As a woman of color...the husband WAS the better person. He was able to rise above ..."LOVE bears ALL things, BELIEVES ALL things, HOPES ALL Things, ENDURES ALL things...LOVE never fails. 1 Cor 13:7,8a. He LOVED his family above ALL else.
@@robinvolpi not so. Husband, albeit was super crass, is right. Black lives definitely matter, however "ALL LIVES MATTER". Protesting for a singular cause is much more problematic. A cause of Unity for ALL which is "ALL LIVES MATTER". Paz be with us all 🙏. "Isa"
Exactly, the husband was the better person. The wife came off as the hard femnist, masculine independent attitude and boss chic. Like all women are perfect attitudes. This is why most women don't stay married, they can't see the bigger picture for the purpose of marriage. Too much independence and head strong makes couples bump heads, because only the man is supposed to have that level of masculinity and leadership
This movie is deep, raw and real. There were times I had to pause it and brrreatheee, however, I watched to end and I am glad I did. I love their honesty and that they were able to work through their difficulties. I wish EVERY couple could watch this. That thing call life has its ups and downs, yet true love will SURVIVE any and EVERYTHING!!! Kudos to the entire cast, 📢 GREAT movie👍🏽
Great movie....so believable because of actual events. They were two ppl facing serious issues in their lives. After realizing they had to come to terms with their own biases that is when they started to heal their marriage, a compromise.
Then you definitely don't need to be in an interracial relationship....because my fiancé and I face this harsh reality. We have learned to work through the biases and prejudice of the world and our own to grow with each other.
@@daniellemiller2547 You don't know why one cannot watch this movie. Your assumption could be do wrong. The person stated the intense conflict n IF its referring to the horrible language, I concur. It may be part of reality, however, I for one do not, rather I refuse to communicate with angry ppl that choose to be so disrespectful. I'm in a interracial marriage & we're human, however to use profanity as part of daily communication, nope, too volatile, too toxic. Thats real. To each their own. Many of prefer being equally yoked. Paz be with us. "ISA"
It's ok, truly. I'm trying to ignore the profanity. Sadly, I've witnessed couples like this & eventually the angriest one fortunately was open to dealing with his or her inner demons, hence shedding the bad language abit at a time. However; I'm going to TRY & ignore that disrespect bc so far the subject matter happened. Meanwhile, I wish you a beautiful life. Paz be with us all 🙏. "Isa"
This story is so real. Seems like I was watching my family. I think the wife was really annoying me. I am grateful her husband wanted his family and he tried all he knew to make it work. She was just killing the dream. Thankfully, by God's grace yes, God's grace. My heart was lifted.
It deals with the sad reality of angry ppl that communicate via profanity. The intensity of CoVid, sad reality of so many not taking CoVid seriously, the paranoia due to so many deaths, etc, etc, eyc,.....paz be with us all 🙏. "Isa"
Amazing movie, thank you for it! I was really Happy for the End. So pity, a lot of familes fought in this time and they split them because they didn’t found the means of Greys.
This movie is exactly what Covid achieved - which is enabling family members to spend quality time together, asking the tough questions and resolving it at the same time. ❤
Less profanity would have been awesome. However, sadly THAT is part of reality in many couples, many friendships. Some is cool, just as real, however every 4-7 words....ugh, it's exhausting. Paz be with us all 🙏. "Isa"
Wow, wow, wow I enjoyed that. So many beautiful aspects to it. So many themes. It was beautifully written, directed and shared. I could go on and on. So much education could come out of this. The scenes, photography and music... I loved so many things and a few things I didn't love. As I say when I have seen a good movie 🎬, keep em coming...
What an interesting movie pertaining to interracial marriage and the conflict that comes with it. No marriage is perfect even within your own race. People are people and we have opinions and flaws.
So well stated. I'm in Interracial marriage, nearly 20yrs. We rarely war....when we do, its harsh. We then come together stronger. Difference of opinion, we agree to disagree quite often & press on. Paz be with us all 🙏. "Isa"
People do have difference in opinion and do all war at times, but That comes to show all women then, because most black women come up with the concept that other races of men are all better than black men, so now the world can see, how even when most black women date and marry other races, that there is still dysfunction and toxic confusion. Though marriage isn't perfect for any races, there is and still should be a level of respect.
