Everybody deserves to be respected and love , we have to start with ourselves and others. She paid consequences for flirting with an engaged man and while she was married. Someone from above is always watching!
Before Ben met Jen Garner,Jlo betrayed her newly husband ( who she married just for 3-4 months) and cheated with Ben, so Jlo divorced her husband. Ben always succed cheating and made women diforced their partner/husbands.Ben cheated with nanny, play boy model and Linsay shoukas but finally Shoukas's husband and Garner found out that they're cheating, so shoukas's husband diforced her,and she continue cheated with Ben.. He has plenty mistakes and scandals. This father of three will pay for what he did. Wish his children will not pay for his Sins
@@melissajohn4594 her then husband said he couldn’t take the media pressure, he was fallowed everywhere and she spent too much time away filming, those are the facts.
@@AZayas23 So since Ben Affleck contacted Jennifer Lopez in February (he admitted it) while she was still engaged to A Rod will both of them (Ben and J Lo) pay the consequences. Jennifer Garner was not married when she started dating Ben Affleck. She had divorced her husband by then and Ben had already broken up with J Lo.
The struggles between Affleck and Garner: (1) he was cheating on her; (2) he was gambling; and (3) he was drinking. When he says he never thought he would get divorced (and how can he say that with a straight face?) did he think she would just continue to look the other way?
Marriage is for better and for worse! The 3 problems you mentioned did not appear overnight. Those were his traits when Gardner took him from Lopez. Gardner divorced her husband to be with Affleck. See, the grass is not always greener on the other side. She wanted to have cute children. When she was done having them, she kicked him out. She is by no means a victim, folks!
With due respect no marriage is not for better or for worse, that could be a death sentence for someone. Marriage is a partnership on specific basics and if you only see the worse of someone and getting only the worse out of your life then there is no more basis for marriage.
@@user-ms6rm1fc9x I am not making JLO an innocent person, I was only stating a fact that anyone who wants to know the truth can check out: JLO was engaged to Ben Affleck, when Gardner was married to her first husband. Gardner started shamelessly flirting with him. It is on TH-cam. Married Gardner flirting with Ben Affleck. Then she got pregnant to entrap him into marriage. The rest is history.
I think there's no jealousy from Jennifer G because she was already done with him long before they separated. It can wear you down dealing with an alcoholic. If he wasn't the father of her kids she probably left long ago.
He is board with his life does not know what to do alcohol addiction separates beatifull Family he should of been proud having Gardner for his wife and beatifull kids not to cause lot of drama .
@@milicalukac4324 Don't you think it's a little to late for "He should have this or he should have that!!" Don't you think? He is now married to Mrs. Affleck!!! 😅😊❤❤❤
Without Garner he would be dead. He found the right partner for the inevitable struggle of alcholism that he was going to face. Garner is a solid sweet Spirit. A lot of partners would be left in a dust bowl broke and broken. This was a good example of healing love and support. Glad Garner is doing well. She gave and gave to her X. She was like his Sponser.
But there's still Matt Damon too. You know that Damon is part of his life too, Damon and Garner are the ones that truly support Affleck in fighting his struggles
Jennifer Garner is like Angelina Jolie this two woman has empower,sweet loving and carrying to their husbands and kids. This two women dasurve a happiness and peace of mind.
He married Gardner because she was safe. The girl you take home to your mother. So obviously she was boring. She ended up with a boy in a man's body. He became a project and a woman can only take so much. She needed her energy for her kids.
really? that makes her boring? but they were both so in love for some years. But I need to shut up because Ben is now married again to Jennifer Lopez. Who truly loves him
Yes Jen is tough beautiful, smart witty, decent, educated, well breed, etc..........in short prim and proper ,lady, Jennifer Lopez is weak like Ben Affleck. You can tell the way she carries herself. Almost naked/very revealing outfits. She does loo as her age, no matter how many cosmetic surgeries Dione and make up she puts on......Promiscuous...................................
It was sad but Jennifer Garner deserves happiness. John is stable and makes her happy. Ben is an addict and is always struggling. I always wanted JG and Ben to get back together but I don't anymore.
Jennifer Garner is a real class act!!! Ben lost big time when he tanked that relationship. J Lo wouldn’t have stood by him in times of trouble like Jennifer did.
@@AZayas23 is public notice. She was married to Scott Follwy divorce him 2004, then date Ben Affleck, who was also engage to Jlo. Married afflwck 2005. Do your research 🧙♀️
@@zg8878 and if Ben Affleck really loved his fiance JLo he would've married her instead of flirting away or moved to Garner! So you can't say that Garner was the one going for Ben! It should be, *Garner and Ben both had eyes on each other* because they liked each other.
I wish both Ben and Jennifer to find true happiness and love in their lives. They both deserve to be happy and find the love of their lives. Ben is no different than any other person struggling with addiction. It is a struggle and he deserves his privacy and respect! Peace and joy to all of them 🥰
All these people who have absolutely everything are missing the one thing they need more than anything else...a relationship with God! No amount of money, privilege, fame and friends can replace Him.
@@norahsmith2303 Our FAITH/TRUST in The Creator must be shared with others. It is NOT A SECRET! It is a PRIVILEDGE and a GOOD THING. (Mark 8:38) "Whosoever, therefore, shall be ashamed of Me and of My words in this adulterous and sinful generation, of him also shall the Son of Man be ashamed when He cometh in the glory of His Father YAHUWAH with the holy angels." HalleluYAH!!! October 3, 2021
Agreed. I think Ben & J Lo are twin flames. They have a chemistry for sure. But I don't think they compliment each other for the long run. He will eventually find his true love. But not sure if it's either of the Jens. I wish them all happiness though.
I agree completely. I think Ben and JLo have that hot chemistry but that burns out. JLo is very public and Ben likes his privacy. JLo has to publicize her romances and intimate moments. I mean she had her engagement to A-rod videotaped so she could share it on her Instagram. Some moments are meant to be private and not for public consumption. She’s done same thing with Ben and their new romance
@@marybreen2900 How very Karen of you. What does they “complement” each other even mean? Is that a reference to he and Gardner not being a mixed race couple?
Ben Affleck seems to have NO SELF control regarding relationships. I was a nurse for 34 yrs while married. Should I have responded to all the offers men at work made?!?
No one will be as tolerant as Jennifer Garner; she’s more “right” for him than anyone else will ever be, because of his alcohol and gambling addictions. Jennifer Lopez? Forget it. Her ego is enormous.
Its terrible how Ben humiliated Jennifer on the Howard Stern show after she been there for him he should be ashamed of himself for doing that to the mother of his children he needs to take responsibility for his own actions ❤
I think Ben needs Jennifer Garner to lean on and to tell his troubles to. I think J lo just wants to see how many men will fall for her. She wanrs them for a while then she wants to move on. I think he is still in love with Jennifer and he just wont admit it to himself or anyone. J lo needs to give him some space to see what he really wants. She knows she is sexy and pretty and thats what men are attracted to. But men usually want someone who is understanding sweet and loyal from a wife. This is just my opinion now.
It is my belief everything happens for a reason. They were meant to be together for the time they were together and to create the three beautiful kids they have.
RIGHT!!!!! SO WHAT YOU THINK JLO GOING BE. DONT TELL ME IS LOVE!!!! SHE USE HIM FOR RATINGS AND HIM JUST HAVE FUN. HE HAVE BETTER WOMAN AND KIDS. THE REPUTATION OF WOMAN IS SO IMPORTANT AND BACK GROUND, SAY TOO MUCH!!!. ME LIKE A MAN IF I HAVE THE OPORTUNITY I CANT GO.😇🥰🤑🤪🤯😳
All IS NOT,...IS NOOOOT PREATTY FACE AND BEAUTIFUL BODYS. YOU HAVE TO BE RESPECTABLE WITH YOUR SELF AND OTHERS .THE MONEY DONT BUY REPUTATION. YOU HAVE TO BE HUMAN BEING. NO POPPET.
Jennifer Garner took the role of rescuer. A role that usually leads to resentment and frustration. Jlo is no rescuer. She will end the relationship if he doesn't serve her needs.
That's the same thing I'm thinking. They're on a nostalgia high now, but JLo will eventually realize she's gonna have to deal with Ben's alcoholism. It will end the same way that the Affleck/Garner marriage did: his alcoholism and womanizing will eventually play out.
If this is what he's struggled with probably. He was sooo "in love" with gardner then look what happened..he already left jlo before bc media attention? Well it probably will happen again. Jennifer Gardner seems to be more well grounded than jlo. But I guess time will tell and we will see.
Maybe they aren’t the “ Couple” material they wanted; however, they were there for each other when they were in need of having someone in their lives to fill “ a void” and help each other grow. I think it’s good that they learned how to part ways and remain friends especially for their children.
@@gwen08g Thank you. The name has a story to tell also. ( Emma means “ Universal one... turn ; Love means God is Love and Love is God; ... for God so Loved the World that He gave His Only begotten son to be a propitiation for Our sins.” After I had accepted Jesus Christ into my heart and life, I was Baptized in Him and We became ONE , like a marriage. The wedding will happen later.) ✨
@@emmalove135 Thank you for replying! That is beautiful. I'm so happy you accepted Jesus Christ into your heart Emma. He is our Savior! Love & Blessings to you Emma!♡♡
@@jlmurray9988 ; I am a little puzzled 😕. I don’t understand exactly what he may have meant by that statement “ he could never win with Jen G. “ To me that could mean something in relation to his career and receiving an award regarding his acting, or a Personal issue which may involve his relationship with his ( then) wife. Either way, that’s the path in Life that he chose to walk upon and those are the issues or areas that he had to work on/ out... his “ Success “ depended on how he decided what would be the best method/ solution/ resolution for him, his wife and children. ( It’s o.k. that you believe what he said . I am not responding to change your statement; just saying that perhaps there might be more here than meets the eye and should have a little more consideration before making a final judgment.) ✨
Jennifer Garner and her kids deserve to have a grown mature stable man in they're lives, she doesn't want Ben back, she's been his caretaker for too long now.
