The REAL Problem With Girl Defined

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  • @lolalo6344
    @lolalo6344 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4086

    The two most ignored rules by 'strict' Christian's:
    1. Love thy neighbor
    2. Only god can judge

    • @healthyfitfun
      @healthyfitfun 3 ปีที่แล้ว +189

      👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 which is literally what the main takeaway from the Bible should be 🤦‍♀️

    • @Oleander2116
      @Oleander2116 3 ปีที่แล้ว +243

      What the bible they're reading says:
      Love thy neighbor
      ᶠⁱⁿᵉ ᵖʳⁱⁿᵗ: ˢᵒᵐᵉ ᵉˣᶜˡᵘˢⁱᵒⁿˢ ᵐᵃʸ ᵃᵖᵖˡʸ

    • @themad_ox
      @themad_ox 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      Some ppl use "only god can judge me" to do bad stuff

    • @lolalo6344
      @lolalo6344 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@themad_ox yes, but according to the bible, those people doing stuff you just judged as 'bad' are still correct

    • @basedbattledroid3507
      @basedbattledroid3507 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Also that little one about "don't shave the sides of your hair" lots of "Christian" men with that haircut where the sides are shaved off even though the bible says that's the bad haircut

  • @katelynhanson9852
    @katelynhanson9852 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5509

    i’m so gay that everytime u said girl defined i heard girl in red

    • @AnnamarieForcino
      @AnnamarieForcino  4 ปีที่แล้ว +891

      HAHAHA OH MY GOD

    • @biseemail6810
      @biseemail6810 4 ปีที่แล้ว +197

      @@AnnamarieForcino uR UsIng GoDS NaMeD IN VaIn 3rd commandment

    • @Natalie-rr7db
      @Natalie-rr7db 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      I'm sure they'd love that 😂

    • @ferretwithastick800
      @ferretwithastick800 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      BROOOOOOOOOO
      they look like they would cry wile trading scrunchies and whispering “sksksksksksk” after hearing that

    • @thatdrawingguydanny
      @thatdrawingguydanny 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I think that’s the bad idea she was talking about 😂😂

  • @someweirdo8889
    @someweirdo8889 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7289

    I’m sorry but am i the only one hearing the tap dance show in the audio?

    • @savibhinder2393
      @savibhinder2393 4 ปีที่แล้ว +965

      No it’s rlly annoying me 😭😭

    • @kaylaaldridge991
      @kaylaaldridge991 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1015

      It was bothering me too. I thought it was just my phone.😂

    • @savibhinder2393
      @savibhinder2393 4 ปีที่แล้ว +823

      Kayla Aldridge I was convinced my headphones were broken😭😭

    • @bellab5680
      @bellab5680 4 ปีที่แล้ว +319

      I hear it and I was so confused😂

    • @liaj9240
      @liaj9240 4 ปีที่แล้ว +337

      I THOUGHT IT WAS JUST MY PHONE BECAUSE I DROP IT ALL THE TIME I- 😭

  • @thealmightybucket5930
    @thealmightybucket5930 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3862

    love how they categorize believing gay people should be allowed to live and love as "PoLiTiCaLlY cOrReCt"

    • @yeehaw1932
      @yeehaw1932 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      I love ur pfp

    • @thealmightybucket5930
      @thealmightybucket5930 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      @@yeehaw1932 thanks love your username

    • @Stephanie-lk5jf
      @Stephanie-lk5jf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      my dads not even christian but he believes it’s politically correct lmao

    • @anonomus8709
      @anonomus8709 4 ปีที่แล้ว +157

      Ugh. I’m soooo over the “eVeRyThInG iS tOo Pc ThEsE dAyS” routine. First, I was born in the mid-80s and people have been saying that since I was a child. Second... why don’t they just come out and say it? “I want to be able to say whatever bigoted thing I want without being criticized for it.” That’s what they really mean.

    • @hellothere-bo7bn
      @hellothere-bo7bn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      wow sorry that my existence is so “politically correct”

  • @pinkmilkshake1971
    @pinkmilkshake1971 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7868

    I feel bad for God is Grey. she’s openly hated by the christian community for having different views as them, and ironically being the most accepting person in the community. so much for love you neighbor.

    • @unreallilac5554
      @unreallilac5554 4 ปีที่แล้ว +441

      She doesn’t deserve this hate

    • @goobertron9099
      @goobertron9099 4 ปีที่แล้ว +441

      her channel’s great she REALLY doesn’t deserve this hate from these other Christian channels who CLAIM to love thy neighbor

    • @MarK-ro3vl
      @MarK-ro3vl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +282

      God is Grey is the only Christian channel I like so far.

    • @vee9099
      @vee9099 4 ปีที่แล้ว +244

      I feel a lot of conflicting feelings about being Christian cause I have a lot of beliefs (I'm a lesbian for one) that other Christians wouldn't agree with or would hate me for and her channel really made me feel better about myself
      Its depressing to know that she gets hate she deserves way better than that

    • @avaverry9917
      @avaverry9917 4 ปีที่แล้ว +335

      Jesus was openly hated by the religious community too

  • @lettuceboy5052
    @lettuceboy5052 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6811

    who tf is Christian and why does everyone keep talking about him 😠😠😭

    • @AnnamarieForcino
      @AnnamarieForcino  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1962

      idk but he sounds AWFUL😤🤧

    • @biseemail6810
      @biseemail6810 4 ปีที่แล้ว +139

      @@AnnamarieForcino dang thats not nice :(

    • @fkfywyfkfyfkf
      @fkfywyfkfyfkf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +580

      The main character in 50 shades of Grey, obviously! :D

    • @fabuloushatlady7812
      @fabuloushatlady7812 4 ปีที่แล้ว +703

      I knew a guy named Christian. He dumped me for a girl on my birthday. Jokes on him we’re both lesbians.