Halfway through and good grief the wife is completely insufferable and wound up. She’s a walking contradiction. Even trying to control and tell her brother what’s good for his own family. Sheesh.
Yes...Relationships were tough during the COVID Pandemic. We all had those very tough difficult pain-taking conversations. But getting through it together all of us brings us closer. Knowledge gives us understanding through the Darkness.
It was a good movie. The wife is a difficult person for sure. Not many men would stay with her. Black or white. Her hubby kissed the ground she walks on. That's the only reason she married him.
Difficult person you say? What the hell did he see in her? Sad part about it, there are wives in real life just like this monster. Not going to say what he should have done or not. Marriage is for keeps, God doesn’t like divorce, those involved in difficult marriages must work their way through it. Thurman’s character Jordie, did not become that since they were married, that, race, race, race” issue was always there. Some of us find it repulsive to be talking about race 24/7, people who do that become bitter, entitled individuals grossly in need of inner peace.
Yep! That part when he comes home and she’s showing him the news about Kobe was unbelievable. She seemed possessed when he said he didn’t know if Kobe was guilty of rape. Is that the discussion you have with your spouse when the man just died?!! What a nut job!@@vimbaideliwemiga9398
@@vimbaideliwemiga9398 lol. I actually felt like that with the crass husband. However; I'm so glad I stayed with it, bc sadly there are couples where one spouse is unable to not move forward bc he or she struggles with constant racism. Instead of sharing those moments so he or she will be more aware & they help eachother together, instead of being shut out. Paz be with us all 🙏. "Isa"
@@andreasmith1836 He was trying... AND ALSO it is up to each individual to determine who to give grace to, or not. And where was HER grace?? She showed him grace throughout a multitude of ignorant and questionable comments he made, & all while she was suffering a traumatic time and worried about the place of she and her child in the country in which she resides. She was "trying" as well, whilst facing something that the husband didn't personally relate to - let alone understand. But you're more concerned for HIS grace?? Lol The grace that he did receive, btw. But this is the typical reponse for the experience of Black women in this country. Reside in trauma while trying to feel your way through and work it out.... but also worry constantly about everyone else's grace, even when they intentionally or UNINTENTIONALLY keep repeating ignorance that adds to their harm?? This is victimization, the proverbial overused "race-card" playing. This is a fcking REALITY which many don't understand nor care to.
@@robinvolpi I do understand. I was raised in the south during the 60’s. So I have seen segregation first hand. And a Black woman to boot! I am not saying there was not validity and dismissal on both sides. I have just been through enough in my lifetime and seen enough; to understand that marriage is hard enough on its own. I have always known that marriages fall apart from the inside out. Seldom is it the reverse. COVID was tough on everyone. But, I am sure that the things he said and felt were not new. But now their emotions can’t be dismissed or pinned. It had to be dealt with and dealing is not always fun or easy. No one was forced into the marriage, but staying in the marriage is a choice. I understand all your points and as I stated earlier, I feel personally that some of her anger was misdirected at him. These issue were not new, but perhaps they never made or took the time to address them. Now we have to address them and as the person I love and have a child with. We need to extend each other grace to work through the pain. Cause it is tough and my Blackness has been deeply traumatized. I do appreciate your response. Thank you!!!
The part when he gets a phone call on his friend that died. I know what that's like. Had a close friend who died almost 2 years ago but it was not covid. He was sick for a long time, and I did not see or know anything about it. Because of the covid restrictions could not go to the funeral at that time made a TH-cam eulogy video dedicated to him his family and other friends.
What a PROFOUNDLY IGNORANT sentiment. Actually YOU'RE the one programmed by white-nationalist ideals. What a sad state of affairs. "Let the past be the past".... Spoken like a privileged "well meaning" white male.
I knew instantly what cowid was, and know that I can not share with anyone. People where frightened, still after all. I learned lesen on every level with confidence that l will be able to separate from propaganda and REALITY. Life is dificult because people call it problems. We just have to live until is possible. No reason for panicking about .
What is so attractive about that one f word that everybody loves to use in particular in movies I'm not counted how many times it's used in the movie because I'm not watched because of it exclamation mark it's absolutely uncalled for. Some of the best movies that's ever been doesn't have a word of profanity in it why do you people feel it's so necessary to do the f word 20 or 30 times maybe even more in a movie what a lack of vocabulary and a sign of ignorance and Ale bread.