When she left get husband and Boyfriend Vartan for him she knew exactly what she was getting herself into.She preferred the Hollywood glamor to a peaceful happy family.No sympathy
BEN CAN CHANGE HE LOVE HER FAMILY AND HER WIFE IS BETTER WOMAN. HOW JENNIFER LOPEZ IS SO IMMATURE.? BECAUSE HE IS HANDSOME??? LEF HIM ALONE HE LOOK FOR HELP IN HER PROBLEMS. SHE JUST LOOK FOR RAITNG, CANT DO A LONG.? SHE DONT KNOW THATS GOING BE OTHER MISSTAKE???? DONT STILL DOING THE SAME JENN L.THINK IN YOUR KIDS.
@@nikitasoto6482If you think his ex wife is a better woman you can have her.Ben isn't interested.Seems you know her well better than him.He had six years n more to do that but he clearly didn't want
@@monicamwaura399 He wanted Garner he just thought she would always be there. He thought he could have the best of both worlds. And if he wanted Jlo it wouldn't had taken this long to reunite. Men don't stay with a woman as long as he did with Garner. I'm sure she had enough and decided to divorce him and find happiness. He's only with Jlo because he knew she never stopped loving him, she was constantly talking about him even during his marriage. Seems like Jlo and Ben are trying to piss off their exes.
I used to like to watch his movies...not anymore.....Lopez is not a well known recording artist or entertainer...shes more like a night club singer....not a fan as well but tks anyway....
@@shirleycameron7718 yeah...I've heard from many sources, that Jennifer Lopez is such a diva. Also that she isn't nice to her assistants. She's pretty, but that just ruined my opinion of her. And Jennifer Garner is so sweet, even to the paparazzi!
I wish them all the best for the sake of their children. I think Garner left him because he sucked the joy out of their relationship. He's a moody type, that's obvious. And you know: Girls just wanna have fun.
@@parislamere3495 he is addicted to alcohol, gambling, he smokes, and as you can see now of his lifestyle is totally in the open. Some ion his free ends are enabler instead of proper guidance. Ben was in a better position with garner. They were famous/power couple before until....
Jennifer Garner is such a blessing in ben's life, despite their split, she is still a blessing. Ben could not make any better choice to choose garner to be his wife and mother of his three children. ben getting back to Lopez will only them way more famous, scrutinizing by paps, media, etc. Paps will not let et them in peace. I'll give them a year and a half, before ben moved on.
Ben was not happy with Jennifer Garner at the end. He realized his true love was Jlo and started drinking to cope with his feelings. He is a good father and didn't want to hurt his children with a divorce. I'm happy for him that finally he can be free and happy.
She was very supportive and deserves to be happy. Their marriage did not succeeded, no matter the therapy and effort. They did the right thing, which was divorce. Good Ben and Lopez share moments with both family’s kids. No need to make them suffer from split relationships. It is such a headache to live under the spot and gossips.
I think he was bored by her. She’s a sweetheart but vanilla and I just don’t think there was a strong enough connection between them. I think she was the one who loved more.
I think the problem is rushing into sex and then into marriage. They become intimate before they know each other well and then regret being so close together. The old fashion, or old school way of no sex before marriage will give them better chances to establish a real and not a fake connection.
Part of his attraction to her was that she was already married. She's empathic and nurturing. Ben has some narcissistic traits developed in his childhood. Hopefully he's healed and learned enough to be more successful in his new/continued relationship with JLo.
Honestly I think he married Jennifer G. cause she got pregnant...he always said he wanted to be a present father since his father wasn't around. And he said his divorce was his biggest regret because of his kids...not specifically saying for J.G. I think he is Jlo's true love and visa versa. I like J.G. but I just don't think they were ever meant for each other. I hope J.G. finds the person to love her the way she deserves! All my opinion.
It not so simple to get a woman pregnant if you use a condom, and if you don’t it means that you subconsciously want to have children with her (in their age and status they surely knew how it works). And then he had another two kids with her. I don’t think it was that simple.
@Анна Сергеева Never said it was that simple. And you do know some people get married because they got pregnant, some marry to have kids and some couples stay married because of the kids? And you do know condoms don't always work and she also could have been on BC or maybe not? We don't know. Also wearing a condom or not wearing a condom and getting someone pregnant doesn't mean that person subconsciously wanted a child. Sometimes sh*t happens. Come on now!
I don't think j.g want her children to born in that situation if she wasn't sure that he can be a good father or both are capable of holding a long term relationship but when time passes person change that's what happened here
What for, be unhappy? Children will eventually leave, love ended. She had enough, I do believe the help she gave him was an act of love for their children. As a woman, wife, mother, she did the right thing, she did not have to take humiliations from him. He should have respected her.
I lived with someone for 24 years, that basically reminded me of him , egotistical selfcenter individual, after while it gets old ,miss garner did the right thing, get rid of him, it's not a healthy environment for your children to grow up in and first of all for. You either,,,I always had a bad poor choices of men ,and I finally realized don't waste your time with bad grass ,bad grass never dies .lol god bless MISS G ,you will be all right, I will keep you in prayers, your wonder man it's coming ,,,,,
Yea me too. Some men struggle with sex addiction too?… idk I’m no expert. But I wish happiness to each of them as individuals. Hollywood adds a complexity to any relationship that can be the sun or the shadow as JG said Ben could be.
She played her number very well, she is doing just fine. She is free, had his best years. Has alimony, pension, etc. Jlo is getting left overs. I wouldn’t have taken him back. She is beautiful and talented, why would she take back a drunk?
The thing that will kill this relationship is if Ben has a relapse, Can Lopez handle it like Garner did? All that PDA doen not mean anything once Ben relapses than reality sets in.
@@jenniferhernandez9016 Just shows how young you are, If you knew anything about any type of addiction there is no cure but a lifelong struggle,He has relapsed twice in 3 years and even stated it can happen again. That is why I hope he is in a program and that will help him that is my wish for him. Learn other things besides gossip it will help you in the future
@@bettyjones5994 but now Ben is with the woman he really loves and that is a plus for sure because that going to bring him a lot of happines to his life...At your age you should know that you can't talk before things actually happen, and less if you only wish negative things, that doesn't help that's only puts pressure to a person that is trying to recovery...A lot of people with alcoholis problems are able to live a healthy life without relapse, Ben can make it too.
@@jenniferhernandez9016 Ben said he could relapse.That is one thing about being young and immature you don't know how to deal with reality and see things as they are not what you wish it was. If they are not in a program they will relapse. Maybe if you read up on it you will learn more it.
What's the use of having regrets? If he loves his family, why did he not try harder? It seemed divorce outweighed the love for a family. Does Ben think running back to J Lo will solve his demons? Jennifer Garner deserves better.
I actually like Ben & Jennifer Garner Together I Am A Fan Of Them Both Still Till This Day Although Their No Longer Together They Will Always Be My Favorite Couple In Hollywood History Besides Their Chemistry Is Undeniable Well In My Opinion I Am Wishing Them Both The Best In Life Forever I Will Leave It At That
Jennifer Garner is to me the most greatest person a true human that knows the right way ! I was sad and hoped Ben and she would one day be back. As for Jennifer Lopez and Ben. I was not sure what it would become, because they seemed so different. Ben a family and causal down to earth and Lopez was all about getting out in public. Well she is a icon. I am know happy for Ben and Lopez. I hope they make family life the top priority and acting and other fame the secondary.....Good going and keep a low profile, so home will make your marriage work !!! Praying for you !
I don’t think he was truly over JLo when he got with Jen G, married because she was pregnant and a lovely person. Luckily, she helped him recover from his addiction and they have beautiful children but they are better as friends. She deserves to be with someone who really loves her, he is happier with JLo. If they can all get along this will be the best outcome for everyone, especially their children.
I think Garner set her sights and WENT AFTER Ben! JLo or not! Garner got preg WAY EARLY ON...I think she's Terribly manipulative. Prob IS a good Mom but I think she had those kids to try to KEEP Ben! JMO.
Ben said before cameras that his alcoholism developed because he had marital problems and they got really bad. We don’t know what happens behind doors. They played a good marriage, both good actors.
@@helenpierce-lamoureux3124 It takes two to make a child. If Ben didn't want kids it wouldn't have happened. He fell in love with Garner what's so hard to believe. Her and Jlo are so different. Garner seems more his type she seems more lay back. Jlo lives for the cameras and lavish lifestyle. Ben will get tired once again with Jlo. People need to remind themselves that Ben dumped and cheated on Jlo as Jlo did to Chris Judd.
I think they've always been better as friends...and as difficult as divorce can be on children, it's a huge relief that these two can maintain a friendship for the sake of their children. But I think the J-Lo thing won't last. She's rebounding. Her relationships never last.
If you knew their history you would know that JLo has always loved Ben. He's always been the love of her life. So of course after him, she really couldn't find someone else. Same with him.
JLO is a Narcissist, Ben has an alcohol problem and some trauma that he needs to resolve. He didn’t need this romance with JLO she is going to drive him nuts and he is going to end up in rehab again.
@@Jalil-wx7rh Absolutely not true, Narcissists can’t love anyone but themselves. ARod was a fantastic guy abs she did him dirty right after they engaged and started dating Ben a week after they broke up.
To all of the viewers and commenters of this video: Ben Affleck's relationship history is important but right now there's a crisis in Kabul and you're attention is needed for those videos. Let's get with it people, c'mon man!
I agree although I pay no mind to Hollywood no longer much less divorcees x4 with Jlo and an alcoholic. Current admin is corrupt as hell. These Hollywood persons are nothing to many. In the meantime keep that revolving door going Jlo and good luck with your next venture I'm sure there's many more to come. Prayers to our fallen men and those left in Kabul along with the American citizens. 🇺🇲🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤😓
There are PLETNTY of videos on that subject on YT so why bring it here? Sometimes you need an escqpe from all the negatovity and dive into some celeb gossip.