    • @thealmightybucket5930
      @thealmightybucket5930 4 ปีที่แล้ว +98

      @@fabuloushatlady7812 lmao xD

  • @captain_smart.casual4789
    @captain_smart.casual4789 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3216

    Kristen: "Regardless of our background, our age, our upbringing, every one of us wrestles with sexual sin."
    Me, an asexual: Um-

    • @photosynthetichermitcrab
      @photosynthetichermitcrab 4 ปีที่แล้ว +413

      Haha same. Then again, I came out as ace to a Christian friend once and she told me she didn’t believe me because “God doesn’t give anyone a pass on sexual temptation”. So even if they’re aware of asexuality they might still think that

    • @zmviolaplayer71
      @zmviolaplayer71 4 ปีที่แล้ว +318

      My little Catholic asexual butt thought the nuns were lying when they taught us about the sin of lust. I just could not comprehend people caring about that and if they said they did it was just to be cool. 6 years later I found out about asexuality and I realized how wrong I was, lol.

    • @photosynthetichermitcrab
      @photosynthetichermitcrab 4 ปีที่แล้ว +186

      @@zmviolaplayer71 Yeah, I always sort of thought that the whole “the temptation was too much and that’s why we had sex” thing was BS. I wouldn’t say that, but I just never got why waiting until marriage was a problem for people. It’s a good thing I became sex positive and then also figured out I’m on the ace spectrum because I think being ace and raised with purity culture could be a recipe for becoming really holier-than-thou and slut-shame-y

    • @zmviolaplayer71
      @zmviolaplayer71 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      @@photosynthetichermitcrab yeah, I'm glad I only had one memorable moment of 'being worried about someone's lack of purity hurting them' and it was in confession with a really chill priest that told me it wasn't something I should worry about.
      Once I hit high school the probably too adult books and tv shows I had consumed made me think that once I was an adult things would change in me. That media also helped me accept that sex before marriage was a super common thing and not a big deal at all.

    • @moth5096
      @moth5096 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Me whos a minor: um 😰

  • @kissiepie
    @kissiepie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2786

    Does Girl Defined realise that gossip is a sin? I wish there was a book that could tell them that....

    • @exploitation_restoration
      @exploitation_restoration 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      me too.....

    • @kingdesuu3091
      @kingdesuu3091 3 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      I bet they were like "whoops let's pretend we never saw that"

    • @anna_banana414
      @anna_banana414 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      also that they should actually *love and accept everyone no matter what.* man, they really should make a book that says that

    • @triniteesono5947
      @triniteesono5947 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@anna_banana414 Well... The fact that it's said TWICE (at least) in the Bible that we should love each other like we love ourselves is something

    • @triniteesono5947
      @triniteesono5947 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@anna_banana414 Jesus Christ himself said that...

  • @jadelilly420
    @jadelilly420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +832

    Purity culture is so toxic. I distinctly remember being told that my value as a human being was less because I was molested as a child. Imagine saying that to a child and being able to sleep at night. I literally can't. It took me F O R E V E R to break away from that mindset and learn how to love myself.

    • @selrox879
      @selrox879 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      I am so sorry that happened to you, sending love ❤❤❤❤⚘and lots of hugs🤗🤗🤗🤗

    • @ahjessicaah
      @ahjessicaah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      There is nothing that can bring down your worth as a human. Nothing. You are loved and worthy.

    • @jenniferfoster3585
      @jenniferfoster3585 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I struggle with this too. It hurts because it wasn't my fault

    • @micahfoley9572
      @micahfoley9572 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      if psychic hugs are a thing, that would make psychic punching a thing too, right? ...screw it i'm gonna try and punch someone for you. let me know how it goes.

    • @Google_remote
      @Google_remote 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      i would like to speak personally to that person who said that abhorred thing to you

  • @rileyv6140
    @rileyv6140 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3474

    I could honestly see Girl Defined turning into a really disturbing cult....

    • @anabellej3226
      @anabellej3226 4 ปีที่แล้ว +117

      Honestly it already is-

    • @emeryjem
      @emeryjem 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      I feel like they'd be some of the leaders in the handmaid's tale

    • @kunfusedsincebirth1120
      @kunfusedsincebirth1120 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Lavender Cookie OOP-

    • @kunfusedsincebirth1120
      @kunfusedsincebirth1120 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @Lavender Cookie i wouldn't give a fock if something tragic would happen to kaitlin bennet oop-

    • @bluehyena377
      @bluehyena377 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Honestly, it feels more like a cult than satanism sometimes.

  • @funclelou
    @funclelou 3 ปีที่แล้ว +589

    I also feel like it should be mentioned that “homosexuality” wasn’t introduced in the Bible until the 1940s. The Bible is FULL of mistranslations and lost context.

    • @nevezuzek2274
      @nevezuzek2274 3 ปีที่แล้ว +113

      The original verse which was used to combat homosexuality was about pedos. Originally in latin the verse states " Man should not lay down to sleep with boy." It is often confused with man and man. As a Catholic bisexual I always try to say this because we were all made in God's image so if God made someone gay they were made in his image

    • @v4mpyy.
      @v4mpyy. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@nevezuzek2274 Yes!!! I was going to say that

    • @bloodieghostie
      @bloodieghostie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      wOaAh, BiBLe WiTh nO cOnTeXt

    • @kt-nc1uw
      @kt-nc1uw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@trinidaddy9458 catholicism is literally a form of christianity? hello?

    • @LISSAxKIRA94
      @LISSAxKIRA94 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@trinidaddy9458 calls someone a walking contradiction, is one themselves. also an ignorant fool.

  • @fabuloushatlady7812
    @fabuloushatlady7812 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1359

    They sound like they would say that people are only gay because it’s popular or trendy. Lol

    • @panicoutbytheromancepilotb513
      @panicoutbytheromancepilotb513 4 ปีที่แล้ว +129

      Lol yeah I'm gay and went through the pain of coming out to my homophobic parents and getting thrown out of the house bc I wanted to be trendy 😚✌

    • @fabuloushatlady7812
      @fabuloushatlady7812 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Panic! Out by the Romance Pilot Boys, ah yes love it when my trends come with a side of oppression and a touch of self hatred 🥰

    • @panicoutbytheromancepilotb513
      @panicoutbytheromancepilotb513 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@fabuloushatlady7812 I love passive aggression 🥰 that wasn't ✨sarcasm✨

    • @fabuloushatlady7812
      @fabuloushatlady7812 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Panic! Out by the Romance Pilot Boys, huh? Oh I know I was relating. I also have homophobic parents.