You are right, in a way 😊. To not include the F-bombs wouldn’t be authentic. It how some people talk when they’re not angry much less when they are. Let’s be honest that wife was so critical of him and miserable with herself that it could have driven some men to do more than F-bombs!
First thing, put God first in your marriage.. and I am a follower of Christ and not BLM or any other group. Well, I am in the kingdom of God's group. And can you writers stop using the Lord's name vain 😮😢 unbelievable! And parts of the movie is just so unrealistic because blacks do not get upset over the terms blacklist, that whole list she was writing is ridiculous 🤔 stop to hate people and Repent and accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior...time is running out and God will see no color or race on judgment day.🙏❤️❤️ Our God is a God of love John 3:16 for he so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son that whosoever believeth in him should not perish but have everlasting life..❤ love you all..
This movie 😮its like real life I love the man the whole time he was the one who was trying not to hurt his wife, this journey called life is painful sometimes 😢😢. I give this movie 💯
Thank you Jesus, You give me grace and your mercies are new every morning to remove all the anger and frustrations of life.❤
If jesus is suppose to be dead why do people thank him?
Amen 🙏
Because He Rose again and is in Heaven now and He will still come back for all those who repents and live a righteous/Holy Life 🙏
Praise Jesus Amen 🙏
@@respecthewomanhe’s not dead thiugh
@@respecthewomanHave you not read the Bible?
I didn't like what Jordi became but I am glad he persevered because he loved her so much. He made her realize his value and her love for him.
As a woman of color...the husband WAS the better person. He was able to rise above ..."LOVE bears ALL things, BELIEVES ALL things, HOPES ALL Things, ENDURES ALL things...LOVE never fails. 1 Cor 13:7,8a. He LOVED his family above ALL else.
His wife was On Point.
@@robinvolpi not so. Husband, albeit was super crass, is right. Black lives definitely matter, however "ALL LIVES MATTER". Protesting for a singular cause is much more problematic. A cause of Unity for ALL which is "ALL LIVES MATTER". Paz be with us all 🙏. "Isa"
Exactly, the husband was the better person. The wife came off as the hard femnist, masculine independent attitude and boss chic. Like all women are perfect attitudes. This is why most women don't stay married, they can't see the bigger picture for the purpose of marriage. Too much independence and head strong makes couples bump heads, because only the man is supposed to have that level of masculinity and leadership
All lives dont matter when black lives dont matter. Lets start there!!!@FemiNelson-sb1em
The acting in this movie was excellent. I loved how you all stayed together through thick and thin.
Beautiful, human film. So relatable, so raw and so hopeful. Thank you!!!
This movie is deep, raw and real. There were times I had to pause it and brrreatheee, however, I watched to end and I am glad I did. I love their honesty and that they were able to work through their difficulties. I wish EVERY couple could watch this. That thing call life has its ups and downs, yet true love will SURVIVE any and EVERYTHING!!! Kudos to the entire cast, 📢 GREAT movie👍🏽
same.
Loved his connection with his friend,is good we cherish every moment with our loved ones cos you never know.
This is real life. We can overcome our differences! Gonna to watch again! Blessings.
Great movie....so
believable because
of actual events.
They were two ppl
facing serious issues
in their lives. After
realizing they had to
come to terms with
their own biases that
is when they started
to heal their marriage,
a compromise.
Thank you for creating and sharing this film.
I can’t watch this through 36minutes in and the amount of conflict is too much. Too much for my heart and mind and soul
Felt exactly the same
Same,I kept skipping the movie.@@angelahoolaus6902
Then you definitely don't need to be in an interracial relationship....because my fiancé and I face this harsh reality. We have learned to work through the biases and prejudice of the world and our own to grow with each other.