I like Jennifer Garnier. She is a good person and a good actor. She deserves love unconditionnally. She couldn't have done it alone to safe their marriage if Ben was busy drinking. Well they have beautiful children together and they will always be linked for life. I wish them happiness.
of course, but let's pray their children will not follow Ben and jlo's footsteps. For Jen Garner, she is always there for her children, but I don't know about jlo's
It's sad Garner dragged signing the divorce papers for 3 years. You cannot fake True Love. Destiny is real even if it takes two decades. God bless the children.
i think they maybe want so badly to be perfect parents, perfect love story, perfect family...maybe is not meant to be? him and Jlo are better match i think, Jlo, sh's love him inconditionnel with is imperfection and issues and JG in love with perfect marriage, perfect family like ''Charles Ingles'' ''little house on the prairie? that's what i think.Sh's good mom, strong woman and now sh's with her boyfriend NYC...and news said sh's so happy and her ex happy with Jlo.
@@jigiw I bet JLo was brought up many times in their marriage. Especially afterwards. Some say he even wanted to cast her in his Live By Night movie, but Garner wouldn't allow that. That 3 years was a drag on.
Absolutely, I don’t understand what she saw in this unstable Ben Affleck, the fact that he wanted to marry JLO should’ve been a red flag for her. Her first husband is quite decent, she would have less drama or no drama at all.
@@vkrgfan I mean idk now with them however I know before that's not what love is not looks like is breaking Engagement an leaving one at the Altar bc he wanted JG who he dated an married an stayed with for many yrs.He's had an does a drinking problem sadly.Maybe it is a stunt or bc both was lonely or maybe this time it is or will be love.I guess time will tell.Idk what exactly JLO did or didn't in relationship with Ben before but him leaving her at the Altar is not love.I want all happy also healthy.I just think Ben was vulnerable after Divorce & he should worked and work on himself.Been an be single til he 100 % better all around.
Funny how he doesn’t look miserable with Jen garner when they were married in any of his pics he’s healthy,laughing and always smiling and seems relaxed … then you see his latest pics and videos with Jen lopez and he looks frustrated, fed up and miserable as f*** so how can these two be soulmates ??? Jlo has non of the beauty that garner has .. Garner is a rose and she shines through and is so humble so grounded and I love she doesn’t need that all year fake 5 layer bronzing tan and makeup and slutty clothing to look young .. even when she wears jeans and sweaters she looks gorgeous!! Her beauty is beyond words and her body is equally gorgeous.. she doesn’t like too much camera attention nor partying and loves her kids and puts them first unlike attention seeker jlo who these days wears the most shortest of clothing pieces you can imagine just so she is noticed .. the older she gets the most revealing her clothing has gotten
@Xzd he is the father of his children, supporting the children and providing a roof over their heads until they reach 18 or finish college. He has to provide for the expenses. Their life styles cost a lot of money. Nowadays man hunt for benefits too, it might be the reason JLo did not marry Alex. It might also be the reason she won’t marry or live with Ben. She has worked very hard for her money. Her second divorce from Chris Judd took her away 15 million,
@@monicamwaura399 those are good news, then he really loved her, always did and does. I feel sorry for Garner, realizing she lived and shared a life, even has three kids with a man who kept dreaming about another person. At the same time, she did well, it was an investment, she is FREE, with half of his fortune, alimony and child support. Still, it’s not great for the ego.
I always thought Jennifer Garner was too classy for Ben. He is a troubled man and she does not need his baggage. They had three beautiful children but now it's over. Ben and Jennifer J. belong together. They both have free spirits and there is nothing wrong with that. I dont think Ben is going to marry again, if he does it won't last. Sorry Jennifer J.
Too classy? She flirted with him while he was engaged to JLo and she was married, please. He helped her career and she gave him three children, a good mother she is, motivated? Yes, married, 3 children, a divorce, obviously did not want to deal with a drunk, she got a home, alimony and pensions for those kids. A lot of money! And freedom…, what else?
@@AZayas23 those were conspiracy theories. Dig deeper even. from Bens mouth himself that he loved beautiful decent JG. A good maternal and wife qualities a man could ask for in a woman he courted her after Jen G divorce her husband, then they dated and she got pregnant but that's not the reason why ben proposed marriage. Your comments is wrong and you didn't even think their children may be able to read your destructive comments. They have three beautiful kids and they were all born out of love, secondly, it is known that Bens mother do not like JL even at the start. That's another reason of the many reasons why Ben affect broke off the engagement. He was also beginning to be more famous plus he was young and needed more time. JG and BA dated two years and a half I guess then she got pregnant and by the way B and JL already separated a long time. You must wake up from your fantasy. Only people who dont care for the sake of children like some commenters here why B married JG. Stop siding immorality and criticizing the good mother that is quite on the side minding her children snd siding the low life and immorality. both are shallow and rub more salt on the wound, including you on social media. there should be some guidelines here because both of their kids are involved here.
@@nitapeck7601 Don’t worry, good parents control what their children watch and read in the internet. If she is a good one they won’t be in social media. I’m not obsessed with any of these characters, they are entertainers, that’s their modus vivendi. Ben Affleck, himself, spoke about Jennifer López and how the media tried to destroy her, even some fanatics, because of racial bias when he was dating her. His mother might be in that group, but now she has to accept the reality, Jennifer proved to be a super star, multi talented and acclaimed and recognized globally. I personally think she should have not taking him back, forgiving is not exonerating. She does not need him. It’s their decision, I wish them well. Regarding my opinion about his ex, I stand by it. I have the right to express my opinion and you have the right to yours. Keep your advise, apply it to yourself.
is your comment for real? I laughed so hard and almost fell of my chair. JG knew he has massive baggage from the get go but trapping him with their 1st child, dragging him for the awful 10 years kid after kids to stop him walking away from their marriage. Both Gwyneth Paltrow and JLo walked away from him because he was not mentally ready for any long term commitment. She created her karma and it come back to bite her. Their 3 kids are only on her agenda not his and on top of that their relationship was not built from love and commitment at least not from him. He said in an interview that he could not imagine he would have that many kids. She is far from classy but desperate. She did herself a big favor of getting more famous for being Ben ex. No sympathy for this desperado
@@janeevans3494 Stop making up lies. If Ben didn't want that many kids they would not have had them. there is BIRTH CONTROL Did you catch the interview how he lauded Garner and stated he could not have picked a better woman to be the mother of his kids, That is how much he respects and trust the mother of his children. There is more to a relationship than romance there is mutual respect, and trust that is why she was called when he needed to go to rehab, He was with Snookus then.He knows his kids won't have to deal with a mother that jumps from man to man like Lopez. does. He puts his kids first as their mother does,
He's already been there-done that with Lopez. She's bounced from one man to the next over the years. I don't see it lasting with Lopez. Jennifer Garner was his rock. I don't blame her for not wanting to deal with his alcoholism. It's emotionally draining.
Garner knew that when she married him 4 months pregnant and continued to have his kids. She needs to take responsibility for her part. Children don’t keep a marriage together. It’s a wonder they lasted as long as they did. The man stated he felt trapped in the marriage because of the kids and was very unhappy and having to divorce was the best thing rather than have the kids grow up in a hostile and dysfunctional household.
I just don't like Garner bc I suspect SHE DID put out the flag for Ben knowing he was with JLo n she just didn't care. She got pregnant in a REAL HURRY too in order to snag ol' Ben! I think she is majorly manipulative and puts on a GREAT innocent/great Mom front. Prob IS a good Mom...but SHE WENT AFTER BEN! Karma Garner! Karma! I think she SADDLED a family on him THEN 'kept him' with GUILT!
Which is why he turned to alcohol. I remember after she had their first child, he didn't even attend the Oscars with her. She went alone. And that was within their first year of marriage. He never loved her.
We are not in the relationship or behind closed doors. No one except ben and jennifer knows what really happened. No one else really needs to know. I wish them both peace.
Addiction is a disease, one can only go through it sorrounded by people who love him. Inner peace is very important to be able to control the addiction. I think belief in a higher power is very important. One has to have faith.
@Jane O'Leary I can tell you are young or you would know or should learn about addictions.So you would know how to deal with someone that has one could be a friend or relative and has one. It is not that simp;e.
@Jane O'Leary LOL! That was not a decision but an observation. Adults know addicts need medical help to be treated like other illnesses. If you were one you would also know., but kids don't
@Jane O'Leary LOL! GROW UP and stop making yourself appear stupid. Ask your parents. If you knew about addictions you would not be making such stupid comments. On social media you can PRETEND to be any age. Concentrate on school because reading your comments show your grammar needs work
You think he should have stayed in a marriage he was miserable in. He said he was unhappy and tried staying for the kids sake. Everybody knows kids don’t make a marriage work.
Hats off to Jennifer Garner. Oh baby I love your way. That is how you teach your children not to hate but to move on. In life sometimes shit happens but you pick up yourself and move on.
Because she wants people to believe she was always the one, and he never got over her. When it was Jlo talking about him every chance she got in interviews being disrespectful because he was married.
JLo isn’t the right pick for him or his kids. She loves the limelight and she doesn’t stick around. I think In the end she’ll bail on this marriage and these kids just like she has all the others. Does she still see/talk to A Rod’s kids? Nope
If Bennifer 1.0 actually got married, it would have ended for the same reasons the Affleck/Garner marriage failed: his alcoholism and womanizing eventually played out. Bennifer 2.0 will end for the same reasons.
Exactly. I love how Team Garner and Team Jlo are attacking the other. The common denominator is Ben. He can't keep it in his pants. Yes Jlo is a diva and high maintenance but Ben cheated on her. Yes Garner is a girl next door, low maintenance type and Ben cheated on her. Gwyneth Paltrow even said that he self sabotaged himself.
