The setting.....the interviewer yoooh proper stuff......can we have you again to interview more guests you have an amazing aura ur interviewing skills, questions, ur easily able to tap into character without trying......everything nje....ur confidence please do interview more guests ......
Sesi Noluthando unfairly cut Mimi off before she can explain how she ended up getting out her first marriage. But without that info, a conclusion is made about how bad Andile is. Nolu is also suggesting that stuff that happened to Mimi is because of Andile knowing her background, offering Mimi's parents something, etc. These assumptions may be totally incorrect. Andile's side of the story isn't known. Therefore, no conclusions or inferences can be made about him and what he did.
Reminding him of the past might just coz him to go back. Focus on in the what you have and stay positive/optimistic. It sound like the tow of you are a good match. Wish you all the best❤
@Mimi Andile loves you and you live him, you need to heal and forget the past n move on as a family. Trauma is holding you back and robbing you of what you have, if not taken care of right now it might coz the worst.
It's important to speak life in your relationship,she's doing well for being sure they love each other but how about speak the same faith in the future of your marriage that he is not going anywhere and we both learnt from our mistakes,by speaking doubt u r opening a door to the enemy
Sisi u need to get a job n take care of your children ayingomtshato lona ukuwo iyakubalela lendoda cause u cheated before Amadoda awalibali so move on cithandwa Sam leave Andilie alone nento zakhe ❤️
I feel very sorry ngososi, ngoba lobubuhlungu uyabuzwa and suppressed it. Loko kudangerous. Senga unganakekela intliziyo yakho. Money is not everything. Ubhuti udangerous for wena sisi. Something is missing in this marriage. Find it sis kuse early.
😂😂😂lovely interview too much drama......can we have Mimi again to talk about something else...she seems like she has experienced life's hardships and learned from them......she has alot to share with the world women in particular, young mothers,wife's ext .....can we have her back..... and she must go for counseling......because Andile ena his a walking redflag
We dint know his side of the story... maybe the red flag is Mimi and not Andile. If Andile was wrong, should a lady pay revenge by doing exactly what the man did?? No. We should remember that for a woman sex is emotional and no emotions are involved for a man to have a sexual relationship
Mimi shared her story too early. Maybe it is a cry for help cause she's confused by her feelings. I think the couple needs to go to couple's therapy to work through these issues since they both want to be together. Trust need to be restored from both sides
Ii don't know if Mimi is not a good story teller or she's hidding certain things or she's fabricating the whole thing...but I'm really confused by her journey with Andile😕 😕
Andile is not a loving husband, loving men they don't act like him. His a narcissist, and he won't allow you to move on, he controls your life. Sesi you must think twice and leave that emotional abuser
That's why I always advice people not to reconcile after cheating, worse if even the woman cheated. Men can tell you we only forgive cheating only to revenge and revenge badly, that's why you must'n believe when a man says he forgives you for cheating on him.
Shes unemployed nd renting while the husband has a house why are they not staying together? What happened to the ex husband? I hope she gets a job so she can leave the relationship
@josephinamokoena6865 You think it's rubbish because o sifebe.I don't forgive someone who cheated on me its blasphemy.That is why people get infected with STD's and AIDS,It's because they have sex with cheaters people who sleep around.
Not to have good relationship with our biological family means nothing ,be at home in yourself ,u must have boundaries that show that it's not about anyone else but u
Correct ... info isn't flowing clearly mainly because Nolu already knows the story and she's in a hurry to get to the info she has interest in ... the listeners are not taken clearly thru' the issues
Umshado ongena trust awusekho usuphelile sisi wake up and face reality Its abuse cheating ayiii kuningi alukho uthando olunjena ayiiiii alukho .i feel sorry for your kids f9r ukukhulela to such an environment.
The setting.....the interviewer yoooh proper stuff......can we have you again to interview more guests you have an amazing aura ur interviewing skills, questions, ur easily able to tap into character without trying......everything nje....ur confidence please do interview more guests ......