@@daniellemiller2547 You don't know why one cannot watch this movie. Your assumption could be do wrong. The person stated the intense conflict n IF its referring to the horrible language, I concur. It may be part of reality, however, I for one do not, rather I refuse to communicate with angry ppl that choose to be so disrespectful. I'm in a interracial marriage & we're human, however to use profanity as part of daily communication, nope, too volatile, too toxic. Thats real. To each their own. Many of prefer being equally yoked. Paz be with us. "ISA"
It's ok, truly. I'm trying to ignore the profanity. Sadly, I've witnessed couples like this & eventually the angriest one fortunately was open to dealing with his or her inner demons, hence shedding the bad language abit at a time. However; I'm going to TRY & ignore that disrespect bc so far the subject matter happened. Meanwhile, I wish you a beautiful life. Paz be with us all 🙏. "Isa"
A great movie, that is really needed during these sad times.
This story is so real. Seems like I was watching my family. I think the wife was really annoying me. I am grateful her husband wanted his family and he tried all he knew to make it work. She was just killing the dream.
Thankfully, by God's grace yes, God's grace. My heart was lifted.
"Let the past be the past"....
Spoken like a privileged "well meaning" white male.
"Let the past be the past"....
Spoken like a privileged "well meaning" white male.
Exactly 💯, and thought it may be quite a bit of crappy males exist, women and wives always prove dysfunction and unhappiness, even with good spouses
This movie delta with every aspect of covic, well written and directed, this should get an Oscar!!
It deals with the sad reality of angry ppl that communicate via profanity. The intensity of CoVid, sad reality of so many not taking CoVid seriously, the paranoia due to so many deaths, etc, etc, eyc,.....paz be with us all 🙏. "Isa"
Hi that was a good movie ❤will move Mountains just don’t give up on one another. We all have problems in life but that’s life stay together.❤❤❤
Amazing movie, thank you for it! I was really Happy for the End.
So pity, a lot of familes fought in this time and they split them because they didn’t found the means of Greys.
This movie is exactly what Covid achieved - which is enabling family members to spend quality time together, asking the tough questions and resolving it at the same time. ❤
@Calm-locket Well some bickered too much, other's did not. Paz be with us all 🙏. "Isa"
@Calm-locket It's called addressing the truth. And we were all forced to do that, for a positive outcome.
Real… so many levels.. we loved, we disliked , we fought and we lost ..the fight continues on so many levels. Thank You😢😅❤😊
After "we lost"....we persevered.....😊. Paz be with us all 🙏. "Isa"
This movie tops all of the incredible movies I had the pleasure of watching. I can't pop enough 🍿 to express my thoughts.
One of the most realistic movies I’ve seen a long time. Beautiful movie. Make more. Thanks ☺️ 🇺🇸
Less profanity would have been awesome. However, sadly THAT is part of reality in many couples, many friendships. Some is cool, just as real, however every 4-7 words....ugh, it's exhausting. Paz be with us all 🙏. "Isa"
@@FemiNelson-sb1em Agreed.
Wow, wow, wow
I enjoyed that.
So many beautiful aspects to it.
So many themes.
It was beautifully written, directed and shared.
I could go on and on.
So much education could come out of this.
The scenes, photography and music...
I loved so many things and a few things I didn't love.
As I say when I have seen a good movie 🎬, keep em coming...
What an interesting movie pertaining to interracial marriage and the conflict that comes with it. No marriage is perfect even within your own race. People are people and we have opinions and flaws.
So well stated. I'm in Interracial marriage, nearly 20yrs. We rarely war....when we do, its harsh. We then come together stronger. Difference of opinion, we agree to disagree quite often & press on. Paz be with us all 🙏. "Isa"
People do have difference in opinion and do all war at times, but That comes to show all women then, because most black women come up with the concept that other races of men are all better than black men, so now the world can see, how even when most black women date and marry other races, that there is still dysfunction and toxic confusion. Though marriage isn't perfect for any races, there is and still should be a level of respect.
this was a good movie its showed what happened to so many family/couples during covid
I loved it.thank you for uploading.
This movie has too much drama. It does not leave one with a good feeling. Why did she marry him?
Halfway through and good grief the wife is completely insufferable and wound up. She’s a walking contradiction. Even trying to control and tell her brother what’s good for his own family. Sheesh.
"Let the past be the past"....
Spoken like a privileged "well meaning" white male.
Much needed film. Thank you.
Yes...Relationships were tough during the COVID Pandemic. We all had those very tough difficult pain-taking conversations. But getting through it together all of us brings us closer. Knowledge gives us understanding through the Darkness.
"Let the past be the past"....
Spoken like a privileged "well meaning" white male.