Hard too say what goes on in someone's private life, my impression is that Gardner looks like the responsible one in the couple, the one that for the sake of good times tried to hold on to the marriage and protected the children. When no more possible, the split was inevitable. The reunion of Affleck and Lopez is very loud, very public, very glitter, like Lopez likes it, not sure how long Ben can deal with all this loudness 😝😝😝😝😝
correct, almost 53 yrs old and needed more publicity and uptick too on his recent movie, just like their movie with Ana de Armas....just feel sorry for their kids and Jen Garner
Almost looks like JLo, was putting on a show for Arod Rubbing salt, in the wound, sort of thing Clearly, JLo, is running and controlling the Ben relationship...won't last
@@bryncarlson2322 thats Jlo… she does it her way, no one can control her. He will realize it sooner or later, they are both egocentric and won’t give a chance to each other, and then the tabloids will take over as usual.
Ben blew it with his ex wife. Jumping to Lopez may not be a recipe for happiness as Lopez wears out her men in relationships. I think Ben needs to toughen up and be a man. he is weak and is in danger of faltering.
I don't get the appeal of Ben Affleck, but it does seem like he's able to hold his women. Both Jennifer Garner and Lopez seem genuinely smitten by him and unable to move on from loving him.
I love Garner, JLO and Ben. I am a fan of all of them strangely. I think JLO and Ben should be together. They are soulmates. My prayer is for Garner to find love also. May be she has. I will be happier when all three are happy.
A lot of times women gets consumed with the motherhood, it’s a joy and an honor to become a wife and a mother but it comes with big responsibility, and sometimes it’s hard to balance being a wife and a mother and in the midst of that phase if she don’t have a supportive husband often times women end of losing their husbands. In a lot of marriages men becomes impatient and selfish for their needs and not really understand what their wives go through. Having/raising a family takes a team, lots of understanding, compromises and communication. Whether we agree or not major share of responsibilities in raising kids falls on women’s shoulders, it just happens naturally and she needs a strong support from her husband. Jennifer Garner seems to be enjoying being a mother and we see how much she do for her kids and seems like she is doing great raising them, she probably couldn’t pay much attention to her husband’s need as he expected from her and so he probably turned to alcohol and found comfort in a nanny 😀🥴 like most men does 😀.
She had her own professional agenda as an actor. Unfortunately these stars have children and someone else take care of them. Children do not hold a marriage together it’s commitment. On the contrary, children bring more stress. Ben tried to stay in a marriage for his children sake, but I did not work out. When there is not enough love for commitment, marriages fail. They played the happy married couple, but it was hell behind doors. She tried to hold him having kids, it didn’t work out. She couldn’t change him because he did not want to change. It was his decision.His social drinking was alcoholism. Hope the both find happiness somewhere else because that relationship was damaged. The same with Jlo. I don’t understand why she accepted him back. He just needs a woman by his side to play mother. JGarner played his mom’s role until she got tired of it. Jlo should sing him her song: “I’m not your Mama.”
I think they are two wonderful loving caring people who divorced as a last option! Their children will benefit and so will the next partner they have. Coparenting can be done!
I really think it was Bens alcoholism that led to his divorce with 1st wife. Understanding generational family alcoholism is critical My hope is Ben and Jen will overcome the generational addiction cycle.
No one seems to mentioned that he was with Lopez first and Garner likely cheated with him now he’s back to Lopez it’s Karma for Garner- Lopez should never take him back after he left her for Garner!!
JLO is 53 years old. Yet she dresseses like a teenager sometimes almost naked. She is not an ideal wife . She was always a celebrity first and foremost.
I really hope Jennifer Garner finds someone to love her like she deserves to be loved. She's a 💎
Everybody deserves to be respected and love , we have to start with ourselves and others. She paid consequences for flirting with an engaged man and while she was married. Someone from above is always watching!
Before Ben met Jen Garner,Jlo betrayed her newly husband ( who she married just for 3-4 months) and cheated with Ben, so Jlo divorced her husband. Ben always succed cheating and made women diforced their partner/husbands.Ben cheated with nanny, play boy model and Linsay shoukas but finally Shoukas's husband and Garner found out that they're cheating, so shoukas's husband diforced her,and she continue cheated with Ben.. He has plenty mistakes and scandals. This father of three will pay for what he did. Wish his children will not pay for his Sins
@@melissajohn4594 her then husband said he couldn’t take the media pressure, he was fallowed everywhere and she spent too much time away filming, those are the facts.
@@melissajohn4594 another man Jlo also attracted to for cheating A Rod to name a few..didn't now shes dealing with alcoholism Ben's one an alcoholic..
@@AZayas23 So since Ben Affleck contacted Jennifer Lopez in February (he admitted it) while she was still engaged to A Rod will both of them (Ben and J Lo) pay the consequences. Jennifer Garner was not married when she started dating Ben Affleck. She had divorced her husband by then and Ben had already broken up with J Lo.
The struggles between Affleck and Garner: (1) he was cheating on her; (2) he was gambling; and (3) he was drinking. When he says he never thought he would get divorced (and how can he say that with a straight face?) did he think she would just continue to look the other way?
Marriage is for better and for worse! The 3 problems you mentioned did not appear overnight. Those were his traits when Gardner took him from Lopez. Gardner divorced her husband to be with Affleck. See, the grass is not always greener on the other side. She wanted to have cute children. When she was done having them, she kicked him out. She is by no means a victim, folks!
Thank you 👍 for stating the facts . He is an a$$ .
With due respect no marriage is not for better or for worse, that could be a death sentence for someone. Marriage is a partnership on specific basics and if you only see the worse of someone and getting only the worse out of your life then there is no more basis for marriage.
@@korluwolobah-kuyon2903 she did not steal ben from j lo. Jlo was married to someone else also. Stop making j lo an innocent poor victim.
@@user-ms6rm1fc9x I am not making JLO an innocent person, I was only stating a fact that anyone who wants to know the truth can check out: JLO was engaged to Ben Affleck, when Gardner was married to her first husband. Gardner started shamelessly flirting with him. It is on TH-cam. Married Gardner flirting with Ben Affleck. Then she got pregnant to entrap him into marriage. The rest is history.
I think there's no jealousy from Jennifer G because she was already done with him long before they separated. It can wear you down dealing with an alcoholic. If he wasn't the father of her kids she probably left long ago.
He is board with his life does not know what to do alcohol addiction separates beatifull Family he should of been proud having Gardner for his wife and beatifull kids not to cause lot of drama .
@@milicalukac4324 Don't you think it's a little to late for "He should have this or he should have that!!" Don't you think? He is now married to Mrs. Affleck!!! 😅😊❤❤❤
Right, and if she hadn't let herself get pregnant just to take Ben away from being engaged to Jlo, she never would have gotten hurt. 😢🙄🤷♀️
Without Garner he would be dead. He found the right partner for the inevitable struggle of alcholism
that he was going to face. Garner is a solid sweet Spirit. A lot of partners would be left in a dust bowl
broke and broken. This was a good example of healing love and support. Glad Garner is doing well.
She gave and gave to her X. She was like his Sponser.
They both cheated on their partners with each other she was married and he wa switch jlo
But there's still Matt Damon too. You know that Damon is part of his life too, Damon and Garner are the ones that truly support Affleck in fighting his struggles
But matt said he had no idea his alcohol problem was that bad. They simply didn’t hang out every day.
@@lms1190 no
Jennifer Garner is like Angelina Jolie this two woman has empower,sweet loving and carrying to their husbands and kids.
This two women dasurve a happiness and peace of mind.
He married Gardner because she was safe. The girl you take home to your mother. So obviously she was boring. She ended up with a boy in a man's body. He became a project and a woman can only take so much. She needed her energy for her kids.
You are right.
Yup! Garner was a safe rebound.
really? that makes her boring? but they were both so in love for some years. But I need to shut up because Ben is now married again to Jennifer Lopez. Who truly loves him
Not for long!
Boring? Alot of you are weird.
I hope they all get better. Especially Jennifer Garner who stood up for her ex husband and for her children, she's really a tough woman. ❤❤❤
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Yes Jen is tough beautiful, smart witty, decent, educated, well breed, etc..........in short prim and proper ,lady, Jennifer Lopez is weak like Ben Affleck. You can tell the way she carries herself. Almost naked/very revealing outfits. She does loo as her age, no matter how many cosmetic surgeries Dione and make up she puts on......Promiscuous...................................
@@nitapeck7601 if I have a lot of money I will do surgery to become beautiful also . why not ?
@@nitapeck7601 Bla bla bla whatever KAREN
@@nitapeck7601 you are envious and jealous, it’s her body and life, take care of yours.
Ben and Jenn
And their Three children are meant to be together
They are a beautiful couple.
It is truly sad they separated
It was sad but Jennifer Garner deserves happiness. John is stable and makes her happy. Ben is an addict and is always struggling. I always wanted JG and Ben to get back together but I don't anymore.
Jennifer Garner is a real class act!!! Ben lost big time when he tanked that relationship. J Lo wouldn’t have stood by him in times of trouble like Jennifer did.
Jennifer Gardner was married when she was having eyes for Ben, who at the same time was engaged with Jlo.
How do you know, are you a wizard?
@@AZayas23 is public notice. She was married to Scott Follwy divorce him 2004, then date Ben Affleck, who was also engage to Jlo. Married afflwck 2005. Do your research 🧙♀️
@@zg8878 and if Ben Affleck really loved his fiance JLo he would've married her instead of flirting away or moved to Garner!
So you can't say that Garner was the one going for Ben! It should be, *Garner and Ben both had eyes on each other* because they liked each other.
@@AZayas23 yes I’m a wizard of waverly place. How did you know??
I wish both Ben and Jennifer to find true happiness and love in their lives. They both deserve to be happy and find the love of their lives. Ben is no different than any other person struggling with addiction. It is a struggle and he deserves his privacy and respect! Peace and joy to all of them 🥰
All these people who have absolutely everything are missing the one thing they need more than anything else...a relationship with God! No amount of money, privilege, fame and friends can replace Him.