Counselling definitely needed for usisi!!!!❤ she’s convincing herself soooo much…😢 love and light 🌼
Childhood trauma is also playing a big role . Counseling is needed.
Correct ... that's the main issue here and NOT Andile being problematic
But uthathe impahla last year February..i think its too early to Praise 😢
I wush Andile can also come to the podcast because there's always two sides to every story.
Nje he is my friend 😮two sides vele
Sesi Noluthando unfairly cut Mimi off before she can explain how she ended up getting out her first marriage. But without that info, a conclusion is made about how bad Andile is. Nolu is also suggesting that stuff that happened to Mimi is because of Andile knowing her background, offering Mimi's parents something, etc. These assumptions may be totally incorrect. Andile's side of the story isn't known. Therefore, no conclusions or inferences can be made about him and what he did.
Very true, I listened attentively to hear how she broke up with the first man who paid lobola.
Yoh,hayi kuningi shame,where is restoration lapho,l'm confused ...😂😂😂
Reminding him of the past might just coz him to go back. Focus on in the what you have and stay positive/optimistic. It sound like the tow of you are a good match. Wish you all the best❤
@Mimi Andile loves you and you live him, you need to heal and forget the past n move on as a family. Trauma is holding you back and robbing you of what you have, if not taken care of right now it might coz the worst.
It's important to speak life in your relationship,she's doing well for being sure they love each other but how about speak the same faith in the future of your marriage that he is not going anywhere and we both learnt from our mistakes,by speaking doubt u r opening a door to the enemy
Amen 🙌🏾❤
This lady can talk fast. Yoh!. 25mins in and i feel like ive run a mile. Will be back once u catch my breath 😂😂
Come back 😉
😂😂😂😂sana 😭😭lol it was fun
Very toxic relationship between you and andile back and forth with each other 😅😅😅😂
Ayi cc kubukeka ungekho lomshado. Cs Mimi there is no more trust la. Uyadatshukelwa no love manje
Mimi kukhona usizo oludingayo. Khona Okungekho ryt. Andile akanalutho futhi ngiyadideka nininini Be provider abantwana.
25:08 sana I would leave him!😭😭ubekezelile sis congratulations 🎉
may god please 🙏 pls help mimi she is not ok at all
Marriage counseling its needed.
Okuhle kubili engikutholayo, uthando nokukuxolelana impakamo ayihlangani nothando
Have never been so confused
confused too...kuningi hai
Sisi u need to get a job n take care of your children ayingomtshato lona ukuwo iyakubalela lendoda cause u cheated before Amadoda awalibali so move on cithandwa Sam leave Andilie alone nento zakhe ❤️
Financial independent is crucial. Get a job, sister, or start a business. Nowadays, men prefer and respect women who bring something on the table.
Hay maan Mimi 😢"he said when money come in kuzoshuba"aah maan this guy is something else jooh
Angazi ukuthi usisi no andile ba enzani yazi
Thanks for watching
Mimi, ask your husband that both of you go for therapy. You both are toxic.
Both cheaters, and a cheater will always be a cheater.
I feel very sorry ngososi, ngoba lobubuhlungu uyabuzwa and suppressed it. Loko kudangerous. Senga unganakekela intliziyo yakho. Money is not everything. Ubhuti udangerous for wena sisi. Something is missing in this marriage. Find it sis kuse early.
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I am super confused right now
😂😂😂😂😭sana I waited for restoration
😂😂😂lovely interview too much drama......can we have Mimi again to talk about something else...she seems like she has experienced life's hardships and learned from them......she has alot to share with the world women in particular, young mothers,wife's ext .....can we have her back..... and she must go for counseling......because Andile ena his a walking redflag
This was a (Ask a man episode)😭
Very conversation.
What is restoration, mara.