It was a good movie. The wife is a difficult person for sure. Not many men would stay with her. Black or white. Her hubby kissed the ground she walks on. That's the only reason she married him.
12mins into the movie and the wife was making me want to scream!
Difficult person you say? What the hell did he see in her? Sad part about it, there are wives in real life just like this monster. Not going to say what he should have done or not. Marriage is for keeps, God doesn’t like divorce, those involved in difficult marriages must work their way through it. Thurman’s character Jordie, did not become that since they were married, that, race, race, race” issue was always there. Some of us find it repulsive to be talking about race 24/7, people who do that become bitter, entitled individuals grossly in need of inner peace.
Yep! That part when he comes home and she’s showing him the news about Kobe was unbelievable. She seemed possessed when he said he didn’t know if Kobe was guilty of rape. Is that the discussion you have with your spouse when the man just died?!! What a nut job!@@vimbaideliwemiga9398
@@gailmurray9120Careful, “it’s “ showing🫣🤫
@@vimbaideliwemiga9398 lol. I actually felt like that with the crass husband. However; I'm so glad I stayed with it, bc sadly there are couples where one spouse is unable to not move forward bc he or she struggles with constant racism. Instead of sharing those moments so he or she will be more aware & they help eachother together, instead of being shut out. Paz be with us all 🙏. "Isa"
She is making valid arguments, but against the wrong person. That is her husband
A white husband can carry their own implicit biases and OFTEN times do.
@@robinvolpi True, but he was trying. And everyone should be given grace.
@@andreasmith1836 He was trying... AND ALSO it is up to each individual to determine who to give grace to, or not. And where was HER grace??
She showed him grace throughout a multitude of ignorant and questionable comments he made, & all while she was suffering a traumatic time and worried about the place of she and her child in the country in which she resides.
She was "trying" as well, whilst facing something that the husband didn't personally relate to - let alone understand. But you're more concerned for HIS grace?? Lol The grace that he did receive, btw.
But this is the typical reponse for the experience of Black women in this country. Reside in trauma while trying to feel your way through and work it out.... but also worry constantly about everyone else's grace, even when they intentionally or UNINTENTIONALLY keep repeating ignorance that adds to their harm??
This is victimization, the proverbial overused "race-card" playing. This is a fcking REALITY which many don't understand nor care to.
@@robinvolpi I do understand. I was raised in the south during the 60’s. So I have seen segregation first hand. And a Black woman to boot! I am not saying there was not validity and dismissal on both sides. I have just been through enough in my lifetime and seen enough; to understand that marriage is hard enough on its own. I have always known that marriages fall apart from the inside out. Seldom is it the reverse. COVID was tough on everyone. But, I am sure that the things he said and felt were not new. But now their emotions can’t be dismissed or pinned. It had to be dealt with and dealing is not always fun or easy.
No one was forced into the marriage, but staying in the marriage is a choice. I understand all your points and as I stated earlier, I feel personally that some of her anger was misdirected at him. These issue were not new, but perhaps they never made or took the time to address them. Now we have to address them and as the person I love and have a child with. We need to extend each other grace to work through the pain. Cause it is tough and my Blackness has been deeply traumatized. I do appreciate your response. Thank you!!!
@@robinvolpi And? "Isa"
I absolutely loved this movie.❤❤
Beautiful film. Believable characters. Happy Ending.
AWESOME MOVIE 🍿
This was hard to watch because I did not agree with the hard line that Jordee took, but to each its own. But I am glad I watched until the end.
Nice movie i love it it's difficult sometimes to understand why so many family get divorced this is one of the reason
The part when he gets a phone call on his friend that died. I know what that's like. Had a close friend who died almost 2 years ago but it was not covid. He was sick for a long time, and I did not see or know anything about it. Because of the covid restrictions could not go to the funeral at that time made a TH-cam eulogy video dedicated to him his family and other friends.
That was a 10/10 ❤
Phenomenal movie!!
Glad you liked it!
I'll have to try again another time, was not up to all that angry female thing tonight 🤦♂️
Do you want your husband to fake his tears?
She’s un real this man tried
"Let the past be the past"....
Spoken like a privileged "well meaning" white male.
She is a little extreme
Yah think!!!!
She was accurate and he wasn't getting it.
"Let the past be the past"....