Whoever wants to have relationship with God should keep away from Hollywood.
That’s a big assumption right there.
do you expect people to openly talk about their faith in public? why should people do that? things like this should be private
@@norahsmith2303 Our FAITH/TRUST in The Creator must be shared with others. It is NOT A SECRET! It is a PRIVILEDGE and a GOOD THING.
(Mark 8:38) "Whosoever, therefore, shall be ashamed of Me and of My words in this adulterous and sinful generation, of him also shall the Son of Man be ashamed when He cometh in the glory of His Father YAHUWAH with the holy angels." HalleluYAH!!!
October 3, 2021
Could God meet their human needs or he places people in their lives to do so?
Jennifer Garner to me is a natural beauty. JLo to me is very high maintenance. I think it won't last he has addiction problems.
Agreed. I think Ben & J Lo are twin flames. They have a chemistry for sure. But I don't think they compliment each other for the long run. He will eventually find his true love. But not sure if it's either of the Jens. I wish them all happiness though.
I agree completely. I think Ben and JLo have that hot chemistry but that burns out. JLo is very public and Ben likes his privacy. JLo has to publicize her romances and intimate moments. I mean she had her engagement to A-rod videotaped so she could share it on her Instagram. Some moments are meant to be private and not for public consumption. She’s done same thing with Ben and their new romance
I think JLo is getting too old she have to settle down I think this is her last chance
I agree
@@marybreen2900 How very Karen of you. What does they “complement” each other even mean? Is that a reference to he and Gardner not being a mixed race couple?
Ben Affleck seems to have NO SELF control regarding relationships. I was a nurse for 34 yrs while married. Should I have responded to all the offers men at work made?!?
Oh gosh, you’re NOT Ben Affleck
It seems you responded to some, according to your statement.
I hope Jennifer Garner finds her match. She is so lovely.
She deserves better
No one will be as tolerant as Jennifer Garner; she’s more “right” for him than anyone else will ever be, because of his alcohol and gambling addictions. Jennifer Lopez? Forget it. Her ego is enormous.
If she had to kick him out, let her do it and enjoy it, next….
She'll have to put him before her children.
Bennifer won't last long, JLo just likes changing men..
@Lindsey Bailes Although I think JLO is a bit of a diva - you could be right - she probably will make him accountable.
You mean Jennifer will put up with abuse, in other words.
Its terrible how Ben humiliated Jennifer on the Howard Stern show after she been there for him he should be ashamed of himself for doing that to the mother of his children he needs to take responsibility for his own actions ❤
Alcohol is the enemy....
I think Ben needs Jennifer Garner to lean on and to tell his troubles to. I think J lo just wants to see how many men will fall for her. She wanrs them for a while then she wants to move on. I think he is still in love with Jennifer and he just wont admit it to himself or anyone. J lo needs to give him some space to see what he really wants. She knows she is sexy and pretty and thats what men are attracted to. But men usually want someone who is understanding sweet and loyal from a wife. This is just my opinion now.
Disgusting afleck
It is my belief everything happens for a reason. They were meant to be together for the time they were together and to create the three beautiful kids they have.
He belongs with JLo
I guess but those beautiful good children and the wife any good and intelligent man wish to have,....
@@michelebonifanti3296 yes I believe they are soulmates 🥰
Garner trapped him. She knew what she was doing,
@@nitapeck7601 Marr Damon didn't like Garne; said Ben would often stay at Matt's because of the bickering, etc. She drove him away.
Women usually would endure everything to keep their marriage, except if there are other women involved.
You mean that nanny?
But there was also drinking and gambling. That’s hard too.
And a solid marriage no body gets in Ben job came to her life to made the 3 beautiful children’s now she has
Yes when woman is involved it becomes different even if it isn’t a serious one.Infidelity sticks in the heart.
Well if they are well and tough for other women but sick for you, let other woman take care of him.
His addiction follows him in every relationship he is in.
RIGHT!!!!! SO WHAT YOU THINK JLO GOING BE. DONT TELL ME IS LOVE!!!! SHE USE HIM FOR RATINGS AND HIM JUST HAVE FUN. HE HAVE BETTER WOMAN AND KIDS. THE REPUTATION OF WOMAN IS SO IMPORTANT AND BACK GROUND, SAY TOO MUCH!!!. ME LIKE A MAN IF I HAVE THE OPORTUNITY I CANT GO.😇🥰🤑🤪🤯😳
I RUN TO THE OTHER WAY!!!!!🤔🥴🙈
All IS NOT,...IS NOOOOT PREATTY FACE AND BEAUTIFUL BODYS. YOU HAVE TO BE RESPECTABLE WITH YOUR SELF AND OTHERS .THE MONEY DONT BUY REPUTATION. YOU HAVE TO BE HUMAN BEING. NO POPPET.
Yup
@@nikitasoto6482 yup
Jennifer Garner took the role of rescuer. A role that usually leads to resentment and frustration. Jlo is no rescuer. She will end the relationship if he doesn't serve her needs.
Jennifer Garner was the rebound chick
Good for her, she is not his mama or clinician.
So far, to me, it looks like Jlo is doing a pretty good job of taking care of her husband, Ben. ❤❤❤🤗🫠😇😇💝❤️🔥❤️🔥💞👍👍👏
Affleck and Lopez won’t last! They love the idea of the nostalgia of who they were at that time. Not who they are now.
That's the same thing I'm thinking. They're on a nostalgia high now, but JLo will eventually realize she's gonna have to deal with Ben's alcoholism. It will end the same way that the Affleck/Garner marriage did: his alcoholism and womanizing will eventually play out.
It’s who she is…always will be…has been, it’s about staying relevant as Hollywood throws woman away as they age …just the facts!
Yep! Specially that he is an alcoholic. That’s not easy to deal with. She should’ve stayed her behind with Alex, but she think she’s too good.
@@REI-20244 ...The thing is that she's almost the same. She changes men like changing underwear..🙄🙄🙄🙄
It’s kinda like my brother use to tell me “they r a EX. for a reason “
I guess they weren't right for each other, in the end. Still, they seem to have a wonderful family dynamic. Good for them!
Hello 👏
Great looking couple
@@Prieze868 how are you doing
Alcoholic men do not make good husbands or boyfriends.
We totally agree, just because things don't work out doesn't mean that they still can't have a beautiful family together.
I don't think Ben and J-LO are going to last long because this is rebound love. Enjoy the ride while it last J-LO
Do you know ANYTHING about them? And they're history? 😒
If this is what he's struggled with probably. He was sooo "in love" with gardner then look what happened..he already left jlo before bc media attention? Well it probably will happen again. Jennifer Gardner seems to be more well grounded than jlo. But I guess time will tell and we will see.
Name one thing that lasts.
Look, you were right! And no, I am not from these people, who enjoys this...Wanted them to make it😊
Maybe they aren’t the “ Couple” material they wanted; however, they were there for each other when they were in need of having someone in their lives to fill “ a void” and help each other grow. I think it’s good that they learned how to part ways and remain friends especially for their children.
@Emma Love...you are so right. It's wonderful that they can co-parent so well. Hated to see them break up though. Love your name!
@@gwen08g Thank you. The name has a story to tell also. ( Emma means “ Universal one... turn ; Love means God is Love and Love is God; ... for God so Loved the World that He gave His Only begotten son to be a propitiation for Our sins.” After I had accepted Jesus Christ into my heart and life, I was Baptized in Him and We became ONE , like a marriage. The wedding will happen later.) ✨
@@emmalove135 Thank you for replying! That is beautiful. I'm so happy you accepted Jesus Christ into your heart Emma. He is our Savior! Love & Blessings to you Emma!♡♡
Ben STATED he could never win with Jen G, and I believe him.
@@jlmurray9988 ; I am a little puzzled 😕. I don’t understand exactly what he may have meant by that statement “ he could never win with Jen G. “ To me that could mean something in relation to his career and receiving an award regarding his acting, or a Personal issue which may involve his relationship with his ( then) wife. Either way, that’s the path in Life that he chose to walk upon and those are the issues or areas that he had to work on/ out... his “ Success “ depended on how he decided what would be the best method/ solution/ resolution for him, his wife and children. ( It’s o.k. that you believe what he said . I am not responding to change your statement; just saying that perhaps there might be more here than meets the eye and should have a little more consideration before making a final judgment.) ✨
Jennifer Garner and her kids deserve to have a grown mature stable man in they're lives, she doesn't want Ben back, she's been his caretaker for too long now.
When she left get husband and Boyfriend Vartan for him she knew exactly what she was getting herself into.She preferred the Hollywood glamor to a peaceful happy family.No sympathy
@@monicamwaura399 Well if Garner knew Lopez also knows so why is she so desperate to get him back? Ben is more toxic than before
BEN CAN CHANGE HE LOVE HER FAMILY AND HER WIFE IS BETTER WOMAN. HOW JENNIFER LOPEZ IS SO IMMATURE.? BECAUSE HE IS HANDSOME??? LEF HIM ALONE HE LOOK FOR HELP IN HER PROBLEMS. SHE JUST LOOK FOR RAITNG, CANT DO A LONG.? SHE DONT KNOW THATS GOING BE OTHER MISSTAKE???? DONT STILL DOING THE SAME JENN L.THINK IN YOUR KIDS.
@@nikitasoto6482If you think his ex wife is a better woman you can have her.Ben isn't interested.Seems you know her well better than him.He had six years n more to do that but he clearly didn't want
@@monicamwaura399 He wanted Garner he just thought she would always be there. He thought he could have the best of both worlds. And if he wanted Jlo it wouldn't had taken this long to reunite. Men don't stay with a woman as long as he did with Garner. I'm sure she had enough and decided to divorce him and find happiness. He's only with Jlo because he knew she never stopped loving him, she was constantly talking about him even during his marriage. Seems like Jlo and Ben are trying to piss off their exes.
