elegance. That being said, thank you for sharing this lovely moment, here, with you today. - Rosalind -

  • @davidandniko3428
    @davidandniko3428 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you for this. Everyone needs some elegance in their life and can achieve it no matter their circumstance.

  • @newyorkmae8455
    @newyorkmae8455 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    my daughter & I pray for you, Nicolas, before watching your pleasant programs.