Spoken like a privileged "well meaning" white male.
She was so programmed by the media at first. I'm glad it ended better ❤
What a PROFOUNDLY IGNORANT sentiment.
Actually YOU'RE the one programmed by white-nationalist ideals. What a sad state of affairs.
"Let the past be the past"....
Spoken like a privileged "well meaning" white male.
I knew instantly what cowid was, and know that I can not share with anyone. People where frightened, still after all. I learned lesen on every level with confidence that l will be able to separate from propaganda and REALITY. Life is dificult because people call it problems. We just have to live until is possible. No reason for panicking about .
What is so attractive about that one f word that everybody loves to use in particular in movies I'm not counted how many times it's used in the movie because I'm not watched because of it exclamation mark it's absolutely uncalled for. Some of the best movies that's ever been doesn't have a word of profanity in it why do you people feel it's so necessary to do the f word 20 or 30 times maybe even more in a movie what a lack of vocabulary and a sign of ignorance and Ale bread.
You are right, in a way 😊. To not include the F-bombs wouldn’t be authentic. It how some people talk when they’re not angry much less when they are. Let’s be honest that wife was so critical of him and miserable with herself that it could have driven some men to do more than F-bombs!
Awesome ❤❤❤❤
First thing, put God first in your marriage.. and I am a follower of Christ and not BLM or any other group. Well, I am in the kingdom of God's group. And can you writers stop using the Lord's name vain 😮😢 unbelievable! And parts of the movie is just so unrealistic because blacks do not get upset over the terms blacklist, that whole list she was writing is ridiculous 🤔 stop to hate people and Repent and accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior...time is running out and God will see no color or race on judgment day.🙏❤️❤️ Our God is a God of love John 3:16 for he so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son that whosoever believeth in him should not perish but have everlasting life..❤ love you all..
"Let the past be the past"....
Spoken like a privileged "well meaning" white male.
Can’t imagine living with that day in and day out.
Halfway into this and i just cant take the womans attitude. She enjoys fighting too much.
She wants him to save the world seriously
Excellent
The last scene...he was still wearing a nose mask...but she was not wearing any...😁...things husbands do for wives 😊
Aliens 👽 Don't Care Black or white We all Ants 🐜To them Betty and Barney Hill 1962
Very nice film❤
My ugandans passby here its really agood movie
This movie 😮its like real life I love the man the whole time he was the one who was trying not to hurt his wife, this journey called life is painful sometimes 😢😢. I give this movie 💯
Well done
Even the cursing
I just the Interracial Love a lot, but the Black Love, I hate it. That's what the Future Interracial Relationships deserved each other.
Some great info…what some call conspiracy theory…but, those who are in touch with instinct & what resonates as truth know
The swearing is inappropriate very bad
Why she pulls the car every she talks.why you married him if you think you gonna feel that way?
"Let the past be the past"....
Spoken like a privileged "well meaning" white male.
Battlefield for a home life!! Political arena as a home??
Wow this woman for me is to much. This guy can't do anything right
Whatever.
She is just a bored and too educated wife
el wokismo de ella está arruinando la relación, se indigna y malvive por lo ajeno envez de disfrutar lo bello que tiene.
this was a pretty decent movie. although i couldn't take anyone seriously who sits in front of a tel-lie-vision thinking everything on it is "true". 💯
👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
I would have loved to finish watching this movie, but the fowl language just became too much for me. It really isn't necessary.
FYI a "fowl" is a type of bird. 🙂
This woman is crazy!
i thought the fakery that's believed in this movie was hilarious, only to read most of these comments which are far more hilarious. 💯
I know its scripted, but the husband can't seem to speak with dropping the "F" bomb. Thumbs down!!!!!!
She’s insufferable
"Let the past be the past"....
Spoken like a privileged "well meaning" white male.
Concept was good, but delivery was less than. Lacked too much to keep me engaged.
The language is not only crude and immature but unnecessary.
EXACTLY ❤
Very very unnecessary. They could have done without it and the movie will still be nice.
wokism makes them broke😢 Its so sad looks a philosophy destroy a goob relationship.😑
definitely too much swearing, kinda ruined the movie, his friend is crazy
😮agree about foul language!!!!!!
❤
Man run for freedom because she do not want you but your kids keep going and there home
She's alot extreme