I dont know about his dates but Ben will always be a depressed and mindless batman for me.
I used to like to watch his movies...not anymore.....Lopez is not a well known recording artist or entertainer...shes more like a night club singer....not a fan as well but tks anyway....
@@shirleycameron7718 yeah...I've heard from many sources, that Jennifer Lopez is such a diva. Also that she isn't nice to her assistants. She's pretty, but that just ruined my opinion of her. And Jennifer Garner is so sweet, even to the paparazzi!
@@shirleycameron7718 How very Karen of you.
@@shirleycameron7718 JLO is the good personne Please don't insult people like this. Because it means that you don't bred from a good family.
@@shirleycameron7718 you are so jealous, it’s oozing everywhere! Please chill..
Jennifer G. is really an awesome wife and mother.
Honestly, I doubt his new found love today will ever prosper for long.
Jennifer Garner is a class act.
So sad 😞 Jennifer garner she’s so beautiful very kind lady
I hope Garnier gets a good man to love her. She seems amazing
I wish them all the best for the sake of their children. I think Garner left him because he sucked the joy out of their relationship. He's a moody type, that's obvious. And you know: Girls just wanna have fun.
Yes and I think he was deffo playing away he seems that type a selfish drunkard
Women usually would endure everything to keep their marriage, except if there are other women involved.
@@glamsky3257 do you mean the nanny?
@@rubiadebote8383 maybe, rumors tell us that Affleck always wandering his eyes [everywhere] 🙄
@@parislamere3495 he is addicted to alcohol, gambling, he smokes, and as you can see now of his lifestyle is totally in the open. Some ion his free ends are enabler instead of proper guidance. Ben was in a better position with garner. They were famous/power couple before until....
It's sad it ended because of there three children!! So sad! But they are both still awesome people! Also good parents!!!
Jennifer Garner is such a blessing in ben's life, despite their split, she is still a blessing. Ben could not make any better choice to choose garner to be his wife and mother of his three children. ben getting back to Lopez will only them way more famous, scrutinizing by paps, media, etc. Paps will not let et them in peace. I'll give them a year and a half, before ben moved on.
They are using each other. It is not all about love it is all about publicity.
That's what you want, isn't it?
Garner is a home wrecker ...
@@rejoiceinhisname4193 Couldn't agree more. She's not decent either.
@@rejoiceinhisname4193 both are already famous and have big projects they dont need publicity
WHAT HAPPEN IN THEIR MARRIAGE IS NONE OF OUR BUSINESS......SMH
So. What happened on this earth is non of our business too?
@@LanNguyen-mg3wb that's true🤣🤣🤣🤣
True, because we've a "Boring Life" and get caught up in people's lives that really shouldn't concern us.
Ben was not happy with Jennifer Garner at the end. He realized his true love was Jlo and started drinking to cope with his feelings. He is a good father and didn't want to hurt his children with a divorce. I'm happy for him that finally he can be free and happy.
She was very supportive and deserves to be happy. Their marriage did not succeeded, no matter the therapy and effort. They did the right thing, which was divorce. Good Ben and Lopez share moments with both family’s kids. No need to make them suffer from split relationships. It is such a headache to live under the spot and gossips.
He needs to get it together,can't see him getting back with J lo.lets see how long it will be for her to dump Ben and see who else she will be with.
1.5 yrs
🤮
Agree
Rather, when will he dump her
@@lisayoung4810 like the first time. Maybe when he spots other girl he likes more
I think he was bored by her. She’s a sweetheart but vanilla and I just don’t think there was a strong enough connection between them. I think she was the one who loved more.
This!
Ben admited that that Jlo is more affectionate than Garner
@@Yana26664 When did he admit that? Source please.
@Sakura Uzumaki Agree. I watched an interview where he said that was his biggest regret
@Sakura Uzumaki he said his biggest regret cuz he didnt want to be a divorced father, for his kids. He has always been in love with Jlo
I liked him with Garner but it’s whatever makes him happy
Jennifer Garner she is much better character and personality than Jennifer Lopez
I think the problem is rushing into sex and then into marriage. They become intimate before they know each other well and then regret being so close together. The old fashion, or old school way of no sex before marriage will give them better chances to establish a real and not a fake connection.
Hmmmm (agrees)
IMO - when someone is an alcoholic and or drug addict it can make a good marriage very difficult.
Part of his attraction to her was that she was already married. She's empathic and nurturing. Ben has some narcissistic traits developed in his childhood. Hopefully he's healed and learned enough to be more successful in his new/continued relationship with JLo.
a nobady gonna tell him what he is gonna a do ugly nobody mind your bussines
Honestly I think he married Jennifer G. cause she got pregnant...he always said he wanted to be a present father since his father wasn't around. And he said his divorce was his biggest regret because of his kids...not specifically saying for J.G. I think he is Jlo's true love and visa versa. I like J.G. but I just don't think they were ever meant for each other. I hope J.G. finds the person to love her the way she deserves! All my opinion.
It not so simple to get a woman pregnant if you use a condom, and if you don’t it means that you subconsciously want to have children with her (in their age and status they surely knew how it works). And then he had another two kids with her. I don’t think it was that simple.
His wife is much more beautiful than Jennifer Lopez.
@@sanatombirajkumari3813 and you're entitled to your opinion.
@Анна Сергеева Never said it was that simple. And you do know some people get married because they got pregnant, some marry to have kids and some couples stay married because of the kids? And you do know condoms don't always work and she also could have been on BC or maybe not? We don't know. Also wearing a condom or not wearing a condom and getting someone pregnant doesn't mean that person subconsciously wanted a child. Sometimes sh*t happens. Come on now!
I don't think j.g want her children to born in that situation if she wasn't sure that he can be a good father or both are capable of holding a long term relationship but when time passes person change that's what happened here
Hearing all this breaks my heart. Being the best dad would be trying to put your family back together.
You can’t force someone to continue loving you.
What for, be unhappy? Children will eventually leave, love ended. She had enough, I do believe the help she gave him was an act of love for their children. As a woman, wife, mother, she did the right thing, she did not have to take humiliations from him. He should have respected her.
Better to divorce than continue cheating ….
He doesn't love her.
I lived with someone for 24 years, that basically reminded me of him , egotistical selfcenter individual, after while it gets old ,miss garner did the right thing, get rid of him, it's not a healthy environment for your children to grow up in and first of all for. You either,,,I always had a bad poor choices of men ,and I finally realized don't waste your time with bad grass ,bad grass never dies .lol god bless MISS G ,you will be all right, I will keep you in prayers, your wonder man it's coming ,,,,,
Yea me too. Some men struggle with sex addiction too?… idk I’m no expert. But I wish happiness to each of them as individuals. Hollywood adds a complexity to any relationship that can be the sun or the shadow as JG said Ben could be.
Glad Jen is. Seeing her boyfriend. She needs to take care of herself and get the joy back. She is a gud woman.
She played her number very well, she is doing just fine. She is free, had his best years. Has alimony, pension, etc. Jlo is getting left overs. I wouldn’t have taken him back. She is beautiful and talented, why would she take back a drunk?
Projecting much? You don't know them! Reading in a magazine about someone does not equal knowing them!
@@AZayas23 she’s his cure
The thing that will kill this relationship is if Ben has a relapse, Can Lopez handle it like Garner did? All that PDA doen not mean anything once Ben relapses than reality sets in.
Why Ben has to relapse? Be positive and expect that he can heal and live a happy life.
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Wishful thinking.
@@jenniferhernandez9016 Just shows how young you are, If you knew anything about any type of addiction there is no cure but a lifelong struggle,He has relapsed twice in 3 years and even stated it can happen again. That is why I hope he is in a program and that will help him that is my wish for him. Learn other things besides gossip it will help you in the future
@@bettyjones5994 but now Ben is with the woman he really loves and that is a plus for sure because that going to bring him a lot of happines to his life...At your age you should know that you can't talk before things actually happen, and less if you only wish negative things, that doesn't help that's only puts pressure to a person that is trying to recovery...A lot of people with alcoholis problems are able to live a healthy life without relapse, Ben can make it too.
@@jenniferhernandez9016 Ben said he could relapse.That is one thing about being young and immature you don't know how to deal with reality and see things as they are not what you wish it was. If they are not in a program they will relapse. Maybe if you read up on it you will learn more it.
What's the use of having regrets? If he loves his family, why did he not try harder? It seemed divorce outweighed the love for a family. Does Ben think running back to J Lo will solve his demons? Jennifer Garner deserves better.
he loves his kids not garner he never loved her you obsessed clown
I actually like Ben & Jennifer Garner Together I Am A Fan Of Them Both Still Till This Day Although Their No Longer Together They Will Always Be My Favorite Couple In Hollywood History Besides Their Chemistry Is Undeniable Well In My Opinion I Am Wishing Them Both The Best In Life Forever I Will Leave It At That
Jennifer Garner is to me the most greatest person a true human that knows the right way ! I was sad and hoped Ben and she would one day be back. As for Jennifer Lopez and Ben. I was not sure what it would become, because they seemed so different. Ben a family and causal down to earth and Lopez was all about getting out in public. Well she is a icon. I am know happy for Ben and Lopez. I hope they make family life the top priority and acting and other fame the secondary.....Good going and keep a low profile, so home will make your marriage work !!! Praying for you !
Yes!! I'm praying for them also!!! 🙏 ❤
I don’t think he was truly over JLo when he got with Jen G, married because she was pregnant and a lovely person. Luckily, she helped him recover from his addiction and they have beautiful children but they are better as friends. She deserves to be with someone who really loves her, he is happier with JLo. If they can all get along this will be the best outcome for everyone, especially their children.
Deep comment.