    • @theunicorn1167
      @theunicorn1167 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Just kinda wanted to chime in and say both of yall are amazing and I hope you‘re happy now freely living and being who you are! And at least both of you got the toxic people out of your life, so that‘s something good! (:

  • @user-ut6ok4vz7q
    @user-ut6ok4vz7q 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1755

    I really don't like these girls.
    They be making their own christian rules

    • @sohailape
      @sohailape 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      They are not wrong. That's the problem with Christians and Muslims. They won't accept anything wrong with their religion.

    • @exploitation_restoration
      @exploitation_restoration 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@sohailape as a Christian yes I can confirm

    • @EMPrest
      @EMPrest 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      As a Christian I totally agree. If you take things out of context and bend it to make yourself feel better it just isn't relevant. The pharisees (the big bad guys) were so evil in the bible because they were so legalistic. Jesus was expecting, not legalistic. 🤷

    • @byulharangforlife
      @byulharangforlife 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@sohailape as an ex muslim i agree

    • @Lk-qy7sb
      @Lk-qy7sb 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's not true!!

  • @angixp6082
    @angixp6082 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3204

    Fun game: when you listen to that "abortion song", imagine the women- who are forced to grow and give birth to a child they don't want/can't bring up- singing it. Cause a fetus has to have a voice but a grown woman doesn't and can't have a right to HER OWN BODY.

    • @_mightyheroes_
      @_mightyheroes_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +495

      Yeah,like what about women who were raped at a young age and got pregnant?
      Like,if a 16 year old cannot adopt a child because she's too young,hasn't finished her education and can't support herself yet then she should be able to chose not to raise a baby and get an abortion

    • @angixp6082
      @angixp6082 4 ปีที่แล้ว +334

      @@_mightyheroes_ preach sister! So many women that have had an abortion and said it was the best decision of their lives. Because sometimes it's not the right time or circumstance to have a baby. A survivor of rape shouldn't be forced to have the child of a human garbage. A young girl shouldn't destroy her life at such a young age. And a woman DOESN'T HAVE TO HVE A REASON TO GET AN ABORTION OTHER THAN THAT'S WHAT SHE WANTS AND NEEDS!

    • @josephinelane9288
      @josephinelane9288 4 ปีที่แล้ว +113

      I am all for abortion just so we are aware,but I feel as though there should be a limit. Like say ur 8 monthes pregnant and just suddenly you want to get an abortion i dont personally support it,but if a women was doing it i wouldnt shame her and tell her not to,i wouldnt call her a murderer,it is her body and it is her choice. I fucking hate people who shame women for that,its horrible.

    • @gsfdjgfskhjk6061
      @gsfdjgfskhjk6061 4 ปีที่แล้ว +258

      @@josephinelane9288 I completely agree with you. Shaming women is never good. Also about the late term abortions, they are extremely rare and usually only had because the mother or the child will not survive child birth and that was only just found out.

    • @iramage2235
      @iramage2235 4 ปีที่แล้ว +160

      @@josephinelane9288 There is one. Usually 22-24 weeks. After this time frame abortions are performed only for medical reasons and you can't abort a viable baby, you give birth to it.

  • @sethanred8181
    @sethanred8181 4 ปีที่แล้ว +792

    you even did biblical research 👏🏽👏🏽 i love this video

  • @Bat.of.the.graveyard
    @Bat.of.the.graveyard 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2900

    Im not religous..but..the bible is a guide, not a rule book

    • @peachessubz
      @peachessubz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      It's both actually

    • @EclecticallyEccentric
      @EclecticallyEccentric 4 ปีที่แล้ว +181

      @@peachessubz So you live your entire life by all the rules of the Bible?

    • @zz7340
      @zz7340 4 ปีที่แล้ว +231

      Lorelei Christianity is more of a relationship then a religion, so it really depends on the person and how you want to express your faith. The way I see it is something to give you strength and a path when you’re lost or to help others in need. I hope this helps😊

    • @peachessubz
      @peachessubz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@EclecticallyEccentric I do.

    • @sallycinammon1478
      @sallycinammon1478 4 ปีที่แล้ว +144

      The bible was written thousands of years ago by many different men and has been translated so many times and taken out of context and so it’s just a record of Chinese whispers with some positive messages not limited to religion.

  • @kiwicreature0196
    @kiwicreature0196 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1270

    As a stong believer (Christian) I really think Girl Defined are stuck on how people in the old days used to live and addressed situations. Their view on modesty is, in my opinion, toxic to young Christian girls or just girls in general.
    They don't want to realize that people's way of living and expressing their faith evolved.

    • @Naramiah
      @Naramiah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      THIS

    • @ddjsoyenby
      @ddjsoyenby 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      i think they were indoctrinated into evangelicalism as a recovering evangelical they remind me of the way i used to think.

    • @noneyabiz1992
      @noneyabiz1992 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Agreed. Most of the stuff they tout isn’t even supported by the Bible. It’s either their opinion or stuff that the church has spouted for years that is more of a political talking point than a Biblical principle.

  • @r00sterbok
    @r00sterbok 4 ปีที่แล้ว +603

    Bruh brenda/god is grey seems so kind and welcoming why those other christian youtubers being so petty

    • @mariosoriano3160
      @mariosoriano3160 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      her teaching is false and I disagree with any single word of her is unbiblical and misunderstanding the bible and changing up god words

    • @lena-xe4kt
      @lena-xe4kt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      ikr :(

    • @ayannahf0702
      @ayannahf0702 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@mariosoriano3160 ....Do you think gays are sinners too?

    • @SD-zz4ov
      @SD-zz4ov 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@mariosoriano3160 nobody cares, mario

    • @mariosoriano3160
      @mariosoriano3160 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SD-zz4ov and who you think you are

  • @waterdragon3367
    @waterdragon3367 4 ปีที่แล้ว +633

    My god that POPPING sound its like poprocks in here

    • @isha_krishna
      @isha_krishna 4 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      thank god! i thought there was something wrong with my laptop! good to know that i wasnt the only one who heard it XD

    • @hottooth
      @hottooth 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I THOUGHT IT WAS JUST ME

    • @ZimLikesPastaAnimation
      @ZimLikesPastaAnimation 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      oh I thought that was my earbuds!!!!