Huh 🤔
Andile is a big red flag but sizothini🤷🏽♀️
Eish
We dint know his side of the story... maybe the red flag is Mimi and not Andile. If Andile was wrong, should a lady pay revenge by doing exactly what the man did?? No. We should remember that for a woman sex is emotional and no emotions are involved for a man to have a sexual relationship
I thought this episode is to thank God, now I'm confused what to thank here.
Mimi shared her story too early. Maybe it is a cry for help cause she's confused by her feelings. I think the couple needs to go to couple's therapy to work through these issues since they both want to be together. Trust need to be restored from both sides
Mimi 😢...inzima indaba yakho...
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
In life you must accept and have a peace of mind rather than pretending..either you must consult for professional help
I doubt this relationship which has grudges really 😂😂😂😂
Niyathandana olwenu olweqiniso iyani esontweni nobabili, uNkulunkulu uluthando
Ii don't know if Mimi is not a good story teller or she's hidding certain things or she's fabricating the whole thing...but I'm really confused by her journey with Andile😕 😕
Forgive yourself totally, then your person. Define your friendships and get theraphy . Work on yourself Mimi, your past is raping your future.
Halfway through the pod she forgot that it was a recording and decided "fuck sugar coating"😢
May be they were meant to be together who knows Hai mara what a journey neh or drama Andile Andile
There are lots of red flags in their relationship.
Go for marriage counselling.
Why abantu baseSoweto bazenza abosaziwayo bakhulele kwaSatane bayasiBoraaa Shame
Ayy sis mimi 😢 u need to find yourself first
Trauma bond
Andile is not a loving husband, loving men they don't act like him. His a narcissist, and he won't allow you to move on, he controls your life. Sesi you must think twice and leave that emotional abuser
Victoria i wish you can advise me on something ,waze wakhuluma into engithintayo uma uthi " he won't allow you to move on he controls your life
No such conclusion can be made ... let's have Andile's side of the story first
That's why I always advice people not to reconcile after cheating, worse if even the woman cheated. Men can tell you we only forgive cheating only to revenge and revenge badly, that's why you must'n believe when a man says he forgives you for cheating on him.
Shes unemployed nd renting while the husband has a house why are they not staying together?
What happened to the ex husband?
I hope she gets a job so she can leave the relationship
Andile yoh l hope my sister they is no love potion involved 😢
You think they might be a chance that he gave her love potion?
Once a cheater,Always a cheater.
Siesssss l will never telling people that Rubbish
@josephinamokoena6865 You think it's rubbish because o sifebe.I don't forgive someone who cheated on me its blasphemy.That is why people get infected with STD's and AIDS,It's because they have sex with cheaters people who sleep around.
@NkosanaHendry-k6v please say it louder for the people at the back🎤
Trauma bonding
I haven't heard Mimi saying she prefers to continue dancing ... but Nolu says so. It maybe an editing problem.
I like Nolus voice and her bubbly personality ❤
We listen, we don't judge 🤞
Amen 🙏
Not to have good relationship with our biological family means nothing ,be at home in yourself ,u must have boundaries that show that it's not about anyone else but u
I am sorry. Please go for counseling my Sister
Thank u 🙏
This woman is managed.She needs counseling
The story looks so interesting but I dont understand nothing..
Please tell your guests that same of ur subscribers are not SAs please.
Kubi emhlabeni.
This is y I don't last ....mina I leave. I'm a leavist😮
This whole interview is a hot mess but do you boos.
Please elaborate ❤️
Correct ... info isn't flowing clearly mainly because Nolu already knows the story and she's in a hurry to get to the info she has interest in ... the listeners are not taken clearly thru' the issues
@@mjmjn4609We don't even know what happened with the first husband.
most women are like that🙄
How
Im confused
Bewusebenzisa
What did i just watch? BS
Umshado ongena trust awusekho usuphelile sisi wake up and face reality
Its abuse cheating ayiii kuningi alukho uthando olunjena ayiiiii alukho .i feel sorry for your kids f9r ukukhulela to such an environment.