I think Garner set her sights and WENT AFTER Ben! JLo or not! Garner got preg WAY EARLY ON...I think she's Terribly manipulative. Prob IS a good Mom but I think she had those kids to try to KEEP Ben! JMO.
Ben said before cameras that his alcoholism developed because he had marital problems and they got really bad. We don’t know what happens behind doors. They played a good marriage, both good actors.
@@helenpierce-lamoureux3124 that’s right
@@helenpierce-lamoureux3124 It takes two to make a child. If Ben didn't want kids it wouldn't have happened. He fell in love with Garner what's so hard to believe. Her and Jlo are so different. Garner seems more his type she seems more lay back. Jlo lives for the cameras and lavish lifestyle. Ben will get tired once again with Jlo. People need to remind themselves that Ben dumped and cheated on Jlo as Jlo did to Chris Judd.
Wishing them the best ... loved them together back then nd super hype BENNIFER is back PARA SIEMPRE this time 🙏❣️
I am sure Ben loved Garner but I believe JLO was who he truly loved. Glad Garner is with her ex Miller.
I have always felt that Garner and Affleck belong to each other regardless of their current situations, plus they share three kids together.
Now they are sharing 5 kids between them. 😅😊❤
Been there done that. 15 years with the wrong guy. Some people bring out the worst in eachother. Hope she finds happiness with John M.
Right 9 here with the wrong one for me I get that
I think they've always been better as friends...and as difficult as divorce can be on children, it's a huge relief that these two can maintain a friendship for the sake of their children. But I think the J-Lo thing won't last. She's rebounding. Her relationships never last.
Well said and so true
If you knew their history you would know that JLo has always loved Ben. He's always been the love of her life. So of course after him, she really couldn't find someone else. Same with him.
@@Jalil-wx7rh Well said
JLO is a Narcissist, Ben has an alcohol problem and some trauma that he needs to resolve. He didn’t need this romance with JLO she is going to drive him nuts and he is going to end up in rehab again.
@@Jalil-wx7rh Absolutely not true, Narcissists can’t love anyone but themselves. ARod was a fantastic guy abs she did him dirty right after they engaged and started dating Ben a week after they broke up.
I love their relationship after divorce and how they're co-parenting...
To all of the viewers and commenters of this video: Ben Affleck's relationship history is important but right now there's a crisis in Kabul and you're attention is needed for those videos. Let's get with it people, c'mon man!
I wonder how does JLO, Ben and JG feel about Biden right now since they all voted for him
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I agree although I pay no mind to Hollywood no longer much less divorcees x4 with Jlo and an alcoholic. Current admin is corrupt as hell. These Hollywood persons are nothing to many. In the meantime keep that revolving door going Jlo and good luck with your next venture I'm sure there's many more to come. Prayers to our fallen men and those left in Kabul along with the American citizens. 🇺🇲🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤😓
@@violetgurl80s60 Biden has nothing to do with their intimate life....
There are PLETNTY of videos on that subject on YT so why bring it here? Sometimes you need an escqpe from all the negatovity and dive into some celeb gossip.
I like Jennifer Garnier. She is a good person and a good actor. She deserves love unconditionnally. She couldn't have done it alone to safe their marriage if Ben was busy drinking. Well they have beautiful children together and they will always be linked for life. I wish them happiness.
Their kids are spitting images of both! Good job haha!
Who else?
Isn't the resemblance uncanny?
of course, but let's pray their children will not follow Ben and jlo's footsteps. For Jen Garner, she is always there for her children, but I don't know about jlo's
I think they look like their mother
This is so sad. Its a lifelong commitment and anyone who dates him need to know the risks
It's sad Garner dragged signing the divorce papers for 3 years. You cannot fake True Love. Destiny is real even if it takes two decades. God bless the children.
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i think they maybe want so badly to be perfect parents, perfect love story, perfect family...maybe is not meant to be? him and Jlo are better match i think, Jlo, sh's love him inconditionnel with is imperfection and issues and JG in love with perfect marriage, perfect family like ''Charles Ingles'' ''little house on the prairie? that's what i think.Sh's good mom, strong woman and now sh's with her boyfriend NYC...and news said sh's so happy and her ex happy with Jlo.
@@jigiw I bet JLo was brought up many times in their marriage. Especially afterwards. Some say he even wanted to cast her in his Live By Night movie, but Garner wouldn't allow that. That 3 years was a drag on.
@@Jalil-wx7rh Did Ben tell you this. He was to busy cheating to think about JLo'
Jennifer garner is too good for him.
Maybe Jen G should have tried to save her first marriage. Foley is definitely more stable but let’s face it.. it’s Ben Affleck!!
Absolutely, I don’t understand what she saw in this unstable Ben Affleck, the fact that he wanted to marry JLO should’ve been a red flag for her. Her first husband is quite decent, she would have less drama or no drama at all.
@@vkrgfan He didn't want to marry JLO,he left her at the Altar.
@@michelesmith4775 Well, apparently they are back together, not sure if it's another publicity stunt.
@@vkrgfan I mean idk now with them however I know before that's not what love is not looks like is breaking Engagement an leaving one at the Altar bc he wanted JG who he dated an married an stayed with for many yrs.He's had an does a drinking problem sadly.Maybe it is a stunt or bc both was lonely or maybe this time it is or will be love.I guess time will tell.Idk what exactly JLO did or didn't in relationship with Ben before but him leaving her at the Altar is not love.I want all happy also healthy.I just think Ben was vulnerable after Divorce & he should worked and work on himself.Been an be single til he 100 % better all around.
HE IS THE LOVE OF HER LIFE. TREAT HER GREAT BEN, SHE DESERVES IT.
Unfinished business JLo & Ben ~ The only happy ever after is though Christ Jesus.
Jennifer Garner is such a nice person, respectful and she so cute. 😊😚😍
Yea Ben Affleck can return with JLO, or whatever, she likes that..
Funny how he doesn’t look miserable with Jen garner when they were married in any of his pics he’s healthy,laughing and always smiling and seems relaxed … then you see his latest pics and videos with Jen lopez and he looks frustrated, fed up and miserable as f*** so how can these two be soulmates ??? Jlo has non of the beauty that garner has .. Garner is a rose and she shines through and is so humble so grounded and I love she doesn’t need that all year fake 5 layer bronzing tan and makeup and slutty clothing to look young .. even when she wears jeans and sweaters she looks gorgeous!! Her beauty is beyond words and her body is equally gorgeous.. she doesn’t like too much camera attention nor partying and loves her kids and puts them first unlike attention seeker jlo who these days wears the most shortest of clothing pieces you can imagine just so she is noticed .. the older she gets the most revealing her clothing has gotten
Ben sure loves anyone named Jennifer. 😹
When things going south Jennifer Garnier is always there for him
She has to do it for their children, once they reach adulthood and go to college we will see……
@Xzd he is the father of his children, supporting the children and providing a roof over their heads until they reach 18 or finish college. He has to provide for the expenses. Their life styles cost a lot of money. Nowadays man hunt for benefits too, it might be the reason JLo did not marry Alex. It might also be the reason she won’t marry or live with Ben. She has worked very hard for her money. Her second divorce from Chris Judd took her away 15 million,
@@AZayas23 Had she not cheated on Chris and left him for Ben I'm sure it wouldn't have costed her. She made that decision.
@@AZayas23 Have you no clue Ben paid Chris 15m for him to accept to sign the divorce papers?It wasn't Jlo that did paid it.
@@monicamwaura399 those are good news, then he really loved her, always did and does. I feel sorry for Garner, realizing she lived and shared a life, even has three kids with a man who kept dreaming about another person. At the same time, she did well, it was an investment, she is FREE, with half of his fortune, alimony and child support. Still, it’s not great for the ego.
I always thought Jennifer Garner was too classy for Ben. He is a troubled man and she does not need his baggage. They had three beautiful children but now it's over. Ben and Jennifer J. belong together. They both have free spirits and there is nothing wrong with that. I dont think Ben is going to marry again, if he does it won't last. Sorry Jennifer J.
Too classy? She flirted with him while he was engaged to JLo and she was married, please. He helped her career and she gave him three children, a good mother she is, motivated? Yes, married, 3 children, a divorce, obviously did not want to deal with a drunk, she got a home, alimony and pensions for those kids. A lot of money! And freedom…, what else?
@@AZayas23 those were conspiracy theories. Dig deeper even. from Bens mouth himself that he loved beautiful decent JG. A good maternal and wife qualities a man could ask for in a woman he courted her after Jen G divorce her husband, then they dated and she got pregnant but that's not the reason why ben proposed marriage. Your comments is wrong and you didn't even think their children may be able to read your destructive comments. They have three beautiful kids and they were all born out of love, secondly, it is known that Bens mother do not like JL even at the start. That's another reason of the many reasons why Ben affect broke off the engagement. He was also beginning to be more famous plus he was young and needed more time. JG and BA dated two years and a half I guess then she got pregnant and by the way B and JL already separated a long time. You must wake up from your fantasy. Only people who dont care for the sake of children like some commenters here why B married JG. Stop siding immorality and criticizing the good mother that is quite on the side minding her children snd siding the low life and immorality. both are shallow and rub more salt on the wound, including you on social media. there should be some guidelines here because both of their kids are involved here.