    • @phantom_noir5301
      @phantom_noir5301 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      SAME

    • @drm1417
      @drm1417 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      It sounds like tap dancing

  • @liberalchristianchurch5331
    @liberalchristianchurch5331 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1001

    As some one who knows the bible, I can see soo many problems with her claims (Girl Defined), all of the arguments Girl Defined is using, to say God is Gray is not a Christian, can be turned right around on them! Such Hypocrisy! They are only one big logical fallacy

    • @glmmr8016
      @glmmr8016 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Can you elaborate on this? Because I surely agree to you, however can’t yet put in words, what exactly is wrong about their claims, since they for sure are

    • @screemingslay5415
      @screemingslay5415 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@glmmr8016 let's just say that Girl Defined's arguments are like pointing a finger in the mirror: it will reflect back to you, making it look like you're pointing at yourself.
      Or it's just like Uno reverse card: the turn will come back to the previous player.
      I dunno

    • @welcometothedellhelpline8748
      @welcometothedellhelpline8748 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Honestly and the whole thing about picking and chosing the bible I feel like everyone (or at least a high majority) doesnt follow everything in the bible like I dont see people hiding in a tent for the whole of their period (and I deffo dont want to) just some people follow more than others

    • @welcometothedellhelpline8748
      @welcometothedellhelpline8748 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      *everybody we all sin

    • @jrmckim
      @jrmckim 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I grew up Pentecostal. There are several verses that discuss how a women's hair is not to be shown in church.. women are not to speak in church.. women's hair isnt to be cut or changed.. women aren't to wear anything between their legs aka pants shorts.. no makeup.. a woman on her period is unclean and anywhere she sits while on her period is unclean. I could keep going and going. Yet you never hear them talk about any of this.
      I also want to add that these girls have never go to bible college. They aren't preachers.. priests or nuns. These girls go to wayside Chapel which is in the parish of the Uniting church of Australia. I looked up what it takes to start a ministry
      "The role of the laity is valued in the UCA, which recognises that ministry is a function of the entire church. However, "specified ministries" are defined.[22] Of these, the roles of elder and pastor are open to lay members. The church has two orders of ordained ministry: minister and deacon.
      When it is not possible (or desirable) to have an ordained minister, a lay preacher or lay ministry team may act in their place (similar to a Methodist local preacher). Lay preachers are required to participate in training and examinations conducted by each synod, and must be approved by the presbytery."
      These women have no training to be a proper ministry.

  • @nherty6172
    @nherty6172 3 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    They are hating on Brenda because she is loving everyone as the bible tells her to. Irrespective of the person's background, sexuality, religion or beliefs.
    Didn't Jesus wine and dine with "sinners".

    • @j.c.2240
      @j.c.2240 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      One of his close friends was a prostitute, I think... I don't know, it's been a while since I've studied this religion

  • @magnolia4091
    @magnolia4091 4 ปีที่แล้ว +721

    As a pan Christian we don’t claim her

    • @moss8627
      @moss8627 4 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      As an Another Pan Christian, same

    • @strassenkoeter7250
      @strassenkoeter7250 4 ปีที่แล้ว +103

      As a bi Christian same

    • @isabellarickle9413
      @isabellarickle9413 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      Straßenköterin same, as another bisexual person we don’t claim her

    • @luise3793
      @luise3793 4 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      As a lesbian Christian, dito

    • @anastasiasutterfield4170
      @anastasiasutterfield4170 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      as a nonbinary bi christian same

  • @UlexiteTVStoneLexite
    @UlexiteTVStoneLexite 5 ปีที่แล้ว +408

    Wow, throwing shade on your friend because she started to take a critical look at the world and realized that the Bible is telling you to treat fellow humans as less. So glad I did the same as their "friend".
    You have a great video here. I did not know about the other parts of their conference video (I just don't feel like torturing myself like that) and I am really glad you touched on these points. Very well done.

  • @babybluebex
    @babybluebex 4 ปีที่แล้ว +240

    “we know it’s low hanging fruit” would you say it’s... forbidden fruit?

  • @milkytaro3201
    @milkytaro3201 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1388

    your level of savage is iconic

    • @AnnamarieForcino
      @AnnamarieForcino  4 ปีที่แล้ว +143

      thank u! :’)

    • @sarazworld3811
      @sarazworld3811 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s like, the waring picts wearing a kilt taking out Roman soldiers in the misty hills of Scotland level of savage.

    • @Andrea-rw9tf
      @Andrea-rw9tf 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes!! Love it!!

    • @VirtualAurora
      @VirtualAurora 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      KINDA UNRELATED BUT I LOVE UR PFP

  • @zoeyyoli2839
    @zoeyyoli2839 4 ปีที่แล้ว +175

    I’m really impressed with how you kept your cool, I’d probably start yelling within the first minute 🤭

    • @moth5096
      @moth5096 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same 😌

  • @lysl9227
    @lysl9227 3 ปีที่แล้ว +376

    It kills me when pro lifers are like what would the Baby want..... my mom had a week to decide if she was going to keep me and obviously she did and I felt bad growing up knowing she got robbed of being able to live her life and decide when she was ready to start a family. Not to mention life isn’t all peaches and cream and if I had a say in being born I’d probably opted out, lolz

    • @lysl9227
      @lysl9227 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Also my mom went thru a traumatizing relationship and kept trying to make it work due to the fact she really wanted her daughter to have both parents and honestly it’s heart breaking but ofc a bunch of well off white Christian or Jewish with all the privilege in the world and probably having experience any trauma that the women they love to talk down have, wouldn’t understand. 😒

    • @alinac5512
      @alinac5512 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      While I agree one some points I just wanted to let you know that you should never feel gulity or responsible for your mothers decision. You are a worthwile person, you are priceless and you deserve to live and be happy. I hope youre doing good and dont carry shame or trauma with you.

    • @Raccoon_Chic
      @Raccoon_Chic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Just commenting to let you know I feel the same way . Like I would’ve opted out of being born if I could’ve . Life isn’t all sunshine and flowers like all the religious “ pro lifers” make it out to be . Maybe for them it is because they’ve never had to worry about money or have great families but not everyone has that and making the responsible choice to not bring a kid into a shitty situation is just well....it’s responsible .

    • @annalivingtv
      @annalivingtv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes my mother and father have traditional Christian families-my mother became pregnant with my older brother before they were married and when they were absolutely not ready for or considering marriage. They were pushed into a shotgun wedding. My father was an unemployed alcoholic at the time and my mother was also forced to move back home to a town she hated to get help with caring for kids. My dad is sober now and they love each other and have a very healthy marriage but they absolutely did not at the beginning and my mother suffered greatly because she wasn’t allowed to make any decision in her life due to her families values

    • @carolinacoreas7716
      @carolinacoreas7716 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      If I knew, as a fetus, that my parents would be abusive and my mom would make me feel like a burden to her, I would've self-aborted myself. At least then, my nerve endings aren't as well developed and I have no ability to form memories yet which protects me from the agony of living through abuse. I recall one time my mom and I got in an argument because she found out I was texting my at then boyfriend, it wasn't even anything bad, but she misinterpreted it as something sexual and she threatened to take me out of the school that I worked so hard to get into. That school was my only escape from her, so my life only belonged to her at the time. She told me how shitty of a daughter I was and how ungrateful I was and how I only make her mad. And I responded on impulse saying, "well if I piss you off so often, then why didn't you abort me? Or at least abandon me somewhere or put me up for adoption?" And she didn't have a response to that, she just ignored me and kept berating me. I get it's not something you typically ask a mom because you can end up really hurting their feelings, but with her, she's a narcissist and she would much rather antagonize me for saying that and use my insecurities against me. I couldn't care less if her feelings were hurt that day, because she did so much worse to me my entire life than I ever did to her in just one night.
      I was paranoid for a long time I'd become just like her, or that I can't be a mom in the future because I'm scared I'll become like her. But my sister made me feel better by telling me, "you're paranoid and worried and don't want to become like her, she lacks self awareness, you don't, that makes you better than her in many ways." So although I'm still not comfortable with the idea of ever having children, if I were to become a mother, I'd make sure I'm okay before I bring a life to the world. Because it isn't fair to me or to that child to undergo so much unnecessary pain. If people who are pro-life want me to think about the children, I'd tell them that I'd much rather have a healthy happy child when I am able to and when I want rather than bringing up a child who isn't able to have their mom fully there for them because they are battling their own internal battles. You can impact a child's life in such drastic ways, it is so much better to have a choice to have a child because it also gives future children the opportunity to become kind and empathetic people. Having a child when you're mentally ill just because other people unrelated to you tell you to most of the time only makes your mental health so much worse, and I wouldn't ever want my child to feel at fault for my failing mental health. For some lucky people, it could turn their life for the better, but that's not the reality for so many people who grew up poor, in marginalized communities, and/or with several mental health issues.

  • @lollyberry007
    @lollyberry007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    I find it depressingly ironic that even with all their self-righteous preaching and judging, the English version of the bible is HEAVILY mistranslated; the original texts in Hebrew and Greek have much different contexts and meanings, especially because of the culture and time period they were written in.

    • @edenmoon8275
      @edenmoon8275 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Exactly this, I can never understand why people take a book so literally that was written 20 centuries ago that has been translated so many times, it meaning is actually meaningless

    • @wow-jz7me
      @wow-jz7me 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@edenmoon8275 as a religious person i read tons of translations from different translators and from different times. i just try to find the most logical arguments and accept that. since my "deist/spiritual" side is more dominant, i am comfortable with the thought of there is a change that the things i read might be wrong, so i don't really care about it that much.

  • @andreasalinas3961
    @andreasalinas3961 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    I really like God is grey, she is one of the few youtubers that adressed the problem of internalized homophobia and religion. Being queer from a catholic or christian background is so difficult and she has been one pf the youtubers that have given me hope for the future

  • @starswirldotpng
    @starswirldotpng 4 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    Are my headphones weird or do y'all hear this tapping noise in the background?

    • @arat1299
      @arat1299 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I can hear it too

    • @malomitreba
      @malomitreba 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Same ngl it was highkey asmr

    • @TimeBunny
      @TimeBunny 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Glad it wasn’t just me. I was scared my phone was broken 😄

  • @lexiwexiwoo
    @lexiwexiwoo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    I feel like these two girls really have issues with the way they approach their religion. They're "mean girls" with a holier-than-thou attitude. They've been very toxic in their interpretation of the scripture & their lack of empathy, compassion or acceptance is deeply saddening.

  • @blackrosejinx5563
    @blackrosejinx5563 3 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    Can we all agree that God is Gray is such a damn queen? She was so patient and so kind and I just- queen.

  • @sethsha7826
    @sethsha7826 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    As an atheist, I have SO much respect for Brenda. She sounds like a lovely, accepting, genuine person. The fact that Mr. Atheist didn't respond to her is upsetting, I quit following him a long time ago. Not surprised the other christian channels didn't respond tho.

    • @irisdegoede7766
      @irisdegoede7766 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      They actually did a few videos together (Brenda and mr Atheist) on girl defined. Maybe you missed them because they are lifestreams but they have a great relationship. Mr Atheist actually says Grey is Bae.

  • @alexportella2158
    @alexportella2158 3 ปีที่แล้ว +279

    I love that Girl Defined accuses "people like God is Grey" of cherry-picking god's word, but they literally be out there as women, on a stage, unchaperoned by a man, voicing their opinions publicly, and wearing mixed fabrics lol

    • @allyhvis6046
      @allyhvis6046 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Yeah, the mixed fabrics thing is so hilarious and doesn't make sense in today's world. So everyone looks past that. And why? Because the Bible is 2 thousand FUCKING years old.

    • @unHolyEvelyn
      @unHolyEvelyn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@allyhvis6046 and yet they still follow the gay rule from their 2000 year old story book (which let's be honest that's all it is)

    • @TheLostWammy
      @TheLostWammy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Like, biblically, women are not supposed to preach at all. Why are you on stage, girl???