@@nitapeck7601 Don’t worry, good parents control what their children watch and read in the internet. If she is a good one they won’t be in social media. I’m not obsessed with any of these characters, they are entertainers, that’s their modus vivendi. Ben Affleck, himself, spoke about Jennifer López and how the media tried to destroy her, even some fanatics, because of racial bias when he was dating her. His mother might be in that group, but now she has to accept the reality, Jennifer proved to be a super star, multi talented and acclaimed and recognized globally. I personally think she should have not taking him back, forgiving is not exonerating. She does not need him. It’s their decision, I wish them well. Regarding my opinion about his ex, I stand by it. I have the right to express my opinion and you have the right to yours. Keep your advise, apply it to yourself.
is your comment for real? I laughed so hard and almost fell of my chair. JG knew he has massive baggage from the get go but trapping him with their 1st child, dragging him for the awful 10 years kid after kids to stop him walking away from their marriage. Both Gwyneth Paltrow and JLo walked away from him because he was not mentally ready for any long term commitment. She created her karma and it come back to bite her. Their 3 kids are only on her agenda not his and on top of that their relationship was not built from love and commitment at least not from him. He said in an interview that he could not imagine he would have that many kids. She is far from classy but desperate. She did herself a big favor of getting more famous for being Ben ex. No sympathy for this desperado
@@janeevans3494 Stop making up lies. If Ben didn't want that many kids they would not have had them. there is BIRTH CONTROL Did you catch the interview how he lauded Garner and stated he could not have picked a better woman to be the mother of his kids, That is how much he respects and trust the mother of his children. There is more to a relationship than romance there is mutual respect, and trust that is why she was called when he needed to go to rehab, He was with Snookus then.He knows his kids won't have to deal with a mother that jumps from man to man like Lopez. does. He puts his kids first as their mother does,
He's already been there-done that with Lopez. She's bounced from one man to the next over the years. I don't see it lasting with Lopez. Jennifer Garner was his rock. I don't blame her for not wanting to deal with his alcoholism. It's emotionally draining.
Garner knew that when she married him 4 months pregnant and continued to have his kids. She needs to take responsibility for her part. Children don’t keep a marriage together. It’s a wonder they lasted as long as they did. The man stated he felt trapped in the marriage because of the kids and was very unhappy and having to divorce was the best thing rather than have the kids grow up in a hostile and dysfunctional household.
@@paulaburnside1135 Lol wow...I bet you've never made a mistake in your life.
I just don't like Garner bc I suspect SHE DID put out the flag for Ben knowing he was with JLo n she just didn't care. She got pregnant in a REAL HURRY too in order to snag ol' Ben! I think she is majorly manipulative and puts on a GREAT innocent/great Mom front. Prob IS a good Mom...but SHE WENT AFTER BEN! Karma Garner! Karma! I think she SADDLED a family on him THEN 'kept him' with GUILT!
SHE MANIPULATED THE WHOLE THING AND SHE WAS A VICTIM OF BAD MARRIAGE
I think so too
And that is the real trueth people don't want to see.....
Which is why he turned to alcohol. I remember after she had their first child, he didn't even attend the Oscars with her. She went alone. And that was within their first year of marriage. He never loved her.
We are not in the relationship or behind closed doors. No one except ben and jennifer knows what really happened. No one else really needs to know. I wish them both peace.
That is what’s really important. I don’t idolize people.
In my opinion only......He always looks depressed, no matter which woman he is with.
it's because he never had self control. He said he would have sex,drink,gambling and other things to made he feel better.
Facts
It will not last with J Lo either. Her history and his it is doomed.
I wish they would have stayed married♥️
No, she deserved better.
Seria maravilhoso se ele tivesse compreendido a mulher especial que estava ao lado dele, Garner. Infelizmente, estava cego !!!!
Addiction is a disease, one can only go through it sorrounded by people who love him. Inner peace is very important to be able to control the addiction. I think belief in a higher power is very important.
One has to have faith.
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@Jane O'Leary The difference is there in no medication or cure for alcoholism. people die from the affects of that disease as they do others
@Jane O'Leary I can tell you are young or you would know or should learn about addictions.So you would know how to deal with someone that has one could be a friend or relative and has one. It is not that simp;e.
@Jane O'Leary LOL! That was not a decision but an observation. Adults know addicts need medical help to be treated like other illnesses. If you were one you would also know., but kids don't
@Jane O'Leary LOL! GROW UP and stop making yourself appear stupid. Ask your parents. If you knew about addictions you would not be making such stupid comments. On social media you can PRETEND to be any age. Concentrate on school because reading your comments show your grammar needs work
I think Ben Affleck didn't have a good decision about their marriage
Who cares, it’s his life and choice. He is a good actor.
You think he should have stayed in a marriage he was miserable in. He said he was unhappy and tried staying for the kids sake. Everybody knows kids don’t make a marriage work.
Exactly how many people do you have to go through to find love. Hopefully, Ben and JLo find it because surely those two are worn out.
But then again, aren't we all worn-out? 😅
Hats off to Jennifer Garner. Oh baby I love your way. That is how you teach your children not to hate but to move on. In life sometimes shit happens but you pick up yourself and move on.
Why Jennifer Lopez took this man back I'll never know.
Pea hahahahaha hahahahaha hahahahaha
Because she wants people to believe she was always the one, and he never got over her. When it was Jlo talking about him every chance she got in interviews being disrespectful because he was married.
She’s a tough cookie. Love her.
JLo isn’t the right pick for him or his kids. She loves the limelight and she doesn’t stick around. I think In the end she’ll bail on this marriage and these kids just like she has all the others. Does she still see/talk to A Rod’s kids? Nope
He's a selfish, a cheater , an alcoholism, a gambling
and a liar . So pity for his children.
Jennifer Garner is a Good Person. Ben never ever Deserved Jennifer. She is too Good for him 🙄😖
If Bennifer 1.0 actually got married, it would have ended for the same reasons the Affleck/Garner marriage failed: his alcoholism and womanizing eventually played out. Bennifer 2.0 will end for the same reasons.
Exactly. I love how Team Garner and Team Jlo are attacking the other. The common denominator is Ben. He can't keep it in his pants.
Yes Jlo is a diva and high maintenance but Ben cheated on her. Yes Garner is a girl next door, low maintenance type and Ben cheated on her. Gwyneth Paltrow even said that he self sabotaged himself.
Ben chose the right woman to have children with.
Hard too say what goes on in someone's private life, my impression is that Gardner looks like the responsible one in the couple, the one that for the sake of good times tried to hold on to the marriage and protected the children. When no more possible, the split was inevitable. The reunion of Affleck and Lopez is very loud, very public, very glitter, like Lopez likes it, not sure how long Ben can deal with all this loudness 😝😝😝😝😝
correct, almost 53 yrs old and needed more publicity and uptick too on his recent movie, just like their movie with Ana de Armas....just feel sorry for their kids and Jen Garner
True..almost looks like they putting on a show!
Almost looks like JLo, was putting on a show for Arod
Rubbing salt, in the wound, sort of thing
Clearly, JLo, is running and controlling the Ben relationship...won't last
@@bryncarlson2322 thats Jlo… she does it her way, no one can control her. He will realize it sooner or later, they are both egocentric and won’t give a chance to each other, and then the tabloids will take over as usual.
Ben blew it with his ex wife. Jumping to Lopez may not be a recipe for happiness as Lopez wears out her men in relationships. I think Ben needs to toughen up and be a man. he is weak and is in danger of faltering.
May they find peace in their lives and be an example to their kids.
I don't get the appeal of Ben Affleck, but it does seem like he's able to hold his women. Both Jennifer Garner and Lopez seem genuinely smitten by him and unable to move on from loving him.
I love Garner, JLO and Ben. I am a fan of all of them strangely.
I think JLO and Ben should be together. They are soulmates.
My prayer is for Garner to find love also. May be she has. I will be happier when all three are happy.
You said it! We couldn't agree with you more!
@@RumourJuice thanks.
Best comment Eve. ❤️
Answer: men get bored no matter how beautiful the woman is.
Maybe so but only shallow men act on it.
Big difference with Ben now he looks soooooo happy with jlo together ❤ I think 🤔 he miss to feel in love with jlo
Ben left his wife with 3 kids to womanize women, and now J. Lo. What a guy. Runs from his responsibilities.
A lot of times women gets consumed with the motherhood, it’s a joy and an honor to become a wife and a mother but it comes with big responsibility, and sometimes it’s hard to balance being a wife and a mother and in the midst of that phase if she don’t have a supportive husband often times women end of losing their husbands. In a lot of marriages men becomes impatient and selfish for their needs and not really understand what their wives go through. Having/raising a family takes a team, lots of understanding, compromises and communication. Whether we agree or not major share of responsibilities in raising kids falls on women’s shoulders, it just happens naturally and she needs a strong support from her husband. Jennifer Garner seems to be enjoying being a mother and we see how much she do for her kids and seems like she is doing great raising them, she probably couldn’t pay much attention to her husband’s need as he expected from her and so he probably turned to alcohol and found comfort in a nanny 😀🥴 like most men does 😀.
She had her own professional agenda as an actor. Unfortunately these stars have children and someone else take care of them. Children do not hold a marriage together it’s commitment. On the contrary, children bring more stress. Ben tried to stay in a marriage for his children sake, but I did not work out. When there is not enough love for commitment, marriages fail. They played the happy married couple, but it was hell behind doors. She tried to hold him having kids, it didn’t work out. She couldn’t change him because he did not want to change. It was his decision.His social drinking was alcoholism. Hope the both find happiness somewhere else because that relationship was damaged. The same with Jlo. I don’t understand why she accepted him back. He just needs a woman by his side to play mother. JGarner played his mom’s role until she got tired of it. Jlo should sing him her song: “I’m not your Mama.”
Give me a break. He has always cheated. Don't blame Jennifer Garner for his actions.
I think they are two wonderful loving caring people who divorced as a last option! Their children will benefit and so will the next partner they have. Coparenting can be done!
I really think it was Bens alcoholism that led to his divorce with 1st wife. Understanding generational family alcoholism is critical
My hope is Ben and Jen will overcome the generational addiction cycle.
Jennifer Garner deserves every ounce of happiness! She's a wonderful mom and remarkable lady. God bless her and her beautiful children.
No one seems to mentioned that he was with Lopez first and Garner likely cheated with him now he’s back to Lopez it’s Karma for Garner- Lopez should never take him back after he left her for Garner!!
JLO is 53 years old. Yet she dresseses like a teenager sometimes almost naked. She is not an ideal wife . She was always a celebrity first and foremost.
Ben has a good/bad personalities.