    • @rockmangurlx4973
      @rockmangurlx4973 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If they celebrate holidays of Pagan origin, that’s a no-no too.

  • @alicine-sims8988
    @alicine-sims8988 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    It's so weird that they make fun of God is Grey for saying she had an experience with the holy spirit that changed everything. Did they like, even read the Bible? That happened repeatedly in the Bible where God would send an angel to tell somebody something, or have them have a dream or something and then they where supposed to communicate that with everyone. Why would that not continue happening now?
    Like, we used to not be able to eat pig according to the Bible then someone had an experience with the holy spirit and now that's okay.

  • @rat3015
    @rat3015 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    Girl defined: all of us struggle with sexual sin
    Asexual people:

    • @Xer031
      @Xer031 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      They consider THAT a relgious sin too😂😂 You know it's just the Devil playing Tricks of the mind😂 Also, please understand I say this jokingly. I do not in anyway believe these things. A sexuality and all sexuality is cool.. (Except some very obvious exceptions)

  • @jessicak1693
    @jessicak1693 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    I'm convinced children and young teens don't watch girl defined by choice and Christian parents force them to watch these "sweet relatable young ladies" and they don't know any better and get sucked into the cult.

    • @rachelk4805
      @rachelk4805 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      They are hardly young ladies and they certainly aren't girls.

  • @sventhebananaman1630
    @sventhebananaman1630 4 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    "Imagine a society surrounded by culture?"
    You mean society???

  • @welcometothedellhelpline8748
    @welcometothedellhelpline8748 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    As a Christian I like the way you go about these videos so many youtubers will do these videos and just sit there and disrespect Christianity but I like the way you just talk about girl defined as individuals not the whole religion and you used the bible verse in the right context

  • @robyngora
    @robyngora 4 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    I love how you pulled up receipts from the bible 😂

  • @ineedsomesugar2194
    @ineedsomesugar2194 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    It bothers me how they assume people can’t have a judgement of their own, that they only do certain things because they are ‘hip and trendy’. Honey, no.

    • @peggedyourdad9560
      @peggedyourdad9560 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I wonder if there’s some projection involved? Like, because they themselves can’t form opinions on their own surely that’s how everyone else is.

  • @karbowanazaba5989
    @karbowanazaba5989 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Okay so am I the only one who hears the gentle "knocking" or some other sound that i don't know how to describe throughout the whole video?

    • @annikacurtis4813
      @annikacurtis4813 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yess, like a popping sounds, I couldn’t figure out whether it was the audio or my headphones

    • @moth5096
      @moth5096 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes! I was so confused 😰

  • @PaulFJarnes
    @PaulFJarnes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Their contempt for God is Grey shows just how much "being a good christian" means being a bigot

  • @gothbimbo9470
    @gothbimbo9470 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    they are the trophie wifes at a barbeque that constantly talk about other moms behind their backs

  • @misanthropiccorn9302
    @misanthropiccorn9302 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I really like how you pointed out all the disgusting parts of girl defined without condemning all Christians as having the same mindset of them. As a young girl I felt like I had to chose between my progressive ideas and believing in god. Thanks for this, excellent video:) you’re doing great:)

  • @Everyting99
    @Everyting99 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    As an ex-Christian, this whole situation is such a good example of the Christians I still support (god is grey) and the ones I don’t (girl defined)

  • @user-ut6ok4vz7q
    @user-ut6ok4vz7q 4 ปีที่แล้ว +237

    There were 69 comments
    Until I came
    Haha you get it?
    Came?
    Christian? - ah forget it

  • @loyaltheorist5459
    @loyaltheorist5459 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    *Don’t use religion as an excuse!*
    I’m a Mormon and I support anyone and everyone as long as they aren’t hurting anyone!

  • @hi_im_cricket_im_ur_consci2194
    @hi_im_cricket_im_ur_consci2194 4 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    The only Christian channel I like is Micarah Tewers. She makes a bunch of clothes and has a lot of birds, including, like, 3 chickens. She’s actually really interesting and doesn’t go on and on about her religion, which I love. She also remakes a bunch off different dresses based on, like, the Grammys or something😂😂😂
    Edit: I’ll have to look at Brenda’s channel🥰

    • @neilagangitlog
      @neilagangitlog 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Same. I also like how she doesn't shove her religion down to her viewer's throats. She's just a very chill, creative person

    • @hi_im_cricket_im_ur_consci2194
      @hi_im_cricket_im_ur_consci2194 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@neilagangitlog yay!! someone else who likes her!! Idk, I just love her a lot, she's what I think a Christian should be, very nice and humble :)

    • @coocooformycocoapuffs3235
      @coocooformycocoapuffs3235 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      :O I didnt know she was a Christian bro I LOVE HER CHANNEL

    • @sourfrog21
      @sourfrog21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same, I watch her because of sewing and she’s really awesome

    • @camillefaith2005
      @camillefaith2005 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Her subtle references can make any person laugh no matter their religion. She's very sweet and doesn't seem to hold any toxic beliefs as well.

  • @itsjustzephyr
    @itsjustzephyr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I know I'm late, but can I just say, the "my favourite flavour of popsicle" transition took me OUT

  • @mcmak720
    @mcmak720 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I'm a Christian and I really really hate the way girls defined go about spreading the word of God and I really don't like how they attacked the God is grey account its not like sexuality is a choice and God loves everyone and doesn't judge what gives them the right to judge others

  • @eva2.029
    @eva2.029 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    honestly my opinion is that faith, in a nutshell, is about being a better person. so if whatever faith you choose to believe in, if it helps you become a better person, then good job believe what you believe. to me there’s no “one” religion. like there isn’t a correct religion so while i believe in God, and i’m catholic, what girl defined is doing is NOT correct in any way. there’s something called evangelization in my religion, it means that you spread the word of God but also help people that already believe to grow in faith. if you evangelize you are sharing your religion to others that want or ask to learn about it, not pushing your religion on others. shaming others is not the “word of God”
    AND if you’re LGBTQ+ , and a christian, God loves you and accepts you. you can’t choose to be that way so obviously God made you that way for a reason, to be you. please don’t listen to these ignorant people such as girl defined. one of the main reasons i believe in God is because he loves everyone, and he wants you to love as well, it doesn’t matter if your gay or pan or bi or anything like that because he just wants you to be happy. God loves you just the way you are ❤️
    (sorry if this was confusing i’m not good at explaining things)

  • @mcgaming9149
    @mcgaming9149 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Best part I love about the parts they usually quote against homosexuality is that "man shall not lie with man" is a mistranslation. The verse was originally against pedophilia, "man shall not lie with boy"

  • @Music-tb3qc
    @Music-tb3qc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I hope there are more youtubers like God is Grey who can actually show how Christians should be, being kind and open to others opinions

  • @midway1926
    @midway1926 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I see this channel going places, very high places.

  • @malumedeiros5965
    @malumedeiros5965 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I love how it sounds like a tiny mouse is tap dancing in the back during the whole video 🥰

  • @scullyaliensarereal6317
    @scullyaliensarereal6317 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    they really go to bat for those unborn children just to ignore the ones living in bad situations i hate em

  • @Thomas_Aquil
    @Thomas_Aquil 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I go to a Christian church, and they have no discrimination there like most of the people who serve even have tattoos and piercings. Some of our youth is LGBT too

    • @hanseungwoo2518
      @hanseungwoo2518 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What’s your church’s name? I’ve always wanted to be a part of a church that actually accepts.

    • @bbw283
      @bbw283 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ooh that's nice

  • @stay_golden0593
    @stay_golden0593 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Anyone get Handmaid's Tale flashbacks when she said "Blessed be the fruit" ??

  • @limpbizkitluvr
    @limpbizkitluvr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    God is Grey has made me cry multiple times, she made me feel so loved and accepted and my family has never done that for me (context: I’m no nonbinary and abrosexual and grew up in a conservative household)

    • @limpbizkitluvr
      @limpbizkitluvr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My parents won’t even let me go to art school EVEN THOUGH THEY ACKNOWLEDGE THAT I WOULD MOST LIKELY EXCELL THERE, just because there are gay & transgender students there.

  • @screemingslay5415
    @screemingslay5415 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Giiiirl! As a Catholic (and a disappointing one), you had me enlightened more about this so called true Christian women! I'm gonna subscribe to you! You deserve it!

  • @LeeK.ayfaucet
    @LeeK.ayfaucet 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I know this doesn't really have to do with the topic, but, I am so grateful that Annamarie shared the source of God is gray. as a Christian struggling with being accepted as a new lgbtq+ member, I can't wait to explore what God is gray has to say!!!

  • @riqrimoli
    @riqrimoli 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    im literally about to cry brenda was so sweet and polite the whole time i just wanna give her a hug

  • @cassierxse
    @cassierxse 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    thank you for the disclaimer about being fine with religion, as long as you don't force it on other people and judge others because of it (bc i completely agree). i also loved that you did actual biblical research!
    as a christian woman, we do not claim her. in fact, we exile her and all who act like her.

  • @thisisauniquename
    @thisisauniquename 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    1:08 I'm a Christian, PEOPLE THINK YOU SHOULDN'T KISS BEFORE MARRIAGE??? I'VE HEARD PEOPLE TALK ABOUT THIS, BUT I THOUGHT IT WAS A JOKE!

  • @otterpop57
    @otterpop57 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    con(christianity)text: *exists*
    Girl Defined: *takes christianity out of context*

  • @happy80thgertrude25
    @happy80thgertrude25 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    2:10 - to add on your foster care comment, many kids are often physically abused in the foster care system and the Bible certainly doesn’t say anything against child abuse but that’s not a conversation she’ll ever have now is it? 👀

  • @shoegazerrrr
    @shoegazerrrr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I had to write an essay about morality, so I decided to piss of my very southern teacher and use all my Evidence towards morality in a good way. I literally didn’t even know that it had such a big connection to Christianity lol

  • @billiejean9969
    @billiejean9969 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Am I the only one hearing the tap dancing in the audio or is it my phone tripping from when i yeeted it into a wall??

    • @nameisitsybee
      @nameisitsybee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm hearing it too, I thought my phone was disintegrating
      Was looking for comments to assure I'm not going crazy

  • @kytedharma2750
    @kytedharma2750 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The mic making little taps set off my asmr tingles

  • @complainer406
    @complainer406 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    It's literally not possible to have an option that matches with the entire Bible exactly. The Bible contradicts itself so many times

  • @PauliePizza
    @PauliePizza 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I was brought up in a Jewish home so I love to watch judgmental Christians. I feel fortunate not to be brought up with so much bullshit.
    You remind me of people I grew up with in New York I love to hear you talk. I live in hillbilly land and miss the accent from my home.

  • @kiiekoii9752
    @kiiekoii9752 4 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    Is it just me or is the audio really crackly?

    • @bilsleftkneecap1136
      @bilsleftkneecap1136 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I THOUGHT IT WAS JUST ME LMAO

    • @cartoonishrage6605
      @cartoonishrage6605 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I thought I was just going mad

    • @mimichelly539
      @mimichelly539 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      it sounds like someone is typing/chewing gum behind the camera

    • @adele1635
      @adele1635 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank god I thought my laptop was broken

    • @teodoramaria8424
      @teodoramaria8424 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I thought it was just for me
      Kept stopping the video to see if there's something wrong with my phone or anything

  • @oddbloochicken
    @oddbloochicken 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Bruh, honestly as a christian i say you should just be kind to everyone, don't judge people, and do what you'd like as long as you're not hurting yourself or others

  • @mikelmontoya2965
    @mikelmontoya2965 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Awesome video! You earned yourself a new subscriber ☺
    I myself don't hold any religious or spiritual beliefs at all, but as a queer person I love Christians like Brenda who go out of their way to defend our community from people like Girl Defined.
    Brenda is such a good person that I even get frustrated at how forgiving, kind and charitable she is to people like Girl Defined, who don't deserve that from her I think, but that just shows how committed she is to the core aspects of her religion (which is basically love your neighbor) in a way Girl Defined can't even dream to achieve.

  • @Cottage_Gore
    @Cottage_Gore 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    It’s ironic. I feel like religion has some of the hardest gatekeepers.

  • @myahshantz
    @myahshantz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I can't even make this shit up... as soon as Morgans abortion song came on, my cat who was cuddling with me instantly got up and left. That says enough about that

  • @pkbutter
    @pkbutter 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    ok so am I the only one who started hearing a sort of tapping noise at around 3:00

  • @PerksJ
    @PerksJ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The tapping is driving me crazy!!! But that’s just my sensory processing disorder.But otherwise, it’s great!

  • @marinacitronova8604
    @marinacitronova8604 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am a christian too. But I felt like outsider at all christian youth events. Despite the fact I received Sacrament of Penance and Eucharist I felt like a black sheep. The healing came when I was meeting up with the elderly Christians - besides Grace they had experience thus understanding.

  • @suhaneegupta814
    @suhaneegupta814 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    As for me, my holy book says rules need to be changed with time. So, it practically says "Hey, don't follow me if I'm too outdated".
    Also, I think, we can keep our books, just change the way we understand and interpret their texts

  • @saintswanted
    @saintswanted 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    what is bethany wearing lmao she looks like an electrician

    • @Naramiah
      @Naramiah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Plz don't take cheap shots at things like fashion choices... I have a jumper extremely similar to that.

    • @aspenram3885
      @aspenram3885 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I thought she was rocking that comrade look and I was thinking about looking for it online myself to rock in the garden.

    • @Amberrogers
      @Amberrogers 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Naramiah and I'm willing to bet you look ten times better than her in it.

  • @lj.853
    @lj.853 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Does anyone else wearing earbuds/headphones hear tapping? It's only on this video and it's driving me insane!!

    • @KaneWolf606
      @KaneWolf606 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don't worry, you aren't the only one

    • @VirtualAurora
      @VirtualAurora 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm not wearing earbuds or anything and I hear it too and its pissing me off as well

  • @sadalynlyons4562
    @sadalynlyons4562 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    this sounds like my Baptist church growing up. Sunday school was teaching us everything wrong with other branches of Christianity and other religions as soon as we were teens.

    • @omelettexmoa2995
      @omelettexmoa2995 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      OMG i went to a baptist school for a long time and they didn't even consider ppl who are Catholic or Methodist "true bible following Christians" they would bash especially Catholics bc of their reverence to Mary and call it "idol worship". And lets not even get started on the things they'd say about Mormons or Jehovah Witnesses or other non-christrain based religions

  • @issabee7743
    @issabee7743 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Brenda is a wonderful youtuber and human being. I love how she's called out other Christian youtubers for their awful views or behavior.

  • @umbrellabirb2959
    @umbrellabirb2959 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    things heating up in the god fandom

  • @juiceboxtitties9956
    @juiceboxtitties9956 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Is anybody else hearing a tiny tap dancing elf on the background??? Bc it stops when I pause the video and when clips with different audio are playing I can’t hear it either. Wtf

  • @faithbradley4224
    @faithbradley4224 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Love how people have an "abortion is murder" stance without actually having been put in a position where people have no choice but to have an abortion.
    (I'm not trying to start a debate! Please don't have a debate in the replies, if you do reply).

    • @faithbradley4224
      @faithbradley4224 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I am pro life, but I believe that you should listen to people's stories before you decide on your stance.

  • @farrago6881
    @farrago6881 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I have one and ONLY one thing in common with Kristen and Bethany. We were born into a religious community. We never chose to be subscribed to it.
    People, them included, have a hard time rethinking anything that challenges what is comfortable to them. And for those two, they aren't just comfortable, they
    thrive in their community. They will never change. And when I see them, when I hear what they say, I can't help but feel like that could've been me just as easily.
    And I'm so glad I put in the time and effort to think for myself. They ARE organized religion and that will always be a dangerous thing.

    • @ggmmdh
      @ggmmdh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i was also born into a family that was religious and I turned out gay and it was hard cause I really loved that god. It hurt to hear he didn’t love me.

    • @farrago6881
      @farrago6881 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ggmmdh What religion, if you don't mind me asking? I was brought up as an independent fundamental baptist. Was being the key word >_>

    • @ggmmdh
      @ggmmdh 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@farrago6881 I was born into a mix of Christianity and Jehova’s Witnesses.

  • @Annas2025
    @Annas2025 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I kid you not, I got an ad for Pure Flix while watching this video.....I don't know what made the people at Pure Flix think this was a good video to advertise on

  • @sophie5967
    @sophie5967 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    As a Christian girl, they prob choose to ignore what the Bible says about judgement and gossip

  • @SuperJust4girls
    @SuperJust4girls 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I went to catholic school and had a religion teacher like girl defined who was super racist towards me and others in the class along with being homophobic. She was fired

    • @joshuabuchanan1141
      @joshuabuchanan1141 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Good, people like her should absolutely positively should be fired

  • @inky_arts212
    @inky_arts212 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Anyone else hear a tapping/clicking sound while annamarie talked, it stopped after a bit but it went on for a while.

  • @carolinabittencourt9774
    @carolinabittencourt9774 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video is so good, thank you for sharing. As someone who is religious, I really appreciate the way you approach this type of conversation and really hope more people watch you and learn from you.

  • @vatsalapande2724
    @vatsalapande2724 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    these people really think supporting capitalism imperialism and racism is rebelling against the system when the system is made to uphold and maintain these things lmao

  • @emhowe877
    @emhowe877 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    "I'm not like other girls, I'm worse"

  • @anabelsama
    @anabelsama 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Is there a clicking sound on the video or are my laptop and me going insane?

  • @maymaylovesyou15
    @maymaylovesyou15 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    As a pretty traditional (though somewhat left-leaning since we’re talking politics) Christian, I know verrryyy few people who approach Christianity the way Girl Defined do.

  • @shonhaley837
    @shonhaley837 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    "Don't worry folks, it only gets worse from here."
    Aka me to any entities watching my mess of a life.

  • @lailadobb9221
    @lailadobb9221 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    As an author, people like Girl Defined are actually really good archetypes for book characters. Like, they have a truth and misbelief which perfectly matches each other!